As a tomboy, there have been times where I feel more connected to classic femininity, and times where I feel more masculine. Those are moods, not separate genders. Not always being 100% about glitter and makeup and dresses doesn’t make me not a girl. It just feels sort of misogynistic. These people aren’t destroying gender norms, they’re reinforcing them
I think many girls go through the tomboy phase some more strongly than others. It's part of being a girl very much amd figuring yourself out :) and if people have a problem with it then THEY are the ones with the problem
This! It’s so weird how nowadays people want to label every single mood they have. Just because you’re feeling more feminine or more masculine one day, you don’t have to change your whole identity. I would consider myself very feminine overall, but I work very masculine jobs as I am in the army Reserves and I’m also a security guard. I definitely use a more masculine persona at work and then when I’m off work, I get to be more feminine. I enjoy exploring these two sides of myself, but I am still a woman.
TikTok is like guns, it's not the guns that are the problem it's the people who will go through the effort the get one to cause harm that are. TikTok only pushes what the user shows interest in or what the people around them do. Like any social media app. It has normal people and crazy people just like the dumpster fire known as Twitter. I agree with the person asking for age limits because little kids aren't supposed to be using these apps to begin with.
This has nothing to do with intelligence. Children are not dumb. They are children - growing people who are learning about the world at lightning speed. This is about maturity.
your not wrong , as a child if they would have asked my mothers name i wouldnt have known. Wasnt a thing back then to adress your parents with their first name. That was considerd rude. How times have changed for the worst.
How is it, that simple gender nonconformity has now to be some kind of "trans"?! Almost every person is not 100% a kitchen bound giggling Barbie or an adventure seeking, aggressive GI Joe. Just be who you are, have your own personality with traits that can be considered feminine or masculine (who cares?!) and accept your sex and (learn to) love your body.
Exactly. As a 6'3" 130kg dude I love cooking and baking and the next day I'm chopping wood. So what am I? Genderfluid? A woman? Trans? I'm a man (adult human male) with some interesting hobbies and personality.
@@StormCrusher94thats what im saying. Some days im very masculine, others im a bit more feminine. Sometimes I like boys, sometimes I like girls. If that makes me genderfluid, then everyone is.
It's 2023 and people still don't know that bisexuality is a thing. "Are you both gay and straight for women? Are you both gay and straight for men?" It's called being bisexual lmao.
Right!! They are erasing bisexuality the same way they are reading homosexuality through transing away the gay! They are no different from how Iran handles gays, as they are just as homophobic of a cult as Islam is, and I am an ex-Muslim, so I would know.
@@britpoppansy So true, people really think you can't like both, or if you say you're bisexual then you're transphobic, I remember hearing about a fight between bisexuals and pansexuals, idk much about it because I'm not really part of the community but from what I do know, there were battle axe Bis who believe there are two genders or something and the pansexuals who believe in many genders, I'll probably look more into it later, but yeah, disrespect.
I am what you call a classical Liberal/feminist, I grew up in the 80's and 90's and the progress of women and the LGBT community is being undone at a rapid pace here, because right now the QIA+ are putting a ridged criteria on what it it is to be a boy or girl and insist you transition if you show any signs of resembling the other. Growing up I was taught that girls and do what the boys can and vice versa.... being a tomboy I KNOW I would have been tricked into transitioning if I was a child now. Everything today is about 'Identify as'... whatever happened to 'Relate to'? That's why I was a tomboy to begin with, I related to the boys in my area and I enjoyed playing in the mud and tinkering with J.I Joe figures like they did, (I enjoyed My Little Pony too, but they had some intense adventures with the G.I Joes) and they had no issues with it. Boys and Girls have a lot in common, the QIA+ are dead set on separating the two into boxes and redefining what it means to be either. No wonder depression and anxiety is at a all-time high.
You have written my childhood. Thank you. I would have been a prime target too. At 50 I’m still a Tomboy, love riding my motorbike with my friends, love going to heavy metal gigs. I’m pretty sure I would still be boarding if I was still physically able to lol. I was 20 when I first willingly wore a skirt, much to the shock of my male friends. The thing is, a lot of kids just do what brings them enjoyment, they bond with those they find most fun and interesting. If they are allowed, they don’t even think about whether it’s ‘girl or ‘boy’ stuff. My dad was a scout leader and mum was a cub leader, so from before I could even walk I was exposed to a male idea of fun. My Tomboy friend had 3 older brothers, her parents were overjoyed at having a girl and attempted to treat her as a princess, but she rough and tumbled with her brothers and preferred hopping along the local pond bank with us looking for frogs & catching tadpoles, determined to find more than her brothers. And if we didn’t return home covered in mud we considered it a bad day lol. I have a photo of us like this and we are so muddy you can’t tell which one of us is who, despite me being very blonde. If we just leave kids to explore their likes in life they will figure out who they are eventually. Adults need to just let them and stop pushing an adult mindset onto them. I swear all this started back when the adults started remaking old kids programs to remove things they perceived as wrong. Like a toy pixie (Noddy) and a toy gnome, living in toyland and sharing a home. Wow, how the pendulum has swung in the opposite direction. ❤
I grew up in the same era. I liked many feminine things growing up around women & girls. I'm so glad my parents told me just because I played with barbies, that didn't make me a girl. That would be considered phobic & abuse towards me by today's standards. The activists of today are very quickly dismantling all the progress that was made.
Yeah he's not. I'm 29. Born cis male, do drag sometimes. Wear my drag out even. But I identify as a cis dude. I'm not even as extreme as Jeffree but I will wear a wig out if the outfit calls for it. I've closely identified with genderfluid, but I don't call myself it per say?
Like, I'm not delusional like non binary people. And the worst part is, when the guy said do you feel trans but like an imposter? Yep. I do. To where this trans man then said that was invalid. I'm not invalid. Lol?? I'm going back to Blair White. At least she truly understands.
@@RavanaMuseyeah I'm a ts woman and I was shocked to hear that his response to it not being a choice. im sure you cant control the feelings of wanting to wear your wigs. That doesn't make you invalid. I'm sorry this youtuber said that. P.s you're right. Blaire White, while she is mean, she is smarter than this guy. This guy reacts emotionally and is kind of painting himself as a victim. Where as Blaire fights for us. The actual response to that should have been when you wear a long wig out in public, and look androgynous, or even feminine passing, expect to be called miss. Or something. It's not a big deal and certainly doesn't put you on the same pedestal that youtuber did just now. He grouped them up with all non conforming people which do exist. It's like they're doing exactly what we're trying to prevent. Lumping non binary people up with transsexuals, so they don't make us look like monsters.
You don’t have to be a pedo to be a groomer. You’re a groomer for infringing on a personal and normal part of human development. Young people are meant to figure that stuff out on their own. For you to come in as someone who’s grown and already figured it out for yourself will screw them up and for that, anyone who does it is over stepping and creepy.
🙏🏽💕 as someone who was groomed and preyed upon as a little girl I can say this is so profoundly true. Taking my body against my will was a clear violation. Stealing my innocence and blurring my morality and sanity were more nebulous, difficult to discern offenses. So much of what I was exposed to and thought was “normal” it took me years to discern as abuse.
What does gender 'FEEL' like? Say Im just sitting here like I am right now. Am I supposed to be thinking to myself am I feeling like a BOY right now? or a GIRL? this sounds like actual insanity. Usually when Im sitting here by myself thinking, Im thinking about cute cats or the extestential dread of life itself, or thinking about BBQ chicken. I dont just sit there pondering what gender I am all day
It's all gender stereotypes. By their logic, "feeling" like a girl/boy means feeling feminine or masculine. So yes, they base what gender they are off of how feminine/masculine they are. (Example: a man feels feminine because he likes wearing make-up. He may take this as "feeling like a woman" or just accept it as what it is: we as a society have culturally labeled makeup as feminine.) The actual truth of what is "feeling like a boy/girl" is the medical diagnosis of gender dysphoria. Sad how it's been regurgitated into whatever THAT is. Everyone feels masculine and feminine, but again, those feelings are based on gender stereotypes we learned.
