I tried to overcome my fear of being judged (step out of your comfort zone)
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- Опубликовано: 21 июн 2023
- my fear of going to places on my own with a camera, and filming in public, has defo held me back from making a lot of content that I would've liked to make - I wanted to make this video as a way to force myself to step out my comfort zone and also as a means to encourage other people to do the same.
(obviously not everyone has a fear of filming in public/going to restaurants or cafes or whatever on their own)
we've all got different fears when it comes to being judged and, a lot of the time, that's exactly what holds us back from progressing as much as we can in life - a lot of us have certain hobbies/interests/things we wanna explore and pursue, but we're just SHOOK to put ourselves in positions where someone can have something to say about it.
whether u wanna start a clothing brand, an anime page, a football podcast, learn the violin piano drums, take up art, make music or even just wear different clothes - everyone's got something they wanna do but are just a bit scared to take that first step
im not one of them inspirational life transformation mental health gurus but icl from my experience, the time you have most potential to grow is when ur outside your comfort zone
hope this was enjoyable regardless and, if even 12.5 people make an effort to embrace discomfort and pursue something they wanna do because of this video im a happy man mate
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That intro was so relatable. Let’s step out of our comfort zones guys - we’ll never know the outcome if we don’t try ❤😅
Yoo, it's literally just conditioning, the more we push past limits the easier it gets...mos def gotta start exposing myself to more XP
nah cause this has actually come at the perfect time- judgement is what has held me back from having a decent teenage life and now being in my mid 20s i’ve realised to literally (try) just push myself and go all out and its doing wonders
Omg yessss, you goo!!!!
I'm still a teenager and have a major fear of judgement. Any tips or anything you've learnt over the years?
@@thenostalgicguy46 im a teenager too. What i think is that if you really want to be more confident and fearless of being judged is by actually trying your best to not judge other people. You need to realize that it literallly doesnt matter . Like most of the time people are just thinking about themselves instead of judging other ppl . Its just our brain that makes us think like we are always being judged . so first try to not judge ppl at all and agree that everyone is different and there is no need for everyone to act in a certain way. everyones different so be different and love yourself :)
@@thenostalgicguy46
• come to terms with stepping of your comfort zone to be able to pursue your ideal lifestyle.
• making yourself believe that you can do it.
• i’m the type of person that needs to plan so you can try that if it makes it easier for you.
• thinking of the best possible outcome, and again, making yourself believe that that’s what will happen.
- and then just take a deep breath and go for it and honestly you’ll realise how much you were overthinking once you’ve done it
@@lailak.🫶🏼
I think this is such a introspective look into the human mind. Like the fear of others opinions was never something we were born we. When we were kids, we use to run around with not a care in the world and lived in the moment. Growing up and loosing that mentality truly hold us back from achieving happiness and being carefree.
So true
most of it is from the social media, the ppl there find weird they'll always judge the smallest thing so if stay on there alot u probgot it from there
Yeah truee
u never know bro, overcoming this fear might make u blow up
“This is like my mom’s phone” is so true 😭😭😭
You’re so eloquent and soft spoken I genuinely enjoy listening to you talk
Props to you Ameziane for getting out of your comfort zone to entertain us and teach us an important lesson not to stop ourselves from doing what we love because of the fear of being judged ❤
i have a huge fear of flying on my own, this summer i’ll be away to germany for one month. i have to do it
update: i would just like to say that i did it and my trip is now coming to an end. in less than a week i’ll be going back home. may not seem like a big deal to some but i doubted my capabilities a lot as someone with anxiety. sometimes life does have positives
Is it ur first time?
@@miae469alone yes, i may be with some uni classmates but i’m alone in the sense that my parents aren’t with me. i’ve only flown twice before with my family
@@sita487 unless you’ve got a fear of flying, it’s pretty chill just like a slightly more complicated train trip
I think as long as you leave plenty of time so you don’t stress abt being late or getting to the right gate, you’ll be fine :)
@@miae469thank u so much, i’ll try my best to enjoy it and be calm and we’ll see how it goes
@@sita487try not to worry, this year was my first time flying without my family too (i was with my classmates) and i was nervous at first but i had a lot of fun and really enjoyed it and i think you will too
i’ve never clicked a notification so fast😭😭😭
Sameee 😂
SAME
The intro was such an inspirational monologue
he did it guys he did it
what exactly did he do? idk man but he made it and he did it and kudos to him for doing it
i respect the transparency in this video most ppl will act like it doesn't bother them.
