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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

Комментарии • 325

  • @tobazko5491
    @tobazko5491 3 года назад +1566

    It’s embarrassing how comforting this is as someone who never grew up with a dad like this. You’re great

  • @Nirocalla
    @Nirocalla 3 года назад +893

    As someone with an emotionally unavailable father. I really appreciate these videos. I may be an adult but it’s nice to feel taken care of. Keep up the awesome work!! 😊

    • @alyssablase417
      @alyssablase417 2 года назад +4

      Same here

    • @steezy8988
      @steezy8988 2 года назад +1

      just get a dad lol

    • @meemaw.
      @meemaw. 2 года назад +19

      @@steezy8988 they do have a dad, she stated he's emotionally unavailable

    • @bonnyy
      @bonnyy Год назад +6

      @@steezy8988 tf? how ☠️

    • @swaggyfire00
      @swaggyfire00 Год назад +1

      @@steezy8988 no.❤

  • @ghostmutt4684
    @ghostmutt4684 3 года назад +519

    I teared up when you said, "I'm proud of you." I've never had a father figure or anyone say it to me really. Thank you for these videos.

  • @wannamolove9638
    @wannamolove9638 2 года назад +69

    My dad was in my life physically but he was very neglectful, this made me cry, you are the dad I have always wanted

  • @marcelinokazzaz1754
    @marcelinokazzaz1754 3 года назад +460

    This is pure enough to make a grown man cry .
    I’m going to do this for my child bcz i never had anything like this

    • @ASMRJeremiah
      @ASMRJeremiah  3 года назад +114

      I’m sure you’ll be a great father.

    • @heplaysbass
      @heplaysbass 2 года назад +25

      please do, i never grew up with the best family and i really hope nobody else has to deal with it too

    • @iambathman9916
      @iambathman9916 Год назад +3

      And that's okay 😢

  • @aegonpilled
    @aegonpilled 2 года назад +94

    why am i crying?? thank u for helping out kids like me with emotionally unavailable dads

  • @Ari-kv3ci
    @Ari-kv3ci 3 года назад +289

    i appreciate the “tickles! oh, no? okay” soooo much! i hate being tickled and no one ever stops when i tell them to stop. i’m an adult now so obviously it doesn’t happen very often but it did when i was a kid and i hated it but people, especially my grandad, would think i didn’t mean no bc i would laugh. so thank you so much for scripting an adult that actually listens when kids say no.

    • @heplaysbass
      @heplaysbass 2 года назад +14

      tickling makes me want to cry, i appreciate him scripting that sm

    • @KatieCoryy
      @KatieCoryy Год назад +8

      it's probably from my sensory issues and autism but getting tickled puts me in literal pain and makes me cry I dislike it alot

    • @de72486
      @de72486 Год назад +2

      Very relatable. I hated that i couldn't breathe at all

    • @rosetta23
      @rosetta23 Год назад +4

      I remember biting my dads hands when he wouldnt stop tickling me

  • @Celtic_Cheesepuffs
    @Celtic_Cheesepuffs 2 года назад +49

    As a person who never had a father like this, this was euphoric. Just the mere fact that the child said no to the tickling and the father appreciated the absence of consent is next level for me. Not even counting the "I'm proud of you". Thank you so much for making this.

  • @theservicerose5949
    @theservicerose5949 3 года назад +157

    As someone who struggles to look at others in the eyes I appreciate the eye contact game and the praise afterwards made me so happy. Thank you.

  • @_holy__ghost
    @_holy__ghost 3 года назад +257

    after my dad admitting to my face that his emotional unavailability is a choice i REALLY needed this
    thank you so much for your wholesome content! you help more than you know

  • @Emilysnow2
    @Emilysnow2 2 года назад +37

    For someone who’s 15 and who’s father left before I was born, this is really comforting and amazing

  • @baby_angel5155
    @baby_angel5155 2 года назад +28

    I love the eye contact game. I have a hard time with eye contact and when you said "I'm proud of you" I almost cried.

