I loved the part about calling people out bc I do that as an ESFP but I usually don't do it in a mean way ever! Its just am observant thing, and they want to show you they acknowledge and accept you
the emotional side, it is easier to juts go on with the next fun thing when things aren't going well. I've left so many relationships behind, just knowing that to explain how I currently feeeel might be too hard to express, we might not even know how to express that, it takes sometimes very understanding people, maybe space and time to figure ourselves out, and even further by that time maybe years have passed and the self awareness acquired might tell us "okay, yeah that's why that happened, now I know, just time to move on". That usually leaves feelings of being misunderstood, especially if criticized at the time and finally that's why I believe we tap into creative things to express ourselves.
As an ESFP (really shy and insecure version) i often actually hold a lot shit back bcuz i worry about being annoying or talking too much. Like if there’s in highschool a popular crowd i often times hold a lot back there bcuz i feel insecure around them yet in my friend circle i am definitely the wildest out there and i usually feel the best when i’m the center of attention. Also the teasing part i personally do it out of love like u know i love you if i’m making a lot of jokes and being mean and pissing you off bcuz i don’t really do that with many ppl. I certainly ain’t in the popular crowd in highschool like i get along with them and have fun actually more than in my actual friend circle(most are introverts there) but i’m constantly insecure around them thinkin they cooler than me I don’t speak for other esfps but only myself but that happy and positive attitude hides a lot of sadness. Like it’s easier for me to pretend Everything’s fine rather than saying it’s not. Ppl always think i never take life seriously bcuz i never seem to worry about nothing and always happy and funny but the thing is it’s also a distraction like whenever i give into those feelings they become way too much to handle so i prefer to ignore them. Like i always pretend i’m happy and confident bcuz i want to believe i am like that
Yes the teasing is for sure out of love and playful!!! its kind of our way of telling you we know you really well. ( I'm an ESFP perfectionist and the resolving conflict thing I'm really good at....but i'm 47, everything else was spot on. ) All important people in my life are ENFJ's. Its not a natural click but its a deeper click for some reason.
Yeah a lot of times Fi users think that when I use fe I am obligated them,when that's just how I am. It's best to kind of learn functions and where other people are coming from, I've learned a lot about fi so i dont take it to heart when they react that way to me anymore haha
I spent over a year thinking I was an intuitive type. Little did I know I have been leading with Se this entire time. Hey! That just goes to show that us ESFP's aren't big dummies like the stereotype suggests!
I like them so much they do things naturally like from good heart but the spot light & party thing where I don’t get along with from your twin soul #isfp
and yeah I know 2 esfp my father & friend on Twitter but i feel like i know more because if you r esfp i will feel your energy like we are connected or something
Non-frat ESFP male here! I think people don’t see us immediately as ESFPs because the practical nature of our brains can make us look like ESFJs or ISFJs sometimes, especially if it is an enneagram 2 type of an esfp. I’m fun at parties, sure, but my style is not like that Snapchat bro or anything. 😆 Just a guy who likes to adventure and play. But I also like learning and spending time with people. I recommend watching Joyce Meng’s ESFP panel!
I married an ESFP and I'm an ENFJ. Good friend at times, and an excellent mother. Not do great as a wife and love partner. When we'd get into argument, I would want to pull away to give some space or avoid conflict for a bit, she would pursue and continue the argument. Unfortunately she died before our relationship ended per se but was often characterized by her pursuit of me earning more, doing more, and constant boundary crossing. ENFJ AND ESFP not a good combo in my opinion. I've since remarried to and INFP and have developed more in a Red Pill sense. Overall good comparison.
I was considering being an ESFP as Ni inferior is very much like me, but I heard many times that they live in the moment are very sexually active, while I am very responsible with my choices and try to think about consequences and have a moral compass. Does it mean that I cant be this type?
