As someone with an emotionally unavailable father. I really appreciate these videos. I may be an adult but it’s nice to feel taken care of. Keep up the awesome work!! 😊
i appreciate the “tickles! oh, no? okay” soooo much! i hate being tickled and no one ever stops when i tell them to stop. i’m an adult now so obviously it doesn’t happen very often but it did when i was a kid and i hated it but people, especially my grandad, would think i didn’t mean no bc i would laugh. so thank you so much for scripting an adult that actually listens when kids say no.
As a person who never had a father like this, this was euphoric. Just the mere fact that the child said no to the tickling and the father appreciated the absence of consent is next level for me. Not even counting the "I'm proud of you". Thank you so much for making this.
after my dad admitting to my face that his emotional unavailability is a choice i REALLY needed this thank you so much for your wholesome content! you help more than you know
sobbing so hard, never felt safe like this, never realized how hard it was on me having a emotionally unavailible father untill now, for the first time i feel comforted like this for my whole life, specially now after not talking to my dad for about 3 years. thank you
I feel so much lighter after bawling my eyes out to this. My father abandoned my family when I was 16, and I was forced to take care of my disabled mother and little brother. Thank you so much for this.
I have an abusive father and my relationship with my mother is complicated so this really helps make me feel alot better. Imagining what having a good father would be like is both heartbreaking and healing at the same time for me. So thank you so much for making this.
ah I very much relate. I’m 24 and havent heard from pops in over 5 years (my choice, he was awful) and this is really helping my inner child cope even all these years later. Wishing you much healing and much love my dear ❤️ You are worthy of love, and, those who make you feel you are not- simply not worth it we cant choose our family, but we can pick people who lift us up xoxoxo
Thank you for this. I never really realized how sad I was with my dads absence in my life, And now it’s all just hitting me like a train. This was really comforting, I hope to see more videos like this. (Also I cried the whole time I was watching this lol)
This made me cry... I wish my father was like this. He was never there for me and hearing you lovingly talk comforted me. Even small details like asking about interests and recalling your childhood stuff made me bawl my eyes out... Thank you
The fact that I actually just brushed my teeth with mint toothpaste, again wants me to tell the universe to please stop making me be intuitive like this! Also, he’s going to be such a great dad!!!
I never had a father figure, they never told me they were proud of me, I loved this video because it made me feel everything I had never felt, thank you ❤️
I'm turning 21 in just over a week from now, marking 18 years without a father in my life. You have no idea how much I needed this video. Thank you. Thank you so much.
I've avoided clicking these videos because I didn't think I'd really get anything out of them, then you did the eye contact thing and smiled and said "good job! i'm really proud of you!" and I genuinely teared up. It's kind of embarrassing that something so simple was really touching but I guess that's just how it is. I appreciate you J. This is the internet so it's in a distant, one-sided way, but I appreciate you all the same.
I’ve always been afraid of eye contact from adults and for the first time I felt safe and comfortable and as soon as you said I’m proud of you I nearly started crying
Typing this is overwhelming. I never realized how important a father is in a kid’s life until I slept over my fiends house and automatically felt a void. My mother did an amazing job but I always wonder what it would be like…
Me and my dad never had a good relationship.....so watching this made me cry but you cant miss something that was never there you know...but watching this still makes me happy
got into a argument with my dad and he always says the most hurtful things he can so he can win and make me be quiet, i love pretending he is like this instead thank you for this
My dad was a dysfunctional alcoholic and was strange even when sober. This makes me finally feel like I have a stable father figure who I know won't hurt me or make me feel scared or leave me. Thanks for making this video, it really means a lot ❤
I wished my father was like this when I was a kid , but he was always playing video games and barely speak to me and I don’t blame him , he struggled with depression for a long time , now he’s an amazing dad and he changed a lot , but I still wished that we had more moments like this when I was a child , but it’s a little late for that
I subbed to you just a couple weeks ago after finding your dad series, I’ve watched them all multiple times and I absolutely adore them. Everywhere from your kind smile to the realistic conversation you set up is just perfect. I was hoping you’d make another and I was eagerly waiting until I could finally get the chance to sleep to enjoy it. I pulled an all nighter last night and today was just so emotionally draining so I’ll probably be out within a minute but then I’ll just have an excuse to watch it again tomorrow haha. Seriously though, I really wish I had the words to tell you what these videos, what you, my good sir, mean to me. My dad and I don’t get along in the slightest and I’m terrified of him, yet I’m constantly craving a parent’s love. I could go on and on about how thankful I am that you’ve helped in such an impactful way on my recovering heart, but my eyes are begging to be closed. Goodnight, dad ❤️❤️❤️
Nobody in my family say "i'm proud of you" so i teared up, my father was never here for my brother and me so thank you so much for you videos, that's make me feel better 🫶🏻✨
This is undescribibly comforting as my father was and abusive alcoholic so I always was envious of my friends when I stayed with them. Seeing their dad's not beat them to the point of bleeding was strange. Thank you. Truly. This has brought me so much comfort.
