The moral of the story is women do NOT be desperate. Be willing to walk away immediately. Learn to love yourself first and always and love being by yourself until the right man who meets your standards comes along. Don’t allow anyone to shame you for getting older and clock is ticking. Stand strong in the Lord.
Preach! My significant other and I were texting one night and he got mad with me for calling him out on something and he started using expletives in his texting-he never called me out of my name he was just saying “damn” and “bullshit” a lot. I immediately told him that his profanity use with me had to stop right then and there or the conversation was over. He said ok goodnight and I did not reply back-in fact I was never going to reach out again if he did not reach out to correct the issue-that was that. Well a few days go by and he contacted me and apologized -he said he was upset. But me saying that to him that night apparently showed him I was not gonna EVER tolerate him cursing at me, even if it was through text.
Sis!!!! I was talking with a guy who would always refer to women as b's and hoes! I confronted him about it and he was like it's an expression of speech and besides a lot of women call themselves those things. I very politely snd sternly told him, I don't speak of myself or any woman in that manner. I knew then he was one worth walking away from!!!
This guy, I spoke with twice on the phone, went in when I said I’m giving up the Banana pudding. He said He’s not paying for any meals, not opening any doors. I mean a list of won’t he’s not going to do if he’s not getting any. I let him finish and said I respect your honesty and appreciate this conversation. Best of luck on your journey. Blocked across the board. Then I threw up a prayer thanking God for clearing my path…. Weeding out all mess. It’s so easy to walk because no relations are shared. So stay strong Family.
Absolutely Absurd. Good Riddance. This reminds me of a guy I had 1 phone conversation with. Never planned an outing/ date but made sexual/ inappropriate comments. Then had the gall to ask if he could come over to my place. NO & I deleted his phone number after 1 conversation.
Facts. Dude told me he can’t plan the date because he don’t live in my area and that I should choose and meet him halfway. I dropped an invisible tear because I knew I had to BLOCK EM☹️☹️
Society flooded the black community with rap music that degrade women. Other communities do not accept rap music no matter how popular it is in society. I grew up on jagged edge , Jodeci, Keith sweat etc. My mom grew up on Teddy Pendergrass , Luther Vandros , Al Green . This generation, little Uzi , Boosie , 😱
Rap of the 1970's is not the same like today. The industry owners changed rap and for the love of money the rappers changed to get that dollar. Also the whole entertainment industry is sold out for evil.
Thanks Coach Rod. A real man is about business and making real moves but a grown boy, gets a kick out of playing games and manipulating women. It's very sad.
What has the world came too, breaking the man code is by respecting a woman??? Thankfully my boyfriend is not following the society and in my book that’s not a simp but a Alpha male as he is not a follower. He treats me like a queen and I don’t open my legs for him until marriage and he chooses to love me. I know my value and I tested a man in this way in the past and the wrong one cheated behind my back and I chose to walk away. We must know our worth and the right one will marry you. Thanks Coach for your messages. It’s alway 💯👍🏾 God gives us instructions on how to be treated like a queen. If we follow it, we won’t go wrong. Thank God for men like you coach. You’re blessing many.
Well Coach Rod, you know what they say... If everyone like you....you are doing it wrong. You keep on doing what you are doing. You are a blessing to many. The ones who are mad...are mad due to the fact that you are educating women on how to take care of themselves in relationships and not be exploited, taken advantage of or to run after a man. Tons of men losing women by the millions due to Coaches like you, RC Blakes and Tony. We appreciate you. You are refreshing in a world where everyone is so FAKE!!!!
I suppose l may be single permanently!!! I’m fine with that!!! Was married 33yrs. I’m not playing games with ANY MAN!! You are not going to waste my time!!
You are not a simp. You are a King. Society got this illusion thing twisted. You are a real Man and you are not afraid to tell the truth in the face of man or woman. You are alpha but you are the best type an alpha provider. You teach the helpless and you will forever be respected by women naturally. All men want a woman to respect them, But you did not force it. You have our respect naturally. You win babe. 100 on that you are a man of dignity.
