That man is so selfish. His wife’s body is literally having her bottom half split open and those nurses/doctors are trying to keep her and the baby alive!
Well my hospital were I delivered actually offered my husband water. After the labor when I had to eat the nurses actually asked if my husband wanted anything or go e me extra jello or pudding for my husband.
My hospital I delivered at actually gave my husband a tray of tea and toast. He completely was grateful and was never entitled or expecting of them to do it ! Some men need to grow up
@@phillipswatson3452 omg, if I were your mom I wouldn't even pick up the phone. The number your trying to call is unavailable at the moment pls try again later😂😂
That's not a man, it's another baby. Huge red flag in the relationship. If the woman knows about his complaints then she should reevaluate whether he's worth being with. It's only her job to raise the child she gave birth to, not her husband/boyfriend. Your lady is bringing life into the world through a very invasive, high risk, no room for mistakes, and possibly extremely painful process for God knows how many hours and all you can think about is yourself and your belly? Boy bye
I had to leave a guy who acted this .. the most draining relationship in my life 😖 but it didn’t last long! Please don’t ever put up with that nonsense.
@I'm Anonymous Iv'e heard that said before too. So that part doesn't sound as scary to me as it once did. Might as well have the pain but get some reward out of it.
When I was pushing my baby out, I had visions that a truck was coming out of my vagina. I literally thought I was going to push all of my insides out of my body.
Thank you Adrienne for pointing out that nurses and other staff are there to provide medical attention.. not to CATER. As a nurse, families often forget my role and try to treat me/other nurses as waitstaff.
Sir... you can help yourself ! Your woman was GOING THROUGH LABOR and before that was carrying YOUR child for 9 months... you worried about a damn cup of water and sitting for twelve hours... when she went through way more than you... she the one that needs attention and help...not you
Amen! Say it again 4 the ppl n the back! Guarantee he's gonna b a whole nightmare for the next several months... guess who WON'T be going to get the baby for those every 2-4 hrs. feedings in the middle of the night; changing diapers during that same time... and guess who's gonna sulk & feel neglected in a corner somewhere with all the company coming to see mom & baby?! Just pathetic! She didn't get pregnant with YOUR child by herself, Sir!
sorry for dumb question, but how did you know she was somali? i asked because i guessed she was Somali as well, but my guess was because of superficial reasons.
Why didn't he pack some capris suns and subway sandwich? He should've planned ahead! She got herself another WHOLE baby. Nothing worse than a man who complains and can't problem solve. Good luck with him helping to change a light bulb.
Thank you Adrienne! As a nurse, I am not your waitress, I am there to take care of the patient and make sure THEY’RE ok, not you. You can help yourself. 😌
I agree with tam. The mother was pregnant for nine months and is giving BIRTH which can be fatal and is extremely painful and difficult, of course shes going to get the attention...the father should've been more concerned with helping his partner as much as possible, not himself. She's the one feeling all the extreme pain and doing all the work. The mother deserves the attention because shes the one at risk...the father should just focus on making the labor as comfortable as possible...for his partner and his baby. He's not the one feeling contractions, why cant he go and get water? Lmao
As a med student who just learned about the intricacies of childbirth. All the staff's attention should be on the mom. Anything could happen or go wrong. Men DON'T need attention during childbirth.
Yes Tamera! "Contractions is like Lightning shot through your body". That is the most excellent way to describe the feeling and to get shot multiple times too is unbearable. I felt like I was going to die because the pain was beyond me. Give this Man-child a dose of that and he'll shut up forever!
Perhaps you meant this particular man as not all men can be grouped in this or any situation. Yes, there is a general trend of entitlement within certain spheres of society when it comes to gender but I'm sure as was said for Adam, there are plenty of men who have & would rise to the occasion of helping their partner during childbirth.
IndianaJosephine Stop caping for men you pick me female simp ass b*tch. Men are like babies thats why women say they have 3 kids (2 biological, 1 their man)
Working in labor and delivery this absolutely got me heated 😂😂. Luckily I haven't run into many of those types of dad's but there have been a few that throw fits like little kids about their wife/girlfriend getting all the attention and I gotta step out of the room to compose myself and fix my face😤🙄😂😂
One thing about mommy stories.. is that every moment is remembered for a lifetime.... I still know every moment of giving birth stories.. just an amazing moment.
