1. 1:46 Real Queens do not pursue men 2. 7:16 Real Queens will not wait on a man to pick her 3. 10:20 Real Queens will not walk on eggshells for a man 4. 12:48 Real Queens will not wait on a man 5. 17:15 Real Queens will not lower her standards 6. 18:13 Real Queens are not be afraid to check a man in her femininity 7. 19:01 Real Queens will not allow a man to disrespect her boundaries 8. 21:07 Real Queens will not tolerate disrespect 9. 24:28 Real Queens do not lead in a relationship 10. 27:07 Real Queens do not finance men
I've been learning so much from you within the past 24 hours LOL. I'm 22 with 2 kids I wish I would have took a lot of this stuff seriously when I was younger. Now that I'm older, I'm realizing I had absolutely no self-respect or self-love. Never too late to turn your life around though💚 I'm celibate and waiting for the right guy I don't care if it takes 10 years!! no point in being in pointless dead-end relationships which leave you heartbroken in some way. I'd rather be alone and wait, work on my life goals in the meantime, and just better myself in general. Not even just for a man but for myself of course. It's crazy how stupid I was when I was younger and how much disrespect I tolerated, but now I'm officially woke💚 thank you for taking your time to do these videos they are very helpful🗣👏🏽 and in a way I felt like it was too late for me to do the right thing and be celibate considering I already have 2 kids but then I realized it's not too late, I just won't tell men I have kids😉😈😆 LOL but I asked the Creator to take control over my love life. I'm only 22 so in the meantime I'm just growing, learning, and bettering myself continuing to get my life together. Your videos are definitely helping me do all of these💚
True, true and true. I told my ex if he entertain another female while we're in a relationship we're through. He thought I was joking and he must have forgot our conversation. I don't play those kind of games.
I Absolutely Love listening to Coach Rod,Especially when he talks about Queens, and Grown Boys,I’m not A Christian,but I listen to him a lot,And Tony Gaskins,They Definitely know what they are talking about...Ladies please keep paying Attention,because these Men are definitely not like they use to be..Coach Rod please continue doing videos,I love listening.Thank You..
Thanks again Coach Rod! In today's time, there's alot of grown boys and us women/queens gotta decipher between a grown boy and grown man. We gotta know when to walk away and just leave it where it's at.
So lucky to have stumbled upon your video's. Everything you teach is absolutely correct. Your delivery can be quite humorous yet done with sensitivity. Please keep empowering and uplifting women. God bless you and thank you....
9:01 fun fact to the regal story. The sticks the eagle 🦅 drop are correlated to what’s relevant to the Queen? Are you able to catch for us food, our baby, me, and/or our enemy..... Thank you Coach Rob
Amen! You spoke it and I agree 1000% and then some!!!!!! If a TRUE KING wants a woman, he will certainly show her and she will NOT have to wonder about anything!!! A KING knows a QUEEN's true value by how she carries herself.......periodt!!!!
I love this type of conversation. I actually learned alot of this the hard way but after watching one video I just keep going. Bomb information plus alot of funny moments in here I been r🤣lling over here! I appreciate you for walking in your purpose it definitely helps others to find theirs!
I just subscribed to your channel. It reminds me of a lot of male relationship coaches here on RUclips. That’s a great thing because it lets us women know that this is legit advice and I feel so comforted hearing these things from a mans mouth. Thank you! I will be tuning in!
Thank you Coach Rod, I agree with you. My brother taught me nothing wrong dating or talking to two men at the same time and NOT to chase him IF he doesn't fight for me and show me actions to dismiss him. In me Coach Rod I just cannot lose my feminist HIGH Royal standards to chase no one. I am used to certain ways such as let him come to me let him work for me. I put them on a test too sometimes Coach Rod I act I am sick to see if he is a nurturing type hehe.😂. One thing I learned NOT to talk about my degrees soo much on first date. Women need to stop disrespecting themselves and raise their standards and STOP doing things for a man he will USE you and fly away to next one.
Great video thank you.This has been my situation,known this guy like 18 months he hasn't asked me out,doesn't call barely texts,but expect me to! Very inconsistent to say the least.There are a few other men interested in taking me out and he knows that.Still no action from him.What he says and what he does don't match up.Time to go he had his chance!
