Steve Massage: Ndorire thukuru thutha wa uncle yakwa gukua tondu ndiaheirwo ihinda ria kumucakaya

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  • Опубликовано: 2 дек 2024

Комментарии • 390

  • @mercyn7552
    @mercyn7552 3 месяца назад +6

    I totally relate with Steve in all ways. My traumas are sooo deep and the only thing that keeps me going is my daughter. God bless you so much Steve. Thanks Baby Top for bringing this great man. He is soo genuine.

  • @RosemaryGatutha
    @RosemaryGatutha 3 месяца назад +3

    I totally relate with steve,my traumas from a tender age this thing of step dad is totally scam what I gone through only God knows at the age of 38 am still in bitterness

  • @wambuikarigi121
    @wambuikarigi121 3 месяца назад +21

    I understand what Steve is saying about being unable to be in marriage set-up
    Me i truly i get tired very fast
    I have been off relationship for the last 13 years and am okay with it

  • @johnkamau9318
    @johnkamau9318 3 месяца назад +7

    This was very educative and insightful Steve thanks for speaking up. Men should be encouraged to speak up.

  • @teresagitonga8749
    @teresagitonga8749 3 месяца назад +30

    A manager, a PA and a director. This is great, you have created employment. God bless you more STEVE 🙏

  • @paulinemwangi562
    @paulinemwangi562 3 месяца назад +5

    I suffered child hood trauma...never told anyone but I made sure that I became a shoulder for many to lean on.. I did psychology but I decided to go beyond what we learnt in class to help my patients...and I belive I have done my best

  • @monicawanjiku6379
    @monicawanjiku6379 3 месяца назад +9

    Leksharaa your uncles are such a vibe your family is a blessing i love uncles

  • @DamarisShiroh
    @DamarisShiroh 3 месяца назад +9

    Waaoo the best njorua ever.creating mental awareness😢😢 sad i lost my brother through this.

  • @kevinkinyuru1696
    @kevinkinyuru1696 3 месяца назад +7

    DEPRESSION is very serious, thats a very familiar ground I can relate to! Suicidal is the deepest pit n many of Men like him, we survived n missed it by less than 20 CM.. Happily n mentally stable now working n living in United Arab Emirates..Talking about it saves you by 80%

  • @blessedone6078
    @blessedone6078 3 месяца назад +10

    Uncles in the house, see what other uncles are raising their nephews not condemning their sister for getting a child out of wedlock or being divorced. Good job uncle Paul, Peter and my uncle Charles soul rest in peace

  • @shironjuguna5853
    @shironjuguna5853 3 месяца назад +9

    I applaud this young man for speaking out! I respect the place and the decisions he has made. It is not easy for one to come to such conclusions. We should respect his choices and let him be! As a single mom, you have taught me a lot and helped me appreciate so many things! Keep shining Steve! You are such a breath of fresh air! Max respect!

  • @BeatriceWaithira-k9v
    @BeatriceWaithira-k9v 3 месяца назад +2

    As a single mum I have learnt a lot thank you our lekshara

  • @shikuhadassah6550
    @shikuhadassah6550 3 месяца назад

    I did not know why I was looking forward to listen to this, now I know it was a set up. Am so helped.
    I will write my story one day. Thanks Steve kushare your story. Man you have made me stronger.
    Wakirumba Gathemba Baby shark nyinyi ni wanguvu

  • @rosemariendungu4914
    @rosemariendungu4914 3 месяца назад +94

    Editor please be posting without adverts and news, we do skipping alot😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @neemoh2548
      @neemoh2548 3 месяца назад

      Aki si rahisi😂

    • @annkaranja2088
      @annkaranja2088 3 месяца назад

      Aki ebu akue tagged😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Lifesyles
      @Lifesyles 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

    • @samuel-iw9cc
      @samuel-iw9cc 3 месяца назад

      Iko sawa ivo

    • @nellywanjiru9593
      @nellywanjiru9593 3 месяца назад

      I just wonder how you put out a video with news aaaaai hapo mbadilishe kidogo

  • @jamilamasaa6867
    @jamilamasaa6867 3 месяца назад +8

    After watching this have learned someone..never give up in life and no situation which is permanent..siku moja itajipa keep on moving

  • @polynpollete15
    @polynpollete15 3 месяца назад +17

    Leksharaa milayas for milayas 🙌🙌am a single mum n weuh av learnt something💪

  • @Celinenjabi45555
    @Celinenjabi45555 3 месяца назад +7

    You never know what one is going through..
    Much respect steve.
    I totally relate

  • @Ciksfleurs
    @Ciksfleurs 3 месяца назад +9

    Steve actually start another school for Gen z who come from single mum most of them suffer in silence and some don't share with their parents, waelimishe.