You might be a more mature ESFP. Like don’t believe steoretypes. Like i used to think i’m an ISFP bcuz i’m really shy and not the steretypical popular ESFP but nope it turns out i’m just a shy ESFP. Like i also have another ESFP friend and she’s pretty mature and responsible
@@maria_s3731 Thank you Maria! :) I have been always like that. I mean more responsible in comparison to stereotypical ESFPs and I was also pretty shy, but it got better. It is really difficult to type yourself as you dont see yourself clearly...
It's ok they're literally not our type, they are really really positive which i love but it's about the maturity aspect or old souls, anyway me INFJ you ENFJ I'm 99.9% certain these two types are a ideal perfect match ❤️ also, tbh as usual, I'm a guy and I'm sexually attracted to other types sure, but the Enfjs female types ,like you, i find I'm "turned on" by you physically because you're pretty 🥰 cute, but more importantly, I'm turned on in some kind of way intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually, i KNOW 4 A FACT you,or some other ENFJ woman if not, i am totally grateful for you Meghan u help me more than you could know 💜❤️💙💚 LOV3 👽
I loved the part about calling people out bc I do that as an ESFP but I usually don't do it in a mean way ever! Its just am observant thing, and they want to show you they acknowledge and accept you
Aww thats actually super sweet
Kind of like "Omg bitch you're a hot mess, I love you" it's a call out for being a wreck, but it's also accepting it by relating to you.
Esfp just understand that life is not a journey but a musical😂
💯
"You guys don't make f sense to me"
"You guys are perfect"
To be honest in a school environment I think estjs & esfjs tend to be the most popular
I never learn and I'm a esfp
Hey i’m an ESFP and really enjoyed this a lot ♥️♥️♥️ except I am a perfectionist
we look for beauty and conect to other people and share the moment.
I really enjoyed this. I am an esfp.
the emotional side, it is easier to juts go on with the next fun thing when things aren't going well. I've left so many relationships behind, just knowing that to explain how I currently feeeel might be too hard to express, we might not even know how to express that, it takes sometimes very understanding people, maybe space and time to figure ourselves out, and even further by that time maybe years have passed and the self awareness acquired might tell us "okay, yeah that's why that happened, now I know, just time to move on". That usually leaves feelings of being misunderstood, especially if criticized at the time and finally that's why I believe we tap into creative things to express ourselves.
Aww 🥰 this touched my heart ❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words about my type. Wow
As an ESFP (really shy and insecure version) i often actually hold a lot shit back bcuz i worry about being annoying or talking too much. Like if there’s in highschool a popular crowd i often times hold a lot back there bcuz i feel insecure around them yet in my friend circle i am definitely the wildest out there and i usually feel the best when i’m the center of attention. Also the teasing part i personally do it out of love like u know i love you if i’m making a lot of jokes and being mean and pissing you off bcuz i don’t really do that with many ppl. I certainly ain’t in the popular crowd in highschool like i get along with them and have fun actually more than in my actual friend circle(most are introverts there) but i’m constantly insecure around them thinkin they cooler than me
I don’t speak for other esfps but only myself but that happy and positive attitude hides a lot of sadness. Like it’s easier for me to pretend Everything’s fine rather than saying it’s not. Ppl always think i never take life seriously bcuz i never seem to worry about nothing and always happy and funny but the thing is it’s also a distraction like whenever i give into those feelings they become way too much to handle so i prefer to ignore them. Like i always pretend i’m happy and confident bcuz i want to believe i am like that
U and are one in the same I describe myself better then that
your videos are the most insightful thing ive ever seen, i love them all! keep doing your thing youre amazing
Nailed !
Absolutely my view/bias for a Cousin I Typed as ESFP
I loved this video 💕 thank you 😊
Yes the teasing is for sure out of love and playful!!! its kind of our way of telling you we know you really well. ( I'm an ESFP perfectionist and the resolving conflict thing I'm really good at....but i'm 47, everything else was spot on. ) All important people in my life are ENFJ's. Its not a natural click but its a deeper click for some reason.
