Fridays with Tab and Chance - Arguing in Public
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- Honey, sometimes arguments go from private to public real quick. Let's talk about it! Also, be sure to watch til the end for the true message! Love y'all!
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I pray folks watched from beginning to end. There’s great value in this video.
@stephanie dasher - Thank you for encouraging us to watch the video in its entirety. Sometimes as a singleton I'm tempted to skip some relationship videos (especially if I'm in a funk and bummed about still being single) but then I have to remind myself that wisdom 💎 being shared about how to navigate the difficulties within relationships can be useful in ANY type of relationship - not just romantic. 👍🏾
Again, thank you 😀 and God bless you! 🙏🏾
@@Passion84GodAlways Absolutely 💯 ❤️
@@Passion84GodAlways yessssssssss. Even for us single folks who are planning on marrying.
@@mistyblue3206 AAAAAAAAMEN! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
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Tab came dressed like Nino Brown. 🤣 She meant business.❤️ love yall
And did!!!
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The way I just hollered😂😂
😂😂😂😂 True😅😅
All she needed was the leather tan
“Stop clearing yo throat cause you making me feel like I need to clear my throat!” 😂
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I definitely could relate to this topic in my early years of marriage!🤣🤣, but now after 51 years of marriage we look at each other and start laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's a blessing, 51 years. We're celebrating 20 this year
@@danaek98 congratulations 🎉👍
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Wow, that is a testimony.🥳
Chance chooses violence every time 🤣🤣🤣
And he be proud of his violence choices🤣🤣
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The way he calmly said “buss a move Tab” had me crying 😂🤣. He go looking for the smoke 😂
I’ve been married 25 years, this is the REALEST conversation I’ve heard in a while!😊❤
Right I been married almost 19 yrs this is so real
Thank You!!!!!!❤💯
The first 25 seconds already have me rolling on the floor… 😂 “Bring the Beat In”…I love you and Chance!
Me too it cracks me up every timeeeee😅😅😂😂❤❤❤.I just love them❤❤
What’s funny is that this happened a year ago and everyone remembers that means someone was doing some clowning & some good clowning 😂😂😂
This conversation got me in tears. Reminds me of Claire Huxtable calling witnesses and got a whole jury.
Yeeessss!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Let the record show!” (In Clair Huxtable’s voice) 😂 😂
That was good
Tab..’ your union’
Chance is starting to act up every Friday!😂
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Act right up!! 😂😂😂😂
Right it’s hilarious 😂🤣
He might be tired of doing it and don't want to say anything. Lol😂😂😂😂
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Not “cause i don’t harbor on things when it comes to you, but it was this one time”😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂 “2007”
It's a BLESSING that Tab and Chance have had some HIGH QUALITY individuals in their lives for DECADES that RESPECT & PROTECT their relationship! 🥰🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾
Chance was so shy or just not willing to share at the beginning of Tab and Chance ( years ago). But now we see the love and openness of your conversation. Thank you both for that . But more so Thank you Chance for allowing us to get a mans view of things. Love you guys
He is definitely becoming more confident in being open! I love their Friendship and Relationship they have
I love how when Chance was asked to recall an argument. He couldn’t remember what it was for. Love covers a multitude of wrong. Beautiful
I can't be with someone who argues in public. I dated people in the past that tried to argue with me in public, and I walked off calmly like I didn't know them and they hush up quick when they realize they look like a plum fool. You are not about to have me looking like a ratchet out here... mess up your reputation, but I'm not going down with you.
@babydoll How you just summed me up w/o even knowing me. Bcz one thing about me, Imma safeguard my reputation and leave you lookin like a whole fool. And you bet not touch me while I'm walking away because u will activate the main ingredient in 'whoop @ss'.. Just leave me alone at that point..
Yup...
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I respect that. I've been on both sides. Not, in an intimate bf/gf type of relationship, but with family and friends. I have been the ghetto one at times. I've been the mature person at times. So, I get it.
@@memefaison6007 depends on whom and the situation. So understandable.
The way I am screaming… lmao “that’s why JR can’t testify” Tab is not beating the Scarface allegations and that’s okay, I’m sticking beside her😭🤣
I was side eyeing Chance then Tab started her own narrative, and turned it into a teachable moment lol you guys are funny and made for each other 😂😂😂
When Tab said “ and don’t ask me for my pen” I hollered 🗣🗣🗣😂😂😂. No hitting below the belt. When voices start to rise it’s time to step back and collect yourself. In addition to that Tab the couple makes up and family is still hot as fish grease now we got a bigger problem..
