Why Rushing into Dating Could Be the Worst Decision of Your Life | Jonathan Evans

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

Комментарии • 44

  • @kotech2003
    @kotech2003 Год назад +13

    What he’s saying is true. I missed the first step: PROPERLY observing and taking notes. I would observe but not long enough, I also didn’t ask people or didn’t ask the right people. Because of this, I ended up in bad relationships and like Jonathan said, I stayed trying to make something work that wasn’t meant to be. So heed this man’s words, it’s backed up by God’s word and will save you a lot of heartache. The only thing I will add: While you’re observing, Seek The Lord. He knows that person inside and out, the same way He knows you inside and out. He knows if they’re right for you or not. If He tells you “No” or to break things off with someone, no matter how much you like them, walk away and trust The Lord that He knows what and who’s best for you.

  • @carlalexander6121
    @carlalexander6121 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love this. Thanks Jonathan this is gold for us men raising daughters!!

  • @ezraesther620
    @ezraesther620 10 месяцев назад +1

    Make Sense. Word bruh. Ama listen to this again wen I ready to date

  • @MrDrudown33
    @MrDrudown33 Год назад +12

    Man of God. This message is crystal clear. May God continue to richly bless you....and keep you... Thank you!!!

  • @cac.kwhbpw
    @cac.kwhbpw Год назад +3

    Amen! So wise!🙏

  • @SanRobPortillo3678
    @SanRobPortillo3678 Год назад +2

    So true that’s why I’m waiting till I’m ready till my hearts ready and only on Gods timing He only knows when I’m ready … there’s nothing wrong in waiting till your ready.. Thank you 🙏🏼❤️🌹🤍

  • @joyh.729
    @joyh.729 Год назад +2

    Words of wisdom!🌟

  • @bonitahopkins2958
    @bonitahopkins2958 Год назад +1

    Healing is most important before you start dating i think. You should be as whole as possible so the next person doesn't have to suffer from your past wounds. People sometimes allow loneliness to lead them into dating.

  • @marybryan3702
    @marybryan3702 9 месяцев назад +1

    Your teaching is Great, but what about some of us ladies who do not know a father's love, and is struggling to find a true and good relationship. I know that for some of us, it will take serious counselling to fullfill that gap of knowing what true love is all about

  • @marshalyons8056
    @marshalyons8056 Год назад +5

    I’m loving this Jonathan ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🙏🏾

  • @bettyjohnson7457
    @bettyjohnson7457 Год назад +1

    Wow this was an eye opener

  • @Ash-ol3ji
    @Ash-ol3ji Год назад +2

    The medicine analogy is so on point! "Observe before you invest"... what a word 🙌🏽

  • @eddiemoser3623
    @eddiemoser3623 Год назад +2

    Very helpful!! Thank you Jonathan!!

  • @BookofProverbs
    @BookofProverbs Год назад +5

    I really needed this during my season of life, thank you brother.

  • @tamaratarere
    @tamaratarere Год назад +2

    This is a good word, I honestly knew this and I think I did not practice it as well as I should have. But I know God says if you trust me you will Wait.

  • @Nadia-tu6ed
    @Nadia-tu6ed Год назад +4

    Hi Jonathan... I am going through the same phase as you and your wife when you were in college... I am in the observing season.

  • @ruthnyambati3198
    @ruthnyambati3198 Год назад +2

    I really needed to hear this..thank you Jonathan 🙏. God bless you.

  • @eldonahashitsume8990
    @eldonahashitsume8990 Год назад +2

    Received Jonathan! Thank you! 😊

  • @brandie_patreece
    @brandie_patreece Год назад +1

    Yes, you’re back with another banger..

  • @hoodscout
    @hoodscout Год назад +1

    I reached out to you brother about coming on a Christian radio show in the metroplex in the month of June, now sure of your availability. Enjoy your blessings.

  • @deanascott4545
    @deanascott4545 Год назад +2

    Wow!!! This is heavy...thanks for sharing Johnathan🙏

  • @DenniDenicka
    @DenniDenicka Год назад +2

    Wow! I wished I prayed for my marriage before we married. We do love eachother but we weren’t followers of Christ before dating and marriage

  • @EagleEyedEnlightenment
    @EagleEyedEnlightenment Год назад +2

    This was awesome… wish I knew this 20 yrs ago🙃

  • @mcneilla77
    @mcneilla77 Год назад +2

    Trying to make it work because of the time and investment we put into the relationship is ALL the WRONG reasons to stay🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾powerful truth that many are doing instead of cutting their losses, owning the mistakes and let God heal !!