  • @ssmaeee
    @ssmaeee 2 года назад +35

    i love how he smiled after he said "without a mom there's no you" 6:44

  • @cherryberryedits604
    @cherryberryedits604 Год назад +16

    sobbing so hard, never felt safe like this, never realized how hard it was on me having a emotionally unavailible father untill now, for the first time i feel comforted like this for my whole life, specially now after not talking to my dad for about 3 years. thank you

  • @fincy645
    @fincy645 3 года назад +53

    I feel so much lighter after bawling my eyes out to this. My father abandoned my family when I was 16, and I was forced to take care of my disabled mother and little brother. Thank you so much for this.

    • @straightwhitemale4374
      @straightwhitemale4374 3 года назад +3

      What terrible person , hopefully went molds into makes into better person he will ever be.

  • @achocolatewolf6365
    @achocolatewolf6365 3 года назад +164

    I have an abusive father and my relationship with my mother is complicated so this really helps make me feel alot better. Imagining what having a good father would be like is both heartbreaking and healing at the same time for me. So thank you so much for making this.

    • @localsuspect5506
      @localsuspect5506 3 года назад +9

      ah I very much relate. I’m 24 and havent heard from pops in over 5 years (my choice, he was awful) and this is really helping my inner child cope even all these years later. Wishing you much healing and much love my dear ❤️ You are worthy of love, and, those who make you feel you are not- simply not worth it we cant choose our family, but we can pick people who lift us up xoxoxo

    • @arnavdinker4411
      @arnavdinker4411 2 года назад

      IM SORRY YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT. JESUS LOVES YOU NO MATTER WHAT. I PRAY THAT HE GIVE YOU PEACE , LOVE, JOY AND HAPPINESS IN YOUR LIFE.

    • @rosetta23
      @rosetta23 Год назад

      My dad left 6 months ago

    • @sofieverhoeven5956
      @sofieverhoeven5956 11 месяцев назад

      I had the same thing so you're not alone

  • @waffle6172
    @waffle6172 3 года назад +213

    Thank you for this. I never really realized how sad I was with my dads absence in my life, And now it’s all just hitting me like a train. This was really comforting, I hope to see more videos like this. (Also I cried the whole time I was watching this lol)

    • @ASMRJeremiah
      @ASMRJeremiah  3 года назад +30

      Thank you so much for sharing Elsa. ❤️

  • @sunnykumab8
    @sunnykumab8 Год назад +9

    This made me cry... I wish my father was like this. He was never there for me and hearing you lovingly talk comforted me. Even small details like asking about interests and recalling your childhood stuff made me bawl my eyes out... Thank you

  • @mossetonic5698
    @mossetonic5698 3 года назад +76

    The fact that I actually just brushed my teeth with mint toothpaste, again wants me to tell the universe to please stop making me be intuitive like this!
    Also, he’s going to be such a great dad!!!

  • @jimenaortiz6330
    @jimenaortiz6330 2 года назад +14

    I never had a father figure, they never told me they were proud of me, I loved this video because it made me feel everything I had never felt, thank you ❤️

  • @namjoons1367
    @namjoons1367 2 года назад +70

    “I recommend we always stay on a regular sleep schedule”
    Me at 3 in the morning: yes, absolutely you’re right.

    • @ASMRJeremiah
      @ASMRJeremiah  2 года назад +15

      😂😂😂 I can definitely relate.

  • @sickleeee
    @sickleeee Год назад +6

    I'm turning 21 in just over a week from now, marking 18 years without a father in my life. You have no idea how much I needed this video. Thank you. Thank you so much.

