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Honestly, this is why I watch her videos. Aside from her being funny she is extremely transparent and seems to be very open and honest with her fans about her life experiences. Both past and present. ♡
@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 That's great but I'm sure there are bloggers that are not transparent and lead fake lives. So thanks for your little comment but no thanks! ✌🏻
My daughter was diagnosed with ADHD at 4 years old. I was terrified to medicate her. But we tried everything else and it wasn’t helping. She was constantly in trouble at school and was depressed because she was always getting scolded. Now, 3 years later, an entirely happy kid who can show off her brilliance and artistic side because she’s not fighting against her brain and impulses. I hope you are also able to feel your brain is working with you. ❤️
I'm curious. What did you do to help her and turn her into a happy kid not fighting her impulses? Cause that sounds EXACTLY like my 5 year old son who also has ADHD. He's always in trouble and such and I don't know what else to do. He is medicated. But please, tell me your ways!
Brittany Jokela Hugs, sweet lady. I know the feeling. We spent a ton of time finding her triggers. She is mostly triggered by sound. So she wears protective headphones in school whenever possible, and we found compression vests and hanging bars help her get out the tension when she’s “feeling like a volcano” (what she says it feels like). We have also found that Guanfacine at night and Ritalin in smaller doses throughout the day are better than one big dose. It took months and MONTHS of trying everything we could think of, and she still has days (as we all do) where nothing helps except crying and slamming a door. But it has been so much better than it was three years ago.
Brittany Jokela I would check with his pediatrician or a behavioral specialist. I believe there are ritallin patches that can be used for younger-than-usual patients like our littles. That might help the impulse control during the day. I truly do know how awful it is. We went through 8 daycares in one year when she was younger. It’s so sad to watch them lose their spark. And it’s so hard not to lose our temper. I honestly still have tantrums myself when I feel like I can’t reach her. But thankfully her brain is maturing and learning each day. And getting us one day closer to being her best self.
My father passed from suicide. He passed on a cold rainy night. Since his death, I get mini anxiety attacks when it's raining and windy, epspecially at night and really bad headaches at times when there's thunder . Btw recently found this channel and love it so much 💕
I feel your heart break, my older Sister died from her own choice 23 years ago on Valentine's day - it is horrible for those left behind, it's like reading a fantastic story & then finding out the Author didn't finish the book - Because her story definitely wasn't over yet, and suicide doesn't solve anyone's problems, it just created a whole world of new ones for those left behind. ; RIP to your Dad & my Sister Becky. 🙏🦋🙏🦋🙏 Remember, we have a forgiving God & he knows they weren't in their right mind when they took their own lives, so regardless of what others say, they did not go to Hell, God loves all of his Children 🙏♥️🙏♥️🙏
I’m sorry about your dad. I lost my dad last year to cancer and know how bad it feels to lose a parent. I also suffer from anxiety and flash backs. I’m here if you need to talk.
I was diagnosed with ADD at about age 45. It changed a great deal for me, particularly in the sense that it allowed me to stop feeling helpless about how I was in my life. And Ritalin and/or Adderall...allowed me to think deeper and more complex thoughts than I ever had before. Once I could hold onto a thought train it was incredible how far they would go, combined with the wide-ranging info gathering ability of our brain type. The other side of it is that ADD brains are also better at some things than other people's, big picture thoughts particularly, so while you may not always the most efficient at getting something done, you often have a better perspective on whether its the right thing to do in the first place. And isn't that actually more efficient? Good luck on your journey.
well said Tim! I fully feel how your saying this is real. It reminds me of the person who has lost there sight can heighten there abilities for hearing and eco-location. But it is still hard to believe i come from a place of minus something when looking in that direction.
I know this is you but its makes me sad for me, someone who grew up with an emotionally abusive parent, alcoholic parent, trouble with drug and alcohol abuse and highly emotional that I dont have the financial stability to get this kind of treatment. I have felt so wrong for my whole adult life. I wish this was more accessible for people in poverty.
