You could tell she wanted to call them out, I think when she said "you know what?" And then stopped talking. It's hard confronting people your close too
I can understand that and it's gonna be hard to do but you gotta call them out on their asshole behavior. I've done it before without remorse and tell them to shut up.
It might be tough, but a real friend calls you on your shitty behavior. A real friend isn’t afraid to tell you when you’re wrong. Also, real friends who can see you are upset, and what your doing is affecting them, and you keep doing it? I don’t blame that girl, I think she wanted to call them out, and she probably did off stream. But those friends weren’t her real friends.
Hi, I’m the TTV. DeathClaw was very sweet and I felt very bad about my friends being so nasty to them. I unfortunately have a very difficult time confronting people when they’re acting like this (and just confrontation in general) and feel deeply ashamed about the entire situation. I don’t want people who stop by my stream to think that this is the sort of vibe or community I give off, because I genuinely want everyone to feel welcome and what my friends did really wasn’t cool. And I’m really sorry about that :/
These are not your friends .. if they are nasty to a random person, imagine how nasty they will be to you once they don't agree with you? Please .. trust me .. they are not worth your friendship and time.
Drop them, they aren’t your friends. Being cruel to a stranger over a video game is childish. I’m terrible with confrontation too but there’s a point where you absolutely NEED to put your foot down. You’ve got this and I hope u can do what u think is right TvT
@@ABirdOnTheMoonunfortunately one of them is my sister and I’m 99% sure the only reason she started to act like this is because she started gaming with the other two which is absolutely awful; I don’t want her to be like that.
I completely get it. Your with a group of friends and its hard to be the outlier even when its a really good reason. You yourself seem really cool and I hope your friends see the issue with what they were doing and how uncomfortable it made you.
She truly sounded like she was trying “no, you know-“ and she stopped herself. I feel so bad for her :( I hope she knows that it’s okay. I’ve been in that situation and it is truly so hard.
She totally felt bad after she realized she got caught after they showed her kindness only then did she want it to stop. Did you forget her laughing at the cruel comments they made or the Fact she asked for the photo of him to laugh at him. She only felt bad when she realised she was discovered
I watched one of deathclaws streams and all I got to say is he deserves the world. He's super sweet and he was positive even when losing. I hope the best for him
It is hard for me to stay positive during certain parts of the stream but i only aim to be positive if i can help it. we are all human however and sometimes i do get a bit heated. A mistake as easy as being pressured by your peirs to be rude and toxic. Cheers!
She was trying to call them out but they kept talking over her and laughing, she wasn’t comfortable with trying to talk back over them. I hope she got the chance to talk to them about their behaviour afterwards and drops their asses
It's sucks when people close to you are toxic. Especially when you're not it's hard not to be influenced by it. Kudos to her and I hope she can find some better friends.
This is how I feel about being in some of the swf groups that i'm in. I try to see things from both sides when I play with them so I don't get salty. They then get really heated and start flaming people, including me. It's frustrating and I have called them out on it, so here's hoping that they start to change that.
you definitely deserve a group of friends youre comfortable playing the game with who wont berate you or others and will just have fun with you! i hope you find that or they get better n improve on their behavior!
If they refuse to change then leave them. Otherwise the negativity will just consume you, you're better off trying to fit in with people that are like yourself in terms of the mindset. Obviously people can become frustrated, not everybody is in a constant state of calmness, but if they are constantly raging and being outright rude and slandering anybody because of it, then they need to stay away if they're not going to grow up and out of it.
I get that man, I used to play dbd with an ex and they got really heated in dbd(and any game where they weren't doing great or were just starting out). It got to a point where playing most games wasn't fun with them because they would constantly get angry and blame everyone else but themselves. Worst example is gmod where they could be top of the leader board and complain because they kept dying when me and others would hit keybinds or kill ourselves somehow and just laugh at our stupidity
I love all the Support yall are giving to Baby Spooks. I'm her Twitch mod and a best friend but I'm not around alot. I thank everyone for all the kind support she is getting and hope she is learning from this encounter. Dead by daylight is an amazing game. It's just some people that will ruin the game experience for everyone
Lol there was a time where their was a TTV I faced and his definition of skill is the charms on your hook, and this was when I played killer for the first time 😂
This reminds me of a time I used to moderate for a Dead by Daylight Streamer a few months back who seemed like genuinely nice people. I was happy to support them and reassure them when they needed it. I even Swfed with them a few times and had a generally good time with them. Well, There was an incident one day where a killer was playing Pinhead and this TTV didn't like Pinhead at all. I personally cannot stand facing Pinhead, but that does not mean that anyone who plays him is automatically a vile human being and I would never, ever condone bullying for any reason like the streamers did to this poor Pinhead player, who was also a streamer too. After the match was over, this TTV and the kids he was playing the game with in this swf (I don't know if it's his kids or his cousins or what but) made their way to this Pinhead's twitch stream and began to insult him and call him a fat basement dweller. He literally had the Pinhead's stream playing on his phone in the background of the broadcast, and I could hear the Pinhead player becoming very defensive from the insults, and it upset my stomach. I was so upset that I told the TTVs they should drop it and move on. I dug through the vod and messaged the Pinhead to tell him that I apologized on the behalfs of the streamer and his friends who were bullying him. I told him I don't condone what they said and that I'll be speaking with the TTV about it. Well, I did, and as a result, the TTV unmodded me, and honestly I'm okay with that, because I'm happy that I can put my foot down and tell people when something is wrong despite me being their mod or trying to support them, and if they can't handle being told they're wrong and they want mods that only stroke their ego, then that's on them. Mods should be able to support the streamer while also looking out for what's best for them. My only care in the world is making sure I helped that guy feel better in some kind of way, and I did. Screw Toxic TTVs.
I'm not gonna lie, I feel her pain. I have friends I sometimes play with that can be toxic themselves. When I stream, I tend to mute them or notify that I'm streaming. But they sometimes slip with their toxicity and it's hard to call that stuff out on stream. Especially if it could delve into stress, arguments, and drama. She handled herself well considering how her "friends" were acting.
Wow it's been almost a year since this video and I figured I should give some sort of an update as to where I stand with the people involved. For starters, I want to say I've gotten better at confronting people/telling them when things are not okay. There are still times I struggle with it, but I've gotten better at voicing when things have bothered me or when they've said things that I feel could be hurtful to others. As far as my sister goes, she was closer to said friends than I was, and one of them, the one who was probably the most toxic in this video, unfortunately had changed her from the person she was. But after speaking to her about it, and after said friend showed his true colors to her, she has cut all contact with him. Said friend and I have also stopped speaking, as he continuously harassed my sister --calling her names, making comments to offend her when she asked him to stop, etc.-- and after we both called him out on his behavior and censored him out I have yet to speak with him since. The other friend in this group I've spoken to a handful of times and when the other ex-friend is not involved he's a completely different person, in a good way, and I wish he could see that he's not a horrible person. As for the ex-friend, I wish no ill will towards him and hope he grows as a person because his behavior is unacceptable and will only continue to push people away. All this to say that I've gotten better at confrontation and calling people out for their behavior which I failed to do back then especially in this situation and have essentially cut contact with the main source of the toxicity. Not sure if anyone cares or not as far as that goes, but I wanted to give an update in case anyone out there was curious as to the end-result of this situation. And to DeathClaw, though it's been over a year I still feel awful that I didn't speak up about the toxic behavior when I should've, but that I've learned being silent is still as bad and continue to actively work on calling out toxic behavior and cutting people out who deserve it.
