I have been happily nesting as a clutterbug for years, spurning the word "minimalism", but now I see it. As I grew older I gradually took to avoiding the drama queens in my life and enjoyed it so much I cut out family members I couldn't stand, well one family member, just the one, leaving me so much more time for the others who are lovely. I may own thousands of books but I am a people minimalist, I did not know that.
Hands down, I am a minimalist concerning people. Nothing can clutter and complicate your life more than people. I can do the social sprint but have no interest in the social marathon. The mailboxes for my block are in front of my house and I can be as friendly as can be with neighbors I meet there, but virtually none of them have ever been in my house and never will be. My life is my own and I like it that way.
Hi Jen, I’m fairly new to your podcasts, but I knew I’d struck gold when I saw you for the first time. My husband of 53 years died suddenly last year. I love where I live on acreage with trees and garden…good neighbors…very quiet area. “Friends” told me a widow of 81 surely must plan on selling and moving because it would be too much for me. I’m not moving, but I did divest myself of friends. I’ve learned so much from you as I’ve struggled to accept and adapt to being alone. As an introvert, I’m learning to love being here with few people in my life. You have addressed so many of the practical issues I have faced down and I look forward to hearing from you. Because I have limited ability to walk, I have an electric cart and my vegetables and flowers are all in containers. Your vocabulary, excellent presentation and joy in your life have helped me to find joy (a tiny bit at a time) in my new life. Thank you so much. PS I adopted a marvelous big wild rescue cat who has made all the difference. Gave me a reason to get up and get on with life.
Thank you so much. I love the smell of a book as well and can even identify a book from another by this. As I don’t have any relatives ( I am a child born in between two generations, don’t have a spouse or children) I can only rely on my own. I didn’t know I did this throughout my life. Referring to people in my life I can step back and ask myself “ wait a minute..” I don’t need things anymore to create kind of safety. It’s not safety, it’s a burden. I am on my way downsizing ( I am a collector, who has not been allowed to give away anything ) and won’t keep things dear to my mother or anybody else but those you mentioned as valuable to me. If I can’t make a decision right now, I leave the item in my sight, makes decisions more easy and the result of it more valuable- to me. As someone used to be giving throughout my life in order to be “ right”, I’m changing. I used to be a worrier, mostly about others. I learned within the last eight months where this comes from. I am glad to have found the origin. Change doesn’t come overnight. At first I called myself a “ failure” but realized this what I was thought of by my parents and my two husbands in order to control me. I was so tired and couldn’t manage anything. Changed . I am good towards myself and think of me I am more than simply sufficient which I never have been before. The good thing is I couldn’t be totally broken down. I am 67 by now , a long journey of misunderstanding. The person I don’t want to miss anymore is- me.
I love my carefully curated stuff! I occasionally purge, but keep it to giving away, donating, passing along to others. My books and record collection are my comfort zone.
I'm very much the decorative type of minimalist you describe. We did donate a stack of books after we moved, which makes room for new books! Decluttering is now only needed for my kids stuff, as they outgrow things. I'm also someone who forgets things exist if they are not in sight, so I need stuff on counters - my challenge to myself is to make that stuff look nice and not ugly, as I need to see it!
Pam here…..you encapsulated the essence of what minimalism should be. Emotional minimalism probably the most vital. Always boggles my mind the drama and chaos that people invite in to their life and then go on to create themselves. Choosing to discard negativity, gossiping, or even insinuating bad motives or intentions of others is so freeing. So many I know are caught up on ‘overthinking’ disease….where they can’t stop ruminating about what others may think about them or that everything another says or does is a ‘message’ to them. Thanks for your succinct analysis of what truly creates minimalism in your life!
I’m turning 53 and you remind me so much of myself! As I get older I’m becoming more of a minimalist in regards to focusing only on things that bring me joy in all aspects of my life and being perfectly fine to put myself and my needs first.
As a single, solo, of 57 years, I have found a useful, and minimalist, set of pots. It’s a double boiler/steamer. That gives you two pots that nest into each other, plus another pot with holes in the bottom that nests into either pot. They don’t take up a lot of space in a cupboard. Add to that, a frying pan, and you’re all set!
Yes, I think that makes me a minimalist too. It is definitely, and has been my mindset, for over the past several years. At this point, it is crystal clear...My Agenda, My Path, and My Journey through life must align with the Life Giver. Nothing else matters. Thank you!
I am absolutely a minimalist for many reasons and I agree with you except for the last statement. I too think I need to pause and reflect what activities and people I allow in my life. I spent too much of my 69 years saying yes. However, I do believe there are times when I am promoted to cook a meal, help a friend, reach out, etc where it IS inconvenient, does not serve me, but I can be of service and fill a void. I try to listen and respond to those calls even if I start out not wanting to. I want to have boundaries on what I allow in my life but I also want to be available to help my fellow brothers and sisters walking along with me. Thanks for your content, every video provokes thought.
I'm slowly working on being more of a minimalist. I'm in my upper thirties and had previously never taken stuff to goodwill.....never gotten rid of anything!!! In the last month, I've taken 5-7 boxes (mostly of my daughters old clothes) to goodwill. I want to be in better control, my house is so cluttered with stuff I don't need or use. Slowly but surely I'm gonna get there
Congratulations on letting go of stuff. I have also been doing that and it makes me feel good knowing that others are benefiting from what used to just lie around my house.
The more you do it, the easier it will become. It is freeing. Very rarely will you miss your donated items. I honestly forget about them by next week. 😁 And if you ever find you need an item that was purged, which very rarely happens, you can easily pick one up or better yet borrow one. Cheering you on. ❤ 🦋💐🦋
You are the first minimalist I have ever understood, a really sensible approach, love your ethos. Having left the users behind, I'm pretty well on the same journey, but without wearing a label.😊 The downside of extreme minimalism is comparable to anorexia.
If you are reading this, I want to tell you that everything will be fine. You are incredible, you are unique, you can face anything in your life, you have the strength within yourself to overcome any obstacle, loss, or situation.
I have been decluttering for a few years now- I strive for “minimal-ish” which helps me manage my adhd and brings me the peace to be creative and feel calm instead of anxious. But it’s taken me a good while to find my perfect amount of things I love.
As someone who has followed the minimalist movement for many many years, I must say I have rarely heard such a logical and convincing approach to the topic as yours! And I certainly identify with you on the book issue. People who say having 30 books should be enough have always puzzled me… And thanks for your words on people who love „nick nacks“ (as we called them when I was a child) - I think I understand my husband better. It‘s a shame I live on the other side of the globe from you (EU) - I‘d love to run into you in the woods with our dogs.