When tolerance means submit to alienation... Strange in few years how much people with gender dysphoria are everywhere. I hope we will judge that era with shame in the future,like we do with the lobotomy now.
Humans with mob mentality are everywhere. Paranoia and fear grows in the mind and spreads with no evidence like a cold. Biology cannot be disputed so other agendas are started.
Young people who were transed due to confusion are starting to come out against transition for children now that they're older. This is why the transtrenders are so against detransitioners speaking out! As we LGBs used to say in the old days: silence is violence. The trenders want to silence these young people so they can keep supporting medical horrors performed on children and young adults. Sick.
You are absolutely correct in your opinion. All these people and the children have been exposed like they were lying dormant waiting for these crazies to tell them what they should be doing to themselves and their children
@@roralyn we still talk around the holidays but I'm supposed to act like my brother is dead, which is dumb. I refer to him as dude. Not sure if he's an autogynautogynephiliac or what because all that is off limits but he dates other trans-women, so I get the sense that he's both gay and homophobic but who knows. They call themselves lesbians. 🙄
Right, im ok with the old school lgbtq, but this new pronoun and plus plus shiit is a oh hell no, i cant be freinds with someone who talking that nonesence, i do not have to bend to them they are not my god, 😁😊
First off I'm super glad to have found your channel. I am the father of three and grandfather of 6. I raised my children and grandchildren to be themselves and have never stopped them from their choices, well unless it would hurt them or damage their life. My youngest daughter who is 18 and is in collage. she came to me and told me she was a lesbian and my response was Im glad you told me and I am and always be proud of you no matter what. I have many friends that are gay, bi, lesbian and Drag Queens. I love them for who they are and proud to have them as friends. Not because of them being gay I love them just because they are intelligent kind and a fuck load of fun. Now all of this, well absurd cult and fact clowns, I have this too say. I am a 20 year retired Marine and I have my Masters degree in Micro Biology. I have also been diagnosed with Bi polar disorder, Rage Disorder, PTSD, severe depression, and social anxiety. This was truly diagnosed by REAL DOCTORS and is crippling. These clowns saying that they have this disorder and that disorder because it's a cool thing and way to fit into this cult mentality. I have vast knowledge of how the human body develops and what gender is, WITH FACTUAL SCIENCE too back it up. This cult is out of control and is destroying our cultures and way of life. It needs to stop, dam I have more but this is long and starting to ramble on. Once again I'm happy to have found your channel and believe that you are a amazing human. Have a wonderful day
The young folks nowadays are going throught a lot of identity issues, way worse than we had (I think). Because of how easy they can be "corrupted" by social media and internet. We had references before from tv shows, videoclips, rock bands etc. Now anyone can be famous and feel special throught youtube and tiktok... that messes up with their head.
It’s always weird to me talking abt children’s sexuality with kids like “are you gay or bisexual?” Fellas, in my experience, as a kid I would have ‘crushes’ simply bc I had a boy as a friend and I thought that was what that was… I didn’t start being actually attracted to boys until I hit puberty… and I’m pretty sure that’s normal. Kids just want to play and have fun, they don’t need to be worried about who they wanna kiss bc they shouldnt be kissing in the first place??? Like just leave them be and DONT MAKE COMMERCIALS LIKE YOU’RE ‘SELLING’ GENDER IDENTITIES😭 I’m surprised they didn’t say “buy one gender get one free”
Nevertheless, children express interest in differences between men and women way before puberty. And from my observation, attraction does exist before puberty, it just does not manifest in the same obvious way as in adults. I agree though that it's really weird question to ask a child (are you gay? etc)
It's all about what the hell is between your legs if you have a penis you are a man and if you have a vagina you are a woman and you can't change that no matter what.
@@tassiodrigues 32 years to find out I'm aromantic and asexual... I wish I knew about aromantism and asexuality before, because I was really confused about myself... I knew I was "lacking" of something that "everyone else" had, but I didn't understand what. When I heard about asexualuty and aromantism, I was rrlieved: "oh... that explains a lot!". I learned too that I was not alone and discovering the jokes of aromantics/asexuals about standard romantic and sexual attractions let me trully understand how "normal" people are attraction (btw those jokes are not mocking "normal" people... it's more: "look at how weird we are!"). So, I wish I new before about aromantism and asexuality. Should we talk about this to children? No, they wouldn't understand (if they ask the question, or if they're made fun of because they don't have a "lover", we just can tell them than being single is not a problem). Should we talk to this to teenagers? Yes, but just letting them know it exists, WITHOUT SUGGESTING THEM THEY MIGHT BE.
@@grenade8572 Can you explain further? As to me both things are pretty well connected, being romantic and sexual. From the definitions that are available on the internet/wiki both seem to contradict themselves and each other. Did you really never experience a crush, even towards a movie or fictional character, or some sort of strong attraction? If you really didn't feel that or (apparently I shouldn't be saying this) found the right person, I can see how you'd consider yourself asexual (that's why I also think these two are so connected). I know one person, that considered themselves both too. A year or so ago they started hrt and as soon as they started, they found themselves a boyfriend (a person they've known for years) don't know how far they've gone as that isn't something we speak of. The other experiences I a have with ace people is from the comment sections and usually they were in their 50s, when their libido is down. So from these cases it seems that being asexual is physiological, as you don't produce a lot of (or them not working right) hormones to find attraction or desire to have intercourse. Or psychological, as it goes against our innate desire to find someone and in most cases procreate. There is also by choice, because you just don't want to be seen in a sexual light.
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I don't even feel like a woman lol. I just feel like myself. I've never been into makeup or fashion but I am a wife and mother and I love caring for my family. I would say maybe that's feeling like a woman but I know fathers who are the same way. 😂 It's so wrong that they claim you can be transgender without gender disphoria. Like that's the whole point of what makes someone transgender, the fact that they have to transition to feel normal and happy. These people are out of their minds and doing this bs for attention because they lack a personality so they make being trans their personality despite not actually being trans. I have so much empathy for trans people. Is if it wasn't hard enough being trans, you now have these type of people watering it down and causing confusion in people who don't know anything about transgenderism.
Same. However, I have female genitalia. Yeah, yeah I understand that men can have female genitalia, but it isn't the same. I have XY chromosomes, hormones such as estrogen and progesterone, and wide hips. Ofc I am a woman.
I felt that way except my 3 brothers would punch me if I tried to do things with them. And my mom always reiterated I couldn’t do boy things. Matchbox, superhero comics, GI Joe. I was punished if I went near any of it. But as an only girl I had no one to play with until my sister came along years later. And even then she couldn’t play anything but baby things. So my mom had me help clean. And clean. And clean.
I have 3 older brothers. I never thought about wanting to be a boy but I sure wanted to play like they did. In dirt. Growing up I realized it’s not a boy or girl thing it’s a child wanting to play.
Why oh why must all of the people wanting to “help children” ever so much always be so creepy? If somewhat “normal” ( a loaded term I know) or at least not instantly off putting as creepy people were doing this it would make it easier to accept. So often it seems the people that set off your “parent alarm” are the ones pushing the agenda.
That’s the thing; I don’t want to use the word “creepy,” but I feel like it’s always these adult men with prominent beards talking in a cutesy way and leaning way too close the camera. It’s automatically off-putting to me
When folks confront these activists who deny such things like child mutilations are taking place, that's when the person confronting them should pull out their phone and cue up the reports/videos that prove otherwise. See if the activists still attempt to deny such things happen.
I am so grateful I grew up in a simpler time, late 70's/80's, cause I was 100% a tomboy but very much still a girl! I grew up with 3 older brothers and just wanted to do whatever they did but I never once thought I wanted to be a boy.
As a European who is living in Asia ( Singapore first and now Japan ) I am glad that this kind of insanity is not happening in most ( if not all ) Asian countries.
I just started working as a teacher, and I can't tell you how happy I am that the teenagers in my country don't seem to be into all these things. I'm sure there's someone, but in general the kids are just being themselves. I was afraid they had been corrupted by videos like these, but fortunately they're not watching this stuff.
