The Shady Untold Truth Of The Neely's

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
  • Their marriage couldn’t stand the heat, so they got out of the kitchen. Food Network stars Pat and Gina Neely began their show Down Home with the Neelys in 2008, and while they looked like a loving couple on screen, their marriage was already on a downward course, coming to an end with the show in 2014.
    Now that their show and marriage have ended, both Neelys have moved on to individual endeavors. But there’s a lot you probably don’t know about these celebrity chefs, so let’s take a look at the shady untold truth of Pat and Gina Neely.
    #Neelys #FoodNetwork #Fame
    Fifth time's a charm | 0:00
    Pre-show jitters | 1:13
    Going dark | 1:55
    Secret arrangements | 2:32
    Was it all fake? | 3:00
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  • @NickiSwift
    @NickiSwift  6 лет назад +31

    What's your opinion on Pat and Gina?

    • @princessseana5778
      @princessseana5778 6 лет назад +32

      @Nicki Swift ....Pat has a spirit of homosexuality, she tried to live with it, but it's a lonely place for a woman to be, when a man you're married to is on the down-low.

    • @info5429
      @info5429 6 лет назад +15

      This is absolutely correct. I worked an event with him in 2014 and he made an ass of himself making advances towards other men.

    • @maliciously_crazy185
      @maliciously_crazy185 6 лет назад +5

      info wait is he gay

    • @maliciously_crazy185
      @maliciously_crazy185 6 лет назад +6

      info does the new wife knows he on down low

    • @mrjamesbailey44
      @mrjamesbailey44 6 лет назад +5

      Nicki Swift imma say it again im glad that is remarried and he can be happy he has a child on the way pat may GOD CONTINUE WITH HIS MANY BLESSINGS FOR YOU AND YOUR NEW FAMILY STAY WITH JESUS AND STAY HUMBLE BE AND STAY BLESSED

  • @ultimateknight4017
    @ultimateknight4017 5 лет назад +26

    Being a gentleman doesnt make Pat gay, its called respect, southern hospitality and being the definition of a classy man

  • @regina7080
    @regina7080 6 лет назад +213

    This is an example on why a person shouldn't envy another person's relationship. We don't know what really goes on behind closed doors.

    • @TashaKRamos
      @TashaKRamos 6 лет назад +2

      Regina Davis so true

    • @beverlycraven1739
      @beverlycraven1739 5 лет назад +3

      Regina Davis Truth because I found myself having envy towards their seemingly loving relationship. Smh

    • @teresaevans4840
      @teresaevans4840 5 лет назад +5

      This is what I have always told my kids, what is More important is how you are being treated when you both are alone 👍🏾!

    • @719kai719
      @719kai719 5 лет назад +1

      Truth

    • @okearrabrantley2568
      @okearrabrantley2568 4 года назад +1

      Exaactly.

  • @hotakkord93
    @hotakkord93 6 лет назад +144

    Damn she looked better before the weight loss

    • @donna8743
      @donna8743 5 лет назад +10

      I do agree she looked better with more size. Skinny is not for everyne please!

    • @dawnd.4270
      @dawnd.4270 4 года назад

      BOSSHAWG434 I agree

    • @ShogoMakishimaxx
      @ShogoMakishimaxx 3 года назад +1

      I think that she looks better after.

  • @nikiaclifton1318
    @nikiaclifton1318 6 лет назад +42

    After she milked his family for all its worth she was ready to go, she was annoying any way, Pat carried the show to me.

    • @TerriBlessed
      @TerriBlessed 6 лет назад +1

      Nikia Clifton - I agree

    • @scottgoodson5132
      @scottgoodson5132 5 лет назад +3

      He was the Restaurateur, along with his brothers. But she was included in the business as his wife, then got too big for her britches. She hated having to share the spotlight with Pat, and hated that viewers connected much more with Pat than her. She’s sickeningly desperate for the spotlight, hence all the interviews and tv appearances. The way she talks about Pat in these interviews is rude and disrespectful to the man she was married to for 19 years, and father of her children. But I don’t think Pat has ever said a bad word about her. He’s quietly moved on, remarried and they are expecting a baby. When they divorced, they reportedly each got half of an approx $2M net worth. Pat can continue to be successful in the business without her, by she can’t do it without him. I predict within 20 years, Pat will Buy Gina’s share of their business, Pat will still be in the restaurant business, and probably worth $10M or more, while Gina will burn through her money, and fade into obscurity. She supposedly is still part owner of their restaurants, but hasn’t talked to him in 4 years? How does that work?

  • @shell3819
    @shell3819 6 лет назад +190

    It's interesting how he has not gone public about this he just quietly moved on with his life got remarried and has a child on the way. Every chance she gets including on the dating show she was recently on she has to discuss what went on. If you moved on move on.

    • @helengrigsby4838
      @helengrigsby4838 6 лет назад +2

      Pooh Bear True

    • @dirah2008
      @dirah2008 6 лет назад

      Oh selling another woman a dream??😂🤣😂🤣

    • @anthonytate1390
      @anthonytate1390 5 лет назад +2

      This is nonsence to even present this BS on social media, enough is enough.

    • @islanspice
      @islanspice 5 лет назад +12

      Husband silence has proven a lot...he's the good guy and the victim ....she's Mrs Boss and wanted the spotlite shining only on her...she's definitely proven that with here appearance on so many daytime shows.🤔🤔🤔

    • @jacintagamble-brunson1483
      @jacintagamble-brunson1483 5 лет назад +13

      She’s probably hurt . He probably cheated .