i’ve always felt weird to be on these videos because i have a dad, and he’s really nice, but i have absolutely no relationship with him and because he’s never had a dad i understand why he never knew how to grow one. it paired really badly with how often he used to tell me i needed to be skinnier and was always so nice to my other siblings, but he’s honestly a great person. i still always look for that kind of comfort everywhere else and stuff like this never fails to make me sob my eyes out. thank you so much. you deserve all the blessings the world has to offer you🫂
this is so comforting and SO much good, i love it so much as i never had something like this (even if, when i was a kid, i had a “good” relationship with my dad and now it’s getting better, but never had something like this either)
You make me feel what my dad made me feel when he comforted me as a kid. I find it interesting because what you achieved to make me feel comforted using only audio when my dad would make me feel instantly calmed with just physical contact
Your voice is very relaxing. I've been rewatching Gatsby ASMR for the comfort that gave me those ddlg/lb videos, but his channel disappeared so here I am. Glad to find channels with the same quality C:
My father sexually assaulted me when i was 10. I trusted him with my life and heart. And now that he was arrested, It feels like its my fault. He was a comfort person to me, even after what he did. i miss him. But i know its wrong so i’ve tried to be distant. I’ve been mentally exhausted lately, and honestly this video brought me a lot of comfort. It made me feel loved. ^^
Oooh, so relaxing 😌. I fell asleep with this video yesterday night 😴. And I am a big kid, so this video is really suitable for the old child that I am 😅. My favorite chess piece is the "Rook" because I love castles 😅💚. And personally I am grateful for your videos, I am grateful for the confort you bring with you, I am grateful for the kindness you show 💚. Thank you jeremiah 🙏💚.
This is extremely comforting. I love my dad and weve recently reconnected after he sobered up, but i never really got to properly connect with him as a little kid
I know you get this a lot but this really helps. I lost my dad when I was 14 and he was actually an alcoholic so it’s hard to remember the sweet times like this. So thank you for this
Aww😔my dad passed away when I was ten I barely felt any love from him. Gotta say this video is really sweet and warmed my heart. I wish I can have someone love me like this oneday. Such an amazing video. made me feel being loved. ❤️
Ik this video is two years old but i want you to know much it means to me. I have a father but he was never a dad to me. He never put me to bed, played with me, etc and was just abusive. I haven’t had any like real semblance of a positive male role model and I’ve had to do it on my own. This really helped me relax and feel somewhat like a safe child:
my dad was never stable in my life, that cause me a lot of trouble growing up, i though that i was never going to be able to live this kind of experience but now i got it and i can rewatched anytime that i want, thank u
ik its the morning but I truely needed this. my dad isn't the best. hes mentally/emotionally abusive but he used to be like this and I miss it. so tysm for this video ❤
It’s embarrassing how comforting this is as someone who never grew up with a dad like this. You’re great
Same here brother. I know exactly how you feel
Same, but I had a step dad who way prefers his biological kids over me
I get this
Another fatherless figure
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As someone with an emotionally unavailable father. I really appreciate these videos. I may be an adult but it’s nice to feel taken care of. Keep up the awesome work!! 😊
Same here
just get a dad lol
@@steezy8988 they do have a dad, she stated he's emotionally unavailable
@@steezy8988 tf? how ☠️
@@steezy8988 no.❤
I teared up when you said, "I'm proud of you." I've never had a father figure or anyone say it to me really. Thank you for these videos.
I was crying since it started
Yeah!!
Omg same
My dad was in my life physically but he was very neglectful, this made me cry, you are the dad I have always wanted
This is pure enough to make a grown man cry .
I’m going to do this for my child bcz i never had anything like this
I’m sure you’ll be a great father.
please do, i never grew up with the best family and i really hope nobody else has to deal with it too
And that's okay 😢
why am i crying?? thank u for helping out kids like me with emotionally unavailable dads
🥺 So glad it helped.