  • @Bellah-c3m
    @Bellah-c3m 3 месяца назад +9

    Am a single mom of one boy but ave never introduced my son to any man or introduced any man to my son I always tell them I have a son that I truly love !

    • @paulinewangui2182
      @paulinewangui2182 3 месяца назад +1

      Same thing with me, I love that young man ❤❤

  • @IreneNyawira-u8j
    @IreneNyawira-u8j 3 месяца назад +10

    I love his sense of humor...😂

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 3 месяца назад +14

    Uncles are the best my brother is the most supportive system to my son he understands him

    • @catejoy4878
      @catejoy4878 3 месяца назад +2

      Not all my brother never bothers na vile my kids love him

    • @helensusana2026
      @helensusana2026 3 месяца назад +1

      @sarahngugi Lucky you, not all are good.

    • @sarahngugi2779
      @sarahngugi2779 3 месяца назад

      @@helensusana2026 true am lucky

    • @annewitson5589
      @annewitson5589 3 месяца назад +1

      My brother is also heaven sent. The way he takes care of my son....God bless him for me

    • @sarahngugi2779
      @sarahngugi2779 3 месяца назад

      @@annewitson5589 🙏🙏

  • @yJe461
    @yJe461 3 месяца назад +8

    Hio part ya "Mental capacity ya kuishi na dem" is so real. Mimi ata sleepovers nilikataanga. I can't marry so soon until the time nitakuwa na conviction that I'm ready to wake up beside that person for the rest of my life (I'm below 25,so I've time to adjust my mind). For girls, never force yourself into a marriage. Wait until someone is ready to marry you.

  • @annastaciaomari6908
    @annastaciaomari6908 3 месяца назад +3

    Thanks for speaking out..a few months ago nilikua nimeanza kumake peace with death for the first time i wasnt afraid and was ready for it. I mentioned it to someone na akanikasirikia sana and told me nisiwai mshow hivyo tena. He somehow saved me from me

  • @gracewambui8615
    @gracewambui8615 3 месяца назад +7

    Ukiona vya elea jua vimeundwa.,hugs❤️❤️❤️

  • @GladiesMbuthia
    @GladiesMbuthia 3 месяца назад +16

    I wish ningekua na kwa kurudi 😭😭😭😭 I'm loosing it sadly with 2 daughters God take the wheel 🙏🏼

    • @SmileyRuth
      @SmileyRuth 3 месяца назад

      Hugs 🫂

    • @isabellmuya1523
      @isabellmuya1523 3 месяца назад

      Hugs Gladies.
      Life is beautiful 🫂🫂

    • @annkamau2694
      @annkamau2694 3 месяца назад +1

      Everything is gonna be alright dear. God's got your back. Hugs🫂

    • @ngendonancy8994
      @ngendonancy8994 3 месяца назад

      Dnt give up
      L

  • @Lucywanjohi.
    @Lucywanjohi. 3 месяца назад +2

    This is the kind of person I wanted to hear this morning. The Lord bless you for us StephenCollins🙏

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 3 месяца назад +46

    Watching Steve while my son is in rehab after exiting Mathari but i thank God my son has no suicidal thoughts hope God will heal him like Steve and be talking of a miracle like this

    • @ru85wanjiku
      @ru85wanjiku 3 месяца назад +6

      Mine too suffering from sudden paralysis disorder due to rejection from his dad.