This is why it's IMPORTANT to raise your kids with morals!! I'm sure this man's mom probably never really gave him tough love! Probably always gave him his way let him get away with EVERYTHING to the point he got older and couldn't face the fact the world DOESN'T revolve around him.
As a birth doula I tend to give attention to both the mother & partner. I never ignore the partner at all. I try to include the partner in birthing process instead of only the mother, if interested, by encouraging (not forcing) to be next to her, give/get ice chips, fanning her, help in moving her to different birthing position & etc. I remind the partner (or any family member or friend with mother) to eat & drink because they’ll be there for awhile. Sometimes they would remind me to eat/drink water & offer me food which is nice, but I already packed some & always prepared to eat well beforehand. I believe in including both in birthing process. The fact that this father was just sitting for 12 hours is making me wonder why wasn’t he standing by her side helping instead of sitting & waiting to be offered water. It’s sad that some are narcissistic. I’m questioning if they had a birth doula like me would it have been different
Kindah I totally understand what you mean. There are few partners who just sit & are not interested to be included. Some need to feel that they’re included while others are just narcissistic which is sad. I hope he can change his ways for better
Great thoughts you added! I do feel he should have gotten up and made himself useful instead of sitting waiting to be noticed. I mean, forgive the medical professionals for focusing on their actual patients 🤦🏾♀️
My husband understands what women go through and always steps aside to make sure I’m okay and the baby is okay he would never be mad about something like that. Your man should be there to support you and make sure you’re okay !!
Sad thing is most people treat nurses like waitresses and then get pissed when things aren't done immediately or aren't don't quick enough for them... As a nurse I will say if you are ever in a hospital or needing medical care remember this... Your nurse when she comes in your room may look calm and collected but she is thinking of million things, she's assessing, she's planning, she's thinking 3 hours ahead and doing that for 6-8 patients for 8-12 hours a day. So please do not treat a hospital like a hotel, I'm sorry ma'am but Ive got a patient in respiratory distress, I've got a patient with their blood pressure in their boots, I've got someone who just fell, I've got someone with 10/10 pain, I've got physicians/lab techs/PSW's etc all wanting to talk to me about a patient... so I won't apologize for the fact that I was not here right away to fix your damn pillow (well actually I will to your face, but then I'll go home blasting rock music while I drive to let out frustrations lol)
Narcassitic and gross! You sit and watch a woman go through all of this and still think somehow you need to be looked after just as much or above the one delivery your child. 🙄🙄
How he felt is how I felt when I was having a baby. They literally didn’t check on me until I was ready but every time my man would leave to the car or doing something for me they were in his face. I had a bad birth experience. They made me never wanna have a baby again. Medical field is messy af & most are rude af
He's there for support he needs to go get the drinks and I feel like he's going to be very controlling and he's probably going to get jealous of the baby after the baby comes.
Such great Points. Men should be there holding her leg or rubbing her sholders or bringing her water. He has to legs gosh this made me laugh... Great episode!
This is why I don't want to have kids... I don't wanna go thru what every mother went thru. Plus I like not having the responsibility of taking care of a mini me. Now, don't get me wrong, love kids, but I don't want any myself.
My husband had a wonderful experience while I was in labor at the hospital. The doctors and nurses asked him if he needed anything as well and he was there with me for over 30 hours. God has truly blessed me with an amazing husband and father of my sweet baby girl!!
We had problems during the birth of our son. We stayed over night and my husband woke up 6 times for me to pee to walk me to the bathroom with my iv. When the C-section happened he was right there the whole time. After baby boy was here he woke up everytime he cried at night. He was a MVP!
It's actually so sad that men always feel left out as the father. There are fathers who feel this way BUT also feel so sad that they can't do anything to help the pain BUT be there. But to think the mother of your child is in so much pain and you can't get a water? Where is her water? Lawd.
