what?! haha. how about your description of your ideal girl? do you like intelligent woman working in big corporations, with overseas experience, your "lisa"?
That about not pushing Japanese men to spill everything and being considerate is so true. It's something I had to learn myself when I'm with my crush. Santi is right, you can be yourself, don't take me wrong, I couldn't be myself with anyone as much as I can be with my crush, but the cultural difference is a thing that can be worked on if both people are willing to. At the same time it complements my different personality and teaches me to be more empathetic which i always struggled with but I too think is important.
I'm lucky. As a Japanese man who was born and grew up in a Japanese-American community in the woods in California I can speak spotless English and have in my past done very well for myself in places like the UK when dating. My Japanese? Yeah I don't really get to use it everyday so its tough for me to relearn it. But I am trying. What I think it is for Japanese born boys is that they want to blend in, but don't know how. While Japanese-Americans or wherever celebrate our uniqueness. When I am in Japan, Japanese women simply cannot wrap their heads around my refusal to blend in. I have me own style. And not to mention I have no fear of telling people to F-off when necessary.
Native Japanese men , firstly are engaged with their professional and stiff work demands in view of a competitive sense and career priorities. Likelihood, the conservative and disciplined society profile do not allow establish a single and own profile, affecting the communication with foreign women or other global communities.
Do japanese men think when a Lady smile at them she like them??? Here in America when you smile at a guy he thinks you like him but me i smile everyday because i was told my smile is like sunshine 😀😀. I love to smile it makes me happy to put a smile on people face.
i'm filipino and i have japanese boyfriend now it's very helpful to watch your video and i'm interested to japanese culture i'm happy to hear your advice it helps me a lot 🥰
Yes, being yourself and being flexible are the best things that a foreign woman can do when dating a typical Japanese guy. Language barriers and culture must be considered too in dating Japanese men.
Exactly! You are right,Japanese men who went abroad are different from those who are just in Japan.I am lucky,my Japanese husband is very well travelled and educated abroad.
Aha! So she is the famous Lisa! The mystery has been solved! 😄😄😄 On a serious note, i think it'd be better to risk it and ask the person if their ok when you see signs of them probably going through something rather than ignore it, and the situation escalates. But you have to be very careful about it though that you do not come across as badgering. Just from time to time drop a " u ok?". Applies to bf, gf, friends and families, colleagues and boss. Personally, what i do is i surprise them with coffee randomly 😄 there are those kind of people who want to open up but just don't know how to start...give them a mug of coffee and just sit with them (preferrably not facing them)...and they might slowly open up. Or not! But they'd feel less alone in their own heads knowing someone's there who knows the troubles in their heads
Only 0:01 in, yet interested in the content. I am into Japanese men as a foreigner and hope there can be a cultural understanding as well (Caribbean descent)
👍I learned something again about this new video. Thank you Mr. Santi, for me you are like an elder brother who always give good advices. My japanese guy friend were surprised when I learned about Tatemae and Honne... I think he's happy because I'm trying to be aware about Japanese culture. We have certain time replying on each other messages everyday, it's like a 'scheduled messages' so I know the time when shall I read his messages or if he already sent messages. (don't worry he's still a bachelor because I confirm it when I called him during Sat and Sun) I guess that's what we do everyday for almost a year now... I hope he won't be able to read this😂. I admire him just like you because aside him being a teacher in Tokyo, He gives me advices especially when I'm confused.He gives me some good Japanese novel books too(translated). Both of you are like mentors. 🙂
Japanese people are workaholic so how to manage that in a relationship with Japanese men because works come first and messages are delayed for almost 14 hours!!
Out from nowhere .your channel was on my first page and when I go through all your videos it was just wow,amazing.keep it up,new viewers,new subscriber here🙋.lots of love and support from north east india nagaland.
Hahaha! I loved your “Lisa” April fools joke! Although I think you have left all the young ladies (I’m old enough to be your mother), who didn’t understand the joke “broken-hearted”
Earlier me: So Lisa was a real person after all. I'm happy for you Santi! Hope you and Lisa stay strong! Also, appreciate the advice as usual✌️. Present me: Okay, I literally came back to this vid to look up the clothing store Santi was talking about and just read the pinned comment. And so now Lisa isn't real! How did you tell that story without busting out laughing!! I feel so confused now😅😵💫 .
