Hey guys I am not spreading any hatred about anybody... I am just sharing my weird experience... please don't take this video as a negative because I am only sharing the facts. There are many south Indian people who are really good to me.
@@kulvinderbrar-z1wActually it's not the"language " that is making barriers... it's people's attitude... people always try to make a group and exclude the minority to make them suffer and enjoy it by others expense!!
If you are not spreding hatred about malayalis,you can see the comments..once we r alone in country we can undrstd wat we r going through,bt if Ur hospital group is not with you it never means every malayali are like this..I am having many friends in maratti,Panjabi,haryanvi,we are best group co workers here and every1 love me so much.so if they are behaving bad,and you were trying to blame all keralates in social media,what is the difference between you and them..😊so you do your job better oneday they realize your value,that all you need..and for commenters below we all r not that much bad😅
Hello sister, this group or circle thing won't feed you and your dreams. You are there for a reason for your own good so focus on that. You can start reading and learning new things during your free time at job and get better virsion of yourself. God bless you.
Ye mallu brother and sisters aisa hi karte hain. Ye group me rehte hain aur Malayali me hi baat karte hain! Don’t worry dear, apne kaam par dhyan do and try to achieve your dream 😊
Don't worry dear. Be strong. Let them speak in Whichever language they want. You speak in English and we are here to speak in English. Don't ever think of going back only for this reason. You will find them in every corner of the world . Just ignore. All the best . Proud to be a Maharashtrian .
Actually, the Britishers also knew that they would not last long because the hatred they used to get into India would be directed against them. At its core, India has a rotten value system.
@@saurav6996dusri country mein to ache se rahna chahiye. English mein baat kar lo. Jab dono ko English aati hai. Kuch to samajhdari se kaam karna chahiye. Bechari ladki ko rula diya.😮😮
@@saurav6996नॉर्थ इंडियन हो या साउथ इंडियन। किसी को भी भाषा के नाम पर इस तरह परेशान नहीं करना चाहिए। दूसरे देश में हो आपस में मिलकर रहो। बहुत गलत एग्जांपल सेट करते हैं ऐसे लोग।
I belong to South India and i totally agree with you you are a strong woman keep it up there are some scum in our state also 😂😂 don't give a single attention to them and mind your own business be happy ❤
I can relate with your problem. I was in similar situation when I was working in US and Turkey. So, befriended more people from other countries or locals and I never felt lonely. Even in India also you can face similar scenarios. So don’t take it all personally. Learn to live alone and make friends outside of Indian communities.
मेरे साथ भी ऐसा ही हुआ था जब मैं राजस्थान से महाराष्ट्र गया था वहां पर लोगो ने मुझे मराठी भाषा में अपशब्द कहे थे , 15 साल हो गए पर मैं भुला नही पा रहा हूं ।
It is true with all the people of India. Even people from Maharashtra they only speak in Marathi. Gujarati s Punjabi’s bangolies people from south when the are in their group they don’t care for other Indian. They will switch to English if one white person is there But they all discriminate other Indians. I’m also suffering from this living in Canada.
There are large number of malayali nurses who are working in UK, the main problem is they don't know hindi. They only know little bit English and most of them are from lower middle class family.Don't get irritated when speak in there mother tongue.Apporach everyone with a good smile.
Love from the USA. I am a health care professional residing in the Washington DC area for over 35 years. I do agree with the statement about South Indians not willing to intermingle with other Indians especially from the North India. What I have learnt it to expand your circle and forget about limiting yourself to Indians. Currently, my best friends are Hispanic and White who would do anything for me. Very few Indians are worth trusting who are not jealous of your growth. It's sad that most Indians like to compare your "status" with themselves and either feel jealous or think you are not worth their friendship. So Ms. Jyoti, expand your circle and break the barriers of limiting yourself to Indians. You will be amazed to find how much common you may have with other cultures. All the best.
In my workplace I am the only one North Indian in my ward even,there are only very few north Indians in my hospital. But to be honest they all are treating me very nicely. I have made a really good bond with a few of the malayalis . I understand apne Jo feel kia hai wo bilkul bhi achha nahi hai. But everyone is not the same. Hope ki apko bhi achhe friend mile because it's very important ki paraye desh me apne friends ho. ❤
That is because your attitude is good. This woman's attitude is bad. She herself says that initially the Malayali nurses treated her very well and became friends with her and helped her. But this woman had problems when Malayali nurses speak with one another in Malayalam. She then went and picked a fight with one Malayalee nurse demanding that the Malayalee nurse should stop speaking in Malayalam with other Malayalees. Thereafter they treated her accordingly. And now she is playing the 'victim'. And she wants sympathy from Ytube viewers. She created the problem. Then goes and complains to the hospital management demanding that Malayalees should not speak among themselves in Malayalam. How childish is this woman? Will you ever find a South Indian going and complaining to Management what Bengalis should not speak in Bengali among their own group or Punjabis should stop using PUnjabi in their group? Then people wonder how South Indians nurses are preferred in hospitals worldwide and why they keep getting promoted. Because they focus on their work and are not busy making Ytube videos at workplace like this woman did [and was called to HR who told her to stop making videos at work].
This is not a problem you need to develop a quality and that is able to coperate with others. I'm from Bihar people's abuse me in my face but tactically I dealt with them. Never back down
Your husband is absolutely correct, don't spoil your future because of them, I also work for NHS and I'm also from Mumbai , the same thing happens in my hospital, I sometimes feel I'm in kerala and not UK, I just ignore them, so do as your husband says . We are mumbaikars and we don't give up.
Very true. People from south India behave like this. But when it comes to Britisher they are very nice and polite. I am a Bengali living in the UK and I also have some Bengali friends who live here and always talk bad about India.