Great video! It hit home for me and opened my eyes even more. I have an aging narcissist (sick) in my life. He is the most negative person I've ever met. I am trying to limit my time around him as much as I can because he sucks the energy out of me and the next thing I know I am negative too. I need to start putting myself first. I'm about to watch this video again!❤
Hi Jen I totally agree with everything you said. Frankly, I never thought of myself as a minimalist. But, hearing what you had to say on this topic has made rethink that. About 15 years ago I decided for my own peace of mind to "simplify" my life. I have taken steps in many ways to do that. Getting rid of stuff that wasn't serving any purpose and/or had little or no meaning to me anymore. But, thoughtfully considered the things that did. I kept those and got rid of the rest. I shop very little these days I choose something I do need and/or has value to me. I thoughtfully pared down my schedule and put some things into life that brings me pleasure or makes me smile. I am far more comfortable and peaceful in my home now. I also re-evaluated the people and relationships in my life. I exited or excised those relationships because they were yoo draining or toxic. The people in my life now, add value and bring me joy. So, after pondering tour words I came to the realization that simplifying my life was a form of minimalism. So, yep, guess I'm in that camp after all. 😂 Thanks so much for another insightful talk. 😊 By the way, that is one of the main reasons I faithfully watch your vlogs. Because, they add value to my life and so do you. I do try to thoughtfully comment every time which I hope adds some value to your life, as well. Hope you have a great week and see you next week. 😁❤️🙋 --Paula in Ohio USA
My husband and I have moved across the country twice, and halfway across once. We have whittled everything down to only the dearest possessions. I also got sick about 8 years ago. I stopped working 2 years ago. We have one car and we rent. A single income keeps things tight. But we are careful about what we spend on. About 80% of my clothes are thrifted , and I only buy second hand furniture and housewares. Sometimes I wish we had more money, but it’s mainly so we can go places, not buy things. Plus I think thrifting is much more fun. I need a new tea kettle and it like being on a treasure hunt.
My first name is Brontë and it’s not because my parents were literary. My dad went to school with a lady who had the name and he always remembered it. My 9th grade librarian informed me of the facts of my name 😊 I’m definitely a minimalist as far as people are concerned. I’m working to become a minimalist of stuff…I’m decluttering as we speak. I have a flea market booth to get rid of lots of stuff. My bucket list: visit Brontë Beach in Australia, visit Bronté, TX, and visit where the Brontë sisters lived. ❤
You’re absolutely correct in stating minimalism is about control. I wonder if you were to ask minimalists if, during their younger years, they felt they had no control over anything in their lives, they were dismissed, put down, pushed to the side, always felt second best, how many would say yes. It took me six decades and an excellent therapist to realize the “why”s of my life.
@HeronCoyote1234 and the some of the same reasons people hoard, because they never felt control of anything or that they were dismissed. Hmmm...makes you think.
I use to be a clutter rat , now as get older I realized most of my clutter were just that, clutter. I simple gave away and sold most, moved to the mountain and started a new lifestyle, spending more time capturing and sharing the beauty of nature and enjoying what I do to the fullest.😊
Thank you for this, Jen. In certain ways I am a minimalist, in others I’m the kind of person keeping and cherishing that portrait of Uncle Nicolas that’s in the family for 4 generations. Also…. I lost one of my beloved cats yesterday and I’m struggling so hard. Your video was mind soothing and helpful in a way I can’t really describe. It soothed my broken heart. Purr in peace, my sweet cat child Lorenzo. ❤😢 Thank you (again) for this. I needed this so badly.
I really like your take on this. The extreme "minimalism" that some people promote as owning as few objects as humanly possible, will never ever work for me. But the idea of being intentional, mindful and making conscious decisions about what deserves time/space in my life... that is wonderful. I'm with you on that. Thanks for sharing!
I went through a people-weeding phase! I've also thinned out my wardrobe, big time. I give things away, usually to charities. And thus year I mostly succeeded in simplifying my garden flowers (the annuals) allowing more room in pots for the few to grow and expand on their own, not over stuff them! I took a week long, solo van camping trip and tested out the "one fork /one spoon/one plate/one pot/one pan" thing - and loved it!!! Thanks Jen.👍😎🇨🇦💫
I learned a new word today. Bibliosmia. I love it & like you I love books. 📚 mine mean so much to me. I love your take on minimalism & it is so refreshing. All those areas of life yup especially people. I want to be with someone who is forward thinking & positive about their life. I will slowly let go of those who cannot be that. I wish them well however I need to move on. With relatives I just don’t spend lots of time with the ones that are not adding something to my life. I enjoyed the video a lot. Thanks Jen
Lmbooooooo Jen! I just said yeah Stacy, you are a recycler and not a minimalist. My home is almost 4000 ft.² and I promise you that there may be 10 items in my entire house that were brand new. I never buy anything brand new. I bought oops paints from the paint store for a dollar a gallon to paint the inside of my house. I got exceptional paint for pennies. I use all of it to refurbish furniture and give to my family and friends. I think it is so wasteful to keep filling up the dump with perfectly good items that just needs some care. I buy all my books used. My library sells books for $1-2 dollars each. I’m with you on getting the books, because eventually this electrical grid is going to crash. Anybody that is self-aware can feel it. Change is coming. I don’t do it because I’m trying to be thrifty, it was just the way that I was raised. We didn’t have a lot of money. And I’m so grateful for it now. I really appreciate you posting your videos early because I am always up at the crack of dawn. I agree it’s all about quality and the old stuff is definitely better! Thrift stores are the bomb! Have a great day Jen and all others!
Thanks for the reflective and insightful conversation! Morgan Harper Nichols has an affirmation that says " I am making room for things that heal my heart". I also been watching video here on RUclips about self-care. For example, Diane in Denmark on some of her Friday videos called weekly planning self-care gives four self-care assignments/ideas that one can choose from for the week and in those videos she mentioned ideas like spending time in nature, creativity, new recipes, listening to music. Also Mariane Cresp mentioned in her boost your mood video about creativity and music.
You've probably already heard of this quotation from William Morris: “Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful.” This is my kind of minimalism. Is this useful to me? Do I believe it's beautiful? Fine, I'll keep it. Otherwise, it goes! There is so much here in this video that I agree with. I like this channel very much. Thank you, Jen.
Don't even let me get started about books. I'm still sulking because I will never be able to read ALL the books, and I must have discovered that shortly after I started to read independently.
