A man who cheats never see what a good wife and woman in front of him until it is no longer there. Men like you deserve to be alone and karma got you good bro.
Sad, but that's part of life. We make our own decisions and we have to live with the consequences of OUR decisions. Majority of times, people only want to make the decisions, but don't want to live the consequences of THEIR decisions, like this grandpa.
Every man controls his own destiny, and how he wants his love ones to remember him in his life time. Bro, you choose to give your pearl and love away to another man…Your story is a very good learning lesson for those men who don’t appreciate their wives and kids until they’re in your position. 😩👍
So he only regret leaving her because he's sick and no one wants him. So if he wasn't sick, he wouldn't even have a moment of regret. Evil, he didn't learn his lesson, he's just sad no one wants his Azz.
behind a good man , there is a great woman. the woman is the BEST of the man. without her, you are nothing to your children, family, friends and community. be a good role model!
What a sad life, even though you are a horrible husband, I can’t help but feel sorry for you! The grass is never greener on the other side. May we all learn a lesson here from you. Thank you for sharing your story, may you find peace.
This guy didn’t think everything through before divorcing his wife. 😂 He’s only sorry now because his life didn’t turn out the way he thought it would. His wife was the one lifting him and he thought it was him. Haha! I don’t feel sorry for him at all.
Yeej txaus tu siab kawg, tab sis txiv neej yeej tsis sawm zoo. Ib feem txiv neej lam yuav poj niam los yug me nyuam coob coob nws ua taw npua tas mus lub neej. Tsis hlub poj niam me nyuam cia poj niam me nyuam ua ntsuag ciaj nkaus xwb. Tej me nyuam twb loj tiav niam tiav txiv tag los tseem ua taw npua lij qhov txhia chaw tej me nyuam txaj muag poob ntsej muag tag li. Liam dhau lawm tsim nyog qhov me nyuam tu siab lawm.
I can't imagine marrying to someone I don't love. Life is too short. Why you even agree to married in the first place? Plus if you don't love her, why have so many kids. So many options. Once you're married, that's the end. You can't go back. Choose wisely when you're single. Tus txiv tsev aw, twb yuav lawm ces cas tsis ua siab uv. Yog tsis nyiam tiag2 ces yeej nrog tsis taus luag pw na
Txog txij koj cov me nyuam tsis hlub koj ces koj yeej ua phem dhau lawm thiab ntshe koj yeej tsis k tsis hlub cov me nyuam no thiab. Yog koj hlub hlub lawv ces koj pojniam neb tsis sib yuav lawm los lawv yeej txawj hlub koj. Txhob tu siab, you don't get love from those you don't love.
Your so crew to her. If you don’t love her, you should let her go in the beginning. You deserve it all. You know why Hmong people don’t ask you for help during the wedding is because they don’t want their kids life to be like yours.
Thank you for sharing your story, mister. May your story help all those thinking the grass is greener on the other side. Cause many times, you just gotta water the grass you already have and it'll blossom.
Why is it so hard for me to pity this uncle? He choose his own path and let his ego get the better of him. I don't blame his ex-wife for not wanting anything to do with him - I would do the same if I were her. Actions have consequences and it's probably too late for this uncle. However, admitting your wrongs and reflecting on what your wrongs is the first step to move forward and finding your own happiness. Too late to turn back time since everything is water under the bridge now. I wish you the best uncle.
Kids will only remember what you did for them, not how they were born or how they got here. It was how you treat them as kids growing up!! You need to understand that and moving on with your life.
So sad for how some hmoob mens treated womens so badly wrong like this story!! When the hearts of a woman’s was created tenderly loving but a man treated her with iron to sharpen her hearts as a steel when she left him for better future.
This is so similar to my step-father's life story. After he divorced my mom, his life went downhill. All the ladies that he thought he had all dumped him. He was only attractive to them because he was married to my mom. Now, he's in a nursing home too. So sad..
