So much young ladies need to watch this!! Thanks so much for your advice girl. Honestly, people may say that your relationship is “rushed” but girl please don’t listen. A man that wants to marry you will KNOW. It doesn’t take time & especially with a high-value man, they know what they want. Great content 💖
Congratulations and well done! I enjoyed your video and totally agree with everything you’ve said. I too am more traditional and had the same desires to serve God and my family in the home. I also set a goal to date purposefully and here we are almost 7 years later with now a beautiful home, marriage and family with two beautiful babies. Blessings!! Thanks for sharing!
3 года назад+1
Aww this is too beautiful and inspiring! Praying for the same, sending so much love to your home!💞
yes I totally agree w the list!! one of my friends keeps on telling me to write down exactly what I want in a guy but I find that pointless bc I already know what I don’t want based off of experience. also I’ve been following you for a while and I’m seeing how happy you are especially regarding your engagement! congratulations to the both of you! and thank you for making content like this! I really appreciate it❤️
3 года назад+2
Aww thank you so much!!💕💕 and yes! I found that approach to make more sense for me!
I’m so so soooo proud of you, Michelle! I’m proud of this video and especially your responses to these bad belle comments and questions. You obviously have an eye and mind of discernment.
Very good video , it’s definitely okay to go. Ahead and let them no good ones get scared off in the beginning before getting attached and tied to them bc it’s not a lost it’s a gain . & also not staying friends and keeping open access with your x’s or passed dates no one who isn’t aligned with you should have the access or option to even be able to get in contact with you or access your energy ! Def amazing video and also learning and seeking advice we don’t know about our love life’s 💛💛💛💛
I just discovered your page like 2 hours ago and this is my 3rd video of you that I’m watching. I’m loving your personality and mindset so far!!! You are beautiful and bold!! Never lose that💯💯💯
😊great ideas. Observe character can he give you type of relationship you want???Always keep your non sexual dating options open until he asks for commitment you want.Know if want long term vs. Marriage. Only have sex in love and commitment. If want marriage wait till engagement with ring and date on calendar.
Hello, you did a great job on your presentation and sharing your knowledge with us. I thoroughly enjoyed listening to you. I have gained so much wisdom and knowledge from your video. Keep speaking and keep up the good work. We are listening to you! Smile, Keshia
I agree with the posting of each other online. Earlier this year I thought I met a great guy who off the second week was mentioning loving me, marriage, children (love bombing) then he posted us a couple weeks later🙄 every thing was rushed and forced on my end so long story short I broke things off & feel dumb for even exposing that to the world
I have no qualms about taking down pictures and never feel the need to explain myself but yes, I’m not posting any man I date anymore until there’s a ring. Also I have a history and I don’t think it’s fair for a man to judge me based on my past so I disagree with you there especially because I am sure as a woman we’d be told to love the man for who they are and that people can change. Same is true for women. My past is not who I am and anyone who judges me for my past is not high caliber in my mind. My high caliber person will have a sense of empathy, not misguided “morality”
I think all your tips are great and as a happily married woman of 8.5 years, I agree! I would like a clarification. You mention not taking marriage advice from women scorned in love and I definitely see your point. Would you expand that to not taking advice from men who were scorned in relationships and bitter as well or do you reserve that discernment for women?
Please listen again, you missed something. Lol..why would anyone listen to a scorn MAN. Understand the concept and STOP being petty. I'm a MAN.
3 года назад+13
Thanks for your comment! I just wouldn’t take advice from a place of perceived hate or being scorned from love regardless of the source. If this is in regards to KS platform, I personally don’t believe his advice comes from a place of hate, more so experience.
Stay in your lane and let this Young Younger Woman have her lane. You came at her at a dishonest comment and you knew what that comment was meant for. She deliver the answer to you like a Queen 👑. So please stop, this is not the platform for the foolishness. Because some younger women do want to be young brides 💍 and start their families. Now I said some women.
@@iamv482 Thanks so much for your interest. Michelle is intelligent, has reading comprehension skills and discernment so I’m sure she doesn’t see me sharing that I am a happily married young bride as an affront to her choice to be a young bride. I enjoy her content and I have a vested interest in people in our likeness being promoted positively. I also have an understanding of why some groups and individuals have a vested interest in preventing certain groups from desiring more. I’m sure she will see this either now or later. I hope you have a great day.