Very mature response to all of this. Glad to see you've used this as an opportunity for growth rather than double down like a majority of people seem to do in these situations. Kuddos to you!
I did use to have friends like that, called them out, told them that I can't have fun when they whine every 2 seconds, and they just got upset with me and we've never talked ever since...I'm actually glad that's the case, but she might not want to lose those friends bc of irl connections to them, so she can't call them out.
This is a LOT more common than people realize. Even I've had friends who get really nasty over DBD games. I get talking non-personal trash about your enemy in private for an competitive game, but to try to come for someone personally while live is doing too much.
@@zadenhomunculus8652 ikr? But to be honest im the kind of guy who falls in love with someone for how they are, not how they look, but most bullies don't get that. most of them were cool tho, in the end we made friends with them, and we are still in touch. Sometimes, people just make mistakes.
@@deathclawdaddyi’m watching this video late and idk what you look like i never seen your stream but you got a good heart man i hope your fiancé is feeling better now
@@zachsflz The medical issues have as of now been resolved. Im grateful for everyone who came to support us for sure, and spooks for pointing out peoples behaviors. In the end its just a game, and im glad we all look back on it as a situation that made us better people.
I’ll be real, if I had friends this toxic, I’d call them out. I’m just glad she doesn’t feed into it and join in, she’s a pure soul and I hope she does well and can hopefully either help her friends with their toxicity or just cut them out of her life, she doesn’t deserve that type of negative influence especially on stream…
Got to make a streamers day once when I played Billy on the recent ptb. I turned a matvh he didnt care about into the best match ever. Still makes me happy.
Hearing those comments from the "friends" makes me wonder if they're even worth giving a second chance to not be like that or if you should just drop them out of your lives. It's a hard pill to swallow to do such a thing especially if one of them is related to you but honestly having toxic people can really ruin things for you because people will see that you're willing to still play or hang out with them and they'll hit you with the guilty by association. Also I'm gonna go give that nice TTV a follow. She and Deathclaw both definitely deserve it. I hope their streams in the future go super well for them.
I feel for the streamer. I've been in her position and it is really hard to speak up sometimes. I'm very non confrontational and I will usually have a private convo after if something bothered me. But it doesn't change the fact of how much I wanted to speak up in the moment. Honesty I had bad experience on stream where I just muted everyone. Collected myself and went back in and said I am hopping off. And disconnected from them and explained afterwards why I wasn't happy. Might be a solution for the streamer in the future. Hope the other streamer and his fiance get in a better position. Wishing him the best ❤️
Interesting that his name is Deathclaw.. which is a very vicious monster in the Fallout series.. but he is as sweet as can be while her friends are all super entitled and all around toxic.. just highlights how different the two games communities are. So happy I moved on from DBD to Fallout.. the communities are night and day different.
This is basically what happens when I play DBD. I try my absolute hardest to be as wholesome as possible, never teabag or flashlight click, and then my friends start being in-game toxic and then calling out the killer for trying to get a 4K, as if it’s the worst thing you can do in the game. And then when I try to call them out on it, they just say stuff like “why are you simping for the killer?” It’s like none of my swf teammates understand that the killer’s objective is to kill.
I don't SWF but I'm always nice to the killer. Even when I've been camp and tunnelled and the killer seems to always be nice back and thankful that I understand their tatics.. I was just unlucky.
@@metalheadjake3339: yeah, I say it a lot but I understand whenever the killer camps or tunnels (though I still admit I am annoyed by it). I just don’t get it when they shake their head or hit on hook whenever I’m never toxic.
I’ve had the pleasure of running duos and teams with spooks for months now, while I’ve ran into one of the players in this video once, they definitely don’t represent her streams or her community by any real margin. Spooks is a great person to play with, and I can only hope that next time you’ll be featuring her for a hilarious clip, good build, or something even greater.
It's one of the reasons I don't stream with other people in discord or anything of the sort, because I want to only be responsible for my own words and actions. I've been in another person's stream discord before when the group started acting toxic toward the killer, and when I called them out on it, they justified it by basically saying that since there are some killers who camp and tunnel, all people who play killer deserve to be bullied. I kept calling them out as calmly as I could, but in the end, there was more of them, so I was more or less told to shut up. It's hard to be the only one who calls out toxicity, especially live in front of an audience, however small. Kudos to the streamer for at least not succumbing to the peer pressure, and I hope she finds better friends in the future.
I once played with a couple of friends and I had a very hard time calling them out, they were being childish and toxic pricks and I tried telling them stop that you're acting childish and rude, but I was either interrupted or told that they're "just having fun"
And beyond that, if you bring a map offering, LOTS--and I mean LOTS--of killers assume it's a sweaty game and will give you the business from word go. I play super casually and friendly and if I see a map offering, it is fully on sight.
I'm at that age where I just don't care anymore. If you're being a dick I'm gonna call you out on it. I understand why she didn't say anything to them in the moment but I hope afterwards she said something. She seems really sweet. If it were me I would've told them if they don't shut the f*ck up they're not my friends anymore because what they did was 100% uncool.
I could never be this mean let alone insult people base on their appearance. Even when ppl are toxic to me i usually just give them a compliment. even if they don’t deserve it and move on. Gave deathclaw a follow ❤
to the streamer that was live... get better friends because they are horrible and you are way too good for them! i hope DeathClawGang is alright and hope all goes well for him and his wifey
As a TTV, I had an issue with friends (both streamers and personal). I've had times where I had to remove myself from them due to them being toxic to killer and constantly being negative. Im a streamer who strives for nothing but the best and a peaceful area for my community to have. I never strive to be toxic and dint act negative when presented with people who are toxic or rude. It's very embarrassing for myself when my viewers are presented with these things caused by others while i try to keep it a safe place for all. It's very disappointing when I see the people i call friends act like this.
I consider myself to be very shy. I find contact with the friends I have pretty hard, let alone strangers. But if my "friends" ever acted like this I would tell them off, and if they continued I'd never want to talk to them again. How low can you get. Props to Deathclaw and the other streamer for being so mature.