'But when it comes to Britisher they [south Indians] are very nice and polite'. And you being a Bengali in UK, are you saying that you are NOT nice and polite with the Britishers in UK? LOL do you even think before you write nonsense. So when South INdians are nice and polite with the local Bits, South Indians are bad. When you are nice with the local Brits, you are being very good. Amazing logic.
This is normal , if you leave with a lot of Marthi people they will prefer to speak in marathi.. as people around you are malyali the prefer to speak in malyali.
@@vishalsingh-ys8xz I am asking you to substantiate your allegations with specific examples of what you have experienced, which makes you say that 'they do same everywhere in every corner of world'. C'mon provide examples. Thank you
Many Indians hate other Indians for no reason at all. Perhaps it is jealousy, competitiveness and some perceived slight or insecurity. I am sorry to hear about your experiences. Stay strong. Jai Maharashtra!
I can understand because I felt the same way when i was working in Chennai, these people don’t give us any respect they think they are very intelligent themselves but when I concentrated on my work and got best employee award they were all so jealous and hopeless so please just be practical and dedicated to your work and rest all is useless about them
4:36 Most of the south Indian here in India behave like this. They're very much communal. South Indian like keralian Tamil people are very dangerous. But Karnataka people r to some extent good. Keralian & Tamil people r trying to dominate north Indian but it is impossible. Within short period north,east,west Indian will dominate nursing fields because they are very co operative by nature & large number of students r coming this field from the said parts of India. Don't get nervous. God help them who help themselves. Now I would request you to follow Swami Vivekananda. His quotation: Be bold be strong, you are the creator of your own destiny ". Go ahead.
@samanthamccormick1505 My friend circle was good. All Tamil and Kannadigas were perfect. But I saw discrimination on roads. You've to say sorry even if a drunk local guy will hit your vehicle. All the locals on road and even police gonna support that drunk a$$h0!e
Indians living in abroad are like this… be it punjabis, marathis, South Indians,gujaratis, pahaadis…everyone They like to be in their own group or community and one more thing I’ve realised staying abroad for so many years that we Indians are the most racist of all… We do body shaming, we call kaala gora not only each other also other non Indian people, then we try to show off the most regarding the clothes we wear, the cars we drive, the position we hold, and the same mentality we’ve regarding what your kids are doing, when are they getting married etc… Then jealousy is so much I can’t tell you
I suffered the same thing in Singapore for over 16 years. I am also from north India. I hate to say this, but south Indians hv some kind of hatred for hindi and hindi speaking people. And they hv to such sense and cultural values as to not isolate non-southern people by herding in their groups to ignore and isolate others by speaking just their own local language.
More power to you mam ... This isn't only the scenario of uk but India also Mainly in central institutions where South Indian people doesn't even consider north Indians.. they all are suffering from superiority complex
Be brave. I saw people from S India Ricksha wala/taxi drivers forcing other Indians to speak in their South Indian language. As a foreigner visiting India and knowing only English/Hindi/French I think I must not venture there because they will feel offended if I can't speak their language.
I am also maharashtrian Medical Scientist in Australia.. Most of the coworkers are from south india.. They act the same.. But i ignore them and do my work.. Because i did not came here for them..
didi bura mat manna hamare north indians ko Maharashtra me mara peeta tak jata hai jabki ajtak aapne 1 bhi incident aisa nhi suna hoga ki kisi south indian k sath north mei badtamizi hui. pata nhi southies mei itna nasalwaad kyu hain jabki vo khud kaale hain
eveeyone has superiority complex of their own imagination, they consider you servents of muslims (moghuls) thats why inferior, and themselves as a descendents of CHOLA , CHALUKYA empires
I’m from Jharkhand Main Aapke Saath hun friend .. Don’t worry yeh Aaise he hote hain… Mujhe Marathi Bhasha bahoot pasand hai .. Har bhasha ki Apni Ek Mithaas hai … Main jab Mumbai jata hoon Toh Energy dekhakar Maza Aa jata hai .. But Mera yeh manna hai k hum Indians agar videsh main jaayen toh Indians bhai behen k saath … ek common language main He bat karni Chahiye … Like Hindi And English … Maine Toh Dekha hai hai bahri Desh main Bangladeshi Aaur Pakistani v Hindi main baat karne lagte hain.. toh yeh South Indian kaise hain bhai … gazab inki Soch hai .. Apne Aap ko Shrestha maane ki inki Aadat Kavi nai jane wali …. Chhoriye Siater Aapko himmat bana k rakhni hai Aaur Khud ko greet kar k rakhni hai Aaur Aaise videos banaiye Aaur UK 🇬🇧 main kaise Hindi bhai behen Ek jagah United hoke Ek Colony main Rahen .. iske bare main Sochiye … Aur Blogs banaiye Taki Koi Isolated feel na Kare .. God bless my dear Sister Bharat 🇮🇳 se Apke bhai k liye Pyar Aaur Aapke Liye managalkamna 🙏🇮🇳 Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳
When i am working in Maldives a resort. Kerala tamil people put me lot of problem . Kerala guys have good connection owner of company at last my work permit not renewed. I have face same problem
My brother lives in south, very talented software developer, studied from iit, but these people had destroyed my brothers carriers, even god will never ever forgive these people.
So why doesn't your brother go to the heaven of Hindiwallah land and work with such wonderful Hindiwallahs who will make his career [It is career and not 'carrier' by the way]. So your brother hates South India and South Indian people, and yet continues to live in South India. Why would anyone continue to live in a place even after hating the place and its people? When he can go back to his HIndiwallah place and people? Does your brother also hate it when South Indians speak to fellow South Indians in their South Indian language, just like this woman, whose biggest problem in life is that Malayalees speak in Malayalam with Malayalees.