🤣🤣🤣🤣...Come on wit them Vocals Coach Rod!!! I Thank God I'm not bearing the fruit of either one of them Spirits and you're ABSOLUTELY correct you teach a Man How to treat You I had to learn that through some tough life lessons but NO MORE, I DEMAND to be RESPECTED and Treated like I'm supposed to.💯
Woman must have high standards for herself and standards he must meet. Yes, I don't just think that I'm somebody, I Know that I am somebody. He has to come up to my standards, l won't bow down to his. Um no bow.
...if my husband treated me wrongly or even badly, which sometimes happened at the beginning of our relationship, I treated him the same way later in the day and explained to him that he treated me exactly that way - that was the best therapy with him, that he recognized what he had done to me. But I think that doesn't work with every man...?!
I'd be careful of that because men are physically stronger and can strike down a woman. I prefer to leave in my feminine energy. But I'm glad your man learnt to treat you right.
@@CeeceeH1819 When he treated me badly for the first time, I later pointed this out to him and explained to him how much he had hurt me, he was visibly shaken when he realized his mistakes ... ... then we have concluded an agreement if he treats me badly again, I also treat him badly afterwards and also give him the explanation of what and how he did it and how it hurts ... ... he is even grateful to me today that we arranged it that way ...! Men sometimes treat us women in a way that they actually don't want, but the women usually don't say anything or they react inappropriately ... ... how is a man supposed to know what he's doing wrong ...? You guys have to talk to each other and again, talk to each other again and again and again, but on a factual level and in such a way that the other also understands what was wrong. But let's be honest, we women don't always treat men correctly either ...!
@@CeeceeH1819 Wow ☹ just the fact that you would even fear a man like that, simply from a woman teaching him how to treat her. She didn't say ANYTHING about being physically violent towards him.
@@CeeceeH1819 You can be a pushover if you want but some women aren't going to tolerate bad behavior and they certainly aren't going to fear a man because of his size and strength. Being "feminine" is not synonymous with being a doormat like some men would lead you to believe.
@@shayemoorefacts 💯 but just remember you might get 👊🏽 it does happen even if a woman just uses words or try to teach a lesson, if he feels disrespected u don't know what he gonna do...don't get an emotionally unstable man/no self control or an aggressive dude always talking about who they beat up and what they gonna do cuz those type of men put hands on their women too she not exempt!
All 100% facts spoken here. When we women live like this is can be very tiring never having a long lasting relationship yet. No problem cutting bad men off on the spot but I do wonder is this is how it’s always going to be? Am I just the woman who cuts men off and never meets my husband?
Was really feeling your comment, as I have been there. I suggest you sit in open honesty and assess these things (to start): 1. Why do you keep meeting "bad" men? What part of the problem do you play? After all, we are the common denominator in our repetitive issues. Do you have unreasonable expectations? Are you too nice? Or have too much attitude? Too clingy or jealous? Do you have relations with them before a commitment? Do you have masculine/aggressive/competitive energy? Do you try to "mother" them by helping them/trying to solve things for them? These are a few but there are many others. 2. Where are you meeting them? Certain areas, establishments, time of day/night, etc. cater to certain demographics. Also, do you only talk to guys who look a certain way aka your "type"? That gets a lot of women talking to the same kind of guy. 3. How do you look? Do you need to lose weight? Do you need to dress differently? Do you need different hairstyles? If your size and/or look are attracting a certain type of guy then switch it up. Thinner women usually have a larger pool of men to choose from than larger women. A toned-down, feminine look seems most successful, as well. Men are visual so this is the easiest and first thing ladies should change to attract a different type of guy. I found I get the best results by dressing more classically feminine (dresses, skirts, cute flats or heels, jewel or pastel colors, nice makeup, minimal delicate jewelry, hair down (natural or wig), etc.) but not over the top (instagram-type barely-there outfits with lots of colors, patterns, sequins, etc., super high "dancer" looking heels, extreme hairstyles/colors, too much makeup, gaudy jewelry, etc.). 1 & 3 are the hardest for us to really be open & honest about. While I know folks may say people should accept you for you, and you shouldn't have to change, at some point (if we keep ending up with the same results) we need to really look at ourselves and be willing to make drastic changes. There are others but these 3 are the main ones I had to assess about myself. I'm still working but the progress so far has been eye-opening and worth it! You really have to do a deep internal dive. You really have to look in the mirror. Prayers for you on your journey 💜
So many factors are working against women these days. Women outnumber men, the divorce rate is high and easy women are available with just a swipe. Men are having a blast with all options at there disposal. But trust me. Most are not happy. Its better to stay single, happy and somewhat lonely than with someone your not happy with or who treats you less than. Stay blessed. Your not alone.