So sorry for you. But many many men and women, even when they know that it is wrong, they still do it. You know better. You still did what you wanted. Hard lesson to learn.
You are a crazy man. You said you don’t love her but tseem ho pw nrho nws tau 10 tus menyuam? Kj yog ib tug txiv neej phem qias neeg heev. Saib tsi tau tus poj niam ua tso siab tag nrho nws txoj kev hluas rau dev vwm li koj.
Tus thaub no mas yog ib niag txiv aub liam txwv, lwj222 liam222..siab phem ntais ntuj, dag li dag. Cav hais tias tsis nyiam kiag tab sis ho muaj 10 tus me nyuam.... wow what a dumb stupid me nyuam tsaub...
Yog peb txiv neej ce tham poj laib pub nyiaj tag li rau cov niag poj laib ko nkaus xwb txiv neej ce poob peev nkau xwb zoo dua txhob thab thiaj tsi poob nyiaj mu ntau rau dab plaub hau ntev yuj ma kho siab kawg o ib ntsi lub neej pua poj niam 2ceg
I feel sorry for just being a man and son. No kids should treat there father like this so f up. Love don't last forever. Kids shouldn't treat parents differently. For those clowning you have sons too.
Tus neeg zoo li koj es tseem txawj ntshaw koj tej me nyuam kev hlub thiab ntuj aws zoo li koj xwb ces kav tsij nqa ib txoj hluas mus saib seb tsob ntoo twg zoo zoo dai hlua os nawj
Thanks God for C19 and many Hmong men don't go over sea and still have a wife and a place to live!...Hope this is a lesson for these CHEATER and love eat outsider will learn from it??
Yup in the Hmong culture and community the Hmong men's nothing without the support of his wife. The wife is the backbone and everything that he is is becoming his wife support and doing. To get him to the standards he's at. Status, financial, looks, social standing,
Niam ntsuab teev cas cov txiv neej thaum nrauj poj niam tag twb tsis muaj neej ua cas cov txiv neej yeej tsis zeem li tseem tsim poj heev ua luaj txom nyem tsis tau txaus thiab tsis muaj ib tug yuav menyuam thiab hlub menyuam li poj niam os . Yog menyuam tsis hlub los txob tu siab os
Well…..theres good and bad …likeee……forcing your kids to marry someone they dont even know ……. 🤷♂️ old hmong pple destroy their own kids life sometimes without knowing cause we tend to forget about pples own feelings but he shoulda been better too :/ oh well
DEV LIAM aw. pluag tsis pluag kawg cov mov noj xwb twb nqhi nqhi lawm hu dab cuag koj mus zov noj tim tsev txias txhuas lub weekend mas NTSEJ MUAG DEV LIAM TUAG
Tej laus yeej muaj 1 lo lus piv tseg tias; ua zoo tsam paub li, qhov tseeb yog txhais tias tos koj paub ces lig lig lig lig lig lawm. Tus neeg yeej thaum kawg thiaj li yog tus yeej..m
This chauvinist man better look like a Korean rock star with a big package since he thinks of himself so highly and he’s Gods gift to earth to not be able to love his wife. SMH.
Yeej tsi muaj khawv koob le os quaspuj le khawvkoob ces yog lub povhum xwb mas koj moog txug ntawm nwg es nwg ca koj kov ywjsab pw sibhlub ywjsab ces yog povhum xwb peb ua txijnkawm nyob yuav tau hlub tug yug tau lawm txhob ntshaw lawm txuj kev ntshaw (fantasy) tsi zoo ua yuav coj yug moog poob kev txomnyem xwb os
Tij laug yus twb tos thaum yuav tuag mam los ua neeg zoo xwb es leej twg thiaj xav yuav yus na lov..me nyuam los yeej tu siab txaus lawm..ces kawg ua ib siab mus ua qab ke luag lawm xwb os
A man who cheats never see what a good wife and woman in front of him until it is no longer there. Men like you deserve to be alone and karma got you good bro.
