I'm constantly putting myself down because my friends always get things so easily that I've always wanted. They get new expensive clothes, new iPhones, etc. and i know it sounds stupid but I get so upset. Also all of these girls look so pretty and I can never seem to be happy with myself. I'm constantly trying to hard to look like others and afterwards I break down. I really need to stop. Thanks for making this video ❤️
You have such a way with words that resonates with me. " Confidence is a quiet thing. It comes from within. It's the things you do when you're all alone and no one's watching." Wow, that's some powerful sh*t. Thanks for existing and having this wonderful channel. It's very helpful.
Coming back to this video because I don't know where those ugly feelings came from:( I was on a high vibe and suddenly I was crying because I looked at a pic of a friend and felt completely... Weird. Thank you Isabel! 💕
You’re so pretty ❤️ I love your videos. Lately I’ve been feeling very insecure and I saw my bf liking other girls pictures and it made me so sad. I was so upset for hours. I hate feeling insecure. :(
I love your video because I realized I straightened my hair to look like other girls that I consider pretty. But I don't need to look like them, I must love myself.
you helped me so much right now! I'll try not to compare myself to others girls because it destroys me, my mental health and people around me are sad about it and they are trying their best. I love myself and I can't do this anymore. If someone is struggling with this, I just want to say that you are strong and at the end it will only make you a better and stronger person. Life is really short and don't waste any minute by thinking that you are not good enough. EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL, SMART, TALENTED AND LOVED :)
Sibling rivalry is tough at times... even if you are of course happy for your sister or brother, we then to compare who had bought a house, who's partnered up, what jobs, what salary, kids or not. Tough when close in age
Listening to you makes me feel I have someone to be there for me. ♥️ sometimes it’s straight 4 5 hors i listen to you while doing other work ♥️ I am grateful and appreciate your and all the people like you on youtube.
Thank you for sharing from such a genuine stand point. I'm new to RUclips and have fluctuated with motivation, I can share with you that this made a difference in my life today. Thank you, Isabel. ✨💕
This video needs more views. Thank you for being a gift to this world by spreading kindness. We need more people to love themselves and to be kind to one another. You are awesome and keep on making these beautiful videos!
I've recently discovered your channel and I just wanted to let you know how great you are! I love your videos and my mood is always lifted after watching them. I really needed this video. I'm going through a hard time right now and this really helped :)
I close my eyes and listen to your videos every night before bed and wake up with such confidence and a positive vibe. I rarely have the patience to listen to/watch any video over 10 minutes but I could go through your videos all day. Thank you ❤
This helped me a little. But I'm still stuck. I've always had self confidence and have always been proud of myself. But after seeing my friends accomplish everything. They get good grades and act like they didn't even try. They end up becoming besties with all of my friends and exclude me from MY OWN friend group. They don't do these things on purpose. We that's what I think. But after one of my friends constantly being PERFECT has made me have low self esteem and has made me less confident in myself. It's not about my body or how ugly I think I look because I love myself but this one friend is my BEST friend, and they seem to have everything everyone anything. And I seem to have nothing and no one. I want to stay friends with this person because we have a wonderful friends friendship but tbh I CAN'T stop comparing myself to this person.
I don't compare myself to models cus I know it's not real and it's photoshop , but I compare myself a lot to this long known acquaintance of mine , I just wish I could be as pretty as her and I'm jealous 😭
Capn.celyy You must know how pretty you are, from the outside and from the inside. Maybe she has her insecurities and does she wants to be like u. Accept who you are and love yourself ❤
I love you! I need to watch and re-watch this video whenever I feel bad about myself (which happens a lot since I haven't yet conquered not comparing myself to others). Thanks again Isabel!
I love everything you said Isabel and I agree. However I feel in a way when you say, "Be yourself" that is kind of a paradox because we are always constantly changing. I would rather you suggest, "Love God with all your heart, mind and soul by loving your neighbor as yourself." You can never go wrong keeping God first and loving God first! Especially if your are Christian. Because at the end of the day you have to realize this: who we are is always constantly changing due to our beliefs, experiences and values. Not judging just suggesting. Keep doing what you do, spreading joy and blessing lives. God bless you!
