Those men are hard to find. I choose to be singe because most men im attracted to are really nice but later show their trues colours. Im no longer looking now because i cant deal with tempers anymore.
@@liveonce2102 then you have to open the door for other types of men. Sometimes you have to let someone in and let the attraction build. It takes more time that way but it can work. Not everyone can check every box. Sometimes you have to know when certain boxes are not important.
@liveonce2102 YOU only date the guys who look like GQ models. Men who want a loving partner look average. Sometimes short (5 foot 6). So you ignore them
Girls today have lost that. You should come to Amsterdam, prostitution is legal here and the girls are gorgeous. Sure you pay her for the deed, but what's the difference with girls today? It's choosing to feed a 304, or you choose to not have the drama and get the same results.
Their generation will wind up in middle age alone - and ultimately they will die alone, having only superficial relationships given the disintegration of the nuclear family. And demographic collapse across the West will be the doom of high civilization. Then it will be back to barbarism when things collapse.
The whole court system is built on the bias that women are always victims and men are always instigators to change it we'd have to change the whole justice system
its amazing how much more attractive she is over the rest of the table. happier, glowing. meanwhile, rest of the table looks gloom and pissed off/disconnected.
Yet, even she despite her "tradcon" leanings speaks in egalitarian terms and fails to realize that she must enter a man's frame. If she the woman is setting the boundaries and dictating the terms of the relationship she by default becomes the leader and she loses any sexual interest she may have had in the beginning. This is actually quite common among so-called "traditional" women and they end up having a harder time finding lasting relationship than many of the more liberal women.
Bro wtf are you taking about, how are they all idiots? Did you watch this clip or the whole thing. She basically just jumped in at times to make herself seem intelligent while making condescending comments and smug looks at everyone. Seriously bro she's a huge narcissist. What's dumb is how she acted insanely rude to anyone who lives a non christian lifestyle but then flips it around and acts like a damn pharisee with how judgemental she is with her smug ass looks! Seriously how can you not see this. She's not intelligent she's power hungry and image obsessed
All of this shit goes back to Left/Right thinking. Leftist culture has taken over, and this is what the results are. They continue to miseducate everyone about false "patriarchy" claims and many other false things. They're making all sorts of groups feel entitled due to being victims in one way or another, and it's pitting us all against each other. This country will tear itself apart.
i find it funny that women always say, “what if he leaves”… they skip over the 70-90% of women that leave and go straight to the 10-20% of men that do🙄
This is where I paused the video to read comments cause it's already leaning for me. You can't be trying to propose a solution when you haven't even disected the issue. And the host keeps singing the lost blues forgetting this stats are specifically held and promoted in the West. The world has 3 other directions that do not agree.
@@Upbeat101Rhythm The west has dating influences that permeate modern culture all over the globe especially through world internet spaces like YT. So regardless, this is no longer just a "western" issue.
Yes. That is true but what she is talking about is while the couple is not married yet and the guy can just simply walk away. Seriously who wants a pain in the butt gf? I get the girl who wants to set up boundaries but if you are the top 1% who women are chasing after you get to dictate the terms and not the other way around. This is why the other chic is explaining to lower their expectations from men with regards to looks, height, money, and status.
@@BarnzTT yes that’s the entire point. Normally, it’s women leaving committed relationships… When the woman wants the relationship but cannot obtain it, somehow that’s also the man’s fault 🤣🤣 Can’t have it both ways
@@BarnzTT Yeah this. I was prepared to offer my ex the holy trinity on the condition of her not becoming overweight, be more pleasant and not cut the hair too short. She couldn't commit to that so I left. That and her constant temper tantrums.
@@bhaines2209 it depends on the reason for leaving. women arent leaving simply initiating it and most of the time its a mutual break up as men tend to be lazier. that is a big factor too
I find it hilarious because in general women have no hobbies. I've had gfs give me the " ugh, you're just gonna do x or y all day?" And i'm always like yes, its called doing something you love. sorry to tell ya hun, but netflix and insta aren't hobbies. Go read a book or something lmao
@@anon7596 It is frustrating. Most of the women I have talked to only work and drink. They have no hobbies to speak of, but lament the fact I enjoy video games. God forbid I enjoy something interactive.
I saw a woman sum it up really well once: a woman will say yes to her boss, yes to the police, yes to the garbage man when he says leave the trash out at 6am or it won't get taken. A woman will say yes to everyone except her husband. I will take it a step further and point out that every example given about who women will comply with and their husband is that everyone else has authority over her, as in, _non-compliance has negative consequences,_ but a husband has no authority. The only consequences for disobeying a husband is a round of applause from the moment she says no to the moment she's on Tik Tok dancing to music to celebrate her divorce. Women had two choices: depend on her man or depend on the government, now all she has is the government. No, she is never independent, she's propped up by gender quotas and diversity programs, and every other advantage women have because they're women. A husband is no longer a necessity, he's a novelty.
I know I am but a tiny minority. My husband says all the women who are married to his work mates are like this. I'm not. In fact I am probably the opposite I say yes to my husband I love him so much. I just want him to be happy and he works so hard. If I can help him I will. By contrast other people around the community I'm less likely to be as amenable. I don't go out of the way to be unpleasant but I won't have folks making unreasonable demands from me. I have been told by hubby to try not to be so disagreeable so for him, I shut up. I did this test years ago about personality traits. It was one of those acronym things. It said I scored in only 4% of those who took the test. I didn't think that was particularly great but I have met other women like me so it can't be that rare. My family is everything to me. My children, my grandson and my husband are the most important people in my life and I just want to do everything I can to help them anyway that's possible out of my love and devotion. Maybe women like me are a rare bird but they exist. So if that is something you would want we are not unicorns - we are here so there's hope.
This girl is so well spoken. And finally a panel that has a thought. Usually none of them have a brain. This is a much better podcast then other clips I’ve seen.
My dad fought tooth and nail to get my sister and I from my mom. Best thing to ever happen to me and I am forever great full ❤ my mom had 7 kids w 5 differen5 ppl and she lives ion the street as a bum 💔
There is really no good reason to get married when as a man the woman takes almost everything in a divorce along with alimony, child support .even if the wife cheats or gets sick of being married .
@@shaverdave3644 No, there's a ton of good reasons, when your partner is good. Cohabitating is a great environment to raise kids, way to save money towards common goals, etc. You can generally find good women to marry at a Church; but never at a club. Try something like Christian Mingles or Singles groups in your area.
I have heard one success story. It was because him and my coworker told the judge they were engaged and going to get married after the divorce was finalized.
I agree with you I'm a single dad and all I want a honest FAITHFUL SINGLE WOMAN Who wants me and refuses to let her self be manipulated by people just trying to drive a wedge between us a woman who doesn't lie about being single a woman who thinks she's so special that she gets a bunch of us guys to fight over her my honest opinion is iff she can't make up her own mind about what guy she really wants then maybe she doesn't have much of a mind to allow her self to be manipulated in the first place.
One place to start is stopping women from shaming other women for wanting to be moms and have a family, feminism is toxic like that and puts labels on women calling them 'pick me's and breeders' its disgusting and no one calls it out.
Before that it has to start with upbringing. The average female 22 year old has more sexual experiences than a 35 year old man and it is tainting the relationship right from the start.
Love has been taken out of the equation, I realised after so long that love is never part of these conversations is sad, relationships without love don't go anywhere.
My wife left, I went to get child support from the court for our two kids she abandoned with me, I was looked at like the bad guy and was stonewalled the whole way. Never got child support, the court doesn’t care about the kids.
The pain and anguish are real no doubt, but you’ll find some grounding, maybe even a little peace in the fact that you’re nowhere close to alone. The court systems sh*** on men, fathers, and children en masse. If you don’t believe me, dive head first into the research.
The courts work for Satan, Satan wants to destroy the family unit. What better way then to turn men and women against one another and destroy men who are the head of the household by robbing them blind in the courts.
@@Raphael4722what? She agreed to him saying woman value high quality men . And then she start talking about woman needing to settle for average earning men. Since when was the debate about money? He is talking about average men
Aren’t we destabilizing mankind with all of this pronoun lgbtq+ and this social media presence crap if anything I think social media desensitize us with these extreme expectations
There have always been LGBTQ people... what do you just want them back in the closet? The real difference today it seems to me is that they don't want to have to hide it.
I'm gen x and i have a fear that society is doomed. So much narcissism and lack of any idea of how deluded they are! Gen x had a awesome childhood. These girls all think they are 10s when half of them can't even count to 10!
James I've done my best to give my sons a gen x style childhood, education, and values. I hope there are more gen x parents that have done this. Secondly, the three decades of degrading and de-valuing anything male is bearing the poison fruit. This is likely why Jordan Peterson's message has resonated so much with gen z men.
@@carolinaterri3569 Average people should date average people. The fact that you see this as "settling" is the problem. If men decide they only want to date supermodels and women decide they only want to date millionaires, we will just end up with a lot of bitter, lonely people.
@@Raphael4722 I'm not disputing that. Given the conversation, I took it as not settling as meaning in behavior. As in don't settle for someone without the highest integrity, values, etc. She was directing it towards girls that would settle for a wealthy, good-looking scumbag who's hollow inside. I may be off base in her intention. Without relighting to it, I thought that she was speaking on issues such as setting boundaries early in a relationship, etc.
I think that was an accident judging by the rest of the things she said. Poor articulation rather than meaning. They need to pin down what is meant by average guy before they talk... But then again, women aren't used to sticking to an idea in a debate.
These girls had weak fathers... that's why they are like this now... the look on their face you are seeing is pure ignorance.. they really don't know... that they don't know... and one of these women is going to be the mother of your children?....NA
No the law did. The workforce did. Men are broke women are rich. Men struggle to get a job worth working that isn't hard labor. And unless they really need that crappy job they won't work either. I rather die than comply to feminism.
As a very recent single father with 2 children, who had their mother go mental due to social media after 7 years of marriage, I can say single parent life and I don’t need a husband, is a very toxic behavior that is destroying marriages.
We are a species that is out of equilibrium with the world. We constantly need oxygen, water, food, and shelter. We are hard wired to never be satisfied and always wanting more. Which is why philosophy and religious meaning is post hoc attempt to overcome what can’t be overcome. Social media apps have turned this desire for more to 11. Chiefly as they are designed to sell us target adverts for our psychology. But you can always see how your friend has so much more than you, but you see it from thousands of people. But everybody is crafting these amazing profiles, and stories, but they are often lies and fictitious. Being fictions you get to craft your own story and be the hero in your own life from the oppressive world. So sub communities pop up. Which is why I think there is such a “reality crisis” with things like transgenderism. People going down crafted rabbit holes and start to revel against reality itself. Now we have generative AI, which will only exacerbate this. Push people down ideological biases. Yet, at the same time will be able to say “create me the next Star Wars movie but staring Danny Divito and they find Earth”. Parts of that can already happen with AI poorly but in 10-20 years it will be a reality. Then watch the atomisation kick in, and talking about obvious things like like biological sex will seek easy. People will get lost in AI dreaming and be arguing about who the fuck knows. This civilisation is lost. We lost our values, and let companies control us, over the weirdest of things advert revenue. The dystopia is now.