This is a great question because Kevin Samuels and a lot of his male followers are very bitter and scorned. I’m married and me and my husband agree that we would’ve never taken marriage advice from him. Women will tolerate being talked down to by bitter men but not women.
Why Law School 🤔 if she won't practice, she is going to have so much debt that her fiance will run away 💨 unless she will pay for it herself or has a scholarship. Considering she is not a wife yet it is unclear whether he will help her with tuition📚 but the video was lovely
oh! who am I? oh I'm just a dude about to comment and like all your videos based off the video that was overviewed by Mediocre Tutorials and Reviews. First, congrats on the engagement! 2nd welcome to unity team in our community
as a 27 y/o woman, I suggest that you practice dating first (date doesn't mean sex) then you will learn what you like in a man. Don't put all your eggs in the same basket until commitment.
This the one🎉 I hear a lot of people talking about only entertaining marriage minded men, but where are these men really? The dating thing is so saturated with men that are not marriage minded and it almost seems like a needle in a haystack when a woman finds one.
Can you make some content for divorced women who don't have children? I'm 39, divorced, no kids. Been dating a quality man for two years but he is still building himself up. But we love each other
Two years and he and you haven’t spoken about marriage at all? If you’re willing to be with someone who is building themselves up and he is a great guy why not stay? Are there other reasons why you’d be questioning it ?
@@KeraJaay And yes I am still with him. I'm not planning to leave him. I'm just asking for advice on how to be more encouraging with his process while I do have my own goals too
Man I mess up by screwing this guy I thought he was into me . Crazy thing he knew what i wanted (marriage , kids , etc ) . This whole time I could've been dating around . It just mess up . I did cry about it tbh
3 года назад+8
So sorry you experienced that and honestly a lot of women have been there. I think giving the man a chance initially to naturally pursue you and show you where his mind is at relationship wise first helps to avoid that. Some trash men out there will know you want a serious relationship and use that as a tool to be manipulative
Its unfortunate that society/culture is teaching women to be both men and women for various reasons, including men not being men, but men don't need to be men when women are taking on both rolls...vicious cycle. The only way to change it is to BE THE CHANGE, hold the boundaries, and be the example YOUR children need.
Just out of curiosity, when do you plan on having children? I guess I'm wondering if you go to law school for four years, you'd be 27, then you'd start into your career? So when will you have time for being a mom? There are some careers that allow a good amount of time to also be a mom but from women I have known law is not one of them. Law is very time consuming. So I guess I'm asking why not focus on children now while you are young and then when they get a little older, focus on your career. I'm not saying what you're doing doesn't make sense, just a curious. Great content!
3 года назад+17
Thanks for your comment! Valid question, there are women who have children in law school so I know it’s possible. Certain schools and firms also have things in place to accommodate women in this position as well. I won’t speak exactly on when I plan to start having kids, but my general belief is that there’s no perfect time anyway lol. Kids will shift your life regardless. If there’s a will, there’s definitely a way.
@ agreed with everything you said. Thanks for your feedback. I have a wife and four children, three of them being daughters. My philosophy has always been to learn, recognizing that I can always expand my thinking. I think it's reasonable to listen to women (and men)who seem to have some sense. My wife is one and you appear to be one as well. I like to understand more than be understood. Getting new perspectives will increase the chance of me being able to impart sensible guidance to my daughters in a vastly changing world. That's where I was coming from with the question. Thanks for helping me gain further understanding.
Congratulations on your engagement. I don't mean to be negative but I hope you don't rush right into marriage and you have an extended engagement to get to know your fiance. There are so many red flags. Exclusive on the 2nd date? Engaged before 6 months? That is a bit rushed in my opinion and seems a little love bomb-ish. Just my two cents. All that glitters isn't gold
To quote Kevin Samuels "The Godfather" ; " You will die alone young lady".
3 года назад+31
Valid opinion to have. To each his own. When you know, you know. There are people who spend a decade getting to know each other, get married, and divorce a year later. I believe that what matters most is the decision to commit. The process of getting to know someone lasts a lifetime. Thanks for your input💕
@ Forget that negative comment as well as that negative individual its good to see that a women took kevin Samuels advice and implemented it to her life. You planted the seed into the soil and now you have the ability and privilege to see the seed grow into something wonderful. Black love is important and extremely necessary to keep wealyh within black communities and most importantly to help see that black men need black women and vice versa.