When I hear a man whine and complain about not getting enough attention. That's a red flag. He's selfish, run. A selfless man worry about not pulling his own weight or if he is doing enough for his fam and friends
My best friend’s super toxic ex kept taking naps while she was in labor because he was “so tired” and “needed energy.” Didn’t give her support at all but took a lot of credit once my godson was born of course🙄
Some guys can be so ignorant when it comes to being pregnant and delivery the baby. This man was being so disrespectful towards his wife. He’s extremely lucky that he doesn’t have to go through this process of birthing, the least he could do is not COMPLAIN LIKE A FREAKING BABY!
Shame on that man! But, I will say that it doesn't even have anything to do with the fact that his wife is in labor. What it has everything to do with is the fact that this is a hospital NOT a restaurant, AND THE WIFE IS THE PATIENT, NOT THE HUSBAND! Of course the wife is going to get the attention and care for what she needs because she's technically going to be the paying customer. Doesn't even matter that she's pregnant because they would do the same thing if she was there for a cut leg or something like that. If you're not the patient, you don't receive the services case in point!
Meanwhile the father of my child complained that I was being inconsiderate of his emotions and broke up with me while pregnant...wow. It was during my super emotional weeks too. I was like 7 months pregnant. I was like damn I must not matter.
They have vending machines in hospitals and you’re allowed to take your own food and water too. This man just wanted people to be there for him hand and foot I can only imagine this man complaining the entire time.
Get your own damn water bruh! I agree my bf held my hand and my leg and was there for me every step. So thankful for that. Especially bc I didn't get an epidural or anything, all natural birth. It was intense and beautiful. I'm pregnant with my second and scared shitless lol but I know I have a great man to help me through it like he did with our first 💜
But dad feels his wife n froze Dads are just as part of it as birthing girl Let's go easy on the men plz. Maybe water would have given him strength So much judging geez.
@@mirnabonilla7488 you are a dumb medical workers aren’t your waitress the wife was through labor! He should be supportive towards his wife. He could himself his own water in the hospital there are vending machines and cafeterias . You sound dumb and stupid.
umbilical cord Thanks LoniLove for that laughter. I was so disgusted , at that man like 🙄😳😡🤢. I had my babygirl last year (2018) She is my first child. Labour pain, is no joke it's HOT and horrible.... Thank God for my babyfather he was right there with me....
Love how Tam's first reaction is to have him strapped to a machine. That man needs to calm down and focus on what's really important and that's not him a bit.
He need to have several seats & get his entire life because those nurses are not waitresses! Poor girl is going through 12 hours of pain & she's the one who needs attention.
He'll probably talk about "baby sitting" his own child when taking care of them. He's so self-centered that he doesn't even realise what she's going through. Make no sense.
I think we missed his point. I'm female and have been a birth partner four times. Obviously i did not feel like i was treated mediocre because i was supporting the mothers and i understood that. BUT i have gone through that experience thinking the men/husbands that go through this with their wives must go through alot emotionally. I think it was unfair to call him a narcissist because all he did was declare how he felt. Men birth partners go through a range of emotions and they should be allowed to talk about it, that is not saying that they are belittling the struggles of the mother in labour. I hope i make sense- let men be able to express themselves please. He was in labour with his wife an was ignored - He is relevant. Very relevant infact. It is the job of the medical staff to check everyone and anyone is ok. A first time dad especially should have been taking care off - and yes even offered water. He was going through an emotional experience and should have been supported.
Absolutely mommy and baby come FIRST. But I like to look at things from both sides and it's possible that once they were taken care of then maybe he was just looking for some common hospitality.
He wasn't breastfed before his wife went into labor. The nurses should've given him a 🍼 and a binky (pacifier). Nothing worse than an effeminate male craving attention. When my wife was in labor, I was more focused on her and the little body making its way out of her body; I didn't notice anything else😁
That man is so selfish. His wife’s body is literally having her bottom half split open and those nurses/doctors are trying to keep her and the baby alive!
Jordyn Elliott well said!
Men are deeply selfish
Such a douche
He sounds gay to me
@@Ashhwitcash wtf is that even supposed to mean?
Adrienne nailed it with her response❣ Healthcare professionals are not your waitress👏👏👏👏👏
Soooooo true. I have Multiple patients and a helpful spouse/family member is EVERYTHING to the patient experience
I think it helps that her sister is a nurse so she probably got it from there. Very irritating patients.