Sad, but that's part of life. We make our own decisions and we have to live with the consequences of OUR decisions. Majority of times, people only want to make the decisions, but don't want to live the consequences of THEIR decisions, like this grandpa.
Every man controls his own destiny, and how he wants his love ones to remember him in his life time. Bro, you choose to give your pearl and love away to another man…Your story is a very good learning lesson for those men who don’t appreciate their wives and kids until they’re in your position. 😩👍
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So he only regret leaving her because he's sick and no one wants him. So if he wasn't sick, he wouldn't even have a moment of regret. Evil, he didn't learn his lesson, he's just sad no one wants his Azz.
Glad those children stuck with there mom and told their dad how they feel about what he did to their mom.
Tsawg zaw!!! Nyuam qhua txim.
behind a good man , there is a great woman. the woman is the BEST of the man. without her, you are nothing to your children, family, friends and community. be a good role model!
Thank God I treat my kids like shit. 👍
You are 💯 perfect right!
Thanks for sharing your story. This will help those who are currently walking in your shoes to think again…
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Good lesson for the other to learn, thanks for sharing
Gym is tq
What a sad life, even though you are a horrible husband, I can’t help but feel sorry for you! The grass is never greener on the other side. May we all learn a lesson here from you. Thank you for sharing your story, may you find peace.
This guy didn’t think everything through before divorcing his wife. 😂 He’s only sorry now because his life didn’t turn out the way he thought it would. His wife was the one lifting him and he thought it was him. Haha! I don’t feel sorry for him at all.
Exactly!
Hahahaha!!!!!
It’s not “bad luck”. You had decisions and made the choices you made.
Yeej txaus tu siab kawg, tab sis txiv neej yeej tsis sawm zoo. Ib feem txiv neej lam yuav poj niam los yug me nyuam coob coob nws ua taw npua tas mus lub neej. Tsis hlub poj niam me nyuam cia poj niam me nyuam ua ntsuag ciaj nkaus xwb. Tej me nyuam twb loj tiav niam tiav txiv tag los tseem ua taw npua lij qhov txhia chaw tej me nyuam txaj muag poob ntsej muag tag li. Liam dhau lawm tsim nyog qhov me nyuam tu siab lawm.
I can't imagine marrying to someone I don't love. Life is too short. Why you even agree to married in the first place? Plus if you don't love her, why have so many kids. So many options. Once you're married, that's the end. You can't go back. Choose wisely when you're single.
Tus txiv tsev aw, twb yuav lawm ces cas tsis ua siab uv. Yog tsis nyiam tiag2 ces yeej nrog tsis taus luag pw na
Yog kawg tus txiv neej no ces yog neeg siab phem xwb os tos tej me nyuam tsis xav hlub nws yeej phem txaus lawm os
If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.
Nyuam qhov txim xwb os txiv neej siab phem na👍👍👍
I truly believes that when you’re at fault in the relationship and your other significant wish karma on you. It’s true! Best wishes to you sir
Neeg lim hiam neeg siab dub siab txia ntshav ces yog koj. Tuag nub twg ces ntshe heev los ib hnub xwb lau
Txog txij koj cov me nyuam tsis hlub koj ces koj yeej ua phem dhau lawm thiab ntshe koj yeej tsis k tsis hlub cov me nyuam no thiab. Yog koj hlub hlub lawv ces koj pojniam neb tsis sib yuav lawm los lawv yeej txawj hlub koj. Txhob tu siab, you don't get love from those you don't love.
Your so crew to her. If you don’t love her, you should let her go in the beginning. You deserve it all. You know why Hmong people don’t ask you for help during the wedding is because they don’t want their kids life to be like yours.
You mean “cruel”?
Cov txivtsev Hmoob…feem coob muab lub neej niam nkauj txhavqaib nrauj tag ces zoo li Koj tiag
Txiv neej txhob xav tias Tsis muaj Tus pojniam es yus yuav txwm txhiaj no nawj!