I've been proposed to with in 4 months by two men (different years), I said no both times. I thought it was off about how fast the proposed because one had a problem with me liking dresses and was pressuring me to loc my hair as he preferred if I showed skin to show me off. The other I found out that he was obsessed with me for months before I actually talked to him. I'm 21 but since 18, men were approaching me and trying to get me to talk to them.
@UCXBVGoh0AZcKOm0R_bEjlTg I just said one didn't like the fact I prefer to dress modestly and the other was obsessed, do they sound like suitable men ??
I love your advice and you seem like a sweet girl but my thing is, why is there always talk about what women should do? I don't see men asking how to be better husbands and it's their wives who are leaving them. Not the other way around.🤔 Women are constantly doing the work but there is clearly a disconnect there. I wish the opposite was happening because there aren't too many men who can be providers or the type of husbands that women desire.
Also sometimes they say what they need to say to win you over but eventually they start falling back into who they really are.
Very true!
Yup! This happened in my previous relationship. I felt bamboozled.
So much young ladies need to watch this!! Thanks so much for your advice girl. Honestly, people may say that your relationship is “rushed” but girl please don’t listen. A man that wants to marry you will KNOW. It doesn’t take time & especially with a high-value man, they know what they want. Great content 💖
Exactly! Thank you so much ❤️
You are in your early 20s but you are kicking more butt than many 30 year old women. Good for you and your Man.
Feminine, Fit & Cooperative....this young lady is a breath of fresh air with the maturity of a woman decades older than her 23 years!
💯💎🙏🏾🍷
Theres so so many lovely ladies. Only see them when in same vibe.
Congratulations and well done! I enjoyed your video and totally agree with everything you’ve said. I too am more traditional and had the same desires to serve God and my family in the home. I also set a goal to date purposefully and here we are almost 7 years later with now a beautiful home, marriage and family with two beautiful babies. Blessings!! Thanks for sharing!
Aww this is too beautiful and inspiring! Praying for the same, sending so much love to your home!💞
That is very helpful to hear! Thank you for sharing this. ❤
yes I totally agree w the list!! one of my friends keeps on telling me to write down exactly what I want in a guy but I find that pointless bc I already know what I don’t want based off of experience.
also I’ve been following you for a while and I’m seeing how happy you are especially regarding your engagement! congratulations to the both of you! and thank you for making content like this! I really appreciate it❤️
Aww thank you so much!!💕💕 and yes! I found that approach to make more sense for me!
I’m so so soooo proud of you, Michelle! I’m proud of this video and especially your responses to these bad belle comments and questions. You obviously have an eye and mind of discernment.
Thank you so much, truly ❤️❤️❤️
The first 10 seconds is me trying to date marriage mindedly in university at 19. Honestly saying older the way to go...
Very good video , it’s definitely okay to go. Ahead and let them no good ones get scared off in the beginning before getting attached and tied to them bc it’s not a lost it’s a gain . & also not staying friends and keeping open access with your x’s or passed dates no one who isn’t aligned with you should have the access or option to even be able to get in contact with you or access your energy ! Def amazing video and also learning and seeking advice we don’t know about our love life’s 💛💛💛💛
So excited to watch this video! Got my notepad out girl! Lol
😂 Hope you enjoy it!💕
I just discovered your page like 2 hours ago and this is my 3rd video of you that I’m watching. I’m loving your personality and mindset so far!!! You are beautiful and bold!! Never lose that💯💯💯
I need more videos like this from you😩😩 I keep watching this one over and over again😭
Awww! They’re coming ❤️❤️❤️
this is such good advice, i don't know why this video is so underrated. all the love
Watching this seeing her life on Tiktok is so beautiful 😍😍😍 she spoke everything into existence
I just started the video, and I already want to thank you for sharing on this topic!
😊great ideas. Observe character can he give you type of relationship you want???Always keep your non sexual dating options open until he asks for commitment you want.Know if want long term vs. Marriage. Only have sex in love and commitment. If want marriage wait till engagement with ring and date on calendar.
Oh girl you got me all the way together in this video!
Glad you enjoyed it!❤️
Yes teach young woman until it reach for other young women ♀️👫🏿🏆👏🏾
Hello, you did a great job on your presentation and sharing your knowledge with us. I thoroughly enjoyed listening to you. I have gained so much wisdom and knowledge from your video. Keep speaking and keep up the good work. We are listening to you! Smile, Keshia
This was sooooo good! Thank you for this! 🙏🏾✍🏾 I need to put this into practice
You’re so welcome!💞
Just what I needed♥️
Thank you so much for suggesting the topic ♥️
Thank you so much for this! ✨ where did you meet your fiancé? What type of places should I be looking?