  • @vincentslone1463
    @vincentslone1463 6 лет назад +378

    The problem with this analysis is that you're only telling it from HER point of view! There are always two sides to every story, you can't accept everything you hear as gospel.

    • @TrenetraVaillancourt
      @TrenetraVaillancourt 6 лет назад +19

      That's what I was thinking; I want to know what Pat has to say.....

    • @Naijella86
      @Naijella86 6 лет назад +26

      Vincent Slone three sides, your side, my side and the truth

    • @malkaringel7864
      @malkaringel7864 6 лет назад +3

      I disagree. 3 sides to every story. Yours, mine, and the facts in between. Therein rests the truth. I am qualified as i come from a broken home.....

    • @lpgilber
      @lpgilber 6 лет назад +8

      Yes, I was wondering what did he have to say? She was so negative, but no input from him?

    • @gayle2020
      @gayle2020 6 лет назад

      Exactly

  • @mmarlkraig30
    @mmarlkraig30 6 лет назад +15

    I saw them at the airport together some years ago headed to ATL, and she was jawing him off something serious. That's when I realized they didn't like each other.

  • @purposedriven1967
    @purposedriven1967 6 лет назад +72

    I said from the beginning this was fake! The over exaggerated affection seemed fake! I only watched the show a few times and when I did I said “ they don’t really like each other “ lol

    • @Terelon
      @Terelon 6 лет назад +7

      Purpose Driven Yes!, too many 'oh baby, yes baby', too phony.

  • @bigums21
    @bigums21 6 лет назад +138

    for someone who didn't want to be in the spotlight she sure seems to be looking for it. And another thing he doesn't reach out to me is a joke, she never said that she reaches out to him either and last time I heard phones work both ways.

    • @dollydagger408
      @dollydagger408 6 лет назад +8

      Emmy P GIRL! listen she is also on Bravo doing a show about finding love in Paris or Rome. She's the one that's speaking out about it. She was also married before Pat.

    • @judywilson3786
      @judywilson3786 6 лет назад +3

      Emmy P it’s about the money 💰 she’s money hungry

    • @judywilson3786
      @judywilson3786 6 лет назад +1

      Dollydagger Lioness she might get brunt

    • @tamaraedwards9166
      @tamaraedwards9166 6 лет назад

      Dollydagger Lioness she was?😲

    • @719kai719
      @719kai719 5 лет назад +2

      Neither need to reach out to each other at this point unless they want to...The kids are grown and he's remarried with a baby..Reach out for what

  • @andrewnehemiah3467
    @andrewnehemiah3467 6 лет назад +39

    Pat done moved on a new wife and baby on the way!

    • @mrjamesbailey44
      @mrjamesbailey44 6 лет назад

      Andrew Nehemiah and he hadnt talked to her in 4 years

    • @shehateme9955
      @shehateme9955 5 лет назад

      Pat foolhardy, still

    • @rtp1968
      @rtp1968 4 года назад

      Good for him!!

  • @schs1977
    @schs1977 6 лет назад +19

    Where is Pat's version of this story? Seems everything is all about Gina. Sounds like she had a mid life crisis. She lost 34 pounds and Pat lost 150 pounds(Gina). Good bye and good riddance.

    • @MsPants1632
      @MsPants1632 4 года назад

      schs1977 that’s not right, but it sure made me laugh.... 😉

  • @ladeegeegenellemajied4688
    @ladeegeegenellemajied4688 6 лет назад +15

    I sensed that it was something not quite right with the both of them every time I watched their show. It felt staged, fake. Just observing Gina, I could see she really didn't want to be there at all. So I'm not surprised that they split up.

  • @steven19767
    @steven19767 6 лет назад +14

    She looked better with the weight on her.

  • @angiemaq
    @angiemaq 6 лет назад +409

    I need her to divorce that wig and hair color....

  • @Terelon
    @Terelon 6 лет назад +101

    On the show they were laying it on too thick with the 'oh baby', 'yes baby' stuff, it did seem a bit phony but they pulled it off somehow, they had many fooled.

    • @hulkmad27
      @hulkmad27 5 лет назад +3

      fooled? uh your watching television. every time you turn the it on your being fool it all make believe.

    • @teriking1187
      @teriking1187 5 лет назад +1

      I was not fooled he is gay .

    • @sherryw9206
      @sherryw9206 4 года назад

      They had me fooled. They did a great job on that show though. I loved watching it.

  • @carleavesceo709
    @carleavesceo709 6 лет назад +16

    Neely's BBQ is a big part of Memphis Tennessee. I was surprised to hear about the split. I still go to the Neely's restaurants. I really like the food served there and I hope I wish the best for the both of them.

  • @animec-dramaskpop6362
    @animec-dramaskpop6362 6 лет назад +37

    I don't feel duped at all. People gotta do what they gotta do. They had a show, I mean they couldn't do it while actin up and being nasty to each other. It's the food channel not wretched tv.

    • @darquequeen2323
      @darquequeen2323 6 лет назад +1

      Kassie Mitchell 🤣🤣🤣 I agree, but imagine if it had gone down like that. I’d hate to see what would have happened if veggies needed to be chopped! 🔪🔪

    • @rhondataylor4715
      @rhondataylor4715 6 лет назад +1

      Finally, someone with a common sense comment! "The cameras are rolling!"