Temptation is the devil like they say. You follow it and you will mess your life up.
I hate people that cheat whether your a guy or a girl...i hate cheaters if you don't want to love the person your with stop wasting their time...
Thank you for sharing your story, mister. May your story help all those thinking the grass is greener on the other side. Cause many times, you just gotta water the grass you already have and it'll blossom.
Pab koj tus poj niam zoo zoo siab kuwg li cov txiv neej siab dub kuwg li
zaj neej neeg no tu siab kawg thiab ho qhuab qhia tau zoo kawg
Lesson learned for you uncle. At least you regretted losing your wife to someone’s else.
Yuav tsum tis npe title zaj no tias: nrauj pojniam tas meem mom nrov kuag nram kwj has no paub.
Why is it so hard for me to pity this uncle? He choose his own path and let his ego get the better of him. I don't blame his ex-wife for not wanting anything to do with him - I would do the same if I were her. Actions have consequences and it's probably too late for this uncle. However, admitting your wrongs and reflecting on what your wrongs is the first step to move forward and finding your own happiness. Too late to turn back time since everything is water under the bridge now. I wish you the best uncle.
Karma eventually comes around
Kids will only remember what you did for them, not how they were born or how they got here. It was how you treat them as kids growing up!! You need to understand that and moving on with your life.
So sad for how some hmoob mens treated womens so badly wrong like this story!! When the hearts of a woman’s was created tenderly loving but a man treated her with iron to sharpen her hearts as a steel when she left him for better future.
Nrog koj tu siab kawg. Yog tseem hluas ces yuam kev los tseem tshuav lub neej ntev2 tab sis laus lawm ces tag li ko lawm xwb os kwv tij aw.
Man will never learned.....
What goes around comes around
This is so similar to my step-father's life story. After he divorced my mom, his life went downhill. All the ladies that he thought he had all dumped him. He was only attractive to them because he was married to my mom. Now, he's in a nursing home too. So sad..
Can u share his story too.
I treasure these kind of stories.
Me too. My has slept on sofa for 6 years. We lived like roommates. He's like a renter to me.
So many hmong men cheated on their wives so let this be a lesson learn.
cov txiv neej siab phem os thuag poj niam mob 22 thaum kawg tseem mus nrhiav tau cov poj niam yug me nyuam coob thiab xwb yus cem yus tus niam tsev li ntawv mas yuav tsum mus nrhiav tus yus xeem tho es thiaj tsim nyog cem poj niam sim neej no cov txiv neej twb tsis paub tias yog lawv li me lawm xwb es pheej hais tias poj niam li khoob txawm yog cem 22 poj niam thiaj tsis muaj chaw nyob li
Bro, u did it to ur self. Same life like my dad...haehehe, hahaha, don't desrepect!!
Hais tias tsis nyiam tab sis hmo ntuj pheej yaws yaws poj niam qab tiab thiab no es yog li cas ne....Dag xwb pob...qhov no yog siab phem xwb
U got what u reserve it
So glad your children stood by your wife. I hate when the kids tell their mom to just stay. You deserve to be where you are at.
So sorry for you. But many many men and women, even when they know that it is wrong, they still do it. You know better. You still did what you wanted. Hard lesson to learn.
Tus tij laug nrog Koj tu siab Koj tsi yuav kwv tij hais thiab Koj cov me nyuam
You are a crazy man. You said you don’t love her but tseem ho pw nrho nws tau 10 tus menyuam? Kj yog ib tug txiv neej phem qias neeg heev. Saib tsi tau tus poj niam ua tso siab tag nrho nws txoj kev hluas rau dev vwm li koj.
Tus thaub no mas yog ib niag txiv aub liam txwv, lwj222 liam222..siab phem ntais ntuj, dag li dag. Cav hais tias tsis nyiam kiag tab sis ho muaj 10 tus me nyuam.... wow what a dumb stupid me nyuam tsaub...