Making a video on this soon!💕
I agree with the posting of each other online. Earlier this year I thought I met a great guy who off the second week was mentioning loving me, marriage, children (love bombing) then he posted us a couple weeks later🙄 every thing was rushed and forced on my end so long story short I broke things off & feel dumb for even exposing that to the world
And yes being careful from taking advice from those kind of women you mentioned lol very true !!!!!
I have no qualms about taking down pictures and never feel the need to explain myself but yes, I’m not posting any man I date anymore until there’s a ring.
Also I have a history and I don’t think it’s fair for a man to judge me based on my past so I disagree with you there especially because I am sure as a woman we’d be told to love the man for who they are and that people can change. Same is true for women. My past is not who I am and anyone who judges me for my past is not high caliber in my mind. My high caliber person will have a sense of empathy, not misguided “morality”
If you don't mind where did you meet your fiancé would you advise dating sites?
Will be making a video on this soon 💕
@ thank you
Amazing video! In every way!! Thank you for making this!!!!
I think all your tips are great and as a happily married woman of 8.5 years, I agree! I would like a clarification. You mention not taking marriage advice from women scorned in love and I definitely see your point. Would you expand that to not taking advice from men who were scorned in relationships and bitter as well or do you reserve that discernment for women?
Please listen again, you missed something. Lol..why would anyone listen to a scorn MAN. Understand the concept and STOP being petty. I'm a MAN.
Thanks for your comment! I just wouldn’t take advice from a place of perceived hate or being scorned from love regardless of the source. If this is in regards to KS platform, I personally don’t believe his advice comes from a place of hate, more so experience.
Stay in your lane and let this Young Younger Woman have her lane. You came at her at a dishonest comment and you knew what that comment was meant for. She deliver the answer to you like a Queen 👑. So please stop, this is not the platform for the foolishness. Because some younger women do want to be young brides 💍 and start their families. Now I said some women.
@@iamv482 Thanks so much for your interest. Michelle is intelligent, has reading comprehension skills and discernment so I’m sure she doesn’t see me sharing that I am a happily married young bride as an affront to her choice to be a young bride. I enjoy her content and I have a vested interest in people in our likeness being promoted positively. I also have an understanding of why some groups and individuals have a vested interest in preventing certain groups from desiring more. I’m sure she will see this either now or later.
I hope you have a great day.
This is a great question because Kevin Samuels and a lot of his male followers are very bitter and scorned. I’m married and me and my husband agree that we would’ve never taken marriage advice from him. Women will tolerate being talked down to by bitter men but not women.
Great video! I'm on the journey to marriage 💑
Soooo do we have casual sex with the man we are interested in or are we supposed to wait till marriage?
Why Law School 🤔 if she won't practice, she is going to have so much debt that her fiance will run away 💨 unless she will pay for it herself or has a scholarship. Considering she is not a wife yet it is unclear whether he will help her with tuition📚 but the video was lovely
Well, that’s none of your business ❤️
You are soo beautiful ! ❤️
Thank you so much gorg 💞
oh! who am I? oh I'm just a dude about to comment and like all your videos based off the video that was overviewed by
Mediocre Tutorials and Reviews. First, congrats on the engagement! 2nd welcome to unity team in our community
No lies Detected here!. 👏👏👏❤
Great video
I love your hair.
Great video ❤
I’m literally 25 w no boyfriend experience, just typical situationships.... I feel doomed sometimes but I want marriage!!!!
as a 27 y/o woman, I suggest that you practice dating first (date doesn't mean sex) then you will learn what you like in a man. Don't put all your eggs in the same basket until commitment.
Please make a video on where to find marriage minded men
This the one🎉 I hear a lot of people talking about only entertaining marriage minded men, but where are these men really? The dating thing is so saturated with men that are not marriage minded and it almost seems like a needle in a haystack when a woman finds one.
Can you make some content for divorced women who don't have children? I'm 39, divorced, no kids. Been dating a quality man for two years but he is still building himself up. But we love each other
Two years and he and you haven’t spoken about marriage at all? If you’re willing to be with someone who is building themselves up and he is a great guy why not stay? Are there other reasons why you’d be questioning it ?
@@KeraJaay Yes we have spoken about Marriage.