Thank you Jen for another great video and insight. I agree that many people's definitions of minimalism will be different from others. I personally find having a lot of "stuff" adds a lot of "static and noise" to my environment when I am looking for clearing and clarity. I have zero problem decluttering things that don't serve me but I do like to keep things that as Marie Kondo would say, "bring me joy"-as long as it's not looking cluttered and claustrophobic to me. I like books, but I do clear out ones that don't have some personal meaning to me after awhile. I do have a few I have kept for many years. Funny enough, the book that I have owned the longest is a book by Elaine St. James called, "Living The Simple Life" (1996) which I happen to be about 80% through re-reading 😂. We may have different views on book collections, but I stand united with you on kitchen implements 🤣 and it's all 100% okay because we are bringing ourselves happiness through what minimalism means to us.
@@cherylp7841 WOW! I hope you like it. Please remember that the book was written in the mid 90s and some things she is talking about decluttering are a bit outdated now but you can still apply the principles❤️
Thank you so much for this. You made me feel so much better about the many books, CDs, Piano-- and other sheet-music, nick-nacks (sp?) that I own. And yes, lately I, too, have been very careful about whom I allow into my inner circle..and I am also perfectly ok by myself. I have 4 children to concentrate on, so there is not much time for friendships and honestly, I don't miss them. But one thing that I feel desperate about decluttering and organizing is my paperwork, because in case something happens to me, I don't want my kids to be dumbfounded with endless paperwork that they have no clue what to do with, But I won't feel bad anymore about owning too many plastic knives and forks (in case I ever have a big party) and my mismatched plates and cups, which are unique in their own way. Nothing in my house matches, everything is unique. But I desperately would love to have a horse again, they make great friends and companions. And I will get rid of some of my cookbooks.....Daniela
My place is pretty minimal. I have all of the things I want around me, but it's not cluttered. The strange thing is when I have my washing hanging up over chairs and a pile of books and papers on the table, I feel more relaxed. It's like I can see that a human (me) is existing and living in the space, proof that I'm here. Giving myself a quieter life, with fewer people in my orbit has given me more peace of mind than anything else.
Thank you for this wonderful video. I subscribed to 3-4 minimalist channels for the last 6-12 months and recently unsubscribed from all of them. Like you, I have many passions: reading, gardening, baking, sewing, quilting, collage, knitting, needlework. Pursuing my interests requires quality tools, materials, space and financial investment and time. A blank space that reveals nothing about an individual gives me anxiety; a space filled with warmth, lovingly cared for,with objects that reflect the owner’s personality and interests piques my curiosity, whether it’s books, art, houseplants, antiques, travel mementos,etc. I may be a maximalist, but a discerning one or an intentional minimalist. As long as you are being true to you, no labels are needed.
I just found your channel and living solo is the best! What you said about the negative person not adding anything to your life really resonated with me. I had a similar situation and even when I told her that her negativity was harming me, all she could focus on was how unloading on me was helping her. Needless to say, we are no longer friends and I feel so much lighter now.
I needed to hear that keeping my books is OK. Libraries in my area (community and university) no longer want paper books. It breaks my heart to toss them at sales or Goodwill. 😊
❤ Hi Jen! ❤ Minimalism? Ahh, the infamous desire to control. 3:40 "Minimalism is the intentional promotion of the things that bring you joy and the removal of those that do not." ~ Joshua Becker, Becoming Minimalist.
I'm a happy maximalist, LOL, but I think your minimalist definition (pretty much) works for me, as well--because everything I have brings me joy. I'm sitting at my kitchen table right now, looking over my very full family room, and can honestly say that every single thing in it (except the God-awful, ugly brown couch I got coerced into purchasing when our last one finally broke down after 15 years and will be replacing as soon as $$$ permits) brings me great joy, sparks wonderful memories, and has been curated over a lifetime. Everyone in my family is engaged in at least one type of artwork or another, so we have photographs, drawings, and paintings on the walls and in frames on flat surfaces, crafted items and books published on shelves, knick-knacks from events and travels, and collectibles from my many passions and interests. My fridge is COVERED in magnets! :) But they're all meaningful to me. My TBR pile is towering. I have multiple full bookcases in every room, including my complete sets of Nancy Drew and Trixie Belden mysteries, which started me on my path as a reader when I was 8 and are now nearly 50 years old. I have finally, sadly, purged a great many books (to my everlasting regret, but I was out of room), but not those ones. I feel cozy, comfortable, and content, and surrounded by beauty and fun.
I love the Japanese way of decluttering, hold the object you own and if it dose not bring you great joy you throw it away or give it away. This is put in the easiest way but there is so much more to this idea.
I have a rock, it has a hole in it, you can hang it from a rope, it is the size of a softball, I call it my weather rock, I've hauled that rock around for 50 years, it came from a creek that ran in front of my childhood home, I hold the rock and it brings me great joy, I'm keeping it. LOL!
I always said “I can do most anything with a fork” - I use a fork for SO MANY THINGS - I even broke into my house when I locked myself out - with a fork. Don’t need much!!
I love going through my closet, bagging up things I just don’t need anymore. It feels good to donate to Goodwill. I need to do that more often. Have a great week Jen!
Didn’t realize it, but this is my style of minimalism. And for the things that bring me joy but have no purpose (like my collection of pig things) I put the collection in a container. So I have a pickle jar full of wee pig statues. I have a bag full of bubble wrap collected from things sent to me, I have a box of wool socks, and a dresser of yarn. This is my minimalist.
I love books also, and have been learning ways to make my bookshelf, look like a work of art. I like to find ways to have items like book, but displaying with beauty that inspires. I like to hear your perspective. I agree with your approach to minimalism. Enjoy the day!
Thanks Jen for that wonderful insight, as someone in their early 60s I take value and I am. I’ve had for 30 years knowing that I made a great purchase and they still last and if you look at them, they’re probably classics. and awesome look at minimalism.
Thank you so much for these life lessons. There is a lot to learn on the path of life that I Wish I had known earlier, but it’s not too late, l hope! 😊
Ooo like this. I’ve been getting more and more intentional with everything, everybody and every bit of time in my life. I’m in my sixties so aware of ‘end date’ and I really wish to make the most of time left on this earth, make the right decisions for me. Thank you
Thank you very much for great advice and a nice chat. I'm a solo in my early 60's and I need to get rid of some stuff, so I'm working on it...a bit! Take care, David. xxx
I was just about to set to and sort out some stuff for a jumble sale. Now I feel much better about it! A good set of questions to ask of each item. Not sure I’ll be very good at doing the same with people though. Too much of a pleaser. Still start small with things and practise.