Hello Coach Rod, thank you for sharing this video. I needed to this, although it is very disturbing to hear the truth, it kinda hurts. I am such a sweet, caring, loving person :(
Great advice Coach Rod. All true. I’m doing all 10 things and still single. One of the contractors that worked on my house was trying to do the “Can I cone over to the house with coffee” Of course he already knew where I lived- but I told him No, you can ask me out on a date- you won’t be coming to my house with “coffee”. He ghosted me and tried texting a few months later. I blocked him.
You should do a video on the boundaries queens should have in a marriage. Should you help each other financially then or no? Or should you allow him to pay for everything?
Coach Rod I promise in this video YOUR describing me "female ego" hehe one man 2 years ago read me so well he said the reason your not coming to me it's YOUR ego hehe. But we were together for 3 years I still punished him and didn't lower my pride for 5 years we known each other. Until this day he respects me and he is in love with me. I never allowed him to use me for anything. I don't allow NO man to disrespect me once he disrespects me I drop him and honestly I become mean towards them I grab a good looking guy friend I take a selfie and I tell them have a blessed 2020 hehe. I give it right back to him. I definitely don't wait for no one. Time is ticking this is why I don't invest all the way in UNLESS he is my husband BUT I even have rules for that if he breaks them I am out. We have to be realistic these days we are in 2020...men lie cheat,manipulate,abuse and list goes on.Have a happy day Coach Rod, I enjoy watching your videos.🙂🙂
Lol I love love love your messages! They are a blessing but also have great humor! Thank you once again for blessing us with these videos and knowledge!
1: Real Queens DO NOT pursue men. 2: Real Queens WILL NOT wait on a man. 3: A Queen WILL NOT walk on eggshells. 4: A Queen will not wait on a man. 5: A Queen will lower her standards. 6: A Queen is not afraid to check a man (in her femininity). 7: A Queen will not tolerate a man to disrespect her boundaries. 8: A Queen DOES NOT tolerate disrespect. 9: A Queen does lead in a relationship. 10: A QUEEN WILL NOT FINANCE A MAN!
I waitednon my husband from prison 2.2 years we met 6 months before he did crime n went in he did crime in October did. 3 weeks and 2 month later at court was taken in convicted a few months later..... he didnok 1st yyear ... I hVe my own business he could of helped me help us build abd he just started hiting streets n his family kicked him out he cheated 2019 early all sudden end of year a baby came..... just found out now 2021 the baby is different race... he got played the family got left stuck w this baby he was out the house 30 weeks n tbere was full term baby she was shady her self a felon in drugs on run she was worst off then my husband n she left and lost all her kids when baby was born she tried to hide the drug use n even blamed me saying I was reason she lost the baby... how when she just had it she was in the system since 2014... n my inlaws didn't know that
I understand the point about not pursuing a man. however, I wanted to ask a question: if a woman is online dating, what do you think about her initiating the first message to a man
That’s what I was originally doing but then I set up profile with out pic so that I could see if I could connect with a guy on mental level opposed to just physical. If i possibly could meet a guy that could hold conversation without stressing about a pic then that’s the guy that might be worth it. So since I set up profile without pic, I figured that it might be ok to reach out first because I know it’s hard for men to make initial contact without pic.
D P online dating is a scam. Don't do it. Those men are weak or opportunist. I know it's hard somethings but that ain't it sis. The man for you, will approach you in person. Do the work and the rest will follow.
Women if you're listening...he is RIGHT....I took a cow not to fornicate and since then I don't have a shortage of men....just not interested in all. But still praying for him. Oh I am 60 and having a fabulous time being just friends with men.
Hmmm...I just unsubscribed because the last few videos have started to sound a lot like RC Blakes' videos. I know you have listened to him because I have heard him thank you when you contributed to him financially. I subscribed to you because you were raw and original but the content is now so familiar to that of RC Blakes that I don't need both. Thanks for the original messages.