    • @sarahngugi2779
      @sarahngugi2779 3 месяца назад

      @@ru85wanjiku introduce him to a therapist

    • @LadyPosh_254
      @LadyPosh_254 3 месяца назад +2

      Sending you hugs mammy, he’ll be well in Jesus name

    • @LadyPosh_254
      @LadyPosh_254 3 месяца назад

      @@ru85wanjikuJesus Christ, 🫂🫂🫂 mammy. I was always checking my son & having open conversations with him since we left his dad & I always tell him it’s my mistake I chose the wrong dad for him but it’s coz I didn’t know better. Immediately after high school I enrolled him in therapy & we are ok now hope nothing will come up

    • @meriskihiu2210
      @meriskihiu2210 3 месяца назад +2

      Amen Amen

  • @wanjikunjuguna8386
    @wanjikunjuguna8386 3 месяца назад

    Steve thank you for sharing your story. As a mum and teacher i have taken some lessons. God bless you.

  • @jaynecqurescribe
    @jaynecqurescribe 3 месяца назад

    For the first time ever someone I can relate to in so many ways. Thanks Steve.

  • @mohkuhi7891
    @mohkuhi7891 3 месяца назад +5

    Can't wait for next week,the fact that i can somehow relate to his story,😢

  • @denniskimani4364
    @denniskimani4364 3 месяца назад +17

    I can relate abt kunyararwo ukiwa hawker watu WA dawa za mede big up 😅

    • @francie8234
      @francie8234 3 месяца назад

      Chekanga part ya kucheka.....please

  • @mowawajowangu8216
    @mowawajowangu8216 3 месяца назад +16

    Am a proud PhD holder from Wakaniaru university 🙌

  • @abigailmbondo1400
    @abigailmbondo1400 3 месяца назад +2

    Now i can relate alot of things which always happpen in ur life thanks for the conversations 🎉

  • @stellizsteve2452
    @stellizsteve2452 3 месяца назад +6

    Aki steve you make us laugh and emotional at the same time

  • @nyamburajane-w3d
    @nyamburajane-w3d 3 месяца назад +3

    Learnt alot as a single mum of 1 name STEVE

  • @DenisKimani-y7g
    @DenisKimani-y7g 3 месяца назад +3

    The difference between Steve and me is that He is financially stable, Otherwise ave strugled mentally to a point i become narcissist in every relationship, I just wanna be alone everyday

  • @charitykiago3558
    @charitykiago3558 3 месяца назад +7

    Woiyee my boys 🫂 marriage is a no go zone until they are all grown up 😢

    • @carolwanjiku8958
      @carolwanjiku8958 3 месяца назад

      Me to I will get married when ny son is working 😢😢😢

  • @wanjogitoni98
    @wanjogitoni98 3 месяца назад +3

    Kumbe I am not mad.. I have always wondered how two strangers live together for the rest of their lives.

  • @spiffycleaninglimited7028
    @spiffycleaninglimited7028 3 месяца назад

    I've never listened to someone give their story and related to them as much as I have with Steve. Hugs to everyone fighting childhood trauma

  • @suzzysera
    @suzzysera 3 месяца назад +19

    Our very own reksharaaa😂😂😂😂

  • @sonnienjagi
    @sonnienjagi 3 месяца назад

    I wish i can get a platform tp talk about my own.... But Steve you inspire me. One day i will be a blessing to many❤

  • @churchofredeemerkenol933
    @churchofredeemerkenol933 3 месяца назад

    Steve is such an intelligent being and a great orator. Am not a follower but I can say that he is wise. Sorry for what you have been through but am also happy you have defeated most the demons. but aki nmekataa vitunguu😪😭😭😭.... Kudos and Respect Steve

  • @nellywanjiru9593
    @nellywanjiru9593 3 месяца назад +1

    Big up to those uncles.May God bless them

  • @wanjiruciru6237
    @wanjiruciru6237 3 месяца назад +104

    Kameme hakuna editors waweze kutoa news za saa sita😅 That's why people prefer watching this segment in other channels.