Children from single mother homes are statistically more likely to be criminals or homeless. Children from single father homes are statistically in line with a two parent household. Women NEED a husband. Well, the child does so that they don't grow up screwed up. 😂
The problem with a woman "setting boundaries" after she's given several men free and open access to her body is that she's not setting boundaries out of any sort of real virtue or dignity, but rather as a desperate attempt to force someone into commitment. Any quality man recognizes that and will never think of her as wife material.
A real man can forgive a woman if they have also lived a hard life where both have had a change of heart to the destructive lifestyle and are better off for it.
@@slipstreambro bartender here. The women who gives boundaries to their partners are the same girl who hook up with me at workplace who beg for me to cum in em or fck em with no protection. Only the schmucks are given boundaries. My colleagues and i are the ones laughing at those shmucks
lol maybe we will verify her past and see how she respected herself and how smart she was. cos majority of them today is fake like all women are, and they parrot what men told about women. that way they play unicorns. cos finding good woman is less probable than hiting 6 in lotto. cos we all hear about good women on internet, but nobody can verify that. where we never seen any good woman in real life, i never met one in 46 years, not my mother, not my sister and not all whores i was with. and not all women i met who were with somebody, over time truth comes out they just hide that better. same as dna ancestry tree test in recent decade show how much they were whoring, after all its oldest profession in world. even in bible jesus forgives all sins to prostitute. and today we have tikthot, instahoes and onlyfans to verify every whore in world, or simply IRS. what kind of parasite she is, less or extreme. cos they all are privileged and only bring loss
Could it be that these girls are not professional speakers and purposely placed on this circus of show to make them out to be dullards? I'm sure if we placed a camera on you in the same setting you could be made to be a fool by the charlatan who hosts this shit show devoted to finger wagging moralism.
so what? truth is she can ruin your life in 5 minutes with zero evidence, same as she can change in 5 minutes cos she will stop acting. thats why there should be no oscars for women. they acting whole life since birth. everything about them is a lie. bait & switch and ruin your life for her benefits
@@whiteviper1979 nah that is what you Dems use for everything... That girl had conservative morals and common sense. Two things people on the left cant stand.
I'm almost 60 and I can assure you that when I was in college in the 80's there was PLENTY of hook-up culture and drunken parties were all the rage. I think what has changed is the over-abundance of options.... when you have an entire candy store how could you possibly pick one piece and be content with that? In the past we didn't have the Internet and limitless right-swiping... we either settled down in a relationship or ended up alone. I think it's more a byproduct of the Internet age than anything specific to this generation.
Nah, look at the music, look at the shows, the media, basically everything perpetuates this whole “you’re perfect be yourself have fun don’t settle” bullshit people are dumber and they think they’re special when they are not, they’re unique but we’re not special, and people need to get that through their heads
What changed is I’m sure after college when you were that age people were hit harder with the real world and bringing hookup culture into their post-college years wasn’t really a viable option if they wanted to succeed. It’s a lot easier now to bring that into post college years because there’s very little pressure to go out and get a job, your own place, start a business, etc. a lot of people graduate college and still live the same party life, they just have a job instead of classes.
I mean you've been living under a rock because for the last decade woman have been taught through media, the news, the education systems that the guys that were around when you were in college are toxic and undesirable. These new generation woman have all the role models and classes in schools telling woman whats supposedly wrong with womens rights and how to fix it. Nothing for the men, we just get told that we're toxic. We're expected to only get the attention from our girl, we can't advertise ourselves at all. But all these woman can go out with only nipple and pussy covers. You can't tell them to put more clothes on to respect you because you know other men will look, but you also can't be asked to protect her either when the time comes.
A big issue is the general breakdown of the family. A very large % of Gen Z are not being raised within a family where their biological mother and father are married and all their siblings are full brothers and sisters. To even say that is the best and safest place for children to be raised is considered radically traditional, “heteronormative” and basically expecting too much. Many young people have NO immediate role models of stable, lifelong marriage. They don’t see it in media, it’s not a social expectation. Most aren’t religious don’t go to church/synagogue/ temple so don’t receive that message anywhere. As a result they are very lost and have no idea how to form a relationship and then sustain it. Instead of being taught how to have a healthy relationship and prioritize it they are told making money, getting an education and having career are always way more important. They are very unhappy and confused and the reason why the “wellness” industry has exploded. Gen Z are looking for comfort and peace from somewhere.
@mnn1265 I would agree that the over abundance of options hasnt helped. However the wild parties in your day werent as well documented and people certainly werent discussing what happeben to their partners they settled with Also with that lifestyle being more accepted and less hush hush, people figure why settle when society doesnt look down on me for casual sexual interactions
All women do. It’s evolutionary nature. Ancient scriptural texts talk about that. Are you only just now realizing? Females only want to mate with the top male, so they harem around him in hopes of getting him. They care nothing about all other men
Many women are fine with sharing very high value men, and always have been. In fact, that's exactly why societies break down as too many young men not having sex is a recipe for disaster. We've spent millennia trying to figure out how to mitigate it, and Christianity does deserve a lot of credit for making monogamous fidelity paramount and sacred in a functional Western society. Men truly are disposable, just from a practical standpoint. It's why the idea of a patriarchy as always domineering over women is so laughable. Why exactly is it men do all the crazy, brilliant, amazing and terrible things we do? Oh right... Women...🙄😏
What about a woman who is not lovable? "A woman who is not lovable is like a scalding hot cast iron skillet, he who clutches onto her burneth the sh!t out of his soul."
What’s funny is the chubby girl is the only one talking about dating average men, and the rest give her the stank eye because they’re too wrapped up in their own self-images and onlyfans 😭😭😭
@@michaelmurphy6224 She means the pink coat chubby one, she does indeed say she has 200+ body count and did 6 guys separately 1-by-1 from tinder all in one night (one hour timeslots). If she's not exaggerating it's rather disgusting. Brian later points out a guy of her level would not be able to achieve that (in trying to point out that women control access to s*x and thus determine hookup culture). I think he lets the men off too easy though (guys COULD withhold from women especially given all the technological advancements in ways to deal with it solo) and those men need to be roasted for sleeping with easy women too, what idiots put it in that STD ridden hole when there are perfectly good clean ways to deal with it solo, without giving attention to these terrible women who won't learn until the attention stops. We need them to learn MUCH sooner so then word spreads to the younger generations to NOT do what they are doing.
She's tapped out and hitting the wall. The carousel ride is over and she wants some basic dude to handle the baggage. It's not some noble respectable decision she is being realistic though at the very least. Some women pile on the baggage and think they can raise their standards because "they know what they want".
The only way to disincentivize divorce is to remove all access to cash and prizes while creating a 50/50 shared custody of the children. NO alimony and NO child support.
MAGA girl is correct. Men don't just want Sex; Men also want love & relationship. Men only use 304 for sex but they are willing to spend time & energy to develop a long term relationship on High Quality woman they respect & love.
This is why most women don't understand men. They think men (at least the bad boys they are attracted to) just want women for s3x, but in reality most men want love/relationships, but the women don't give those guys a chance, because they aren't attracted to them for being too nice/good, etc.
Yes but the issue is on both sides it’s to say one side shouldn’t do this, reality men and women should be better both should know when to say no. Instead some would rather be weak controlled by people or by their own biological impulses.
@@Dionysus_Athenaagreed men are just as guilty. Men nowadays are weak willed and will sleep with anything and not be willing to walk away from women. Women desire and respect men that don't fall under their spell. That is the bottom line a women will be down bad for a man that has integrity and cannot be manipulated.
One day I decided I wanted to try to find a good Christian girl I didn’t know much about Christianity at this point this was a year and a few months ago and she is a virgin, she is more pure than any woman I’ve ever met and what not. However she still had a lot of things that we worked through together same thing here with me. She has helped me grow so much more than I would’ve ever expected and I’m super thankful for that. She has also helped me get closer to the Lord and I am now a Christian man who trusts and believes in the Lord and tries to live righteously. I am not a virgin but when I met her I decided I was going to not have sex with her til we get married and I stuck with that and today is her bridal shower and our relationship is just absolutely incredible. Like I said we have ups and downs but we work through them and it’s just amazing. That’s a real woman right there and she has helped me become a more real pure man. She helped me overcome porn addiction. She helped me overcome so much I never thought I’d give up. Thank you Jesus!!! I am 23 and she is 21 as of today.
As long as you don't remove "real pure man" out of your vocabulary, a man is still a man. Many times a woman will try to transcend the man she has in her presence, it happens everyday. Sounds like a good thing you have going on.
@@unclefaya I agree 100%. I’m not trying to say I’m a pure man because no one is 100% pure. We all make mistakes. But we try to learn and improve from the mistakes we make. Constant growth is what we should all be encouraged to have.
@@wildmanwildfire9828 the Palestine train derailment happened in a town called Palestine Ohio. Palestine is the Holy Land in the Bible. As soon as the Euphrates River dried up which is in Turkey the Turkey earthquake happened which has killed around if not more than 50,000 people. Literally as soon as it dried up. I used to not take Christianity seriously either because I loved to have sex with everyone and their mother, I loved smoking weed and watching porn and stealing and dealing drugs. But that way of life did not work. It never did. Being a Christian and trusting in Jesus is the only thing that has worked in my life. If I didn’t decide to go on Christian mingle i would’ve never met my fiancé soon to be wife in June, if I did not decide to trust in Jesus man my life would still be a disaster. But I am living on my own, I was in the foster system since I was 6 and aged out and have been on my own for a few years however I got adopted by lovely people despite being 23 years old the other day. I still live on my own but I have legal family now. My fiancé and her family do so much for me. Don’t get me wrong things sometimes still don’t go right as we all go through stuff but things are much better and Jesus is really blessing me. The bad things that do happen are tests to see if I will trust in Jesus or rely on my own self. Plus I have a video about the number 333 🙏 Maybe you’ll find that intriguing. The Bible is literally being proven true day by day.
I'm not used to seeing any girls on this show that can construct a sentence. Kudos to her for even knowing what a study is, let alone memorizing anything other the names of the Kardashian sisters.
She is SO RIGHT, and all of those girls on that panel, except the other blonde speaking common sense, are all so clueless. They come off as statues, like they have NO IDEA how to engage in a conversation. It is truly heart breaking.
That's probably because their idea of a conversation is making plans to go for free food/drinks/movies/entertainment and then sexting to make sure the guy doesn't flake till they get their free-crap or sexting with only fan followers for tips, like any "phone s*x" worker except.... digital-via-texting.
One girl stated that she didn't think any previous Generation was happy either, but I beg to differ with her. Being a child brought up in the 70's and 80's I was extremely happy and most any I have talked too brought up during that time says " what a great time it was to be a child ". It was a totally different time than what is going on now and I believe most of the problem is social media. We now have a culture that everyone has an opinion about everything and they know nothing about what they are giving their opinion on. The sad thing is you would not listen to most of these people if they gave you their opinion in real life but once its on the internet everyone jumps on the band wagon, even major corporations change their whole business model around the ones who whine!
Children are generally happy, provided they have decent parents. Adults, not so much. There's also a paradox with happiness and "civilisation". The more evolved and complex a society, the more unhappy people tend to be. But it's almost impossible for those people to then go live some Amish life. It's like a heroin addict trying to go clean. Also, self-reported happiness surveys are almost meaningless.