@@samanthamccormick1505 What is Hindiwalla? You are stuck on to that word. Hindi is our national language & you very conveniently seem to forget that. Every person residing in India should be, at the very least, be able to converse in basic Hindi. Bhaiyas are a different clan altogether So don’t use Hindiwalas on a repeat mode. Be it a South INDIAN or a North INDIAN, we are INDIANS. So we should present a united front.
@@marissa1133 What is the most important trait/quality in a Hindiwallah? Zero general knowledge. LIke you. No clue that India does NOT have a National Language. Repeate after me: India does NOT have a national language. I conveniently forgot that Hindi is the Natinal language, because unlike you I know that India does not have any national language. INdia only has official languages - 22 of them.
You are a youngster, and you are at the right place, timely. Do not plan to return, as life is more challenging back in Mumbai, Navi Mumbai, and Pooney, too. It is an aspiration for all educated Indians to maintain their existence overseas.
I stay in united States 🇺🇸.. I am marathi. same hear... South Indian ( Tamil, Andhra, Malayalam) they are hindi heaters... they are only cornfotable when they meet their own people...
Ye south Indian converted christian honge....mere saath bhi hostel mein sabse jayda ragging .kia tha ....infact jo meri roommate brahaman south indian thi usko to inn converted Christians ne rula hi diya tha
So what is your actually problem.Got ragged by senior,s? Or you Got ragged by Christian senior, s? I am against all type of ragging. But you are saying in the comments about converted Christians. Can you explain me about that?. Before Commenting just go to Wikipedia and search Kerala Christian, s. Then you will get our history?. You also seemed talking about one of your friend who was a Brahmin got ragged. Why you are specially mentioning him as Brahmin What is his speciality. Do everyone needs to respect him Just because he is a brahmin?. I also got ragged in college from Senior, s from all religions, but i didn't go behind there religion and caste? I am against ragging. When my friends does this ragging i stopped from doing so. Please don't bring Caste and religion in all this things.
Each and every people of india do this. Punjabi wil speak Punjabi, tamil, Malayalam,telgu, kannada,telgu they will speak in their own language. But person should understand when to speak which language. It's very common in india and uk. Part and parcel of life united by India divided by language.
Dear I am a nurse as well as a midwife. I came to UK in 70’s and retired now. I faced the same problem but I stayed strong. My plus point was I was resident of this country and later I went to USA as well. I will suggest you to ignore these people, they are same every where. You just stay in good books with your seniors and any problem, go and seek official advice and make official complaint that they are harassing you and emotionally torturing you. These people need to learn their lesson. Stay safe and stay strong.
What??? So Malayali nurses talking among themselves in Malayalam is harassment of non-Malayalees now? You want her to go and make an official complaint to her UK hospital bosses that Malayalee nurses speak to each other in Malayalam? Really. The hospital bosses will laugh at the childishness of this complaint. Should she also go and complain when Bengalis speak in Bengali with one another and PUnjabis speak in Punjabi with one another and Russians speak in Russian? How are Russians emotionally torturing anyone when they speak in Russian among themselves? If this woman goes and fights with a Russian because the Russian is speaking in Russian among their Russian social circle, it would be considered that this woman is emotionally torturing the Russians. I am yet to come across ONE HIndiwallah that makes sense. You are no exception.
@@samanthamccormick1505 If you are in a room full of people from different cultures, That time everyone can not start talking in their own language. That time it is advised to use English only. But if in the room there are 10 people speaking their common language, no other person from different culture is there theat time they can certainly speak in their common language.
Honestly speaking, it's not a big problem. Even people who are living in Maharashtra for job purpose face similar issue. I've heard many of my non Maharashtrian friends complaining of such instances. This will happen upto some extent, natural behaviour. Don't get upset. These are the challenges one has to face when he comes out of his comfort zone.
U are absolutely right atleast kisi ne to iss bare me khul ke bola I am proud of you.me bhi uk me hu aur delhi se hu sirf South Indian hi nhi infact bht se indians apne hi hoke hume bad feel krate h south wale sirf unhi ke logo ka sath dete h aur kuch North Indian h ho pakistanio ka sath dete h weierd apne hoke bhi apne nhi yha aakr dimag khrab ho jata h kuch logo ka.
Listen you young lady you are nurse ,so obviously no need to say you are strong. Why to depend on whose who doesn’t want to attach with you . Everything is fake , no need to be with those who doesn’t care about you , Really believe me you can be more happy without these fake people. I wish you always stay happy, Always stay blessed
इसी तरह , महाराष्ट्र के लोगों के बीच में भी रहकर फील होता है, मैं भी जब मराठी लोगों के साथ काम करता हूं तो वो भी मराठी में ही बात करते हैं। ऐसा सभी जगह पे है।
Hey im also maharastrian living in UK and my husband is telugu, i had same experience with telugu people , not my husband as he never treated me different also he was broad minded so he married me but his family relatives and friends who are living in UK for years have never considered me as one of them just bcz i dont speak telugu. Within one year of marriage i understood how bitter these people are so i stopped talking or giving any sort of imprtance to these people. I try to connect with other people instead who are more open minded unlike these fools. I wonder why are south Indians so backward and chindi. आपण सूद्धा भाव खायचा.
Ho that's true they have very cheap mentally. But God is with us because we are not behaving as they are cheap people You don't worry about that just keep doing ur work. Always remember karma is there
Please be strong, you are a very sweet girl but be brave. Do your work, get paid and enjoy life with your family. They’re just colleagues and let’s just keep it that way. Be happy and God bless you!