I used to play with a few friends from high school. Our group dynamic felt just like this in the later half of us all playing games. I hated how they made racist jokes because i grew out of that phase in like 6th grade, and i just stayed quite. But eventually I questioned if i still liked playing with them when they would act so juvenile to other people. Some people just take a while to grow up i guess.
Manbabies gonna manbaby. I hate to say I was like that at some point, but luckily that was back when I was literally a teenager, and I am proud to say I literally don't understand why you'd make fun of someone's appearance because they beat you at a game anymore, and Old Me in general is a puzzling creature. I sincerely hope this TTV's friends can say the same thing about themselves one day, too.
I did a boil over build the other day and brought eyrie of crows, I wasn't even mad when the killer started to slug, I knew I deserved it. I got to have a good time running the build and even understood the killer slugging because I would have done the same. It's crazy that so many people who run meme builds get upset when the other side adapts to it and plays around it or counters it.
I had almost the exact same thing happen to me the other day. An offline streamer and his friend went to my stream started insulting my appearance in the pregame chat. We were all survivors. And they kept leading the killer to me and sandbagging me trying to get me killed. The clown caught on and let me live. Then they were assholes in the end game chat. It sucked. I feel for deathclaw.
as a certain youtuber once say, "It is not about the neckbeard on the outside, but the inside that matters." Deathclaw seems to be chill while the streamer's friends are the real neckbeards.
TYSM! If I ever need an example for ‚If you got such friends, you need no enemies.‘, I can show this video! Great video and great reaction of the streamer! That‘s rare.
I’ve been guilty of acting really insensitive when my friends were live. Even as a streamer myself it still sucks that I didn’t catch how I was behaving. I’m a lot more aware of that now, and I just want to have a great time, whether in my own stream or someone else’s
Its rough calling out your friends or even loved ones who act toxic. Usually the outcome is them getting defensive who says no im not why cant you take it as a joke. Honestly sometimes its best to just move away from them
Yeah, I can agree with this. I've had people leave my stream because of other people I had to end up banning from my community as they were sending the wrong message about what was accepted. And it hurts because those were people I thought I could trust and call friend. But unfortunately... You gotta make the decision on what is best for you, and when it comes to people you count as your social group, it can be really hard to speak up against them.
"It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to your enemies. But a great deal more to stand up to your friends." -Prof. Albus Percival Wulfric Brian Dumbledore
Like Jukes said in the video, everyone can change. This streamer was absolutely amazing and it was refreshing to see one where the streamer was nice. But i wanted to let people know that even if you're the toxic one in a situation like this you can change if you really try. It takes a lot of work and you need to find people that are nice as well but trust me, its possible. I used to be manipulative and i would do anything i could to get what i wanted but I changed and have friends that helped. I hope this streamer can help her friends out of their negativity. And if you're reading this and want to change just know that it's not impossible.
Honestly I can relate this is why when I stream I mainly stream killer because when I stream survivor and someone starts going off and talking bad because they aren’t happy with how the game is going I usually hold back getting mad at who I’m playing with or I stay silent and message the person I’m playing with through app and tell them to knock it off. Just so I don’t make any big commotion
I had similar experiences playing in the russian lfg discord for dbd. Survivors were extremely toxic and hateful to all the killers, doing every toxic thing possible to show how they disrespect them. Almost every game session ended up with me calling their behaviour out and almost none of them listened, giving totally insane reasons as to why they are "right"
Many people stay silent because they want to keep friends .. but these are not friends .. these are the bad apples .. just don't associate with people like this :/ There will be one day when these people will turn on you.
I can only speak from personal experience/struggles, but wanted to give some potential context to why that streamer may be friends with those people. Abuse is a hard cycle to break, & contrary to popular belief your friend(s) can be the abusers. So while most media/examples out there revolve around people struggling to leave abusive partners/parents, it should be noted that the same patterns appear in friendships too. Especially if the person being affected by it has already been exposed to such behavior before (either growing up or in other social circles), the red flags are harder to see & it's certainly harder to depart when they've convinced themselves/been convinced they can't exist without someone/multiple people. I wish it was talked about more tbh. & part of the solution is honestly outside people -- I hope this streamer sees this. I hope they can feel validated in their feelings, & that this video can give them direction on how to end those friendships (or at the very least how to confront them & attempt to make changes). If your friend circle is small it can feel very hard (& downright hopeless at times) to make a move in a direction that could potentially sever that bond. You truly feel like that person/those people are all you have. Anyway I rambled but as someone currently going through this process of identifying these toxic behaviors, & speaking on them, & struggling with the panic/anxiety of "being alone," I wanted to toss out my pov on it. & that I truly hope the streamer can find peace with themselves in all the mess. Also I hope DeathClawGang is feeling better, & I hope their fiance feels better soon
It's legit very hard to speak up to people when they have a bad take, even harder when it's friends. I've def had to speak up b4 when a friend said a shitty statement about something/someone while I was streaming.
Oh hey! You're hair's back to its original color. I got so accustomed to your other hair color that I actually forgot it wasn't your original hair color.
This is honestly how I felt at one point. I still stream I just hardly ever play with my friends that play dbd. I just play killer or solo que. Got tired of my friends constantly belittling the other side and bitching abt every lil thing the other side does
I had a situation like this once when i was streaming and once privately. Publically i started off telling him to chill then after a few more minutes i just left the call, booted him from my discord and game and banned him from chat, he asked me in DM's what he did wrong and i told him that i don't allow that kind of shit. it was fairly easy for me because i was grown in a family that has conflict all.the.time. Privately it was in DBD and multiple times i'd have to tell a friend of a friend to stop being toxic to the killer. nobody else was okay with him doing it and everyone else felt too bad to not play with him bc he'd pull the 'i have no other friends' card. I stopped playing with that entire group.
I cant see being friends with people who attack some ones appearance, I'm sure they have their reasons, and I obviously have no room to judge someone else but I have serval people in my life that cant help how they look, rather it be due to medical reasons or a disability or whatever it is... I just wish people would separate game from reality. We live in such a video game centered world now and we have been since, a decade ago? With all the content creators rising up and influencing everyone to follow a new found passion.. When did we remove the humanity side of gaming? Don't you guys remember being kids and playing console with your friends after school? you would never think to insult how they look because you are friends!! My heart goes out to Death Claw and their fiancée I hope that whatever the situation may be that they find solace in each other and that time and doctors will fix whatever it is...