@@coachrod8324 Truth will never get public praise. We are living in a generation that everyone wants to believe the Lie. God has his chosen people to speak his truth and heart of the matter. You are one of those chosen people.
When I saw your post it hit me hard. I don't know what happened but let it go. Cause it will destroy you. Pray to Jehovah God for help he will be a Father to you read the Bible. His ways are not man's way. God loves you and so do a I
Keep being you, we need to educate all women to be high value - that's my mission too, like you said it would be difficult to reach men - but women can lead the way on this, by working on themselves they'll automatically change how a man treats them xx
Thanks for being a gentleman and encouraging ladies/women to expect the best from a real man/men. Personally, I don't care how long it takes me to meet and date a REAL MAN..again...IF I ever meet another one. I've been married before with 2 kids (a boy & a girl), both are successful in their careers so are my grandchildren too.... My advice Wait on God for a Christian man who listen to you & respect you. Thanks Again, for all your ADVICE!!!!!
It's all good coach. Your purpose is greater than the friends and family members who dis u. U are changing relationships and making a big difference in women's lives. Keep doing what the Lord tells u to do. U changed and saved my life from a Narccistic relationship. Thank U Coach Rod. In the process of getting ur book.
I think every person should know how to maintain their own character... It seems like men teaches each other men bad behavior and reinforce those bad standards....
Absolutely i listen to him but he got faults as well. We don't know how people are going to treat you out here in these falling times. You got to watch as well as you pray. The best way to get something started with a man let him call you and you ask questions. If he can't tolerate your interview then end that situation. Some men will charm you don't fall for it. If he take you out to dinner tell him you can pay your half and see how he responds. You have to be your own detective. And remember don't have expectations because this is a situation not a relationship.
This is an old school teaching. Some of these brothers hate doing good because they love darkness better light. They don't like to be exposed. They're grown boys who don't want to grow up. This teachings are line up with the holy scriptures. The wicked calls evil good and calls good is evil. Brothers are self hate to disrespect the sisters. Keep up the great brother🙏🏾📖👑
Don't change who you are your amazing continue to succeed and prosper. I love it blessings. my frist time listening to you. Yes loving me now knowing my worth it feels great.
Interesting,🤔 how nowadays alot of Men don't want to treat us women (well)...yet they (want us women) to give them what they want.. of all the things that might be; interesting. This is very interesting here;🙂very, very, interesting.🤔 In reference to us women allowing Men to verbally disrespect us.. you are absolutely accurate for us women to not allow it. I grew up in a two parent household where I visually saw nothing but love given to my Mother from my Father and vice versa so DEFINITELY, me getting anything (less) than what I grew up witnessing.. is a No for me. Love your videos. You are so Raw, up front, and crystal clear, to the point.
My spirit is tiered of having to watch videos about how a man suppose to treat a woman and what a queen expects. Im so glad you here though. I am learning for sure
Thank you, for teaching what it is to really be a high value woman, to attack a truly high value man. That other man you mention is very disrespectful, who think it's cool to disrespect women, just to get ratings, followers, money. He is a disgrace to the Black community. Shameful. Thank you for respecting us, women. God Bless. 😊
Message starts at 14:45 Thank me later 🙄 I love that he likes to build a rapport with his audience, but people's attention span is not that long in todays society. He should make notes and stick to it, as not to get off subject, or repeat himself constantly. He takes away from the value of the message. Aside from that, I love his videos.
What.. Simps are men at peace. Doing their obligation to their woman for 30mins to 2 hrs like doing some household chores, buyng them some stuff in the grocery then the woman will let them be. Men have all the time in the world after that, to do their own stuff and even have a home cooked meal ready. That's my observation.
