I am SO glad you guys have a physical therapist on here to talk about this!! My Husband and I were not even able to have sex for the first 6.5 years of marriage after saving ourselves for each other!! We even saw several Dr’s and they didn’t even know what to do, they just told us to keep working on it. We finally found a Dr who knew that I had vaginismus and immediately referred me to a PT and within a MONTH, we could finally have sex for the first time in 6.5 years!!! No one talks about it and so we sit at home thinking there’s something terribly wrong with us and from what I learned from PT, it’s quite common!! Thank you for sharing this with others!!!!
Hi Dave and Ashley. I'm so excited to have found you guys. I've been married for 16 years and feel like I'm now learning so much for the first time. Keep up the great work. Luv yuh.
My wife and I could have used this advice 17 years ago, she left our 16 year marriage 10 months ago, wants to divorce me for unbiblical reasons, my faith is Christ crucified alone, that's what is getting me through this horrible trial
The first experience was a bit like rug burn. Other than that, it was awkward to be completely vulnerable and to fully engage in that way. I think it didn’t help that I was completely exhausted from all the demands of wedding day. I wasn’t very relaxed or feeling very romantic. I fully expected to be allowed to go to sleep after that super busy day. We waited 3 years, so what’s another 8 hours?! 😂 We didn’t have the same idea😂.
I tried so hard to listen to this but couldn’t. I cannot even watch the marriage today. It builds up so much pain inside. Fixing to be going through a divorce and have not had sex since July 18. I’m just hurting all over at the moment.
My fiance has spoken to me about inability to get an erection bcuz his first marriage, she was terrible with him verbally & mentally. The abuse took his ability to have an erection because she beat him down so bad. What can you say to address this?
I think role play toys that are about coercion (handcuffs, straps, etc) or immoral situations will bring in guilt and shame. You kind of glossed over that in the discussion, making it sound like anything you both want is good.
I am SO glad you guys have a physical therapist on here to talk about this!! My Husband and I were not even able to have sex for the first 6.5 years of marriage after saving ourselves for each other!! We even saw several Dr’s and they didn’t even know what to do, they just told us to keep working on it. We finally found a Dr who knew that I had vaginismus and immediately referred me to a PT and within a MONTH, we could finally have sex for the first time in 6.5 years!!! No one talks about it and so we sit at home thinking there’s something terribly wrong with us and from what I learned from PT, it’s quite common!! Thank you for sharing this with others!!!!
Hi Dave and Ashley. I'm so excited to have found you guys. I've been married for 16 years and feel like I'm now learning so much for the first time. Keep up the great work. Luv yuh.
My wife and I could have used this advice 17 years ago, she left our 16 year marriage 10 months ago, wants to divorce me for unbiblical reasons, my faith is Christ crucified alone, that's what is getting me through this horrible trial
Great discussion! Thank you so much Dave and Ashley!!✌🏼❤️☕️🙏🏼
The first experience was a bit like rug burn. Other than that, it was awkward to be completely vulnerable and to fully engage in that way. I think it didn’t help that I was completely exhausted from all the demands of wedding day. I wasn’t very relaxed or feeling very romantic. I fully expected to be allowed to go to sleep after that super busy day. We waited 3 years, so what’s another 8 hours?! 😂 We didn’t have the same idea😂.
This is such a great conversation and so needed. Just having the information and knowing there is help out there is very comforting. Thank you!
How can I search for a pelvic floor specialist for my wife.Thank you. Really love your program. Tom
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What is a good way to reconnect when one partner returns after traveling on long trips often?
I tried so hard to listen to this but couldn’t. I cannot even watch the marriage today. It builds up so much pain inside.
Fixing to be going through a divorce and have not had sex since July 18. I’m just hurting all over at the moment.
How are things now?
My fiance has spoken to me about inability to get an erection bcuz his first marriage, she was terrible with him verbally & mentally. The abuse took his ability to have an erection because she beat him down so bad. What can you say to address this?
I think role play toys that are about coercion (handcuffs, straps, etc) or immoral situations will bring in guilt and shame. You kind of glossed over that in the discussion, making it sound like anything you both want is good.
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