Oh, the punch line totally got me! LOLOL! And yes, a party of 0 sounds great. That means I don't even have to hang out with me, right? That guy drives me crazy.
Symptoms of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (when criticism hurts) - Being easily embarrassed - Heightened fear of failure - Unrealistically high expectations for self - Assuming people don't like you - Avoiding social settings - Perfectionistic tendencies “Fear is a natural reaction to moving closer to the truth” - Pema Chödrön hypocognition (uncountable) (psychology, linguistics) Inability to discuss or process a concept because of lacking a word for it.
I have ADHD and I hate face-to-face interaction with people. Even just communicating with my relatives is very traumatic for me, even though they are good people. I would rather sit at home alone or with one of my friends who has autism. I'd rather just play games, then run around the house, sing, play again and talk to the mirror about how wonderful TMNT is.
My adhd is worried about time and my anxiety is like "How many ppl and do we know them and how do we know them and do we have to mask in front of them?"
I literally get ready and then never go to anything!! Sometimes I don't get ready, often I just refuse the invitation to avoid the stress. I cancelled my own birthday dinner last year! 😂😂
Lol when I was young and carefree ADHD was my guide and I had so much fun. Now I’m older with responsibilities, overwhelm, and thus anxiety- autism has become my boss and I don’t go out much anymore 😅
Were you very sociable and impulsive, talking to anyone and not having many inhibitions? I feel so different, cant understand why I was this social butterfly to now becoming this rigid isolated person 😅 Is that ur experience?
So… ADHD me just remembered, thanks to the last scene that was supposed to cooking. That was almost 3 hours ago I fell down the RUclips rabbit hole. And now I’m sleepy.
Spot on! Finally understand all the parties I'd suggest throwing, and regret 1 minute later. Then the frantic anxiety at my party, making sure everyone was ok, whilst I had a miserable frenetic time. Other people's parties, half an hour was stretching it unless I was drunk 🥴
My Autistic self: ok i just need three days to research the venue layout, menu with ingredients, background music, potential driving routes and everyone else coming. Easy peasy 😁
Whatever it is, it’s so bad that I’d rather stay home and I do. My closest friend in the world I’ve seen one time in the last 5 years, and it was for an hour. I love her but the amount of stress I feel leading up to the event and during it, is incredibly difficult. I was told id grow out of it, I’m 35 so I’m pretty sure it’s just me at this point 😂
I have every symptom of adhd except for like (idk how to describe this but..) I never ever wanted to like do something interactive with others, like going to a party!!
I've got autism and anxiety. So true. So imagine how it feels when you're sometimes the same feeling with something but then your brain is shouting different things or having opposite feelings. It's hard to deal with. For example, "Where is it? How long are we staying for?? Why?? Wait too many question. But why???" is how I can sum it up simply.
Lots of adhd’ers have social anxiety or atleast rejection sensitivity dysphoria. Most of us are not party animals like that because we have poor self-image
27:40 (edit; is it just me or is the time stamp not working???) this, oh my god. one of the most annoying times is when I’m in the middle of my brain stories- usually it happens if I’m going somewhere with someone, there’s nothing stimulating my brain so I’m on autopilot while I do my little brain stories. then they talk to me and I have to pause it, but I can’t get upset at them bc like.. I don’t think ppl would rlly understand or would think I’m crazy HSJDJFH the best way I can explain it I think is like.. when you’re at the good part of a book or story and someone keeps taking over it so you can’t concentrate, and you’re just begging for them to leave so you can continue in peace. the same thing also often happens if I’m playing games, messaging someone or drawing and watching youtube in my room and my dad comes into talk. in my mind I’m like “can you go??I wanna get back to my stuff” (although recently this is partly influenced by the fact that it’s so hot and I have a fan next to me, but it’s loud so I have to turn it off to hear him, but I’d still get the feeling regardless)
I think there’s a huge overdiagnosis of adhd to those who actually have autism. I wish there is a physical brain marker or test to find out those. We literally have no drugs left to treat those with a genuine problem. Adhds have zero problems with social situations / or focusing on a party. 😂I wouldn’t know what social anxiety is.
I cant necessarily do previse times. Ish is the best i can do.Please do not come early!!! Never early!!!! It will make me later than o cam be on my own.
Oh, the punch line totally got me! LOLOL!