I (female) used to use the term genderfluid because at the time I used it I thought it meant having a fluid expression and being nonconforming and androgynous….now I just use the term’s nonconformity or androgynous because of this bull, it’s getting to be absolutely insane to be honest. Also, leave the kids out of it! They don’t need to know/learn this stuff!! That’s just confusing them and messing them up!!!
I say just reclaim the term tomboy. "Gender-nonconforming" (which can be a person that doesn't even call themselves trans) technically falls under the transgender umbrella. It really is madness how they can't accept men can be feminine and women can be masculine.
I relished being different growing up. I was never girly, but never in a million years did I think I was anything but female. So glad I grew up in the 70's and 80's instead of this beyond insane period of time!!! There is nothing wrong with being a tomboy! I never conformed to what society expected of me and I am so very proud of that fact! At 51, I still feel the same way. I feel so bad for kids these days...smh...
I remember joining a pride group at work and they had a long excel sheet of all the pronouns and indentities of ppl and every week the list got longer and longer and the meetings got longer so they could have more time explaining everything eventually they themselves were lost. I left that company, but I could only imagine how long that list is now😂
Ngl, my biggest irk for a long time has been this… I’m 38, I’ve NEVER wanted kids. Periods are a nightmare, not being dramatic but I’m one of those unlucky few. Numerous times I’d asked for a hysterectomy and was I given one? Nope! Why? Because I might change my mind on having kids. So from 13-38, 25 years I’ve had to suffer whilst nowadays if I’d said “ah yeah nah, it triggers my gender dysphoria to have a period” bada Bing bada boom it’d be sorted. This isn’t anything against real trans people…but why’s it ok to do these things to kids NOW when NOW there are still woman in my position who are being told Nope! You still might wanna have a kid. I’ve got, I’d guess… anywhere between 2-18 more years of this shit…I hate it.
Right there with you, Sister! I only got my hysterectomy at 38 because I was an Obstetric nurse and my Colleagues did it for me. I had periods so heavy I would need to set alarms at night to change protection. They were really disruptive during my working hours, literally in the restroom every 1.5 hours handling containment. Turns out I had fibroids the size of G-d's ego. Anyone else would have been put through at least 2 lesser procedures before resorting to hysterectomy. Because always, always, always, "preserve fertility." I remember Dr. Barton saying, "we know you are a single lesbian and you don't want kids, we're just gonna take it. Want your ovaries?" This is NOT what happens typically. I got my hysterectomy during childbearing years literally because "I KNEW A GUY." Any trans man who can pay for one is green lit for affirming surgery no sweat. I'm not saying trans men don't need or shouldn't have hysterectomies, but I have every confidence I'm not the only Gyn patient who feels just a bit chapped about a vastly larger number of hoops involved.
I am a 62 year old proud woman and I recently came across your channel and had to subscribe. Thank you for educating me and others on true gender dysphoria. All this stuff has got to me with the pronouns and all the different words and phrases that these people seem to make up on a daily basis. I am sick of these men trying to take over our lives and our spaces, I appreciate all you do to educate people on this. Thank goodness I live in a small town where this does not effect my day to day life but I see it on social media and the news which is enough for me. You are so correct when you say that we can't just agree with their dilusional ideolgy we must call them out on their BS respectfully.. Keep doing what your doing it does make a difference. Thank you
Why does this guy sound exactly like Jeffrey Marsh and why are they always so focused only on children. You actually found a unicorn Marcus, someone that looks like a leftist but he doesn't sound like a cultist.
Marcus, I’m not a clear mind reader anyway, but I’m not getting the pronunciation right for ‘steaming pile of cowschite’ in Danish that you were thinking about Buffalo Bill in Drag.
Part of the reason why we took our 7 year old son out of school was them pushing gender ideology. We request he not be included in learning about gender identity and they SAID they would respect that. Then later on he came to me and said, I don’t know if I’m a boy or a girl… There is NO other way he would have been exposed to this idea than through school. The main reason we didn’t want he to learn about this is because he has ASD. Through my research I have found that a lot of young people who are detransitioners have ASD. People who are neurodivergent feel different to others and sometimes they get led into thinking it’s because they are trans. Leave, kids, ALONE!!
You dont have to put labels on everything like these people are doing. The thing is we are all different, and special. Its called being human, nothing more.
When I was 13 I took a 100 question "androgyny survey" to see how feminine or masculine I was. When I looked at the results I was exactly 50/50. I remember being amazed by this.
Thank you for highlighting the actual ignorance of this movement. You have to tell children that they are in fact doing their gender “wrong”, thus, they must change or worse yet - not define themselves at all. It is essentially suggesting to them that they are damaged.
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I feel so bad for young people who think they are always going to feel the way they do at 15. When I hit 30, I began to feel disturbed because my female brain and womb started saying "uh-oh, are you going to die without having what my mom said was the best experience of her life?" I finally had my daughter and her biological father married me because I vowed never to be raised by a single mom as a baby.
That guy REALLY gave me the Willies!!!! (That’s a thing where you Really feel Icky, and it gives you shivers of discomfort. Dunno if you know that phrase). Any way, as always, you’re Brilliant!
I am straight but one thing that frustrates me is the narrative being pushed for children and the amount of labels and then the pronouns I am supposed to remember because if I don't remember everyone's pronoun that makes me a sh*tty person that is against an entire community.
I’m so curious how all these people would explain feeling like “neither gender” or “both genders”…. How does that make sense to anyone? This aggressive recruitment strategy aimed at children should be a criminal offense.
If you don’t want to choose between male and female you’re gender fluid! Which means you decide wether you’re male or female but this time there’s a label you can put in your bio
I know someone who identified as a non-binary male. Unsurprisingly, she came to me one day and says that she's embraced her femininity now and now uses she/her pronouns. This is exactly what I mean. You can be a masculine woman or a feminine man. You don't need to label yourself as another gender.
Are you all aware of Thai Rivera? Great channel that addresses similar issues as Mr Marcus here. He is also a comedian (“best lgbt comedian in the world” is his tag line and I tend to agree) although I am not part of the community I try to make sense of what is going on and common sense interpretation by those in the community is hard to find. Hope you all experience love today
If someone grows up and concludes, as an adult, that something is not right with their gender identity, that's one thing. The idea that we are pressing this onto children is insane. It's like people who go onto google every time anything seems wrong with their body. They end up assuming its the worst and scariest possible outcome and actually damage their health needlessly. If someone has cancer (or is trans as an adult) that's one thing. But constantly fearing one has cancer, or having gender crap shoved down the throats of children, does everyone a disservice.
Seriously, can we remove the I from the alphabet soup? I stands for intersex, we're a medical condition, not a sexual orientation, nor a gender identity. I do acknowledge that there might be some overlap between the I and the T, but I haven't seen anything scientific regarding that.
I can't count how many times my sons asked me "am I a boy or a girl?" when they were little. I told them they were boys, because non-binary, genderfluid etc wasn't a thing yet. I assumed that in the unlikely case they were trans, they would tell me themselves that they were girls. Imagine if I had told them: "You can choose what you are!" How incredibly confusing for kids! They literally don't know anything. They trust their parents on literally everything. My 12 year old still asks me "do we believe in God?" It's not that he won't form his own opinion and identity when he is older. It's just that now he is still a kid, he looks to us to answer these questions for him.
I’m a teenage girl who has a conservative mom. She doesn’t like the fact i’m masculine & accuses me of being trans, but she also doesn’t want me to be trans! She just wants me to be feminine & i’m not, i’ve never been feminine.
Renaming and relabeling a person's feelings. That's all this is. If they can make a new name out of feeling confused, scared, etc. they will then belong in the cool, popular club with all the other cool people. No, nope. I've never felt any urge to feel like my gender. It just is. Why is he talking like this? With that voice targeted at children? When I grew up of someone acted like this the police would be called?
"leave the kids alone!" them: "no." Kids do NOT need to know bisexual, gay, lesbian because that's most likely gonna influence them. Theres ONLY male and female. EVEN intersex people end up being ONE gender. You can identify as a dog for all I care but don't tell me I have to accept or respect that. Kid's will feel feminine one second and masculine the next thats just being a child. Non-binary isn't a thing in my opinion. Call me a transphobe I don't care to be honest you can't change my opinion.
