After paternity is determined and you are ordered to pay child support. Does the courts factor in your income along with. The children you already provide for and expense's affecting them. Or do they base the amount of the support order solely off of what you make without factoring in the other kids needs?
Dickyi Lo 😂😂😂😂 i feel it moms do need to do the most to be a provider but raised from that life with a single its really hard to discipline ourselves without a male figure showing
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Hi. Thanks for the video. I have a question. I didn't marry with my fiance. He was US citizen and i am not. But we have a baby and he is 6 months old. My ex fiance left us in abroad and i have got my babies US passport. But we r still in my country. I want to live with my kid in the USA. What should i do? I am afraid that my ex fiance won't help me with that. He may be run away bcs of the child custody...
With having more equal times what does that mean for child support, right now the father gets every other week Wednesday to Sunday and we are trying to move out of state and he is wanting 2 weeks every month instead so I'm just trying to figure out how that would effect everything else we have joint legal custody with me being the residential parent
Not really. In most States depending on the child support formulas used, The custodial parent is the one who receives child support.... If you have sole physical custody you should likely receive child support...
Is a mother that suffers from IBS, depression, and anxiety but is getting therapy for depression and anxiety but don't do anything to control the IBS count more then a father that doesn't have any of that but doesn't go to therapy?
That's hard to predict because there are so many other factors involved in determining which parent is better at meeting the needs of the child. You would want to look at the best interest factors in determining custody in your state, And consider the total circumstance.
Hi Elias. You can find the full article here: www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/child-custody-and-parenting-rights-of-unmarried-fathers-in-illinois. Thanks for watching!
What if you child father lives in another country,he never been to the US,but the mother lives and is a citizen of the US,Can the father still sign the birth certificate so that the child gets his last name?
Hi Darin, thanks for your question. In regards to child support, here's an article with more info on what child support entails - www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/illinois-child-support-law-explained. We hope this helps you come to a decision!
Yeah, but be aware that she has the right to sign her rights away. This means that she is not legally or financially responsible for the child or children. All the burdens will be solely on you. I'm all for women doing this, and don't try to shame me for my comment either.
If we are a "Nation Of Laws" .... Why are the LAWS not followed!? Why are these bitter ( l ) moms not prosecuted when they sabotage and lie on these babies fathers!? The State allows women to illegally kidnap children, deprive them of a loving, stable father and a relationship with his family 💔🇺🇸 KIDS NEED THEIR DADS TOO 💔🇺🇸
I hear you. What about those dads who lie to the court, hide money and make their exes life hell on earth using the kids as pawns to get her back. For instance, taking kids to places they should not be because he knows it will worry the mother and go back for the sake of children. A complete narcissist who lies, won't pay what judge ordered. It happened. If you are not mature enough to take care of a child you should have supervised visits. Most judges make you mediate not hear evidence.
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in your experience in Illinois, what percentage of unmarried fathers are given 50/50 or primary custody in a court ordered custody matter... Outside of settlements made by the 2 parents?
Hi, thanks for your question. Unfortunately, we cannot offer legal advice online. If you'd like to set up a free consultation with our attorneys, please give us a call at (630)324-6666.
I am not asking for legal advice and I do not have a current custody case pending. I just want to know how the courts in your state perform when it comes to treating fathers and mothers equally. The statistics do not lie. So what percentage of fathers get primary custody if they are unmarried? Does your state even track any statistics of the sort?
The mother of my daughter passed away, before that she had disappeared before my daughter was born. I tried looking for her and even filed for custody in Orange County ( when I found out where she was) this resulted in her erasing all social media and moving out from where she was. Come to find out that I couldn’t get help because I filed for custody in the wrong county. By the time I found this out she had disappeared again. I recently started looking for her again (13 years) later and found out she passed less than a year ago. I would like to start the process again so that my daughter could know who I am and that I love her. I don’t want to contact any of them for fear they might do the same thing her mother did (Disappear). How do I go about getting the custody process started? From what I see they live in Victorville but I’m not 100% sure on that.
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So we just broke up we don’t live together and I see my child during the week and on weekends. Why would I still have to pay support if I’ve been there since she was born she is also a married woman who is still in the process of a divorce
What do I do if I'm a father with a court case out of Indiana and the mother left State when the judge Clinton court order at the motherly State I will be granted custody but the state can I find the mother and they keep continue to court date
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Well my son did that in the Onondaga Family Court file for a petition for custody for his two kids which their age is 3 and 4 years old. She move out with her new boyfriend doesn't give my son the new address info, or pedestrians not even who takes care of them if she just started to work. Also she doesn't let me pick them up or talk to them by cellphone. The only thing she wants is money money money. My grandkids constantly asking for their dad and grandparents. What can he do please.