And yes, a party of 0 sounds great. That means I don't even have to hang out with me, right? That guy drives me crazy.
😆🤣
I don't know if I have ever related to a RUclips comment so much in my life.
I relate. 😢😢😢
What gives me the "Why didnt you tell me this earlier because my plan was to do nothing so now I have to rewrite my whole schedule."
Symptoms of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria
(when criticism hurts)
- Being easily embarrassed
- Heightened fear of failure
- Unrealistically high expectations for self
- Assuming people don't like you
- Avoiding social settings
- Perfectionistic tendencies
“Fear is a natural reaction to moving closer to the truth” - Pema Chödrön
hypocognition (uncountable) (psychology, linguistics) Inability to discuss or process a concept because of lacking a word for it.
I have ADHD and I hate face-to-face interaction with people. Even just communicating with my relatives is very traumatic for me, even though they are good people. I would rather sit at home alone or with one of my friends who has autism. I'd rather just play games, then run around the house, sing, play again and talk to the mirror about how wonderful TMNT is.
Given my autism, ADHD and anxiety, yep, spot on.
I have adhd and I can honestly say I've never enjoyed a party. One of the reasons I stopped celebrating my bday 😅
My adhd is worried about time and my anxiety is like "How many ppl and do we know them and how do we know them and do we have to mask in front of them?"
I’m not sure if I have Autism, but I have anxiety and ADHD. So this is spot on lmao XD
I literally get ready and then never go to anything!! Sometimes I don't get ready, often I just refuse the invitation to avoid the stress. I cancelled my own birthday dinner last year! 😂😂
CongratUlations on being true and not mean to yUor SELF.
Same
I need a full length inside out style movie of this!
I watched this with my partner, we both laughed at "ADHD ARE YOU WITH ME?"....ADHD Hyperfocusing 😅😂.
Just like my partner.
Spot on! Very funny too!
I absolutely love these videos where you compare ADHD, autism and anxiety etc! ❤️ relate so hard
This is so true I kind of struggle with time as a autistic person but I'm getting better
As a plural person with ADHD and Autism, I love this series! Totally relate
My ADHD side got distracted by the fact that you were rocking the Steam Deck! :-D
Lmao the end is so relatable
I have all 3 so it's more like panicking in silence and constantly checking stuff and the time
Lol when I was young and carefree ADHD was my guide and I had so much fun. Now I’m older with responsibilities, overwhelm, and thus anxiety- autism has become my boss and I don’t go out much anymore 😅
Thank you for this insight, now I get why I am so different to my teens/twenties/thirties.
Me too.
Were you very sociable and impulsive, talking to anyone and not having many inhibitions?
I feel so different, cant understand why I was this social butterfly to now becoming this rigid isolated person 😅
Is that ur experience?
Same 😢
I have ADHD autism and anxiety, so my feelings about anything are extremely mixed🥲 😭
So… ADHD me just remembered, thanks to the last scene that was supposed to cooking.
That was almost 3 hours ago I fell down the RUclips rabbit hole. And now I’m sleepy.
SO SPOT ON!!! This was my fave of your shorts so far. All the best x
The feels!
(also i freaking love your hair and eye shadow!!)
I have all of them, so my brain is like this 24/7. It’s not a fun time.
Spot on! Finally understand all the parties I'd suggest throwing, and regret 1 minute later. Then the frantic anxiety at my party, making sure everyone was ok, whilst I had a miserable frenetic time. Other people's parties, half an hour was stretching it unless I was drunk 🥴
LOOOOOOOOOOVE THE HAIRCUT. ❤
very fuken true, i lived almost 20years not realising that this is not how normal people live their life
I mean I’m introverted so I didn’t relate to the ADHD one at first but swap that with home activities and I vibe
I'm just a picture of me with ADHD autism ocd bipolar depression asking if they want to go to a party all in the same room 🤣
My Autistic self: ok i just need three days to research the venue layout, menu with ingredients, background music, potential driving routes and everyone else coming. Easy peasy 😁
Hahaha i love this. I have autism and adhd and anxiety and and and... lol i get you!