HOLLERED....sound so familiar
I love that Xhance apologized immediately after she shared what her experience was. He is so humble.
Nuck if you buck!!! I am hollering😂😂😂😂😂❤❤😂😂😂. Seriously this is an important message. Coommunication is key!
Oh wow I’m so glad somebody is being transparent in the marriage. That’s us in the car!! Lol
Donna stole the show tonight tab. Beautiful 😍❤️!
Yesss Donna is showing all the way out...🔥🔥❤️
Is Donna twisted or braided...I agree . Gorgeous 😍
@@stacysmith1988 twisted
Monopoly is relationship threatening in my household as well!😂😂😂😂 The kids be like don’t get a divorce over this game!😂😂😂
Yes! 😂 I believe monopoly and spades have been the center of a few divorces 😂😂😂
Bring the beat in…..*crickets* 😂😂😂 Great episode!
I love those glasses on you Tab. Can’t argue with that 😊
You know they good when they gotta go down memory lane to remember arguing 😂❤
It's so HARD for me to mask my feelings before going to an event. I can't drop it and smile. He can, but I can't. I'm like Chance, "When I'm mad, I'm mad." Stay away from me! I'm trying to grow out of it, but it's not working.
Me too I can't fake it
so me then I get more mad because they can drop it so easily and I can’t 😩
My face says it before my mouth does but I'm trying to grow out of it
@@simzali4575 , same here 🙋🏽♀️! I can’t just “turn my mad 😡 off”! I wished it was simple for me but I can hold a grudge🤷🏽♀️. My husband can just shake it off & keep it movin. I’m praying 🙏🏾 that I can adjust my petty behavior in the near future.
@@maryluvsmusic9298 girl when my bf and I quarrel before leaving home when we get in the car I'm looking through the window the entire ride.....don't talk to me till I cool off lol
Tab was so slick "That's what Los told you in Vegas right?" Got'em😂😂😂
This is so relatable. My husband and I have been married 29 years and I could tell you some stories. Let's meet up and share. 😂😂😂
Slid that right on in😂😂😂
CMon speak!! "What I got going on ain't even yo business you MADE it yo business and that's on you not me." PREACH!!! I need that on a shirt!
Soon as tab said "I simply tried to tell him" I knew she was lying 😂.
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I caught that too!😂 I also don't understand why females don't like to apologize for their errors in the situation. Chance definitely couldn't argue or yell at her if she had just walked away. Sounds like she added to Chance's frustration so she should've apologized as well. I have never heard Tab apologize for anything and I've been watching for at least 4 years. Gotta start taking ownership sis. I love the both of yall
@@billionairegirl520 I disagree as the owner, his wife, and the mother of his kids, as well as her brand their brand. She has every right to attempt, pull him to the side, let him know look y’all doing the most chill out. Clearly he could not control his self and the moment she as his wife and partner is suppose. God forbid he got locked up or a fight happend. Tab should just sit in the audience and allow him while he is being out of control to embarrass them both more.
Wish I had this wisdom in my first marriage. We were high school sweethearts and got married. 15 years later divorced 😢
The whole living near family and going to them during a fight is SO true… I don’t think anyone has ever said why or how that is hurtful to a relationship by creating a wedge between your partner and yourself. I’ve been married going on 12 years and have lived near family in the early part of my marriage and eventually moved across country far away from everyone. You do have to just deal with each other instead of using family like a crutch during some big fights. Part of growing up and growing in your marriage is to learn to deal with your party during an argument. 😂
Hey Tab! I love the color black. You look so hip & modern wearing it. Also, the glasses are 🔥🔥🔥🔥.
Arguing in code, I've been married for 25 years we definitely have done that ❤
We have been married for 33 years, and when we argue before we go somewhere, we usually act like nothing happened. We make pick up the discussion when we come back.
Sometimes you have to definitely move on, because life is short.
This is what I tell my fiancé I can get over a small argument in 10mins her, it’s more like 3 days lol…..life too short for that!
Speak that wisdom.
I'm not married, but this was good wisdom & funny 🤣💗
Y’all had me cracking up. This was so real and definitely relatable.❤
I just love this episode. Thank you Tab and Chance!!!! "Marriage is so relatable if you talk about it."
The car argument is the most 😂especially because he is driving and asking me about directions when the GPS says something different. When we arrive then we start laughing 😂
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I hollered when he apologized. Too funny!! I just hate that I remember everything they said but I forget the verbal spears I throwed... 😂
"When people don't know your union..." So powerful and insightful. Great point and video.