“now i have to keep my burger in my shoe” hahah silly boy. also i’m so so so happy you’re doing this and shedding light on this struggle of yours and taking action to overcome your fears. I am so proud of you
i don’t ever comment usually, but i thought i’d say something. i honestly completely empathise w ur nerves - anxiety is so so scary in the moment and genuine kudos to u for trying to overcome it, it’s not easy at all and u did so incredibly well!! i’ve experienced the same thing - it’s only this year i have been able to go places by myself instead and actually enjoying it. feel like this video came at a perfect time as well bc it was just the push i needed to go on a trip i’ve been planning for two whole months, but have never initiated anything bc i was scared that once i’d book my ticket that’s it i have to go and i wouldn’t b able to back out last minute bc of anxiety. like obviously i’m thinking about safety and things like that but i can’t lie a hugeee portion of it was just social anxiety like what if i have to ask people for directions or what if it’s obvious i have no idea what i’m doing, those kind of thoughts hold me back sooo much. seeing you walk through that little corridor thing with the restaurants and holding ur camera up gave me second hand anxiety haha but it was also exhilarating as stupid as that sounds. for me, what has helped the most is surrounding myself with people that also ‘don’t care’ yk? like people who just go for it and don’t care ab how stupid it looks or feels and don’t voice out their negative thoughts as well, and then i join them even though i’m thinking this is not it, but i try to let myself feel what i’m feeling and then give it a goodbye and just join my friends wo thinking. i just really wanted to thank u for this video, which i know is different from ur usually content, but being honest and genuine and real about how u feel and ur experiences is so amazing and u should be so proud for that fact alone! let alone u actually went out and did all these things by urself in public! as someone who had experienced what u described i am honestly so proud of u, allahumma barik :))
Lauren seemed like such a sweet person who would be great to be friends with
i think this video is fr healing the gaping hole in my chest that my exams created.
and i really feel you. like, when im walking down the hallways at school, i dont even know where to look so if i had to try FILMING MYSELF IN PUBLIC!!? thats crazy bruv. it was probably so hard to film this and i could see how uncomfortable you were. ig i should also try this some day..
That intro is actually really meaningfully
Nobody cares what do you actually do just be you and live your life enjoy it man 🕊
i love the moral of this video, i’m rlly shy at school and you’ve inspired me to step out of my comfort zone even if it seems awkward
This video was executed so well I relate so much to everything you were saying and the shots came out so cool especially when you were walking at 10:55 My favourite part was all the random interactions with strangers
Only 30 seconds in but I know this is gonna be video of the year 🏆
nah because this video was definitely for me because I hate being in public because I feel like I’m being judged but reality check, no one cares. anyways thanks for this love u heaps
You’re so inspirational tbh w you like I’d never be able to do anything you did today but now that I’ve seen people can actually do it I feel a lot more confident in attempting it and knowing that it’s not just me makes me feel so much better. you’re amazing
Bro I’m genuinely so proud of you 🙏🏽
the ending… if i’m crying no i’m not
"be kind to yourself love yourself enough to give yourself the freedom..."
16 mins of ameziane being ameziane love to see it🫶🏾
You know that the amount of people you were afraid to vlog in front of are the amount of people who see your videos. I’m proud of you for making this video and meeting other creators that was a bonus!
Fr this video couldn’t have found me at a better time😭 I just started trying to create content and it’s been so hard to shake that embarrassment feeling but I know it’s something that I wanna do regardless so thank you so much for talking about this
Same
I really want to be a content creator when i'm older because I feel like it would be less embarrassing if I'm no longer in the tight knit community of my school,,, so yeah, I'm just gonna wait. But i went on your channel and I can't find anything lmk if you start posting because I'd defo watch
as someone who is in the same situation, trying to find myself but holding myself back by caring too much about other’s opinions this video is very inspiring.
same. We can do it tho ;)
So nice to see you always trying new things/ideas, it's honestly inspiring
Japan is the first thing that comes to mind when thinking of introverts and “nobody cares” concept,
Redo the challenge in UK :3
This is so real of you ! Makes me want to do more things out of my comfort zone :) thank you
this is literally amazing the whole point of this video everything about it from the being to the end is just wonderful
This is actually beautiful. Truly a great message
Very motivating to see this video
Rate this highly akh, keep doing this and you will eventually get used to it and overcome the irrational fears that you have.
there’s something so comforting about watching your videos 🫶🏽 thank you
love how relatable you make these videos feel
This is such a wholesome video!! Acc boosted my confidence and its time to evolve even more!! Love that for you!!!
love seeing the quality of your videos increase man… big ups to you, youre a great content creator!