Thank you Jen for this. I'm also a Jen! Lol. I agree, just being conscious of your decisions is a step in the direction of a more calm and contemplative life, which opens up creativity and space between things. I love your channel.
Great video! Books and art supplies are my joy. I'm currently in the process of purging my closets and drawers. It feels wonderful to release that which no longer serves me.
I found you yesterday and I too, am into putting on a youtube channel and, while I have watched youtube videos for years, I am 66 and know nothing about how to do it. I am itching to make some so....I am learning from people of our age to do just that! And, since you brought up books, let me tell you...I raised my kids on homeschooling and I bought McGuffy readers and antique books to have them learn about the history and how to read. I love them and love the smell!!!!!!!!!! I had six huge shelves of them and I adored every one. They got destroyed so I am now starting over. And I will always love books, especially old, antique ones. I bought them as old as the history that I was teaching at the time so it was as authentic as possible. So fun!! Anyway, glad I found you and I will keep watching!! Take care!
I absolutely LOVE this episode! Especially when you talked about removing a negative person from your life (we can do that??) All of us either fondly related or gratefully learned something from what you shared. For me, it was both. ❤ Thanks!
Thank you for a meaningful video. I (woman, 57) recognize a lot of myself in what you are saying. Going through a decluttering of my home, your kind of minimalism is close to what I am striving for. By the way, you actually can buy a microwave that lasts for 30 years. I got mine in 1993 and it is still working perfectly fine.
I kind of think minimalism is in the eye of the beholder. I'm very mindful of what I buy, and where it's going to wind up. That wasn't always the case. So true about being around negative people - if you don't have to. Even if they are really nice, I avoid the ones that only want to talk about "gloom and doom", and I also don't want to hear about all of their medical issues in excruciating detail (unless there is context for such information). On a social basis, I prefer escapism such as discussing movies, TV series, music, etc. So, I'm a minimalist in people that I have a choice to be around or not. :) Thanks for another thoughtful video.
I am 70 and retired 3 years ago. I live in South Florida & also love books that I have collected. A nice splurge once in a while is buying a Folio edition of a favorite book. Folio is a London book company if you are not familiar with them. They do offer sale prices at times, and they are a little pricier than Barnes & Noble.
I’ve been trying to live a frugally,simple life.I am happy that I found your channel.Learned a lot and from now on , I will declutter my mind and the people that surrounds me.Care for my self first and not others.
You make a lot of good points. For myself, as far as books and how many, I would say my limit would be determined by the amount of space i have for them. For me, it becomes clutter, when they end up in piles on the floor or on every surface. So, I like the "a place for everything and everything in it's place" approach. The same goes for clothes. I am still working on the best capsule wardrobe for me considering my current needs. But whatever I have has to fit in the space I have. When you live in a small space, you have to make choices. The same should apply to larger spaces as well.
I sold my 2,000 sf house and built a 550sf house! I don’t miss a darn thing and all my books fit! The end goal being my move to Mexico. Great video as always.
Mate, .I love the courage and the integrity of calling a spade a spade. And to live your best life. That's quite counter culture and very, very funny! hahaha Lesley Bribie Island Qld Oz 🙏🌞
Thank you, Jan, for an excellent thought-provoking video on ‘Minimalism’, offering different perspectives for reflection and discussion on the quality of decision-making in our lives. I think, especially when one is older with less years ahead of us than behind us, a focus upon ‘Quality’ to enrich and enhance our life, is the way forward. I look forward to your video on Sunday afternoons (Australian ESTime), and I think that you have realised a new meaning and purpose with these YT videos. Thank you.
I'm a 50-something woman who's been following your channel and journey. This video is very helpful. I'm currently working on a channel launch in the niche of moderate minimalism, including the reciprocal relationship between our environment and our mental health.
I am grateful my husband and I have the same taste and he does not have a collection of anything lol I pretty much have a cottage core look in our home. It was not intentional, but just ended up this way. I am an artist and appreciate original works of art from other artists too. So our home is mostly of art and items from our parents who are not here anymore. But not a lot of things, just meaningful items to us.
Hi Jen. Somehow I missed this video, having seen , I thought, all you have posted the last couple of years. I love your attitude and approach to minimalism.
I have been happily nesting as a clutterbug for years, spurning the word "minimalism", but now I see it. As I grew older I gradually took to avoiding the drama queens in my life and enjoyed it so much I cut out family members I couldn't stand, well one family member, just the one, leaving me so much more time for the others who are lovely. I may own thousands of books but I am a people minimalist, I did not know that.
Hands down, I am a minimalist concerning people. Nothing can clutter and complicate your life more than people. I can do the social sprint but have no interest in the social marathon. The mailboxes for my block are in front of my house and I can be as friendly as can be with neighbors I meet there, but virtually none of them have ever been in my house and never will be. My life is my own and I like it that way.
@Stevec3872 You sound like me lol, I’m an INFJ ( Briggs personality test). Interesting stuff.
@@stevec3872 steve, love the phrase a minimalist concerning people. That will be my new logo.
yes agreed - a 55 senior complex and I had to establish myself as the "happy hermit" 🤣
Hi Jen, I’m fairly new to your podcasts, but I knew I’d struck gold when I saw you for the first time. My husband of 53 years died suddenly last year. I love where I live on acreage with trees and garden…good neighbors…very quiet area. “Friends” told me a widow of 81 surely must plan on selling and moving because it would be too much for me. I’m not moving, but I did divest myself of friends. I’ve learned so much from you as I’ve struggled to accept and adapt to being alone. As an introvert, I’m learning to love being here with few people in my life. You have addressed so many of the practical issues I have faced down and I look forward to hearing from you. Because I have limited ability to walk, I have an electric cart and my vegetables and flowers are all in containers. Your vocabulary, excellent presentation and joy in your life have helped me to find joy (a tiny bit at a time) in my new life. Thank you so much. PS I adopted a marvelous big wild rescue cat who has made all the difference. Gave me a reason to get up and get on with life.
Very Best Wishes to you, Karen, and I enjoyed reading your lovely comment. 🇨🇦
Best purge I made was ridding myself of less than helpful people. Thank you for the video.
There's an old saying, "We're too poor to buy cheap." Meaning save so you can buy quality that last and not having things that water out quickly.
I like that!
Oh - I like this.
Minimalism is like cleaning or waking up or becoming kinder……it never ends. We’re never there. We’re only here.