  • @jkmaddox1539
    @jkmaddox1539 3 года назад +48

    him : "It's wayy pat your bedtime"
    me at 2:23 am : "What no... i dont sleep until 5 am"

  • @localsuspect5506
    @localsuspect5506 3 года назад +36

    Im doing this for my inner child; I find these very therapeutic! Thank you so so so so much ❤️

  • @od-vn9ws
    @od-vn9ws 3 года назад +8

    I've avoided clicking these videos because I didn't think I'd really get anything out of them, then you did the eye contact thing and smiled and said "good job! i'm really proud of you!" and I genuinely teared up. It's kind of embarrassing that something so simple was really touching but I guess that's just how it is.
    I appreciate you J. This is the internet so it's in a distant, one-sided way, but I appreciate you all the same.

  • @annelizesmith3136
    @annelizesmith3136 2 года назад +6

    This actually makes my inner child feel so safe and so loved.. I really needed this.

  • @bellsgotitnowft
    @bellsgotitnowft 10 месяцев назад +4

    This is sooo comforting. I wish dads were real

  • @aries_dragon_xd3671
    @aries_dragon_xd3671 2 года назад +23

    I’ve always been afraid of eye contact from adults and for the first time I felt safe and comfortable and as soon as you said I’m proud of you I nearly started crying

  • @tetisummer
    @tetisummer 2 года назад +12

    Thank you so much for this video, you're such a sweet person, it's really helpful for people with abusive or emotionally unavailable dads

  • @publiceditor7930
    @publiceditor7930 3 года назад +40

    Typing this is overwhelming. I never realized how important a father is in a kid’s life until I slept over my fiends house and automatically felt a void. My mother did an amazing job but I always wonder what it would be like…

  • @Dinky_Ghost
    @Dinky_Ghost 3 года назад +18

    Me and my dad never had a good relationship.....so watching this made me cry but you cant miss something that was never there you know...but watching this still makes me happy

  • @gracea0987
    @gracea0987 3 года назад +60

    Was that a cameo appearance from your wife? I was so surprised when I heard a different voice 😂 lovely video, very nicely put together.

  • @annakomaromi4246
    @annakomaromi4246 Год назад +5

    My dad used to do smell checks every night when i was small, but things have changed since then. Thanks for the nostalgia 💛

  • @saikosyth
    @saikosyth 10 месяцев назад +7

    got into a argument with my dad and he always says the most hurtful things he can so he can win and make me be quiet, i love pretending he is like this instead thank you for this

  • @animateduniverse720
    @animateduniverse720 Год назад +3

    I honestly cried really hard, I never had a comforting father in my life and as of recent I’ve been struggling with it, thank you for this.

  • @Angelwings706
    @Angelwings706 Год назад +6

    As someone that has a shity dad, this is so comforting. I really needed this tonight

  • @Glasseater-je6vx
    @Glasseater-je6vx 5 месяцев назад +2

    My dad was a dysfunctional alcoholic and was strange even when sober. This makes me finally feel like I have a stable father figure who I know won't hurt me or make me feel scared or leave me. Thanks for making this video, it really means a lot ❤

  • @alxssiaap1719
    @alxssiaap1719 Год назад +7

    I wished my father was like this when I was a kid , but he was always playing video games and barely speak to me and I don’t blame him , he struggled with depression for a long time , now he’s an amazing dad and he changed a lot , but I still wished that we had more moments like this when I was a child , but it’s a little late for that

  • @keeprkyd
    @keeprkyd 3 года назад +26

    I subbed to you just a couple weeks ago after finding your dad series, I’ve watched them all multiple times and I absolutely adore them. Everywhere from your kind smile to the realistic conversation you set up is just perfect. I was hoping you’d make another and I was eagerly waiting until I could finally get the chance to sleep to enjoy it. I pulled an all nighter last night and today was just so emotionally draining so I’ll probably be out within a minute but then I’ll just have an excuse to watch it again tomorrow haha. Seriously though, I really wish I had the words to tell you what these videos, what you, my good sir, mean to me. My dad and I don’t get along in the slightest and I’m terrified of him, yet I’m constantly craving a parent’s love. I could go on and on about how thankful I am that you’ve helped in such an impactful way on my recovering heart, but my eyes are begging to be closed. Goodnight, dad ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ghostedcats.
    @ghostedcats. 2 года назад +3

    i don’t get to see my dad as much anymore and this makes me so incredibly happy

  • @artisticanxiety6399
    @artisticanxiety6399 2 года назад +7

    I have a cold and im feeling like crap and missing my late dad. This helped me feel like he was almost here again. I miss him. Thank you.