Whatever it is, it’s so bad that I’d rather stay home and I do. My closest friend in the world I’ve seen one time in the last 5 years, and it was for an hour. I love her but the amount of stress I feel leading up to the event and during it, is incredibly difficult. I was told id grow out of it, I’m 35 so I’m pretty sure it’s just me at this point 😂
😭 I hate having this!!!! Wisdom and age though help somewhat to know it’s ok. Autism would be concerned about getting ear buds in case it got loud
Ella, I ❤these videos! They are really really really good … 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
I’m not diagnosed with anything but this is literally me 😭
loving the new look, this is so accurate ♥
I have every symptom of adhd except for like (idk how to describe this but..) I never ever wanted to like do something interactive with others, like going to a party!!
you’re hella cute with short hair omg, not that you weren’t before
so accurate. Love it.
Im Adhd , Autistic and I have anxiety LOL 😅
I know that struggle all too well 😂
Oh yeah totally… the most inner chaos is real!
I have autism and this is relatable
This just explained any social event for me.
Also one of my faves of Yours 🎉😂
Oh king of Neptune this got me
Me with all three: 😭🫣
Love this!!! So much me!❤😂
I've got autism and anxiety. So true. So imagine how it feels when you're sometimes the same feeling with something but then your brain is shouting different things or having opposite feelings. It's hard to deal with. For example, "Where is it? How long are we staying for?? Why?? Wait too many question. But why???" is how I can sum it up simply.
This is my life!
Spot on
This was hilarious! Now imagine having all 3
Lots of adhd’ers have social anxiety or atleast rejection sensitivity dysphoria. Most of us are not party animals like that because we have poor self-image
Your style omg!
So spot on with the autism for me
27:40 (edit; is it just me or is the time stamp not working???)
this, oh my god.
one of the most annoying times is when I’m in the middle of my brain stories- usually it happens if I’m going somewhere with someone, there’s nothing stimulating my brain so I’m on autopilot while I do my little brain stories.
then they talk to me and I have to pause it, but I can’t get upset at them bc like.. I don’t think ppl would rlly understand or would think I’m crazy HSJDJFH
the best way I can explain it I think is like.. when you’re at the good part of a book or story and someone keeps taking over it so you can’t concentrate, and you’re just begging for them to leave so you can continue in peace.
the same thing also often happens if I’m playing games, messaging someone or drawing and watching youtube in my room and my dad comes into talk. in my mind I’m like “can you go??I wanna get back to my stuff”
(although recently this is partly influenced by the fact that it’s so hot and I have a fan next to me, but it’s loud so I have to turn it off to hear him, but I’d still get the feeling regardless)
I have all of these
I love these!
You sound uncannily like my inner narrative.
why am I all of these
*insert that “I’m in this video and I don’t like it” meme*
This made me laugh 💜
No because I relate to all of these
Love the hair!
So relatable! (I've actually written a very long fictional story on my website about this sort of thing) Ps. I love your jumper!
I think there’s a huge overdiagnosis of adhd to those who actually have autism. I wish there is a physical brain marker or test to find out those. We literally have no drugs left to treat those with a genuine problem. Adhds have zero problems with social situations / or focusing on a party. 😂I wouldn’t know what social anxiety is.
Me who has all 3
Story of my life
Perfect! 😅
Have all three
😅
It's like you know me.😅
I can relate to all 😅😅
*ME WITH ALL THREE:*
I have ADHD and Autism
Oh my god thank you for getting me
Yey! I got all three. 😀
Love it
Very creative 👍✌️
I’m so ADHD 😅
When you have all of them…..😬😬
I also have the 3As
I very much can relate
Exactly me for every plan and event 😂❤
Story of my life lol
I feel personally attacked
Brilliant 👍 drives my wife nuts 😂
Yes I have autism enxiety and ADHD and pthd 😅😅😅😅
So true
I have all 3
YASSS! This is it exactly...but ADHD thought it was a good idea in the first place....the rest of us just get dragged along😢
I almost said, "I like the pink eyes!", and then realized that sounds like I'm happy you're diseased.
Lmfao, painfully accurate 😅
Yes😊
Can ADHD cause Anxiety, Shyness, Space out, and hard to focus?
True
I normally think about going
I like the shirt
I cant necessarily do previse times. Ish is the best i can do.Please do not come early!!! Never early!!!! It will make me later than o cam be on my own.
I have atuism and taht exactly how I'm like
i think i have all
i would like to go to a party with 0 people
So accurate 😂