I've loved being a minimalist all my life. I'm 45 and too much clutter makes me anxious 😊. Emptiness and decluttering brings happiness 😊
Clever video! I've done a lot of culling in my later years. I love having an empty social calendar. I am a social minimalist and glad for it. 🎉
Thank you so much. I love the smell of a book as well and can even identify a book from another by this. As I don’t have any relatives ( I am a child born in between two generations, don’t have a spouse or children) I can only rely on my own.
I didn’t know I did this throughout my life.
Referring to people in my life I can step back and ask myself “ wait a minute..”
I don’t need things anymore to create kind of safety. It’s not safety, it’s a burden.
I am on my way downsizing ( I am a collector, who has not been allowed to give away anything ) and won’t keep things dear to my mother or anybody else but those you mentioned as valuable to me.
If I can’t make a decision right now, I leave the item in my sight, makes decisions more easy and the result of it more valuable- to me.
As someone used to be giving throughout my life in order to be “ right”, I’m changing. I used to be a worrier, mostly about others.
I learned within the last eight months where this comes from. I am glad to have found the origin.
Change doesn’t come overnight. At first I called myself a “ failure” but realized this what I was thought of by my parents and my two husbands in order to control me.
I was so tired and couldn’t manage anything. Changed .
I am good towards myself and think of me I am more than simply sufficient which I never have been before.
The good thing is I couldn’t be totally broken down.
I am 67 by now , a long journey of misunderstanding. The person I don’t want to miss anymore is- me.
I love shopping for books - even if I don't buy - touching and browsing ❤
12:17 so, basically, minimalism is less about the amount of belongings one has, and more about mindfulness. I like that.
I love my carefully curated stuff! I occasionally purge, but keep it to giving away, donating, passing along to others. My books and record collection are my comfort zone.
Curating is a good way of describing the process. Imma use it.
I'm very much the decorative type of minimalist you describe. We did donate a stack of books after we moved, which makes room for new books! Decluttering is now only needed for my kids stuff, as they outgrow things.
I'm also someone who forgets things exist if they are not in sight, so I need stuff on counters - my challenge to myself is to make that stuff look nice and not ugly, as I need to see it!
Pam here…..you encapsulated the essence of what minimalism should be. Emotional minimalism probably the most vital. Always boggles my mind the drama and chaos that people invite in to their life and then go on to create themselves. Choosing to discard negativity, gossiping, or even insinuating bad motives or intentions of others is so freeing. So many I know are caught up on ‘overthinking’ disease….where they can’t stop ruminating about what others may think about them or that everything another says or does is a ‘message’ to them. Thanks for your succinct analysis of what truly creates minimalism in your life!
Emotional minimalism…love it!
A woman after my own heart. Expressed so much better than I could have done.
I’m turning 53 and you remind me so much of myself! As I get older I’m becoming more of a minimalist in regards to focusing only on things that bring me joy in all aspects of my life and being perfectly fine to put myself and my needs first.
As a single, solo, of 57 years, I have found a useful, and minimalist, set of pots. It’s a double boiler/steamer. That gives you two pots that nest into each other, plus another pot with holes in the bottom that nests into either pot. They don’t take up a lot of space in a cupboard. Add to that, a frying pan, and you’re all set!
Yes, I think that makes me a minimalist too. It is definitely, and has been my mindset, for over the past several years. At this point, it is crystal clear...My Agenda, My Path, and My Journey through life must align with the Life Giver. Nothing else matters. Thank you!
Books are wonderful, art supplies, full of future dreams. Everyone's dreams are their own.
Beautifully stated.
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I am absolutely a minimalist for many reasons and I agree with you except for the last statement. I too think I need to pause and reflect what activities and people I allow in my life. I spent too much of my 69 years saying yes. However, I do believe there are times when I am promoted to cook a meal, help a friend, reach out, etc where it IS inconvenient, does not serve me, but I can be of service and fill a void. I try to listen and respond to those calls even if I start out not wanting to. I want to have boundaries on what I allow in my life but I also want to be available to help my fellow brothers and sisters walking along with me. Thanks for your content, every video provokes thought.
I'm slowly working on being more of a minimalist. I'm in my upper thirties and had previously never taken stuff to goodwill.....never gotten rid of anything!!! In the last month, I've taken 5-7 boxes (mostly of my daughters old clothes) to goodwill. I want to be in better control, my house is so cluttered with stuff I don't need or use. Slowly but surely I'm gonna get there
Good for you!
Congratulations on letting go of stuff. I have also been doing that and it makes me feel good knowing that others are benefiting from what used to just lie around my house.
The more you do it, the easier it will become. It is freeing. Very rarely will you miss your donated items. I honestly forget about them by next week. 😁 And if you ever find you need an item that was purged, which very rarely happens, you can easily pick one up or better yet borrow one. Cheering you on. ❤
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You are the first minimalist I have ever understood, a really sensible approach, love your ethos. Having left the users behind, I'm pretty well on the same journey, but without wearing a label.😊 The downside of extreme minimalism is comparable to anorexia.
I adopted minimalism in the 1990s. Haven’t looked back. Live very simply but also recognise that there are many legitimate forms of minimalism.
If you are reading this, I want to tell you that everything will be fine. You are incredible, you are unique, you can face anything in your life, you have the strength within yourself to overcome any obstacle, loss, or situation.
Jen, you are describing a thoughtful life, which I like better than the "minimalist." label. I am definitely a minimalist about people.
I have been decluttering for a few years now- I strive for “minimal-ish” which helps me manage my adhd and brings me the peace to be creative and feel calm instead of anxious. But it’s taken me a good while to find my perfect amount of things I love.
As someone who has followed the minimalist movement for many many years, I must say I have rarely heard such a logical and convincing approach to the topic as yours! And I certainly identify with you on the book issue. People who say having 30 books should be enough have always puzzled me… And thanks for your words on people who love „nick nacks“ (as we called them when I was a child) - I think I understand my husband better. It‘s a shame I live on the other side of the globe from you (EU) - I‘d love to run into you in the woods with our dogs.
I'm purging my files and closet while listening. Definitely about having control over what I want and don't want.