  • @magdalinewamuyu5282
    @magdalinewamuyu5282 3 месяца назад

    Waoh.Thanks so much Mso u are doing a great job mummy.i listened to auntie Jemimahs' story n it was motivative ,n now this one very encouraging.Everybody out here has a story to tell thanks for being a bridge of healing esp to our young generation.Pia mimi siku moja nitakuja huko Kameme n encourage our young girls ❤

  • @snazzykeofficial7195
    @snazzykeofficial7195 3 месяца назад +1

    Very inspiring story point to note never loose hope

  • @susanwanjiru8817
    @susanwanjiru8817 3 месяца назад +16

    Childhood trauma is making us cut onions aki...😢😢

  • @miriamwambui4615
    @miriamwambui4615 3 месяца назад +1

    👏👏👏you have the best advice both to parents ad young men

  • @thigafrancis553
    @thigafrancis553 3 месяца назад +4

    So inspiring, can't wait next Thursday ❤❤❤❤, yaani ni sisi umeita fuuunda 😂😂😂😂

  • @mnyambura31
    @mnyambura31 3 месяца назад

    A breath of fresh air. Thank you for sharing Steve

  • @rosekimani5196
    @rosekimani5196 3 месяца назад +1

    That part of Grief is so serious. Plus it's ironic how a school with a counsellor failed to help Steve mourn his uncle.

  • @ElizabethCharles-r8r
    @ElizabethCharles-r8r 3 месяца назад +1

    I know the pain am a single Mum,a minister too .
    I once was to get married to a Fellow Pastor and I used to feel it's not working even though he loved me and pia tried to love my Son, but the INLAWS ,they threatened a grudge against their son if he would marry me ,mind you He is a Pastor.And he pressed I have made a decision I will marry the girl for i chose her knowing she has a rope .
    But as days went by ,I had to choose me or my son...
    It went to a point a group of Pastors fellowship sat the man down to speak against him marrying me.Reason I have a child hehehehe,One time in his sister's wedding i extended to shake hands with his parents and i was ignored like openly ,we don't want you....
    So I had to Heart break the man and I choose my son's peace .
    Single Mums love yourself and kids more.
    Steve I hear you it Takes you to Be Happy

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 3 месяца назад +5

    Woooi part 2 ikuje naiyonaiyo waiting

  • @sugar_pie_empress9068
    @sugar_pie_empress9068 3 месяца назад +10

    I have sacrificed my happiness for the sake of my kids😢i would not want my kids to go through hell in step dad's family

  • @wambuikarigi121
    @wambuikarigi121 3 месяца назад +9

    I feel so bad my son wasn't allowed to bury his grand dad who was his father figure because they had exam this affected me and to-date my son seems not to be okay

  • @lucynjoki1814
    @lucynjoki1814 3 месяца назад +3

    Uncles in the house listen how he has been raised by uncles,tukichukiwa na wanaume please love our boys they can also be of help to you and the entire family together we can make it

  • @bensonnduati6354
    @bensonnduati6354 3 месяца назад +8

    Next time bring Jimmy # future president

  • @Mercymwa73
    @Mercymwa73 3 месяца назад +1

    I understand you ,Wakaniaru.lecture
    I always say, if I don't have kid, ningekaa without one.
    I thank God I have one

  • @julietkimani9800
    @julietkimani9800 3 месяца назад +4

    I can relate with this Soo well coz it's my current situation 😢

  • @magdalinegacheru9500
    @magdalinegacheru9500 3 месяца назад +11

    Tuned in from Iraq Baghdad 🇮🇶

  • @roseannnjoki5270
    @roseannnjoki5270 3 месяца назад

    very relatable inspiring story. 😍😍😍

  • @MaryKamau-r9l
    @MaryKamau-r9l 3 месяца назад

    Your kikuyu is on point and l love how you call your mom Maitù.

  • @annkaranja1750
    @annkaranja1750 3 месяца назад +1

    I too suffer child hood traumas but i grew up with my biological dad

  • @nyawiramureithi3806
    @nyawiramureithi3806 3 месяца назад

    Lekshara 🔥🔥🔥🔥u make our lives easy as we watch you on TIKTOK! I personally believe everyone has a story to tell and the shoe wearer knows the pain. Hongera for creating employment and may God come through as you continue doing YOU. Everyone who is in turmoil in whatever area please DONT GIVE UP. Jipe moyo for this Life is worth living. God always lifts us up when you think it’s over🔥🔥🙏🙏.

  • @judywanjiru
    @judywanjiru 3 месяца назад

    You mean when Maina Kageni spoke about Steve alikua ocha. I was listening that morning, wow.