00:13 No. I can't remember ever having felt like either... or both or neither. I don't even know for sure if it is actually possible to feel it, or, if it is, how it would feel.
That video gives me serious "run the other way now" vibes. If I were walking down a hallway and THAT "wiggly squiggly" mess was between me and the restroom... yeah I'll just hold it.
I really like that you emphasize that "Being Trans is not a choice". These people who keep trying to push that you can be Trans one day and not another day, remind me of the "Pray the gay away" types. This is almost like an assault on the community from within.
I'd reccomend listening to Indochine's 3e sexe, though it's in french, even THEY GOT IT IN THE 80S! I mean one the lines is "we take each others hands, a boy in the feminine, a girl in the masculine". Really good song and band either way.
Its crazy that they are focusing on gender stereotypes.. This was destroyed in like 1980s maybe before with hippies. Now they're sticking to the "Man" by breaking out of these stereotypes. I was born in 1980s and thank god because I would've been caught up in this crazes. You already see the regret posts. I regret all my piercings but that didn't do much damage to me. What I wanted as a child/teenager I don't want now. I thought I should've been born, Boy name, into sports, hair in random manly places due to PCOS. I love being me now
Gender fluidity is actually a real thing, but they're even rarer then trans people because it's essentially gender dysphoria that comes and goes on a regular basis. The real ones, if anything are in danger because of trans ideology. I remember watching a documentary about trans kids with my mom years ago. There was one boy, who at times felt like a girl and his girl name was Crystal. Because he was so adamant about his female identity at times, the mother wanted her child to transition, but the father was against it. Thank god, but other then that, anyone with this condition is obviously pushed to transition nowadays, and this is why it's important to keep track wether someone's gender dysphoria is chronic, just a temporary phase or a re-occuring mental issue.
Seriously, I think you’re amazing, sane and empathetic. Thank you for saying exactly what I’m thinking. Keep it up! I’m forever a faithful subscriber ❤
My thing is this. I don’t have children. I get very weirded out about even being one of those adults who just waved at children that they don’t know in the streets. No matter how innocent it is. So for somebody to make a full-blown video addressing children that are not their children, it is screams pedo to me. Total groomer.
People are encouraged to not make decisions in all aspects of life at this point. "Don't settle down." "You can have multiple partners." "You don't have to have a husband to have kids, get a sperm donor." "You can update your phone every year." As if identifying with your s3x is boxing you in. If you feel boxed in by your s3x, then there is likely an outside reason for this. I know someone who experienced consistent misogyny from a family member, and they identify as a guy now. When you're excluded from outdoor activities because you're a female, it is isolating, you start to resent femininity. You value masculine traits and put them on a pedestal. You want to be accepted by the boys, and that won't happen if you're girly. If you're rewarded for being girly when you're naturally masculine, you start to think to yourself, "If only I was a boy, I could be myself."
@@M4sterM1ndsetwith the level of woke gender stereotyping, probably if a woman hammers a nail she's should feel like a trans man for min 24h (48 if she gets her finger and swears😂) 🙄
Just putting this information out there, not trying to ruffle anyone’s feathers….but as a labor and delivery nurse since the early 90’s , when a baby is born and we are performing our newborn physical assessment, we document our findings. On our charting we address genitalia and document male or female or ambiguous. On most of the forms that I have used there is a place to document gender and sex. We always put the same! If we observe a penis we document male for both gender and sex. Same with female if we observe female genitalia. If we observe something other than that we document ambiguous genitalia and chart our exact findings and immediately inform the ob/gyn and the pediatrician. That’s just how it’s done. 🤓❤️
As a tomboy, there have been times where I feel more connected to classic femininity, and times where I feel more masculine. Those are moods, not separate genders. Not always being 100% about glitter and makeup and dresses doesn’t make me not a girl. It just feels sort of misogynistic. These people aren’t destroying gender norms, they’re reinforcing them
Rienforcing gender stereotypes.
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Ironic eh?
I think many girls go through the tomboy phase some more strongly than others. It's part of being a girl very much amd figuring yourself out :) and if people have a problem with it then THEY are the ones with the problem
This! It’s so weird how nowadays people want to label every single mood they have. Just because you’re feeling more feminine or more masculine one day, you don’t have to change your whole identity. I would consider myself very feminine overall, but I work very masculine jobs as I am in the army Reserves and I’m also a security guard. I definitely use a more masculine persona at work and then when I’m off work, I get to be more feminine. I enjoy exploring these two sides of myself, but I am still a woman.
Would love to see TikTok dismantled and disappear completely.
I love TikTok, but it needs to be for 16 or 18 up. You should have to show your ID to get on.
This isn’t all of tiktok
Me too.
TikTok is like guns, it's not the guns that are the problem it's the people who will go through the effort the get one to cause harm that are. TikTok only pushes what the user shows interest in or what the people around them do. Like any social media app. It has normal people and crazy people just like the dumpster fire known as Twitter. I agree with the person asking for age limits because little kids aren't supposed to be using these apps to begin with.
It's getting there, be patient 🙏🏾
Children think their parents actual names are "mommy and daddy", lets please not have the same intelligence decide gender.
I used to think me mamas name was mummy
I once tried to sent a post card to "Granma" @@Helpmefindthewilltolive
This has nothing to do with intelligence. Children are not dumb. They are children - growing people who are learning about the world at lightning speed. This is about maturity.
@@glykera Oop, found the pedo....
your not wrong , as a child if they would have asked my mothers name i wouldnt have known. Wasnt a thing back then to adress your parents with their first name. That was considerd rude. How times have changed for the worst.
How is it, that simple gender nonconformity has now to be some kind of "trans"?! Almost every person is not 100% a kitchen bound giggling Barbie or an adventure seeking, aggressive GI Joe. Just be who you are, have your own personality with traits that can be considered feminine or masculine (who cares?!) and accept your sex and (learn to) love your body.
Because it is has become political with possible legal protections
Exactly. As a 6'3" 130kg dude I love cooking and baking and the next day I'm chopping wood. So what am I? Genderfluid? A woman? Trans? I'm a man (adult human male) with some interesting hobbies and personality.
@@StormCrusher94thats what im saying. Some days im very masculine, others im a bit more feminine. Sometimes I like boys, sometimes I like girls. If that makes me genderfluid, then everyone is.
Exactly. Why can’t we go back to the eighties and nineties when being a nonconformist regarding you gender was considered normal and not trans?
Ugh. And the idea that they are is extremely sexist & regressive. It used to be Girls can do anything! Now it's Oh you must really be a boy.
It's 2023 and people still don't know that bisexuality is a thing.
"Are you both gay and straight for women? Are you both gay and straight for men?"
It's called being bisexual lmao.
Right!! They are erasing bisexuality the same way they are reading homosexuality through transing away the gay! They are no different from how Iran handles gays, as they are just as homophobic of a cult as Islam is, and I am an ex-Muslim, so I would know.
Bisexual visibility is more needed than ever
So much disrespect to the bisexual community continuously. It's sick.
@@jdmangrich True, we're the most overlooked and criticized of all the LGBT.
@@britpoppansy So true, people really think you can't like both, or if you say you're bisexual then you're transphobic, I remember hearing about a fight between bisexuals and pansexuals, idk much about it because I'm not really part of the community but from what I do know, there were battle axe Bis who believe there are two genders or something and the pansexuals who believe in many genders, I'll probably look more into it later, but yeah, disrespect.
I am what you call a classical Liberal/feminist, I grew up in the 80's and 90's and the progress of women and the LGBT community is being undone at a rapid pace here, because right now the QIA+ are putting a ridged criteria on what it it is to be a boy or girl and insist you transition if you show any signs of resembling the other.