Great video! It hit home for me and opened my eyes even more. I have an aging narcissist (sick) in my life. He is the most negative person I've ever met. I am trying to limit my time around him as much as I can because he sucks the energy out of me and the next thing I know I am negative too. I need to start putting myself first. I'm about to watch this video again!❤
Hi Jen I totally agree with everything you said. Frankly, I never thought of myself as a minimalist. But, hearing what you had to say on this topic has made rethink that. About 15 years ago I decided for my own peace of mind to "simplify" my life. I have taken steps in many ways to do that. Getting rid of stuff that wasn't serving any purpose and/or had little or no meaning to me anymore. But, thoughtfully considered the things that did. I kept those and got rid of the rest. I shop very little these days I choose something I do need and/or has value to me. I thoughtfully pared down my schedule and put some things into life that brings me pleasure or makes me smile. I am far more comfortable and peaceful in my home now. I also re-evaluated the people and relationships in my life. I exited or excised those relationships because they were yoo draining or toxic. The people in my life now, add value and bring me joy. So, after pondering tour words I came to the realization that simplifying my life was a form of minimalism. So, yep, guess I'm in that camp after all. 😂 Thanks so much for another insightful talk. 😊 By the way, that is one of the main reasons I faithfully watch your vlogs. Because, they add value to my life and so do you. I do try to thoughtfully comment every time which I hope adds some value to your life, as well. Hope you have a great week and see you next week. 😁❤️🙋 --Paula in Ohio USA
My husband and I have moved across the country twice, and halfway across once. We have whittled everything down to only the dearest possessions. I also got sick about 8 years ago. I stopped working 2 years ago. We have one car and we rent. A single income keeps things tight. But we are careful about what we spend on. About 80% of my clothes are thrifted , and I only buy second hand furniture and housewares. Sometimes I wish we had more money, but it’s mainly so we can go places, not buy things. Plus I think thrifting is much more fun. I need a new tea kettle and it like being on a treasure hunt.
My first name is Brontë and it’s not because my parents were literary. My dad went to school with a lady who had the name and he always remembered it. My 9th grade librarian informed me of the facts of my name 😊
I’m definitely a minimalist as far as people are concerned. I’m working to become a minimalist of stuff…I’m decluttering as we speak. I have a flea market booth to get rid of lots of stuff.
My bucket list: visit Brontë Beach in Australia, visit Bronté, TX, and visit where the Brontë sisters lived. ❤
Oh! Emily is my favourite Bronte and Haworth is on my bucket list too!
Wisdom Speaks. Choose Well. Thank you Jen!
You’re absolutely correct in stating minimalism is about control. I wonder if you were to ask minimalists if, during their younger years, they felt they had no control over anything in their lives, they were dismissed, put down, pushed to the side, always felt second best, how many would say yes. It took me six decades and an excellent therapist to realize the “why”s of my life.
@HeronCoyote1234 and the some of the same reasons people hoard, because they never felt control of anything or that they were dismissed. Hmmm...makes you think.
I use to be a clutter rat , now as get older I realized most of my clutter were just that, clutter. I simple gave away and sold most, moved to the mountain and started a new lifestyle, spending more time capturing and sharing the beauty of nature and enjoying what I do to the fullest.😊
Essentialism. I am called minimalist by my family, but I feel I am more an Essentialist.
Thank you for this, Jen.
In certain ways I am a minimalist, in others I’m the kind of person keeping and cherishing that portrait of Uncle Nicolas that’s in the family for 4 generations.
Also…. I lost one of my beloved cats yesterday and I’m struggling so hard. Your video was mind soothing and helpful in a way I can’t really describe. It soothed my broken heart.
Purr in peace, my sweet cat child Lorenzo. ❤😢
Thank you (again) for this.
I needed this so badly.
I really like your take on this. The extreme "minimalism" that some people promote as owning as few objects as humanly possible, will never ever work for me. But the idea of being intentional, mindful and making conscious decisions about what deserves time/space in my life... that is wonderful. I'm with you on that. Thanks for sharing!
I went through a people-weeding phase! I've also thinned out my wardrobe, big time. I give things away, usually to charities. And thus year I mostly succeeded in simplifying my garden flowers (the annuals) allowing more room in pots for the few to grow and expand on their own, not over stuff them! I took a week long, solo van camping trip and tested out the "one fork /one spoon/one plate/one pot/one pan" thing - and loved it!!! Thanks Jen.👍😎🇨🇦💫
I live alone and only have one frying pan! I have 3 pots and 1 casserole dish and use them all regularly. Agree about the sliding scale.
I learned a new word today. Bibliosmia. I love it & like you I love books. 📚 mine mean so much to me. I love your take on minimalism & it is so refreshing. All those areas of life yup especially people. I want to be with someone who is forward thinking & positive about their life. I will slowly let go of those who cannot be that. I wish them well however I need to move on. With relatives I just don’t spend lots of time with the ones that are not adding something to my life. I enjoyed the video a lot. Thanks Jen
Lmbooooooo Jen! I just said yeah Stacy, you are a recycler and not a minimalist. My home is almost 4000 ft.² and I promise you that there may be 10 items in my entire house that were brand new. I never buy anything brand new. I bought oops paints from the paint store for a dollar a gallon to paint the inside of my house. I got exceptional paint for pennies. I use all of it to refurbish furniture and give to my family and friends. I think it is so wasteful to keep filling up the dump with perfectly good items that just needs some care. I buy all my books used. My library sells books for $1-2 dollars each. I’m with you on getting the books, because eventually this electrical grid is going to crash. Anybody that is self-aware can feel it. Change is coming. I don’t do it because I’m trying to be thrifty, it was just the way that I was raised. We didn’t have a lot of money. And I’m so grateful for it now. I really appreciate you posting your videos early because I am always up at the crack of dawn. I agree it’s all about quality and the old stuff is definitely better! Thrift stores are the bomb! Have a great day Jen and all others!
Thanks for the reflective and insightful conversation! Morgan Harper Nichols has an affirmation that says " I am making room for things that heal my heart". I also been watching video here on RUclips about self-care. For example, Diane in Denmark on some of her Friday videos called weekly planning self-care gives four self-care assignments/ideas that one can choose from for the week and in those videos she mentioned ideas like spending time in nature, creativity, new recipes, listening to music. Also Mariane Cresp mentioned in her boost your mood video about creativity and music.
I love the common sense advice of these videos. What a wise woman.
I like to declutter and keep things simple. Helps me think clearer and get things done more efficiently...Thanks for your video and thoughts...
You've probably already heard of this quotation from William Morris: “Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful.” This is my kind of minimalism. Is this useful to me? Do I believe it's beautiful? Fine, I'll keep it. Otherwise, it goes! There is so much here in this video that I agree with. I like this channel very much. Thank you, Jen.