@Long John Thilver I doubt people were happy about Jim Crow and segregation 💀 and then slavery before that, and then being harassed by the British before that💀
As a society we've been conditioned to seek someone who 'checks all the boxes all the time' and that's not realistic. It's impossible to create perfect relationships from imperfect people. But that's not reason enough to leave. Love and commitment are conscious decisions made every day even when the 'feeling' isn't there. We as a society need a rewiring to understand that you don't fall in love you choose to love. Every. Damn. Day
Or worse- that you should leave a relationship because you don't "love" each other anymore. Do people really not understand that emotions change? I think you should leave a relationship if you are **indifferent** towards your partner- if you don't care about them at all. But if you love them or hate them or feel any kind of emotion at all towards them... chances are those emotions will fluctuate over time. Furthermore, it's not your partner's responsibility to make you feel a certain way. You above all others have the most control over your own emotions. You should know how to make yourself happy. If you aren't happy- relationship or not- it's your fault. Blaming your relationship for your unhappiness is like blaming a fast food restaurant for the food you ordered. You chose what to eat. The restaurant has so much less control over how happy YOU are with the food than you do. I abhor the phrase 'fall in love'. Do you 'fall in anger'? 'Fall in jealousy'? 'Fall in resentment?' There are plenty of things that can trigger these emotions, but you are not helpless against them. You get to decide how you handle love, anger, jealousy and resentment. The only time they control you is when you let them. The choice to be emotional and irresponsible is still a choice. Imagine if a murderer plead, "I'm sorry your honor, I fell in anger with the victim." How insane would that be if we then said, "Oh, okay, that makes sense. You are blameless. We'll charge the victim's family and make them pay for the emotional damage you suffered."
@@jscal1 Or maybe you just don't want to change anything lol? The reality is, that men want to have sex and prefer to have women be loose like they are now.
@@jscal1 I don't know that her expectations are properly summed up that way. She's saying that we have to commit to moving forward... doing work to claw our way out. She's showing how the process works by rejecting defeatism, bringing up ideas, and discussing them. And of course she's exactly right.
She's right. We lose our right to complain about the cesspool when we complain that we're so contaminated by it, that there's no worth in gradually removing ourselves and others from it. One person at a time got us into this mess. It's one person at a time that removes us from it. It's going to take generations.
Also all of the anti male laws, fired or even arrested for compliments , life ruined on a false accusation, women consenting to sex then the next day saying you are a rapist because 1 stinking drop of alcohol touched her lips.
Marriage laws are the problem. If people want to have a religious ceremony and live a religious lifestyle, that's their business and the government should not be involved.
Are they a problem? Sure but that's not THE problem..Divorce is and the fact that's It's so common and widely accepted. Your comment is a testament to that mindset
At this point, I dont think women have any power to demand anything anymore. We're the ones causing the decline, and we're the ones that will decide when it ends. Good luck to them
The conservative girl is attractive in every sense of feminine classification. As a daughter, sister, partner then wife, mother and grandmother to be. More power to you. You are in for a good life.
@@lifemocker85 She has high standards yes, but at least she can afford to. You're probably not gonna find a smart, attractive, and feminine woman to be your wife if you're one of the brokees, sorry bro. The fact is, men need to get better. Do better and be the best man you can be. That's how you'll find a better woman.
@@lifemocker85 well as a Man my personal nature is to always be bettering myself and and providing better for my family, a good women keeps that going. you could say a good women needs know how to wield her Man.
We all want the same things ultimately but most people look for the right things in the wrong places. My 29-year-old husband and I (27) have 3 young children, a below-average income, and I homeschool while he works outside of the home. We married at 22 out of college and the military. It's tough most days but we are sublimely happy. Jesus is our answer. No external circumstance is bigger than God.
You're choosing to give this world the benefit of the doubt. Anyone who is paying attention knows these women want bad things that a moral woman would not want
We as men are REAL easy to please. Support and Love us, bang us, and feed us. You have no idea how much we would do for our women if those things were met. Like we’d do ANYTHING for our women if those things were met.
I'm a Man & amen. Idk how to cook at all but I'm extremely lonely. No woman has ever loved me romantically or sexually at all...yet. Hope that changes. Women also need to focus on generally being super nice & pleasant to be around.
I think college just ended up breeding infantilized adults. If both men and women worked towards building their character, integrity and virtues and in turn looking for someone who is honorable, honest, and has a good character, that would help alot. Hookup culture is like leaving children without any structure to run amock, eat all the candy you want, sleep whenever, and act like discipline and structure is a party pooper. Then they start to feel the consequences of it and say no that isn't why we have cavities and tummy aches. For the people who can't wrap their head around Jesus but are all open to energy and vibes and manifestations, manifest this: what if you valued honesty, integrity, hard work, compassion, loyalty, faith and resourcefulness as much as you do looks, cars, and whatever else you use to pick a partner, how would that go? And in turn what if you valued it for yourself first and worked toward that. Maybe if you went out and took your own very existence seriously maybe you could see that even with a high body count these could be the keys to being an amazing person and finding and amazing partner.
Jesus hasn't solved anyone problems, maybe you need faith to be a better person, but that's still you. Imaginary friends shouldn't be how we structure ourselves, pretend men in the sky or anyone's messiah isn't effective in reality. Jesus hasn't fed me when I was hungry nor housed me when I was homeless, I had to go about things myself, christ is for the delusional.
As if the pressure on men to build their character isn't higher and more intense. That's the point. Men aren't even told they have a choice. It's do do do, achieve achieve achieve or you're a piece of shit. If a woman is lazy or doesn't improve herself she's just a poor depressed angel. But hey men are equipped for it and I'm proud that I can carry the world on my shoulders without a complaint
Totally agree. The constant negating of the conservative girls points just kills the momentum. I want to like this podcast, I think it has great potential, but Brian honestly drags it down with his immaturity and lack of charisma/timing.
Yep, this guy is decent but a little too docile, he needs someone that will hold some of these girls' feet to the fire (the ones that try to take control of the show with their energy). They need a Myron to let the unruly guests know their place.
I was 21 when I started dating my now husband, who was 35 at the time. He’s an exceptional human being who busted his ass to get where he is now. We’ve been married 11 years in September. He’s in the top 1% and I’m so thankful to the women who wouldn’t give him the time of day because he wasn’t 6’.
And you wouldn't have given him the time of day if he wasn't in the top 1% so you're no better. I've been turned down for being short all my life, I'm 28 now, just getting into IT field. When I'm 35, I'm not gonna be chasing women. None of them would've given me a chance because of height, I'm not going to date them later because they like the money.
Part of the reason why things are not changing for the better is because of individualism, atomization of people. What you describe is part of the problem. In fact. We need to eliminate individualism and become a collective as we were pre wwII. This kind of change can only occur from the top down. Atomizing everyone guarantees nothing will improve
We as older more mature guys are a better fit because we dont need constant sex to be happy in our relationship. We wanna work our 9-5 jobs, come home to a well taken care of place to relax and recharge without getting yelled at and put down all the time and feel appreciated and taken care of. THAT'S all Men really want in my opinion with us guys in our 30s and 40s. Yet in todays modern world, GL with that ever happening!!
“ why don’t we acknowledge that none of this is working and do something about it?” Once again, the ladies seem to be late to the party. The men have absolutely begun doing something about it. Some of the men have opted out completely, and have decided to focus on themselves. Others have gotten passports. ✈️ The real question is: “what are the ladies going to do about it?”
Getting their dopamine fix, their attention on social media. Then 30s will be there and they will cry not knowing what went wrong. A generation rarely change without external pressure or something big. If you look at every generation they all went pretty much in their own way, staying in their own echo chambers till the next one took the scene. The only big changes were after every world war, where great changes were enacted out of necessity.
@@predwards8941 😂. I remember being a teenager in the 90s. That was most of my aunts. They were fun but deep down their miserable and always complaining unless drunk. They ruined their husbands who didn’t deserve any of it. And whene they were old, they became the most miserable on the planet. Complain and never cope. Just keep going down and drag them all down with them. Poor lazy used up women that we make jokes over.
Apparently sleep with the same few men they deem high value and complain that other men won’t date them or sleep with them after their body count reaches triple digits
The ones who actually show the ability for commitment (a big part of which is the ability to use reason and find compromise) are just "too nice" and "too boring"
@M L i gave a female friend of mine a place to stay for a few months when a lot of bad choices left her basically homeless. Caught feeling and was honest with her about it- she pretty much said "I don't want someone reliable because I don't want to rely on anyone" Felt like shit, realizing the person I was helping was treating my kindness with suspicion and resentment instead of having a shred of gratitude
@@gatergates8813 and worst part is since they lived there months they could very well common law marriage divorce rape you still. These broads need all their government benefits cut so they actually start appreciating what men do for them
I'm so turned off by the idea of dating, hell, HAVING a girlfriend at this point doesn't seem fulfilling or even exciting anymore, so all of this information is kinda already lost on me. I'm already burned out. Even if I met someone I thought could be the love of my life, I don't even think I could say anything to them without second guessing everything. I'm ready to be alone for the rest of my life and I don't see that as even remotely negative. I'm done.
Instead of demanding things from others demand from yourself and hold yourself to higher standards. The problem with people today is demanding a lot from others while holding yourself to the lowest standards.
The woman sitting next to Brian has made good points the entire time and very well spoken and then she said she was a conservative and that made me love her haha. I do think our generation and younger generations are almost hopeless.
That's not the root cause. The root cause is social media and brainwashing have made women have an inflated view of their own value. Average women don't think they're average women. They all think they're 10s. If they actually had a realistic view of themselves they'd settle for men near their actual status.
The smart blonde woman is saying that the norm needs to be a higher standard. That happens when it becomes normal to expect more. Sorry to get in the way of a hot take.
In her defense, it sounds like what she meant about "an average woman not settling for an average man" was convincing women not to be a 304 with any and every random guy who happens along.
@@PoperoniNews She wants to rediscover a new way, and so far she has come up with 'talking about why people should change'. Let's not pretend that she's some great person. Actually want to see effort beyond saying something is a problem before believing she is anything special.
I am a conservative Christian and I am doing what I can to push back against some of the trends by mentoring individual men, counseling some women, doing couples counseling and officiating at traditional weddings. I'm seeing a strong commitment to the good values that we need to create healthy relationships among the people I work with. We are likely to become very much a minority in the next few years, but the people I work with are creating happy relationships and good marriages, and they can be examples to others who want the same. While change will not come quickly, I believe that this is the way to real change to our society.
Who the fuck are you to declare to others how they should operate with their relationship? What special standing do you have to proclaim your way is the true and better. Relationships like Individuals have their own particularities. How much show of respect to those whose relationships that do not fit your standard ways but yet still hold?
As a women I want Protection Provision Love Respect Loyalty I’m willing to stay at home and raise my children and take care of my man if I can have all that. I’m willing to give Love Loyalty Emotional Support And most importantly RESPECT
Yea good luck finding the 10-15 percent of men who can afford it now. It's a nice thought but like the other guy said women wanting to be boss babes has destroyed the job market beyond repair.
Once a woman divorces, she is in line for the 'pump and dump life'. In time, they try to find someone to help them out in life. They had that in their husband, but feel they can do better to their detriment.
This is crazy, but I feel like a giant world war would do this world some good. Hard times create tough men. Today men are weak and women are self absorbed and are insanely privileged. If we take away some of our greatest comforts people will be forced to harden up.