    • @peaceman4u
      @peaceman4u 6 лет назад

      afro curly girl that s rite

  • @djerylyn
    @djerylyn 6 лет назад +25

    It’s something about Gina I didn’t like smh lol

  • @lindamcfarland3524
    @lindamcfarland3524 5 лет назад +13

    I loved
    Pat, and so happy he remarried and has a new baby ... his wife is gorgeous and I'm so glad he's found happiness again!!

    • @aliciamaria2730
      @aliciamaria2730 3 года назад

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✊🏿👍🏿

  • @datswhatiwastrynatellyall7062
    @datswhatiwastrynatellyall7062 6 лет назад +54

    She looked better when she was thick

    • @jojoserloi
      @jojoserloi 6 лет назад

      with two 'c's my dude

    • @719kai719
      @719kai719 5 лет назад +2

      Maybe wanting to be healthier and more fit played a role on her deciding to lose weight. She's pretty sure there way.

  • @BNL07604
    @BNL07604 6 лет назад +348

    My mother saw right through them.

    • @Ms9mmBeretta
      @Ms9mmBeretta 6 лет назад +38

      BNL07604 😲😲 gurl spill the tea on what your mama said! What did she think of them exactly??? I love hearing what previous generations have to say about this generation, they're so much wiser than us.

    • @BNL07604
      @BNL07604 6 лет назад +27

      Ashley Campbell Wish I had more to tell you other than "she thought they were fake", but that's all she wrote.

    • @sheranda77
      @sheranda77 6 лет назад +53

      My mom did too. She always said that were "putting on" for the cameras. I didn't see it. I guess we all was just eating it up especially when we rarely see black love on TV.

    • @Chokolatepeach
      @Chokolatepeach 6 лет назад +24

      Lady T Yeah, it was just waaay too much, especially over food.

    • @cjbrown9755
      @cjbrown9755 6 лет назад +22

      Many people can see right through all that phony "we are madly in love" act that some people put on. Ain't no wisdom like old wisdom.

  • @IamKrissyKO
    @IamKrissyKO 6 лет назад +80

    Wow! I always heard there were issues! I could tell that the mother in law didn’t care for Gina on the show. It was extremely obvious!

    • @ms.jaysworld8589
      @ms.jaysworld8589 6 лет назад +6

      I said the EXACT same thing! I could tell the mother didn't like her either. Gina is a mess! She was way too extra on the show. I like Pat!

    • @IntellectuallyAstute
      @IntellectuallyAstute 6 лет назад +6

      Yes! She seemed to be too much!!

    • @leasahart4339
      @leasahart4339 6 лет назад

      Krissy InThe30s I saw the same thing. I always said his mother was not feeling her at all. My brother used to always say they looked fake.

    • @wandacarr2831
      @wandacarr2831 6 лет назад

      Tasha k

  • @principeraphael4859
    @principeraphael4859 6 лет назад +117

    I wonder why Pat Neely has stayed silent regarding this...must be a guy thing...less apt to air feelings and dirty laundry out in public. Onscreen I found Gina to be somewhat abrasive and pushy. Pat seemed to be more likable. I just cannot take Gina’s word for it 100%.

    • @dollydagger408
      @dollydagger408 6 лет назад +23

      Principe Raphael they broke up while they were in high school even though he was still in love with her. She married someone else and had her oldest daughter, the marriage was abusive and she left. She got back with Pat and they married each other before their daughter together was born, Pat is old school and she is more adventurous, she is a go out with girlfriends and travel type of woman, he's more of a let's stay in and watch movies up under her type dude. She didn't like that, especially after their girls got older. She was just on the Bravo show about dating/ finding love in Paris. My guess is Pat is heartbroken because you could tell that he really loved her, there is a video of him talking about dating and a new cooking show in the works for him. I wish him well, it's hard to lose someone that you've loved that long, only to find out they have no interest in you any longer.

    • @sheranda77
      @sheranda77 6 лет назад +24

      He's being a gentleman. I'm sure he has some dirt on her but because he's a real man, he's letting her go & moving on. Meanwhile, she's roaming around Rome looking for love. Smh.

    • @hazeleyes611
      @hazeleyes611 6 лет назад +2

      Principe Raphael I agree with you.

    • @royalsistas4963
      @royalsistas4963 6 лет назад +9

      Dollydagger Lioness he is now remarried with a baby on the way. So I think he did find love. Good for him.

    • @mrjamesbailey44
      @mrjamesbailey44 6 лет назад +1

      Principe Raphael THANK YOU

  • @Ms9mmBeretta
    @Ms9mmBeretta 6 лет назад +15

    This isn't telling me what I want to hear. Okay, they broke up. Everybody knows that. I don't care that they were separated before they announced that they were getting divorced. Why is this video even up if you can't tell us why they separated?

  • @marymitchell8804
    @marymitchell8804 3 года назад +5

    I absolutely use to love their show. Unfortunately it didn't work but that happens. I wish them both the best.

  • @heressammy9796
    @heressammy9796 6 лет назад +5

    I was never fooled. It always felt fake to me. I couldn't even watched the show because of all the fake ' ooo baby this and ooo baby that.' It was too much.

  • @tamaraedwards9166
    @tamaraedwards9166 6 лет назад +43

    This is ridiculous how could you give up 19 years of marriage and she say because she wanted to find herself girl bye smh! Marriage is a life time comment made before God that should always be taken seriously. Sad!