Santi, just an idea but you should explain about yamato nadeshiko one day. I’m not sure if this is the ideal type of lady but maybe the one you’d take home to meet your mom 😆
Hi! Maryam's here. 😀 Thank you Santi-san for your answer. Although the fact that you have a gf is quite heartbreaking 💔💔 but you did exactly read what i've been wondering lately. So i have this Japanese male friend through online and he'll move to my country in the middle of this year to work. He's been living nomaden as a foreigner since his 20s. His english is pretty good. When we meet up I'll make sure that i wear natural make up, no scents, and shop at uniqlo before it. 😎 Anywayyyyy, Regarding the japanese man ideal type of girl in general, besides appearance and personality you've mentioned, i still wondering another aspect. How about intelligence? I saw one of video from Asian boss, telling that japanese male in general prefer a less-smart girl who acts kawai, rather than smart girl who is more opinionated. For example, If a guy found out that the girl goes to more reputable university then him, they most likely turned off and back off as they feel it will risk their pride as a man bcs they don't wanna look empty-headed. Wdyt of this? Is it true? THANK YOU SANTI SAN! Cheers*
Guys he is already taken!! So stop dreaming! Anyway, Santi San , good content. Why don’t you talk about best places to visit in Japan. Affordable places to stay, where to experience best onsen and tea.....
LOL I always get clothes from Uniqlo. Those are just my everyday clothes. But I scared a Japanese guy away. The only time I ever scared a guy away. Still wondering how I did that...maybe cos I'm almost as tall as him. Being tall is not kawaii lol
Thank you for another interesting video, Santi! Oh! Before I forget, may I introduce you to my boyfriend, Tanaka? (Ummm -- I guess don't tell my real one, okay? Okay!) 😎💗
Hello Santi san! You mentioned about your language class, I wonder what really goes through a Japanese person’s mind when they say 日本語上手ですね. I personally think it’s just tatemae. At first I was happy but realized that this is just a way of them being polite bec you are trying to speak their languange. Im currently living in Tokyo and honestly this is how I measure that Im definitely not good or near enough rather than as a compliment. It’s sad and disheartening to hear.
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Ahahah you crazy! Got confused coz i heard you before say you dont drink and just order Coke...and no gfs 😄😄 you got me good there santi!
what?! haha. how about your description of your ideal girl? do you like intelligent woman working in big corporations, with overseas experience, your "lisa"?
Lol I thought maybe you decided to drink just that day & was laying about being single before because it's your private life 😆It's possible
@@amberherr6505 HEY! with respect, Lisa, no lisa. xD lol
@@user-bi5rx1eq3e Well, A, you know, she's at her imaginary job in Switzerland. So, it's complicated!
Got it, if he is westernized you can be yourself but if he's "pure Japanese " you too need to be Japanese lol
Mariam: Santi-san, what's your ideal type of girl?
Santi-san: Well, I have a gf...
Mariam left the chat.
Hahah😂
Japanese man loves natural beauty, positive mind, humble and kindness. Just be yourself ❤️ 🤗
And the last ideal type of japanese guy is woman can cook delicious food for him.
But if I be myself then I'm not natural beauty, positive minded, humble nor kind lmao
@@lifekunsex-girlfriend4364 we*😂
That about not pushing Japanese men to spill everything and being considerate is so true. It's something I had to learn myself when I'm with my crush. Santi is right, you can be yourself, don't take me wrong, I couldn't be myself with anyone as much as I can be with my crush, but the cultural difference is a thing that can be worked on if both people are willing to. At the same time it complements my different personality and teaches me to be more empathetic which i always struggled with but I too think is important.
Wait!!! So girlfriend Lisa is an April fools joke? You really had me going Santi-san!!!
"Let's say you have a boyfriend, his name is Santi." 😂 That transition was so smooth.
I think it’s so important to try learn a bit of the culture and to try to meet people halfway when traveling or moving to another country.