@@lilhomiebro7539There are only two types people in this world, one that I want in my foxhole one that I don't. and with women, you gotta love them even when you hate them. Who do you look towards when you are in harms way.
I have never once even thought about using a dating app. We actually went out and met people and talk to them in person. Of course my life was better because I didn't have a piece of s*** cell phone glued to my hand.
she was okay till she said force average man to work even harder to please women even though they are. But these days even average women won't look at him like i'm sorry man are already doing their best but as women are increasing their standards i can see why man are leaving specially american man. Like i don't think women understand how hard it is to do a 6 figure job and than please your women like that amount mind as we'll make your own home in your job i know the tesla guy did he barely goes home. I just think if want man to work even harder than women needs to work even harder and not just going to the job and come home and not do anything cause all she knows is how to go to her job.
She said all men want is sex) i had a few girlfriends in the past an when they wanted sex an i was not in the mood. They got mad but if i wanted sex ) they say all you want is my body) or money) or buy them something) or no sex) i am an old man now ) going back to my roots) working out) no girlfriend ) its a little hard on me but starting to loose weight) but girls of today are spoiled ) stay single grow old an alone) bit______?ch
@@silviucat Lol what? Maybe for American women. I wouldn't use "world." That's why American women getting mad that men are going to Eastern countries for real women.
Without realizing the sanctity of merriege, this culture will not be better with long-term relationships. Relationships have to be valued more than individual egocentric happiness...
The moment sex was divorced from procreation and became solely about pleasure, was the moment marriage became eroded, and all of this degeneration started. Decades ago.
@@Dragblacker exactly. What is never mentioned in these discussions is what is sex FOR? Who benefits most from the social protection of marriage? Marriage has existed before all religions and before the modern state. It’s to bond a biological mother and father with their children and create a stable and lifelong commitment for further generations. The depths of individual narcissism and resulting confusion of modern society won’t change until people become more enlightened about the deep meaning behind traditional morality.
1-6 in a country where the population is over 375 million and they are 51% of the population so about 185 million that’s still a plethora of good women
@@jerellebowens4367 don't forget to subtract the ones married already, and the ones focusing on their career and a lot more. Oh yeah and location. This stuff all greatly diminish that number.
@@jerellebowens4367 Factor in height, weight, age, marital status, and general facial and body appearance. The amount of marriageable women gets pretty slim
It's men aren't allowed to have standards for women. And women's standards change per man, hence "boundries". If you didn't let so many men on the lawn, you wouldn't need to show them a crossing line.
@Abbey You personally know women like that, but what's the average? 🤔 unfortunately, the statistics say something else. Your girls are looking for giga Chad... if they wanted a good guy for marriage, there are already tons of us. Lol
I want a girl that doesn’t get love advice from hip hop music.
I think insta memes and whore group chats are a bigger influence
Best standard I've seen in a while.
Thank the Jews that saturated our culture with black culture via propaganda and the entertainment industry
Advice*
@@levigivens they’re probably Canadian
Good men don’t want just sex. Men want a loving caring supportive woman in their life
Those men are hard to find.
I choose to be singe because most men im attracted to are really nice but later show their trues colours.
Im no longer looking now because i cant deal with tempers anymore.
@@liveonce2102 then you have to open the door for other types of men. Sometimes you have to let someone in and let the attraction build. It takes more time that way but it can work. Not everyone can check every box. Sometimes you have to know when certain boxes are not important.
I consider myself a very good man. And at some point, I just want to throw the white flag and go be a fuck boy.
@liveonce2102 YOU only date the guys who look like GQ models. Men who want a loving partner look average. Sometimes short (5 foot 6). So you ignore them
@@liveonce2102how old are you?
3 Qualities of a good woman
1. Morality
2. Humility
3. Kindness
Girls today have lost that. You should come to Amsterdam, prostitution is legal here and the girls are gorgeous. Sure you pay her for the deed, but what's the difference with girls today? It's choosing to feed a 304, or you choose to not have the drama and get the same results.
If she can cook: Extra Credit!!!!!!!!!
Qualities that don't cost money on the women's part
loyalty is the only quality men need
The one quality that forms the foundation of those qualities is *self control*
That blonde girl is a breath of fresh air. She makes everyone else look so incredibly stupid it’s pretty hilarious
If she is true - she gives hope.
she is brain dead!
do you believe anything a woman says with confidence.
No, it just makes them seem hopeless.
Isabel Brown. I follow her Instagram
Their generation will wind up in middle age alone - and ultimately they will die alone, having only superficial relationships given the disintegration of the nuclear family. And demographic collapse across the West will be the doom of high civilization. Then it will be back to barbarism when things collapse.
Divorce laws need to change, before marriage rates return.
but they will not change and marriage will continue to dissapear
@@6lake. Print ups aren't worth the paper they're written on they're easily dismissed by court
The whole court system is built on the bias that women are always victims and men are always instigators to change it we'd have to change the whole justice system
If you take away mandatory alimony and child support you'd see a swift change of course when it comes to divorce.
They should have changed 20 years ago, and the fact they haven’t changed is indicative that there is no will to change anything.
its amazing how much more attractive she is over the rest of the table. happier, glowing. meanwhile, rest of the table looks gloom and pissed off/disconnected.
She's also extremely well-spoken compared to almost any other girl who has appeared on this podcast.
Despite the fact that she's dressed modestly.
@@USSResolute Despite?
Yet, even she despite her "tradcon" leanings speaks in egalitarian terms and fails to realize that she must enter a man's frame. If she the woman is setting the boundaries and dictating the terms of the relationship she by default becomes the leader and she loses any sexual interest she may have had in the beginning. This is actually quite common among so-called "traditional" women and they end up having a harder time finding lasting relationship than many of the more liberal women.
@@redwall1521 he's stating that most women think you have to show a lot to be attractive
This podcast is so much better when a young, very intelligent, articulate, young woman is there to school the dummies.
Bro wtf are you taking about, how are they all idiots? Did you watch this clip or the whole thing. She basically just jumped in at times to make herself seem intelligent while making condescending comments and smug looks at everyone. Seriously bro she's a huge narcissist. What's dumb is how she acted insanely rude to anyone who lives a non christian lifestyle but then flips it around and acts like a damn pharisee with how judgemental she is with her smug ass looks! Seriously how can you not see this. She's not intelligent she's power hungry and image obsessed
All of this shit goes back to Left/Right thinking. Leftist culture has taken over, and this is what the results are. They continue to miseducate everyone about false "patriarchy" claims and many other false things. They're making all sorts of groups feel entitled due to being victims in one way or another, and it's pitting us all against each other. This country will tear itself apart.
yet she still has blue hair
Not an old one though huh? Keep us old biddies at bay, yikes! Aging might be contagious!
@@arielhatch6492 Only because these girls are more likely to keep their ears open to a peer.
Finally, a girl with brains in this show!
There was also that Allie co host a while ago
i find it funny that women always say, “what if he leaves”… they skip over the 70-90% of women that leave and go straight to the 10-20% of men that do🙄
Most relationships that end are ended by women. 70-90% of the time.
Arent they always only concerned with what 10% of men are doing anyway?
This is where I paused the video to read comments cause it's already leaning for me. You can't be trying to propose a solution when you haven't even disected the issue. And the host keeps singing the lost blues forgetting this stats are specifically held and promoted in the West. The world has 3 other directions that do not agree.
@@kewthim this isn’t about the world, it’s about the modern situations in the United States.
@@Upbeat101Rhythm The west has dating influences that permeate modern culture all over the globe especially through world internet spaces like YT. So regardless, this is no longer just a "western" issue.
She keeps talking about the guys leaving but that's a small % of break ups. 75- 90% are the woman leaving committed relationships.
Yes. That is true but what she is talking about is while the couple is not married yet and the guy can just simply walk away. Seriously who wants a pain in the butt gf? I get the girl who wants to set up boundaries but if you are the top 1% who women are chasing after you get to dictate the terms and not the other way around. This is why the other chic is explaining to lower their expectations from men with regards to looks, height, money, and status.
@@BarnzTT yes that’s the entire point. Normally, it’s women leaving committed relationships…
When the woman wants the relationship but cannot obtain it, somehow that’s also the man’s fault 🤣🤣
Can’t have it both ways
They want the guy's that break up with them
@@BarnzTT Yeah this. I was prepared to offer my ex the holy trinity on the condition of her not becoming overweight, be more pleasant and not cut the hair too short. She couldn't commit to that so I left. That and her constant temper tantrums.
@@bhaines2209 it depends on the reason for leaving. women arent leaving simply initiating it and most of the time its a mutual break up as men tend to be lazier. that is a big factor too
Parents need to step back up and stop raising stupid, naive and entitled children and teach them values, rules and consequence.
“Get your self an average man” she forgot to add the part where most of the women are below the average man 😵💫
Exactly. What makes a woman think she’s above-average on the woman standards
That's the part I never understood.
I find it hilarious because in general women have no hobbies. I've had gfs give me the " ugh, you're just gonna do x or y all day?" And i'm always like yes, its called doing something you love. sorry to tell ya hun, but netflix and insta aren't hobbies. Go read a book or something lmao
@@anon7596 It is frustrating. Most of the women I have talked to only work and drink. They have no hobbies to speak of, but lament the fact I enjoy video games. God forbid I enjoy something interactive.
@@Albus_Rex Video games are awesome. My life wouldn't be complete if I didn't play Witcher 3, RDR2, Final Fantasy 7, Elden Ring and so many others.
Who would have guessed the confident, intelligent girl, with well researched, fact based points would be conservative!
I wonder if that had anything to do with the person hosting the panel 😂😂😂
To be fair we would see that from the left too if their opinions were well researched and based on facts😁
@@Crucial_End The left doesn't usually have research or facts tho. All of their opinions are based on emotions lol
I suppose. But super annoying!
Who is she?
I saw a woman sum it up really well once: a woman will say yes to her boss, yes to the police, yes to the garbage man when he says leave the trash out at 6am or it won't get taken. A woman will say yes to everyone except her husband.
I will take it a step further and point out that every example given about who women will comply with and their husband is that everyone else has authority over her, as in, _non-compliance has negative consequences,_ but a husband has no authority. The only consequences for disobeying a husband is a round of applause from the moment she says no to the moment she's on Tik Tok dancing to music to celebrate her divorce.
Women had two choices: depend on her man or depend on the government, now all she has is the government. No, she is never independent, she's propped up by gender quotas and diversity programs, and every other advantage women have because they're women.
A husband is no longer a necessity, he's a novelty.
Correct. Their life partners are their mothers, sisters, and BFF's. They see men as a host to parasitize.
I know I am but a tiny minority. My husband says all the women who are married to his work mates are like this. I'm not. In fact I am probably the opposite I say yes to my husband I love him so much. I just want him to be happy and he works so hard. If I can help him I will. By contrast other people around the community I'm less likely to be as amenable. I don't go out of the way to be unpleasant but I won't have folks making unreasonable demands from me. I have been told by hubby to try not to be so disagreeable so for him, I shut up. I did this test years ago about personality traits. It was one of those acronym things. It said I scored in only 4% of those who took the test. I didn't think that was particularly great but I have met other women like me so it can't be that rare. My family is everything to me. My children, my grandson and my husband are the most important people in my life and I just want to do everything I can to help them anyway that's possible out of my love and devotion. Maybe women like me are a rare bird but they exist. So if that is something you would want we are not unicorns - we are here so there's hope.