Growing up I was taught that girls and do what the boys can and vice versa.... being a tomboy I KNOW I would have been tricked into transitioning if I was a child now. Everything today is about 'Identify as'... whatever happened to 'Relate to'? That's why I was a tomboy to begin with, I related to the boys in my area and I enjoyed playing in the mud and tinkering with J.I Joe figures like they did, (I enjoyed My Little Pony too, but they had some intense adventures with the G.I Joes) and they had no issues with it.
Boys and Girls have a lot in common, the QIA+ are dead set on separating the two into boxes and redefining what it means to be either. No wonder depression and anxiety is at a all-time high.
Beautifully stated. 👏
Thank you!
You have written my childhood. Thank you.
I would have been a prime target too. At 50 I’m still a Tomboy, love riding my motorbike with my friends, love going to heavy metal gigs. I’m pretty sure I would still be boarding if I was still physically able to lol. I was 20 when I first willingly wore a skirt, much to the shock of my male friends.
The thing is, a lot of kids just do what brings them enjoyment, they bond with those they find most fun and interesting. If they are allowed, they don’t even think about whether it’s ‘girl or ‘boy’ stuff. My dad was a scout leader and mum was a cub leader, so from before I could even walk I was exposed to a male idea of fun. My Tomboy friend had 3 older brothers, her parents were overjoyed at having a girl and attempted to treat her as a princess, but she rough and tumbled with her brothers and preferred hopping along the local pond bank with us looking for frogs & catching tadpoles, determined to find more than her brothers. And if we didn’t return home covered in mud we considered it a bad day lol. I have a photo of us like this and we are so muddy you can’t tell which one of us is who, despite me being very blonde.
If we just leave kids to explore their likes in life they will figure out who they are eventually. Adults need to just let them and stop pushing an adult mindset onto them.
I swear all this started back when the adults started remaking old kids programs to remove things they perceived as wrong. Like a toy pixie (Noddy) and a toy gnome, living in toyland and sharing a home. Wow, how the pendulum has swung in the opposite direction. ❤
I grew up in the same era. I liked many feminine things growing up around women & girls. I'm so glad my parents told me just because I played with barbies, that didn't make me a girl. That would be considered phobic & abuse towards me by today's standards. The activists of today are very quickly dismantling all the progress that was made.
Same and still am a tomboy at 37yrs.
my jaw dropped when he called himself “transsexual!” glad to see the word coming back!
Me too!
Yeah he's not. I'm 29. Born cis male, do drag sometimes. Wear my drag out even. But I identify as a cis dude. I'm not even as extreme as Jeffree but I will wear a wig out if the outfit calls for it.
I've closely identified with genderfluid, but I don't call myself it per say?
Like, I'm not delusional like non binary people. And the worst part is, when the guy said do you feel trans but like an imposter? Yep. I do.
To where this trans man then said that was invalid. I'm not invalid. Lol?? I'm going back to Blair White. At least she truly understands.
@@RavanaMuseyeah I'm a ts woman and I was shocked to hear that his response to it not being a choice. im sure you cant control the feelings of wanting to wear your wigs. That doesn't make you invalid. I'm sorry this youtuber said that.
P.s you're right. Blaire White, while she is mean, she is smarter than this guy. This guy reacts emotionally and is kind of painting himself as a victim. Where as Blaire fights for us.
The actual response to that should have been when you wear a long wig out in public, and look androgynous, or even feminine passing, expect to be called miss. Or something. It's not a big deal and certainly doesn't put you on the same pedestal that youtuber did just now. He grouped them up with all non conforming people which do exist.
It's like they're doing exactly what we're trying to prevent. Lumping non binary people up with transsexuals, so they don't make us look like monsters.
You don’t have to be a pedo to be a groomer. You’re a groomer for infringing on a personal and normal part of human development. Young people are meant to figure that stuff out on their own. For you to come in as someone who’s grown and already figured it out for yourself will screw them up and for that, anyone who does it is over stepping and creepy.
Blond dude gave pedo vibes, tho.
🙏🏽💕 as someone who was groomed and preyed upon as a little girl I can say this is so profoundly true. Taking my body against my will was a clear violation. Stealing my innocence and blurring my morality and sanity were more nebulous, difficult to discern offenses. So much of what I was exposed to and thought was “normal” it took me years to discern as abuse.
100%, these people are groomers!
100%. We naturally explore these topics on our own by instinct. Interference robs us of the tools we need to make good choices as an adult.
Why would anyone like that be concerned about this unless they were grooming, and why would anyone be a groomer if they’re not a pedophile?
What does gender 'FEEL' like? Say Im just sitting here like I am right now. Am I supposed to be thinking to myself am I feeling like a BOY right now? or a GIRL?
this sounds like actual insanity. Usually when Im sitting here by myself thinking, Im thinking about cute cats or the extestential dread of life itself, or thinking about BBQ chicken. I dont just sit there pondering what gender I am all day
It's all gender stereotypes. By their logic, "feeling" like a girl/boy means feeling feminine or masculine. So yes, they base what gender they are off of how feminine/masculine they are.
(Example: a man feels feminine because he likes wearing make-up. He may take this as "feeling like a woman" or just accept it as what it is: we as a society have culturally labeled makeup as feminine.)
The actual truth of what is "feeling like a boy/girl" is the medical diagnosis of gender dysphoria. Sad how it's been regurgitated into whatever THAT is. Everyone feels masculine and feminine, but again, those feelings are based on gender stereotypes we learned.
When tolerance means submit to alienation...
Strange in few years how much people with gender dysphoria are everywhere.
I hope we will judge that era with shame in the future,like we do with the lobotomy now.
Humans with mob mentality are everywhere. Paranoia and fear grows in the mind and spreads with no evidence like a cold. Biology cannot be disputed so other agendas are started.
Young people who were transed due to confusion are starting to come out against transition for children now that they're older. This is why the transtrenders are so against detransitioners speaking out!
As we LGBs used to say in the old days: silence is violence. The trenders want to silence these young people so they can keep supporting medical horrors performed on children and young adults. Sick.
I wondered the same thing. Supposedly there was like 2% ppl tht were lgbt etc community and now it seems 2% of ppl are heterosexual.
Me too
You are absolutely correct in your opinion. All these people and the children have been exposed like they were lying dormant waiting for these crazies to tell them what they should be doing to themselves and their children
I've lost a friend to this clown business and I'm still pissed about it 🙃... You can't do anything once they're brainwashed and it sucks...
Yep, I lost my brother.
@@Engrave.Danger Sorry you had to go through that. I hope he comes around ) :(
@@roralyn we still talk around the holidays but I'm supposed to act like my brother is dead, which is dumb. I refer to him as dude. Not sure if he's an autogynautogynephiliac or what because all that is off limits but he dates other trans-women, so I get the sense that he's both gay and homophobic but who knows. They call themselves lesbians. 🙄
@@Engrave.Danger sounds confusing and hard to navigate, but at least he's not shutting you out completely.
Right, im ok with the old school lgbtq, but this new pronoun and plus plus shiit is a oh hell no, i cant be freinds with someone who talking that nonesence, i do not have to bend to them they are not my god, 😁😊
First off I'm super glad to have found your channel. I am the father of three and grandfather of 6. I raised my children and grandchildren to be themselves and have never stopped them from their choices, well unless it would hurt them or damage their life. My youngest daughter who is 18 and is in collage. she came to me and told me she was a lesbian and my response was Im glad you told me and I am and always be proud of you no matter what. I have many friends that are gay, bi, lesbian and Drag Queens. I love them for who they are and proud to have them as friends. Not because of them being gay I love them just because they are intelligent kind and a fuck load of fun. Now all of this, well absurd cult and fact clowns, I have this too say. I am a 20 year retired Marine and I have my Masters degree in Micro Biology. I have also been diagnosed with Bi polar disorder, Rage Disorder, PTSD, severe depression, and social anxiety. This was truly diagnosed by REAL DOCTORS and is crippling. These clowns saying that they have this disorder and that disorder because it's a cool thing and way to fit into this cult mentality. I have vast knowledge of how the human body develops and what gender is, WITH FACTUAL SCIENCE too back it up. This cult is out of control and is destroying our cultures and way of life. It needs to stop, dam I have more but this is long and starting to ramble on. Once again I'm happy to have found your channel and believe that you are a amazing human. Have a wonderful day
appreciate your comment, mate. Thank you :)
The young folks nowadays are going throught a lot of identity issues, way worse than we had (I think). Because of how easy they can be "corrupted" by social media and internet. We had references before from tv shows, videoclips, rock bands etc. Now anyone can be famous and feel special throught youtube and tiktok... that messes up with their head.