I agree with you sister, ALL OF THE SOUTH INDIAN PEOPLE ARE MEAN and ALL OF THE MAHARASHTRA PEOPLE ARE NICE PEOPLE. I lived in Mumbai all my life and I know they are such nice people. Actually ALL OF THEM are such nice people that it feels unreal. I am so impressed with the way Maharastrians "welcome" everyone from all other cities like Bihar Orissa etc and love them and care for them and help them so much in Mumbai and other parts of Maharashtra. Such lovely people ALL ALL ALL OF THEM. They never speak in Marathi even if they are many people speaking that language only to take care that just one person who doesn't know Marathi doesn't feel uncomfortable or isolated in a different state away from their own home state and NEVER NEVER Maharastrians SPREAD HATE AGAINST MIGRANT WORKERS or asked them to go back to their own state IN HISTORY. Or DID THEY? No No they never did that....cuz ALL OF THEM are such nice people and everybody else is mean.
Sister I am a mallu myself nd let me tell u, ye problem hum sab logon meine hi ... problem is neither we respect each other frm different states and neither we try to learn each other's culture... Even Maharashtrian does the same, even Delhi people does the same just that we don't realise bcoz few of the languages sound more over like Hindi but the languages which r actually derived directly frm Sanskrit it's difficult to understand but important thing is to respect each other...u come to Mumbai Maharashtrians will will taunt people frm north by saying bhaiya nd if u go north they will taunt people frm South as Anna ...
South Indian are like that they do it in every field same I am from hospitality and it is happening everyday with me they like their own reasonal people but few are also good
When I was posted in Mumbai, people who were talking in Hindi Immediately shifted to Marathi the moment I tried to join conversation. So this is everywhere.
Why don't you refer Marathi and North Indian nurses and doctors to your hospital. You can help relocate them from India and this will help the hospital, you, and them as well.
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Hey guys I am not spreading any hatred about anybody... I am just sharing my weird experience... please don't take this video as a negative because I am only sharing the facts. There are many south Indian people who are really good to me.
@@kulvinderbrar-z1wActually it's not the"language " that is making barriers... it's people's attitude... people always try to make a group and exclude the minority to make them suffer and enjoy it by others expense!!
If you are not spreding hatred about malayalis,you can see the comments..once we r alone in country we can undrstd wat we r going through,bt if Ur hospital group is not with you it never means every malayali are like this..I am having many friends in maratti,Panjabi,haryanvi,we are best group co workers here and every1 love me so much.so if they are behaving bad,and you were trying to blame all keralates in social media,what is the difference between you and them..😊so you do your job better oneday they realize your value,that all you need..and for commenters below we all r not that much bad😅
Hello sister, this group or circle thing won't feed you and your dreams. You are there for a reason for your own good so focus on that. You can start reading and learning new things during your free time at job and get better virsion of yourself. God bless you.
Are bhai ap maharastrian bolne lag jao unka dimag ghoom jayega😂😂😅
Also in saudi arabia, I feel the same problem with sauth Indian peoples, they don't like the rest of the parts Indian peoples 😔
Ye mallu brother and sisters aisa hi karte hain. Ye group me rehte hain aur Malayali me hi baat karte hain! Don’t worry dear, apne kaam par dhyan do and try to achieve your dream 😊
Leave them they are mad they are doing same thing every where in Saudi Arabia
I totally agree..
In Bangalore also
Don't worry dear. Be strong. Let them speak in Whichever language they want. You speak in English and we are here to speak in English. Don't ever think of going back only for this reason. You will find them in every corner of the world . Just ignore. All the best . Proud to be a Maharashtrian .
Ye south indian aisa hi kartey hai groupism kaam ata nhi bakchodi poori karengey
Now I can understand how Britishers were able to rule here for 250 -300 years
Actually, the Britishers also knew that they would not last long because the hatred they used to get into India would be directed against them. At its core, India has a rotten value system.
By spreading hatred against Indians against Indians. In Africa tribes against tribes. Aryan invasion? Caste system etc.
We are from North East our face looks like Chinese but we are proud to be an Indian.
We being Indian should help each other.
No Chinese people looks like Indian.
Being Indian we are proud of North East Indian bro & sisters!
We are with you
बहन जी यह सच है ऐसा मैंने किसी हरियाणा के बंदे से भी सुना है कि यूके में भारतीय लोगों को भारतीय ही ज्यादा परेशान करते हैं।
This is every where. We are all like the same.
Sahi baat h bhai
ये साउथ इंडियन लोग हमसे बहुत अलग होते है जो अपनापन,एक दूसरे की मदद करने की भावना,दया,धर्म हम लोगो के अंदर होता है इनमे बिल्कुल नही होता
मतलब कुछ भी
@@saurav6996dusri country mein to ache se rahna chahiye. English mein baat kar lo. Jab dono ko English aati hai. Kuch to samajhdari se kaam karna chahiye. Bechari ladki ko rula diya.😮😮
@@saurav6996नॉर्थ इंडियन हो या साउथ इंडियन। किसी को भी भाषा के नाम पर इस तरह परेशान नहीं करना चाहिए। दूसरे देश में हो आपस में मिलकर रहो। बहुत गलत एग्जांपल सेट करते हैं ऐसे लोग।
No hate to anyone but this is true , their thinking is quite different from north indians
waha b jakar marathi madhay bolachay bola hoga unkay samnay kaisay maharashtra may krtay ho 😂
I belong to South India and i totally agree with you you are a strong woman keep it up there are some scum in our state also 😂😂 don't give a single attention to them and mind your own business be happy ❤
आपकी बात बिल्कुल सही है साउथ वाले ये खुद भी लड़ते हे भाषा के चक्कर में
Great
And that is your problem because?
