So glad you made this video. I feel like twin dads don’t get the same levels of appreciation as the mums do (sometimes). I’m a new twin mum and my husband was amazing and absolutely having 2 babies meant that he HAD to be involved and he’s loved being such an integral part of our girls lives. Twin parenting is such a team effort. Well done you two!
yes you're so right! I think twin Dads are a special breed of Dads, their role is so pivotal and they get the chance to be a primary caregiver as well when they're newborns which is so beautiful! Harry took 6 months off work and it was a life saver!!!!
Women need to quit accepting the bare minimum from men. Shouldn't take a twin pregnancy for a dad to help. Dads should always help with singleton births too. 50/50 parenting and household duties. Always. Sad part is its women who continue to keep that bar low for men and continue to put moms down constantly. Most moms work full time then they are a maid too at home with kids and a man child she married. Even stay at home moms need help when dads arent at work. Moms job never ends. Moms can never do anything right according to comments on videos. But a dad can feed their child one time and he's "father of the year"... "Best dad ever"..Start reading comments on all videos. Always women doing it. Quit praising men for cooking dinner once or dishes once or even changing child's diaper once. Praise them when they go beyond the bare minimum. Shouldn't get praise for doing what moms do every single day. Imagine a post or video thanking a mom for changing her child's diaper or cooking dinner or doing laundry... It doesn't happen. But a man can cook a quick crappy meal with no effort one time and he gets a huge post thanking him with tons of comments "you're so lucky".. "does he have a brother"..." Marry him".."Greatest man ever".."He's my hero".. Then a parade is thrown in his honor 😂.There's a single dad that post videos brushing his kids hair, cooking dinner, and doing laundry. All things moms do every single day. Yet he has thousands of followers congratulating him because "he's the best dad ever because he doesn't starve his child and bathes them..... He's literally praised for doing the bare minimum of what he should be doing anyways 😂 imagine a mom having a channel showing her only brushing her child's hair, feeding them, and changing diapers.... Doesn't exist. No one would care. Comments would be "that food isn't healthy".. " She showered while her child laid in a bouncer worst mom ever".."she's too rough brushing her child's hair"... "Why is the baby not wearing socks in that air conditioned house?" Stop praising men for having a job if they come home and do nothing. He doesn't deserve a post for making money. Takes more then money to provide for a family. Rem if he was single he would still be working so he isn't doing anything different. Its not providing unless actually caring and RAISING the kids too. *The bar for men is so low its a tavern in hades* -Ladies stop praising men for the bare minimum -Expect more because you deserve more -Why would some men try and go beyond the bare minimum when they are treated as gods for doing hardly anything -Ladies don't ever settle -You're not a maid -If you're married to a man child run fast Some men wonder why their wives leave after so many years..... *This is not to bash men. There are some amazing dads/men out there that definitely deserve all the praise in the world. Just next time you go to praise your husband or father of your child make sure its because he's going above and beyond and not just for the bare minimum. Praising him for doing dishes once this year will not make him do them more. Also if he's not going above and beyond he doesnt love you or respect you and he will never change.*
Also btw ladies this isn't directed at you. This is in general to what's in comments on all videos online from other women. Or the posts on Facebook's showing a big helping of mac n cheese someone's man cooked them one time that year and suddenly he deserves a massive post thinking him with hundreds of comments of praise. Tired of women bashing other moms and men getting praised for nothing. Ladies need to learn their worth. *This video was really sweet and I can tell he loves you so much and he is actually one of the good dads. Again my comment wasn't directed at you ladies
I did marry a man child narcissist. I was a maid at home and worked full time. I raised my child alone while her father worked 4pm then went to gym everyday and played softball and basketball. He never came home until after my child was in bed to avoid doing anything. Thank goodness I left after 11 years of marriage when my child was 4. Met my best friend and married him in 2018. He's the best dad ever for my child who is 13 now. Wish I could have done it all with him but I would go through it all again to have my child. My husband would move mountains to make me happy. He still has that sparkle in his eye when he looks at me. Nothing better than being married to someone you actually love and who loves you in return. Makes you want to offer them the world. I left for my child. She deserved to see a happy marriage. To learn how she should be treated when older. You're very lucky to have that and have a caring father for your children. Your boys will grow and learn respect and how to treat their future wife from watching you both. Your boys will also learn what they deserve and how they should be treated.