It’s always weird to me talking abt children’s sexuality with kids like “are you gay or bisexual?”
Fellas, in my experience, as a kid I would have ‘crushes’ simply bc I had a boy as a friend and I thought that was what that was… I didn’t start being actually attracted to boys until I hit puberty… and I’m pretty sure that’s normal. Kids just want to play and have fun, they don’t need to be worried about who they wanna kiss bc they shouldnt be kissing in the first place??? Like just leave them be and DONT MAKE COMMERCIALS LIKE YOU’RE ‘SELLING’ GENDER IDENTITIES😭 I’m surprised they didn’t say “buy one gender get one free”
Nevertheless, children express interest in differences between men and women way before puberty. And from my observation, attraction does exist before puberty, it just does not manifest in the same obvious way as in adults. I agree though that it's really weird question to ask a child (are you gay? etc)
It's all about what the hell is between your legs if you have a penis you are a man and if you have a vagina you are a woman and you can't change that no matter what.
it took me 20 years to find out I'm gay lmao
We shouldn't talk with kids about this. It takes time.
@@tassiodrigues 32 years to find out I'm aromantic and asexual... I wish I knew about aromantism and asexuality before, because I was really confused about myself... I knew I was "lacking" of something that "everyone else" had, but I didn't understand what. When I heard about asexualuty and aromantism, I was rrlieved: "oh... that explains a lot!". I learned too that I was not alone and discovering the jokes of aromantics/asexuals about standard romantic and sexual attractions let me trully understand how "normal" people are attraction (btw those jokes are not mocking "normal" people... it's more: "look at how weird we are!").
So, I wish I new before about aromantism and asexuality. Should we talk about this to children? No, they wouldn't understand (if they ask the question, or if they're made fun of because they don't have a "lover", we just can tell them than being single is not a problem).
Should we talk to this to teenagers? Yes, but just letting them know it exists, WITHOUT SUGGESTING THEM THEY MIGHT BE.
@@grenade8572 Can you explain further? As to me both things are pretty well connected, being romantic and sexual. From the definitions that are available on the internet/wiki both seem to contradict themselves and each other.
Did you really never experience a crush, even towards a movie or fictional character, or some sort of strong attraction?
If you really didn't feel that or (apparently I shouldn't be saying this) found the right person, I can see how you'd consider yourself asexual (that's why I also think these two are so connected).
I know one person, that considered themselves both too. A year or so ago they started hrt and as soon as they started, they found themselves a boyfriend (a person they've known for years) don't know how far they've gone as that isn't something we speak of.
The other experiences I a have with ace people is from the comment sections and usually they were in their 50s, when their libido is down.
So from these cases it seems that being asexual is physiological, as you don't produce a lot of (or them not working right) hormones to find attraction or desire to have intercourse. Or psychological, as it goes against our innate desire to find someone and in most cases procreate.
There is also by choice, because you just don't want to be seen in a sexual light.
I am patience fluid. Starting to bubble near the surface like Wreck-It-Ralph. I'm gonna wreck it!
I became religion fluid. Sometimes I sometimes feel I believe in Buddhism sometimes I feel I believe in Christianity.
May GOD bless and protect you in the mighty name of JESUS! May GOD and JESUS break every chain the enemy has formed against you and liberate you! May GOD and JESUS fill you with the HOLY SPIRIT, GODliness, love to get through any challenge or struggle or addiction! GOD IS GOOD! JESUS IS GOOD! GOD is love in times of hate, GOD is strength in times of weakness, GOD is light in times of darkness, GOD is harmony in times of chaos, and GOD is all you need and more! If you need more love/strength/anything GOD is there! GOD LOVES YOU JESUS LOVES YOU! GOD BLESS YOU AND PROTECT YOU IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS!
I heard this comment
Patience is definitely on a spectrum, mines isnt that wide and is definitely veering sharply towards 0!
Actually started ugly laughing at this comment 🤣 this is my true identity. Patience fluid. 🤣
I don't even feel like a woman lol. I just feel like myself. I've never been into makeup or fashion but I am a wife and mother and I love caring for my family. I would say maybe that's feeling like a woman but I know fathers who are the same way. 😂 It's so wrong that they claim you can be transgender without gender disphoria. Like that's the whole point of what makes someone transgender, the fact that they have to transition to feel normal and happy. These people are out of their minds and doing this bs for attention because they lack a personality so they make being trans their personality despite not actually being trans. I have so much empathy for trans people. Is if it wasn't hard enough being trans, you now have these type of people watering it down and causing confusion in people who don't know anything about transgenderism.
Same. However, I have female genitalia. Yeah, yeah I understand that men can have female genitalia, but it isn't the same. I have XY chromosomes, hormones such as estrogen and progesterone, and wide hips. Ofc I am a woman.
Thank you Marcus!
I had 5 older brothers, so I thought that I was a boy until I was 5 years old.
I felt that way except my 3 brothers would punch me if I tried to do things with them. And my mom always reiterated I couldn’t do boy things. Matchbox, superhero comics, GI Joe. I was punished if I went near any of it. But as an only girl I had no one to play with until my sister came along years later. And even then she couldn’t play anything but baby things. So my mom had me help clean. And clean. And clean.
@@denisebacher5040that's sad. Your mom really didn't want you playing with toys? Reading comics?
@@denisebacher5040 So sorry. Hope you are doing well now.
Today they will transition you or lose custody and go to jail.
I have 3 older brothers. I never thought about wanting to be a boy but I sure wanted to play like they did. In dirt. Growing up I realized it’s not a boy or girl thing it’s a child wanting to play.
Why oh why must all of the people wanting to “help children” ever so much always be so creepy? If somewhat “normal” ( a loaded term I know) or at least not instantly off putting as creepy people were doing this it would make it easier to accept. So often it seems the people that set off your “parent alarm” are the ones pushing the agenda.
yeah I don't remember Fred Rogers ever speaking to kids like smug cutesy weirdo.
That’s the thing; I don’t want to use the word “creepy,” but I feel like it’s always these adult men with prominent beards talking in a cutesy way and leaning way too close the camera. It’s automatically off-putting to me
they can't be normal, else they wouldn't want talk to this specifics with kids. They will always set the creep bell off, which is a good thing.
When folks confront these activists who deny such things like child mutilations are taking place, that's when the person confronting them should pull out their phone and cue up the reports/videos that prove otherwise. See if the activists still attempt to deny such things happen.
All they do is bark in response. 🤡
I am so grateful I grew up in a simpler time, late 70's/80's, cause I was 100% a tomboy but very much still a girl! I grew up with 3 older brothers and just wanted to do whatever they did but I never once thought I wanted to be a boy.
As a European who is living in Asia ( Singapore first and now Japan ) I am glad that this kind of insanity is not happening in most ( if not all ) Asian countries.
It's slowly seeping into Japan. Lesbians have been having problems w/transwoMen there.
@@littlecatfeet9064india? Really?
Yeah India has lost the plot
@@littlecatfeet9064it's seeping into South Africa slowly here as well. We done now... 😢
@@littlecatfeet9064 true
"Being gender fluid gives you the best of both worlds" EXACTLY! That's called PRIVILEGE!
You and Ms Blaire White are my absolute favorite transgender influencers. Thank you for being you and for speaking the truth 💯💯
I just started working as a teacher, and I can't tell you how happy I am that the teenagers in my country don't seem to be into all these things. I'm sure there's someone, but in general the kids are just being themselves. I was afraid they had been corrupted by videos like these, but fortunately they're not watching this stuff.