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My ex fiancé took our daughter and moved from Texas to Pennsylvania. I tried to get help and they told me there was nothing I could do because we weren’t married. If the tables were turned they would’ve put an APB on me. How am I supposed to be with my daughter when I can’t even call her unless it’s convenient for her mother to answer...
Hi, sorry to hear about your situation. You may find more information about this in our parental kidnapping article - www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/parental-kidnapping-law-in-illinois-parental-kidnapping-prevention-act-explained. If you would like to discuss the specifics of your case with one of our attorneys, you can schedule a free consultation with us at (630)324-6666. We hope this helps!
@@LoL.WR_Vayne you should file to court see a lawyer establish a paternity test then you will have the same custody rights !!! You can do it brotha i support you
Yeah the very 1st thing is prove paternity, but gives no rights for anything except "obligation" to support the child in the form of CS, yet in the start he says the very first thing to do to stablish rights is a paternity...🤔
So I have a question, my ex whom I had 2 boys with, is not on their birth certificates, we ended up splitting up when I was pregnant with the second child. Out of the kindness of my "heart" I moved closer to him so he could be apart of their lives. Mind you he was not hardly ever in their lives the entire time . He barged into my apartment, took the boys and as I was chasing after them, my oldest son screaming for me he put them in his SUV and took off. I've called police only to be told it's a "civil matter" I've called lawyers, police, dfs no one will help me. It's been over a year and yet to get my boys back during this time I've struggled calling offices and people and doing my homework on laws. He has somehow managed to get a DNA test done without my consent. Said I couldn't see boys unless I signed his affidavit. So do these laws not count anymore? Parental kiddknapping/ parental interference, parental alienation as well as him moving and not giving me an address. How is he getting away with this? He lets me video call but coaches them so they won't talk to me . I'm confused, and heart broken. I've mailed my response off they haven't gotten it now they say I am in default, I'm stressed to the max. I know I'll prob have to go in representing myself .I do know that he has broke the parental kiddknapping/parental interference law and as well as parental alienation and finally child endangerment, and he coaches them through our video calls. Now the boys don't want to even talk to me I don't know what to do.
Either way the court system/county wins. Money in their pocket either way. As long as they support the mother, or keep making sure both parents bump heads. Either way if the table turns the system still makes money. It never sleeps. It should be the parents choice by default, not the government’s/law’s choice by default. Because that doesn’t indicate any freedom in which the US stands for, by giving the child to the mother by default just because of case studies etc. It’s not fair from the beginning.
What happens when the mother dies without the Voluntary Acknowlegement of Paternity? Can the biological father still complete the form or will he have to go to court to establish paternity?
This is a good question and we appreciate you watching. There is further information on acknowledgment of paternity in our article here: www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/voluntary-acknowledgment-of-paternity-and-establishing-paternity-by-agreement-in-illinois We hope you find it helpful!
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Hi. Can my partner (not married) file abandonment against me? We have agreed to live apart and since the apartment is under his name we decided I should leave and take the kids with me until I have my own apartment. I still haven't left. However, I found out he's filing and abandonment demand against me!
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Question my son was sick when he was born because the mom was on heroin so I was with him all day and when I went home for 2 hours the birth certificate was signed when I came right back they said oh it's too late it was already signed and I had to wait a month so I was freaked out about that anyways we went to court when he was a year and a half and I got three days so I was so happy about that and he was with me every day really pass them days he was with me I got my three days Sundays Tuesdays and Thursdays but he's with me for two three weeks goes back by her for 1/2 days 3 days of she wants to be mean and then comes back by me I buy him Christmas I buy him everything the mom is still doing drugs well but whenever she wants to be mean she lost a custody battle in 2007 her two girls I don't know what it was about but the young dad wanted to custody
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Lol that’s legally guys not lawfully this guy ain’t lying. This is the scam system. Your son is lawfully your child sue the state if they get involved.
Exactly. Thanks. Currently avoiding him after abusing me. He ain't on BC and never married him. Please give me info on empowering myself further. I just want peace and to move on.