Wow, 69, go fuck yourself. Kelsey, look into RUclips videos and books on CPTSD. I recommend Pete Walker. Also, the VA made a great free app for practicing mindfulness. A lot of trauma recovery is replacing bad coping mechanisms with healthy ones and also understanding how the trauma effects your personality so that you can make changes to your perception of yourself and the world around you. Many of us are hear because we identify with Laura and love her. If you feel you need help, take the initiative. You are, in the end, the only one that can save you. You are worth fighting for. ❤
@@69zenos1 but that's the point right, the ambition comes from the brain and if your brain isn't making the right decisions for you, then you're done for
My husband is in your situation. I suggest applying for Social Security Disability. It is difficult, and I'll tell you now, they set it up to discourage people. You WILL be turned down upon first application. Almost everyone is. You likely will be turned down on appeal. Third step is where I was accepted, where you present your case before a judge, in person, with a lawyer who will take 30% of whatever you qualify for from when you first applied until acceptance, but those thousands you already don't have are a small proce to pay for the benefits received. After a small doughnut hole of $350.00 each January, all of my expensive meds are completely covered (I have HIV). My hip replacements were entirely covered. My every ER visit for asthma, or whatever else, covered. Literally any medical need will be covered. Feel free to contact me, ask me anything. I literally live to feel appreciated, so use me like a resource. I will be seeking help myself with a scan, as I'm HF Autistic, suffering extreme, unremitting depression. I've attempted suicide several times, but I'm glad I'm still here, and glad you're here on Earth with me. I wish you healthy longevity, and prosperity.
I have to be honest I thought you were already assessed as ADD. I found out just a few months ago that I have Autism. I started telling people and they were like “ well,yeah”! Come from addictive parents and have trauma etc. I read your book and can relate as an addict myself. My dark thoughts come at weekends and thinking back that’s when the shit used to get real when I was a kid. Laura, thank you, thank you, thank you for being so real and sharing your journey. You’ve given Alfie and your future children such a gift of knowledge, sending love and strength ❤️💪
I can relate to So many things she has been through including Addiction, Alcoholism, Depression, Nighttime Anxiety. Your Strength gives me Strength, Laura. You're a Blessing.
My jaw literally dropped when the Dr. talked about people feeling like those in their lives would be better off without them. I think this a lot but never considered myself suicidal.
Likewise, I would never commit suicide but I feel everyone around me would be better off without me so I often fantasize about just disappearing from the face of the earth or disappearing to a different country and start over there.
When the doctor said she gets those thoughts at night because her trauma would have happened at night... her face..you can see she clicks and the hurt..
Thank you for sharing as at 54, I was diagnosed having ADHD though those tests you took but bot a brain scan. Dark thoughts at night associated with time time of day you’ve had trauma is very insightful. Your openness changes lives.
The “Do do do” then the car exploding. 😂😂😂 And also I just cut a giant fart while you were playing with the whoopie cushion. Power of suggestion is a powerful thing.
Wow, the last part made me cry.. I suffer from anxiety, depression, panic disorder and ptsd. It’s not easy. Everyday is a struggle so I understand how you feel and I’m here for you. You are not alone. 😢
This was full-on. I just got diagnosed with ADHD (2 months ago, at 34, at the start of covid lockdown- thanks, 2020) and it's an absolute mindfuck. I guarantee you that once you start researching a BUNCH of things will click into place (prepare for many 'oh dang 😮' moments). Good luck with your self-rediscovery - the ADHD community is really supportive, and I hope your new relationship with yourself paves the way to even greater self-love, self-understanding and personal growth xx p.s I alsostruggle with addiction... veeeeeery common in the ADHD community!
I was diagnosed with ADD and ADHD as a child. I literally could not sit still until I got put on medication. At first I was on adderall and it wasn’t good for me at all. I’ve been on Vyvanse for majority of my life. Then I thought once I got out of college I didn’t think I needed it anymore.. so I stopped taking it and it really wasn’t good for me either. I was literally off the wall and I was acting completely different than what I usually did. So I got back on it here recently... it’s been a real struggle to live with ADD/ADHD to feel... normal. But I’m trying to embrace it because it’s something that makes me, me.
Hi Laura, I do not know who you are, but your courage to share your journey is beautiful. You are choosing health for yourself and your child. Keep blowing up the trail for others. LOVE IT.
Girl, I understand your struggles. All those thoughts run through my head. Thanks for bringing light to this subject. You are doing this for people out here that may not have the financial means or strength to uncover these deep and often dark thoughts. Your awesome and I can relate so much with you.