This kills the society.
Great observation. How does anyone have authority if there are zero consequences. Time to catch them cheating and dump them Biblically.
Because women have zero power over all these other men but have complete power, handed to them by law, over their husbands
This girl is so well spoken. And finally a panel that has a thought. Usually none of them have a brain. This is a much better podcast then other clips I’ve seen.
The point is that a mom has to be REALLY BAD for a dad to win custody
My dad fought tooth and nail to get my sister and I from my mom. Best thing to ever happen to me and I am forever great full ❤ my mom had 7 kids w 5 differen5 ppl and she lives ion the street as a bum 💔
i lost to my Sons mother who had 2 Domestic violence convictions and was a dating a drug dealer that got jailed.
so i mean.... yeah
There is really no good reason to get married when as a man the woman takes almost everything in a divorce along with alimony, child support .even if the wife cheats or gets sick of being married .
@@shaverdave3644 No, there's a ton of good reasons, when your partner is good. Cohabitating is a great environment to raise kids, way to save money towards common goals, etc. You can generally find good women to marry at a Church; but never at a club. Try something like Christian Mingles or Singles groups in your area.
I have heard one success story. It was because him and my coworker told the judge they were engaged and going to get married after the divorce was finalized.
I’m a married woman and the “all men just want sex” is a myth 😂
My ex would second your statement. 😅
It's kinda we all want sex but not all men want primarital sex. Also there is someone didn't want sex at all.
Lfmao, is that you my darling coz like I told you I had a headache.
Women really think we’re that shallow, y’all better wake up or y’all gonna be old cat ladies one day
I agree with you I'm a single dad and all I want a honest FAITHFUL SINGLE WOMAN Who wants me and refuses to let her self be manipulated by people just trying to drive a wedge between us a woman who doesn't lie about being single a woman who thinks she's so special that she gets a bunch of us guys to fight over her my honest opinion is iff she can't make up her own mind about what guy she really wants then maybe she doesn't have much of a mind to allow her self to be manipulated in the first place.
One place to start is stopping women from shaming other women for wanting to be moms and have a family, feminism is toxic like that and puts labels on women calling them 'pick me's and breeders' its disgusting and no one calls it out.
Being lesbian is a high rise with females today
Before that it has to start with upbringing. The average female 22 year old has more sexual experiences than a 35 year old man and it is tainting the relationship right from the start.
U mean woman on the internet that u dont even know… y do u care
@@clash8386 wydm? A extremely valid point was made in the OP. Hate to tell you but ppl on the internet exist in real life… 😱
The reverse must happen shame women who choose a role where its not benefitting society
Love has been taken out of the equation, I realised after so long that love is never part of these conversations is sad, relationships without love don't go anywhere.
Divorce laws need to be repealed
I second that
Agreed
Ronald Reagan gave us no-fault divorce.
Or you can just not get married. 😅😅😅
Divorce should be banned unless the couple have egregious physical abuse.
My wife left, I went to get child support from the court for our two kids she abandoned with me, I was looked at like the bad guy and was stonewalled the whole way. Never got child support, the court doesn’t care about the kids.
It's biased against men. That's the problem.
Stay strong man, you’re not alone
The pain and anguish are real no doubt, but you’ll find some grounding, maybe even a little peace in the fact that you’re nowhere close to alone. The court systems sh*** on men, fathers, and children en masse.
If you don’t believe me, dive head first into the research.
The worst of it has yet to come because she’ll come back and ask for forgiveness and you’ll be seen as the bad guy if you don’t let her back in
The courts work for Satan, Satan wants to destroy the family unit. What better way then to turn men and women against one another and destroy men who are the head of the household by robbing them blind in the courts.
When somebody says I just made a tik tok about it. Nothing she says is valid.
hahah exactly, I immediately turn my ears off.
What she said wasn't even that bad...
@@Raphael4722what? She agreed to him saying woman value high quality men . And then she start talking about woman needing to settle for average earning men. Since when was the debate about money? He is talking about average men
@@swizaytracks8196 Usually when people talk about high quality and low quality men, earnings are a big part of the equation. It's implied.
Props to the girl in pink, she’s at least trying in good faith
You just want to smash
You know, I'll give you that one. Thumbs up.
Yes. and that makes her more attractive than 95% of the rest of the female panel on that podcast.
Yeah, trying to hide her muffin top.
Who wouldve thought that the woman beautiful enough to have men hitting on her constantly has never wanted to sign up for a dating app.
Aren’t we destabilizing mankind with all of this pronoun lgbtq+ and this social media presence crap if anything I think social media desensitize us with these extreme expectations
It’s intentional, to depopulate the planet.
@Chad Abercrombie ?
@@pimpalamac3411 lmao I got a headache I’m scared to invest time with any female now a days 😂😂😂😂
Indeed. There are great disturbances in the Force.
There have always been LGBTQ people... what do you just want them back in the closet? The real difference today it seems to me is that they don't want to have to hide it.
I'm gen x and i have a fear that society is doomed. So much narcissism and lack of any idea of how deluded they are!
Gen x had a awesome childhood. These girls all think they are 10s when half of them can't even count to 10!
James I've done my best to give my sons a gen x style childhood, education, and values. I hope there are more gen x parents that have done this. Secondly, the three decades of degrading and de-valuing anything male is bearing the poison fruit. This is likely why Jordan Peterson's message has resonated so much with gen z men.
I bet only one girl on the panel can spell narcissism... or even get close
They can spell Onlyfans.
Half can't even define oppression and cannot say the average income
They took ✝️ out and replaced it with 🌈
The girl on the left gives me huge hope for the future, she's grounded, realistic and logical ,do we need more like her or what
she was until....the 4:00 minute mark....they her demands skyrocketed.......into FU.....now she's being unrealistic...
She was okay at the start. Then she got into the whole "women shouldn't settle for average men".
@@Raphael4722 Should they settle for average men? I don't see guys here talking about settling for average women either.
@@carolinaterri3569 Average people should date average people. The fact that you see this as "settling" is the problem.
If men decide they only want to date supermodels and women decide they only want to date millionaires, we will just end up with a lot of bitter, lonely people.
@@Raphael4722 I'm not disputing that. Given the conversation, I took it as not settling as meaning in behavior. As in don't settle for someone without the highest integrity, values, etc. She was directing it towards girls that would settle for a wealthy, good-looking scumbag who's hollow inside. I may be off base in her intention. Without relighting to it, I thought that she was speaking on issues such as setting boundaries early in a relationship, etc.
🎉 So the man has to raise the whole family, get divorced, and then pay the woman's way who probably filed it... simptastic
Watching Kermits wife talk about getting an average guy almost as a consolation prize makes me sick to my stomach.
She's a 9 or 10 in her own mind.
I think that was an accident judging by the rest of the things she said. Poor articulation rather than meaning. They need to pin down what is meant by average guy before they talk... But then again, women aren't used to sticking to an idea in a debate.
These girls had weak fathers... that's why they are like this now... the look on their face you are seeing is pure ignorance.. they really don't know... that they don't know... and one of these women is going to be the mother of your children?....NA
Ms piggy lol
@@CiroMastino you solved the riddle!! 👏
100% social media and dating apps have ruined relationships.
Guns don't shoot people. People shoot people.
Social media..likewise...does nothing, its just code in memory.
It's People who ruin peoples lives.
And birth control. And feminism. perfect storm of fail. The world is covered with patriarchies for a reason: *ALL* matriarchies went extinct.
No the law did. The workforce did. Men are broke women are rich. Men struggle to get a job worth working that isn't hard labor. And unless they really need that crappy job they won't work either. I rather die than comply to feminism.
Make sense bro it should be regulated before it’s too late
Ruined men and women in America
As a very recent single father with 2 children, who had their mother go mental due to social media after 7 years of marriage, I can say single parent life and I don’t need a husband, is a very toxic behavior that is destroying marriages.
It's always someone elses fault lol, what a looser. No way she left you because you're a wothless trash :D
We are a species that is out of equilibrium with the world. We constantly need oxygen, water, food, and shelter. We are hard wired to never be satisfied and always wanting more. Which is why philosophy and religious meaning is post hoc attempt to overcome what can’t be overcome.
Social media apps have turned this desire for more to 11. Chiefly as they are designed to sell us target adverts for our psychology. But you can always see how your friend has so much more than you, but you see it from thousands of people. But everybody is crafting these amazing profiles, and stories, but they are often lies and fictitious. Being fictions you get to craft your own story and be the hero in your own life from the oppressive world. So sub communities pop up. Which is why I think there is such a “reality crisis” with things like transgenderism. People going down crafted rabbit holes and start to revel against reality itself.
Now we have generative AI, which will only exacerbate this. Push people down ideological biases. Yet, at the same time will be able to say “create me the next Star Wars movie but staring Danny Divito and they find Earth”. Parts of that can already happen with AI poorly but in 10-20 years it will be a reality. Then watch the atomisation kick in, and talking about obvious things like like biological sex will seek easy. People will get lost in AI dreaming and be arguing about who the fuck knows.
This civilisation is lost. We lost our values, and let companies control us, over the weirdest of things advert revenue. The dystopia is now.
Sorry bro
Scary times we are living in
Children from single mother homes are statistically more likely to be criminals or homeless.
Children from single father homes are statistically in line with a two parent household.
Women NEED a husband. Well, the child does so that they don't grow up screwed up. 😂
I wish there was a law that every time a person uses the word "like", they get a slap. This way any conversation may become slightly more bearable.
😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏
😂😂😅😅 Let's start a petition
The problem with a woman "setting boundaries" after she's given several men free and open access to her body is that she's not setting boundaries out of any sort of real virtue or dignity, but rather as a desperate attempt to force someone into commitment.
Any quality man recognizes that and will never think of her as wife material.
A real man can forgive a woman if they have also lived a hard life where both have had a change of heart to the destructive lifestyle and are better off for it.
@@slipstreambro bartender here. The women who gives boundaries to their partners are the same girl who hook up with me at workplace who beg for me to cum in em or fck em with no protection. Only the schmucks are given boundaries. My colleagues and i are the ones laughing at those shmucks
Those "boundaries" = "have more money". Human relationships are not about money
@@slipstreambro wrong. Real man avoid rotten eggs because he knows those are not good for you
they are Chad widows
Finally a woman on this show who is smart and respects herself
lol maybe we will verify her past and see how she respected herself and how smart she was. cos majority of them today is fake like all women are, and they parrot what men told about women. that way they play unicorns. cos finding good woman is less probable than hiting 6 in lotto. cos we all hear about good women on internet, but nobody can verify that. where we never seen any good woman in real life, i never met one in 46 years, not my mother, not my sister and not all whores i was with. and not all women i met who were with somebody, over time truth comes out they just hide that better. same as dna ancestry tree test in recent decade show how much they were whoring, after all its oldest profession in world. even in bible jesus forgives all sins to prostitute. and today we have tikthot, instahoes and onlyfans to verify every whore in world, or simply IRS. what kind of parasite she is, less or extreme. cos they all are privileged and only bring loss
Watch it not be talked about lmao
We've had a couple woman like that on this show, but few and far between
Lordy, she is one of the only women on this podcast I have seen that can string a coherent sentence together.