  • @Shannon-vv6rr
    @Shannon-vv6rr Год назад +3

    Im 28. Idc he is a perfect daddy ❤️❤️❤️ soooo comforting 🥺

  • @pcgaming4944
    @pcgaming4944 3 года назад +11

    23:57 unreal tingles, could listen to these whispers for hours!

  • @anujithenabadu4276
    @anujithenabadu4276 Год назад +3

    I wish my father was like this I'm almost 18 now but I have never experienced this I'm so happy and grateful to come across this thank you so much.

  • @kratos-2546
    @kratos-2546 3 года назад +36

    Love the dad videos but it makes me sad also 😔

  • @Poeknow
    @Poeknow 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for bring to life a part of childhood I never experienced with my dad. He died almost 5 years ago. This was very soothing.

  • @RobloX_pLaYr
    @RobloX_pLaYr Год назад +2

    As someone who never had a dad around this felt so amazing to listen to

  • @water_bottle4233
    @water_bottle4233 Год назад +1

    Literally helps so much with the fact that my dad isnt present
    I wish i had a dad
    A good one
    Who cared

  • @acanoav00
    @acanoav00 Год назад +4

    After a months without my father 🕊️. I appreciated this ASMR for my emotional stability lately, I find it useful for my case. I hope for yours too! ^^

  • @ElolyaHuddlestone
    @ElolyaHuddlestone 16 дней назад

    Nobody in my family say "i'm proud of you" so i teared up, my father was never here for my brother and me so thank you so much for you videos, that's make me feel better 🫶🏻✨

  • @gaysarec00l
    @gaysarec00l 3 года назад +2

    This is undescribibly comforting as my father was and abusive alcoholic so I always was envious of my friends when I stayed with them. Seeing their dad's not beat them to the point of bleeding was strange. Thank you. Truly. This has brought me so much comfort.

  • @teenagerdaydream
    @teenagerdaydream 10 месяцев назад +1

    This makes me jealous because I never got a dad this nice. I love it. Thank you❤

  • @Lucindr
    @Lucindr Год назад +2

    ‘Past your bedtime’ me at 5:40am listening to this. Amazing video thank you ❤❤❤

  • @redactedlovebot5049
    @redactedlovebot5049 Год назад +1

    i’ve always felt weird to be on these videos because i have a dad, and he’s really nice, but i have absolutely no relationship with him and because he’s never had a dad i understand why he never knew how to grow one. it paired really badly with how often he used to tell me i needed to be skinnier and was always so nice to my other siblings, but he’s honestly a great person. i still always look for that kind of comfort everywhere else and stuff like this never fails to make me sob my eyes out. thank you so much. you deserve all the blessings the world has to offer you🫂

  • @effsssyy
    @effsssyy 5 месяцев назад +1

    im crying i wish he was here. thank you for this video

    • @Milykyuu
      @Milykyuu 4 месяца назад

      you’re loved❤

  • @persontuna759
    @persontuna759 Год назад +6

    Fuck, guys, I'm crying. Like, I'm like fucking Victoria Falls.

  • @WestLakeAngel
    @WestLakeAngel 3 года назад +6

    I love all the soothing fabric sounds and face brushing!