Who tf gets offered a drink when you’re a VISITOR at the hospital? They got vending machines and a kitchen downstairs tf.
I know right?
Exactly!
Well my hospital were I delivered actually offered my husband water. After the labor when I had to eat the nurses actually asked if my husband wanted anything or go e me extra jello or pudding for my husband.
My hospital I delivered at actually gave my husband a tray of tea and toast. He completely was grateful and was never entitled or expecting of them to do it ! Some men need to grow up
Annabelle James exactly 😬
I bet you he's going to be one of those men, who is gonna complain about the baby getting all the attention 2 😧😥
Wow tnx for all the likes 💪🏽🙈❤
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SWEETIE....THAT WAS MY BROTHER HE WOULD CALL MY MOM & SAY I NEED TIME WITH HIS WIFE & DROP THE BABY OFF!! SMDH
Yes!! Didn’t even think about that. This poor mother is going to have a hard life
@@phillipswatson3452 omg, if I were your mom I wouldn't even pick up the phone.
The number your trying to call is unavailable at the moment pls try again later😂😂
Quoteme K KANYE WEST 😂😂
@@substantianigra4789 lol the mad man
Throw away the whole man 😂😂😂😂
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Loni saying “ don’t tell Adam this” is so funny to me because she’s acting like if it isn’t going to be broadcasted to the whole US lol...
That doesn't mean he watches every episode.....
Lol! She’s just playing. Loni. Smh. Lol
Beellines ! Right
Jonique Suggs of course! Just found it hilarious!!!
I love Loni and Adams relationship ... Reminds me of my dad and Aunt
Just came here to see why Loni is crying...
its a continuation from the "mediocre" topic
Me too.🤣
Same
Same!
Click bait
I don't understand why the dad was expecting anyone to serve him anything. He ain't in restaurant. Lol
That's not a man, it's another baby. Huge red flag in the relationship. If the woman knows about his complaints then she should reevaluate whether he's worth being with. It's only her job to raise the child she gave birth to, not her husband/boyfriend. Your lady is bringing life into the world through a very invasive, high risk, no room for mistakes, and possibly extremely painful process for God knows how many hours and all you can think about is yourself and your belly? Boy bye
I had to leave a guy who acted this .. the most draining relationship in my life 😖 but it didn’t last long! Please don’t ever put up with that nonsense.
Exactly. That poor woman now has a newborn and a manchild.
Men are like children
"possibly extremely painful" ... A lot of women literally are ripped open and tear from giving birth so it's not a possibly it's an inevitably
Tamera explaining how contractions feels is a whole form of contraceptive.
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Lol! so true! I kinda stopped paying attention to the talk because that really got inside my mind!
Sounds like she was describing bad cramps
@I'm Anonymous Iv'e heard that said before too. So that part doesn't sound as scary to me as it once did. Might as well have the pain but get some reward out of it.
Kathy Bates my mom described them as period cramps x100
Tamera describing contractions just cured my baby fever 🥴
I have 2 kids and one with no epidural and that made me never want to do it again. Lol. Sounds like she had it rough.
She described it well lol.. to me it felt like my intestines and everything would explode.
Yes it felt like I was getting stabbed repeatedly down there lol.
When I was pushing my baby out, I had visions that a truck was coming out of my vagina. I literally thought I was going to push all of my insides out of my body.
My ass is giving birth in 2 weeks, my psyche didn’t need that description
Poor woman has 2 babies to take care of 😟
Then she should dump the adult baby and take care of the actual infant.
Right?!
@@kinndah2519 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽that's what I did. Its tough on my own but better than abuse.
@@avamooltrey I had a similar experience but never had any kids with the man. Proud of you and God bless you sister : )
This woman giving birth and you wanna pout about NOT getting attention. Tamera said it BEST!! Feel the contractions and then you WON'T complain 🤦
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They used loni crying as click bait !! 😂😂
YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS. THAT'S THE REASON WHY I CLICKED LOL
but why was she crying?
@@Mimi89_7 Because of a previous segment
Love Maire 😂😂😂right! I clicked cos of that
Lmao right! I’m all sitting here waiting....