It seems like you both appreciate and respect one anothers new role in your relationship. I feel that that is ultimately important! When you have your partners respect it really makes you feel good about yourself and your relationship...which has a profound affect on your wellbeing and ultimately the wellbeing of your family as a whole. It's so refreshing to see, and thank you all for sharing your experiences. 💕 Best wishes for an outstanding future.
Harry, you are still and will always be essential! I loved this - thank for the team Q&A. It gave me much perspective and a reminder to look at things from my husband’s POV; sometimes being in the grind and routine, I forget about how he must feel too. Hope for more of these! Wishing you and your family all the best
Have you done a couple Q&A ? Would love to know your story…how you met,first impression of each other,why you chose to live in Australia (we so want to visit there some day btw), did you do IVF? Do twins run in your family? If so, which side? Etc….I love this btw❤️ You’re an amazing twin dad…and mom😉 Much love from British Columbia 🇨🇦
What an amazing, informative video!!💖 You are "not" just a beautiful team... You are effective too! And, that's nice to see and listen to! Just great parents that work well together, and are supportive towards each other!! I love it!❤
You are very fortunate to have Harry and vice versa! We can see in this interview that he loves you very much Katie! He really wants to protect you and provide for you and the twins. Twin parenting or parenting for that matter is always a team effort. Never hide anything from each other may the dialogue always be open and private between just you two. The world doesn't need to know everything. Those things are better kept between you both in bed privately. Protect each other as husband and wife. ❤🙏🏼
My mom had 3 daughters, 5, 3 and 4 months when my dad died in an accident caused by a drunk driver. Long story short, mom remarried and my stepdad adopted us. He was an immediate parent. They had 2 more children within 3 years. I was the oldest but didn't have any memory of my dad. 😢 My stepdad was great at being a parent.
Love this partnership. My husband and I are the same way and I couldn’t have done it without him. But it also blows my mind that you want more kids! I can barely commit to a second after reaching the one year mark 😂
lol! Honestly we are CRAZY for wanting more. I guess my heart is set on having a little girl if I am honest... haha but if we had more boys that would be fun (aka terrifying) hhaha
Americans would’ve had the panic attack for the astronomical hospital bill they knew they would be getting after being in the hospital for so long and especially having their kids in the NICU. It’s nice seeing parents from other countries not having to worry about these things and also pretty sad for us.
After watching this interview, I have such respect for both of you!! Such great people and parents!! Harry’s advise was spot on “purpose “!! What a team!! Great video!! One question: what does Harry do for work? ❤❤
Great content! Love the 🎤 😂 can you guys do a video about life before kids....like how did you guys meet....what did you like about each other when you first met..etc....saw Katie was a personal trainer? That's so cool!
I can't remember exactly what he said but something along the lines of calling you the creator of his universe... lol Katie... omg.. so kind!! Maybe nicest thing I've ever heard anyone say.
Beautiful couple…dad and mom, best of all two healthy baby boys. Wonderful gift. I think 4 babies is a great number. You two were meant to be so why not! XOXO❤❤Thank you for sharing. 😊
i super adore your Life Katie and Harry , Your my inspirational about having a big family right now im hoping that my partner would be like harry also im jealous 😥😭
Love it guys thank you for sharing with us . My husband took 6 month too and that was the best support I could have he is really hands on and that makes everything more easy. My limit is 1 set of twins though 😂😂😂
@11:38 it's called appointment book or appointment calendar in englisch. those things have a bunch of freekin names in different languages that are very closely related, and because of that it is REALLy easy to get those words mixed up. so annoying. but yeah appointment book or appointment calendar.
Katie, love ya but you should really allow Harry to answer & talk for his self. You keep interrupting & talking over him. Give the poor guy a chance to explain his answers lol
I watched the video because of your comment and dont hear or see what you mean. He likes to be prepared, they literally told it. So he needs time to think about the answers and its his first time. He is answering and she ads details to the situation. She is a atrong verbal woman, is that what what you are interpreting as not allowing her husband to talk enough? If thats the case, you are trying to take care of her husband. Does he need it tough? Or is he just oke with a strong extraverted smart wife?!
I agree with your comment. Beautiful couple and beautiful kids. I hate women who knock other women. She has a great personality and I’m grateful she puts these videos together!!!
I hate to say it but I opened the comment section to say the same thing. Absolutely love this channel and family but this was upsetting to watch throughout this Q&A. Saying this as respectfully as possible, Katie. ♥️
You agree with the comment but needed to add “I hate women who knock other women”. This wasn’t happening here. We all love her videos and her personality. Her comment was appropriate and kindly stated.