I had sole custody. A lot easier in children. It encourages parents to be civil to each other instead of tug of war. A parent who's selfish should not be picking a small child up who is sick. That's an immature parent and throwing weight around does not care about the child
Ok I have a huge issue what if ur sons last name was changed w out u being told... I'm looking at my child support papers and this chick changed his last name to her first husband's last name and that guy is dead!!!! So my son has another dude's name and I'm paying child support how the hell CLD this happen??? He's mine I want him and have been fighting for years w this chick and now this lands on my lap... All I want to do is be in his life because mine wasn't .. ugh! Please advise!
Equal parenting time would be fine with me I never got my name on a birth certificate when we went to see the judge about me being the dad well he said go downstairs and go fill out put your name on a birth certificate will the mother at this time was she came with me she was with me and she said well I got to come back tomorrow I'll help you do it because I don't write very well and still good so I said okay well 5 years past my son's name from the time he was five years old he would always say no mommy's house now 3 weeks ago he got scratched from her cat he was only there for a couple days I got scratch came back his arms all scratched up now 4 days ago he came back I took him to the doctor his the cat bid him Claude his leg his leg is infected this is by the mom's house I took him to the doctor will the mom got mad at me and came after and she knew he was going to sleep the weekend with me here when she came because she found out I took him to the doctor im scared of this lady i can't talk to her. I should of called her n asked her what happened to my son . but he is 9 years old.he told me and as a daddy I called the Dr.office now today Thursday my son Jakob has a appointment at 330pm.I pick hum up 1230pm today...watch how now the mom will push to come.HELP
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If a man is the father he deserves to help and support his child. I don’t care what anyone has to say.... man up this is a human life. You don’t want to visit your child fine... but at least help out it’s not easy being a single mom and I’m not going to feel bad because I did not want to have an abortion just to appease a man.
Ok, in my case; ex fiancé left, took our daughter, won’t tell me where she is, and is apparently staying with some new guy. I’m a 100% disabled veteran and want to take care of our daughter but she won’t even go to court with me so I can have visitation. Please tell me again how hard it is out there for single moms. Some single moms who got screwed over sure, but there are a lot of single moms out there doing the screwing that wont own up to it because they know everyone has to be nice to hard working unemployed single mothers.
Yet a mother can have an abortion and eliminate all responsibilities or have the child and the father has no choice to eliminate his responsibilities…. More men would happily pay child support if the money was put onto a credit card or EBT card and that money can only be spent to take care of the child. So many moms find another man to pay their way while collecting child support as well. Or my favorite when the mother takes child support and drops her child off at her moms house and keeps all the money.
Childs being hidden from paternity establishment but dhs sent child support papers with my name of forced adoption can dna get resolved as priority from alienated father unknown of a childs birth rights or is it just more thoughts in good intentions an intrest an can child support attack with biological mother doing adoption paternity fraud
Hi Jesse, thanks for your question. We have an article that explains more about paternity that you might find interesting - www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/illinois-cause-of-action-for-paternity-fraud-explained. Hope this helps!
Hi Miles, thanks for your question. Here's an article about parental rights for more information www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/illinois-parenting-laws-2019-illinois-child-custody-2019
So why does this exist 7540. (a) Except as provided in Section 7541, the child of spouses who cohabited at the time of conception and birth is conclusively presumed to be a child of the marriage. California
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I didn't sing the child costody yet because I don't have my residence permit yet. Did I do the right thing
After paternity is determined and you are ordered to pay child support. Does the courts factor in your income along with. The children you already provide for and expense's affecting them. Or do they base the amount of the support order solely off of what you make without factoring in the other kids needs?
You guys need to fight for fathers, shared custody and no child support should be a given.
Why...do you know how much pain a mother is carrying since from the first day of pregnant!!
Denzel Washington fuck you too
Dickyi Lo 😂😂😂😂 i feel it moms do need to do the most to be a provider but raised from that life with a single its really hard to discipline ourselves without a male figure showing
Kids need their dads too
Hell wtf Pay the fee you made the baby Provide for the child
I have a case in January. Think you could help me come up with some counter arguments?
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What if the mother breaks a state law 8 times and breaks a court order and you take it to court and you get denied?
Hi. Thanks for the video. I have a question. I didn't marry with my fiance. He was US citizen and i am not. But we have a baby and he is 6 months old. My ex fiance left us in abroad and i have got my babies US passport. But we r still in my country. I want to live with my kid in the USA. What should i do? I am afraid that my ex fiance won't help me with that. He may be run away bcs of the child custody...