Its me🙁
i appreciate the “tickles! oh, no? okay” soooo much! i hate being tickled and no one ever stops when i tell them to stop. i’m an adult now so obviously it doesn’t happen very often but it did when i was a kid and i hated it but people, especially my grandad, would think i didn’t mean no bc i would laugh. so thank you so much for scripting an adult that actually listens when kids say no.
tickling makes me want to cry, i appreciate him scripting that sm
it's probably from my sensory issues and autism but getting tickled puts me in literal pain and makes me cry I dislike it alot
Very relatable. I hated that i couldn't breathe at all
I remember biting my dads hands when he wouldnt stop tickling me
As a person who never had a father like this, this was euphoric. Just the mere fact that the child said no to the tickling and the father appreciated the absence of consent is next level for me. Not even counting the "I'm proud of you". Thank you so much for making this.
As someone who struggles to look at others in the eyes I appreciate the eye contact game and the praise afterwards made me so happy. Thank you.
after my dad admitting to my face that his emotional unavailability is a choice i REALLY needed this
thank you so much for your wholesome content! you help more than you know
For someone who’s 15 and who’s father left before I was born, this is really comforting and amazing
I love the eye contact game. I have a hard time with eye contact and when you said "I'm proud of you" I almost cried.
i love how he smiled after he said "without a mom there's no you" 6:44
sobbing so hard, never felt safe like this, never realized how hard it was on me having a emotionally unavailible father untill now, for the first time i feel comforted like this for my whole life, specially now after not talking to my dad for about 3 years. thank you
I feel so much lighter after bawling my eyes out to this. My father abandoned my family when I was 16, and I was forced to take care of my disabled mother and little brother. Thank you so much for this.
What terrible person , hopefully went molds into makes into better person he will ever be.
I have an abusive father and my relationship with my mother is complicated so this really helps make me feel alot better. Imagining what having a good father would be like is both heartbreaking and healing at the same time for me. So thank you so much for making this.
ah I very much relate. I’m 24 and havent heard from pops in over 5 years (my choice, he was awful) and this is really helping my inner child cope even all these years later. Wishing you much healing and much love my dear ❤️ You are worthy of love, and, those who make you feel you are not- simply not worth it we cant choose our family, but we can pick people who lift us up xoxoxo
IM SORRY YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT. JESUS LOVES YOU NO MATTER WHAT. I PRAY THAT HE GIVE YOU PEACE , LOVE, JOY AND HAPPINESS IN YOUR LIFE.
My dad left 6 months ago
I had the same thing so you're not alone
Thank you for this. I never really realized how sad I was with my dads absence in my life, And now it’s all just hitting me like a train. This was really comforting, I hope to see more videos like this. (Also I cried the whole time I was watching this lol)
Thank you so much for sharing Elsa. ❤️
This made me cry... I wish my father was like this. He was never there for me and hearing you lovingly talk comforted me. Even small details like asking about interests and recalling your childhood stuff made me bawl my eyes out... Thank you
The fact that I actually just brushed my teeth with mint toothpaste, again wants me to tell the universe to please stop making me be intuitive like this!
Also, he’s going to be such a great dad!!!
I never had a father figure, they never told me they were proud of me, I loved this video because it made me feel everything I had never felt, thank you ❤️
“I recommend we always stay on a regular sleep schedule”
Me at 3 in the morning: yes, absolutely you’re right.
😂😂😂 I can definitely relate.
I'm turning 21 in just over a week from now, marking 18 years without a father in my life. You have no idea how much I needed this video. Thank you. Thank you so much.
him : "It's wayy pat your bedtime"
me at 2:23 am : "What no... i dont sleep until 5 am"
Im doing this for my inner child; I find these very therapeutic! Thank you so so so so much ❤️
I've avoided clicking these videos because I didn't think I'd really get anything out of them, then you did the eye contact thing and smiled and said "good job! i'm really proud of you!" and I genuinely teared up. It's kind of embarrassing that something so simple was really touching but I guess that's just how it is.
I appreciate you J. This is the internet so it's in a distant, one-sided way, but I appreciate you all the same.
This actually makes my inner child feel so safe and so loved.. I really needed this.
This is sooo comforting. I wish dads were real
I’ve always been afraid of eye contact from adults and for the first time I felt safe and comfortable and as soon as you said I’m proud of you I nearly started crying
I am 25 and I can relate. 😢
Thank you so much for this video, you're such a sweet person, it's really helpful for people with abusive or emotionally unavailable dads
🥺 Thank you so much.