I'm lucky. As a Japanese man who was born and grew up in a Japanese-American community in the woods in California I can speak spotless English and have in my past done very well for myself in places like the UK when dating. My Japanese? Yeah I don't really get to use it everyday so its tough for me to relearn it. But I am trying. What I think it is for Japanese born boys is that they want to blend in, but don't know how. While Japanese-Americans or wherever celebrate our uniqueness. When I am in Japan, Japanese women simply cannot wrap their heads around my refusal to blend in. I have me own style. And not to mention I have no fear of telling people to F-off when necessary.
Native Japanese men , firstly are engaged with their professional and stiff work demands in view of a competitive sense and career priorities. Likelihood, the conservative and disciplined society profile do not allow establish a single and own profile, affecting the communication with foreign women or other global communities.
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Do japanese men think when a Lady smile at them she like them???
Here in America when you smile at a guy he thinks you like him but me i smile everyday because i was told my smile is like sunshine 😀😀.
I love to smile it makes me happy to put a smile on people face.
so Santi found himself a Japanese American gf and they are doing long distance, wow! wondering how it works ! but really おめでとう :)
i'm filipino and i have japanese boyfriend now it's very helpful to watch your video and i'm interested to japanese culture i'm happy to hear your advice it helps me a lot 🥰
Yes, being yourself and being flexible are the best things that a foreign woman can do when dating a typical Japanese guy.
Language barriers and culture must be considered too in dating Japanese men.
Exactly! You are right,Japanese men who went abroad are different from those who are just in Japan.I am lucky,my Japanese husband is very well travelled and educated abroad.
Aha! So she is the famous Lisa! The mystery has been solved! 😄😄😄
On a serious note, i think it'd be better to risk it and ask the person if their ok when you see signs of them probably going through something rather than ignore it, and the situation escalates. But you have to be very careful about it though that you do not come across as badgering. Just from time to time drop a " u ok?". Applies to bf, gf, friends and families, colleagues and boss. Personally, what i do is i surprise them with coffee randomly 😄 there are those kind of people who want to open up but just don't know how to start...give them a mug of coffee and just sit with them (preferrably not facing them)...and they might slowly open up. Or not! But they'd feel less alone in their own heads knowing someone's there who knows the troubles in their heads
Only 0:01 in, yet interested in the content. I am into Japanese men as a foreigner and hope there can be a cultural understanding as well (Caribbean descent)
Thanks for another informative video Santi
Omg i almost watched all of videos..im am a Filipino working here in Japan i really love japan and i want to have a Japanese boyfriend.
Thank you santi-san for giving us an ideas🤩
👍I learned something again about this new video. Thank you Mr. Santi, for me you are like an elder brother who always give good advices. My japanese guy friend were surprised when I learned about Tatemae and Honne... I think he's happy because I'm trying to be aware about Japanese culture. We have certain time replying on each other messages everyday, it's like a 'scheduled messages' so I know the time when shall I read his messages or if he already sent messages. (don't worry he's still a bachelor because I confirm it when I called him during Sat and Sun) I guess that's what we do everyday for almost a year now... I hope he won't be able to read this😂. I admire him just like you because aside him being a teacher in Tokyo, He gives me advices especially when I'm confused.He gives me some good Japanese novel books too(translated). Both of you are like mentors. 🙂
I was wondering if my Japanese crush likes me and suddenly I found this lol
santi-san, can you tell what is the meaning when a japanese man says “you’re more than a friend but less than a girlfriend”
Vietnamese lives in America, support your channel . Good that now you shift to America market 👌👍!
Thank you santi-San
Japanese people are workaholic so how to manage that in a relationship with Japanese men because works come first and messages are delayed for almost 14 hours!!
I love the way you speak your so fluently english how did u study English📖
Tell me more about cologne/fragrance plsss
Out from nowhere .your channel was on my first page and when I go through all your videos it was just wow,amazing.keep it up,new viewers,new subscriber here🙋.lots of love and support from north east india nagaland.
Thank your videos are informative and funny sometimes lol. Uniqlo clothes are plain omg. Lol
Hahaha! I loved your “Lisa” April fools joke! Although I think you have left all the young ladies (I’m old enough to be your mother), who didn’t understand the joke “broken-hearted”
Earlier me: So Lisa was a real person after all. I'm happy for you Santi! Hope you and Lisa stay strong! Also, appreciate the advice as usual✌️.