A couple of days ago I found a small streamer on twitch, he was a real sweetheart and we had a good convo. I asked him if he wanted to play slme couple of games together, he said sure. Later that day he asked if two friends of him could also play with us, I said yes. Well first game in and those two started to shit talk the killer like hell... I thought whats going on now but played along. Within time we versed another streamer and they thought it would be very funny to go in his stream and randomly shittalk about him( the sweetheart streamer didn't talked much at all) that was the moment I called them out for their behaviour and guess what a second after I got banned of their discord. A day later I invited the streamer to play customs with my group and he was such gorgeous player. Still supporting each other ^^
This is somehow such a common occurance in DBD. The amount of nice streamers I meet, who play with the worst types of people.. I did bring this up, politely, with two people I interacted with on twitch. I privately mentioned their friend(s) were being awfully toxic and almost turned me off the stream completely with their whining/negativity/toxicity. But the streamers normally HATE to hear this and start defending the nonsensical toxicity and awful behavior. For any other streamers here, please consider: No matter how close you are, your friends bad behavior will directly reflect onto you and will turn people away, if the vibes are awful..
I always go check TTVs out that I played against after I'm done streaming to see their reactions and maybe contact them to see if I can make a reaction video. It's the saddest thing when I see someone that was in my chat has gone in and said something awful to them. It feels like I was the one saying those things and it's hard to shake. Especially because my reactions were nothing close to what was being said by them. I do a lot of silly stuff and there's been a few times people have called them stupid for thinking I was serious. Which is completely opposite to what my intentions are. Usually when I apologize for how they were treated it's all accepted and we have some good chats. Luckily I really do think the vast majority of the dbd community are wholesome af. Just really sucks when it's people from your community going in being the horrible ones.
I wouldn't be able to play games with friends like this. I played with acquaintances like this before and it made me so uncomfortable that I went back to solo after only a few games of non-stop complaining and them throwing insults on killers that really didn't deserve it at all. I don't understand why so many people act like they need to lash out over a game like this when people are just trying to have fun or relieve stress.
I really wish she would have called them out. If you lose them as “friends” because of it then they weren’t really friends then. If I was ever being toxic I would want the people I’m playing with to call me out. I understand it’s hard, I’m assuming they play together regularly but you still should have said something about it. I’m glad you were nice to him behind the scenes at least
I have a friend who rages too easy sometimes in my other friends' streams, so they don't let him play unless I'm there bc I call him out and put him in check bc they're busy trying to lead the stream. Don't let your friends act like this and get your other friends banned
Bruh she's so chill and her friend group is just a bunch of juvenile 'adults' who just laugh to laugh like a gaggle of misfits. We all have toxic friends but this is just.... eugh.
What I find fascinating about this community as new player is that how toxic it is but yet how many people still dont shake it off. This is not the case in the more toxic game communities where people either dont care about someone being toxic or just join in and start flame wars. But this particular game seems to not follow that trend. Personally I dont mind toxicity because I always find it amusing when opposition gets angry enough. Already got one page full of hate comments in my Steam profile just from 100 hours.
When my friends are toxic I call them out on it. I actually almost ended my friendship with my best friend over it. He soon changed his style of play and isn't toxic anymore
I've actually played in a group similar to this. Not to the degree that these guys were going but they always like to complain that the killers "bad" or start trash-talking them for making efficient plays. I just try to be a positive influence and remind them what the Killer is probably going through since I play more in that role. Good or bad game I'm going to say gg and move on to the next one
Crazy this video pops up on my recommended. I was in a swf with my friends literally yesterday. We all died to a knight and one of my friends told me to look up the killer's twitch. When I did, he was live. I went into his chat to say gg, my other friend said gg but the knight needs a rework. A little passive aggressive, but I say its nothing more than an opinion. Second friend talked a little shit then left. But oh my god, my third friend... The streamer was a furry who was also part of the lgbtq+, and the third friend hated both categories. He harassed and slandered this man for a little over five minutes. I was honestly embarrassed and really wanted to say something but my third friend feels like one of those people no matter what you say, they'll never change. I went back to the streamer's chat, apologized for my friend's behavior and said gg again. Now the one thing that i did tell my friends, was that sometimes its just better to say gg and move on.
This almost exact situation happened to me the other day a streamers friend told me in end game that he hopes I get cancer and die because he lost 😂 (my only living granddad literally got diagnosed w cancer that same day) I told the streamer and told the guy he really shouldn’t speak like that to ppl and he just kept making excuses and said what he said was perfectly acceptable 💀
hi! so i played with those two players a lot back in the day and they have been like this for a very long time. memeing and generally not taking matches seriously but then getting mad when they ultimately lose. i don't know spooks myself, but I seriously hope she limits her time with these two because they tend to bring moral down.
I sometimes need to act as a voice of reason in some of my friend groups. Sometimes they get frustrated and start saying unsavoury things about the killer. They more often than not understand what they have said isn't kosher. I feel like I am slowly uncorrupting them when things get heated. I believe they are good people and just need to be able to look inwards when they are in those high stress moments. So hopefully she too manages to speak up against them in the future. Attempt to change up their patterns and effect a positive change.
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You could tell she wanted to call them out, I think when she said "you know what?" And then stopped talking. It's hard confronting people your close too
Yeah it's tough but at least she could have muted them or something🤷
I can understand that and it's gonna be hard to do but you gotta call them out on their asshole behavior. I've done it before without remorse and tell them to shut up.
It might be tough, but a real friend calls you on your shitty behavior. A real friend isn’t afraid to tell you when you’re wrong. Also, real friends who can see you are upset, and what your doing is affecting them, and you keep doing it? I don’t blame that girl, I think she wanted to call them out, and she probably did off stream. But those friends weren’t her real friends.
shes just as bad as them asking for photos of him to make fun of him.
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Hi, I’m the TTV.
DeathClaw was very sweet and I felt very bad about my friends being so nasty to them. I unfortunately have a very difficult time confronting people when they’re acting like this (and just confrontation in general) and feel deeply ashamed about the entire situation. I don’t want people who stop by my stream to think that this is the sort of vibe or community I give off, because I genuinely want everyone to feel welcome and what my friends did really wasn’t cool. And I’m really sorry about that :/
These are not your friends .. if they are nasty to a random person, imagine how nasty they will be to you once they don't agree with you? Please .. trust me .. they are not worth your friendship and time.
I also have issues with confrontation but want to be approachable and kind to everyone. It’s tough to walk that very fine line.
Drop them, they aren’t your friends. Being cruel to a stranger over a video game is childish. I’m terrible with confrontation too but there’s a point where you absolutely NEED to put your foot down. You’ve got this and I hope u can do what u think is right TvT
@@ABirdOnTheMoonunfortunately one of them is my sister and I’m 99% sure the only reason she started to act like this is because she started gaming with the other two which is absolutely awful; I don’t want her to be like that.
I completely get it. Your with a group of friends and its hard to be the outlier even when its a really good reason. You yourself seem really cool and I hope your friends see the issue with what they were doing and how uncomfortable it made you.
She truly sounded like she was trying “no, you know-“ and she stopped herself. I feel so bad for her :( I hope she knows that it’s okay. I’ve been in that situation and it is truly so hard.
Girls shouldn't be allowed to play video games. Video gaming is a man's job.