    • @kinnialex
      @kinnialex 6 лет назад +6

      Tamara Clarke She said they tried counseling 12 times, she tried to leave 5 times, and that she hadn’t been happy for years. It sounds like she took her marriage seriously but it didn’t work out.

    • @helengrigsby4838
      @helengrigsby4838 6 лет назад +3

      Tamara Clarke Sometimes it's just not meant to be. Doesn't mean she's going to go straight to the flames. Haha

    • @tamaraedwards9166
      @tamaraedwards9166 6 лет назад +2

      kinni marriage is get what ever you put in....so if she really wanted it to work and really put in the effort it would work through Jesus Christ.

    • @tamaraedwards9166
      @tamaraedwards9166 6 лет назад +3

      Helen Grigsby she made a vow before God and said for better or for worst until death due them part....so ask God

    • @hulkmad27
      @hulkmad27 5 лет назад +4

      Have you ever been married? You can’t say what anyone should or should do just because they stood in front of some shyster with a book and said I do. The institution of marriage is tiered and pressurized in this country that steadily becoming third world, unforeseen life problem can cause a marriage to derail no one should be force to stay together because they made a promise to a Christian god that can’t seem to fix this planet and it inhabitants so that there aren’t problems in the first place. Marriage is a state institution that about money period.

  • @kishahelena5312
    @kishahelena5312 6 лет назад +47

    I wasn't shocked, I couldn't stand to watch their show, they were too lovely dovey, It was didn't seem real to me. When I heard they slit, I was like, yup, I knew something was off. I wish them well and all, but only other time I felt off about watching people on tv was Demi Lovato, she too look just too help and her smile seemed fake and turned out it was. If you watch her now her smile looks real, not forced like when she was at teen.

    • @vamp4403
      @vamp4403 6 лет назад +1

      I felt the same way when watching their show, it was too forced / all extra

    • @angeep71
      @angeep71 6 лет назад +1

      Helena Baggs I felt the same

    • @genesanders74
      @genesanders74 6 лет назад

      Me too....they was waaay too into each other on tv. It just didn't look genuine.

    • @helengrigsby4838
      @helengrigsby4838 6 лет назад

      Helena Baggs I said the same thing. Too much lovey dovey going on.

  • @milagrosgranados1316
    @milagrosgranados1316 6 лет назад +151

    I think Gina needs help . Seems like she doesn’t know what real love is because of the childhood she grew up in. Pat only says nice things about her and she doesn’t say anything nice about him. Gina personality seems very off to me.

    • @hazeleyes611
      @hazeleyes611 6 лет назад +15

      Milagros Granados I believe that she is running her mouth so much because in actuality, she is feeling like the looser. The last kick of a dying horse.

    • @mrjamesbailey44
      @mrjamesbailey44 6 лет назад +11

      Milagros Granados Im glad someone else agrees with me she was throwing him way under the bus

    • @Tampabruh
      @Tampabruh 6 лет назад +7

      YEAH, she was on a reality show called "To Rome for Love" that aired for a few months on BRAVOS network in maybe January, February and March of 2018. She played the hell out of the scorned woman victim card. Made it seem like she had been to hell and back with Pat during their marriage.

    • @muslima864
      @muslima864 6 лет назад +6

      Gina was OK during the filming days. Now she's plain ugly, she needs surgery to correct that mouth of hers...it's moving funny when she speaks

    • @tamaraedwards9166
      @tamaraedwards9166 6 лет назад

      I agree

  • @TheCelebRack
    @TheCelebRack 6 лет назад +124

    I really miss these two!

    • @MistyNights35
      @MistyNights35 6 лет назад +3

      Oh, shut the hell up. You were probably living vicariously through them..sad

    • @victoriaperry8162
      @victoriaperry8162 6 лет назад

      "
      +Misty Nights

    • @MistyNights35
      @MistyNights35 6 лет назад

      VICTORIA PERRY-You tagged my name because?

    • @nicolesauces30
      @nicolesauces30 6 лет назад

      Pink Scoop News so do I loved watching them cook

    • @kiarahall6670
      @kiarahall6670 4 года назад +1

      Misty Nights Your comment was so rude and unnecessary. I feel bad for mean-spirited people like you

  • @Aboish1981nj
    @Aboish1981nj 5 лет назад +2

    They seemed way too chipper on their show... However I was shocked to see they split ..

  • @MISSJHON
    @MISSJHON 6 лет назад +40

    I was not duped - they always seemed phony to me

  • @martinwarford1389
    @martinwarford1389 6 лет назад +7

    They fooled me. I believed all that syrupy, lovey dovey bullshit and while I rolled my eyes at it I still watched the show. When word came out they were getting a divorce I was surprised. The way it came off, he was the difficult one being mean on the set behind the scenes. I don't know if that's true or not.

    • @TerriBlessed
      @TerriBlessed 6 лет назад +2

      Martin Warford - Gina belittled Pat alot close to the end of the show. She would come in late, hair all over the place. She told Pat on several occasions that he "talk too much." Talking was a big part of their show. She and her oldest daughter was very mean to him. Her leaving him was the Best.

    • @qkulture8584
      @qkulture8584 2 года назад

      That is not true. How did it "come off" that way???

  • @Ajtori93
    @Ajtori93 6 лет назад +18

    If any of y'all ever watched the show,Gina always gave off a negative vibe.And she act childish all the time.And y'all see it was all about her as mentioned in this video.

  • @christiansgrandma6812
    @christiansgrandma6812 6 лет назад +18

    It was like finding out the truth about Lucy and Desi again. 😃

    • @sltgirl219
      @sltgirl219 6 лет назад +2

      Christian's Grandma 😳 what was the truth about Lucy and Desi??? I loved them!