Present me: Okay, I literally came back to this vid to look up the clothing store Santi was talking about and just read the pinned comment. And so now Lisa isn't real! How did you tell that story without busting out laughing!! I feel so confused now😅😵💫 .
Uniqlo 😉
@@jenjen9313 -Thanks😊!
Japanese 7 a.m is gonna be hard for us Europeans 🥺
"Dirty massage for ladies in Japan"???? Looking forward to this video 😂
Santi-san can you talk about “Yaeba”?
Interesting, let me think
Im watching this for the future 😂😂😂😂😂
Yay for early upload time! And I hope you find your "Lisa" one day Santi-san 😄
今まで色々な面白いビデオをありがとうございます！
Santi, just an idea but you should explain about yamato nadeshiko one day.
I’m not sure if this is the ideal type of lady but maybe the one you’d take home to meet your mom 😆
interesting topic :) let me thinks about
Hi santy you know that I got my Japanese fiance before..we been together for.almost.3years ..
Best of luck to you both :)
Hi! Maryam's here. 😀
Thank you Santi-san for your answer. Although the fact that you have a gf is quite heartbreaking 💔💔 but you did exactly read what i've been wondering lately.
So i have this Japanese male friend through online and he'll move to my country in the middle of this year to work. He's been living nomaden as a foreigner since his 20s. His english is pretty good. When we meet up I'll make sure that i wear natural make up, no scents, and shop at uniqlo before it. 😎
Anywayyyyy, Regarding the japanese man ideal type of girl in general, besides appearance and personality you've mentioned, i still wondering another aspect. How about intelligence? I saw one of video from Asian boss, telling that japanese male in general prefer a less-smart girl who acts kawai, rather than smart girl who is more opinionated. For example, If a guy found out that the girl goes to more reputable university then him, they most likely turned off and back off as they feel it will risk their pride as a man bcs they don't wanna look empty-headed. Wdyt of this? Is it true?
THANK YOU SANTI SAN!
Cheers*
Definitely I will talk about, please wait and thanks :)
Tell us about your 告白
lol
Guys he is already taken!! So stop dreaming! Anyway, Santi San , good content. Why don’t you talk about best places to visit in Japan. Affordable places to stay, where to experience best onsen and tea.....
Get the cloth at Uniqlo. 😂
LOL I always get clothes from Uniqlo. Those are just my everyday clothes. But I scared a Japanese guy away. The only time I ever scared a guy away. Still wondering how I did that...maybe cos I'm almost as tall as him. Being tall is not kawaii lol
I have a small body but my butt is quite large….😬 I am afraid people will look at me weirdly in Japan 😂
"Pure Japanese Men Are Uniq" i won't disagree with that! 😂😅 and oh, the "Lisa" ♥️ hello ~👍😁 mystery solved .
What i get from you is... If you want a japanese guy, who isn't westernized, be someone he can relate too. :) am i wrong?
Thank you for another interesting video, Santi! Oh! Before I forget, may I introduce you to my boyfriend, Tanaka? (Ummm -- I guess don't tell my real one, okay? Okay!) 😎💗
Santi-san, you’re so hot, and that’s you speaking in English. I can’t imagine you speaking in full Nihongo. 😮💨🥵🔥
Santi-san are Japanese guys easily gets irritated when being flood by messages?
Santi-san 😊😊are Japanese guys gets irritated when being flooded by messages?
sure, check next live :)
@Japanese man Santi's Radio thank you
You're good looking dude have you ever tried guys?
Hi santi .
Are pure japanese girls are interested in indian guys?
Pure one? hmm not sure. but westernized one, Yes i think
@@17vrd_nyk gross lol
There is no "ideal" gf or bf... they dont exist.. well maybe during dating time but after married it's different.
Hello Santi san!
You mentioned about your language class, I wonder what really goes through a Japanese person’s mind when they say 日本語上手ですね. I personally think it’s just tatemae. At first I was happy but realized that this is just a way of them being polite bec you are trying to speak their languange. Im currently living in Tokyo and honestly this is how I measure that Im definitely not good or near enough rather than as a compliment. It’s sad and disheartening to hear.
SM C san interesting, let me think if i can talk about it
btw, when they say it, they mean it most of times
@@japaneseman Sometimes they say it after you stutter or eat your words. it's sad.
@@japaneseman thank you!
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