1. 1:46 Real Queens do not pursue men
2. 7:16 Real Queens will not wait on a man to pick her
3. 10:20 Real Queens will not walk on eggshells for a man
4. 12:48 Real Queens will not wait on a man
5. 17:15 Real Queens will not lower her standards
6. 18:13 Real Queens are not be afraid to check a man in her femininity
7. 19:01 Real Queens will not allow a man to disrespect her boundaries
8. 21:07 Real Queens will not tolerate disrespect
9. 24:28 Real Queens do not lead in a relationship
10. 27:07 Real Queens do not finance men
Thank you for the time line. 👍
Amen
Thank you! 🙌🏾
Powerful thank you coach Rodger 🤗
Word
This sounds like a fatherless daughter session...so many ladies needed to hear this
Amen
I've been learning so much from you within the past 24 hours LOL. I'm 22 with 2 kids I wish I would have took a lot of this stuff seriously when I was younger. Now that I'm older, I'm realizing I had absolutely no self-respect or self-love. Never too late to turn your life around though💚 I'm celibate and waiting for the right guy I don't care if it takes 10 years!! no point in being in pointless dead-end relationships which leave you heartbroken in some way. I'd rather be alone and wait, work on my life goals in the meantime, and just better myself in general. Not even just for a man but for myself of course. It's crazy how stupid I was when I was younger and how much disrespect I tolerated, but now I'm officially woke💚 thank you for taking your time to do these videos they are very helpful🗣👏🏽 and in a way I felt like it was too late for me to do the right thing and be celibate considering I already have 2 kids but then I realized it's not too late, I just won't tell men I have kids😉😈😆 LOL but I asked the Creator to take control over my love life. I'm only 22 so in the meantime I'm just growing, learning, and bettering myself continuing to get my life together. Your videos are definitely helping me do all of these💚
"Men are coldhearted by nature..."
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That comment hit DEEP for me too🗡
True, true and true. I told my ex if he entertain another female while we're in a relationship we're through. He thought I was joking and he must have forgot our conversation. I don't play those kind of games.
I’m not waiting on nobody!!!!!💋
I check men all the time and they disappear. I cant be a doormat
The female eagle illustration..is on Point!!
I Absolutely Love listening to Coach Rod,Especially when he talks about Queens, and Grown Boys,I’m not A Christian,but I listen to him a lot,And Tony Gaskins,They Definitely know what they are talking about...Ladies please keep paying Attention,because these Men are definitely not like they use to be..Coach Rod please continue doing videos,I love listening.Thank You..
You welcome
Thanks again Coach Rod! In today's time, there's alot of grown boys and us women/queens gotta decipher between a grown boy and grown man. We gotta know when to walk away and just leave it where it's at.
Amen
Queens understand that the only man you lose is a grown boy
So lucky to have stumbled upon your video's. Everything you teach is absolutely correct. Your delivery can be quite humorous yet done with sensitivity. Please keep empowering and uplifting women. God bless you and thank you....
I had a friend tell me that maybe I needed to tell this man what to do. Why do I have to tell a grown man how to behave in a dating situation? SMH.
Don't listen to her. She doesn't know her value.
Menglish!! This terminology tho!! Lol So true you definitely have to translate what they say sometimes. 🤣
Drop it like it's hot and three meals and snacks!!! The devil is a lie. Don't have the time or energy for that mess! 😂🤣
Amen
You better treat her like a Queen,If you want to be treated like a king ......
"Only grown boys ghost Queens". THE QUOTE FOR LIFE.
You said that Right. I am a Queen.2021
We probably shouldnt tell them we are collecting data on them :) ...Thanks for the message!
Yes don't tell them.
Everything you said is the Honest to God’s truth
I am the prize. Amen
You re funny coach rod you tell the truth and shame the devil!!... Amen💃💃🙌🙌
Coach Rod, this is your best video yet! This is advice a lady of any age can use. Keep up the excellent work. I love when you go into character.
Thank you
So real .. he talks the truth ..keep feeding us that knowledge .. one day it’s going to click .. lol
I LOVE the Eagle Analogy. 💜
I wish I would have heard and learned these words much sooner. Thank you for the messages 🙌🏽✨
You are so correct! This was the premarital counseling I needed way back then
Thank you for your knowledge and guidance ~Queen Conscience💜💜
You"re welcome
9:01 fun fact to the regal story. The sticks the eagle 🦅 drop are correlated to what’s relevant to the Queen? Are you able to catch for us food, our baby, me, and/or our enemy.....