I completely understand what you mean & I agree that we are changing! However, when I say to 'stay true to yourself' or 'be yourself' I simply mean that we shouldn't do things to just fit in or appease others. It has nothing to do with loving or not loving others. As a Christian myself, I stay true to my values no matter what I go through in life. If you stand for nothing, you fall for anything. That's all that meant :) Thanks for watching!
Thank you for your response! I get where you are coming from now. You are implying that we should "Stand on and by our morals and values, no matter what happens." I get that and I respect that. Truly I do! However, I was stating that "Loving God is the root to everything! And the way you love God is by first receiving love from Him." We must all first understand that you can't give something you don't have. Therefore, if you don't have love (God is Love.) then you can't give love. I believe everything has to do with us loving God and loving others, because God can't judge us by loving angels he will judge us by our love towards each other. I believe if you don't stand for something then you will fall for anything. That's why I stand for and on God's ALFA LOVE/Perfect Love talking about in 1 John 4:10 and 2 John 1:6. We must walk in His love and be a representation of love for the world to see! Thank you again. God bless you but most importantly be the blessing :)
Thank you so much for your video :-). Ive been feeling worthless because life hasnt turned out the way I wanted and I get such low self-esteem to the exxtent I feel like I want to be somebody else and not me. Please keep making these, they are so fantastic. Thank you so much.
I really do appreciate your words. I have been struggling from self esteem. Partly cause I'm just human but also I have postpartum depression and it doesn't help. You are an inspiration and I will truly take your advice.
I've been in such a rut. My self esteem/ self love has been very low lately. ugh I needed this , thank you so much!!!! 💕 Im taking a loooong break from Instagram✌
Thank you for this!! Would you be able to do a video on "how to block out or deal with negative people/friends in your life" ? It would help me out so much right now!!
I already have a video up on a similar topic here if you haven't seen it! ruclips.net/video/mqF_CjrCr5c/видео.html But I can definitely do one specifically about negative people in your life :)
...you’re like one of the most positive people on RUclips and you have haters?? Damn what is wrong with people lol? I will never understand why people talk shit when there’s NO REASON to say it... other than jealousy and insecurities. That just blasts to the world how much they hate themselves. Keep doing you girl! You’ve helped me so much! Love love love you xoxoxo
You really touched me in this video. Thank you so much!!! I do create inspirational videos as well but I love to watch you because we have different flavors and unique approach/perspective on things. That’s the beauty of this world. We can all complement each other without all the unhealthy competition. Love lots, C.
I'm having a very difficult day - its the 2nd day on a break with my bf; waiting for my 2nd surgery to get my knee fixed and im currently in lots of pain right now which pain killers cannot help anymore; family member recently passed away - but your video really helped me feel better. I want to say thank you so much - its my first time to watch your videos on your channel, somehow youtube it recommended me to watch one of your law of attractions videos, it leads me here, i want to say thank you - you are a good example for girls out there, you motivated me to start doing my gratitude journals again, im gonna follow you on IG as well, hope you have a wonderful day xxx
i recently watch your amazing videos. you are so amazing and you are a lovely lady. you really help me to being more confident and heppiness. i feel i'm pretty cool girl after listening to your advices. really thank you beauty lady💓
I just truly love you..your amazing and I'm starting the advice you just gave me today , and if who ever else sees this comment and needs extra strength ..You can do it Beautiful ..DREAM BIG PRINCESS 💕💕PEACE & LOVE ✊💓
Thank you so much this video made me cry It really was helpful and I would love to see more I have been having self confidence issues for a year or more bow and this made me realize I need to get over myself and start working on making it better my mom always says love yourself and I never knew what she meant now I do and I will try my hardest thank you so much this was the first video I've ever seen if yours and u really want to watch more💕💕
love u! i watch all your videos again and again you're like a sister to me You deserve so much subscribers cause you're one of the most important person in my life cause you help me to be happy and that's incredible
Wow !! Your so confident ❤️ Your so amazing and inspiring thank you for making me feel good about myself and feel like I'm worth something ❤️ Love you and I just subscribed to you !!