  • @Mariafrank-1
    @Mariafrank-1 3 месяца назад +13

    Being a single mom of 1 boy am afraid of getting married walai my son is my best friend n i don't think am ready to trade his happiness with anything wacha nimlee akisha grow maybe then nitafikiria

    • @Vincent.yV.k.m
      @Vincent.yV.k.m 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂 hope he will also remember you

    • @TezlifaMemc
      @TezlifaMemc 3 месяца назад +1

      Same here my son comes first ❤ as much as I want to be married his happiness comes first

    • @StellaChege-qs7qu
      @StellaChege-qs7qu 3 месяца назад +1

      Ohps! what is what❤ 😢 ngai, so much confused

    • @reginairungu7378
      @reginairungu7378 3 месяца назад

      Kindly don't ,I know I have an experience

  • @DorcasWakanyi-q5x
    @DorcasWakanyi-q5x 3 месяца назад +1

    Babytop you doing a good job well done mresh🎉❤

  • @fefewamwas
    @fefewamwas 3 месяца назад +2

    Amazing Amazing Amazing, thanks, Steve, for your condor thanks. Thanks, baby T, for this platform. Baraka

  • @monicahnjoroge2805
    @monicahnjoroge2805 3 месяца назад +1

    Story of my son who is in form one.
    1. His father left when he was in nursery school.
    2. Lost his 2 uncles (favorite)on the same day, he felt he didn't mourn them enough.
    3. In form 1 second term started selling mandazi, in a national sch.

  • @JudyShiku-bn4ml
    @JudyShiku-bn4ml 3 месяца назад

    Thanks so much Steve u help me alot 😊

  • @MaryDaniel-k3c
    @MaryDaniel-k3c 2 месяца назад

    Othaya Boys even today is one of the best schools in Nyeri.

  • @KarehNduku
    @KarehNduku 3 месяца назад +4

    Our teacher 😂😂😂❤

  • @janemutavi5047
    @janemutavi5047 3 месяца назад

    Wow i love him, mental health is not a joke

  • @lindamwanzia3755
    @lindamwanzia3755 3 месяца назад +5

    Steve Collins - Jesus can heal childhood trauma...He is close to the brokenhearted. He will give you a new heart .. So sorry for what you went through...allow Jesus to give you a beautiful life -new thinking, a beautiful future, Peace & joy

    • @Loise-xr3fd
      @Loise-xr3fd 3 месяца назад

      Steve u have a big future that's why Satan hataki utumikie mungu

  • @EdithNgugi-s8f
    @EdithNgugi-s8f 3 месяца назад +2

    Woiye steve 😢...i have experienced two cases of men going through such situations .me huenda mute juu sina say .the way they behave ,talk is really scaring u cant like their company alot ..may God heal all these traumas even the way you talk to people you should be kind. Watu wanapitia mambo .if peope let their hearts out it will scare you 😢

  • @margretwambui8690
    @margretwambui8690 3 месяца назад +1

    That's very true 👌 my children comes first ❤

  • @kiongolinet7724
    @kiongolinet7724 3 месяца назад +1

    Am a single mother of 22yrs gal and I made decisions not to get married coz I feared to confused my dota...am happy today I made this Decision..

  • @carolinekanyonyo4707
    @carolinekanyonyo4707 3 месяца назад +15

    I still suffer childhood traumas silently especially when I realized that was not my father and started noticing why I was hated

  • @martinmutunga9459
    @martinmutunga9459 3 месяца назад +1

    Lecturer family is very important..your work is blocking you to see anything good with leaving with a lady.. having all the day with striped ladies is making you to lack the anxiety you don't have anything enticing you from them.

  • @veronicahkimani583
    @veronicahkimani583 3 месяца назад

    Lekshara 🔥
    Baby T🔥🔥🔥 this is inspiring

  • @Vincent.yV.k.m
    @Vincent.yV.k.m 3 месяца назад +16

    Our principal,, milayas for milayas wakaniaru ✅✅✅

    • @annkamau217
      @annkamau217 Месяц назад +1

      What is the meaning of milayas???