If y’all can smile through this conversation, it must be true love! Blessings…daisy
Ya'll went through levels in this one! You're family and communication is beautiful.
I love y’all so much!! However, that stare/pause that Tabitha did in the beginning, was classic!! “Aye Lo you ain’t doing Tab time this season!”😂😂😂💀
That’s what I’m talking about you lie for me and put everything on
Chance
“Don’t ask me for my pen!” Lol
Chance had no chance🤣🤣
You've apologise let it go Brother
You guilty 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 y’all one of my favorite couples! Keeping it real! Any relationship or marriage have something.
Hello children, u r beautiful, and commited. Emotions are a part of all of us. But u two have lived thru many emotions together. When pride enters it wii cause destruction. That is when we must pull back. That is hard. We must pull back, because, it is destructive. Love and blessings to u. PS: SAVE IT FOR HOME AND PRIDE WONT BE THERE. JUST AN OPINION GUYS.
Chance and Tab that was beautiful and so true!!! We only have a short time to love each other and when someone is gone you think about all the arguments and unnecessary bickering.🤗💞
And it’s actually sad that it takes for someone to be gone, to realize the bickering & arguments were petty 👎🏽
Thank you so much Tab and Chance for your authenticity.
Y'all look so good.
I was shopping for a customer and saw your display in Target yesterday.
So happy for you.
😁
How funny, I have had an argument with husband at a church parking lot in the past. You guys are so real! Thank you. It happens but that's ok. Growth hurts but it's ok. Love hurts sometimes.
This happened to me when I was 20. I flew off the hinges! I was so mad I contemplated hitting my ex with my car 🥴. Thank God for growth and learned emotional intelligence.
Dang! Not with the whole car though. Lol We can get heated can't we? Oooo weeeee
😂😂😂you was gonna run the man over?!?! Lololol. He had you HOT!
Thank God you didn’t hit him....🙏🏾...but I’ve been that mad before as well!!😂
Oh I been there it was awful!
I've been there in my teens and early 20's, so you not the only one. I was a hot mess. I'm grateful God delivered me from that spirit.
There's ALWAYS three sides of a story. Her side, his side and the truth. 😁
Looove this! Soooo REEAL! Hubby and I have been married 26 years and i can remember all of those moments of arguing in car or just before getting out to an event. So it’s sooo funny to see that y’all are open and real about it. My hubby is like Chance.. once he mad, he mad and don’t be wanting to go anymore 🤣🤣. But I think we’ve both learned over the years that life is too short to hold on to anything 💕. Appreciate you both! Much Love 💕
The fact that I can tell Tab was mad at him the entire episode is crazy lol she was telling us the real because in real time thats how she is feeling about him lol
They both were a little upset in the beginning. You could tell 😂
These people are SCARED of her
@@iamstephaniespight Scared for their jobs 😂😂
This was and is awesome 🤩!! It as exactly as your husband stated “you got to be willing to talk about marriage and marriage thangs! We all have arguments and disagreements with our significant other at times.
I absolutely adore ya’ll! You can feel the warmth, genuineness and love coming through the screen, thank you ❤🙏💪.
Damn, this is a HOT TOPIC!! 🔥 love the communication between you two. But in order to communicate in such manner both parties have to be on the same accord! Tabitha, you remind me so much of me, I got to give you proof of your antics since people have amnesia or seem to not admit to their faults as well with my partner that wen too far. Ironically, I had an argument in Las Vegas 2021...😒 it has NOT been forgotten. Chance sounds like My Guy, "He doesn't remember things like that because he doesn't harbor."
Hi Tab, I love you, your family, your businesses and your desire to change the world!!! Thank you for changing my life with your positive energy!! Love you!!
Tab said let’s go back to 2011! 🤣Her facial expressions are hilarious 😆
When arguments go public too many people get involved. Love it. This was a great session!!❤
I think all married couples should be able to pillow fight it out. Cuz sometimes y’all wanna box and that’s not good 😂
This was one that was really good! Both educational and hilarious at the same time.
Real Talk! Thanks for being transparent & sharing...You are helping so many couples!