I really admire you for doing this! You’ve just motivated me to try!
Today’s video is literally amazing how u film it , the idea and the editing 🔥
love this so much, you recognized something that most of us go thru and in someway documented about it in your own way .. keep going brother, they only way is up ❤
This video related to me so much and i love your content. Please make more videos like this. Express yourself to the world even if people judge as long as your happy.
I am sooo glad you made this video!!! like we take all those vlogs on youtube for granted. It really takes guts and dedication to just do you out in public. Props for that man!
i love him he is such a pure soul.i am so excited for him to post
This is amazing! Thanks for the inspiration and the nice words🌺
you’re such an inspiration 🙌🏼
this video is genuinely amazing. the intro was articulated PERFECTLY
its great to overcome your fears👏👏 so proud of you 👏🤍🤍🤍
I really liked this video. Usually I have a hard time staying zoned in throughout videos but I didn’t even realise the videos was finishing when it did bc I was so so involved in this entire video! Thanks for sharing your story and making this video
This is a great video, and came at the right time! glad to see you conquering your fears, i can definitely relate to them. last week i went to my first ever concert and i guess i didnt enjoy it as much as i couldve because i was shy to sing more, interact with the actions or dance a litte, especially because my brother, who was next to me and didnt care about the singer, it kinda made me shy away a little because the person who i came with didnt show the same passion or enthusiasm as me. i mean i tried to live in the moment and not care about what he thought but idk its harddd. and also on the way, i had to go by myself on public transport with a mostly pink outfit and that was embarassing 💀 but i tried not to care. anyways i have my prom tomorrow with my whole year and lets see if i'll be embarassed or shy again 😃 i hope i can take pics and vids without shying away, we'll see- but i probably wont dance unless its with friends 💀 also i'll be going prom in my full outfit - sparkly golden dress, gold butterfly hair clip, jewellery and maybe some makeup on a public bus 😭 oh well its fine, could have been worse ! so yeah, thanks for making these videos, i love the japan videos and tokyo is definitely my dream place to visit and what helps is thinking that you're never going to see those people again, so i'll be taking a lot of pics and vids if i ever go haha. also unrelated but i love your hair 🤩 🤩
I'm so glad this popped into my recommendation, really needed this ♥
This is so reliable but no one ever shares this so thank you for sharing and looking forward to more content to come.
ur vids are so nice. i like the way u say and do things, plainly and down to earth. and the intro was really good, editing's coming through
Sooo proud of you! I am inspired to go out and explore by my self now
bro, love your videos. this one in particular is so relatable. more love from the UK
this is actually very good because this is exactly what ive been suffering from for ages and the thought has been weighing on me a lot today especially, thanks bro :)
Thank you for this video, been holding myself back for so long because I care about other people’s opinions so I rarely ever step out of my comfort zone, but this video was really inspiring ❤
Love how you are making a genuine effort to overcome your anxieties and hopefully I can do the same too 😊
it takes courage and bravery to do what you're doing, very inspirational for us who have fears that we want to also work on! keep doing it brother
The intro and ending were like snippets from a motivational TEDtalk. I like how much variation your channel has, keep it up cause we appreciate it 🙂
this video is so comforting you don’t understand it’s like I’m watching myself from how relatable you are you’re so brave and sweet I love your videos sm
Brooo i loved this video,it was very entertaining and actually made me focus cause usually im easily distracted so thank you for making this ot made me relax.im glad u are getting out your comfort zone, you did very well.
thank you for doing this and inspiring us to step out our comfort zones too
thank you man,this is the first video of yours that i've ever watched and i think that you are an amazing person,you have helped me to start not givin an f to what others think abt me❤
LOVE your content
What a good video man, thank you. I needed this
So proud of you 👏🏽👏🏽 if you continue in this mindset you'll go far in sha Allah! Yesterday for the first time I let myself film in public to capture shots and people were looking at me or walking by but I didn’t care usually I would of found it crippling or embarrassing but I did it :) had minor moments of discomfort but kept on with it and I’m proud my myself cause I want to take content making more seriously.