The thing is all the male bashing and all the women bashing is not going to create healthy relationships I see toxicness on both sides however with the men it's way worse I think that women have become so fed up that now it's like if you can't beat them join them it's sad I mean even women are getting killed or disrespected on social media just for telling a man no 😔
Dang...blood aint loyal either...jealousy and move around. You doing what is for you. Can you give me some advice with a 2yr old and not with the dad (deceased) and I am currently not dating nor have I been with anyone since his dad? Where could I start with a son, just simple steps?
You made me laugh talking about Al Green and Betty wright I don't want that spirit I'm more conscious I'm listening to men like yourself I wish I had a man talk to me the way you talking to me now I never had a father to show me the love yes and I was one of those girls that was very promiscuous I learn the hard way about these men in these streets
You said it..they choose not to..yeah if I am asked an inappropriate question with no explanation ..I simply don't reply ...cant believe an old colleague contacted me yesterday out of the blue..I wasn't even close to him..he asked me 'are you married?' I didnt reply..that man was/is married with 4 kids!
Thanks for sharing Rod. What to do for men you're just getting to know that try to find out where you live through other methods such as license plate etc?
Ok but do you think making a man wait 6 months to know where you live and work will make them more curious about finding out even if they don't have ill intent behind knowing?
The moral of the story is women do NOT be desperate. Be willing to walk away immediately. Learn to love yourself first and always and love being by yourself until the right man who meets your standards comes along. Don’t allow anyone to shame you for getting older and clock is ticking. Stand strong in the Lord.
💯💯💯
Amen
❤️
Love the last part. Stand strong in the LORD!!!🙏🏾
Preach! My significant other and I were texting one night and he got mad with me for calling him out on something and he started using expletives in his texting-he never called me out of my name he was just saying “damn” and “bullshit” a lot. I immediately told him that his profanity use with me had to stop right then and there or the conversation was over. He said ok goodnight and I did not reply back-in fact I was never going to reach out again if he did not reach out to correct the issue-that was that. Well a few days go by and he contacted me and apologized -he said he was upset. But me saying that to him that night apparently showed him I was not gonna EVER tolerate him cursing at me, even if it was through text.
Spot on Coach Rod 💯. Women are allowing way too much foolishness and mistreatment by men. Women need to Dignify themselves and not tolerate clowns.
Facts
A Woman can only teach him, or anyone for that matter, by VALUEING HERSELF.....
I left a man for calling another woman a bi$$%. I just knew it was a matter of time until I was called that.
Sis!!!! I was talking with a guy who would always refer to women as b's and hoes! I confronted him about it and he was like it's an expression of speech and besides a lot of women call themselves those things. I very politely snd sternly told him, I don't speak of myself or any woman in that manner. I knew then he was one worth walking away from!!!
This guy, I spoke with twice on the phone, went in when I said I’m giving up the Banana pudding. He said He’s not paying for any meals, not opening any doors. I mean a list of won’t he’s not going to do if he’s not getting any. I let him finish and said I respect your honesty and appreciate this conversation. Best of luck on your journey. Blocked across the board. Then I threw up a prayer thanking God for clearing my path…. Weeding out all mess. It’s so easy to walk because no relations are shared. So stay strong Family.
Absolutely Absurd. Good Riddance. This reminds me of a guy I had 1 phone conversation with. Never planned an outing/ date but made sexual/ inappropriate comments. Then had the gall to ask if he could come over to my place. NO & I deleted his phone number after 1 conversation.
Facts. Dude told me he can’t plan the date because he don’t live in my area and that I should choose and meet him halfway. I dropped an invisible tear because I knew I had to BLOCK EM☹️☹️
Walking away is the most powerful tool to use.
Society flooded the black community with rap music that degrade women. Other communities do not accept rap music no matter how popular it is in society. I grew up on jagged edge , Jodeci, Keith sweat etc. My mom grew up on Teddy Pendergrass , Luther Vandros , Al Green . This generation, little Uzi , Boosie , 😱
Yes indeed!!!
Rap of the 1970's is not the same like today. The industry owners changed rap and for the love of money the rappers changed to get that dollar.
Also the whole entertainment industry is sold out for evil.