This is a man-child... wow. This woman now has TWO children
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣this is funny
👍😅👍 My thoughts exactly!
Thank you Adrienne for pointing out that nurses and other staff are there to provide medical attention.. not to CATER. As a nurse, families often forget my role and try to treat me/other nurses as waitstaff.
Sir... you can help yourself ! Your woman was GOING THROUGH LABOR and before that was carrying YOUR child for 9 months... you worried about a damn cup of water and sitting for twelve hours... when she went through way more than you... she the one that needs attention and help...not you
EXACTLY 💯
Amen! Say it again 4 the ppl n the back! Guarantee he's gonna b a whole nightmare for the next several months... guess who WON'T be going to get the baby for those every 2-4 hrs. feedings in the middle of the night; changing diapers during that same time... and guess who's gonna sulk & feel neglected in a corner somewhere with all the company coming to see mom & baby?! Just pathetic! She didn't get pregnant with YOUR child by herself, Sir!
BOO-YAH!!!!!🎤 drop
You couldn't get your own WATER
@@carolynbrihm6057 right like can he not go to a vending machine or the cafeteria the hell
0:54 the Somali sister looks simply beyond stunning in the yellow and black hijab yess 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I was just about to write this :) she looks beautiful Mash'Allah
Yea she looks good. 👍🏾
Yes she's gorgeous 😍!!
sorry for dumb question, but how did you know she was somali? i asked because i guessed she was Somali as well, but my guess was because of superficial reasons.
J. Jo Somalis have the same features, however she can be Sudanese though.
Why didn't he pack some capris suns and subway sandwich? He should've planned ahead! She got herself another WHOLE baby. Nothing worse than a man who complains and can't problem solve. Good luck with him helping to change a light bulb.
Lol good one
Anne Day preach!!!
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My pregnant wife's water just broke I better make some sandwiches?
Men-child are so exhausting 😫
Thank you Adrienne! As a nurse, I am not your waitress, I am there to take care of the patient and make sure THEY’RE ok, not you. You can help yourself. 😌
My husband ate his food in the bathroom because I was hungry and couldn't eat. I was in labor for four days. Man up dude.....
I agree with tam. The mother was pregnant for nine months and is giving BIRTH which can be fatal and is extremely painful and difficult, of course shes going to get the attention...the father should've been more concerned with helping his partner as much as possible, not himself. She's the one feeling all the extreme pain and doing all the work. The mother deserves the attention because shes the one at risk...the father should just focus on making the labor as comfortable as possible...for his partner and his baby. He's not the one feeling contractions, why cant he go and get water? Lmao
As a med student who just learned about the intricacies of childbirth. All the staff's attention should be on the mom. Anything could happen or go wrong. Men DON'T need attention during childbirth.
My question is he wanted attention from who?From his wife who was pushing their baby.smh
The hospital. He sounds like a child that feels left out when it’s his siblings birthday. Either way you flip it it’s childish
Worried about his wifey
Compassion plz
N I'm a woman lol
Mirna Bonilla No one cares if ur a woman. B*tch love saying “and im a woman” when they throw their own gender under the bus
Mirna Bonilla He was worried about himself and being catered to
He's a jerk and if this is what he focused on their marriage is not going to last very long
Dad is a cry baby! I feel bad for his wife!!! I see a divorce in the future
Lynn .D 😬
honestly
Yes Tamera! "Contractions is like Lightning shot through your body". That is the most excellent way to describe the feeling and to get shot multiple times too is unbearable. I felt like I was going to die because the pain was beyond me. Give this Man-child a dose of that and he'll shut up forever!
I’m so happy for Tamera! Congratulations on having an amazing husband! I pray that you two have like 50 years of joyful marriage ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Men's entitlement disgusts me. Wat????
Perhaps you meant this particular man as not all men can be grouped in this or any situation. Yes, there is a general trend of entitlement within certain spheres of society when it comes to gender but I'm sure as was said for Adam, there are plenty of men who have & would rise to the occasion of helping their partner during childbirth.