@PUFB totally understand and I agree full heartedly. My only reserve is she may have past trauma that makes it difficult so you never know.
She totally felt bad after she realized she got caught after they showed her kindness only then did she want it to stop. Did you forget her laughing at the cruel comments they made or the Fact she asked for the photo of him to laugh at him. She only felt bad when she realised she was discovered
@@alitachilds7560 that wasn’t her laughing that was the other female survivor
@@alitachilds7560 That was her sister laughing and asking for a photo. She was silent thru the entire thing almost.
I watched one of deathclaws streams and all I got to say is he deserves the world. He's super sweet and he was positive even when losing. I hope the best for him
Losing*
You convinced me to watch Deathclaws and you're absolutely right! He's a wonderful person
@@hazelv.a.7976 i fixed the mistake 🫡 but i'm glad you agree with me =)
It is hard for me to stay positive during certain parts of the stream but i only aim to be positive if i can help it. we are all human however and sometimes i do get a bit heated. A mistake as easy as being pressured by your peirs to be rude and toxic. Cheers!
@@deathclawdaddynah man you did what was right calling them out
She was trying to call them out but they kept talking over her and laughing, she wasn’t comfortable with trying to talk back over them. I hope she got the chance to talk to them about their behaviour afterwards and drops their asses
It's sucks when people close to you are toxic. Especially when you're not it's hard not to be influenced by it. Kudos to her and I hope she can find some better friends.
This streamer has gotta get new friends, immediately.
Bro the streamer was so wholesome being nice to deathclaws fiancé but everyone else taking it too far mocking her
This is how I feel about being in some of the swf groups that i'm in. I try to see things from both sides when I play with them so I don't get salty. They then get really heated and start flaming people, including me. It's frustrating and I have called them out on it, so here's hoping that they start to change that.
you definitely deserve a group of friends youre comfortable playing the game with who wont berate you or others and will just have fun with you! i hope you find that or they get better n improve on their behavior!
If they refuse to change then leave them. Otherwise the negativity will just consume you, you're better off trying to fit in with people that are like yourself in terms of the mindset. Obviously people can become frustrated, not everybody is in a constant state of calmness, but if they are constantly raging and being outright rude and slandering anybody because of it, then they need to stay away if they're not going to grow up and out of it.
I get that man, I used to play dbd with an ex and they got really heated in dbd(and any game where they weren't doing great or were just starting out). It got to a point where playing most games wasn't fun with them because they would constantly get angry and blame everyone else but themselves. Worst example is gmod where they could be top of the leader board and complain because they kept dying when me and others would hit keybinds or kill ourselves somehow and just laugh at our stupidity
I love all the Support yall are giving to Baby Spooks. I'm her Twitch mod and a best friend but I'm not around alot. I thank everyone for all the kind support she is getting and hope she is learning from this encounter. Dead by daylight is an amazing game. It's just some people that will ruin the game experience for everyone
Lol there was a time where their was a TTV I faced and his definition of skill is the charms on your hook, and this was when I played killer for the first time 😂
I’m a God then 💀all those charms I got from all the rift passes 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@LaLaLainey Lol
This reminds me of a time I used to moderate for a Dead by Daylight Streamer a few months back who seemed like genuinely nice people. I was happy to support them and reassure them when they needed it. I even Swfed with them a few times and had a generally good time with them.
Well, There was an incident one day where a killer was playing Pinhead and this TTV didn't like Pinhead at all. I personally cannot stand facing Pinhead, but that does not mean that anyone who plays him is automatically a vile human being and I would never, ever condone bullying for any reason like the streamers did to this poor Pinhead player, who was also a streamer too. After the match was over, this TTV and the kids he was playing the game with in this swf (I don't know if it's his kids or his cousins or what but) made their way to this Pinhead's twitch stream and began to insult him and call him a fat basement dweller. He literally had the Pinhead's stream playing on his phone in the background of the broadcast, and I could hear the Pinhead player becoming very defensive from the insults, and it upset my stomach. I was so upset that I told the TTVs they should drop it and move on.
I dug through the vod and messaged the Pinhead to tell him that I apologized on the behalfs of the streamer and his friends who were bullying him. I told him I don't condone what they said and that I'll be speaking with the TTV about it.
Well, I did, and as a result, the TTV unmodded me,
and honestly I'm okay with that, because I'm happy that I can put my foot down and tell people when something is wrong despite me being their mod or trying to support them, and if they can't handle being told they're wrong and they want mods that only stroke their ego, then that's on them. Mods should be able to support the streamer while also looking out for what's best for them. My only care in the world is making sure I helped that guy feel better in some kind of way, and I did. Screw Toxic TTVs.
I'm not gonna lie, I feel her pain. I have friends I sometimes play with that can be toxic themselves. When I stream, I tend to mute them or notify that I'm streaming. But they sometimes slip with their toxicity and it's hard to call that stuff out on stream. Especially if it could delve into stress, arguments, and drama. She handled herself well considering how her "friends" were acting.
Wow it's been almost a year since this video and I figured I should give some sort of an update as to where I stand with the people involved.
For starters, I want to say I've gotten better at confronting people/telling them when things are not okay. There are still times I struggle with it, but I've gotten better at voicing when things have bothered me or when they've said things that I feel could be hurtful to others. As far as my sister goes, she was closer to said friends than I was, and one of them, the one who was probably the most toxic in this video, unfortunately had changed her from the person she was. But after speaking to her about it, and after said friend showed his true colors to her, she has cut all contact with him. Said friend and I have also stopped speaking, as he continuously harassed my sister --calling her names, making comments to offend her when she asked him to stop, etc.-- and after we both called him out on his behavior and censored him out I have yet to speak with him since. The other friend in this group I've spoken to a handful of times and when the other ex-friend is not involved he's a completely different person, in a good way, and I wish he could see that he's not a horrible person. As for the ex-friend, I wish no ill will towards him and hope he grows as a person because his behavior is unacceptable and will only continue to push people away.
All this to say that I've gotten better at confrontation and calling people out for their behavior which I failed to do back then especially in this situation and have essentially cut contact with the main source of the toxicity. Not sure if anyone cares or not as far as that goes, but I wanted to give an update in case anyone out there was curious as to the end-result of this situation. And to DeathClaw, though it's been over a year I still feel awful that I didn't speak up about the toxic behavior when I should've, but that I've learned being silent is still as bad and continue to actively work on calling out toxic behavior and cutting people out who deserve it.
i know no one is gonna notice this but we are glad your getting better! hope your days are well!
Awhh, you're such an amazing person. You're very thoughtful.
Very mature response to all of this. Glad to see you've used this as an opportunity for growth rather than double down like a majority of people seem to do in these situations. Kuddos to you!
Hopefully Dearhclaw's situation improved.