Don't even let me get started about books. I'm still sulking because I will never be able to read ALL the books, and I must have discovered that shortly after I started to read independently.
I love that quote, it is one to live by
Thank you Jen for another great video and insight. I agree that many people's definitions of minimalism will be different from others. I personally find having a lot of "stuff" adds a lot of "static and noise" to my environment when I am looking for clearing and clarity. I have zero problem decluttering things that don't serve me but I do like to keep things that as Marie Kondo would say, "bring me joy"-as long as it's not looking cluttered and claustrophobic to me. I like books, but I do clear out ones that don't have some personal meaning to me after awhile. I do have a few I have kept for many years. Funny enough, the book that I have owned the longest is a book by Elaine St. James called, "Living The Simple Life" (1996) which I happen to be about 80% through re-reading 😂. We may have different views on book collections, but I stand united with you on kitchen implements 🤣 and it's all 100% okay because we are bringing ourselves happiness through what minimalism means to us.
Thanks! I just downloaded the book after your recommendation. I liked the reviews a lot! ❤
@@cherylp7841 WOW! I hope you like it. Please remember that the book was written in the mid 90s and some things she is talking about decluttering are a bit outdated now but you can still apply the principles❤️
I agree. Never realized it, until listening to you just know, however yes, do agree. Much to think about. Thank you and all the best.
Thank you for sharing your perspective on minimalism! It was personal, insightful and very helpful! Thank you!❤
I love your gentle way. I also love that you say, “Cool”! lol thank you for sharing this subject and the way you shared it.
Thank you so much for this. You made me feel so much better about the many books, CDs, Piano-- and other sheet-music, nick-nacks (sp?) that I own. And yes, lately I, too, have been very careful about whom I allow into my inner circle..and I am also perfectly ok by myself. I have 4 children to concentrate on, so there is not much time for friendships and honestly, I don't miss them.
But one thing that I feel desperate about decluttering and organizing is my paperwork, because in case something happens to me, I don't want my kids to be dumbfounded with endless paperwork that they have no clue what to do with,
But I won't feel bad anymore about owning too many plastic knives and forks (in case I ever have a big party) and my mismatched plates and cups, which are unique in their own way. Nothing in my house matches, everything is unique.
But I desperately would love to have a horse again, they make great friends and companions.
And I will get rid of some of my cookbooks.....Daniela
My place is pretty minimal. I have all of the things I want around me, but it's not cluttered. The strange thing is when I have my washing hanging up over chairs and a pile of books and papers on the table, I feel more relaxed. It's like I can see that a human (me) is existing and living in the space, proof that I'm here.
Giving myself a quieter life, with fewer people in my orbit has given me more peace of mind than anything else.
Thank you for this wonderful video. I subscribed to 3-4 minimalist channels for the last 6-12 months and recently unsubscribed from all of them. Like you, I have many passions: reading, gardening, baking, sewing, quilting, collage, knitting, needlework. Pursuing my interests requires quality tools, materials, space and financial investment and time. A blank space that reveals nothing about an individual gives me anxiety; a space filled with warmth, lovingly cared for,with objects that reflect the owner’s personality and interests piques my curiosity, whether it’s books, art, houseplants, antiques, travel mementos,etc. I may be a maximalist, but a discerning one or an intentional minimalist. As long as you are being true to you, no labels are needed.
I just found your channel and living solo is the best!
What you said about the negative person not adding anything to your life really resonated with me. I had a similar situation and even when I told her that her negativity was harming me, all she could focus on was how unloading on me was helping her. Needless to say, we are no longer friends and I feel so much lighter now.
I needed to hear that keeping my books is OK. Libraries in my area (community and university) no longer want paper books. It breaks my heart to toss them at sales or Goodwill. 😊
Great real life & helpful information to me. Thank you Jen
❤ Hi Jen! ❤ Minimalism? Ahh, the infamous desire to control.
3:40 "Minimalism is the intentional promotion of the things that bring you joy and the removal of those that do not." ~ Joshua Becker, Becoming Minimalist.
I'm a happy maximalist, LOL, but I think your minimalist definition (pretty much) works for me, as well--because everything I have brings me joy. I'm sitting at my kitchen table right now, looking over my very full family room, and can honestly say that every single thing in it (except the God-awful, ugly brown couch I got coerced into purchasing when our last one finally broke down after 15 years and will be replacing as soon as $$$ permits) brings me great joy, sparks wonderful memories, and has been curated over a lifetime. Everyone in my family is engaged in at least one type of artwork or another, so we have photographs, drawings, and paintings on the walls and in frames on flat surfaces, crafted items and books published on shelves, knick-knacks from events and travels, and collectibles from my many passions and interests. My fridge is COVERED in magnets! :) But they're all meaningful to me. My TBR pile is towering. I have multiple full bookcases in every room, including my complete sets of Nancy Drew and Trixie Belden mysteries, which started me on my path as a reader when I was 8 and are now nearly 50 years old. I have finally, sadly, purged a great many books (to my everlasting regret, but I was out of room), but not those ones. I feel cozy, comfortable, and content, and surrounded by beauty and fun.
I love the Japanese way of decluttering, hold the object you own and if it dose not bring you great joy you throw it away or give it away. This is put in the easiest way but there is so much more to this idea.
I have a rock, it has a hole in it, you can hang it from a rope, it is the size of a softball, I call it my weather rock, I've hauled that rock around for 50 years, it came from a creek that ran in front of my childhood home, I hold the rock and it brings me great joy, I'm keeping it. LOL!
I love this video. I am not a minimalist because I love stuff. Pretty stuff, but I do like this version of minimalism.
I am just going to say Amen….. Thank you. Books, Books, Books. I get you Jen.
I use this saying all the time, and I may have used it on your videos. "Take Care of Number 1, and Don't Step in Number 2," Rodney Dangerfield.
I always said “I can do most anything with a fork” - I use a fork for SO MANY THINGS - I even broke into my house when I locked myself out - with a fork. Don’t need much!!
I love going through my closet, bagging up things I just don’t need anymore. It feels good to donate to Goodwill. I need to do that more often. Have a great week Jen!
Didn’t realize it, but this is my style of minimalism. And for the things that bring me joy but have no purpose (like my collection of pig things) I put the collection in a container. So I have a pickle jar full of wee pig statues. I have a bag full of bubble wrap collected from things sent to me, I have a box of wool socks, and a dresser of yarn. This is my minimalist.
I love books also, and have been learning ways to make my bookshelf, look like a work of art. I like to find ways to have items like book, but displaying with beauty that inspires. I like to hear your perspective. I agree with your approach to minimalism. Enjoy the day!