@@kimberlyweldon3055 you got that right
Show him through your actions and be prepared to leave.
Thanks Coach Rod. A real man is about business and making real moves but a grown boy, gets a kick out of playing games and manipulating women. It's very sad.
Facts
This is reeeeal talk! I’ve allowed myself to be used and played. Thank God, I woke up and started loving myself. God bless you.
What has the world came too, breaking the man code is by respecting a woman??? Thankfully my boyfriend is not following the society and in my book that’s not a simp but a Alpha male as he is not a follower. He treats me like a queen and I don’t open my legs for him until marriage and he chooses to love me. I know my value and I tested a man in this way in the past and the wrong one cheated behind my back and I chose to walk away. We must know our worth and the right one will marry you. Thanks Coach for your messages. It’s alway 💯👍🏾 God gives us instructions on how to be treated like a queen. If we follow it, we won’t go wrong. Thank God for men like you coach. You’re blessing many.
Well Coach Rod, you know what they say... If everyone like you....you are doing it wrong. You keep on doing what you are doing. You are a blessing to many. The ones who are mad...are mad due to the fact that you are educating women on how to take care of themselves in relationships and not be exploited, taken advantage of or to run after a man. Tons of men losing women by the millions due to Coaches like you, RC Blakes and Tony. We appreciate you. You are refreshing in a world where everyone is so FAKE!!!!
I suppose l may be single permanently!!!
I’m fine with that!!! Was married 33yrs. I’m not playing games with ANY MAN!! You are not going to waste my time!!
You are not a simp. You are a King. Society got this illusion thing twisted. You are a real Man and you are not afraid to tell the truth in the face of man or woman. You are alpha but you are the best type an alpha provider. You teach the helpless and you will forever be respected by women naturally. All men want a woman to respect them, But you did not force it. You have our respect naturally. You win babe. 100 on that you are a man of dignity.
I walked away completely. I'm not chasing, competing, or auditioning for a spot in nobody's life...
🤣🤣🤣🤣...Come on wit them Vocals Coach Rod!!! I Thank God I'm not bearing the fruit of either one of them Spirits and you're ABSOLUTELY correct you teach a Man How to treat You I had to learn that through some tough life lessons but NO MORE, I DEMAND to be RESPECTED and Treated like I'm supposed to.💯
Oh, this is going to be good! C'mon now, Coach Rod! Bring it!
Woman must have high standards for herself and standards he must meet. Yes, I don't just think that I'm somebody, I Know that I am somebody. He has to come up to my standards, l won't bow down to his. Um no bow.
Keep FOCUS and continue to do GOD will 🙌🏽
...if my husband treated me wrongly or even badly, which sometimes happened at the beginning of our relationship, I treated him the same way later in the day and explained to him that he treated me exactly that way - that was the best therapy with him, that he recognized what he had done to me. But I think that doesn't work with every man...?!
I'd be careful of that because men are physically stronger and can strike down a woman. I prefer to leave in my feminine energy. But I'm glad your man learnt to treat you right.
@@CeeceeH1819
When he treated me badly for the first time, I later pointed this out to him and explained to him how much he had hurt me, he was visibly shaken when he realized his mistakes ...
... then we have concluded an agreement if he treats me badly again, I also treat him badly afterwards and also give him the explanation of what and how he did it and how it hurts ...
... he is even grateful to me today that we arranged it that way ...!
Men sometimes treat us women in a way that they actually don't want, but the women usually don't say anything or they react inappropriately ...
... how is a man supposed to know what he's doing wrong ...?
You guys have to talk to each other and again, talk to each other again and again and again, but on a factual level and in such a way that the other also understands what was wrong.
But let's be honest, we women don't always treat men correctly either ...!
@@CeeceeH1819 Wow ☹ just the fact that you would even fear a man like that, simply from a woman teaching him how to treat her. She didn't say ANYTHING about being physically violent towards him.
@@CeeceeH1819 You can be a pushover if you want but some women aren't going to tolerate bad behavior and they certainly aren't going to fear a man because of his size and strength. Being "feminine" is not synonymous with being a doormat like some men would lead you to believe.