Yog peb txiv neej ce tham poj laib pub nyiaj tag li rau cov niag poj laib ko nkaus xwb txiv neej ce poob peev nkau xwb zoo dua txhob thab thiaj tsi poob nyiaj mu ntau rau dab plaub hau ntev yuj ma kho siab kawg o ib ntsi lub neej pua poj niam 2ceg
Tsis tu siab li- vim kev taug, yog yus xaiv. Tus hlub yog Lub Siab xaiv rau yus. Tsis muaj qhov zoo tshaj ntawv lawm.
Sounds like you want and need a live in caretaker/nurse not a wife!
Haj haj lom zem heev os yawg nrauj gab choj chaj cais yog kpj ntag
After divorcing your wife all because you ruined her, complained her mushroom was no good anymore but you didnt find a better mushroom too. 😆
Saib tsis taus Koj tus poj Niam es khaum Koj tuag zoo dua
Life without a wife is very difficult when you get old.
Bcuz men R big babies ….need mama nurture when young then wife nurture when old.
Txhob tu siab yawm txiv kav tsij hlub koj tus hkeej xwb txhob tos leej twg li kev hlub li
Tsim nyog npuav phom tau lawm os thaub.
Yog kawg li os yeej swb muaj txij nkawm nawb nco ntsoov hlub tus yus tau xwb
twb tau tu yu nyiam lawm ce uv
I feel sorry for just being a man and son. No kids should treat there father like this so f up. Love don't last forever. Kids shouldn't treat parents differently. For those clowning you have sons too.
Cas yuav tham tau tu siab ua luaj. Cas tsis yuav tu tshiab nawb. Yog kuv ma.
Good lesson to learn!
Nyob lub ntiaj teb no peb hais neeg hmoob txiv neej hmoob thiaj txawj siab phem tsim poj niam hmoob tshaj plaw hauv qab ntuj khwb no txiv neej hmoob feem ntau thiaj txawj phem lim hiam tshaj plaw
tsua yuav poj niam los ua qhev nkau xwb Tsis yog hlub thaum tau kev txom nyem yuav tuag thiaj mam nco tsis hais txiv neej hmoob meskas hmoob nplog nyob sab teb chaw twg li tib tug lej
ua rau kv tsis xav tham hluas nraug tsis tau luag yuav txiv lawm
Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb cov txiv neeg siab pheem li no
Tus neeg zoo li koj es tseem txawj ntshaw koj tej me nyuam kev hlub thiab ntuj aws zoo li koj xwb ces kav tsij nqa ib txoj hluas mus saib seb tsob ntoo twg zoo zoo dai hlua os nawj
Thanks God for C19 and many Hmong men don't go over sea and still have a wife and a place to live!...Hope this is a lesson for these CHEATER and love eat outsider will learn from it??
Yog kawg, tus neeg nrauj poj niam yuav muab coj mus ntuas kom lwm tus sib hlub tsi muaj qab hau
g hai poj niam lo txiv neej thaum nyob g hlub e sib ncaim lawm cas pheej lo qhua nw qhov zoo neeg mas g sawm zoo tiag2 li
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Yup in the Hmong culture and community the Hmong men's nothing without the support of his wife. The wife is the backbone and everything that he is is becoming his wife support and doing. To get him to the standards he's at. Status, financial, looks, social standing,
Poj nrauj, poj ntsuam yeej tsis muaj tshuaj ntxhw, tsis muaj khawv koob rau koj. Koj tsuas qaug quav rau lawv ob ceg xwb. Thov koj txhob foom koj cov menyuam, koj foom los yeej tsis raug lawv. Tus raug twb yog koj, koj thiaj tau nyob koj ib leeg.
Neeg tsi sawm zoo ! Ntxim ntxub tshaj
Cov neeg saib poj niam tsis muaj nqis ces zoo li ko lo mas.