  • @theservicerose5949
    @theservicerose5949 2 года назад +2

    I just spent about 10 hours studying. I’m so very grateful for this to help me relax

  • @Erick-wy4rq
    @Erick-wy4rq 2 месяца назад

    I wish i could hug everyone who doesn’t have a dad for this simple care

  • @ameliacappelletti8921
    @ameliacappelletti8921 Год назад +2

    this is so comforting and SO much good, i love it so much as i never had something like this (even if, when i was a kid, i had a “good” relationship with my dad and now it’s getting better, but never had something like this either)

  • @ratos62
    @ratos62 3 года назад +3

    You make me feel what my dad made me feel when he comforted me as a kid. I find it interesting because what you achieved to make me feel comforted using only audio when my dad would make me feel instantly calmed with just physical contact

  • @Kaveh-w3f
    @Kaveh-w3f 9 месяцев назад +1

    Lots of times, i have to get high to sleep these days. These help when i can't or when i am high and need some company, thanks

  • @lazuruscarlos9363
    @lazuruscarlos9363 3 года назад +10

    New subscriber. Family
    Issues NEEDED THIS❤️ grateful

  • @redsv000
    @redsv000 2 года назад +2

    Your voice is very relaxing. I've been rewatching Gatsby ASMR for the comfort that gave me those ddlg/lb videos, but his channel disappeared so here I am. Glad to find channels with the same quality C:

  • @peihanqian5712
    @peihanqian5712 Год назад +1

    i haven’t seen dad for 20+ years, I cried😢

  • @maiaturkey453
    @maiaturkey453 Год назад +2

    the way i was half asleep and snapped wide awake when her said lets play the eye contact game i literally said no lik out loud

  • @dearangels09
    @dearangels09 Год назад

    I’ve cried at this video, and Karuna Satoris video. I thank both of you for making comforting videos like this.

  • @F1zzys0dxa
    @F1zzys0dxa 9 месяцев назад +4

    My father sexually assaulted me when i was 10. I trusted him with my life and heart. And now that he was arrested, It feels like its my fault. He was a comfort person to me, even after what he did. i miss him. But i know its wrong so i’ve tried to be distant. I’ve been mentally exhausted lately, and honestly this video brought me a lot of comfort.
    It made me feel loved. ^^

  • @Jazz12510
    @Jazz12510 16 дней назад

    Thank you so much as a person who never grow up a dad this help me really help me and heals my inner child….

  • @liapetiteaux5114
    @liapetiteaux5114 3 года назад +3

    The fact that most of my answers were coordinated with what you were about to say made me really happy ehe, thank you very much for this video

  • @S.G.dir.-ASMR
    @S.G.dir.-ASMR 3 года назад +11

    Oooh, so relaxing 😌. I fell asleep with this video yesterday night 😴. And I am a big kid, so this video is really suitable for the old child that I am 😅. My favorite chess piece is the "Rook" because I love castles 😅💚. And personally I am grateful for your videos, I am grateful for the confort you bring with you, I am grateful for the kindness you show 💚. Thank you jeremiah 🙏💚.

  • @prettiestaddict
    @prettiestaddict Год назад +1

    as a girl that grew up with no support from my parents or any comfort. this means sm to me

  • @ronimuurikainen1961
    @ronimuurikainen1961 3 года назад +5

    I would love a video of just 20:26 onward. It has put me to sleep without a fail 4 nights in a row😴

  • @youngsparrow7675
    @youngsparrow7675 Год назад +1

    Я не смогла найти больше таких видео. Поэтому растягиваю эти 30 минут на неделю. Сколько пролито слез... Спасибо вам большое.

  • @samnikolinagrekov561
    @samnikolinagrekov561 Год назад +1

    I'm 26 and I still needed this

  • @jjdaBigHomie
    @jjdaBigHomie 3 года назад +3

    Mommy: ASMR-SouthernBell
    Daddy: ASMR-Jeremiah

  • @BethanyStewart-p4p
    @BethanyStewart-p4p Год назад +1

    Thank you for your videos I grew up with out a dad so this meant too much

  • @jsianez22
    @jsianez22 3 года назад +2

    Solid content. I’m 27 yrs old & it brought me back.