I can relate with your problem. I was in similar situation when I was working in US and Turkey. So, befriended more people from other countries or locals and I never felt lonely. Even in India also you can face similar scenarios. So don’t take it all personally. Learn to live alone and make friends outside of Indian communities.
मेरे साथ भी ऐसा ही हुआ था जब मैं राजस्थान से महाराष्ट्र गया था वहां पर लोगो ने मुझे मराठी भाषा में अपशब्द कहे थे , 15 साल हो गए पर मैं भुला नही पा रहा हूं ।
बहुत बड़ा दुर्भाग्य है,यह सब सुनकर ।
Puri duniya mai indian logo k siva sab acche log hai behaviour mai.
I feel you! Learn to ignore them because you cannot change the world.
All South Indians are not like that,there r many people ,who r down to earth ,like me ,God bless ,and be strong 🙏💝
101% sach hai yah baat. yaha har samay ignore karna parata hai in sabhi baato ko lekar lekin iska depration bana rahta hai
Yes South Indian ke log bahut matlabi hote hai I know that.... Woh log apne logo ko hi support karte hai....
I think it happens everywhere. Even when I visit Maharastra, I see Marathis behave rudely with non maharstrians
You wrong with Maharashtra, Maharashtra is the only state where you will people from all over thr india
You are absolutely wrong. Infact people come in Maharashtra and think that marathi people are dumb and they are oversmart.
@@sheetalb3200 I was in Mumbai at TATA hospital with my mother.... A local person of mumbai was calling me Bangladeshi while I'm from MP state
oh may be he might be uneducated@@shashimishra6973
Be strong and always motivated dear.... 😊
It is true with all the people of India. Even people from Maharashtra they only speak in Marathi. Gujarati s Punjabi’s bangolies people from south when the are in their group they don’t care for other Indian. They will switch to English if one white person is there But they all discriminate other Indians. I’m also suffering from this living in Canada.
Exactly......bengolis are also the same😂😂😂
There are large number of malayali nurses who are working in UK, the main problem is they don't know hindi. They only know little bit English and most of them are from lower middle class family.Don't get irritated when speak in there mother tongue.Apporach everyone with a good smile.
Love from the USA. I am a health care professional residing in the Washington DC area for over 35 years. I do agree with the statement about South Indians not willing to intermingle with other Indians especially from the North India. What I have learnt it to expand your circle and forget about limiting yourself to Indians. Currently, my best friends are Hispanic and White who would do anything for me. Very few Indians are worth trusting who are not jealous of your growth. It's sad that most Indians like to compare your "status" with themselves and either feel jealous or think you are not worth their friendship. So Ms. Jyoti, expand your circle and break the barriers of limiting yourself to Indians. You will be amazed to find how much common you may have with other cultures. All the best.
I am south indian not every south indian aise hota but aapke case me aap sahi ho
In my workplace I am the only one North Indian in my ward even,there are only very few north Indians in my hospital. But to be honest they all are treating me very nicely. I have made a really good bond with a few of the malayalis . I understand apne Jo feel kia hai wo bilkul bhi achha nahi hai.
But everyone is not the same. Hope ki apko bhi achhe friend mile because it's very important ki paraye desh me apne friends ho. ❤
That is because your attitude is good. This woman's attitude is bad. She herself says that initially the Malayali nurses treated her very well and became friends with her and helped her. But this woman had problems when Malayali nurses speak with one another in Malayalam. She then went and picked a fight with one Malayalee nurse demanding that the Malayalee nurse should stop speaking in Malayalam with other Malayalees. Thereafter they treated her accordingly. And now she is playing the 'victim'. And she wants sympathy from Ytube viewers. She created the problem. Then goes and complains to the hospital management demanding that Malayalees should not speak among themselves in Malayalam. How childish is this woman? Will you ever find a South Indian going and complaining to Management what Bengalis should not speak in Bengali among their own group or Punjabis should stop using PUnjabi in their group? Then people wonder how South Indians nurses are preferred in hospitals worldwide and why they keep getting promoted. Because they focus on their work and are not busy making Ytube videos at workplace like this woman did [and was called to HR who told her to stop making videos at work].
@@samanthamccormick1505hatt uthappam zip your mouth
@@lvzw Hey paani puri Gaumutra Hindiwallah semi-literate. Stop spitting paan and gutkha. Stop rioting in the name of Mandir Masjid everywhere. lol
This is not a problem you need to develop a quality and that is able to coperate with others. I'm from Bihar people's abuse me in my face but tactically I dealt with them. Never back down
What Marathi s do with UP, Bihar people,same south indian do to marathis..no need to feel bad.....
😂 wahi na jharkhand Bihar up walon ko ye tang krenge 😂 and inko sukh shanti chahiye
@@starnight455 correct 💯 jo boyenge wahi katonge,marathi also behave bad with outsiders
Your husband is absolutely correct, don't spoil your future because of them, I also work for NHS and I'm also from Mumbai , the same thing happens in my hospital, I sometimes feel I'm in kerala and not UK, I just ignore them, so do as your husband says . We are mumbaikars and we don't give up.
Yesss we are very strong ✊🏽❤️
I am agree with you 💯
Very true. People from south India behave like this. But when it comes to Britisher they are very nice and polite. I am a Bengali living in the UK and I also have some Bengali friends who live here and always talk bad about India.
'But when it comes to Britisher they [south Indians] are very nice and polite'. And you being a Bengali in UK, are you saying that you are NOT nice and polite with the Britishers in UK? LOL do you even think before you write nonsense. So when South INdians are nice and polite with the local Bits, South Indians are bad. When you are nice with the local Brits, you are being very good. Amazing logic.
true southindian ka yahi drama hai har jagah
Plz trust a forigner rather than an Indian if u are living abroad.Its a bitter truth.