“You can’t fail at your own gender” that’s the best thing I’ve heard all day thank you so much for making these videos
I (female) used to use the term genderfluid because at the time I used it I thought it meant having a fluid expression and being nonconforming and androgynous….now I just use the term’s nonconformity or androgynous because of this bull, it’s getting to be absolutely insane to be honest. Also, leave the kids out of it! They don’t need to know/learn this stuff!! That’s just confusing them and messing them up!!!
I say just reclaim the term tomboy. "Gender-nonconforming" (which can be a person that doesn't even call themselves trans) technically falls under the transgender umbrella. It really is madness how they can't accept men can be feminine and women can be masculine.
I'd never let my children within a million miles of TikTok.
I relished being different growing up. I was never girly, but never in a million years did I think I was anything but female. So glad I grew up in the 70's and 80's instead of this beyond insane period of time!!! There is nothing wrong with being a tomboy! I never conformed to what society expected of me and I am so very proud of that fact! At 51, I still feel the same way. I feel so bad for kids these days...smh...
Lol, this is probably your best edited video yet, Marcus. Love that blank stare at like 3 mins in 😂😂👍👌
I remember joining a pride group at work and they had a long excel sheet of all the pronouns and indentities of ppl and every week the list got longer and longer and the meetings got longer so they could have more time explaining everything eventually they themselves were lost. I left that company, but I could only imagine how long that list is now😂
Holy wow... how old were the people at the company?
Ngl, my biggest irk for a long time has been this… I’m 38, I’ve NEVER wanted kids. Periods are a nightmare, not being dramatic but I’m one of those unlucky few. Numerous times I’d asked for a hysterectomy and was I given one? Nope! Why? Because I might change my mind on having kids. So from 13-38, 25 years I’ve had to suffer whilst nowadays if I’d said “ah yeah nah, it triggers my gender dysphoria to have a period” bada Bing bada boom it’d be sorted. This isn’t anything against real trans people…but why’s it ok to do these things to kids NOW when NOW there are still woman in my position who are being told Nope! You still might wanna have a kid. I’ve got, I’d guess… anywhere between 2-18 more years of this shit…I hate it.
Right there with you, Sister! I only got my hysterectomy at 38 because I was an Obstetric nurse and my Colleagues did it for me. I had periods so heavy I would need to set alarms at night to change protection. They were really disruptive during my working hours, literally in the restroom every 1.5 hours handling containment. Turns out I had fibroids the size of G-d's ego. Anyone else would have been put through at least 2 lesser procedures before resorting to hysterectomy. Because always, always, always, "preserve fertility." I remember Dr. Barton saying, "we know you are a single lesbian and you don't want kids, we're just gonna take it. Want your ovaries?" This is NOT what happens typically. I got my hysterectomy during childbearing years literally because "I KNEW A GUY." Any trans man who can pay for one is green lit for affirming surgery no sweat. I'm not saying trans men don't need or shouldn't have hysterectomies, but I have every confidence I'm not the only Gyn patient who feels just a bit chapped about a vastly larger number of hoops involved.
Yeah, I straight up asked a straight woman "ally" activist what she meant by "gender-affirming care" and she LITERALLY WOULD NOT ANSWER
I am a 62 year old proud woman and I recently came across your channel and had to subscribe. Thank you for educating me and others on true gender dysphoria. All this stuff has got to me with the pronouns and all the different words and phrases that these people seem to make up on a daily basis. I am sick of these men trying to take over our lives and our spaces, I appreciate all you do to educate people on this. Thank goodness I live in a small town where this does not effect my day to day life but I see it on social media and the news which is enough for me. You are so correct when you say that we can't just agree with their dilusional ideolgy we must call them out on their BS respectfully.. Keep doing what your doing it does make a difference. Thank you
Why does this guy sound exactly like Jeffrey Marsh and why are they always so focused only on children. You actually found a unicorn Marcus, someone that looks like a leftist but he doesn't sound like a cultist.
The moment you said “do you know what being a child is?” I subscribed!
Marcus, I’m not a clear mind reader anyway, but I’m not getting the pronunciation right for ‘steaming pile of cowschite’ in Danish that you were thinking about Buffalo Bill in Drag.
Part of the reason why we took our 7 year old son out of school was them pushing gender ideology. We request he not be included in learning about gender identity and they SAID they would respect that. Then later on he came to me and said, I don’t know if I’m a boy or a girl… There is NO other way he would have been exposed to this idea than through school. The main reason we didn’t want he to learn about this is because he has ASD. Through my research I have found that a lot of young people who are detransitioners have ASD. People who are neurodivergent feel different to others and sometimes they get led into thinking it’s because they are trans. Leave, kids, ALONE!!
You dont have to put labels on everything like these people are doing. The thing is we are all different, and special. Its called being human, nothing more.
There are 8 billion people out there, absolutely no one is a special snowflake. Thinking how everyone is special is a typical liberalist pile of crap
When I was 13 I took a 100 question "androgyny survey" to see how feminine or masculine I was. When I looked at the results I was exactly 50/50. I remember being amazed by this.
Thank you for highlighting the actual ignorance of this movement. You have to tell children that they are in fact doing their gender “wrong”, thus, they must change or worse yet - not define themselves at all. It is essentially suggesting to them that they are damaged.
How is this not considered gr00ming!? It shouldn't be tolerated when adults expose other people's children to ideas about sexuality and gender 😔
Omg.this world is ruined….thank u for this video!respect
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I agree with you, purple hair impressed me, and I’m glad he had the courage to say that.
I miss people being androgynous
David Bowie and Anne Lenox for starters
I have so much respect for you young man. Very insightful. I’m 56 and learning this new world. Thankyou ❤
Yeah, dude's got that "not allowed near schools" vibe
I'm 62 & I still don't know everything. I NEVER will know everything.
I love how brutally honest you are, Marcus 👍🏻
It's Jeffrey Marsh and Tiger King's love child
From now on I identify as the starship Enterprise. ROFLMAO!
Seriously, I cherish knowing you, Marcus!
I feel so bad for young people who think they are always going to feel the way they do at 15.
When I hit 30, I began to feel disturbed because my female brain and womb started saying "uh-oh, are you going to die without having what my mom said was the best experience of her life?"
I finally had my daughter and her biological father married me because I vowed never to be raised by a single mom as a baby.
That guy REALLY gave me the Willies!!!! (That’s a thing where you Really feel Icky, and it gives you shivers of discomfort. Dunno if you know that phrase). Any way, as always, you’re Brilliant!
I’m so ashamed I once thought I was gender fluid. But I know it was my exposure to TikTok 💀
I am straight but one thing that frustrates me is the narrative being pushed for children and the amount of labels and then the pronouns I am supposed to remember because if I don't remember everyone's pronoun that makes me a sh*tty person that is against an entire community.
I. LOVE. YOU!! You only speak truth, you genuinely care, and you are teaching, all at the same time ❤❤
They always target children. Always
I’m so curious how all these people would explain feeling like “neither gender” or “both genders”…. How does that make sense to anyone? This aggressive recruitment strategy aimed at children should be a criminal offense.
If you don’t want to choose between male and female you’re gender fluid!
Which means you decide wether you’re male or female but this time there’s a label you can put in your bio
Marcus - you’re a gem. Smart. Witty. Effective.
I know someone who identified as a non-binary male. Unsurprisingly, she came to me one day and says that she's embraced her femininity now and now uses she/her pronouns. This is exactly what I mean. You can be a masculine woman or a feminine man. You don't need to label yourself as another gender.
Non-binary just means ugly girl 😄
@@glykera That's not true at all, Non Binary means you're not a man nor a women.
Basically Non Binary correct pronouns are It
These people cannot just keep creating words. It’s crazy! Hide your kids!
Are you all aware of Thai Rivera? Great channel that addresses similar issues as Mr Marcus here. He is also a comedian (“best lgbt comedian in the world” is his tag line and I tend to agree) although I am not part of the community I try to make sense of what is going on and common sense interpretation by those in the community is hard to find.
Hope you all experience love today
Haven't heard of him, but I'll check him out. Thanks for the recommend.