With having more equal times what does that mean for child support, right now the father gets every other week Wednesday to Sunday and we are trying to move out of state and he is wanting 2 weeks every month instead so I'm just trying to figure out how that would effect everything else we have joint legal custody with me being the residential parent
So child support is inevitable even if I go get sole custody of my son that been living with me since birth?
Not really. In most States depending on the child support formulas used, The custodial parent is the one who receives child support.... If you have sole physical custody you should likely receive child support...
Is a mother that suffers from IBS, depression, and anxiety but is getting therapy for depression and anxiety but don't do anything to control the IBS count more then a father that doesn't have any of that but doesn't go to therapy?
That's hard to predict because there are so many other factors involved in determining which parent is better at meeting the needs of the child. You would want to look at the best interest factors in determining custody in your state, And consider the total circumstance.
Were is the article for the factors..WWW.Learn/ what? I said that running..
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What if you child father lives in another country,he never been to the US,but the mother lives and is a citizen of the US,Can the father still sign the birth certificate so that the child gets his last name?
I’m a father who is the primary care provider.
She has him every other weekend and one day during the week. Should I apply for child support???
Hi Darin, thanks for your question. In regards to child support, here's an article with more info on what child support entails - www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/illinois-child-support-law-explained. We hope this helps you come to a decision!
Of course
Yes
Yes. She'd do it to you if the roles were reversed.
Yeah, but be aware that she has the right to sign her rights away. This means that she is not legally or financially responsible for the child or children.
All the burdens will be solely on you. I'm all for women doing this, and don't try to shame me for my comment either.
If we are a "Nation Of Laws" ....
Why are the LAWS not followed!?
Why are these bitter ( l ) moms not prosecuted when they sabotage and lie on these babies fathers!? The State allows women to illegally kidnap children, deprive them of a loving, stable father and a relationship with his family 💔🇺🇸
KIDS NEED THEIR DADS TOO 💔🇺🇸
I hear you. What about those dads who lie to the court, hide money and make their exes life hell on earth using the kids as pawns to get her back. For instance, taking kids to places they should not be because he knows it will worry the mother and go back for the sake of children. A complete narcissist who lies, won't pay what judge ordered. It happened. If you are not mature enough to take care of a child you should have supervised visits. Most judges make you mediate not hear evidence.
I heard u have law offices around Chicago well unfortunately I have to travel from Chicago out to sycamore! By chance is there an office out there?
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in your experience in Illinois, what percentage of unmarried fathers are given 50/50 or primary custody in a court ordered custody matter... Outside of settlements made by the 2 parents?
Hi, thanks for your question. Unfortunately, we cannot offer legal advice online. If you'd like to set up a free consultation with our attorneys, please give us a call at (630)324-6666.
I am not asking for legal advice and I do not have a current custody case pending. I just want to know how the courts in your state perform when it comes to treating fathers and mothers equally. The statistics do not lie. So what percentage of fathers get primary custody if they are unmarried? Does your state even track any statistics of the sort?
The mother of my daughter passed away, before that she had disappeared before my daughter was born. I tried looking for her and even filed for custody in Orange County ( when I found out where she was) this resulted in her erasing all social media and moving out from where she was. Come to find out that I couldn’t get help because I filed for custody in the wrong county. By the time I found this out she had disappeared again. I recently started looking for her again (13 years) later and found out she passed less than a year ago. I would like to start the process again so that my daughter could know who I am and that I love her. I don’t want to contact any of them for fear they might do the same thing her mother did (Disappear). How do I go about getting the custody process started? From what I see they live in Victorville but I’m not 100% sure on that.
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So we just broke up we don’t live together and I see my child during the week and on weekends. Why would I still have to pay support if I’ve been there since she was born she is also a married woman who is still in the process of a divorce
What do I do if I'm a father with a court case out of Indiana and the mother left State when the judge Clinton court order at the motherly State I will be granted custody but the state can I find the mother and they keep continue to court date
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Well my son did that in the Onondaga Family Court file for a petition for custody for his two kids which their age is 3 and 4 years old. She move out with her new boyfriend doesn't give my son the new address info, or pedestrians not even who takes care of them if she just started to work. Also she doesn't let me pick them up or talk to them by cellphone. The only thing she wants is money money money. My grandkids constantly asking for their dad and grandparents. What can he do please.