Only South Indian
Most of the South Indian’s behaviour are bad for North Indian as I have been felt in USA and Singapore
Only if they from India. Otherwise if they are from diffrent country are ok..
What did South Indians do to you in USA and Singapore?
आता माघार नाही जे ठरवलंय ते करून दाखव आई भवानी यश नक्की देईल छत्रपती शिवाजी महाराज की जय बोलायचं आणि कामाला लागायचं.. भविष्यासाठी खूप खूप शुभेच्छा..🙏
This is normal , if you leave with a lot of Marthi people they will prefer to speak in marathi.. as people around you are malyali the prefer to speak in malyali.
It's really hurt when you work with toxic environment who don't take care of their fellow members..be brave and love urself...
This is very true….they do same everywhere in every corner of world…
What did they do to you? Give specific examples
@@samanthamccormick1505 You really want to offend?..
@@vishalsingh-ys8xz I am asking you to substantiate your allegations with specific examples of what you have experienced, which makes you say that 'they do same everywhere in every corner of world'. C'mon provide examples. Thank you
Aap strong rho inki esy Tessy
My friend also faced the same in South India
Stay calm keep distance smile and do your job enjoy your own company you will feel Awesome
Many Indians hate other Indians for no reason at all. Perhaps it is jealousy, competitiveness and some perceived slight or insecurity. I am sorry to hear about your experiences. Stay strong. Jai Maharashtra!
I can understand because I felt the same way when i was working in Chennai, these people don’t give us any respect they think they are very intelligent themselves but when I concentrated on my work and got best employee award they were all so jealous and hopeless so please just be practical and dedicated to your work and rest all is useless about them
Just ignore them...
4:36 Most of the south Indian here in India behave like this. They're very much communal. South Indian like keralian Tamil people are very dangerous. But Karnataka people r to some extent good. Keralian & Tamil people r trying to dominate north Indian but it is impossible. Within short period north,east,west Indian will dominate nursing fields because they are very co operative by nature & large number of students r coming this field from the said parts of India. Don't get nervous. God help them who help themselves. Now I would request you to follow Swami Vivekananda. His quotation: Be bold be strong, you are the creator of your own destiny ". Go ahead.
Very nice ❤
Its very true...I left South India and shifted to North India due to almost same reason.
What did South INdians do with you when you were in the South?
@samanthamccormick1505 My friend circle was good. All Tamil and Kannadigas were perfect. But I saw discrimination on roads. You've to say sorry even if a drunk local guy will hit your vehicle. All the locals on road and even police gonna support that drunk a$$h0!e
Don't worry darling, you are a brave lady aap akeli kafi he unke liye don't give up you carry on bahut aage javogi god bless you
Thank you ❤️
Indians living in abroad are like this… be it punjabis, marathis, South Indians,gujaratis, pahaadis…everyone
They like to be in their own group or community and one more thing I’ve realised staying abroad for so many years that we Indians are the most racist of all…
We do body shaming, we call kaala gora not only each other also other non Indian people, then we try to show off the most regarding the clothes we wear, the cars we drive, the position we hold, and the same mentality we’ve regarding what your kids are doing, when are they getting married etc…
Then jealousy is so much I can’t tell you
@ushathedreamer9593 It's true .They always despise any other group and they want you to follow what they dictate.Its like as if they are paying you.
Yes you are right....even I have faced this problem but they will not change...
I suffered the same thing in Singapore for over 16 years. I am also from north India. I hate to say this, but south Indians hv some kind of hatred for hindi and hindi speaking people. And they hv to such sense and cultural values as to not isolate non-southern people by herding in their groups to ignore and isolate others by speaking just their own local language.
How did South Indians exclude you in Singapore?
In Bangalore also...South Indians speaks their language even if the other person in the group is not understanding their language
Even North Indians do the same
More power to you mam ... This isn't only the scenario of uk but India also Mainly in central institutions where South Indian people doesn't even consider north Indians.. they all are suffering from superiority complex
Yhi hall US me hi hai
Very honest . All the best
Be brave. I saw people from S India Ricksha wala/taxi drivers forcing other Indians to speak in their South Indian language. As a foreigner visiting India and knowing only English/Hindi/French I think I must not venture there because they will feel offended if I can't speak their language.
UK hi nahi India me bhi jab north ke log south me jate hai to same unke sath bhi south wale Aisa hi karte hai
I am also maharashtrian Medical Scientist in Australia.. Most of the coworkers are from south india.. They act the same.. But i ignore them and do my work.. Because i did not came here for them..
They distrub us till we surrender
Aise sankuchit logon se door rahana hi achchha hai.
didi bura mat manna hamare north indians ko Maharashtra me mara peeta tak jata hai jabki ajtak aapne 1 bhi incident aisa nhi suna hoga ki kisi south indian k sath north mei badtamizi hui. pata nhi southies mei itna nasalwaad kyu hain jabki vo khud kaale hain
They have inferiority complex
Correct broo....i feel when I was in hyderabad. But now I'm shifted in Gurugram Delhi.