I love your videos so much! You guys have a beautiful partnership and the boys are so lucky to have you both as parents! On a side note, what are you guys drinking? Looks refreshing hahaha
New to the channel. Someone please Catch me up. Where do they live? Why are they separate at times for extended periods of time. Where did they meet? Thanks to anyone who wouldn’t mind to catch a girl up.
I pray your roles stay Traditional as it is properly ordered. When you go out of these roles , things get disordered. Chaos insues. He must be the man , provider, hunter gatherer. It is what he is and how God has designed men. Seen it too many times when it is upside down - problems, resentment. He should be hands on and helpful when he can. Effeminent men usually errupt out of too masculine , too headstrong ( run over) women, who have a Jezebelian spirit. Refreshingly honest chat. You are really trying to balance yourselves well. That bit of exercise, does a world of good handling stresses.
So glad you made this video. I feel like twin dads don’t get the same levels of appreciation as the mums do (sometimes). I’m a new twin mum and my husband was amazing and absolutely having 2 babies meant that he HAD to be involved and he’s loved being such an integral part of our girls lives. Twin parenting is such a team effort. Well done you two!
yes you're so right! I think twin Dads are a special breed of Dads, their role is so pivotal and they get the chance to be a primary caregiver as well when they're newborns which is so beautiful! Harry took 6 months off work and it was a life saver!!!!
Women need to quit accepting the bare minimum from men. Shouldn't take a twin pregnancy for a dad to help. Dads should always help with singleton births too. 50/50 parenting and household duties. Always. Sad part is its women who continue to keep that bar low for men and continue to put moms down constantly. Most moms work full time then they are a maid too at home with kids and a man child she married. Even stay at home moms need help when dads arent at work. Moms job never ends. Moms can never do anything right according to comments on videos. But a dad can feed their child one time and he's "father of the year"... "Best dad ever"..Start reading comments on all videos. Always women doing it. Quit praising men for cooking dinner once or dishes once or even changing child's diaper once. Praise them when they go beyond the bare minimum. Shouldn't get praise for doing what moms do every single day. Imagine a post or video thanking a mom for changing her child's diaper or cooking dinner or doing laundry... It doesn't happen. But a man can cook a quick crappy meal with no effort one time and he gets a huge post thanking him with tons of comments "you're so lucky".. "does he have a brother"..." Marry him".."Greatest man ever".."He's my hero".. Then a parade is thrown in his honor 😂.There's a single dad that post videos brushing his kids hair, cooking dinner, and doing laundry. All things moms do every single day. Yet he has thousands of followers congratulating him because "he's the best dad ever because he doesn't starve his child and bathes them..... He's literally praised for doing the bare minimum of what he should be doing anyways 😂 imagine a mom having a channel showing her only brushing her child's hair, feeding them, and changing diapers.... Doesn't exist. No one would care. Comments would be "that food isn't healthy".. " She showered while her child laid in a bouncer worst mom ever".."she's too rough brushing her child's hair"... "Why is the baby not wearing socks in that air conditioned house?"
Stop praising men for having a job if they come home and do nothing. He doesn't deserve a post for making money. Takes more then money to provide for a family. Rem if he was single he would still be working so he isn't doing anything different. Its not providing unless actually caring and RAISING the kids too.
*The bar for men is so low its a tavern in hades*
-Ladies stop praising men for the bare minimum
-Expect more because you deserve more
-Why would some men try and go beyond the bare minimum when they are treated as gods for doing hardly anything
-Ladies don't ever settle
-You're not a maid
-If you're married to a man child run fast
Some men wonder why their wives leave after so many years.....
*This is not to bash men. There are some amazing dads/men out there that definitely deserve all the praise in the world. Just next time you go to praise your husband or father of your child make sure its because he's going above and beyond and not just for the bare minimum. Praising him for doing dishes once this year will not make him do them more. Also if he's not going above and beyond he doesnt love you or respect you and he will never change.*
Also btw ladies this isn't directed at you. This is in general to what's in comments on all videos online from other women. Or the posts on Facebook's showing a big helping of mac n cheese someone's man cooked them one time that year and suddenly he deserves a massive post thinking him with hundreds of comments of praise.
Tired of women bashing other moms and men getting praised for nothing.
Ladies need to learn their worth.
*This video was really sweet and I can tell he loves you so much and he is actually one of the good dads.
