How to Free Yourself From the Opinions & Expectations of Others - Interview With Elizabeth Gilbert

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  • Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024

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  • @suemoore509
    @suemoore509 Месяц назад +11

    This woman makes me feel braver. But I keep forgetting, so I listen to this often. ❤

  • @apainterlyhome
    @apainterlyhome 4 месяца назад +48

    Liz Gilbert is the voice of women in our culture. We all listen through our tears. What a gift.

    • @charmedprince
      @charmedprince Месяц назад

      @@apainterlyhome and men!

    • @OG_lesliedixon
      @OG_lesliedixon 12 дней назад +1

      @@apainterlyhome I couldn’t have said it better. Yes! 🙌🏻

  • @DrVerenaGruber
    @DrVerenaGruber 7 месяцев назад +24

    Elizabeth Gilbert radiates an amazing inner strength!❤

  • @rubyenvy8779
    @rubyenvy8779 3 месяца назад +21

    At the 30 minute mark where Liz is talking about her conversation with her relative, and the relative says “I need to know that you’ll always be there for me”… I can relate so deeply to the stress around that. I said, in all honesty, “No, I cannot be there for you right now” to one best friend because my other best friend was dying of cancer. I had to put all of my energy into her. BF #1 STILL thinks of me as a bad person because of that, and it’s fine. It was always fine, to be honest, because if you only love me when I cater to your whims, then you don’t actually love me. You only love my service to you, and that’s not the kind of love I need or want in my life.

  • @jacquimacdonald223
    @jacquimacdonald223 7 месяцев назад +22

    This is such a delicious and nourishing interview. Just when I thought I couldn’t love Liz any more 💗💗💗. Thank you.

  • @lindamay1
    @lindamay1 Месяц назад +2

    This was so wonderful and timely for me. I did a workshop with Elizabeth in London just after Raya died. I feel her energy here is much more serene. She has helped me so much and I love her. And I really love Laura too. What a beautiful energy she has. So gentle. ❤

  • @ConsciousMatters
    @ConsciousMatters Месяц назад +5

    “Do you want to be free or do you want to be right?” Oof! That was powerful 👏 Following Liz beautiful example of releasing my opinions.
    What a beautiful strong meaningful conversation! Liz is a well of wisdom and such a soulful rebel, I love it! Thank you 🙏

  • @Lydia-Bee
    @Lydia-Bee Месяц назад +2

    First thank you for this interiew. I empathize so much with you Liz for living with such internal battles. I can relate too much, especially regarding family and the guilt that comes with all of it. To be free of all that guilt and shame and useless stress, that is my journey. To reclaim all the energy wasted for worries caused by my hypersensiblity. I have started doing letters from love in the morning, it is a blessing. Thank you.

  • @crowquilltarot
    @crowquilltarot 4 месяца назад +10

    Swords are the suit of the intellect. When they show up, you know you have thought yourself into this conundrum. In the numbered cards you are shown the action required to surrender; in the cards with a single sword you are being offered the truth through mental clarity. Either way the goal is freedom. The goal of the tarot process is always freedom.

  • @ANNA-wx3bk
    @ANNA-wx3bk 14 дней назад +1

    Thank you, what a beautiful heart to heart conversation❤

  • @anneschouvey
    @anneschouvey 21 день назад +1

    Gosh relate so much with some of the personal stories by Liz. Great chat, thank you

  • @terimattal9057
    @terimattal9057 4 месяца назад +5

    Wow
    My exact experience!!
    I have finally OFFICIALLY
    Estranged from my whole family..
    Because truth is meaningless
    Thanks for this

  • @estherlips5136
    @estherlips5136 7 месяцев назад +5

    Dieses Interview ist der Hammer und spricht mir aus der Seele. So wertvoll denn ich leide auch unter Harmoniesucht. Der letzte Satz auf Liz ihrem weißen Blatt Papier sollten wir uns täglich vor Augen halten. 🙏🙏🙏 vielen, vielen Dank fürs Teilen❤️