😂😂
eveeyone has superiority complex of their own imagination, they consider you servents of muslims (moghuls) thats why inferior, and themselves as a descendents of CHOLA , CHALUKYA empires
I’m from Jharkhand Main Aapke Saath hun friend .. Don’t worry yeh Aaise he hote hain… Mujhe Marathi Bhasha bahoot pasand hai .. Har bhasha ki Apni Ek Mithaas hai … Main jab Mumbai jata hoon Toh Energy dekhakar Maza Aa jata hai .. But Mera yeh manna hai k hum Indians agar videsh main jaayen toh Indians bhai behen k saath … ek common language main He bat karni Chahiye … Like Hindi And English … Maine Toh Dekha hai hai bahri Desh main Bangladeshi Aaur Pakistani v Hindi main baat karne lagte hain.. toh yeh South Indian kaise hain bhai … gazab inki Soch hai .. Apne Aap ko Shrestha maane ki inki Aadat Kavi nai jane wali …. Chhoriye Siater Aapko himmat bana k rakhni hai Aaur Khud ko greet kar k rakhni hai Aaur Aaise videos banaiye Aaur UK 🇬🇧 main kaise Hindi bhai behen Ek jagah United hoke Ek Colony main Rahen .. iske bare main Sochiye … Aur Blogs banaiye Taki Koi Isolated feel na Kare .. God bless my dear Sister Bharat 🇮🇳 se Apke bhai k liye Pyar Aaur Aapke Liye managalkamna 🙏🇮🇳 Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳
Yes south Indians aise hi behave karte hai...they all are alike.. specially TN people
Be positive ❤
When i am working in Maldives
a resort. Kerala tamil people put me lot of problem . Kerala guys have good connection owner of company at last my work permit not renewed. I have face same problem
This was one of my concern... N u told this... 😢
Agree with u south indian ese hi hote h
I can relate ur situation....be strong and stay away from toxic people
Yesss
My brother lives in south, very talented software developer, studied from iit, but these people had destroyed my brothers carriers, even god will never ever forgive these people.
So why doesn't your brother go to the heaven of Hindiwallah land and work with such wonderful Hindiwallahs who will make his career [It is career and not 'carrier' by the way]. So your brother hates South India and South Indian people, and yet continues to live in South India. Why would anyone continue to live in a place even after hating the place and its people? When he can go back to his HIndiwallah place and people? Does your brother also hate it when South Indians speak to fellow South Indians in their South Indian language, just like this woman, whose biggest problem in life is that Malayalees speak in Malayalam with Malayalees.
@@samanthamccormick1505 What is Hindiwalla? You are stuck on to that word.
Hindi is our national language & you very conveniently seem to forget that.
Every person residing in India should be, at the very least, be able to converse in basic Hindi.
Bhaiyas are a different clan altogether
So don’t use Hindiwalas on a repeat mode.
Be it a South INDIAN or a North INDIAN, we are INDIANS. So we should present a united front.
@@marissa1133 What is the most important trait/quality in a Hindiwallah? Zero general knowledge. LIke you. No clue that India does NOT have a National Language. Repeate after me: India does NOT have a national language. I conveniently forgot that Hindi is the Natinal language, because unlike you I know that India does not have any national language. INdia only has official languages - 22 of them.
You are a youngster, and you are at the right place, timely. Do not plan to return, as life is more challenging back in Mumbai, Navi Mumbai, and Pooney, too. It is an aspiration for all educated Indians to maintain their existence overseas.
I stay in united States 🇺🇸.. I am marathi.
same hear... South Indian ( Tamil, Andhra, Malayalam) they are hindi heaters... they are only cornfotable when they meet their own people...
Right in Gulf countries also
God Bless You
Ye south Indian converted christian honge....mere saath bhi hostel mein sabse jayda ragging .kia tha ....infact jo meri roommate brahaman south indian thi usko to inn converted Christians ne rula hi diya tha
Lol Video uploader herself is Christian, she clarified in another comment. Ha Ha Ha
So what is your actually problem.Got ragged by senior,s? Or you Got ragged by Christian senior, s? I am against all type of ragging. But you are saying in the comments about converted Christians. Can you explain me about that?. Before Commenting just go to Wikipedia and search Kerala Christian, s. Then you will get our history?. You also seemed talking about one of your friend who was a Brahmin got ragged. Why you are specially mentioning him as Brahmin What is his speciality. Do everyone needs to respect him Just because he is a brahmin?. I also got ragged in college from Senior, s from all religions, but i didn't go behind there religion and caste? I am against ragging. When my friends does this ragging i stopped from doing so. Please don't bring Caste and religion in all this things.
Right sister nice vlog thanks . join you
Each and every people of india do this. Punjabi wil speak Punjabi, tamil, Malayalam,telgu, kannada,telgu they will speak in their own language. But person should understand when to speak which language. It's very common in india and uk. Part and parcel of life united by India divided by language.
you are right mam
UK is United kerala now
Dear I am a nurse as well as a midwife. I came to UK in 70’s and retired now. I faced the same problem but I stayed strong. My plus point was I was resident of this country and later I went to USA as well. I will suggest you to ignore these people, they are same every where. You just stay in good books with your seniors and any problem, go and seek official advice and make official complaint that they are harassing you and emotionally torturing you. These people need to learn their lesson. Stay safe and stay strong.
True said Mam
Yesss❤️ thanks for the motivation ❤️🥳
What??? So Malayali nurses talking among themselves in Malayalam is harassment of non-Malayalees now? You want her to go and make an official complaint to her UK hospital bosses that Malayalee nurses speak to each other in Malayalam? Really.
The hospital bosses will laugh at the childishness of this complaint. Should she also go and complain when Bengalis speak in Bengali with one another and PUnjabis speak in Punjabi with one another and Russians speak in Russian? How are Russians emotionally torturing anyone when they speak in Russian among themselves?
If this woman goes and fights with a Russian because the Russian is speaking in Russian among their Russian social circle, it would be considered that this woman is emotionally torturing the Russians.
I am yet to come across ONE HIndiwallah that makes sense. You are no exception.
@@samanthamccormick1505 yes it is because in UK you are supposed to talk in common language which everyone can understand and that is English only.
@@samanthamccormick1505 If you are in a room full of people from different cultures, That time everyone can not start talking in their own language. That time it is advised to use English only. But if in the room there are 10 people speaking their common language, no other person from different culture is there theat time they can certainly speak in their common language.