@@shayemoorefacts 💯 but just remember you might get 👊🏽 it does happen even if a woman just uses words or try to teach a lesson, if he feels disrespected u don't know what he gonna do...don't get an emotionally unstable man/no self control or an aggressive dude always talking about who they beat up and what they gonna do cuz those type of men put hands on their women too she not exempt!
Man You are telling the truth 💯
All 100% facts spoken here. When we women live like this is can be very tiring never having a long lasting relationship yet. No problem cutting bad men off on the spot but I do wonder is this is how it’s always going to be? Am I just the woman who cuts men off and never meets my husband?
Was really feeling your comment, as I have been there. I suggest you sit in open honesty and assess these things (to start):
1. Why do you keep meeting "bad" men? What part of the problem do you play? After all, we are the common denominator in our repetitive issues. Do you have unreasonable expectations? Are you too nice? Or have too much attitude? Too clingy or jealous? Do you have relations with them before a commitment? Do you have masculine/aggressive/competitive energy? Do you try to "mother" them by helping them/trying to solve things for them? These are a few but there are many others.
2. Where are you meeting them? Certain areas, establishments, time of day/night, etc. cater to certain demographics. Also, do you only talk to guys who look a certain way aka your "type"? That gets a lot of women talking to the same kind of guy.
3. How do you look? Do you need to lose weight? Do you need to dress differently? Do you need different hairstyles? If your size and/or look are attracting a certain type of guy then switch it up. Thinner women usually have a larger pool of men to choose from than larger women. A toned-down, feminine look seems most successful, as well. Men are visual so this is the easiest and first thing ladies should change to attract a different type of guy. I found I get the best results by dressing more classically feminine (dresses, skirts, cute flats or heels, jewel or pastel colors, nice makeup, minimal delicate jewelry, hair down (natural or wig), etc.) but not over the top (instagram-type barely-there outfits with lots of colors, patterns, sequins, etc., super high "dancer" looking heels, extreme hairstyles/colors, too much makeup, gaudy jewelry, etc.).
1 & 3 are the hardest for us to really be open & honest about. While I know folks may say people should accept you for you, and you shouldn't have to change, at some point (if we keep ending up with the same results) we need to really look at ourselves and be willing to make drastic changes. There are others but these 3 are the main ones I had to assess about myself. I'm still working but the progress so far has been eye-opening and worth it! You really have to do a deep internal dive. You really have to look in the mirror.
Prayers for you on your journey 💜
So many factors are working against women these days. Women outnumber men, the divorce rate is high and easy women are available with just a swipe.
Men are having a blast with all options at there disposal. But trust me. Most are not happy.
Its better to stay single, happy and somewhat lonely than with someone your not happy with or who treats you less than.
Stay blessed. Your not alone.
Right.... I’m tiered of meeting men just to cut off...some never make it to the first date...
@@bigche5859
I've met numerous guys where we never go on a 1st date or interact any further than 1 phone conversation
Yes Sir Coach Rob!! You are a Real King inside out..
I appreciate Listening to You everyday.....
Thank you
You're a masculine male because you protect women. Thank you.
You're Welcome
@@coachrod8324 Truth will never get public praise. We are living in a generation that everyone wants to believe the Lie. God has his chosen people to speak his truth and heart of the matter. You are one of those chosen people.
My father is garbage. That's where it started. I have NOTHING to do with him anymore!
When I saw your post it hit me hard. I don't know what happened but let it go. Cause it will destroy you. Pray to Jehovah God for help he will be a Father to you read the Bible. His ways are not man's way. God loves you and so do a I
Keep being you, we need to educate all women to be high value - that's my mission too, like you said it would be difficult to reach men - but women can lead the way on this, by working on themselves they'll automatically change how a man treats them xx
Thanks for being a gentleman and encouraging ladies/women to expect the best from a real man/men.
Personally, I don't care how long it takes me to meet and date a REAL MAN..again...IF I ever meet another one. I've been married before with 2 kids (a boy & a girl), both are successful in their careers so are my grandchildren too....
My advice Wait on God for a Christian man who listen to you & respect you.
Thanks Again, for all your ADVICE!!!!!