    • @christiansgrandma6812
      @christiansgrandma6812 6 лет назад +4

      Sheneitra Howard That while on the show, they were really having problems in their marriage.

    • @sltgirl219
      @sltgirl219 6 лет назад +1

      Christian's Grandma oh ok never woulda guessed that either.

    • @lisacox3750
      @lisacox3750 6 лет назад +2

      +Sheneitra Howard...it's true. They mostly had a business relationship by the time the show came around. Lucy said Desi was a great businessman but a terrible husband.

  • @nsgisallheart
    @nsgisallheart 6 лет назад +15

    Never watched. What I do see here is some1 trying really hard 2 excuse her BS behavior. The less said the better. U fooled many & now trying 2justify it! As 4 that new show on Bravo, it SUCKS!!!

  • @martinwarford1389
    @martinwarford1389 6 лет назад +19

    Just because he's being quiet/"taking the high road" doesn't mean he's the good guy. Keeping quiet might be in his best interest so his dirt isn't brought to light. He comes out talking smack and his ex might take it up a notch and be specific about what went on. As it is now she's being vague and maybe he wants it that way.

    • @sharrygia
      @sharrygia 5 лет назад +4

      Good take on that Martin, very good. That is more likely the truth too.....😒😒

    • @shehateme9955
      @shehateme9955 5 лет назад +1

      Or i culd actuall take it@face value. Hw do u make and push a different narrative from nada?

    • @shehateme9955
      @shehateme9955 5 лет назад

      Culd just say anything i think&run with it. Life. 4the birds

    • @nealmariec
      @nealmariec 4 года назад

      @Martin Warford u hit the nail right on the head!!!

    • @monyamotley3079
      @monyamotley3079 2 года назад

      Exactly Whatever happened was absolutely devastating and almost took her out of the game😏She lost to much weight to fast! Wow

  • @quietstorm4207
    @quietstorm4207 6 лет назад +130

    Gina is full of crap

    • @Ms9mmBeretta
      @Ms9mmBeretta 6 лет назад +10

      QUIETSTORM 420 There's a LOT she isn't sharing. I can't help but feel betrayed. It's one thing to act like they're in love when they're in front of their children, but for National Television? I feel so lied to.

    • @macksmith4380
      @macksmith4380 6 лет назад +2

      I no longer liked Gina after I heard of the split I felt she was fake like pat was a good husband to her like why would you do that to him her ass look terrible now

    • @brooklyndecember
      @brooklyndecember 6 лет назад

      mack smith Wait. Did you live with them?

    • @macksmith4380
      @macksmith4380 6 лет назад +1

      Verde Lane no just my opinion

    • @oliviaanderson6720
      @oliviaanderson6720 6 лет назад

      QUIETSTORM 420 YESS she's SO EXTRA Acting

  • @beesilva9085
    @beesilva9085 6 лет назад +159

    I always thought he was gay

    • @Terelon
      @Terelon 6 лет назад +5

      Bee Silva Yes, he gave me that vibe too.

    • @southerngirlchef5886
      @southerngirlchef5886 6 лет назад +2

      Bee Silva so did I. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @buttahscotchkisses3133
      @buttahscotchkisses3133 6 лет назад +7

      girl yes or a little too much feminine energy for her

    • @egyptian_thoth
      @egyptian_thoth 6 лет назад +17

      Yup, women are always quick to judge a man as gay, but be the main carpet munchers. That's why minority women be broke, lonely, and bitter as fuck.

    • @billion86
      @billion86 6 лет назад +3

      Some times men have effeminate energies from who they were raised around most, maybe not really gay. Guess I can understand y some think that- Look quickly at 0:13 Hand motions

  • @AvisC
    @AvisC 6 лет назад +2

    Wow. I use to love them. That's why I say never say marriage and couple goals you never know what goes on behind the scenes

  • @charlottebarnes6761
    @charlottebarnes6761 5 лет назад +4

    I miss both and their cooking they just seem so happy its so sad

  • @Mrsmissie
    @Mrsmissie 4 года назад +1

    I have much respect for Pat he never talked about Gina or the marriage she felt the need to put it all out there. I'm glad he kept quiet this in my opinion speaks volumes about Gina she went on a tour. I'm happy that Pat moved on quietly and was able to find peace and happiness with his knew wife and kids.

  • @truckdriving_e581
    @truckdriving_e581 6 лет назад +7

    it's just amazing to me, and funny that all of this is Gina says this that and the other on every single Network television show kind of contradicts that she didn't even want to be on the show anyway. looks to me like she is the media hog

  • @haroldbrooks4235
    @haroldbrooks4235 6 лет назад +2

    The few times I watched their show I saw contempt & repulsion from her every time he tried to touch her.

  • @truly3743
    @truly3743 6 лет назад +4

    Wow I loved them what a shocker!! I think Gina looked so much healthier and beautiful her old self before she lost the weight and turned her hair orange! She was beautiful her natural way and cute and real!

  • @dianaprince4011
    @dianaprince4011 6 лет назад +16

    I thought they were cute together. Obviously she’s still bitter because she’s still talking about the failure of her marriage to Pat and he has moved on remarried and has a child on the way.