Again my comment wasn't directed at you ladies
I did marry a man child narcissist. I was a maid at home and worked full time. I raised my child alone while her father worked 4pm then went to gym everyday and played softball and basketball. He never came home until after my child was in bed to avoid doing anything. Thank goodness I left after 11 years of marriage when my child was 4. Met my best friend and married him in 2018. He's the best dad ever for my child who is 13 now. Wish I could have done it all with him but I would go through it all again to have my child. My husband would move mountains to make me happy. He still has that sparkle in his eye when he looks at me. Nothing better than being married to someone you actually love and who loves you in return. Makes you want to offer them the world. I left for my child. She deserved to see a happy marriage. To learn how she should be treated when older.
You're very lucky to have that and have a caring father for your children. Your boys will grow and learn respect and how to treat their future wife from watching you both. Your boys will also learn what they deserve and how they should be treated.
You both have the gift of being at ease in front of the camera. Very professional and entertaining and informative. You need a sitcom!!
lol he is actually way more shy than me so its a little out of his comfort zone but I am so glad he did it! I hope it will be helpful for the Dads
Katie, oh man!!!! Girl! It's been so nice to follow your journey on here. You two are perfect for each other. That is all. 💖💖💖💖
It seems like you both appreciate and respect one anothers new role in your relationship. I feel that that is ultimately important! When you have your partners respect it really makes you feel good about yourself and your relationship...which has a profound affect on your wellbeing and ultimately the wellbeing of your family as a whole. It's so refreshing to see, and thank you all for sharing your experiences. 💕 Best wishes for an outstanding future.
Harry, you are still and will always be essential! I loved this - thank for the team Q&A. It gave me much perspective and a reminder to look at things from my husband’s POV; sometimes being in the grind and routine, I forget about how he must feel too. Hope for more of these! Wishing you and your family all the best
Have you done a couple Q&A ? Would love to know your story…how you met,first impression of each other,why you chose to live in Australia (we so want to visit there some day btw), did you do IVF? Do twins run in your family? If so, which side? Etc….I love this btw❤️ You’re an amazing twin dad…and mom😉 Much love from British Columbia 🇨🇦
What an amazing, informative video!!💖
You are "not" just a beautiful
team... You are effective too! And, that's nice to see and listen to! Just great parents that work well together, and are supportive towards each other!! I love it!❤
Loved this. Especially Harry talking. Would love a video on how you met and that story. The wedding video is beautiful.❤
You are very fortunate to have Harry and vice versa! We can see in this interview that he loves you very much Katie! He really wants to protect you and provide for you and the twins. Twin parenting or parenting for that matter is always a team effort. Never hide anything from each other may the dialogue always be open and private between just you two. The world doesn't need to know everything. Those things are better kept between you both in bed privately. Protect each other as husband and wife. ❤🙏🏼
My mom had 3 daughters, 5, 3 and 4 months when my dad died in an accident caused by a drunk driver. Long story short, mom remarried and my stepdad adopted us. He was an immediate parent. They had 2 more children within 3 years. I was the oldest but didn't have any memory of my dad. 😢
My stepdad was great at being a parent.
Love this partnership. My husband and I are the same way and I couldn’t have done it without him. But it also blows my mind that you want more kids! I can barely commit to a second after reaching the one year mark 😂
lol! Honestly we are CRAZY for wanting more. I guess my heart is set on having a little girl if I am honest... haha but if we had more boys that would be fun (aka terrifying) hhaha
We had surprise twin boys 40 years ago in Japan! They literally missed the fact that I was having twins.
Americans would’ve had the panic attack for the astronomical hospital bill they knew they would be getting after being in the hospital for so long and especially having their kids in the NICU. It’s nice seeing parents from other countries not having to worry about these things and also pretty sad for us.
Those prices constitute extortion and should be repealed.
I wish u let him speak more
After watching this interview, I have such respect for both of you!! Such great people and parents!! Harry’s advise was spot on “purpose “!! What a team!! Great video!! One question: what does Harry do for work? ❤❤
Great content! Love the 🎤 😂 can you guys do a video about life before kids....like how did you guys meet....what did you like about each other when you first met..etc....saw Katie was a personal trainer? That's so cool!
Never favor a child over another. For real. Each child is a beautiful unique flower in Gods garden. ❤
Did I miss the how you 2 met ?
So beautiful to see a fun couple happy balanced honest
When my children asked me who my favorite was I used to tell them "Whichever isnt being a pain in my butt that day!".
I can't remember exactly what he said but something along the lines of calling you the creator of his universe... lol Katie... omg.. so kind!! Maybe nicest thing I've ever heard anyone say.
That one really got me too 🤍
I would like to watch a video of how you guys meet!!!