So much wisdom!! ❤️ Women know your worth no matter who’s in front of you!
"O M G"! THIS IS REALREAL TALK!
Thank you
You are so raw and authentic! Love this!!! I wish I had you to teach me a long time ago, Unc! 🙏🏾
Amen, I’m grateful to have found your channel. You are real truth-speaker.
Yep just went through that,he raised his voice i flipped the hell out,he apologized quickly,but o was still mad had to calm down with a straight face❤
Thank God for people like you!
It's all good coach. Your purpose is greater than the friends and family members who dis u. U are changing relationships and making a big difference in women's lives. Keep doing what the Lord tells u to do. U changed and saved my life from a Narccistic relationship. Thank U Coach Rod. In the process of getting ur book.
I think every person should know how to maintain their own character...
It seems like men teaches each other men bad behavior and reinforce those bad standards....
Absolutely i listen to him but he got faults as well. We don't know how people are going to treat you out here in these falling times. You got to watch as well as you pray. The best way to get something started with a man let him call you and you ask questions. If he can't tolerate your interview then end that situation. Some men will charm you don't fall for it. If he take you out to dinner tell him you can pay your half and see how he responds. You have to be your own detective. And remember don't have expectations because this is a situation not a relationship.
Thank you for what you do! You are a true man, you are doing important work.
57 years old.. VIRTUOUS WOMAN..and single Because of it.
A man understands his worth by his own production and females likewise.
You are so true loving me now thank you God.
I just came across your videos last night throughly enjoying them...🙏🏽
Thank You Queen
This is an old school teaching. Some of these brothers hate doing good because they love darkness better light. They don't like to be exposed. They're grown boys who don't want to grow up. This teachings are line up with the holy scriptures. The wicked calls evil good and calls good is evil. Brothers are self hate to disrespect the sisters. Keep up the great brother🙏🏾📖👑
Don't change who you are your amazing continue to succeed and prosper. I love it blessings. my frist time listening to you. Yes loving me now knowing my worth it feels great.
Knowledge of self, again gives answers to us simp males, good work Bro, -
knowledge - Aiightden Tv
To much time WASTED away when we could be working.. taking vacation and just enjoying life
Good advice, telling teens not to date. It's brutal out here. I can't imagine a young girl dating in these times.
This video has a lot of nuggets of wisdom. It is real sad, because society has us women trained to deal with toxic masculinity.
Coach Rod I really appreciate you teaching all us Queens how to properly respect ourselves. Keep bringing us the truth!!!
He the best down to earth coach I've ever listened to ...u the man ...keep up the great job
Keep preaching the good word.
Thanks for sharing your gift with us.
You're Welcome
Thanks so much. This information is so valuable. I didn’t know this. You should be paid for this.
Thank you and bless you coach.
Thanks, for being a true gentleman!!!!
You're Welcome
Interesting,🤔
how nowadays alot of Men don't want to treat us women (well)...yet they
(want us women) to give them what they want.. of all the things that might be; interesting.
This is very interesting here;🙂very, very, interesting.🤔
In reference to us women allowing Men to verbally disrespect us..
you are absolutely accurate for us women to not allow it.
I grew up in a two parent household where I visually saw nothing but love given to my Mother from my Father and vice versa so DEFINITELY, me getting anything (less) than what I grew up witnessing.. is a No for me.
Love your videos. You are so Raw, up front, and crystal clear, to the point.
Thank you. #Salute . Much respect to a TRUE alpha.
Coach ROD
Said he's a Kingdom man🙌
Lol tell em Coach they got the Betty Wright spirit! 😂😂😂
Start a matching service pls! You screen the men and the women!
26:46 when he started singing😭😂. Great video Coach Rod!❤️
My spirit is tiered of having to watch videos about how a man suppose to treat a woman and what a queen expects. Im so glad you here though. I am learning for sure
Treatment is a everything cause you never know what prevent her from growing.
Coach Rod I just got my book delivered... I can’t wait to read it. Thank You ❤️
keep up the good work coach preying for these men out here we need more like you thank god fore you.
to funny
Thank you for the videos. God bless
You're welcome
Excellent Teaching
Thanks Queen
Good morning Coach Rod, thank you very much for this I appreciate it a lot. ☕🙌😊😁
You're Welcome
Coach Rod, Omg! I was lmao... This was true Gold. Amen! 👍🏽👏🏽😂💥💐👊🏽
It’s the phone call for me! Coach Rod is on it!