    • @swacfan2791
      @swacfan2791 3 года назад

      Not saying that anyone's perfect, but it's funny how things work. Grass is only greener where you water it, and all that glitters is not gold. I guess she's learned her lesson, and has to live knowing that she took a big L. The second wife looks better anyway 😉

  • @BigUnk49
    @BigUnk49 6 лет назад +2

    I always new they were fake on that show you could see it plain as day

  • @shondo2010
    @shondo2010 6 лет назад +2

    If people didn't see it it was only because they didn't want to see it. I would constantly tell my wife it seemed fake.

  • @zacharylavender1568
    @zacharylavender1568 6 лет назад +27

    What do you do with 19 years of marriage? You don't wake up and decide, "I no longer want to be married to this person." Interesting....

    • @mrjamesbailey44
      @mrjamesbailey44 6 лет назад +2

      Zachary Lavender its within that person if a person is not happy with themselves how can they make there spouse happy they are only thinking about number 1

    • @MsCeCe-lt1zg
      @MsCeCe-lt1zg 6 лет назад +3

      Yes u can lol

    • @mrjamesbailey44
      @mrjamesbailey44 6 лет назад

      ms. howard the way i see it marriage is serious and only the serious minded and those who take commitment woth HONOR SHOULD APPLY FOR THE POSITION

    • @MsTemptation
      @MsTemptation 6 лет назад +2

      Perhaps Gina finally grew tired of being Pat's beard.
      Not all gay black males believe in being flamboyant.
      Some are forced to hid their true sexual orientation out of fear of being ostracized by family and friends.

    • @zacharylavender1568
      @zacharylavender1568 6 лет назад +2

      Ms Temptation..what makes you think he's gay?

  • @shirlyah777
    @shirlyah777 6 лет назад +1

    I miss them!!Fake or not a lot of people on food network can’t match there authenticity and chemistry on camera!

  • @PurveyorOfCuriosities
    @PurveyorOfCuriosities 6 лет назад

    I could tell by the look on Gina's face when Pat would smack that ass and saying "take that with ya..". She looked so pissed. I never took sides, but her voice was like nails on a chalkboard. I hope they're both happy living apart.

  • @shirlyah777
    @shirlyah777 6 лет назад +2

    She looked younger with the weight on her!!

  • @virgilwimberly2071
    @virgilwimberly2071 6 лет назад +3

    She doesn't look right with all that weight gone

  • @mdooms76
    @mdooms76 6 лет назад +16

    I always thought they were so fake with all that lovey dovey cheesy mess in the kitchen. Not surprised at all when they split. That's life. If it's not working move on. Life is too short.

    • @Terelon
      @Terelon 6 лет назад

      mdooms76 Yes, they were laying it on too thick.

  • @dragonflyjonson6359
    @dragonflyjonson6359 6 лет назад +1

    They used to make me sick with faking like they liked each other,I'm glad they're divorced and I'm glad Pat never calls Gina

  • @kiki1965
    @kiki1965 6 лет назад +1

    Sometimes folks just outgrow each other. It's not that they love each other less but paths via agendas change. So why not change with it? I pray they both find whatever is out there for them both. 😉

  • @innerpowerup
    @innerpowerup 6 лет назад +1

    Proof of the old saying,if it looks too good to be true,it ain't.

  • @Babysista
    @Babysista 6 лет назад +3

    Well it is what it WAS!!! Dispite their private life I liked them on screen. They’re recipes are fantastic!

  • @beingmarilyngail8470
    @beingmarilyngail8470 6 лет назад +10

    I saw Gina on another show filmed in Rome. She appears to be happier. I wish both of them well.

  • @blessedmslady7341
    @blessedmslady7341 Год назад +1

    If you need to "WORK" on staying married to someone EVERY DAY, perhaps you're not right for each other.
    If it's a good fit, it doesn't need a lot of "work"💫

  • @TheAMW
    @TheAMW 5 лет назад

    Whenever couples are waaay to trying to hard to look like the perfect couple (social media included)...that’s when u know it’s fake

  • @KENTURNERSINGS
    @KENTURNERSINGS 5 лет назад +1

    STILL no word of, SPECIFICALLY, why they “Hated” each other. Infidelity?

  • @cecestyme7142
    @cecestyme7142 6 лет назад +1

    You knew a couple that worked together and was around each. Didn’t have that much passion twenty four/ seven.
    Everyone needs a little personal space. Don’t be angry about it. Take what they were teaching with the food 🥘. Pray that they’re happy now....

  • @teespeaks9214
    @teespeaks9214 6 лет назад +2

    I predicted their fall on the first episode Lmfaoo pat seemed like he wanted a man and will be happy with a man lover and Gina was always isolated and cold smh

  • @shjakes
    @shjakes 6 лет назад +1

    Discovered this couple on tv one Sunday morning and was blown away by the delicious looking food, but then I began to get the same vibe I got from watching "Jon & Kate Plus 8". Kate would "snipe" at Jon who I considered to be very hen-pecked. For a mature couple, I found the Neely's brand of affection to be tooo cheesy and disingenuous. I soon stopped watching both shows because they irritated the hell outta me.

  • @buddyfaya8631
    @buddyfaya8631 6 лет назад +2

    I’m so proud of the Neely ‘s . Putting Memphis on the map

  • @hazeleyes611
    @hazeleyes611 6 лет назад +5

    Whaaaat? Remember there is 3 sides to a story ( Her side his side and the truth. ) we're only hearing her speak about it. What I call '' the last kick of a dying horse''. How sinister is that. He just kept it quiet no publicity and moved on didn't want her to look bad. Well, surely everything isn't what it seems.