  • @SlimeyBaron
    @SlimeyBaron 5 месяцев назад

    This is extremely comforting. I love my dad and weve recently reconnected after he sobered up, but i never really got to properly connect with him as a little kid

  • @xuelinlim8550
    @xuelinlim8550 5 месяцев назад +2

    IM LITERALLY CRYING when u say i love you ;(((

  • @Balladmason0
    @Balladmason0 7 месяцев назад +1

    It’s so comforting but sad the fact that my dad died in August, but the dad I knew died 2 years ago. This guy is super cool.

  • @jer0messimp228
    @jer0messimp228 2 года назад +2

    my issues were kicking me hardddd tonight and i literally needed this

  • @rainbowsandunicorns9196
    @rainbowsandunicorns9196 3 года назад +5

    Dada shushing me to sleep 😴😴😴🌈🦄🦄🦄❤️❤️

  • @Hosoeksveral13
    @Hosoeksveral13 2 года назад

    I got emotional and cried
    Thank you for this warm feeling I never experienced

  • @jrieg23
    @jrieg23 2 года назад +1

    I know you get this a lot but this really helps. I lost my dad when I was 14 and he was actually an alcoholic so it’s hard to remember the sweet times like this. So thank you for this

  • @YohanSantos_
    @YohanSantos_ Год назад

    I'm literally crying...thanks for this video...

  • @stuckinmyfeelings9082
    @stuckinmyfeelings9082 3 года назад +1

    Aww😔my dad passed away when I was ten I barely felt any love from him. Gotta say this video is really sweet and warmed my heart. I wish I can have someone love me like this oneday. Such an amazing video. made me feel being loved. ❤️

  • @courtneybrownelizabeth6947
    @courtneybrownelizabeth6947 Год назад +2

    Wow❤i love these videos, i love him , gives me the tingles ❤

  • @LeosGoofyAhh
    @LeosGoofyAhh 2 года назад +1

    I literally have such good parents and the “I’m proud of you”’s still got me tearing up a bit-

  • @Idk.ray0
    @Idk.ray0 Год назад +1

    i cried when he said he was proud, my parents never told me that

  • @ethanfranca1022
    @ethanfranca1022 Год назад +2

    Ik this video is two years old but i want you to know much it means to me. I have a father but he was never a dad to me. He never put me to bed, played with me, etc and was just abusive. I haven’t had any like real semblance of a positive male role model and I’ve had to do it on my own. This really helped me relax and feel somewhat like a safe child:

  • @xw7239
    @xw7239 8 месяцев назад +2

    My dad was a violent alcoholic, this video is very healing. Thank you

  • @jasminewynne
    @jasminewynne 2 года назад

    the video has barely started and i already know i’m gonna cry

  • @sugarhone9679
    @sugarhone9679 2 года назад

    my dad was never stable in my life, that cause me a lot of trouble growing up, i though that i was never going to be able to live this kind of experience but now i got it and i can rewatched anytime that i want, thank u

  • @win_roses
    @win_roses Год назад

    ik its the morning but I truely needed this. my dad isn't the best. hes mentally/emotionally abusive but he used to be like this and I miss it. so tysm for this video ❤

  • @cheryllann_
    @cheryllann_ 3 года назад +4

    Love these vids😍 youre gonna be a great dad someday🤗

  • @jjrose911z2
    @jjrose911z2 3 месяца назад +1

    Did anyone else cry threw out this video ❤️🥹❤️

  • @mmmmmmmmmmmmmm9350
    @mmmmmmmmmmmmmm9350 2 года назад +2

    the "everything will be okay"s just broke me

  • @Z._D1A
    @Z._D1A 2 года назад

    I don't think it's normal to burst out crying when I see happy families in public bro THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN ME!!!

  • @emmakelley3523
    @emmakelley3523 3 года назад +2

    Love the Vedio and love hearing Megan's voice and I'm putting this in my Sleepytime folder