Could it be that these girls are not professional speakers and purposely placed on this circus of show to make them out to be dullards? I'm sure if we placed a camera on you in the same setting you could be made to be a fool by the charlatan who hosts this shit show devoted to finger wagging moralism.
That's why they ask her to repeat herself 😂😂
@@m.h.f3350I can’t “like” this more than once and that’d sad.
so what? truth is she can ruin your life in 5 minutes with zero evidence, same as she can change in 5 minutes cos she will stop acting. thats why there should be no oscars for women. they acting whole life since birth. everything about them is a lie. bait & switch and ruin your life for her benefits
I know right. She hit the genetic/upbringing jackpot.
Dude, you've found the perfect co-host. Wow. If you let her walk out of there without a contract, you're out of your mind.
She's a paid actor
@@whiteviper1979 nah that is what you Dems use for everything... That girl had conservative morals and common sense. Two things people on the left cant stand.
I agree, 100%.
@whiteviper1979 you obviously have a personal problem with Isabel....care to explain why?
@@whiteviper1979 so?
I'm almost 60 and I can assure you that when I was in college in the 80's there was PLENTY of hook-up culture and drunken parties were all the rage. I think what has changed is the over-abundance of options.... when you have an entire candy store how could you possibly pick one piece and be content with that? In the past we didn't have the Internet and limitless right-swiping... we either settled down in a relationship or ended up alone. I think it's more a byproduct of the Internet age than anything specific to this generation.
Nah, look at the music, look at the shows, the media, basically everything perpetuates this whole “you’re perfect be yourself have fun don’t settle” bullshit people are dumber and they think they’re special when they are not, they’re unique but we’re not special, and people need to get that through their heads
What changed is I’m sure after college when you were that age people were hit harder with the real world and bringing hookup culture into their post-college years wasn’t really a viable option if they wanted to succeed.
It’s a lot easier now to bring that into post college years because there’s very little pressure to go out and get a job, your own place, start a business, etc. a lot of people graduate college and still live the same party life, they just have a job instead of classes.
I mean you've been living under a rock because for the last decade woman have been taught through media, the news, the education systems that the guys that were around when you were in college are toxic and undesirable. These new generation woman have all the role models and classes in schools telling woman whats supposedly wrong with womens rights and how to fix it. Nothing for the men, we just get told that we're toxic. We're expected to only get the attention from our girl, we can't advertise ourselves at all. But all these woman can go out with only nipple and pussy covers. You can't tell them to put more clothes on to respect you because you know other men will look, but you also can't be asked to protect her either when the time comes.
A big issue is the general breakdown of the family. A very large % of Gen Z are not being raised within a family where their biological mother and father are married and all their siblings are full brothers and sisters. To even say that is the best and safest place for children to be raised is considered radically traditional, “heteronormative” and basically expecting too much. Many young people have NO immediate role models of stable, lifelong marriage. They don’t see it in media, it’s not a social expectation. Most aren’t religious don’t go to church/synagogue/ temple so don’t receive that message anywhere. As a result they are very lost and have no idea how to form a relationship and then sustain it. Instead of being taught how to have a healthy relationship and prioritize it they are told making money, getting an education and having career are always way more important. They are very unhappy and confused and the reason why the “wellness” industry has exploded. Gen Z are looking for comfort and peace from somewhere.
@mnn1265 I would agree that the over abundance of options hasnt helped. However the wild parties in your day werent as well documented and people certainly werent discussing what happeben to their partners they settled with
Also with that lifestyle being more accepted and less hush hush, people figure why settle when society doesnt look down on me for casual sexual interactions
When she says women dating are unhappy they are all sitting there with frowns and not saying otherwise.
This one of the most rational discussions I've ever heard on RUclips
10 years ago womens tinder profiles were maybe 1% polyamorous. Right now its gotta be 10-15%. Women are absolutely sharing men.
All women do. It’s evolutionary nature. Ancient scriptural texts talk about that. Are you only just now realizing? Females only want to mate with the top male, so they harem around him in hopes of getting him. They care nothing about all other men
Yes, and they’re ok with that as long as the man is high value to them
Don’t let a woman convince you she is innocent
Many women are fine with sharing very high value men, and always have been. In fact, that's exactly why societies break down as too many young men not having sex is a recipe for disaster. We've spent millennia trying to figure out how to mitigate it, and Christianity does deserve a lot of credit for making monogamous fidelity paramount and sacred in a functional Western society. Men truly are disposable, just from a practical standpoint. It's why the idea of a patriarchy as always domineering over women is so laughable. Why exactly is it men do all the crazy, brilliant, amazing and terrible things we do? Oh right... Women...🙄😏
Only idiotic women. No women with any self-respect.
That’s a vast underestimate
"Get yourself an average male." Even when they start to somewhat agree they sound condescending af.
Especially considering that in my opinion, only 2 females at the table have even a small claim to above average.
"Yeah, you're an average woman (at best). Why would you think you deserve someone better than yourself?"
@victor Silva for real. Their egos are so inflated. The world is their oyster now…just a matter of time for reality to seep in.
I think women are extremely sophisticated at being condescending they maintain plausible deniability while simultaneously devaluing
@@paulw5039 because the simps ruined s**t for everyone.... and they know, the younger men are, the simp-ier they are
I lost IQ points listening to these woman try to think.
I became temporarily impotent listening to that verbal chaos
You guys are lucky, I have aids now that I heard those vagina carrying lifeforms try and utter words
That was painful to watch
Happens when they think feeling = thinking 😂
@@oxithius_official only temporarily? Mine is now broken bro
Try and count the number of times the word " like " is said. Crazy.
“A woman who is not loved is like a kite from which the string has been removed. She bloweth with the wind and cometh to a great fall.” - Socrates
What about a woman who is not lovable?
"A woman who is not lovable is like a scalding hot cast iron skillet, he who clutches onto her burneth the sh!t out of his soul."
For people who are generally healthy and able, there is nothing harder than being a woman no one wants to love
What’s funny is the chubby girl is the only one talking about dating average men, and the rest give her the stank eye because they’re too wrapped up in their own self-images and onlyfans 😭😭😭
Later on chubby girl goes on to say her body count is in the high 200s
Which ones the chubby girl?
@@michaelmurphy6224 She means the pink coat chubby one, she does indeed say she has 200+ body count and did 6 guys separately 1-by-1 from tinder all in one night (one hour timeslots). If she's not exaggerating it's rather disgusting. Brian later points out a guy of her level would not be able to achieve that (in trying to point out that women control access to s*x and thus determine hookup culture). I think he lets the men off too easy though (guys COULD withhold from women especially given all the technological advancements in ways to deal with it solo) and those men need to be roasted for sleeping with easy women too, what idiots put it in that STD ridden hole when there are perfectly good clean ways to deal with it solo, without giving attention to these terrible women who won't learn until the attention stops. We need them to learn MUCH sooner so then word spreads to the younger generations to NOT do what they are doing.
@@TexanIndependence people
Have causal sex, they have for centuries. Grow up, you absolute child
She's tapped out and hitting the wall. The carousel ride is over and she wants some basic dude to handle the baggage. It's not some noble respectable decision she is being realistic though at the very least. Some women pile on the baggage and think they can raise their standards because "they know what they want".
Wow… a young woman who doesn’t say “like” 400 times… and offering the obvious solution that no one can grasp or admit to.
The most trite word ever. 'like'. OMG, Please stop with this. The lack of skill with speaking is overwhelming.
The only way to disincentivize divorce is to remove all access to cash and prizes while creating a 50/50 shared custody of the children. NO alimony and NO child support.
MAGA girl is correct. Men don't just want Sex; Men also want love & relationship. Men only use 304 for sex but they are willing to spend time & energy to develop a long term relationship on High Quality woman they respect & love.
maybe because theese street girls can only offer sex and nothing else
Exactly
This is why most women don't understand men. They think men (at least the bad boys they are attracted to) just want women for s3x, but in reality most men want love/relationships, but the women don't give those guys a chance, because they aren't attracted to them for being too nice/good, etc.
Yes but the issue is on both sides it’s to say one side shouldn’t do this, reality men and women should be better both should know when to say no. Instead some would rather be weak controlled by people or by their own biological impulses.
@@Dionysus_Athenaagreed men are just as guilty. Men nowadays are weak willed and will sleep with anything and not be willing to walk away from women. Women desire and respect men that don't fall under their spell. That is the bottom line a women will be down bad for a man that has integrity and cannot be manipulated.
One day I decided I wanted to try to find a good Christian girl I didn’t know much about Christianity at this point this was a year and a few months ago and she is a virgin, she is more pure than any woman I’ve ever met and what not. However she still had a lot of things that we worked through together same thing here with me. She has helped me grow so much more than I would’ve ever expected and I’m super thankful for that. She has also helped me get closer to the Lord and I am now a Christian man who trusts and believes in the Lord and tries to live righteously. I am not a virgin but when I met her I decided I was going to not have sex with her til we get married and I stuck with that and today is her bridal shower and our relationship is just absolutely incredible. Like I said we have ups and downs but we work through them and it’s just amazing. That’s a real woman right there and she has helped me become a more real pure man. She helped me overcome porn addiction. She helped me overcome so much I never thought I’d give up. Thank you Jesus!!! I am 23 and she is 21 as of today.
As long as you don't remove "real pure man" out of your vocabulary, a man is still a man. Many times a woman will try to transcend the man she has in her presence, it happens everyday. Sounds like a good thing you have going on.
@@unclefaya I agree 100%. I’m not trying to say I’m a pure man because no one is 100% pure. We all make mistakes. But we try to learn and improve from the mistakes we make. Constant growth is what we should all be encouraged to have.
Well done man!
Always treat her with dignity and respect. It sounds like she deserves it. And in doing so, you will continually earn it as well. Congrats!
@@wildmanwildfire9828 the Palestine train derailment happened in a town called Palestine Ohio. Palestine is the Holy Land in the Bible. As soon as the Euphrates River dried up which is in Turkey the Turkey earthquake happened which has killed around if not more than 50,000 people. Literally as soon as it dried up. I used to not take Christianity seriously either because I loved to have sex with everyone and their mother, I loved smoking weed and watching porn and stealing and dealing drugs. But that way of life did not work. It never did. Being a Christian and trusting in Jesus is the only thing that has worked in my life. If I didn’t decide to go on Christian mingle i would’ve never met my fiancé soon to be wife in June, if I did not decide to trust in Jesus man my life would still be a disaster. But I am living on my own, I was in the foster system since I was 6 and aged out and have been on my own for a few years however I got adopted by lovely people despite being 23 years old the other day. I still live on my own but I have legal family now. My fiancé and her family do so much for me. Don’t get me wrong things sometimes still don’t go right as we all go through stuff but things are much better and Jesus is really blessing me. The bad things that do happen are tests to see if I will trust in Jesus or rely on my own self. Plus I have a video about the number 333 🙏 Maybe you’ll find that intriguing. The Bible is literally being proven true day by day.
I'm not used to seeing any girls on this show that can construct a sentence. Kudos to her for even knowing what a study is, let alone memorizing anything other the names of the Kardashian sisters.
Yeah this was definitely the best panel to date that I've seen, the others have largely been catastrophes!
Still she demand that men need to make more money
😂 “…the name of the Kardashian sisters” 😆
Thanks for the shoutout, man. (Talking about him saying some listeners are Chads) Haha.