Yus taubyam yus ntshaw lawm ces yuav li xwb
Tuag tsis tuag, txoj niag kev limhiam os. Hmoob txoj niag kevcai dabqhuas quav dev.
Niam ntsuab teev cas cov txiv neej thaum nrauj poj niam tag twb tsis muaj neej ua cas cov txiv neej yeej tsis zeem li tseem tsim poj heev ua luaj txom nyem tsis tau txaus thiab tsis muaj ib tug yuav menyuam thiab hlub menyuam li poj niam os . Yog menyuam tsis hlub los txob tu siab os
Why do some of y’all OG, whose sun is about to set, act/behave like that???? No good. Pab tsis tau lod!
Well…..theres good and bad …likeee……forcing your kids to marry someone they dont even know ……. 🤷♂️ old hmong pple destroy their own kids life sometimes without knowing cause we tend to forget about pples own feelings but he shoulda been better too :/ oh well
Koj yeej nyiam li ko es koj thiaj nrauj poj niam
Tus me txiv tsev aw koj ces yog nyuam qhuav haum xwb os
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Ib tug niag txiv tsev liam es mus thuam tus poj niam qhov chaw ua neej li ko txiv dev xwb
DEV LIAM aw. pluag tsis pluag kawg cov mov noj xwb twb nqhi nqhi lawm hu dab cuag koj mus zov noj tim tsev txias txhuas lub weekend mas NTSEJ MUAG DEV LIAM TUAG
Tej laus yeej muaj 1 lo lus piv tseg tias; ua zoo tsam paub li, qhov tseeb yog txhais tias tos koj paub ces lig lig lig lig lig lawm. Tus neeg yeej thaum kawg thiaj li yog tus yeej..m
Tus txiv tsev peb ua neeg yeej muaj txojkev yuam kev. Koj yeej plam tus zoo niam tsev/lub zoo pov haum zoo lawm tiamsis tsis txhob tagkev cia siab kav tsib Thov Vajtswv Ntuj zam ntxim rau koj es mus pib dua tshiab.
Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb. Ua yawg nplas vim yus lub siab phem.
Nyob zoo os nyab
Li ko koj thiaj paub nawb txoj me kev siab phem
Txoj no mas number ib rau cov txiv to learn from. Good story to learn from.
Zaj neej neeg no koj tu niam twb muab hais lawm vim koj lub siab lim liam
This chauvinist man better look like a Korean rock star with a big package since he thinks of himself so highly and he’s Gods gift to earth to not be able to love his wife. SMH.
Thaub aw koj Tsi yog ib tug txiv ntshaw poj niam zoo os koj ntshaw sib ua nkaus2 xwb thiaj zoo li ko mas pab tu siab kawg
This is a story that the result fits the problem all around
Lol haha.
Yeej tsi muaj khawv koob le os quaspuj le khawvkoob ces yog lub povhum xwb mas koj moog txug ntawm nwg es nwg ca koj kov ywjsab pw sibhlub ywjsab ces yog povhum xwb peb ua txijnkawm nyob yuav tau hlub tug yug tau lawm txhob ntshaw lawm txuj kev ntshaw (fantasy) tsi zoo ua yuav coj yug moog poob kev txomnyem xwb os
Luag qhia tsi yuav ces yus mam rov qhia yus thiaj pov yus khawv mas, qees tus poj niam yog lub pov haum tiag nawb
Everything we do or we choose has a prize or price.
Paub tu siab thiab lov
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Kj yeej phem os tus yawg txiv kj npam kj thiaj tsis tau neej zoo
Tij laug yus twb tos thaum yuav tuag mam los ua neeg zoo xwb es leej twg thiaj xav yuav yus na lov..me nyuam los yeej tu siab txaus lawm..ces kawg ua ib siab mus ua qab ke luag lawm xwb os
nyob zoo niam ntsuab teev