Thank you Coach Rob
Love your message, I agree with everything you say. Thank you 🙏🏽☺️
Amen! You spoke it and I agree 1000% and then some!!!!!! If a TRUE KING wants a woman, he will certainly show her and she will NOT have to wonder about anything!!! A KING knows a QUEEN's true value by how she carries herself.......periodt!!!!
Thank You Queen
Coach Rod!! You are the best, Thank you!!
I love this type of conversation. I actually learned alot of this the hard way but after watching one video I just keep going. Bomb information plus alot of funny moments in here I been r🤣lling over here! I appreciate you for walking in your purpose it definitely helps others to find theirs!
This is good information. Us women do need to hear this some women forget thier role.
You are reading me from the list....been like that all my life.
Wow, here’s another great one
Bae tired!! I can't with you Coach Rod!! Hilarious 😅
Lol
The look of disgust when he told this story!😄😄😄😄
I just subscribed to your channel. It reminds me of a lot of male relationship coaches here on RUclips. That’s a great thing because it lets us women know that this is legit advice and I feel so comforted hearing these things from a mans mouth. Thank you! I will be tuning in!
You Welcome Queen
This blessed me…
Nothing but truth.💯
Thank you so much Coach Rod.
Wow! Where can I find a Real Man like you? Thank you for the info.
Thank you Coach Rod, I agree with you. My brother taught me nothing wrong dating or talking to two men at the same time and NOT to chase him IF he doesn't fight for me and show me actions to dismiss him.
In me Coach Rod I just cannot lose my feminist HIGH Royal standards to chase no one. I am used to certain ways such as let him come to me let him work for me. I put them on a test too sometimes Coach Rod I act I am sick to see if he is a nurturing type hehe.😂.
One thing I learned NOT to talk about my degrees soo much on first date. Women need to stop disrespecting themselves and raise their standards and STOP doing things for a man he will USE you and fly away to next one.
Amen
Yes, glory!
Wow this really spoke to my spirit great video.. the way you talk be having me rolling 😄
I just start viewing your videos today. Thank you so much for all your wonderful advice. Appreciate it.
Note taken: ONE LOVE❤
Amazing points Coach Rod. Thank you and God bless you.
You welcome
Great video thank you.This has been my situation,known this guy like 18 months he hasn't asked me out,doesn't call barely texts,but expect me to! Very inconsistent to say the least.There are a few other men interested in taking me out and he knows that.Still no action from him.What he says and what he does don't match up.Time to go he had his chance!
Hello Coach Rod, thank you for sharing this video. I needed to this, although it is very disturbing to hear the truth, it kinda hurts. I am such a sweet, caring, loving person :(
Thank you for always bringing that undeniable true authentic word! Definitely much needed encouragement for my soul.
You welcome Queen
Thank you
Great advice Coach Rod. All true. I’m doing all 10 things and still single.
One of the contractors that worked on my house was trying to do the “Can I cone over to the house with coffee” Of course he already knew where I lived- but I told him No, you can ask me out on a date- you won’t be coming to my house with “coffee”. He ghosted me and tried texting a few months later. I blocked him.
You should do a video on the boundaries queens should have in a marriage. Should you help each other financially then or no? Or should you allow him to pay for everything?
16:32 😭😭😭
Lol
Thank You Coach Rod for this Video!!!
You welcome Queen
Coach Rod I promise in this video YOUR describing me "female ego" hehe one man 2 years ago read me so well he said the reason your not coming to me it's YOUR ego hehe. But we were together for 3 years I still punished him and didn't lower my pride for 5 years we known each other. Until this day he respects me and he is in love with me. I never allowed him to use me for anything. I don't allow NO man to disrespect me once he disrespects me I drop him and honestly I become mean towards them I grab a good looking guy friend I take a selfie and I tell them have a blessed 2020 hehe. I give it right back to him.
I definitely don't wait for no one. Time is ticking this is why I don't invest all the way in UNLESS he is my husband BUT I even have rules for that if he breaks them I am out. We have to be realistic these days we are in 2020...men lie cheat,manipulate,abuse and list goes on.Have a happy day Coach Rod, I enjoy watching your videos.🙂🙂
You're funny and your message is true!
Lol thank you
Yasssss, loved this!!!!