LOVING the colors and coordination‼️ The glasses are 🔥 and they match Chance's watch. Also 🔥. Yall gave what was supposed to be given😊 Simple yet fresh and so clean💛
I try not to argue in public but we have in Home Depot 😂it seems like it’s always when we are out shopping 🛒 🤷🏾♀️
😂😂😂damn
The 12:54 “hello? You there?” I do that 🤣🤣🤣 and we know we not on the phone but hey 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I just want Chance to bring the beat in, doing the most 😂
“Here that throat clearing”? 😂😂. Love you all. ❤
Preach!! Social Media arguments are the most destructive to a relationship!! Great advice King&Queen!!
Seems like they're about to start ANOTHER "pubic argument"!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You two are golden!! We appreciate the realness and fun you have with each other.
Chance done triggered me! “Babe you did t go too far.” 😂😂😂😂😂
I was screaming this whole time. Very Good.🤣🤣🤣🤣
The Beloved Coach Chance😂😂😂😂😂😂 I CAAAAN NOT!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think this is so lovely that as a husband and wife of many years, they can calmly talk about having angered each other, having reacted in an insensitive way to the other partner and be able to be calm, diplomatic and respectful; it really is a testament to their maturity and their belief in God and their commitment to one another and their family. Beautiful.
16:36 “I don’t harbor” 😂😂 Tab’s reaction lol
My mom said “separate and one person go downstairs,when we have arguments. “.
Make sure you don’t talk about one another relatives.
Praying for your husband or wife is very beneficial !!
Whats crazy is I remember sitting on Facebook watching THE FIRST episode of Friday's w Tab and Chance. I remember when the theme song was still a WORKING progress😆😆 Now we on the youtube!!!! Oh God we thank YOU! Amen
Great topic. It's hard to mask my anger after heated fellowship. My husband is more like Tab and I'm like Chance; without the curse words 🤬 🤣 We love you guys 🥰
I am just hear to say that all my arguments moving forward will be referred to as “heated fellowship” lol 😂
Not the ‘heated fellowship’😂
Yes!!! I like the sound of disagreement and not argument, it sounds a lot better to me! Even though we are in this uncomfortable mode. It don't feel good, eventually we both have to grow up and listen to each other.
You two always bring the 🔥
Just brilliant! Thank you Tab and Chance! Another evening of valuable input. I don’t believe in public arguments and I definitely don’t put my private business on social media. Too many cooks in the kitchen…
Thank you 🙏🏽
Dang, it's almost Saturday over here--been waiting for this ALL DAY! 😍💕
This was hilarious and helpful 😂 I just loooove y'all ❤️🥰😍
"Let's Have A Grown Folks Conversation Then"... 🤣🤣😂😂❤️❤️👑👑
@iamTabitha_.Brown_ Yes Mame❤️
If y'all ain't the typical Petty AF couple. Just like me and my hubby of 36 years. I Absolutely Love y'all! Tab I have been following you since you made the field roast scramble for breakfast back in 2018. I wish you the Best and Love your food line!
Other feelings and incidences creep in that weren’t previously resolved. I do my best to be quiet, but sometimes “Shaboobada,” my alter ego, is in the background like “tag me in Boo! I’ll get him all the way together.”😂😂😂 I understand why psychologists and marriage counselors say we need to have a safe way to disagree and speak like you want to be spoken to.
😂😂😂 shaboobada?!😅
This was so refreshing and healthy to watch!
“& don't ask me for my pen “ 😂😂
Facts! I tell people this same point, if you don’t want the masses of people in your private affairs don’t go public. It’s silly to tell a passers by to “mind your business “ when you made your business public!! Now the public knows what was private and your dealing with 2+ major dynamics. So keep it private.
Lol why this sound like a teacher parent conference. His face tho like "dog on it! She gone call me out like that.
That's right chance resuscitation by kindness lol
Love the glasses & hair always on point Tab❤. Two beautiful people inside & out🙏🏾
Those “stuck together” relationships hit different. I thank God we were stuck together. It grew into something so beautiful! 🤗❤️
Love this authentic conversation ❤️
Scar face honey 😂😂😂😂 I’m cracking up. All facts, you guys are great teachers. I love you so much.
Hilarious and beneficial. Love the transparency and the laughs.
Tab, I love your soul!!. Oh my gosh!. I hope my soul mate, (where ever she is).. I hope she has a great air of communication, love and respect... Just like this, if not greater.
Love stuff like this, be your own therapist. Talk it out, we're all adults.
This was good. It can also apply with immediate family members. (Mother, father, sister brother & children)
So good! So helpful! “Marriage is relatable” ❤
No not kicked OUT OF THE GAME !!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
This conversation is so appreciated- I can so relate! Been with my husband since 2011 and married since 2015 and it’s so nice to be able to relate to you both!