You posting this video was perfect timing cause what you described is how i felt for the longest time too. Appreciate you and all the best!
this is actually my new fave vid of yours
Doing activities or trips like these solo just unlocks so much more out of your life. You can just see all the memories that we can make by pushing ourselves out of our comfort zones. Icl this has inspired me to put more effort into just going for things without needing a friend or company
This was so inspirational. I was thinking of stopping my RUclips channel but after this na... I'll push through no matter how embarrassed i feel. Thank you ameziane.
Best content creator of all times! This is really someone who look up to and reliable,both inspiring and entertaining 💟
you are honestly the most underrated youtuber ever, can't wait to see you blow up. MORE VLOGS PLS THEYRE GENUINELY SO INTERESTING WHEN YOU MAKE THEM.
i love everything about this 😭😭😭
Love the message of this video. Thank you for sharing this with us. Really inspiring I actually held myself back applying for a holiday job today because I think I'm nervous to manage a cash register or take food orders. Your video actually made me rethink everything.
proud of u!!!!!
you’re amazing keep doing this bro
i love the way he was expressing himself in a hones way . Thank You for that . 💞
even tho im someone that is quite indepented and does 70% things alone, this video inspired me even more :) great job ameziane!!
Love your videos so much. Keep going man. Ill still be watching when you reach 1 mil
This was genuinely so good to see and motivating, and ily. Keep doing what you do❤
13:23 - this is so real, needed this - putting this to come back too listen too
I genuenly think you deserve to be so much more recognised and appretiated cs I love your content and more people should see it
this was so inspiring ❤ & so relatable. you took a leap of faith & trust in yourself
thank you so much, ive always wanted to pursue youtube and to start my own henna business, youve really encouraged me to take those first steps. People sometimes come up to me saying oh ive seen your tiktok and start laughing and its discouraged me alot, but one thing ive realised is people will talk, whether you do what you want or not, and theyll never be satisfied, i might aswell spend a life thats in alignment with my truth. Thank you may Allah bless and continue to keep you on the straight path allahumma ameen.
Endlessly proud of u ! It is so hard to take the 1st step to overcome our fears and insecurities so ure doing amazing ! Remember U deserve to live for you and what makes u happy 💖sending u so much love ure doing incredible 💖💖
Sick video man we appreciate your vulnerability
Wallahi this video felt so relatable and watching it motivated to go out with my friends more and be more social in general thank you x
This video was amazing. Your energy and this new style is absolutely amazing
I’m 1 minute in and can I just say that was a beautifully filmed intro!!!! Not just what you’re saying but the way you filmed it too!!! Chefs kiss*
this is such a nice video, genuinely made me smile
can't lie you seemed like such a confident person in other videos but this one was so nice cause you showed ur audience a different side of Ameziane
can't lie you got me thinking of how i don't do things i enjoy because im scared. i also need to work on that . thnx for the advice in ur vid
veery nice vid
by far my FAVORITE video. I love how ameziane makes something educating while still entertaining us. keeps us watching till the end and im here for it. I enjoy all your content, keep up the good work🤍
As someone who personally struggles in genuinely js being myself in front of certain people, places or audiences, this video felt so heartfelt and i wanna thank you for giving me this reassurance and extra push of motivation/courage.
i rlly appreciate the work u put into this video and the words at the end hit deep. 💟💟
I really loved this video I agree with everything you said and I'm very proud of you for doing this. i have the same feeling truly and I even got overwhelmed when seeing the amount of people you were walking through but I felt somewhat confident to do or try to do what you did. THANK you for making this video :)
My mood when from zero to 100000000
Thank you for finally posting
literally every video is better than the one before
This was such a wholesome video and It will definitely take a while for me to get comfortable stepping out of my comfort zone, but one step at a time 🫶🫶😊
growing as a tuber and growing as a person, we love to see it :)
the way you described a plethora of different layers of anxiety so accuratelyyy
Thank you for overcoming those thoughts and releasing this video, so many moments I felt like you worded the thoughts that one normally has in situations like these sooo well, I can’t stress enough how much I could relate, as someone who’s also found passion in content creating, similarly I’m sure MANY will also be able to relate
social anxiety is truly an enemy of progress!!!
I hope this video reaches who’s in need of it and helps them to also overcome these truly “irrational” fears, cuz nah when you think about it it all simply comes down to irrational thinking
it has surely helped me even by just 3%, i truly appreciate it :3 I’m glad there’s someone like you on RUclips, like you’re just so REAL😭😭I love it
Thank you also for documenting the process, it means a lot ameziane, I’m excited to see how you’ll progress in the future🫶🏾!