  • @AnDreaM812
    @AnDreaM812 23 дня назад +2

    “Do you want to be right or happy?”
    - A Course in Miracles

  • @icehorse79
    @icehorse79 2 месяца назад +4

    I found this on your podcast the other day and now I watched it here. Liz is such a wise and eloquent person and this conversation is just sooo beautiful. Thank you both ♥️

  • @santalenacaudillo1185
    @santalenacaudillo1185 9 дней назад

    I adore this conversation and it is the purrfect companion for me now. 🙏🏽❤️🦋

  • @Arabella22
    @Arabella22 6 месяцев назад +8

    I absolutely needed this! Thank you for this

  • @carolinepostlethwaite4861
    @carolinepostlethwaite4861 Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful. So relate in my own journey except im not that self disciplined!!❤

  • @Sunny_Day1111
    @Sunny_Day1111 Месяц назад +2

    Absolutely pure! Love this. Reminds me of the teachings of Anthony DeMello. The undoing of our conditioning.

  • @bettyvik
    @bettyvik Месяц назад +2

    Oh my god...what a fantastic conversation, these beautiful women radiate honesty, love, affection, wisdom, thank you, thank you so much

    • @suemoore509
      @suemoore509 Месяц назад +1

      @@bettyvik I feel like this interview should be a compulsory part of schooling children. Can you imagine if kids learned this stuff from a young age. What a different world this would be!

    • @bettyvik
      @bettyvik Месяц назад

      I seriously thought about it too...❤

  • @koellekind
    @koellekind 6 месяцев назад +3

    You said, usually, when you follow "God"s wish, you think some years later: "Ooh. That's why." But you actually never know whether that WAS why. Or whether the real why will only be revealed later. The why is probably always too complicated.
    Wonderful interview, I really enjoy it.

  • @pamelaj1226
    @pamelaj1226 2 месяца назад +3

    I’m only as far at 7:53 in this conversation and can barely stand the “truthiness” of Lizzy’s statements. Be still my heart? No thanks! Let it pound❤….and Dang, that fire is frikken hot😂❤

  • @jkstubbington
    @jkstubbington Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for sharing all that you did, Elizabeth 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Andrew-dg7qm
    @Andrew-dg7qm 4 месяца назад +2

    I loved this conversation, especially “discipline” towards the end. What a wonderful question about devotion.
    That’s what I’ve been exploring. I’m over “discipline” and no longer see it as freedom. K. Krishnamurti points out how discipline is conformity, which I’ve discovered after decades as an architect
    I’m very much like Liz when it comes to discipline and structure. I’m extremely organized with my work but I wasn’t a good student or an organized person growing up.
    I’ve also been tempted to invite more chaos but it doesn’t work. I just need better perspectives on discipline and order and organization as the layers peel off
    It’s an evolution. The organization and the rigor remain, but the rigidity falls away. The structure remains but the language evolves. Ritual is a better word than habit because it’s a conscious series of steps, not a programmed behavior. Persistence is a better word than consistency because it doesn’t imply perfectionism, etc. …

  • @novlindasusy8717
    @novlindasusy8717 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you, thank you, thank you very much, God bless you both, I am free and fresh I am bless to found and hear you both, God bless you Elizabeth Gilbert and Laura Malina
    Mental Health❤❤❤

  • @suewilliams4979
    @suewilliams4979 6 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you so much for this video both! It’s helped me make an important insight into me and my life 🎉 Thank you, thank you 🙏

  • @Jerry-henry
    @Jerry-henry 6 месяцев назад +3

    I absolutely loved this conversation. Such a huge fan of Liz and Laura is truly an amazing interviewer.