She is SO RIGHT, and all of those girls on that panel, except the other blonde speaking common sense, are all so clueless. They come off as statues, like they have NO IDEA how to engage in a conversation. It is truly heart breaking.
She's a feminist demon in a maga skin suit.
It’s not heartbreaking it’s annoying.
I thought the girl with orange hair WAS a doll until she finally moved.
@@alderaancrumbs6260 It's both heartbreaking & annoying. 👍
That's probably because their idea of a conversation is making plans to go for free food/drinks/movies/entertainment and then sexting to make sure the guy doesn't flake till they get their free-crap or sexting with only fan followers for tips, like any "phone s*x" worker except.... digital-via-texting.
One girl stated that she didn't think any previous Generation was happy either, but I beg to differ with her. Being a child brought up in the 70's and 80's I was extremely happy and most any I have talked too brought up during that time says " what a great time it was to be a child ". It was a totally different time than what is going on now and I believe most of the problem is social media. We now have a culture that everyone has an opinion about everything and they know nothing about what they are giving their opinion on. The sad thing is you would not listen to most of these people if they gave you their opinion in real life but once its on the internet everyone jumps on the band wagon, even major corporations change their whole business model around the ones who whine!
Correct, society incentivizes narcissistic behavior and the worst types of people are the ones being listened to
Children are generally happy, provided they have decent parents. Adults, not so much.
There's also a paradox with happiness and "civilisation". The more evolved and complex a society, the more unhappy people tend to be. But it's almost impossible for those people to then go live some Amish life. It's like a heroin addict trying to go clean. Also, self-reported happiness surveys are almost meaningless.
Their opinions can be valued at the same rate as your comment which isn't necessarily verbose but it is lengthy.
I have seen so many un happy people in my entire life and I am 56 years old
@Long John Thilver I doubt people were happy about Jim Crow and segregation 💀 and then slavery before that, and then being harassed by the British before that💀
As a society we've been conditioned to seek someone who 'checks all the boxes all the time' and that's not realistic. It's impossible to create perfect relationships from imperfect people. But that's not reason enough to leave. Love and commitment are conscious decisions made every day even when the 'feeling' isn't there. We as a society need a rewiring to understand that you don't fall in love you choose to love. Every. Damn. Day
Or worse- that you should leave a relationship because you don't "love" each other anymore. Do people really not understand that emotions change? I think you should leave a relationship if you are **indifferent** towards your partner- if you don't care about them at all. But if you love them or hate them or feel any kind of emotion at all towards them... chances are those emotions will fluctuate over time. Furthermore, it's not your partner's responsibility to make you feel a certain way. You above all others have the most control over your own emotions. You should know how to make yourself happy. If you aren't happy- relationship or not- it's your fault.
Blaming your relationship for your unhappiness is like blaming a fast food restaurant for the food you ordered. You chose what to eat. The restaurant has so much less control over how happy YOU are with the food than you do.
I abhor the phrase 'fall in love'. Do you 'fall in anger'? 'Fall in jealousy'? 'Fall in resentment?' There are plenty of things that can trigger these emotions, but you are not helpless against them. You get to decide how you handle love, anger, jealousy and resentment. The only time they control you is when you let them. The choice to be emotional and irresponsible is still a choice.
Imagine if a murderer plead, "I'm sorry your honor, I fell in anger with the victim." How insane would that be if we then said, "Oh, okay, that makes sense. You are blameless. We'll charge the victim's family and make them pay for the emotional damage you suffered."
@@TrenchcoatJesus 100%
As a society you need to throw affirmative action in the fire pit . Your holding down men by government law!!!!!!!! Such bullshit
I was once told when I was younger that if you were to find the person that checks all the boxes you might not check all of their boxes.
100%. Add that 'do what's best for you' stuff that's targeted towards women, instead of 'you need to fix your marriage'.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman on this podcast make sense... shocker she’s right leaning! Give her a medal 🥇
There’s a lot more right leaning people with common sense then this show depicts
Dunno Kaiser Wilhelm on the right there is usually mute and considered the smartest they’ve had on the show because of it
It's refreshing to hear a young woman with a strong realistic attitude.
Yeah she won all our hearts in under sixty seconds. Impressive.
@@jscal1 Or maybe you just don't want to change anything lol? The reality is, that men want to have sex and prefer to have women be loose like they are now.
@@jscal1 I don't know that her expectations are properly summed up that way. She's saying that we have to commit to moving forward... doing work to claw our way out. She's showing how the process works by rejecting defeatism, bringing up ideas, and discussing them. And of course she's exactly right.
She's right. We lose our right to complain about the cesspool when we complain that we're so contaminated by it, that there's no worth in gradually removing ourselves and others from it. One person at a time got us into this mess. It's one person at a time that removes us from it. It's going to take generations.
Hard find sometimes it’s just pretending
I was friends with the girl in pink when we were in highschool like several years ago, she’s actually very sweet and intelligent.
She seems like a good go to person for advice.
I like that she was willing to hear other perspectives and wasn't just ignorantly arguing her point of view. Can actually respect that at least.
@@WhatTheWHAT524 she is a pretty cool and humble person from my experiences with her!
@@joepepenyc actually yeah, considering she’s been through a lot, owns up to her mistakes, and is willing to listen/include different perspectives.
Yeah, I liked her too.
The divorce law are the problem.
Also all of the anti male laws, fired or even arrested for compliments , life ruined on a false accusation, women consenting to sex then the next day saying you are a rapist because 1 stinking drop of alcohol touched her lips.
@@doug1863 or the whole cultural war against men
No fault divorce makes marriage meaningless.
Marriage laws are the problem. If people want to have a religious ceremony and live a religious lifestyle, that's their business and the government should not be involved.
Are they a problem? Sure but that's not THE problem..Divorce is and the fact that's It's so common and widely accepted. Your comment is a testament to that mindset
At this point, I dont think women have any power to demand anything anymore. We're the ones causing the decline, and we're the ones that will decide when it ends.
Good luck to them
The conservative girl is attractive in every sense of feminine classification. As a daughter, sister, partner then wife, mother and grandmother to be. More power to you. You are in for a good life.
Njah just wolf in sheeps clothing or how did you miss that she demands men to make more money
Grifter
@@lifemocker85 She has high standards yes, but at least she can afford to. You're probably not gonna find a smart, attractive, and feminine woman to be your wife if you're one of the brokees, sorry bro. The fact is, men need to get better. Do better and be the best man you can be. That's how you'll find a better woman.
@@Baalaaxa money doesnt make anybody better
@@lifemocker85 well as a Man my personal nature is to always be bettering myself and and providing better for my family, a good women keeps that going. you could say a good women needs know how to wield her Man.
We all want the same things ultimately but most people look for the right things in the wrong places. My 29-year-old husband and I (27) have 3 young children, a below-average income, and I homeschool while he works outside of the home. We married at 22 out of college and the military. It's tough most days but we are sublimely happy. Jesus is our answer. No external circumstance is bigger than God.
You get an A+ at life
Homeschooling your kids is superhero tier work.
Christ is King!
More blessings your way 🙏
You're choosing to give this world the benefit of the doubt. Anyone who is paying attention knows these women want bad things that a moral woman would not want
Amen! God bless you and your family! ❤
orange hair girl gives the impression "if you arent talking to me, or about me, im not listening"
solipsism.
She and her boyfriend are rather unsocial so no wonder.
Trust me as someone who has a mother and sister who are red heads it almost comes with the hair color.
Most of the women on there look like they have the personality of a wet mop.
ASPD
This was one of the most respectful and impactful segment of this podcast. There really was a lot of listening and valid points talked about.
We as men are REAL easy to please. Support and Love us, bang us, and feed us. You have no idea how much we would do for our women if those things were met. Like we’d do ANYTHING for our women if those things were met.
I'm a Man & amen. Idk how to cook at all but I'm extremely lonely. No woman has ever loved me romantically or sexually at all...yet. Hope that changes.
Women also need to focus on generally being super nice & pleasant to be around.
💯
Bingo there brother. Ain’t hard to keep a man happy at all. Empty balls a full belly and a clean house is about it
Well said 👍
AMENNN
I think college just ended up breeding infantilized adults. If both men and women worked towards building their character, integrity and virtues and in turn looking for someone who is honorable, honest, and has a good character, that would help alot. Hookup culture is like leaving children without any structure to run amock, eat all the candy you want, sleep whenever, and act like discipline and structure is a party pooper. Then they start to feel the consequences of it and say no that isn't why we have cavities and tummy aches. For the people who can't wrap their head around Jesus but are all open to energy and vibes and manifestations, manifest this: what if you valued honesty, integrity, hard work, compassion, loyalty, faith and resourcefulness as much as you do looks, cars, and whatever else you use to pick a partner, how would that go? And in turn what if you valued it for yourself first and worked toward that. Maybe if you went out and took your own very existence seriously maybe you could see that even with a high body count these could be the keys to being an amazing person and finding and amazing partner.
Words of wisdom
Jesus hasn't solved anyone problems, maybe you need faith to be a better person, but that's still you. Imaginary friends shouldn't be how we structure ourselves, pretend men in the sky or anyone's messiah isn't effective in reality. Jesus hasn't fed me when I was hungry nor housed me when I was homeless, I had to go about things myself, christ is for the delusional.
Oh boohoo, Most humans wanna fk these days, Isn’t that our primal instincts? Don’t blame college lmao, blame God for developing our own species
As if the pressure on men to build their character isn't higher and more intense. That's the point. Men aren't even told they have a choice. It's do do do, achieve achieve achieve or you're a piece of shit. If a woman is lazy or doesn't improve herself she's just a poor depressed angel. But hey men are equipped for it and I'm proud that I can carry the world on my shoulders without a complaint
Agreed and you said it perfectly 👏👏❤️❤️
Brian is really needs a stable co host. The best debates are most definitely when he has someone to bad cop and control the flow of the conversation
Totally agree. The constant negating of the conservative girls points just kills the momentum. I want to like this podcast, I think it has great potential, but Brian honestly drags it down with his immaturity and lack of charisma/timing.
Definitely agree
Thanks Rollo.
Yep, this guy is decent but a little too docile, he needs someone that will hold some of these girls' feet to the fire (the ones that try to take control of the show with their energy). They need a Myron to let the unruly guests know their place.
I was 21 when I started dating my now husband, who was 35 at the time. He’s an exceptional human being who busted his ass to get where he is now. We’ve been married 11 years in September. He’s in the top 1% and I’m so thankful to the women who wouldn’t give him the time of day because he wasn’t 6’.
Sounds like a blessed man
And you wouldn't have given him the time of day if he wasn't in the top 1% so you're no better. I've been turned down for being short all my life, I'm 28 now, just getting into IT field. When I'm 35, I'm not gonna be chasing women. None of them would've given me a chance because of height, I'm not going to date them later because they like the money.
We need more women like that.
the biggest positive trait here is the ability to self-reflect. No huge ego.
We can't change things as a society without changing things as individuals first.
Part of the reason why things are not changing for the better is because of individualism, atomization of people. What you describe is part of the problem. In fact. We need to eliminate individualism and become a collective as we were pre wwII. This kind of change can only occur from the top down. Atomizing everyone guarantees nothing will improve
We as older more mature guys are a better fit because we dont need constant sex to be happy in our relationship. We wanna work our 9-5 jobs, come home to a well taken care of place to relax and recharge without getting yelled at and put down all the time and feel appreciated and taken care of. THAT'S all Men really want in my opinion with us guys in our 30s and 40s. Yet in todays modern world, GL with that ever happening!!