Kinda funny how you were laughing with them in the video
I did use to have friends like that, called them out, told them that I can't have fun when they whine every 2 seconds, and they just got upset with me and we've never talked ever since...I'm actually glad that's the case, but she might not want to lose those friends bc of irl connections to them, so she can't call them out.
she still should.
If your'e friends abandon you for that. Then they are not good friends. Good friends should be like family ideally.
This is a LOT more common than people realize. Even I've had friends who get really nasty over DBD games. I get talking non-personal trash about your enemy in private for an competitive game, but to try to come for someone personally while live is doing too much.
Im happy that in the end, we were able to make friends with those involved, and we even got to play some together eventually.
I like the part where they call you ugly and mock your looks only to find out you have a fiancé.
@@zadenhomunculus8652 ikr? But to be honest im the kind of guy who falls in love with someone for how they are, not how they look, but most bullies don't get that. most of them were cool tho, in the end we made friends with them, and we are still in touch. Sometimes, people just make mistakes.
@@deathclawdaddyi’m watching this video late and idk what you look like i never seen your stream but you got a good heart man i hope your fiancé is feeling better now
@@zachsflz The medical issues have as of now been resolved. Im grateful for everyone who came to support us for sure, and spooks for pointing out peoples behaviors. In the end its just a game, and im glad we all look back on it as a situation that made us better people.
I’ll be real, if I had friends this toxic, I’d call them out. I’m just glad she doesn’t feed into it and join in, she’s a pure soul and I hope she does well and can hopefully either help her friends with their toxicity or just cut them out of her life, she doesn’t deserve that type of negative influence especially on stream…
Got to make a streamers day once when I played Billy on the recent ptb. I turned a matvh he didnt care about into the best match ever. Still makes me happy.
Hearing those comments from the "friends" makes me wonder if they're even worth giving a second chance to not be like that or if you should just drop them out of your lives. It's a hard pill to swallow to do such a thing especially if one of them is related to you but honestly having toxic people can really ruin things for you because people will see that you're willing to still play or hang out with them and they'll hit you with the guilty by association. Also I'm gonna go give that nice TTV a follow. She and Deathclaw both definitely deserve it. I hope their streams in the future go super well for them.
I feel for the streamer. I've been in her position and it is really hard to speak up sometimes. I'm very non confrontational and I will usually have a private convo after if something bothered me. But it doesn't change the fact of how much I wanted to speak up in the moment. Honesty I had bad experience on stream where I just muted everyone. Collected myself and went back in and said I am hopping off. And disconnected from them and explained afterwards why I wasn't happy. Might be a solution for the streamer in the future. Hope the other streamer and his fiance get in a better position. Wishing him the best ❤️
She needs new friends. These people will never change
Eh
You have no clue how right you are
Interesting that his name is Deathclaw.. which is a very vicious monster in the Fallout series.. but he is as sweet as can be while her friends are all super entitled and all around toxic.. just highlights how different the two games communities are. So happy I moved on from DBD to Fallout.. the communities are night and day different.
This is basically what happens when I play DBD. I try my absolute hardest to be as wholesome as possible, never teabag or flashlight click, and then my friends start being in-game toxic and then calling out the killer for trying to get a 4K, as if it’s the worst thing you can do in the game. And then when I try to call them out on it, they just say stuff like “why are you simping for the killer?” It’s like none of my swf teammates understand that the killer’s objective is to kill.
I don't SWF but I'm always nice to the killer. Even when I've been camp and tunnelled and the killer seems to always be nice back and thankful that I understand their tatics.. I was just unlucky.
@@metalheadjake3339: yeah, I say it a lot but I understand whenever the killer camps or tunnels (though I still admit I am annoyed by it). I just don’t get it when they shake their head or hit on hook whenever I’m never toxic.
I’ve had the pleasure of running duos and teams with spooks for months now, while I’ve ran into one of the players in this video once, they definitely don’t represent her streams or her community by any real margin.
Spooks is a great person to play with, and I can only hope that next time you’ll be featuring her for a hilarious clip, good build, or something even greater.
It's one of the reasons I don't stream with other people in discord or anything of the sort, because I want to only be responsible for my own words and actions. I've been in another person's stream discord before when the group started acting toxic toward the killer, and when I called them out on it, they justified it by basically saying that since there are some killers who camp and tunnel, all people who play killer deserve to be bullied. I kept calling them out as calmly as I could, but in the end, there was more of them, so I was more or less told to shut up.
It's hard to be the only one who calls out toxicity, especially live in front of an audience, however small. Kudos to the streamer for at least not succumbing to the peer pressure, and I hope she finds better friends in the future.
I wish i had friend like you when i was younger. Its worth a lot to have chill people around you.
@@igotjinxed2994 That's kind of you to say, thank you. ^_^
Nancy in the thumbnail standing there like "mom says it's my turn on the xbox"
I once played with a couple of friends and I had a very hard time calling them out, they were being childish and toxic pricks and I tried telling them stop that you're acting childish and rude, but I was either interrupted or told that they're "just having fun"
Spooknjukes is love and life .
And beyond that, if you bring a map offering, LOTS--and I mean LOTS--of killers assume it's a sweaty game and will give you the business from word go. I play super casually and friendly and if I see a map offering, it is fully on sight.
I'm at that age where I just don't care anymore. If you're being a dick I'm gonna call you out on it. I understand why she didn't say anything to them in the moment but I hope afterwards she said something. She seems really sweet. If it were me I would've told them if they don't shut the f*ck up they're not my friends anymore because what they did was 100% uncool.
I could never be this mean let alone insult people base on their appearance. Even when ppl are toxic to me i usually just give them a compliment. even if they don’t deserve it and move on. Gave deathclaw a follow ❤
to the streamer that was live... get better friends because they are horrible and you are way too good for them!
i hope DeathClawGang is alright and hope all goes well for him and his wifey
love that you shed light on shit like this. don't know how people can have fun doing that.
As a TTV, I had an issue with friends (both streamers and personal). I've had times where I had to remove myself from them due to them being toxic to killer and constantly being negative. Im a streamer who strives for nothing but the best and a peaceful area for my community to have. I never strive to be toxic and dint act negative when presented with people who are toxic or rude. It's very embarrassing for myself when my viewers are presented with these things caused by others while i try to keep it a safe place for all. It's very disappointing when I see the people i call friends act like this.
I consider myself to be very shy. I find contact with the friends I have pretty hard, let alone strangers. But if my "friends" ever acted like this I would tell them off, and if they continued I'd never want to talk to them again. How low can you get. Props to Deathclaw and the other streamer for being so mature.
Great video dude, you always help put things in perspective 👍
I used to play with a few friends from high school. Our group dynamic felt just like this in the later half of us all playing games. I hated how they made racist jokes because i grew out of that phase in like 6th grade, and i just stayed quite. But eventually I questioned if i still liked playing with them when they would act so juvenile to other people. Some people just take a while to grow up i guess.