I love your advice so much and it has helped me a lot 😭 I remember when I first started working, I felt so inadequate compared to other co-workers and I would watch your videos before every shift and they helped me to start a positive note to my day so thank you ❤️
You're like a real Disney princess in real life who give us super great advice 😆
Haha thank you, this is too cute! Much love beautiful!
@@IsabelPalacios no one will hate you cause your saying those facts.
Why can't she be like a real CEO who gives good advice? This is 2021!
I hate that I have to see someone who's life is worse then mine just to feel good about myself. its always a competition to me.
I'm constantly putting myself down because my friends always get things so easily that I've always wanted. They get new expensive clothes, new iPhones, etc. and i know it sounds stupid but I get so upset. Also all of these girls look so pretty and I can never seem to be happy with myself. I'm constantly trying to hard to look like others and afterwards I break down. I really need to stop. Thanks for making this video ❤️
Hannah Marie you I are a lovely young lady and have your life.you for this. Write back if you want to talk.
Hannah Marie SAME!!
You have such a way with words that resonates with me. " Confidence is a quiet thing. It comes from within. It's the things you do when you're all alone and no one's watching." Wow, that's some powerful sh*t. Thanks for existing and having this wonderful channel. It's very helpful.
Can we just take a moment for Isabel's beauty , she's honestly so stunning 💕
Coming back to this video because I don't know where those ugly feelings came from:( I was on a high vibe and suddenly I was crying because I looked at a pic of a friend and felt completely... Weird. Thank you Isabel! 💕
I know this is 3 years old but I really needed this today. Thank you, this video is still helping other people 💕
Taking a break from socail media is what I beileve to be the #1 great way to train your self to stop comparing yourself ro others.
You’re so pretty ❤️ I love your videos. Lately I’ve been feeling very insecure and I saw my bf liking other girls pictures and it made me so sad. I was so upset for hours. I hate feeling insecure. :(
The most important thing is what’s in your heart not the people
I have been bing watching you for days, you're such a beautiful soul !
I'm doing it now ;)
I love your video because I realized I straightened my hair to look like other girls that I consider pretty. But I don't need to look like them, I must love myself.
Gabriella Souza do Couto your hair is absolutely gorgeous!
you helped me so much right now! I'll try not to compare myself to others girls because it destroys me, my mental health and people around me are sad about it and they are trying their best. I love myself and I can't do this anymore.
If someone is struggling with this, I just want to say that you are strong and at the end it will only make you a better and stronger person. Life is really short and don't waste any minute by thinking that you are not good enough. EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL, SMART, TALENTED AND LOVED :)
I was crying after this because all of my inner being is comprised of insecurities and I didn't now what to do. Thank you so much.
this is amazing, thank you for making us feel good💕
Of course my love!
Isabel Palacios keep being amazing in your own way
I wish I felt good enough for myself. i have BDD, and really struggle. you are absolutely amazing. i compare myself to you, but that is my issue.
this was SO refreshing. needed to hear this✨thank you💕😌
Thank you for watching love! Means a lot!
"you are the perfect you" is what my fav youtuber told me and everything she has told us is so true and meaning full. thankyou
I love this.. Really needed this right now. Thank you so much xx.
I'm so happy to hear that, Cassidy! Much love!
Isabel Palacios you do a great job with advice videos
You are a sweetheart Isabel...Thank you.😘♥️😘
I was feeling low today and came to this video to help.🦋
She has inadvertently become my go-to for self-cares, confidence, etc., and I’m not mad about it.