7 MONTHS PATERNITY LEAVE?!!! WOW TO THAT MOMMA/WIFE!!! I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF WORK ANDREW HAS?!!! THAT IS PHENOMENAL!
New to your channel. Binged it all lol make more long form video’s pleaseeee ❤
Beautiful couple…dad and mom, best of all two healthy baby boys. Wonderful gift. I think 4 babies is a great number. You two were meant to be so why not!
XOXO❤❤Thank you for sharing. 😊
U r hubby is such a emotionally mature and intelligent person..bd not to forget hawt too❤😂
Hello Katie & Harry!…from N.S.🇨🇦
i super adore your Life Katie and Harry , Your my inspirational about having a big family right now im hoping that my partner would be like harry also im jealous 😥😭
don't settle, make sure you wait for the right one! he will be amazing x
@raisingthebuntwins what if she waits too much? How can she have those babies? Outsourcing???😢
Love it guys thank you for sharing with us . My husband took 6 month too and that was the best support I could have he is really hands on and that makes everything more easy. My limit is 1 set of twins though 😂😂😂
lol the risk of having more twins is SCARY not gunna lie, lol 1 in 12 chances yikes!
@11:38 it's called appointment book or appointment calendar in englisch. those things have a bunch of freekin names in different languages that are very closely related, and because of that it is REALLy easy to get those words mixed up. so annoying. but yeah appointment book or appointment calendar.
Katie, love ya but you should really allow Harry to answer & talk for his self. You keep interrupting & talking over him. Give the poor guy a chance to explain his answers lol
She was great. You are entitled to your opinion but he’s a little quiet and she’s just adding to what he’s saying. She’s awesome!!!
I watched the video because of your comment and dont hear or see what you mean. He likes to be prepared, they literally told it. So he needs time to think about the answers and its his first time. He is answering and she ads details to the situation. She is a atrong verbal woman, is that what what you are interpreting as not allowing her husband to talk enough? If thats the case, you are trying to take care of her husband. Does he need it tough? Or is he just oke with a strong extraverted smart wife?!
I agree with your comment.
Beautiful couple and beautiful kids.
I hate women who knock other women.
She has a great personality and I’m grateful she puts these videos together!!!
I hate to say it but I opened the comment section to say the same thing. Absolutely love this channel and family but this was upsetting to watch throughout this Q&A. Saying this as respectfully as possible, Katie. ♥️
You agree with the comment but needed to add “I hate women who knock other women”. This wasn’t happening here. We all love her videos and her personality. Her comment was appropriate and kindly stated.
🧡 I COULD HEAR A SLIGHT CANADIAN ACCENT BUT, AT TIMES SHE SOUNDS LIKE CARLI BYBEL🥰 (yes i know she’s Canadian)
He is sound n a good father
I love your videos so much! You guys have a beautiful partnership and the boys are so lucky to have you both as parents! On a side note, what are you guys drinking? Looks refreshing hahaha
You are just so awesome! Love your channel.
Your videos are so entertaining! ❤
Thanks!
He is the most handsome man ever.
New to the channel. Someone please
Catch me up. Where do they live? Why are they separate at times for extended periods of time. Where did they meet? Thanks to anyone who wouldn’t mind to catch a girl up.
I pray your roles stay Traditional as it is properly ordered. When you go out of these roles , things get disordered. Chaos insues. He must be the man , provider, hunter gatherer. It is what he is and how God has designed men.
Seen it too many times when it is upside down - problems, resentment.
He should be hands on and helpful when he can. Effeminent men usually errupt out of too masculine , too headstrong ( run over) women, who have a Jezebelian spirit.
Refreshingly honest chat. You are really trying to balance yourselves well.
That bit of exercise, does a world of good handling stresses.
Hola, comencé a veros por los gemelos, tenéis una gran labor para cuidarlos pero son tan graciosos. Podríais poner subtítulos en español por favor?
❤ beautiful couple
Your husband looks like Daniel Henney. I actually thought it was him.
Hey Guys!
Where are you people from?
Like your content
He sounds like Aussie and she sounds American... am I wrong? 😅
HE IS AUSSIE AND SHE IS CANADIAN:)
@@chit-chat007 I don't follow the channel. Not sure how I ended up in one of the videos...
Can you link the glassware?
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katie are you a scorpio or sagittarius?
lol!! Taurus actually!
😂😂Do you have any availability 😅
All hunky guys are mostly LGBTQ+ now kudos to him to stay traditional and straightb😂😂😂