@@indianajosephine4881 girl 🙄
IndianaJosephine Stop caping for men you pick me female simp ass b*tch. Men are like babies thats why women say they have 3 kids (2 biological, 1 their man)
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Aw is someone twiggered
@@alexjames2510 boy shut ur beta ass simp ass up
Can you imagine if that was your husband/baby daddy complaining while you're giving birth? I'm sorry for that woman.
Working in labor and delivery this absolutely got me heated 😂😂. Luckily I haven't run into many of those types of dad's but there have been a few that throw fits like little kids about their wife/girlfriend getting all the attention and I gotta step out of the room to compose myself and fix my face😤🙄😂😂
UmBiblical chord😂😂😂
I'm crying 🤣🤣
Check It Out! 😭😭😭 I laughed so hard.
I'm done with Loni😂😭
One thing about mommy stories.. is that every moment is remembered for a lifetime.... I still know every moment of giving birth stories.. just an amazing moment.
Adrienne was 100% right, side note Tamara looks gorgeous!
This is why it's IMPORTANT to raise your kids with morals!! I'm sure this man's mom probably never really gave him tough love! Probably always gave him his way let him get away with EVERYTHING to the point he got older and couldn't face the fact the world DOESN'T revolve around him.
benny Michael Heck his dad could have spoiled him too smh
@@alexjames2510 you're definitely right...
As a birth doula I tend to give attention to both the mother & partner. I never ignore the partner at all. I try to include the partner in birthing process instead of only the mother, if interested, by encouraging (not forcing) to be next to her, give/get ice chips, fanning her, help in moving her to different birthing position & etc. I remind the partner (or any family member or friend with mother) to eat & drink because they’ll be there for awhile. Sometimes they would remind me to eat/drink water & offer me food which is nice, but I already packed some & always prepared to eat well beforehand. I believe in including both in birthing process. The fact that this father was just sitting for 12 hours is making me wonder why wasn’t he standing by her side helping instead of sitting & waiting to be offered water. It’s sad that some are narcissistic. I’m questioning if they had a birth doula like me would it have been different
Kindah I totally understand what you mean. There are few partners who just sit & are not interested to be included. Some need to feel that they’re included while others are just narcissistic which is sad. I hope he can change his ways for better
Great thoughts you added! I do feel he should have gotten up and made himself useful instead of sitting waiting to be noticed. I mean, forgive the medical professionals for focusing on their actual patients 🤦🏾♀️
A birth doula adds so much inclusion, peace, and understand to a delivery! I think having a birth doula would have made a difference.
Pixie Living How? He would make her get him a drink
My husband understands what women go through and always steps aside to make sure I’m okay and the baby is okay he would never be mad about something like that. Your man should be there to support you and make sure you’re okay !!
Sad thing is most people treat nurses like waitresses and then get pissed when things aren't done immediately or aren't don't quick enough for them... As a nurse I will say if you are ever in a hospital or needing medical care remember this... Your nurse when she comes in your room may look calm and collected but she is thinking of million things, she's assessing, she's planning, she's thinking 3 hours ahead and doing that for 6-8 patients for 8-12 hours a day. So please do not treat a hospital like a hotel, I'm sorry ma'am but Ive got a patient in respiratory distress, I've got a patient with their blood pressure in their boots, I've got someone who just fell, I've got someone with 10/10 pain, I've got physicians/lab techs/PSW's etc all wanting to talk to me about a patient... so I won't apologize for the fact that I was not here right away to fix your damn pillow (well actually I will to your face, but then I'll go home blasting rock music while I drive to let out frustrations lol)
That man is selfish and unfortunately it's a reflection of what's important to him. Smh.
Narcassitic and gross! You sit and watch a woman go through all of this and still think somehow you need to be looked after just as much or above the one delivery your child. 🙄🙄
until life is ripping through half your paralyzed body... no one could ever understand... people fall unconscious, or die, when things go wrong...
How he felt is how I felt when I was having a baby. They literally didn’t check on me until I was ready but every time my man would leave to the car or doing something for me they were in his face. I had a bad birth experience. They made me never wanna have a baby again. Medical field is messy af & most are rude af
I’m sorry you experienced this! I love your Avi by the way...😍
Don’t worry Tam.... I threw up for hours during labor and after my daughter was born 😭 I feel you pain!!