Thanks Jen for that wonderful insight, as someone in their early 60s I take value and I am. I’ve had for 30 years knowing that I made a great purchase and they still last and if you look at them, they’re probably classics. and awesome look at minimalism.
Thank you so much for these life lessons. There is a lot to learn on the path of life that I Wish I had known earlier, but it’s not too late, l hope! 😊
Ooo like this. I’ve been getting more and more intentional with everything, everybody and every bit of time in my life. I’m in my sixties so aware of ‘end date’ and I really wish to make the most of time left on this earth, make the right decisions for me. Thank you
Thank you very much for great advice and a nice chat. I'm a solo in my early 60's and I need to get rid of some stuff, so I'm working on it...a bit!
Take care, David. xxx
When I was younger my dream was to always own a second hand book shop just so I could smell books all day...
Yup. I love my kindle but nothing like being able to smell the books.
Thank you for helping me understand myself better !
You are so welcome!
Yup, there are a lot of crappy people who can worm their way in if not curated carefully. Thanks for the reminder.
I was just about to set to and sort out some stuff for a jumble sale. Now I feel much better about it! A good set of questions to ask of each item. Not sure I’ll be very good at doing the same with people though. Too much of a pleaser. Still start small with things and practise.
Well said!! I agree. Thank you Jen
Thank you Jen for this. I'm also a Jen! Lol. I agree, just being conscious of your decisions is a step in the direction of a more calm and contemplative life, which opens up creativity and space between things. I love your channel.
Great video! Books and art supplies are my joy. I'm currently in the process of purging my closets and drawers. It feels wonderful to release that which no longer serves me.
I so agree with you Jen! Thanks for your video.
Excellent video, Jen! I’m currently struggling with possessions and not enjoying them for various reasons. Your words are so helpful. Thank you!
Your happiness comes first!❤
Hi Jane, very interesting video indeed ! particularly interested in the negative friend part. thank you !
I found you yesterday and I too, am into putting on a youtube channel and, while I have watched youtube videos for years, I am 66 and know nothing about how to do it. I am itching to make some so....I am learning from people of our age to do just that! And, since you brought up books, let me tell you...I raised my kids on homeschooling and I bought McGuffy readers and antique books to have them learn about the history and how to read. I love them and love the smell!!!!!!!!!! I had six huge shelves of them and I adored every one. They got destroyed so I am now starting over. And I will always love books, especially old, antique ones. I bought them as old as the history that I was teaching at the time so it was as authentic as possible. So fun!! Anyway, glad I found you and I will keep watching!! Take care!
I loved the movie clip at the beginning. It really made me smile. I've really been enjoying your videos. Thank you for sharing and posting.
I absolutely LOVE this episode! Especially when you talked about removing a negative person from your life (we can do that??)
All of us either fondly related or gratefully learned something from what you shared.
For me, it was both. ❤ Thanks!
Thank you for a meaningful video. I (woman, 57) recognize a lot of myself in what you are saying. Going through a decluttering of my home, your kind of minimalism is close to what I am striving for. By the way, you actually can buy a microwave that lasts for 30 years. I got mine in 1993 and it is still working perfectly fine.
I kind of think minimalism is in the eye of the beholder. I'm very mindful of what I buy, and where it's going to wind up. That wasn't always the case. So true about being around negative people - if you don't have to. Even if they are really nice, I avoid the ones that only want to talk about "gloom and doom", and I also don't want to hear about all of their medical issues in excruciating detail (unless there is context for such information). On a social basis, I prefer escapism such as discussing movies, TV series, music, etc. So, I'm a minimalist in people that I have a choice to be around or not. :) Thanks for another thoughtful video.
I am 70 and retired 3 years ago. I live in South Florida & also love books that I have collected. A nice splurge once in a while is buying a Folio edition of a favorite book. Folio is a London book company if you are not familiar with them. They do offer sale prices at times, and they are a little pricier than Barnes & Noble.
I’ve been trying to live a frugally,simple life.I am happy that I found your channel.Learned a lot and from now on , I will declutter my mind and the people that surrounds me.Care for my self first and not others.
You make a lot of good points. For myself, as far as books and how many, I would say my limit would be determined by the amount of space i have for them. For me, it becomes clutter, when they end up in piles on the floor or on every surface. So, I like the "a place for everything and everything in it's place" approach. The same goes for clothes. I am still working on the best capsule wardrobe for me considering my current needs. But whatever I have has to fit in the space I have. When you live in a small space, you have to make choices. The same should apply to larger spaces as well.
I love that u THINK about things
Books and jewellery- I’m with you there, Jen!
I sold my 2,000 sf house and built a 550sf house! I don’t miss a darn thing and all my books fit! The end goal being my move to Mexico. Great video as always.
Mate, .I love the courage and the integrity of calling a spade a spade. And to live your best life. That's quite counter culture and very, very funny! hahaha Lesley Bribie Island Qld Oz 🙏🌞
Love this, I’ve been doing the minimalist thing but feeling guilty sometimes, no longer.
Thank you, Jan, for an excellent thought-provoking video on ‘Minimalism’, offering different perspectives for reflection and discussion on the quality of decision-making in our lives. I think, especially when one is older with less years ahead of us than behind us, a focus upon ‘Quality’ to enrich and enhance our life, is the way forward. I look forward to your video on Sunday afternoons (Australian ESTime), and I think that you have realised a new meaning and purpose with these YT videos. Thank you.
@TxSilverandSolo-m1k Hi Jan, Not conversant with YT literacy - does this mean that you wish to email privately. If so, yes. Thank you. Anne
I'm a 50-something woman who's been following your channel and journey. This video is very helpful. I'm currently working on a channel launch in the niche of moderate minimalism, including the reciprocal relationship between our environment and our mental health.
I loved it especially about the way to view relationships in our lives. It resonated with me. Very wise. Thank you.
I am grateful my husband and I have the same taste and he does not have a collection of anything lol I pretty much have a cottage core look in our home. It was not intentional, but just ended up this way. I am an artist and appreciate original works of art from other artists too. So our home is mostly of art and items from our parents who are not here anymore. But not a lot of things, just meaningful items to us.
great boundaries lessons - books absolutely have their own rules - lol! ✌
All the things you said are completely true. Thanks for your words.
Hi Jen. Somehow I missed this video, having seen , I thought, all you have posted the last couple of years. I love your attitude and approach to minimalism.
Thank you so much!