    • @Vincent.yV.k.m
      @Vincent.yV.k.m Месяц назад

      @@annkamau217 hehe ma....ya

  • @RoseMary-xf3pt
    @RoseMary-xf3pt 3 месяца назад +1

    i think he had a very good childhood by all means...

  • @SalomeH-24
    @SalomeH-24 3 месяца назад

    Baby T thank you so much Steve thank you for sharing your story.

  • @ruthwambui695
    @ruthwambui695 3 месяца назад +2

    Aki i have learnt alot today...the story is so emotional

  • @SERENE-ge3jw
    @SERENE-ge3jw 3 месяца назад +6

    My dad lost hope this year and committed suicide...mental health...now i am falling apart...my brothers who are in national school have now lost hope and are always out of school ...the teachers advised on councelling but have refused councelling...no one seems to hold up things....mental health

    • @SERENE-ge3jw
      @SERENE-ge3jw 3 месяца назад

      sure.....my dad sent all he had in my moms accounts

    • @User-c6h9x
      @User-c6h9x 3 месяца назад

      Go see bishop Ben. I'm sure atakusaidia

    • @annewachira753
      @annewachira753 3 месяца назад +3

      @Obinna tv

    • @SERENE-ge3jw
      @SERENE-ge3jw 3 месяца назад

      @@User-c6h9x thanks....ill try

    • @BillieMarkash29
      @BillieMarkash29 3 месяца назад

      I think you need help

  • @edithmuiruri8908
    @edithmuiruri8908 3 месяца назад +1

    Am married with one kid n then two for him...sijaona umbaya wowote...but av taken notes wakaniaru God bless you ..

    • @judyndungu3754
      @judyndungu3754 3 месяца назад +1

      He said few cases work one is yours 🙏🙏🙏.

    • @edithmuiruri8908
      @edithmuiruri8908 3 месяца назад

      @@judyndungu3754 yap and I thank God for that

  • @fefewamwas
    @fefewamwas 3 месяца назад +2

    TRAUMA is real. Hugs son 🤗

  • @emilywangui
    @emilywangui 3 месяца назад +1

    Wakaniaru for me ❤❤❤much love steve❤

  • @estherwanjiku6817
    @estherwanjiku6817 Месяц назад

    Hi,na mtatutolea advertisements na news kwa stori... please

  • @MercyWahito-e6t
    @MercyWahito-e6t 3 месяца назад +19

    Tuned kutoka saudi🇸🇦

  • @ngendonancy8994
    @ngendonancy8994 3 месяца назад

    Despite all this steve ur a go getter

  • @joycenjoki9798
    @joycenjoki9798 3 месяца назад

    Uiii ,steve,may you be healed.

  • @gracenjenga6380
    @gracenjenga6380 3 месяца назад +5

    Hapo kwa step dad is 💯 true,mm niliolewa na kijana nilitoka huko juu yake kutesa mtoi wangu

  • @Kikibossy254
    @Kikibossy254 3 месяца назад

    Kkkss kksss ❤theshaa nja' fudaaaa.... 🕺🏾 😹🍷ours lekshara' nakipendaaaaaaa 😂 lazima utupe hii mbegu fudaaaa wamuyu plus many more😂❤

  • @joyshelkamaa185
    @joyshelkamaa185 3 месяца назад +3

    Tuned in Canada... Reksharaaa akuje kana athece njaa😂😂😂

  • @serahwambui1367
    @serahwambui1367 3 месяца назад

    God so 2021 sikua peke yango but I thank God nilitomboa peke yangu

  • @alicemumbi7585
    @alicemumbi7585 3 месяца назад

    Never judge anybody at any given time.....
    This guy has gone through alot

  • @dmuraguri4009
    @dmuraguri4009 3 месяца назад

    We might be on the same page lecturer...Kwanza hapo kwa contract and simple life sana

  • @hellenwangari1664
    @hellenwangari1664 3 месяца назад +5

    No one:
    Uncle Buju:ùkai mwone kìhìì kia my sister😅😅😅

    • @wilsonmbugua6391
      @wilsonmbugua6391 3 месяца назад +1

      Nidoka kihiii kianyu kinarugano inspiring muno.

  • @EdithNgugi-s8f
    @EdithNgugi-s8f 3 месяца назад +1

    I like it 😊lekshara