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My ex fiancé took our daughter and moved from Texas to Pennsylvania. I tried to get help and they told me there was nothing I could do because we weren’t married. If the tables were turned they would’ve put an APB on me. How am I supposed to be with my daughter when I can’t even call her unless it’s convenient for her mother to answer...
Hi, sorry to hear about your situation. You may find more information about this in our parental kidnapping article - www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/parental-kidnapping-law-in-illinois-parental-kidnapping-prevention-act-explained. If you would like to discuss the specifics of your case with one of our attorneys, you can schedule a free consultation with us at (630)324-6666. We hope this helps!
So you can t see your child what i don t get it
@@anonymeidentity1005 no I can’t see her
@@LoL.WR_Vayne so you should take a dna test then you have parental responsibilities right ??
@@LoL.WR_Vayne you should file to court see a lawyer establish a paternity test then you will have the same custody rights !!! You can do it brotha i support you
Yeah the very 1st thing is prove paternity, but gives no rights for anything except "obligation" to support the child in the form of CS, yet in the start he says the very first thing to do to stablish rights is a paternity...🤔
So I have a question, my ex whom I had 2 boys with, is not on their birth certificates, we ended up splitting up when I was pregnant with the second child. Out of the kindness of my "heart" I moved closer to him so he could be apart of their lives. Mind you he was not hardly ever in their lives the entire time . He barged into my apartment, took the boys and as I was chasing after them, my oldest son screaming for me he put them in his SUV and took off. I've called police only to be told it's a "civil matter" I've called lawyers, police, dfs no one will help me. It's been over a year and yet to get my boys back during this time I've struggled calling offices and people and doing my homework on laws. He has somehow managed to get a DNA test done without my consent. Said I couldn't see boys unless I signed his affidavit. So do these laws not count anymore? Parental kiddknapping/ parental interference, parental alienation as well as him moving and not giving me an address. How is he getting away with this? He lets me video call but coaches them so they won't talk to me . I'm confused, and heart broken. I've mailed my response off they haven't gotten it now they say I am in default, I'm stressed to the max. I know I'll prob have to go in representing myself .I do know that he has broke the parental kiddknapping/parental interference law and as well as parental alienation and finally child endangerment, and he coaches them through our video calls. Now the boys don't want to even talk to me I don't know what to do.
Either way the court system/county wins. Money in their pocket either way. As long as they support the mother, or keep making sure both parents bump heads. Either way if the table turns the system still makes money. It never sleeps. It should be the parents choice by default, not the government’s/law’s choice by default. Because that doesn’t indicate any freedom in which the US stands for, by giving the child to the mother by default just because of case studies etc. It’s not fair from the beginning.
That’s why it’s in the individual’s best interest to just have a stable family
What happens when the mother dies without the Voluntary Acknowlegement of Paternity? Can the biological father still complete the form or will he have to go to court to establish paternity?
This is a good question and we appreciate you watching. There is further information on acknowledgment of paternity in our article here: www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/voluntary-acknowledgment-of-paternity-and-establishing-paternity-by-agreement-in-illinois We hope you find it helpful!
What if the father has been giving the mother money BEFORE an agreement was signed by the court?
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Hi. Can my partner (not married) file abandonment against me? We have agreed to live apart and since the apartment is under his name we decided I should leave and take the kids with me until I have my own apartment. I still haven't left. However, I found out he's filing and abandonment demand against me!
Hi Rocio, sorry to hear about your situation. We have an article about terminating parental rights that you may find interesting - www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/termination-of-parental-rights-in-illinois-explained-how-to-involuntarily-terminate-parental-rights. If you would like to get into the specifics of your case, please feel free to give us a call at (630)324-6666 to schedule a free consultation.
Abandonment if you leave him with the kids and you move out
Fathers do not have a voice, it's all about money, especially with a woman who cant survive on her own and honor her choice to leave...
Question my son was sick when he was born because the mom was on heroin so I was with him all day and when I went home for 2 hours the birth certificate was signed when I came right back they said oh it's too late it was already signed and I had to wait a month so I was freaked out about that anyways we went to court when he was a year and a half and I got three days so I was so happy about that and he was with me every day really pass them days he was with me I got my three days Sundays Tuesdays and Thursdays but he's with me for two three weeks goes back by her for 1/2 days 3 days of she wants to be mean and then comes back by me I buy him Christmas I buy him everything the mom is still doing drugs well but whenever she wants to be mean she lost a custody battle in 2007 her two girls I don't know what it was about but the young dad wanted to custody
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Hi
Lol that’s legally guys not lawfully this guy ain’t lying. This is the scam system. Your son is lawfully your child sue the state if they get involved.