Typing this is overwhelming. I never realized how important a father is in a kid’s life until I slept over my fiends house and automatically felt a void. My mother did an amazing job but I always wonder what it would be like…
Me and my dad never had a good relationship.....so watching this made me cry but you cant miss something that was never there you know...but watching this still makes me happy
Was that a cameo appearance from your wife? I was so surprised when I heard a different voice 😂 lovely video, very nicely put together.
My dad used to do smell checks every night when i was small, but things have changed since then. Thanks for the nostalgia 💛
got into a argument with my dad and he always says the most hurtful things he can so he can win and make me be quiet, i love pretending he is like this instead thank you for this
I honestly cried really hard, I never had a comforting father in my life and as of recent I’ve been struggling with it, thank you for this.
As someone that has a shity dad, this is so comforting. I really needed this tonight
My dad was a dysfunctional alcoholic and was strange even when sober. This makes me finally feel like I have a stable father figure who I know won't hurt me or make me feel scared or leave me. Thanks for making this video, it really means a lot ❤
I wished my father was like this when I was a kid , but he was always playing video games and barely speak to me and I don’t blame him , he struggled with depression for a long time , now he’s an amazing dad and he changed a lot , but I still wished that we had more moments like this when I was a child , but it’s a little late for that
I subbed to you just a couple weeks ago after finding your dad series, I’ve watched them all multiple times and I absolutely adore them. Everywhere from your kind smile to the realistic conversation you set up is just perfect. I was hoping you’d make another and I was eagerly waiting until I could finally get the chance to sleep to enjoy it. I pulled an all nighter last night and today was just so emotionally draining so I’ll probably be out within a minute but then I’ll just have an excuse to watch it again tomorrow haha. Seriously though, I really wish I had the words to tell you what these videos, what you, my good sir, mean to me. My dad and I don’t get along in the slightest and I’m terrified of him, yet I’m constantly craving a parent’s love. I could go on and on about how thankful I am that you’ve helped in such an impactful way on my recovering heart, but my eyes are begging to be closed. Goodnight, dad ❤️❤️❤️
i don’t get to see my dad as much anymore and this makes me so incredibly happy
I have a cold and im feeling like crap and missing my late dad. This helped me feel like he was almost here again. I miss him. Thank you.
u dont have me
Im 28. Idc he is a perfect daddy ❤️❤️❤️ soooo comforting 🥺
23:57 unreal tingles, could listen to these whispers for hours!
I wish my father was like this I'm almost 18 now but I have never experienced this I'm so happy and grateful to come across this thank you so much.
Love the dad videos but it makes me sad also 😔
Thank you for bring to life a part of childhood I never experienced with my dad. He died almost 5 years ago. This was very soothing.
As someone who never had a dad around this felt so amazing to listen to
Literally helps so much with the fact that my dad isnt present
I wish i had a dad
A good one
Who cared
After a months without my father 🕊️. I appreciated this ASMR for my emotional stability lately, I find it useful for my case. I hope for yours too! ^^
Nobody in my family say "i'm proud of you" so i teared up, my father was never here for my brother and me so thank you so much for you videos, that's make me feel better 🫶🏻✨
This is undescribibly comforting as my father was and abusive alcoholic so I always was envious of my friends when I stayed with them. Seeing their dad's not beat them to the point of bleeding was strange. Thank you. Truly. This has brought me so much comfort.
This makes me jealous because I never got a dad this nice. I love it. Thank you❤
‘Past your bedtime’ me at 5:40am listening to this. Amazing video thank you ❤❤❤
i’ve always felt weird to be on these videos because i have a dad, and he’s really nice, but i have absolutely no relationship with him and because he’s never had a dad i understand why he never knew how to grow one. it paired really badly with how often he used to tell me i needed to be skinnier and was always so nice to my other siblings, but he’s honestly a great person. i still always look for that kind of comfort everywhere else and stuff like this never fails to make me sob my eyes out. thank you so much. you deserve all the blessings the world has to offer you🫂
im crying i wish he was here. thank you for this video
you’re loved❤
Fuck, guys, I'm crying. Like, I'm like fucking Victoria Falls.
I love all the soothing fabric sounds and face brushing!