Manbabies gonna manbaby. I hate to say I was like that at some point, but luckily that was back when I was literally a teenager, and I am proud to say I literally don't understand why you'd make fun of someone's appearance because they beat you at a game anymore, and Old Me in general is a puzzling creature. I sincerely hope this TTV's friends can say the same thing about themselves one day, too.
I did a boil over build the other day and brought eyrie of crows, I wasn't even mad when the killer started to slug, I knew I deserved it. I got to have a good time running the build and even understood the killer slugging because I would have done the same. It's crazy that so many people who run meme builds get upset when the other side adapts to it and plays around it or counters it.
I'm so glad you commented about the toxic thing, I get sick of hearing the word toxic falsely thrown around.
Its so weird, seeing Spook with his normal haircolor again
I had almost the exact same thing happen to me the other day. An offline streamer and his friend went to my stream started insulting my appearance in the pregame chat. We were all survivors. And they kept leading the killer to me and sandbagging me trying to get me killed. The clown caught on and let me live. Then they were assholes in the end game chat. It sucked. I feel for deathclaw.
as a certain youtuber once say, "It is not about the neckbeard on the outside, but the inside that matters." Deathclaw seems to be chill while the streamer's friends are the real neckbeards.
The purple hair is gone D:
TYSM! If I ever need an example for ‚If you got such friends, you need no enemies.‘, I can show this video!
Great video and great reaction of the streamer! That‘s rare.
I’ve been guilty of acting really insensitive when my friends were live. Even as a streamer myself it still sucks that I didn’t catch how I was behaving. I’m a lot more aware of that now, and I just want to have a great time, whether in my own stream or someone else’s
Its rough calling out your friends or even loved ones who act toxic. Usually the outcome is them getting defensive who says no im not why cant you take it as a joke. Honestly sometimes its best to just move away from them
Highlighting the fact that the TTV didn’t do anything wrong is a nice refresher compared to most TTV situations
Yeah, I can agree with this. I've had people leave my stream because of other people I had to end up banning from my community as they were sending the wrong message about what was accepted. And it hurts because those were people I thought I could trust and call friend. But unfortunately... You gotta make the decision on what is best for you, and when it comes to people you count as your social group, it can be really hard to speak up against them.
They just jealous or don’t care to them. Sometimes they’re mean, sometimes they’re nice. Talk about toxic people.
That’s passive aggressive behavior 🤔
@@IADin mmm hmm
"It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to your enemies. But a great deal more to stand up to your friends." -Prof. Albus Percival Wulfric Brian Dumbledore
Like Jukes said in the video, everyone can change. This streamer was absolutely amazing and it was refreshing to see one where the streamer was nice. But i wanted to let people know that even if you're the toxic one in a situation like this you can change if you really try. It takes a lot of work and you need to find people that are nice as well but trust me, its possible. I used to be manipulative and i would do anything i could to get what i wanted but I changed and have friends that helped. I hope this streamer can help her friends out of their negativity. And if you're reading this and want to change just know that it's not impossible.
I wish I watched this stream, I would have donated Telling her she wasn't alone and she had her whole chat to back her.
Honestly I can relate this is why when I stream I mainly stream killer because when I stream survivor and someone starts going off and talking bad because they aren’t happy with how the game is going I usually hold back getting mad at who I’m playing with or I stay silent and message the person I’m playing with through app and tell them to knock it off. Just so I don’t make any big commotion
I hope he is doing well. I hate watching people get bullied :/
SpooknJukes the toxic friends behaivor was pwetty spooky😦
I had similar experiences playing in the russian lfg discord for dbd. Survivors were extremely toxic and hateful to all the killers, doing every toxic thing possible to show how they disrespect them. Almost every game session ended up with me calling their behaviour out and almost none of them listened, giving totally insane reasons as to why they are "right"
At the beginning of that next match and she said “you know what?” I half expected her to DC cuz I would have 😅
You dyed your hair back!! NAUURRRR
2:27 not joking when i say this
the “hes a lil bi-“ got cut off by an ad
perfect timing aswell
Yea I vs a different ttv who was very chill and nice. But his three other friends were very toxic and salty. Kinda sad 😞
Many people stay silent because they want to keep friends .. but these are not friends .. these are the bad apples .. just don't associate with people like this :/
There will be one day when these people will turn on you.
I can only speak from personal experience/struggles, but wanted to give some potential context to why that streamer may be friends with those people. Abuse is a hard cycle to break, & contrary to popular belief your friend(s) can be the abusers. So while most media/examples out there revolve around people struggling to leave abusive partners/parents, it should be noted that the same patterns appear in friendships too. Especially if the person being affected by it has already been exposed to such behavior before (either growing up or in other social circles), the red flags are harder to see & it's certainly harder to depart when they've convinced themselves/been convinced they can't exist without someone/multiple people.
I wish it was talked about more tbh. & part of the solution is honestly outside people -- I hope this streamer sees this. I hope they can feel validated in their feelings, & that this video can give them direction on how to end those friendships (or at the very least how to confront them & attempt to make changes). If your friend circle is small it can feel very hard (& downright hopeless at times) to make a move in a direction that could potentially sever that bond. You truly feel like that person/those people are all you have.
Anyway I rambled but as someone currently going through this process of identifying these toxic behaviors, & speaking on them, & struggling with the panic/anxiety of "being alone," I wanted to toss out my pov on it. & that I truly hope the streamer can find peace with themselves in all the mess.
Also I hope DeathClawGang is feeling better, & I hope their fiance feels better soon
It's legit very hard to speak up to people when they have a bad take, even harder when it's friends. I've def had to speak up b4 when a friend said a shitty statement about something/someone while I was streaming.
5:16 terminally online lmaoooo
Oh hey! You're hair's back to its original color. I got so accustomed to your other hair color that I actually forgot it wasn't your original hair color.
This is honestly how I felt at one point. I still stream I just hardly ever play with my friends that play dbd. I just play killer or solo que. Got tired of my friends constantly belittling the other side and bitching abt every lil thing the other side does
I’m gonna miss the colorful hair XD
Not gonna lie, black haired Spooks jumpscared me a little.
I had a situation like this once when i was streaming and once privately.
Publically i started off telling him to chill then after a few more minutes i just left the call, booted him from my discord and game and banned him from chat, he asked me in DM's what he did wrong and i told him that i don't allow that kind of shit. it was fairly easy for me because i was grown in a family that has conflict all.the.time.
Privately it was in DBD and multiple times i'd have to tell a friend of a friend to stop being toxic to the killer. nobody else was okay with him doing it and everyone else felt too bad to not play with him bc he'd pull the 'i have no other friends' card. I stopped playing with that entire group.
As soon as they started mocking him it was so hard to watch
I feel bad for both streamers in this situation, she obviously hates how mean her friends are, but I'd guess they've been friends for a while.