Exactly. Thanks. Currently avoiding him after abusing me. He ain't on BC and never married him. Please give me info on empowering myself further. I just want peace and to move on.
My baby mama left n went Mia n had my my kid without tellin me n I’m tryna know all the rights I have
How did you find out about this kid if she didn’t tell you?
I had sole custody. A lot easier in children. It encourages parents to be civil to each other instead of tug of war. A parent who's selfish should not be picking a small child up who is sick. That's an immature parent and throwing weight around does not care about the child
If children are small mom is the buttered. Men are not women.
Ok I have a huge issue what if ur sons last name was changed w out u being told... I'm looking at my child support papers and this chick changed his last name to her first husband's last name and that guy is dead!!!! So my son has another dude's name and I'm paying child support how the hell CLD this happen??? He's mine I want him and have been fighting for years w this chick and now this lands on my lap... All I want to do is be in his life because mine wasn't .. ugh! Please advise!
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The law is genderless : however MOTHERS are awarded primary custody 85% of the time
Equal parenting time would be fine with me I never got my name on a birth certificate when we went to see the judge about me being the dad well he said go downstairs and go fill out put your name on a birth certificate will the mother at this time was she came with me she was with me and she said well I got to come back tomorrow I'll help you do it because I don't write very well and still good so I said okay well 5 years past my son's name from the time he was five years old he would always say no mommy's house now 3 weeks ago he got scratched from her cat he was only there for a couple days I got scratch came back his arms all scratched up now 4 days ago he came back I took him to the doctor his the cat bid him Claude his leg his leg is infected this is by the mom's house I took him to the doctor will the mom got mad at me and came after and she knew he was going to sleep the weekend with me here when she came because she found out I took him to the doctor im scared of this lady i can't talk to her. I should of called her n asked her what happened to my son . but he is 9 years old.he told me and as a daddy I called the Dr.office now today Thursday my son Jakob has a appointment at 330pm.I pick hum up 1230pm today...watch how now the mom will push to come.HELP
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Please Can we talk
If the dad ain’t paying
If a man is the father he deserves to help and support his child. I don’t care what anyone has to say.... man up this is a human life. You don’t want to visit your child fine... but at least help out it’s not easy being a single mom and I’m not going to feel bad because I did not want to have an abortion just to appease a man.
Ok, in my case; ex fiancé left, took our daughter, won’t tell me where she is, and is apparently staying with some new guy. I’m a 100% disabled veteran and want to take care of our daughter but she won’t even go to court with me so I can have visitation. Please tell me again how hard it is out there for single moms. Some single moms who got screwed over sure, but there are a lot of single moms out there doing the screwing that wont own up to it because they know everyone has to be nice to hard working unemployed single mothers.
Yet a mother can have an abortion and eliminate all responsibilities or have the child and the father has no choice to eliminate his responsibilities…. More men would happily pay child support if the money was put onto a credit card or EBT card and that money can only be spent to take care of the child. So many moms find another man to pay their way while collecting child support as well. Or my favorite when the mother takes child support and drops her child off at her moms house and keeps all the money.
I want to support my children my I also want to see her but this court system sucks
What about fathers that do help and the mother still keeps them away from the child(ren)?
Childs being hidden from paternity establishment but dhs sent child support papers with my name of forced adoption can dna get resolved as priority from alienated father unknown of a childs birth rights or is it just more thoughts in good intentions an intrest an can child support attack with biological mother doing adoption paternity fraud
Hi Jesse, thanks for your question. We have an article that explains more about paternity that you might find interesting - www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/illinois-cause-of-action-for-paternity-fraud-explained. Hope this helps!
Like what if a sperm donor thinks the single mother's children need some guidance on their life then they need to learn this
I rather be placed in jail them pay child support.
Most people w know how many rights they don’t have. DNA test should be mandatory for all live births
What if the fathers have full custody
Hi Miles, thanks for your question. Here's an article about parental rights for more information www.oflaherty-law.com/learn-about-law/illinois-parenting-laws-2019-illinois-child-custody-2019
So why does this exist
7540.
(a) Except as provided in Section 7541, the child of spouses who cohabited at the time of conception and birth is conclusively presumed to be a child of the marriage.
California
Keyword: marriage