  • @sheilag6421
    @sheilag6421 Год назад +6

    THIS is TRUTH!!! ❤️💯💯✊🏾❤️ *** "SHEILA's" are NOT Loud! 😳 😆😂🤣🤣🤣 sincerely,,,, Sheila G, member of OCBF! 🙌🏾👏🏾👑

  • @brittanya3000
    @brittanya3000 Год назад +2

    This was super helpful! Praise God and thank you🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @lloya8
    @lloya8 Год назад +1

    Love it! Shared it with my two teens immediately. Thank you.

  • @rodmcgarthy479
    @rodmcgarthy479 Год назад +2

    Preach my brother thank you for this!

  • @gratefulalways8188
    @gratefulalways8188 Год назад +1

    Thanks, Brother! Truth...Amen.

  • @88niteowl88
    @88niteowl88 Год назад +2

    This was helpful. Thank you!!

  • @ChiefCedricJohnson
    @ChiefCedricJohnson Год назад +2

    Jude 1:21
    Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life.

  • @rosalindprayerwarrior4987
    @rosalindprayerwarrior4987 Год назад +1

    Thank you, so much!

  • @lovingrcTV
    @lovingrcTV Год назад +1

    God bless you 👏🏾 ❤

  • @Talaya33
    @Talaya33 Год назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @cliz30770a
    @cliz30770a Год назад +2

    1:33 / 2:13 / 3:08 / 4:26 / 7:46 / 8:15 / 9:04 / 9:16 / 10:05

  • @lindohlily
    @lindohlily Год назад +1

    "fools talk a lot to cover up ill intent" dt part

  • @kw5rt6
    @kw5rt6 Год назад +1

    What verses are should I share with my daughter? I'm new to the word, and she's not really into the word. She's a freshman in college. I will definitely share your channel, I pray she follows.

  • @bluebrolylover22
    @bluebrolylover22 Год назад +2

    I wish this video was around in 2020. If it were I wouldn't be a single Mom wishing that I made a better choice in terms of my daughter's father. I was so lost in 2020 that I let a not so good man, or a boy trapped in a man's body be the father of my only daughter. I thank God everyday for letting me have a supportive family. My daughter and I are currently living with my parents. I'm slowly getting on my feet, and living with Sickle Cell that is HARD. But I'm learning how to put God first because I have learned that no matter what He needs to come first. I read His word to my daughter every night as a bedtime story and she sleeps throughout the night. However, because of my failed relationship with her father and all of the grade school crushes having no interest in me at all. I feel like men just see me as a tool. I'm struggling on seeing myself the way God sees me. Like in 2020. I often feel like I'm not worth God's time or energy. I know that's false because of a heart to heart that God and I had. But the feeling is still very powerful. How can I lessen or even get rid of that feeling?

    • @mcneilla77
      @mcneilla77 Год назад

      Speak the Word of God over you daily! His Word is truth and it is alive! His Word gives us hope and we speak it by faith! Continue to speak God’s Word until you see yourself the way He sees you and claims you to be! His Word is bigger than what we feel, or think! Woman of God, speak over yourself and declare daily how you are made in the image and likeness of Creator God! That you are fearfully and wonderfully made! That you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus! Never stop speaking the truth of what God says about you and over every situation! Be encouraged my sister in Christ 🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @honeyk4551
      @honeyk4551 9 месяцев назад

      First, just want to start off by saying children are a blessing from the Lord, He says that and you could read a lot of scriptures about it. I heard someone say this, Tamar deceived her father-in-law Judah. I believe that this was in genesis She dressed up as a prostitute and ended up having twin boys those twins are in the lineage of Jesus Christ. If you check the book of Matthew. Mistakes happen, but God will use that mistake and turn it into a blessed..
      Second thing I want to say to you, I noticed there’s a wolf on your page and fire. I noticed you play video games which is not terrible, but what you have to understand is sometimes a lot of those games open us up to the spiritual realm we can’t see it and we can’t observe it but it’s there so I would encourage you to pray against those spirit that may have opened up to you in a spiritual realm that as you said, men are seeing you as a tool. somethings feeling good about yourself starts with the way we style our hair, the way we dress and what we eat. All of that makes a big difference. Trust me I can tell you there’s times when I style my hair certain way and I don’t like myself but when my hair is styled away that I like, I feel so confident so sexy so sometimes just the way we do I our hair can add confidence. Also you are a brilliant and beautiful woman; you are not your illness
      I encourage you like the lady said before me in the comments, make sure that you are declaring God’s word over yourself whatever he’s promised you write it down, tape it to your wall and mirror and speak it to yourself, speak life to yourself. The Bible says when David was discouraged; he encouraged himself in the Lord, so make sure that you are encouraging yourself and speak a life over yourself and over your daughter and you will see those negative spirits and words start to fade and God‘s word will be replaced with it Instead, all right, all the best in Jesus name.

  • @bisratmeasho3021
    @bisratmeasho3021 Год назад +1

    Obsorve, date,courtship, conclude.

  • @cliz30770a
    @cliz30770a Год назад

    How did you win your wife over?