  • @brigittesander3063
    @brigittesander3063 19 дней назад

    It touched my heard so deeply … and remembered me, what love is… what god is… and that’s okay to feel uncomfortable here right now
    It’s always okay ♥️

  • @alexespinoza2696
    @alexespinoza2696 29 дней назад +1

    Liz just blown my mind 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

  • @katelynnvifquain9629
    @katelynnvifquain9629 27 дней назад

    What a beautifully honest conversation to be privy to, full of so many thoughtful questions and insightful answers that I treasured like little golden nuggets; thank you for sharing! I just stumbled across this channel, so it was my first time listening, and I was very impressed with the level of presence and connection. 🌟

  • @EnikoHerold
    @EnikoHerold 5 месяцев назад +5

    Love it. A beautiful conversation. Thank you! ❤

  • @saraendestad4945
    @saraendestad4945 6 месяцев назад +3

    love this, and just can´t WAIT to read her next book 😌

  • @teresamira5283
    @teresamira5283 2 месяца назад +1

    Amazing conversation and guest ♡ Could relate to so much. Thank you

  • @katerinadehning1685
    @katerinadehning1685 3 месяца назад

    Laura looks like Liz's daughter!
    Beautiful, deep, truthful conversation. Thank you for that.

  • @carolgerber6375
    @carolgerber6375 Месяц назад

    Love this conversation so much! Let Liz talk more though

  • @thenewworldlead
    @thenewworldlead 20 дней назад +1

    Oh ❤ This is such a wonderful conversation 😍 Thank you 🙏

  • @dulianytska
    @dulianytska 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you🙏🏻

  • @Lunar1Be
    @Lunar1Be Месяц назад

    Great commentary.

  • @thorstenjesberger5875
    @thorstenjesberger5875 7 месяцев назад +5

    Hallo, ich hab leider ein Problem mit der Übersetzung. Ich kann englisch leider nicht so gut. 😅 Ich höre aber gerne deine Videos an. Bitte mach es doch möglich, dass jeder etwas mitnehmen kann, von diesen tollen Menschen und deren Erfahrungen. 😊❤Danke

    • @estherlips5136
      @estherlips5136 7 месяцев назад +2

      Du kannst die Untertitel nutzen.

    • @laura.malina.seiler
      @laura.malina.seiler  7 месяцев назад +1

      Du findest die deutschen Untertitel rechts unten unter Einstellungen.

    • @thorstenjesberger5875
      @thorstenjesberger5875 7 месяцев назад +1

      Vielen lieben Dank!!! ❤️😘Hat geklappt! Mega schön 🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @andreaprice1677
    @andreaprice1677 Месяц назад +1

    It is hard to interpret intuitive knowledge of letting go and the mind's relentless fear-mongering. I have tried, tried, and tried to free myself, but external circumstances and people keep me in the role by which I feel trapped.

    • @laura.malina.seiler
      @laura.malina.seiler  Месяц назад +3

      Thank you for sharing. I completely understand how challenging it can be to distinguish between intuitive guidance and the fears that our mind creates. The feeling of being trapped by external circumstances can be overwhelming, but remember: true freedom starts within. By working on inner alignment and focusing on what you can control, you gradually shift out of that trapped feeling. It’s not easy, but every small step toward letting go brings you closer to inner peace. Be kind and patient with yourself on this journey. 💛 Much love!

  • @Mexikolichter
    @Mexikolichter 7 месяцев назад +2

    ❤🙏 so on point!

  • @bridgetc.marinaccio8024
    @bridgetc.marinaccio8024 5 месяцев назад +1

    Lizzie ❤

  • @alexespinoza2696
    @alexespinoza2696 29 дней назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @josianedasilva2675
    @josianedasilva2675 Месяц назад

    God Is amazing! Just need to hear it. 24:37 8ofSwords

  • @abcdabcd-cq9le
    @abcdabcd-cq9le 5 месяцев назад

    She is so huge - and there is a lot of Juice too for us man.

  • @flexflow4602
    @flexflow4602 7 месяцев назад +1

    ... "put it all in the fire"
    What's there to stay then? What's life then about?

  • @K_loy
    @K_loy 6 месяцев назад +2

    Liz, give Jesus a try. Read Tim Keller’s Counterfeit Gods

    • @johngrimkowski598
      @johngrimkowski598 4 месяца назад +2

      I have Jesus Christ in my life he saved me from my sins . God uses people like Liz to enlighten us.