You inspire me to be my self and to embrace who i really am😊
Sibling rivalry is tough at times... even if you are of course happy for your sister or brother, we then to compare who had bought a house, who's partnered up, what jobs, what salary, kids or not. Tough when close in age
i actually teared up multiple times during the video because it feels like you're actually talking to me and it helps so much
"You're going to feel bad about yourself"
I'm lesbian so I'm just like: "dang, she's cute."
*awkward laughing*
"Go ahead and be a hotdawg."
This was great, haha, thank you for sharing. I needed this.
Amen to that!
Your channel is amazing! It's so informative and truly dedicated to spreading the message. Subscribed!
Aww, thank you so much, Isabel!
I don’t even know how to explain how much this video changed my view on myself. Thank you so much!!!!
That's so great to hear Annelise. Honestly comparison is an ongoing battle. I made a video similar to this one. You might want to check it out. :)
Listening to you makes me feel I have someone to be there for me.
♥️ sometimes it’s straight 4 5 hors i listen to you while doing other work ♥️
I am grateful and appreciate your and all the people like you on youtube.
Thank you for sharing from such a genuine stand point. I'm new to RUclips and have fluctuated with motivation, I can share with you that this made a difference in my life today. Thank you, Isabel. ✨💕
THANK YOU! That's really what I needed to hear to start my day, love you girl xo
Love YOU! So happy it helped! :)
This video needs more views. Thank you for being a gift to this world by spreading kindness. We need more people to love themselves and to be kind to one another.
You are awesome and keep on making these beautiful videos!
People can be really mean and hurt with words and make you feel bad about your look
I've recently discovered your channel and I just wanted to let you know how great you are! I love your videos and my mood is always lifted after watching them. I really needed this video. I'm going through a hard time right now and this really helped :)
Aww thank you Diane! Your comment means a lot to me :) I will continue making videos like this. Wish you all the best love, keep your head up!
Thanks! :)
I’m going to save this so I can hear this every time I feel self conscious with low self esteem. Thank you so much for making this video.
We need more People like u on youtube. ive been following u for a while and u r such a WONDERFUL person.. keep doing vidéos! Love u Isabel😙😙❤❤❤
Thank you beautiful! I appreciate your support! Love you!
I close my eyes and listen to your videos every night before bed and wake up with such confidence and a positive vibe. I rarely have the patience to listen to/watch any video over 10 minutes but I could go through your videos all day. Thank you ❤
Isabel you are the angel who taught me my worth... ❤ love you
Thanks so much for this video I was crying like the whole time. Thanks ❤❤❤
You are beautiful inside and out! Thank you for this sincere video. Hugs xx
This helped me a little. But I'm still stuck. I've always had self confidence and have always been proud of myself. But after seeing my friends accomplish everything. They get good grades and act like they didn't even try. They end up becoming besties with all of my friends and exclude me from MY OWN friend group. They don't do these things on purpose. We that's what I think. But after one of my friends constantly being PERFECT has made me have low self esteem and has made me less confident in myself. It's not about my body or how ugly I think I look because I love myself but this one friend is my BEST friend, and they seem to have everything everyone anything. And I seem to have nothing and no one. I want to stay friends with this person because we have a wonderful friends friendship but tbh I CAN'T stop comparing myself to this person.
You are the best!!! Listen up, YOU'RE THE BEST ❤️
thank you so much sweetheart ...GOD bless u
I don't compare myself to models cus I know it's not real and it's photoshop , but I compare myself a lot to this long known acquaintance of mine , I just wish I could be as pretty as her and I'm jealous 😭
Capn.celyy You must know how pretty you are, from the outside and from the inside. Maybe she has her insecurities and does she wants to be like u. Accept who you are and love yourself ❤
Susan - thank you 💓
GamingwithShevy thank you so much made my day 😭❤️
Capn.celyy i do this to one of my friends too and it hurts when i think about how easily she can get guys, expensive clothes, and friends. It sucks :(
I love you! I need to watch and re-watch this video whenever I feel bad about myself (which happens a lot since I haven't yet conquered not comparing myself to others). Thanks again Isabel!