@@KeraJaay And yes I am still with him. I'm not planning to leave him. I'm just asking for advice on how to be more encouraging with his process while I do have my own goals too
very well said
It’s honestly hard to even get to the point of having a real date. Some people just want you to send pics and come by your house..smh
Man I mess up by screwing this guy I thought he was into me . Crazy thing he knew what i wanted (marriage , kids , etc ) . This whole time I could've been dating around . It just mess up . I did cry about it tbh
So sorry you experienced that and honestly a lot of women have been there. I think giving the man a chance initially to naturally pursue you and show you where his mind is at relationship wise first helps to avoid that. Some trash men out there will know you want a serious relationship and use that as a tool to be manipulative
Thank you for the tips.
You’re welcome!💕
Great advices thank you 😊
thank you 💕
You’re welcome 💓
Thank you for this. ❤️
Is it appropriate to ask a man on a date “Are you marriage minded?”.
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AMAZING CONTENT
your last name is so beautiful it means love in italian
Its unfortunate that society/culture is teaching women to be both men and women for various reasons, including men not being men, but men don't need to be men when women are taking on both rolls...vicious cycle. The only way to change it is to BE THE CHANGE, hold the boundaries, and be the example YOUR children need.
Just out of curiosity, when do you plan on having children? I guess I'm wondering if you go to law school for four years, you'd be 27, then you'd start into your career? So when will you have time for being a mom? There are some careers that allow a good amount of time to also be a mom but from women I have known law is not one of them. Law is very time consuming. So I guess I'm asking why not focus on children now while you are young and then when they get a little older, focus on your career.
I'm not saying what you're doing doesn't make sense, just a curious. Great content!
Thanks for your comment! Valid question, there are women who have children in law school so I know it’s possible. Certain schools and firms also have things in place to accommodate women in this position as well. I won’t speak exactly on when I plan to start having kids, but my general belief is that there’s no perfect time anyway lol. Kids will shift your life regardless. If there’s a will, there’s definitely a way.
@ agreed with everything you said. Thanks for your feedback. I have a wife and four children, three of them being daughters. My philosophy has always been to learn, recognizing that I can always expand my thinking. I think it's reasonable to listen to women (and men)who seem to have some sense. My wife is one and you appear to be one as well. I like to understand more than be understood. Getting new perspectives will increase the chance of me being able to impart sensible guidance to my daughters in a vastly changing world. That's where I was coming from with the question. Thanks for helping me gain further understanding.
♥️✨🌹
Who are you ladies dating, where are you even finding quality men to date?? As a black woman the pickings are extremely slim to none
How is this not a preditorial crime, like conman. After all what they take is far more valuable!
Congratulations on your engagement. I don't mean to be negative but I hope you don't rush right into marriage and you have an extended engagement to get to know your fiance. There are so many red flags. Exclusive on the 2nd date? Engaged before 6 months? That is a bit rushed in my opinion and seems a little love bomb-ish. Just my two cents. All that glitters isn't gold
To quote Kevin Samuels "The Godfather" ;
" You will die alone young lady".
Valid opinion to have. To each his own. When you know, you know. There are people who spend a decade getting to know each other, get married, and divorce a year later. I believe that what matters most is the decision to commit. The process of getting to know someone lasts a lifetime. Thanks for your input💕
@ Forget that negative comment as well as that negative individual its good to see that a women took kevin Samuels advice and implemented it to her life. You planted the seed into the soil and now you have the ability and privilege to see the seed grow into something wonderful.
Black love is important and extremely necessary to keep wealyh within black communities and most importantly to help see that black men need black women and vice versa.
I've been proposed to with in 4 months by two men (different years), I said no both times. I thought it was off about how fast the proposed because one had a problem with me liking dresses and was pressuring me to loc my hair as he preferred if I showed skin to show me off. The other I found out that he was obsessed with me for months before I actually talked to him. I'm 21 but since 18, men were approaching me and trying to get me to talk to them.
@UCXBVGoh0AZcKOm0R_bEjlTg I just said one didn't like the fact I prefer to dress modestly and the other was obsessed, do they sound like suitable men ??
You lost me at "Alpha man"...Girl...please...We are not animals. There is no "Alpha".
I love your advice and you seem like a sweet girl but my thing is, why is there always talk about what women should do? I don't see men asking how to be better husbands and it's their wives who are leaving them. Not the other way around.🤔 Women are constantly doing the work but there is clearly a disconnect there. I wish the opposite was happening because there aren't too many men who can be providers or the type of husbands that women desire.
Great video! 😊
Thank you!❤️
Great content
Thank you!