You honestly seem like a cool chick that any esfp would be delighted to have as a friend
I love Meghan
I will add...I tend to find Fe doms annoying in the sense that they seem pushy. Might just be my Fi
Yeah a lot of times Fi users think that when I use fe I am obligated them,when that's just how I am. It's best to kind of learn functions and where other people are coming from, I've learned a lot about fi so i dont take it to heart when they react that way to me anymore haha
I spent over a year thinking I was an intuitive type. Little did I know I have been leading with Se this entire time. Hey! That just goes to show that us ESFP's aren't big dummies like the stereotype suggests!
yessss! you guys aren't dummies
spent over a year thinking you are something that you are not and that makes you not a dummy? lol
@@AG-qd2fb acknowledging the error shows she's not a dummy.
I like them so much they do things naturally like from good heart but the spot light & party thing where I don’t get along with from your twin soul #isfp
and yeah I know 2 esfp my father & friend on Twitter but i feel like i know more because if you r esfp i will feel your energy like we are connected or something
"Just... NFPs DROWNING in themselves" BUAHAHAHAAHA UR SO FUNNY
I love esfj a lot
ENFJ here, and I have a conffesion, ever since Ibwws a kid most of My crushes we're and have been esfp and still goes on
Non-frat ESFP male here! I think people don’t see us immediately as ESFPs because the practical nature of our brains can make us look like ESFJs or ISFJs sometimes, especially if it is an enneagram 2 type of an esfp. I’m fun at parties, sure, but my style is not like that Snapchat bro or anything. 😆
Just a guy who likes to adventure and play. But I also like learning and spending time with people. I recommend watching Joyce Meng’s ESFP panel!
I married an ESFP and I'm an ENFJ. Good friend at times, and an excellent mother. Not do great as a wife and love partner. When we'd get into argument, I would want to pull away to give some space or avoid conflict for a bit, she would pursue and continue the argument.
Unfortunately she died before our relationship ended per se but was often characterized by her pursuit of me earning more, doing more, and constant boundary crossing. ENFJ AND ESFP not a good combo in my opinion.
I've since remarried to and INFP and have developed more in a Red Pill sense.
Overall good comparison.
Me and my husband are this combo. But it's different.
I accept his "improvment mode" upon me
and he accept me as a "emotional dude"
It’s funny because in social media ppl mistake me as an esfp xD
I love ur vids, you are amazing!!!!! 😊💖
I do agree a lot about us ESFP's being b!tchy when there is conflict.
But I'm getting better. lol
I tend to like women ESFP over men ESFP... could be because my dad is an ESFP tho 😹
I was considering being an ESFP as Ni inferior is very much like me, but I heard many times that they live in the moment are very sexually active, while I am very responsible with my choices and try to think about consequences and have a moral compass. Does it mean that I cant be this type?
You might be a more mature ESFP. Like don’t believe steoretypes. Like i used to think i’m an ISFP bcuz i’m really shy and not the steretypical popular ESFP but nope it turns out i’m just a shy ESFP. Like i also have another ESFP friend and she’s pretty mature and responsible
@@maria_s3731 Thank you Maria! :) I have been always like that. I mean more responsible in comparison to stereotypical ESFPs and I was also pretty shy, but it got better. It is really difficult to type yourself as you dont see yourself clearly...
Hey. 'member me? Turns out I'm ESFP. Not ENFP. How you been?
I am an esfp,but i am very different from that. I am like never bitchy
tell us the truth XD
It’s easy to tell the people commenting here are ESFPs lol .
Frat boy? Nooo.... only for the college years. - ESFP Feller
It's ok they're literally not our type, they are really really positive which i love but it's about the maturity aspect or old souls, anyway me INFJ you ENFJ I'm 99.9% certain these two types are a ideal perfect match ❤️ also, tbh as usual, I'm a guy and I'm sexually attracted to other types sure, but the Enfjs female types ,like you, i find I'm "turned on" by you physically because you're pretty 🥰 cute, but more importantly, I'm turned on in some kind of way intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually, i KNOW 4 A FACT you,or some other ENFJ woman if not, i am totally grateful for you Meghan u help me more than you could know 💜❤️💙💚 LOV3 👽
Doesn’t sound like an esfp
You sound like you are not sure you like ESFP 🙄