He's there for support he needs to go get the drinks and I feel like he's going to be very controlling and he's probably going to get jealous of the baby after the baby comes.
Does he complain about not having a "Monthy Period" for 30 years?😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤
Such great Points. Men should be there holding her leg or rubbing her sholders or bringing her water. He has to legs gosh this made me laugh... Great episode!
This is why I don't want to have kids... I don't wanna go thru what every mother went thru. Plus I like not having the responsibility of taking care of a mini me. Now, don't get me wrong, love kids, but I don't want any myself.
I went from Laughing about this to Being Angry what a Maddddd Dad indeed🤦🏾♀️ So Selfish of Him🚮
My husband had a wonderful experience while I was in labor at the hospital. The doctors and nurses asked him if he needed anything as well and he was there with me for over 30 hours. God has truly blessed me with an amazing husband and father of my sweet baby girl!!
We had problems during the birth of our son. We stayed over night and my husband woke up 6 times for me to pee to walk me to the bathroom with my iv. When the C-section happened he was right there the whole time. After baby boy was here he woke up everytime he cried at night. He was a MVP!
This is the dad that will blame the mom that the child is getting too much attention during the first 12 months of its life
The dude is a cry baby
The woman is screwed with a dude like that
Now why is Loni crying?!
Cali Q 😂😂😂😂im so confused too
I just watched a video literally right before this, Adrienne was wearing that neon sweatshirt... it looks good on both of them!
He should wear the contraption to get a idea. Then his perspective will change.
I been binge watching this show the whole weekend, you ladies are great💕💕
It's actually so sad that men always feel left out as the father. There are fathers who feel this way BUT also feel so sad that they can't do anything to help the pain BUT be there. But to think the mother of your child is in so much pain and you can't get a water? Where is her water? Lawd.
When I hear a man whine and complain about not getting enough attention. That's a red flag. He's selfish, run. A selfless man worry about not pulling his own weight or if he is doing enough for his fam and friends
The man is seriously a spoiled little girl...smh🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Joanna E he’s a spoiled little boy
don't insult little girls like that
Always Succeeding Exactly. Mamas spoiling their sons
damn dont disrespectus poor girls hes a trash MANNNN
My best friend’s super toxic ex kept taking naps while she was in labor because he was “so tired” and “needed energy.” Didn’t give her support at all but took a lot of credit once my godson was born of course🙄
Jeannie looking LIKE A SNACK.
She said "um-biblical" 😂😂
Marilyn Childs loni is a mess 😂😂😂
It's the medical staff's responsibility to take care of the PATIENT! They are not your waitstaff. Get your own water.
My Heart goes out to the wife...shes gona have Two babies on her hands.Her new Born & her Husband 😩
Who was supposed to offer him water? The medical staff? There are not waiters in there lol😂what a man child!!
They probably offered his wife some water, and he felt she was getting preferential treatment in the delivery room lol
Some guys can be so ignorant when it comes to being pregnant and delivery the baby. This man was being so disrespectful towards his wife. He’s extremely lucky that he doesn’t have to go through this process of birthing, the least he could do is not COMPLAIN LIKE A FREAKING BABY!
Shame on that man! But, I will say that it doesn't even have anything to do with the fact that his wife is in labor. What it has everything to do with is the fact that this is a hospital NOT a restaurant, AND THE WIFE IS THE PATIENT, NOT THE HUSBAND! Of course the wife is going to get the attention and care for what she needs because she's technically going to be the paying customer. Doesn't even matter that she's pregnant because they would do the same thing if she was there for a cut leg or something like that. If you're not the patient, you don't receive the services case in point!
Meanwhile the father of my child complained that I was being inconsiderate of his emotions and broke up with me while pregnant...wow. It was during my super emotional weeks too. I was like 7 months pregnant. I was like damn I must not matter.
They have vending machines in hospitals and you’re allowed to take your own food and water too. This man just wanted people to be there for him hand and foot I can only imagine this man complaining the entire time.
I thought I was going to throw my second baby up. I vomited so much!
What’s he going to do when he has to take care of an infant 24/7!
Get your own damn water bruh!