When women set standards that are so too high or unachievable .. we say why bother?
This "MODERN WORLD" is messed up in EPIC PROPORTIONS🤦🏾🚶🏾♂️
FUBAR
The modern world is definitely fine. Lol. The west however is gay
f@cked beyond the recognition
“ why don’t we acknowledge that none of this is working and do something about it?”
Once again, the ladies seem to be late to the party. The men have absolutely begun doing something about it.
Some of the men have opted out completely, and have decided to focus on themselves. Others have gotten passports. ✈️
The real question is: “what are the ladies going to do about it?”
Getting their dopamine fix, their attention on social media.
Then 30s will be there and they will cry not knowing what went wrong.
A generation rarely change without external pressure or something big. If you look at every generation they all went pretty much in their own way, staying in their own echo chambers till the next one took the scene.
The only big changes were after every world war, where great changes were enacted out of necessity.
Double down and become “the cool drunk aunt”
@@predwards8941 😂. I remember being a teenager in the 90s. That was most of my aunts. They were fun but deep down their miserable and always complaining unless drunk. They ruined their husbands who didn’t deserve any of it. And whene they were old, they became the most miserable on the planet. Complain and never cope. Just keep going down and drag them all down with them. Poor lazy used up women that we make jokes over.
Adopt a cat and become a Karen?
Apparently sleep with the same few men they deem high value and complain that other men won’t date them or sleep with them after their body count reaches triple digits
Boom! Brian telling the ladies ‘Maybe women shouldn’t give it up to easily. Only to guys who make a commitment’.
The ones who actually show the ability for commitment (a big part of which is the ability to use reason and find compromise) are just "too nice" and "too boring"
@@gatergates8813 yet they put all guys into friendzone and say no 99% of the time when asked out. Yet it the whores who say yes when asked out.
@@gatergates8813 exactly. Unfortunately it's not as "exciting" to be responsible and reliable
@M L i gave a female friend of mine a place to stay for a few months when a lot of bad choices left her basically homeless. Caught feeling and was honest with her about it- she pretty much said "I don't want someone reliable because I don't want to rely on anyone"
Felt like shit, realizing the person I was helping was treating my kindness with suspicion and resentment instead of having a shred of gratitude
@@gatergates8813 and worst part is since they lived there months they could very well common law marriage divorce rape you still.
These broads need all their government benefits cut so they actually start appreciating what men do for them
I'm so turned off by the idea of dating, hell, HAVING a girlfriend at this point doesn't seem fulfilling or even exciting anymore, so all of this information is kinda already lost on me.
I'm already burned out. Even if I met someone I thought could be the love of my life, I don't even think I could say anything to them without second guessing everything. I'm ready to be alone for the rest of my life and I don't see that as even remotely negative. I'm done.
Instead of demanding things from others demand from yourself and hold yourself to higher standards. The problem with people today is demanding a lot from others while holding yourself to the lowest standards.
She is the most well spoken woman ever on this show.
The woman sitting next to Brian has made good points the entire time and very well spoken and then she said she was a conservative and that made me love her haha. I do think our generation and younger generations are almost hopeless.
“I’m a huge monogamist at heart.”
Womanese translation: “I only have trains ran on me on the weekends”
Men like sex though and that’s all most men want
Telling an average woman to not settle with an average man is pure 5tupidity
That's not the root cause. The root cause is social media and brainwashing have made women have an inflated view of their own value. Average women don't think they're average women. They all think they're 10s. If they actually had a realistic view of themselves they'd settle for men near their actual status.
The smart blonde woman is saying that the norm needs to be a higher standard. That happens when it becomes normal to expect more. Sorry to get in the way of a hot take.
When an average woman believes she's a 10 and a great catch, it's hard for them to escape from their delusions unless something drastic happens.
@@foncywoolsocksiii923 right when we are actually better cause a womans emotions is more stress then it's worth
In her defense, it sounds like what she meant about "an average woman not settling for an average man" was convincing women not to be a 304 with any and every random guy who happens along.
It's very worrying that a man's value is placed solely on monetary things...instead of character, integrity, and honor or Sense of duty.
Wow! That blonde is soo well informed.
Well she's also trying to control who people can have sex with lol
No doubt she learned from her past mistakes. Women like this are no less damaged than the rest, they are just better at hiding it.
She probably still has her father in her life for one.
@@PoperoniNews She wants to rediscover a new way, and so far she has come up with 'talking about why people should change'.
Let's not pretend that she's some great person. Actually want to see effort beyond saying something is a problem before believing she is anything special.
I am a conservative Christian and I am doing what I can to push back against some of the trends by mentoring individual men, counseling some women, doing couples counseling and officiating at traditional weddings. I'm seeing a strong commitment to the good values that we need to create healthy relationships among the people I work with. We are likely to become very much a minority in the next few years, but the people I work with are creating happy relationships and good marriages, and they can be examples to others who want the same. While change will not come quickly, I believe that this is the way to real change to our society.
Who the fuck are you to declare to others how they should operate with their relationship? What special standing do you have to proclaim your way is the true and better. Relationships like Individuals have their own particularities. How much show of respect to those whose relationships that do not fit your standard ways but yet still hold?
As a women I want
Protection
Provision
Love
Respect
Loyalty
I’m willing to stay at home and raise my children and take care of my man if I can have all that.
I’m willing to give
Love
Loyalty
Emotional Support
And most importantly RESPECT
LOL. Nice one, y'all would love to go back to being "traditional" now that you've ruined the job market and it's unfeasible for most couples.
@@joschmo4497 I’ve always been traditional but yes, I agree…many have fallen for the Marxist propaganda unfortunately.
Yea good luck finding the 10-15 percent of men who can afford it now. It's a nice thought but like the other guy said women wanting to be boss babes has destroyed the job market beyond repair.
Too late. Go to work
Once a woman divorces, she is in line for the 'pump and dump life'. In time, they try to find someone to help them out in life. They had that in their husband, but feel they can do better to their detriment.
You can thank the public school system for this.
This is crazy, but I feel like a giant world war would do this world some good. Hard times create tough men. Today men are weak and women are self absorbed and are insanely privileged. If we take away some of our greatest comforts people will be forced to harden up.
@@lilhomiebro7539 I feel your pain . With the Ukraine It looks like we are heading for one. But remember, It takes MEN to put women on pedestals.
@@lilhomiebro7539There are only two types people in this world, one that I want in my foxhole one that I don't. and with women, you gotta love them even when you hate them. Who do you look towards when you are in harms way.
You can thank feminism and allowing women to vote.
@@SageDog when most women vote they vote for big daddy government aka socialism.
Maga girls intelligence makes her more attractive. Smartest and most articulate girl you've had on your show.
I found My Darling Wife in Thailand. She's a farm Woman. She's traditional, respectful and loving. We have a very happy Marriage.
I have never once even thought about using a dating app. We actually went out and met people and talk to them in person. Of course my life was better because I didn't have a piece of s*** cell phone glued to my hand.
i used hinge to meet my current gf but i absolutely hated how addicting they are and that it basically makes you a slave to your phone
We need more women like her!
Why to trick men, call good men average?
@@johnconnor2753 good men are average, I say this as a good man
@@johnconnor2753 How is she tricking men?
@@dream6562 i think she meant avg as in common,decadent men with low standards.
she was okay till she said force average man to work even harder to please women even though they are. But these days even average women won't look at him like i'm sorry man are already doing their best but as women are increasing their standards i can see why man are leaving specially american man. Like i don't think women understand how hard it is to do a 6 figure job and than please your women like that amount mind as we'll make your own home in your job i know the tesla guy did he barely goes home. I just think if want man to work even harder than women needs to work even harder and not just going to the job and come home and not do anything cause all she knows is how to go to her job.
This blonde is really the most honest mature woman of her age, any age….and beautiful in her physical looks but honestly she has real inner beauty.
And even though she is pretty and in shape she isn’t flaunting her sexual side. Refreshing.
And she isn’t dressed like a whore. Refreshing.
She said all men want is sex) i had a few girlfriends in the past an when they wanted sex an i was not in the mood. They got mad but if i wanted sex ) they say all you want is my body) or money) or buy them something) or no sex) i am an old man now ) going back to my roots) working out) no girlfriend ) its a little hard on me but starting to loose weight) but girls of today are spoiled ) stay single grow old an alone) bit______?ch
@@Johnny-um6sd Learn how to use punctuation. This reads like a monkey wrote it.
@Johnny
Yea but she also said many other intelligent points. Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water, to use an older saying
Just circling the drain, it's not gonna get better.
Blonde girl is super articulate and thoughtful. Giving me hope
Yes, but still delusional. The world is as is, there is everything in it but not all at the same time.
@@silviucat Lol what? Maybe for American women. I wouldn't use "world." That's why American women getting mad that men are going to Eastern countries for real women.
Without realizing the sanctity of merriege, this culture will not be better with long-term relationships. Relationships have to be valued more than individual egocentric happiness...
Trust me when women realize loads of man are leaving marriages they will realize what's wrong and try to figure out what's happening.
The moment sex was divorced from procreation and became solely about pleasure, was the moment marriage became eroded, and all of this degeneration started. Decades ago.
@@Dragblacker exactly. What is never mentioned in these discussions is what is sex FOR? Who benefits most from the social protection of marriage? Marriage has existed before all religions and before the modern state. It’s to bond a biological mother and father with their children and create a stable and lifelong commitment for further generations. The depths of individual narcissism and resulting confusion of modern society won’t change until people become more enlightened about the deep meaning behind traditional morality.
@@Dragblacker
So you're incel, huh?
@@technoloverish 🤡
Accountability is their Kryptonite
It’s funny to watch once you know this.
DAYUM!!! Banged up panel today Bro!
She's the reason why I haven't given up on finding love yet. Women like her ARE REAL WOW!!!
Lol 1 out of 6. Kinda sad to be honest
1-6 in a country where the population is over 375 million and they are 51% of the population so about 185 million that’s still a plethora of good women
@@jerellebowens4367 don't forget to subtract the ones married already, and the ones focusing on their career and a lot more. Oh yeah and location. This stuff all greatly diminish that number.
@@jerellebowens4367 Factor in height, weight, age, marital status, and general facial and body appearance. The amount of marriageable women gets pretty slim
Avoid the chicks who have careers. So by that logic women should avoid guys with careers too, right?
It’s funny how it didn’t occurs to them that if they raised the standards for themselves, then they could raise the standards for the guys they date.
Exactly
Are you kidding? Women's standards are through the roof. The problem is they have different "rules" for Chad.
It's men aren't allowed to have standards for women. And women's standards change per man, hence "boundries". If you didn't let so many men on the lawn, you wouldn't need to show them a crossing line.
The main girl talking during all of this is a unicorn among all women lol So open-minded and aware of what's going on.
I know a ton of women like this. But none of them spend very much time on social media. And they are all looking for G-d fearing, marriage-minded men.
@Abbey You personally know women like that, but what's the average? 🤔 unfortunately, the statistics say something else. Your girls are looking for giga Chad... if they wanted a good guy for marriage, there are already tons of us. Lol
That is the most productive conversation i have ever witnessed on this podcast lol