I am loving this so much!!!
This was awesome!
Thank you so much for your time. Appreciate your wisdom.
You had me laughing this morning Coach! Good message.
Lol
Lol I love love love your messages! They are a blessing but also have great humor! Thank you once again for blessing us with these videos and knowledge!
Truth 👑
Thank You
@@coachrod8324 You're welcome Sir....
Queens don’t defend a man’s excuses...that coaching session with the felon fiancé was too much!
Amen
😂😂😂This is so obvious and hilarious Queens never dummy down for foolishness
love you coach rod thank yous so much for your teachings 💙 ❤ 😘 🙏 ♥
True! I agree with you 100%
Thank you
Yes!!!!
Thank you Rod
1:28 (Matthew 23:9 kjv)
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Gm coach rod🤗🤓
1: Real Queens DO NOT pursue men.
2: Real Queens WILL NOT wait on a man.
3: A Queen WILL NOT walk on eggshells.
4: A Queen will not wait on a man.
5: A Queen will lower her standards.
6: A Queen is not afraid to check a man (in her femininity).
7: A Queen will not tolerate a man to disrespect her boundaries.
8: A Queen DOES NOT tolerate disrespect.
9: A Queen does lead in a relationship.
10: A QUEEN WILL NOT FINANCE A MAN!
Also, do you do private coaching? Like video calls or zoom calls? I think I need some personal coaching asap lol
Yes click on this link mymentor.life/roderickraysor
@@coachrod8324 Okay, thank you. I will be in touch.
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10 things Queens Will Not Do!!
Keep saying clown coach rod stop it please you're making me laugh over here you're funny so true though!!
Lol
LMBO @ 16:52
I waitednon my husband from prison 2.2 years we met 6 months before he did crime n went in he did crime in October did. 3 weeks and 2 month later at court was taken in convicted a few months later..... he didnok 1st yyear ... I hVe my own business he could of helped me help us build abd he just started hiting streets n his family kicked him out he cheated 2019 early all sudden end of year a baby came..... just found out now 2021 the baby is different race... he got played the family got left stuck w this baby he was out the house 30 weeks n tbere was full term baby she was shady her self a felon in drugs on run she was worst off then my husband n she left and lost all her kids when baby was born she tried to hide the drug use n even blamed me saying I was reason she lost the baby... how when she just had it she was in the system since 2014... n my inlaws didn't know that
Clown indeed!!!!🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
All that is popular in 2020!
Good video. Very insightful
Thank you sis
@@coachrod8324 no prob brother
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The volume is low on these videos.
Maybe its something is wrong with your phone. Nobody else is experiencing that problem.
@@coachrod8324 I'm not using my phone.
@@astorzable7210 ok I don't know what's going on.
Watching Video 10 things Queen won't do
I understand the point about not pursuing a man. however, I wanted to ask a question: if a woman is online dating, what do you think about her initiating the first message to a man
I was once told you should let the men approach you when online dating.
That’s what I was originally doing but then I set up profile with out pic so that I could see if I could connect with a guy on mental level opposed to just physical. If i possibly could meet a guy that could hold conversation without stressing about a pic then that’s the guy that might be worth it. So since I set up profile without pic, I figured that it might be ok to reach out first because I know it’s hard for men to make initial contact without pic.
D P online dating is a scam. Don't do it. Those men are weak or opportunist. I know it's hard somethings but that ain't it sis. The man for you, will approach you in person. Do the work and the rest will follow.
Rod I would actually like to hear your response to my question
Lol @ 27:38
Nah he on social media talking bout black lives matter.🤣😂🤣. Good word coach.
Lol
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Women if you're listening...he is RIGHT....I took a cow not to fornicate and since then I don't have a shortage of men....just not interested in all. But still praying for him. Oh I am 60 and having a fabulous time being just friends with men.
Are you single
😂😂😂💀💀💀
Yes the acting is so on point!! I couldn't stop laughing 😂
Hmmm...I just unsubscribed because the last few videos have started to sound a lot like RC Blakes' videos. I know you have listened to him because I have heard him thank you when you contributed to him financially. I subscribed to you because you were raw and original but the content is now so familiar to that of RC Blakes that I don't need both. Thanks for the original messages.
Amen
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