I agree my bf held my hand and my leg and was there for me every step. So thankful for that. Especially bc I didn't get an epidural or anything, all natural birth. It was intense and beautiful. I'm pregnant with my second and scared shitless lol but I know I have a great man to help me through it like he did with our first 💜
Ooh yes Tam the epidural is too strong for me too, I always throw up from it.
Her life was literally on the line and that bum was worried about some water🥴
12 hours, a woman SUFFERING! OMG! How unfortunate. Lol. 😂
It seems like that menopause is sneaking up on Loni with all the emotions lately 😂😂😂
No hate just love 😅❤️
Yess
I've gotten more emotional as I've gotten older.
Over crying won’t solve anything at times 🤨
🤦🏾♀️ Yes, that’s narcissism.
The dad is not the patient.
But dad feels his wife n froze
Dads are just as part of it as birthing girl
Let's go easy on the men plz.
Maybe water would have given him strength
So much judging geez.
Mirna Bonilla what type of women are you omg? What type of male behavior have you had to put up with in your life?
@@mirnabonilla7488 you are a dumb medical workers aren’t your waitress the wife was through labor! He should be supportive towards his wife. He could himself his own water in the hospital there are vending machines and cafeterias . You sound dumb and stupid.
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Thanks LoniLove for that laughter.
I was so disgusted , at that man like 🙄😳😡🤢.
I had my babygirl last year (2018)
She is my first child. Labour pain, is no joke it's HOT and horrible....
Thank God for my babyfather he was right there with me....
I'm only liking this cuz Loni said UNBIBLICAL 😂😂💀
I feel so bad for this guys wife. Im pretty sure Tamara is going to punch this guy if she ever meets him. Girl I’ll hold him for you!!!
Are you serious dad? Yas tam!
Love how Tam's first reaction is to have him strapped to a machine. That man needs to calm down and focus on what's really important and that's not him a bit.
Yes...Nurses aren't waitresses! And if we over drinks and food they're for the patient...
My ex was like that he was complaining about how uncomfortable he was, and trying to get more attention.
Idk why she’s having a child with this man. Tied to him for life
That woman chose the wrong man to have a baby with
I was in labor for 22 hours. I wish my husband would e complained about not getting attention 🙄🙄🙄🙄 childish
He need to have several seats & get his entire life because those nurses are not waitresses! Poor girl is going through 12 hours of pain & she's the one who needs attention.
Jeannie is killing it in that color ^.^
Also Tam's story was so cute, I love Adam
Look at that beautiful black Muslim woman with hijab on at 00:53. Good to see The Real checked themselves for making hijabis sit at the back.
He'll probably talk about "baby sitting" his own child when taking care of them. He's so self-centered that he doesn't even realise what she's going through. Make no sense.
Everything Tam said 👏🏾. Like seriously has he never heard of labour pain???
His baby mama is probably dealing with MAJOR regret issues right now!!🤦♂️
I think we missed his point. I'm female and have been a birth partner four times. Obviously i did not feel like i was treated mediocre because i was supporting the mothers and i understood that. BUT i have gone through that experience thinking the men/husbands that go through this with their wives must go through alot emotionally. I think it was unfair to call him a narcissist because all he did was declare how he felt. Men birth partners go through a range of emotions and they should be allowed to talk about it, that is not saying that they are belittling the struggles of the mother in labour.
I hope i make sense- let men be able to express themselves please.
He was in labour with his wife an was ignored - He is relevant. Very relevant infact. It is the job of the medical staff to check everyone and anyone is ok.
A first time dad especially should have been taking care off - and yes even offered water. He was going through an emotional experience and should have been supported.
Absolutely mommy and baby come FIRST. But I like to look at things from both sides and it's possible that once they were taken care of then maybe he was just looking for some common hospitality.
My dream is to be able to one day go to The Real show.. y’all have so much fun!
I labored for a week, both deliveries; yes men should leave for a break or be offered drink and food.
It’s not just the physical you are going through it’s the emotional that is worse
He wasn't breastfed before his wife went into labor. The nurses should've given him a 🍼 and a binky (pacifier). Nothing worse than an effeminate male craving attention. When my wife was in labor, I was more focused on her and the little body making its way out of her body; I didn't notice anything else😁