I just spent about 10 hours studying. I’m so very grateful for this to help me relax
I wish i could hug everyone who doesn’t have a dad for this simple care
this is so comforting and SO much good, i love it so much as i never had something like this (even if, when i was a kid, i had a “good” relationship with my dad and now it’s getting better, but never had something like this either)
You make me feel what my dad made me feel when he comforted me as a kid. I find it interesting because what you achieved to make me feel comforted using only audio when my dad would make me feel instantly calmed with just physical contact
Lots of times, i have to get high to sleep these days. These help when i can't or when i am high and need some company, thanks
New subscriber. Family
Issues NEEDED THIS❤️ grateful
So glad this helped Lazurus.
Your voice is very relaxing. I've been rewatching Gatsby ASMR for the comfort that gave me those ddlg/lb videos, but his channel disappeared so here I am. Glad to find channels with the same quality C:
i haven’t seen dad for 20+ years, I cried😢
the way i was half asleep and snapped wide awake when her said lets play the eye contact game i literally said no lik out loud
I’ve cried at this video, and Karuna Satoris video. I thank both of you for making comforting videos like this.
My father sexually assaulted me when i was 10. I trusted him with my life and heart. And now that he was arrested, It feels like its my fault. He was a comfort person to me, even after what he did. i miss him. But i know its wrong so i’ve tried to be distant. I’ve been mentally exhausted lately, and honestly this video brought me a lot of comfort.
It made me feel loved. ^^
Thank you so much as a person who never grow up a dad this help me really help me and heals my inner child….
The fact that most of my answers were coordinated with what you were about to say made me really happy ehe, thank you very much for this video
Oooh, so relaxing 😌. I fell asleep with this video yesterday night 😴. And I am a big kid, so this video is really suitable for the old child that I am 😅. My favorite chess piece is the "Rook" because I love castles 😅💚. And personally I am grateful for your videos, I am grateful for the confort you bring with you, I am grateful for the kindness you show 💚. Thank you jeremiah 🙏💚.
as a girl that grew up with no support from my parents or any comfort. this means sm to me
I would love a video of just 20:26 onward. It has put me to sleep without a fail 4 nights in a row😴
Я не смогла найти больше таких видео. Поэтому растягиваю эти 30 минут на неделю. Сколько пролито слез... Спасибо вам большое.
I'm 26 and I still needed this
Mommy: ASMR-SouthernBell
Daddy: ASMR-Jeremiah
Thank you for your videos I grew up with out a dad so this meant too much
Solid content. I’m 27 yrs old & it brought me back.
This is extremely comforting. I love my dad and weve recently reconnected after he sobered up, but i never really got to properly connect with him as a little kid
IM LITERALLY CRYING when u say i love you ;(((
It’s so comforting but sad the fact that my dad died in August, but the dad I knew died 2 years ago. This guy is super cool.
my issues were kicking me hardddd tonight and i literally needed this
Dada shushing me to sleep 😴😴😴🌈🦄🦄🦄❤️❤️
I got emotional and cried
Thank you for this warm feeling I never experienced
I know you get this a lot but this really helps. I lost my dad when I was 14 and he was actually an alcoholic so it’s hard to remember the sweet times like this. So thank you for this
I'm literally crying...thanks for this video...
Aww😔my dad passed away when I was ten I barely felt any love from him. Gotta say this video is really sweet and warmed my heart. I wish I can have someone love me like this oneday. Such an amazing video. made me feel being loved. ❤️
Wow❤i love these videos, i love him , gives me the tingles ❤
I literally have such good parents and the “I’m proud of you”’s still got me tearing up a bit-
i cried when he said he was proud, my parents never told me that
Ik this video is two years old but i want you to know much it means to me. I have a father but he was never a dad to me. He never put me to bed, played with me, etc and was just abusive. I haven’t had any like real semblance of a positive male role model and I’ve had to do it on my own. This really helped me relax and feel somewhat like a safe child:
My dad was a violent alcoholic, this video is very healing. Thank you
the video has barely started and i already know i’m gonna cry
my dad was never stable in my life, that cause me a lot of trouble growing up, i though that i was never going to be able to live this kind of experience but now i got it and i can rewatched anytime that i want, thank u
ik its the morning but I truely needed this. my dad isn't the best. hes mentally/emotionally abusive but he used to be like this and I miss it. so tysm for this video ❤
Love these vids😍 youre gonna be a great dad someday🤗
Did anyone else cry threw out this video ❤️🥹❤️
the "everything will be okay"s just broke me
I don't think it's normal to burst out crying when I see happy families in public bro THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN ME!!!
Love the Vedio and love hearing Megan's voice and I'm putting this in my Sleepytime folder