That's my little brother right there! So proud! ❤
If someone grows up and concludes, as an adult, that something is not right with their gender identity, that's one thing. The idea that we are pressing this onto children is insane. It's like people who go onto google every time anything seems wrong with their body. They end up assuming its the worst and scariest possible outcome and actually damage their health needlessly. If someone has cancer (or is trans as an adult) that's one thing. But constantly fearing one has cancer, or having gender crap shoved down the throats of children, does everyone a disservice.
I'm so glad I was directed to your account ❤
Thank you for being a "head screwed on" voice ❤
I love your videos Marcus they are definitely always on point and you look fabulous today
Loved the purple haired transman. Thanks for covering him and giving credit, where it's due!
Seriously, can we remove the I from the alphabet soup? I stands for intersex, we're a medical condition, not a sexual orientation, nor a gender identity. I do acknowledge that there might be some overlap between the I and the T, but I haven't seen anything scientific regarding that.
I can't count how many times my sons asked me "am I a boy or a girl?" when they were little. I told them they were boys, because non-binary, genderfluid etc wasn't a thing yet. I assumed that in the unlikely case they were trans, they would tell me themselves that they were girls. Imagine if I had told them: "You can choose what you are!" How incredibly confusing for kids! They literally don't know anything. They trust their parents on literally everything. My 12 year old still asks me "do we believe in God?" It's not that he won't form his own opinion and identity when he is older. It's just that now he is still a kid, he looks to us to answer these questions for him.
That one transdude is based.
I’m grateful we have people like you Marcus.
If you want to talk to kids about what they think they identify as and who they're sexually attracted to, you might be a creeper... 😀
Or an uncaring "parent"?
I’m a teenage girl who has a conservative mom. She doesn’t like the fact i’m masculine & accuses me of being trans, but she also doesn’t want me to be trans! She just wants me to be feminine & i’m not, i’ve never been feminine.
Renaming and relabeling a person's feelings.
That's all this is.
If they can make a new name out of feeling confused, scared, etc. they will then belong in the cool, popular club with all the other cool people.
No, nope. I've never felt any urge to feel like my gender.
It just is.
Why is he talking like this? With that voice targeted at children?
When I grew up of someone acted like this the police would be called?
Deciding that "feelings" suddenly dictate gender at a whim is the slippery slope we all saw coming...
Lets be honest, if we'd never heard the term gender fluid before, we'd assume it was vaginal and penile excretions. 🤔
"Wiggly squiggly?" Who is that, Ned Fluidity Flanders?
Your so sensible it hurts! 😂
Thank you for speaking up for the children.
"leave the kids alone!"
them: "no."
Kids do NOT need to know bisexual, gay, lesbian because that's most likely gonna influence them. Theres ONLY male and female. EVEN intersex people end up being ONE gender. You can identify as a dog for all I care but don't tell me I have to accept or respect that. Kid's will feel feminine one second and masculine the next thats just being a child. Non-binary isn't a thing in my opinion. Call me a transphobe I don't care to be honest you can't change my opinion.
Ok, my brain melted at "binary or nonbinary". WTAF
I need to take a deep breath, ..., words have no meaning anymore.
The mind message made me laugh so hard
I was chuckling out loud! 🤣🤣
Me too!! His mannerisms are so funny to me
@@PrettyFly4aMom Pretty wild that he can't say what *he* thinks, but the they \thems can !
00:13 No. I can't remember ever having felt like either... or both or neither. I don't even know for sure if it is actually possible to feel it, or, if it is, how it would feel.
i feel like a helicopter does that mean im a helicopter in there head
Don't give them ideas😂
Me and Marcus always having the same confused/disgusted look on our face
you got a good head on your shoulders, love your channel bro! 🤘
That video gives me serious "run the other way now" vibes. If I were walking down a hallway and THAT "wiggly squiggly" mess was between me and the restroom... yeah I'll just hold it.
I really like that you emphasize that "Being Trans is not a choice". These people who keep trying to push that you can be Trans one day and not another day, remind me of the "Pray the gay away" types. This is almost like an assault on the community from within.
It isn't almost an assault on the community from within. It is and has been, unfortunately.
I'd reccomend listening to Indochine's 3e sexe, though it's in french, even THEY GOT IT IN THE 80S! I mean one the lines is "we take each others hands, a boy in the feminine, a girl in the masculine". Really good song and band either way.
Its crazy that they are focusing on gender stereotypes.. This was destroyed in like 1980s maybe before with hippies. Now they're sticking to the "Man" by breaking out of these stereotypes. I was born in 1980s and thank god because I would've been caught up in this crazes. You already see the regret posts. I regret all my piercings but that didn't do much damage to me. What I wanted as a child/teenager I don't want now. I thought I should've been born, Boy name, into sports, hair in random manly places due to PCOS. I love being me now
Reading a couple of definitions of what transmasc is, it basically reads like the description of what a tomboy is.
Gender fluidity is actually a real thing, but they're even rarer then trans people because it's essentially gender dysphoria that comes and goes on a regular basis. The real ones, if anything are in danger because of trans ideology. I remember watching a documentary about trans kids with my mom years ago. There was one boy, who at times felt like a girl and his girl name was Crystal. Because he was so adamant about his female identity at times, the mother wanted her child to transition, but the father was against it. Thank god, but other then that, anyone with this condition is obviously pushed to transition nowadays, and this is why it's important to keep track wether someone's gender dysphoria is chronic, just a temporary phase or a re-occuring mental issue.
I suspect the "come and go" gender dysphoria is exclusive to men, and is actually rooted in autogynephilia
That's not a rare case of gender fluidity, it sounds more like Disassociative Personality Disorder aka Multiple Personality Disorder.
Gender fludity just seems like someone who has masculine and feminine qualities/traits. Which is normal and doesn't need to be a label or identity!
Seriously, I think you’re amazing, sane and empathetic. Thank you for saying exactly what I’m thinking. Keep it up! I’m forever a faithful subscriber ❤
My thing is this. I don’t have children. I get very weirded out about even being one of those adults who just waved at children that they don’t know in the streets. No matter how innocent it is. So for somebody to make a full-blown video addressing children that are not their children, it is screams pedo to me. Total groomer.
People are encouraged to not make decisions in all aspects of life at this point.
"Don't settle down."
"You can have multiple partners."
"You don't have to have a husband to have kids, get a sperm donor."
"You can update your phone every year."
As if identifying with your s3x is boxing you in.
If you feel boxed in by your s3x, then there is likely an outside reason for this.
I know someone who experienced consistent misogyny from a family member, and they identify as a guy now.
When you're excluded from outdoor activities because you're a female, it is isolating, you start to resent femininity.
You value masculine traits and put them on a pedestal.
You want to be accepted by the boys, and that won't happen if you're girly.
If you're rewarded for being girly when you're naturally masculine, you start to think to yourself, "If only I was a boy, I could be myself."
what i dont understand is what the hell does mean a gender that fluctuate 💀
what does mean i dont feel like a woman today ? doesnt make any sens
@@M4sterM1ndsetwith the level of woke gender stereotyping, probably if a woman hammers a nail she's should feel like a trans man for min 24h (48 if she gets her finger and swears😂) 🙄
@@nefaristo ho yeah so they're so open-minded that for a woman to be a capable human being she has to become a man 💀💀 and vise-versa
I think this finally broke my brain. Could this person be anymore confused.
I've never felt like anything but myself. I am a woman but couldn't even begin to define what it "feels like to be a woman".
Just putting this information out there, not trying to ruffle anyone’s feathers….but as a labor and delivery nurse since the early 90’s , when a baby is born and we are performing our newborn physical assessment, we document our findings. On our charting we address genitalia and document male or female or ambiguous. On most of the forms that I have used there is a place to document gender and sex. We always put the same! If we observe a penis we document male for both gender and sex. Same with female if we observe female genitalia. If we observe something other than that we document ambiguous genitalia and chart our exact findings and immediately inform the ob/gyn and the pediatrician. That’s just how it’s done. 🤓❤️
The end here has become adorable… Did Marcus just make a new friend? I live.
SOOOO MANY GENDERS; only two choices..... (For those chewing crayons at home: inny or outty .... ) 😂