Thank you, for teaching what it is to really be a high value woman, to attack a truly high value man. That other man you mention is very disrespectful, who think it's cool to disrespect women, just to get ratings, followers, money. He is a disgrace to the Black community. Shameful. Thank you for respecting us, women. God Bless. 😊
Message starts at 14:45
Thank me later 🙄
I love that he likes to build a rapport with his audience, but people's attention span is not that long in todays society. He should make notes and stick to it, as not to get off subject, or repeat himself constantly. He takes away from the value of the message.
Aside from that, I love his videos.
Ty
Truth
LOL...song break 🤣
Betty Wright spirit 💀🤣🤣
💙Excellent Video & Godly Wisdom 💙
Thank you for your honest, sweet, testimony and perfect analysis of love from the heart of a man to a women. Happy Love and Harmony Day !
Thank you coach Rod
I love thé truth you Bring 💜💪💜
I'm sorry coach but some men do not know how to treat women they don't know because they never had anyone to show them how
U speaking facts God bless u for speaking the truth
I LOVE THESE TEACHINGS!!!!!! Keep up the great work
Coach Rod I ❤ your acting like us ladies... Always get a great 😂😂😅, such wisdom coach Rod!!
Facts coach Rod
Thank you
Great work
OMG... my ex's sister sent me that Betty right song after we broke up.....SMH. Thanks for the knowledge
What.. Simps are men at peace. Doing their obligation to their woman for 30mins to 2 hrs like doing some household chores, buyng them some stuff in the grocery then the woman will let them be. Men have all the time in the world after that, to do their own stuff and even have a home cooked meal ready. That's my observation.
👍👍👌👌 video so informative
S SERIOUSLY I IMPRESSIVE M MALE P POWER new definition !! Thank you Coach R. You are awesome and anointed!
I’ve never heard of a Betty Wright and Al Green spirit. This is good stuff but you’re funny Lol 😂
The thing is all the male bashing and all the women bashing is not going to create healthy relationships I see toxicness on both sides however with the men it's way worse I think that women have become so fed up that now it's like if you can't beat them join them it's sad I mean even women are getting killed or disrespected on social media just for telling a man no 😔
I wanna give you ‘luh’ money…. Nah, I’m good , I already have ‘LUNCH’ money . 🤦🏽♀️
😅😅😅 Right! Luh money!
Thank you for your videos.
i know that first song. Al Green
Dang...blood aint loyal either...jealousy and move around. You doing what is for you. Can you give me some advice with a 2yr old and not with the dad (deceased) and I am currently not dating nor have I been with anyone since his dad? Where could I start with a son, just simple steps?
You made me laugh talking about Al Green and Betty wright I don't want that spirit I'm more conscious I'm listening to men like yourself I wish I had a man talk to me the way you talking to me now I never had a father to show me the love yes and I was one of those girls that was very promiscuous I learn the hard way about these men in these streets
Good video
🤣🤣🤣 so tired of being alone I'm dead son
Well said coach ,👍👍🤔
I approve this message .Your singing though😅
You said it..they choose not to..yeah if I am asked an inappropriate question with no explanation ..I simply don't reply ...cant believe an old colleague contacted me yesterday out of the blue..I wasn't even close to him..he asked me 'are you married?' I didnt reply..that man was/is married with 4 kids!
I wow
Amen
You g should’ve sang hit the road jack and don’t you come back no more💯
Thanks for sharing Rod. What to do for men you're just getting to know that try to find out where you live through other methods such as license plate etc?
Run and get a restraining order.
Ok but do you think making a man wait 6 months to know where you live and work will make them more curious about finding out even if they don't have ill intent behind knowing?
@@ToiGraham no not a real man. Who want to get to know. He will respect your boundaries.
Zero tolerance. Daughters watch how their mothers handle situations.
Keep on doing what you were assigned to do by God! Let the haters hate and stay asleep!