    • @ertfgghhhh
      @ertfgghhhh 6 лет назад

      Hazel Eyes not true. Everybody doesnt lie or stretch the truth. U might, but some tell the truth even if it makes them look bad

  • @elmhaven
    @elmhaven 5 лет назад

    Wait, she walked, but expected him to reach out? He has remained silent, she can't whine enough. Doesn't take a genius to figure this out! She road the wave to fame - took the money while living the lie; now wants to play victim? NO!!

  • @JulietRobin
    @JulietRobin 6 лет назад

    I couldn't tell that there was trouble in paradise. It was a shock to me. But the truth is nothing really shocks me much anymore.

  • @adrienne_12thorpe
    @adrienne_12thorpe 6 лет назад +1

    I was watching the show knowing something was going on. Just couldn’t put my finger on it.

  • @bigshawn1972
    @bigshawn1972 4 года назад +1

    I want bothered by them divorcing, I was bothered by the loss of a great show.

  • @ophthodoc
    @ophthodoc 4 года назад +3

    I liked their episode when they deep fried a turkey. That was the best turkey I ever made. When I heard they were splitting I was like, “eh” and went back to my deep fryer

  • @me2u880
    @me2u880 6 лет назад +1

    Well I found out more reading the comments then the video...thanks guys!!

  • @therealmereal2642
    @therealmereal2642 4 года назад +1

    I used to watch them faithfully but it all seemed so fake with the touchy touchy stuff it was so clear it was just for tv now it all came out

  • @TaMariahJ
    @TaMariahJ 6 лет назад +20

    Me and my g ma used to watch them all the time😔! Now I been watching her on To Rome For Love😐!

    • @roguedriver4474
      @roguedriver4474 6 лет назад +2

      she seems so desperate on To Rome For Love...all of those girls are>

  • @kenneyb7741
    @kenneyb7741 6 лет назад +2

    It's always the Man Fault Women NEVER take responsibility for a Failed Relationship are Marriage. Again... It's ALWAYS the man Fault.

  • @tanazinn8484
    @tanazinn8484 5 лет назад +1

    They made me feel SO positive about a TRULY happy marriage when I watched their show!😮😕...now to realize it was all just a bunch of BS...really disappointed!!😢

  • @Ms.Tasha.
    @Ms.Tasha. 3 года назад +1

    He was crazy about her and she couldn’t stand him.

  • @nancypereida2078
    @nancypereida2078 5 лет назад

    Not surprised. She allowed him to take care of her daughter from a previous marriage. She was looking from the spotlight. As she said don’t look for mom and dad to take of you. Disgusting! I’m glad Pat moved on with a family. Gina is where?????

  • @charlettaramono8949
    @charlettaramono8949 6 лет назад +41

    I feel some type of a way about her spilling all the bad tea on their relationship and he is completely silent! FOH

    • @Chokolatepeach
      @Chokolatepeach 6 лет назад +5

      Charletta Ramono Bc Pat isn't thinking about this woman, lol. He just remarried and has a baby on the way.

    • @hazeleyes611
      @hazeleyes611 6 лет назад +4

      Charletta Ramono Some people are just private and are known to keep their private lives just that'' private. ''

    • @charlettaramono8949
      @charlettaramono8949 6 лет назад +2

      Hazel Eyes no such thing in the "public" eye👁

    • @hazeleyes611
      @hazeleyes611 6 лет назад +1

      Charletta Ramono That's exactly my point.

    • @moniquejohnson2465
      @moniquejohnson2465 6 лет назад +3

      Charletta Ramono Silence is Golden...speaks volumes at times

  • @therealflamelit
    @therealflamelit 6 лет назад +1

    I dont want to be with my rich handsome famous husband who married me when I was fat & broke anymore because its not exciting ..booo hooooo...please , gtfoh Pat

  • @shehateme9955
    @shehateme9955 5 лет назад +2

    Always nice when your wmn cares more about her health& appeal when not with u. Fellas if u gettin married, idk y

  • @sandramiller1787
    @sandramiller1787 6 лет назад +21

    That's why I stop watching because it was fake to me

  • @nicolebutter9395
    @nicolebutter9395 4 года назад

    I never watched the show but marriage is work. And it takes effort and time. Add celebrity to it and its even harder. Hope they both find peace.

  • @flourishingcoilshealthy7681
    @flourishingcoilshealthy7681 6 лет назад +2

    I NEVER believed they were happy. All that honey, sweety stuff. Besides Gina always looked pissed, and forever rolling her eyes at him.

  • @davidhare9161
    @davidhare9161 6 лет назад +6

    Some food and drink are just too sweet too enjoy and soooo are the Neelys.

  • @uuuupppssie
    @uuuupppssie 3 года назад +1

    when she was thicker, she looked like Phaedra. when she lost a bit of weight, she looked like Kandi. lol

  • @MrCrossdatracks
    @MrCrossdatracks 6 лет назад +1

    I'd love to hear Pat's side of the story...

  • @lascenemediagroup
    @lascenemediagroup 6 лет назад +2

    This is a very one-sided exposé. It totally excludes Pat's perspective of the relationship.

  • @gwenlipsey1298
    @gwenlipsey1298 6 лет назад

    My opinion on Pat and Gina is you do what you have to for your own happiness and peace it’s not always the right thing to stay together in a relationship that’s breaking you down inside no matter how hard you try or how much you love someone and putting your Children first isn’t always staying together it’s also getting them out of a stressful environment so your Children don’t get caught up in the middle and finding stability , so hold your ground. You did a great show isn’t that what you were suppose to do it wasn’t a reality show.