I cant see being friends with people who attack some ones appearance, I'm sure they have their reasons, and I obviously have no room to judge someone else but I have serval people in my life that cant help how they look, rather it be due to medical reasons or a disability or whatever it is... I just wish people would separate game from reality. We live in such a video game centered world now and we have been since, a decade ago? With all the content creators rising up and influencing everyone to follow a new found passion.. When did we remove the humanity side of gaming? Don't you guys remember being kids and playing console with your friends after school? you would never think to insult how they look because you are friends!! My heart goes out to Death Claw and their fiancée I hope that whatever the situation may be that they find solace in each other and that time and doctors will fix whatever it is...
A couple of days ago I found a small streamer on twitch, he was a real sweetheart and we had a good convo. I asked him if he wanted to play slme couple of games together, he said sure.
Later that day he asked if two friends of him could also play with us, I said yes.
Well first game in and those two started to shit talk the killer like hell... I thought whats going on now but played along.
Within time we versed another streamer and they thought it would be very funny to go in his stream and randomly shittalk about him( the sweetheart streamer didn't talked much at all) that was the moment I called them out for their behaviour and guess what a second after I got banned of their discord. A day later I invited the streamer to play customs with my group and he was such gorgeous player. Still supporting each other ^^
It’s like they are actual bots irl. Someone hit them with irl oblivious
I have the stomach flu thank you for posting I've been in the bath for hours 😭
I hope deathclaw has better days from now on
This is somehow such a common occurance in DBD. The amount of nice streamers I meet, who play with the worst types of people.. I did bring this up, politely, with two people I interacted with on twitch. I privately mentioned their friend(s) were being awfully toxic and almost turned me off the stream completely with their whining/negativity/toxicity. But the streamers normally HATE to hear this and start defending the nonsensical toxicity and awful behavior. For any other streamers here, please consider: No matter how close you are, your friends bad behavior will directly reflect onto you and will turn people away, if the vibes are awful..
I always go check TTVs out that I played against after I'm done streaming to see their reactions and maybe contact them to see if I can make a reaction video. It's the saddest thing when I see someone that was in my chat has gone in and said something awful to them. It feels like I was the one saying those things and it's hard to shake. Especially because my reactions were nothing close to what was being said by them. I do a lot of silly stuff and there's been a few times people have called them stupid for thinking I was serious. Which is completely opposite to what my intentions are. Usually when I apologize for how they were treated it's all accepted and we have some good chats. Luckily I really do think the vast majority of the dbd community are wholesome af. Just really sucks when it's people from your community going in being the horrible ones.
"Neck beard" WHAAAAT!!! 😂😂😂
I wouldn't be able to play games with friends like this. I played with acquaintances like this before and it made me so uncomfortable that I went back to solo after only a few games of non-stop complaining and them throwing insults on killers that really didn't deserve it at all. I don't understand why so many people act like they need to lash out over a game like this when people are just trying to have fun or relieve stress.
why did the guy that said he looks like a neckbeard sound like he does a 9-5 and is past his 30s
I really wish she would have called them out. If you lose them as “friends” because of it then they weren’t really friends then. If I was ever being toxic I would want the people I’m playing with to call me out. I understand it’s hard, I’m assuming they play together regularly but you still should have said something about it. I’m glad you were nice to him behind the scenes at least
3:58 man this guy really insulting someone while sounding like he is on his way to fight batman
I know it's not as fun, but man going soloq is the absolute easiest way to not have to deal with this.
I have a friend who rages too easy sometimes in my other friends' streams, so they don't let him play unless I'm there bc I call him out and put him in check bc they're busy trying to lead the stream. Don't let your friends act like this and get your other friends banned
Bruh she's so chill and her friend group is just a bunch of juvenile 'adults' who just laugh to laugh like a gaggle of misfits. We all have toxic friends but this is just.... eugh.
Nah nah dont give misfits that image we do not condone this
What I find fascinating about this community as new player is that how toxic it is but yet how many people still dont shake it off. This is not the case in the more toxic game communities where people either dont care about someone being toxic or just join in and start flame wars. But this particular game seems to not follow that trend. Personally I dont mind toxicity because I always find it amusing when opposition gets angry enough. Already got one page full of hate comments in my Steam profile just from 100 hours.
I paused the video at the start in the middle of "neckbeard" and thought they said something WAY worse.
When my friends are toxic I call them out on it. I actually almost ended my friendship with my best friend over it. He soon changed his style of play and isn't toxic anymore
It's unfortunate their immaturity is that strong and I hope they will grow up and get out of that mindset.
I've actually played in a group similar to this. Not to the degree that these guys were going but they always like to complain that the killers "bad" or start trash-talking them for making efficient plays. I just try to be a positive influence and remind them what the Killer is probably going through since I play more in that role. Good or bad game I'm going to say gg and move on to the next one
too bad i got people like this and to this day i keep asking to myself "why did i trust them?"
Crazy this video pops up on my recommended. I was in a swf with my friends literally yesterday. We all died to a knight and one of my friends told me to look up the killer's twitch. When I did, he was live. I went into his chat to say gg, my other friend said gg but the knight needs a rework. A little passive aggressive, but I say its nothing more than an opinion. Second friend talked a little shit then left. But oh my god, my third friend... The streamer was a furry who was also part of the lgbtq+, and the third friend hated both categories. He harassed and slandered this man for a little over five minutes. I was honestly embarrassed and really wanted to say something but my third friend feels like one of those people no matter what you say, they'll never change. I went back to the streamer's chat, apologized for my friend's behavior and said gg again. Now the one thing that i did tell my friends, was that sometimes its just better to say gg and move on.
This almost exact situation happened to me the other day a streamers friend told me in end game that he hopes I get cancer and die because he lost 😂 (my only living granddad literally got diagnosed w cancer that same day) I told the streamer and told the guy he really shouldn’t speak like that to ppl and he just kept making excuses and said what he said was perfectly acceptable 💀
God what horrible friends, I'd block them so fast for humiliating me like this, I'm so glad I stream solo. 🤣🤣
hi! so i played with those two players a lot back in the day and they have been like this for a very long time. memeing and generally not taking matches seriously but then getting mad when they ultimately lose. i don't know spooks myself, but I seriously hope she limits her time with these two because they tend to bring moral down.
I dont like it when people giggle after they tell a bad jokes, only demi plays can do that, good jokes as always.
ugly？ that’s so not true , spooknjukes is the most handsome dbd streamer out here
I sometimes need to act as a voice of reason in some of my friend groups. Sometimes they get frustrated and start saying unsavoury things about the killer. They more often than not understand what they have said isn't kosher. I feel like I am slowly uncorrupting them when things get heated. I believe they are good people and just need to be able to look inwards when they are in those high stress moments. So hopefully she too manages to speak up against them in the future. Attempt to change up their patterns and effect a positive change.