I really wanna go to Sweden someday! Definitely on my list. And never feel bad about yourself, love. You are more powerful & beautiful than you know!
you truly are a beautiful person, I learn a lot from you. xoxo
Thank you Sherry! I appreciate it! Much love
You are Amazing!!! You are one smart cookie! So glad I found your channel❤️
You are amazing 💙
Why the dislikes she’s just trying help us and give tips 👀🤦🏻♀️
🎉😊
Self confidence#🌺
Black beauty 🍶
This video really touches me at this time in my life . I needed to hear exactly this💕
I love everything you said Isabel and I agree. However I feel in a way when you say, "Be yourself" that is kind of a paradox because we are always constantly changing. I would rather you suggest, "Love God with all your heart, mind and soul by loving your neighbor as yourself." You can never go wrong keeping God first and loving God first! Especially if your are Christian. Because at the end of the day you have to realize this: who we are is always constantly changing due to our beliefs, experiences and values. Not judging just suggesting. Keep doing what you do, spreading joy and blessing lives. God bless you!
I completely understand what you mean & I agree that we are changing! However, when I say to 'stay true to yourself' or 'be yourself' I simply mean that we shouldn't do things to just fit in or appease others. It has nothing to do with loving or not loving others. As a Christian myself, I stay true to my values no matter what I go through in life. If you stand for nothing, you fall for anything. That's all that meant :) Thanks for watching!
Thank you for your response! I get where you are coming from now. You are implying that we should "Stand on and by our morals and values, no matter what happens." I get that and I respect that. Truly I do! However, I was stating that "Loving God is the root to everything! And the way you love God is by first receiving love from Him." We must all first understand that you can't give something you don't have. Therefore, if you don't have love (God is Love.) then you can't give love. I believe everything has to do with us loving God and loving others, because God can't judge us by loving angels he will judge us by our love towards each other. I believe if you don't stand for something then you will fall for anything. That's why I stand for and on God's ALFA LOVE/Perfect Love talking about in 1 John 4:10 and 2 John 1:6. We must walk in His love and be a representation of love for the world to see! Thank you again. God bless you but most importantly be the blessing :)
Thank you so much for your video :-). Ive been feeling worthless because life hasnt turned out the way I wanted and I get such low self-esteem to the exxtent I feel like I want to be somebody else and not me. Please keep making these, they are so fantastic. Thank you so much.
Thank you for making our days brighter with your inspirational mindset!
you have such a beautiful soul
Thank you gorgeous! I appreciate it :)
You're such an inspirational person! Thankyou xx
Hahaha
Amen!!! ❤❤❤ You are a doll! Thank you for this, beautiful!
I was a hotdog for Christmas.
MS SAVANNAH gold 👌🏼
This video really helped me ☺️ Thank you girl!
Thank you so much 😍
I stumbled across your videos the other day. I love you channel and your inspiring me to start my own. Keep it up beautiful! ❤
I really do appreciate your words. I have been struggling from self esteem. Partly cause I'm just human but also I have postpartum depression and it doesn't help. You are an inspiration and I will truly take your advice.
I just started watching your videos and I love them! You're extremely wise
Isabel Palacios How can somebody say your not pretty! Your beautiful inside out.. keep embracing yourself 💖☀️
Thank you so much Isabel you help me a lot building my self confidence 😉🤠💜💜💜
I've been in such a rut. My self esteem/ self love has been very low lately. ugh I needed this , thank you so much!!!! 💕 Im taking a loooong break from Instagram✌
You are amazing 😊 I love your videos, youre such an inspiration. Thank you so much for making videos like these theyre so helpful xxx 💕💕
Absolutely love your self tips videos they really make me see myself in another more positive perspective thank you ❤️❤️
Thank you for this!! Would you be able to do a video on "how to block out or deal with negative people/friends in your life" ? It would help me out so much right now!!