Honestly speaking, it's not a big problem. Even people who are living in Maharashtra for job purpose face similar issue. I've heard many of my non Maharashtrian friends complaining of such instances.
This will happen upto some extent, natural behaviour. Don't get upset. These are the challenges one has to face when he comes out of his comfort zone.
South Indian people good act thanks form uttarpradesh best of luck south indian people
Ye matlabi or swarthi hote hai
U are absolutely right atleast kisi ne to iss bare me khul ke bola I am proud of you.me bhi uk me hu aur delhi se hu sirf South Indian hi nhi infact bht se indians apne hi hoke hume bad feel krate h south wale sirf unhi ke logo ka sath dete h aur kuch North Indian h ho pakistanio ka sath dete h weierd apne hoke bhi apne nhi yha aakr dimag khrab ho jata h kuch logo ka.
Hi..My sister lives in UK..She is a Nurse..You can be friends with her..We are from Maharashtra😊
Please drop me your Number
I AM PROUD OF YOU SISTER. I AM MAHARASHTRA BOY.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳👍👍👍👍👍
South Indian ऐसे ही रहते है,इंडिया में भी,ये कभी भी दूसरो के साथ मिक्स अप नही होते।
Ha sahi kaha ye Esa hi krte h Pata nhi ku
Ego hai
@@RadhaBhatt-sz3nm ye samajh te hain ki north Wale bahar se aaye hain , ye yaha ke mool log hain jinhe , north Wale ne south mein bhaga diya.
Listen you young lady you are nurse ,so obviously no need to say you are strong. Why to depend on whose who doesn’t want to attach with you . Everything is fake , no need to be with those who doesn’t care about you , Really believe me you can be more happy without these fake people. I wish you always stay happy, Always stay blessed
इसी तरह , महाराष्ट्र के लोगों के बीच में भी रहकर फील होता है, मैं भी जब मराठी लोगों के साथ काम करता हूं तो वो भी मराठी में ही बात करते हैं। ऐसा सभी जगह पे है।
sahi kaha bhai Marathi are very aggressive people
India is the best...❤❤❤❤
Yes🥳
Hey im also maharastrian living in UK and my husband is telugu, i had same experience with telugu people , not my husband as he never treated me different also he was broad minded so he married me but his family relatives and friends who are living in UK for years have never considered me as one of them just bcz i dont speak telugu. Within one year of marriage i understood how bitter these people are so i stopped talking or giving any sort of imprtance to these people. I try to connect with other people instead who are more open minded unlike these fools. I wonder why are south Indians so backward and chindi. आपण सूद्धा भाव खायचा.
True❤️
Ho that's true they have very cheap mentally. But God is with us because we are not behaving as they are cheap people You don't worry about that just keep doing ur work. Always remember karma is there
Please be strong, you are a very sweet girl but be brave. Do your work, get paid and enjoy life with your family. They’re just colleagues and let’s just keep it that way. Be happy and God bless you!
You are absolutely right.In India also malya lies do the same.very irritating people
Don't leave the country.Dont leave your dreams because of those narrow minded people.
I agree with you sister, ALL OF THE SOUTH INDIAN PEOPLE ARE MEAN and ALL OF THE MAHARASHTRA PEOPLE ARE NICE PEOPLE. I lived in Mumbai all my life and I know they are such nice people. Actually ALL OF THEM are such nice people that it feels unreal. I am so impressed with the way Maharastrians "welcome" everyone from all other cities like Bihar Orissa etc and love them and care for them and help them so much in Mumbai and other parts of Maharashtra. Such lovely people ALL ALL ALL OF THEM. They never speak in Marathi even if they are many people speaking that language only to take care that just one person who doesn't know Marathi doesn't feel uncomfortable or isolated in a different state away from their own home state and NEVER NEVER Maharastrians SPREAD HATE AGAINST MIGRANT WORKERS or asked them to go back to their own state IN HISTORY. Or DID THEY? No No they never did that....cuz ALL OF THEM are such nice people and everybody else is mean.
Sister I am a mallu myself nd let me tell u, ye problem hum sab logon meine hi ... problem is neither we respect each other frm different states and neither we try to learn each other's culture... Even Maharashtrian does the same, even Delhi people does the same just that we don't realise bcoz few of the languages sound more over like Hindi but the languages which r actually derived directly frm Sanskrit it's difficult to understand but important thing is to respect each other...u come to Mumbai Maharashtrians will will taunt people frm north by saying bhaiya nd if u go north they will taunt people frm South as Anna
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If your boss is south Indian or the owner is south Indian then it will be very difficult to work they always humility you
Aysa to maharastra may Marathi log bhi kartey hai..
Take is as experience ( whether good or bad) and move forward. But never retreat in any situation.
True.. Very True
Mam, in Maharashtra the language concern is also there. North Indians are not considered there. Marathi is compulsory there.
Who told you? Kabhi aaye ho maharashtra bhai?
No one is multi cultural and friendly with everyone like Mumbai people
Yaah that's Right
I feel very comfortable in Mumbai
Ofoooooo be strong , 💪 they will never change , few good mallus are there too
Yes I have got some really good friends
South Indian are like that they do it in every field same I am from hospitality and it is happening everyday with me they like their own reasonal people but few are also good
When I was posted in Mumbai, people who were talking in Hindi Immediately shifted to Marathi the moment I tried to join conversation. So this is everywhere.
Why don't you refer Marathi and North Indian nurses and doctors to your hospital. You can help relocate them from India and this will help the hospital, you, and them as well.
I watched your video first-time nd i liked it for the first time nd i agree with u the same thing happened to me