  • @jer98om
    @jer98om 6 лет назад +2

    I said I was gonna stop trolling people. I used to love their show because it featured stuff I could actually see myself eating. From their time on Paula Dean though all their lovey dovey stuff got on my nerves. I liked Pat but found Gina to be a bit extra for my taste but her potato salad looked good

  • @shanmarcell3994
    @shanmarcell3994 6 лет назад

    Did i miss the part that explained why she wasn't happy? Was he abusive, A cheater? On the DL?, Addiction issues? or Did they just grow apart? I used to not like her bcuz i cud tell that she wasnt feeling him. Now hearing that their marraige was shaky, it makes perfect sense. She looks really good🌟 I wish them both the best.

  • @Michelle-jz8vl
    @Michelle-jz8vl 6 лет назад +4

    She was the shadiest!🙄

  • @Angegenenoah3
    @Angegenenoah3 6 лет назад +2

    I have to honestly say I thought they were fake. I never bought into any of it. It really did not seem genuine. It seemed as though the two were trying to hard.

  • @MalaYLoca
    @MalaYLoca 6 лет назад +3

    I used to love watching them,She looks great though😍❤️

  • @phairfullymade8582
    @phairfullymade8582 6 лет назад +53

    Wow!divorce or not!
    "Hate" should never be
    towards someone you had loved.
    But it takes the "Love of God"
    Even thru divorce.Sometimes it
    doesn't work bc it takes two willing
    hearts to do the right thing and to
    go in the right direction.They're not
    the only ones,celebrity or not.It takes two with Christ as the center
    But the two have to work towards the same outcome,not one.Tfs

    • @tamaraedwards9166
      @tamaraedwards9166 6 лет назад +1

      PhairfullyMade agreed

    • @davidwatson6831
      @davidwatson6831 6 лет назад +3

      PhairfullyMade that's right we can't do anything right without God

    • @bojackson790
      @bojackson790 6 лет назад +1

      Lolol, horseshit. It takes 1 and everyone else listening ever so keenly. My great grandfather had 3 wives and 2 houses the size of my high school. Lol. He believe in God, of course. He made sure his family believe in him first.

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 6 лет назад +1

      I feel like we need God first and I love God more than my husband. God is the head and the husband a d wife should be the two end points of a triangle. Satan killed that marriage dead. God can breathe life into it even if there is a prodigal spouse. However neither one seem to want the marriage. God wants us to love him he is true joy because people disappoint us. Jeremiah 17:2 No confidence in flesh...

    • @tamaraedwards9166
      @tamaraedwards9166 6 лет назад

      Bo Jackson if he believed in God then he would only have one wife. I guess he believed in a different kind of god.🤷‍♀️

  • @StrawberryTiger01
    @StrawberryTiger01 6 лет назад +50

    I always thought Pat was gay. He seemed more feminine than his wife.

    • @1blessedbrotha
      @1blessedbrotha 6 лет назад +3

      strawberry tiger? .....hmmmmmm?????🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @Lesj142
      @Lesj142 6 лет назад +2

      Strawberry Tiger No, she just seemed more manly.

    • @NyNativeTv
      @NyNativeTv 6 лет назад +1

      He's just an Empath. He got remarried and is expecting a baby soon.

    • @janeyallen1510
      @janeyallen1510 6 лет назад

      Strawberry Tiger lol

    • @helengrigsby4838
      @helengrigsby4838 6 лет назад

      Strawberry Tiger I as well. Just too creamy for me.

  • @719kai719
    @719kai719 6 лет назад +2

    Only the two of them actually know everything that happened in their marriage. Aside from what they shared most of us are speculating. I enjoyed their cooking TV show. Down home with the Neelys. Yeah all the mushy declarations of love and terms of endearment were sometimes a bit much. It was however a good show and very nice to see what I thought was a successful and happy black couple rich in love, family, and delicious recipes. I even visited their NYC restaurant with my cousins and aunts and enjoyed myself. Like many others I was shocked when down the line they abruptly announced that they were parting ways. I was shocked to see how different they appeared to be on Celebrity Wife Swap. She seemed more laid back and interested in fun and adventure. Pat seemed more uptight,serious, and focused solely on business. When she ( Gina) did her interview and spoke about the demise of the relationship she spoke on how long they had been having problems in the marriage and how unhappy she was even as they were recording show episodes pretending to be so close and in love.. That was shocking.

    • @wannabe41
      @wannabe41 6 лет назад +1

      719kai719 Well said. A lot of couples remain married even though they’re miserable. I get the sense that she initially agreed to continue with the show because she didn’t want to ruin Pat’s chance and perhaps further down the line, the money and what it could provide for her and her family kept her doing the show. I can’t judge her for speaking out or say that he’s the injured party because he’s remained silent. He should be grateful for having the success for as long as he did because Food Network apparently had no interest in him without Gina.

    • @719kai719
      @719kai719 6 лет назад +1

      Katherine Miller Well that would explain why they would be fronting for cameras to look happy..He wanted to do the show..

    • @719kai719
      @719kai719 5 лет назад

      Absolutely

  • @blessedhomesllc2849
    @blessedhomesllc2849 6 лет назад

    The sad part is they are so few examples of healthy black families, it would’ve been better for them to admit that they were separated like the couple on flip or flop then to lie to everybody