I already have a video up on a similar topic here if you haven't seen it! ruclips.net/video/mqF_CjrCr5c/видео.html But I can definitely do one specifically about negative people in your life :)
Yes even if you don't whant or should not feel. Like that. Anyway you will want to be beautiful and better
You have changed my life completely
Aw your heart is so genuine, thank you for this!
Just like the VS Angels.? they're paid to always eat right ,exercise , and be in shape.
Thankuuu soo much for this video!❤❤❤ muchhhh needed! 💖
Thank you for watching! So happy to hear that :)
Thank you so much, Isabel.. you give me so much light
just watched this...I really needed this!! thank you so much
It is a super useful video! Much love from Budapest, Hungary! ❤💋
You are so amazing! You made me feel better. You are actually a big sister I never had :) Lots of love
Wow you took my breath with this video! You are so great and encouraging. Blessings to you. :-))
honestly - I LOVE YOU! You help me so SO much!
...you’re like one of the most positive people on RUclips and you have haters?? Damn what is wrong with people lol? I will never understand why people talk shit when there’s NO REASON to say it... other than jealousy and insecurities. That just blasts to the world how much they hate themselves. Keep doing you girl! You’ve helped me so much! Love love love you xoxoxo
You're so right!!! I love your videos 😇
Thank you😍 You're amazing. Love your chit chat videos❤
Yay! I will continue making more :)
13:05-1323 wow those words left me speechless
You really touched me in this video. Thank you so much!!! I do create inspirational videos as well but I love to watch you because we have different flavors and unique approach/perspective on things. That’s the beauty of this world. We can all complement each other without all the unhealthy competition. Love lots, C.
How eye opening... thank you for the enlightenment. I truly took this to heart.
I'm having a very difficult day - its the 2nd day on a break with my bf; waiting for my 2nd surgery to get my knee fixed and im currently in lots of pain right now which pain killers cannot help anymore; family member recently passed away - but your video really helped me feel better. I want to say thank you so much - its my first time to watch your videos on your channel, somehow youtube it recommended me to watch one of your law of attractions videos, it leads me here, i want to say thank you - you are a good example for girls out there, you motivated me to start doing my gratitude journals again, im gonna follow you on IG as well, hope you have a wonderful day xxx
Love everything you said,very very true!! keep making more of these videos there great isabel!! XOXO
i love this video isabel! please do more
Will do more for sure love!
i recently watch your amazing videos. you are so amazing and you are a lovely lady. you really help me to being more confident and heppiness. i feel i'm pretty cool girl after listening to your advices. really thank you beauty lady💓
I just truly love you..your amazing and I'm starting the advice you just gave me today , and if who ever else sees this comment and needs extra strength ..You can do it Beautiful ..DREAM BIG PRINCESS 💕💕PEACE & LOVE ✊💓
Just found your channel and already subscribed!You are so positive !😘
Thank you Elsa! Welcome to my channel!!
Thank you so much this video made me cry It really was helpful and I would love to see more I have been having self confidence issues for a year or more bow and this made me realize I need to get over myself and start working on making it better my mom always says love yourself and I never knew what she meant now I do and I will try my hardest thank you so much this was the first video I've ever seen if yours and u really want to watch more💕💕
Thank you Isabel 😊
Isabel, you are gorgeous and I really appreciate your advice. I refer back to this video often when I'm feeling bad about myself. Thank you!
love u! i watch all your videos again and again you're like a sister to me You deserve so much subscribers cause you're one of the most important person in my life cause you help me to be happy and that's incredible
Wow !! Your so confident ❤️
Your so amazing and inspiring thank you for making me feel good about myself and feel like I'm worth something ❤️
Love you and I just subscribed to you !!
I love your advice so much and it has helped me a lot 😭 I remember when I first started working, I felt so inadequate compared to other co-workers and I would watch your videos before every shift and they helped me to start a positive note to my day so thank you ❤️
YOU ARE AMAZING ❤️