Hold up girl, you didn’t know you had ADD? I bought you knew, omg. I am an adult female with ADHD, my whole family has add or adhd so I spotted it almost immediately when I found you two or three years back. Girl you go get yourself treated you absolute queen! (Edited for easier reading on mobile)
Like, I was going to comment too. I was shocked that she was shocked lol. Not that a diagnosis defines you at all but I thought she maybe had a thought she could be.... but i dont know if that because i have worked in Mental Health for years.
Laura I must say to you, THANK YOU. For you to put this out in the open is beyond brave of you. I have struggled so much in my life and have not understood why. I like yourself have had the trauma from childhood and the struggles of family addiction. This video you made also shows that other people do or have had the same struggles and you are not alone. People don't understand how difficult ADD is to live with, but it is real. Thank you for opening up about this.
Thank you for sharing!!! I also had an alcoholic father and the night thoughts made total sense. Thank you for helping me to find a way out of the dark♥️
Laura, welcome to the ADD/ADHD CLUB!! I got diagnosed as an adult after my son was diagnosed. I was so overwhelmed at first, but then it all just made so much sense. There was a huge sense of relief in knowing there was a reason I was the way I was!! The thing is, once you get diagnosed, you can learn awesome ways to make it your super power! The more you know...
Getting diagnosed with ADD changed my life (for the better). It helped me understand myself so much better. And there are so many techniques and tools and treatments for ADD that don’t involve medication (I take medication for my ADD, but I pair it with CBT and other ADD tools).
Thank you for posting this. I was recently diagnosed with ADD and I did not take the doctor seriously. This helped. Perhaps this is why I identify with you so often. Have a great day, Laura and Fam ❤️
Whoa!!! Something just clicked.. I HAVE ADD!! My whole life I have struggled with focus, memory, considered lazy.. stupid even. Everything makes sense now. I will see a specialist! Thanks for this.
The Dr. Said some stuff about the dark thoughts that made complete sense because I'm going through that too. Just like you. I'm so glad I watched. Thank you for sharing.
Wow I thought that was extremely interesting. Also for some reason I felt like tearing up when you talked about the morbid suicidal thoughts because I was the same exact way just a couple years ago. God bless you for being productive with yourself especially now being a mother. 🙏💗✝️
This was so helpful. Thank you for advocating for mental health. I lost a sister to bi polar disorder, and I lost a cousin last month to it too. I really appreciate that you care enough to take us along your life journey.
Laura thank you for sharing with us. Sometimes it is hard to admit the thoughts especially when you know you won't act on them,but they are there. I love how you are doing this to help others.
Welcome to the club! Got officially diagnosed beginning of the year at the age of 32. It truly changed my life and explained sooo much... Funnily enough, even reading your book i thought you had it, just never mentioned it. You've got to watch 'how to adhd' on RUclips. Or 'totally add'. They really really helped me understand myself sooo much better 💞
Wow Laura, what a refreshing video, to see a doctor having an educational, informative conversation with a patient, that answers to a lot of your trauma. If we could cut the piece about how suicide affects others, and make that into a short clip that can be shared, imagine how many lives could be saved. This was so refreshing to watch, and see his value as a medical professional, clearly doing a job he loves and is very, very good at. I hope he can help many more, looking forward to Stephen's brain scan too! xx
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve had the dark thoughts too... and this year hasn’t helped. Thank you for being brave and helping others feel less alone
Thank you for this video! Honestly I love your humor but I also love the seriousness in your humor. I am in recovery 6yrs now clean & sober but my thoughts are like yours & I had a horrific childhood. THANK YOU, FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY ❤
I am so happy you have shared your life with us. You are helping so many people understand the connections of trauma with ADD, addiction etc..things I have never read about as a connected unit, only each diagnosis separately. Why have not more mental healthcare professionals studied this and put it into their practice is my question. I am so happy for the four of you! Knowledge is power! Blessings to each of you! Oh, and the car farts? Genius! You are never too old to laugh and be silly is my motto!
I feel you so hard!! I suffer with this as well. Maybe I should get a scan. You doing this video has made me feel better about seeing a doctor! I’m so proud of you!! Thank you so much! OXOX prayers for you and your beautiful family -Kristen
My husband is a recovering addict of 3yrs and almost 4 months and he struggles with memory loss and rapid thoughts as well as suicidal base lines!!! We have been trying to get him into see a neurologist but honestly this whole video helped me so much I want to talk to this guy....where is he based out of?! Oh my word this would explain so much...even in my own life having PTSD....thank you so much for sharing this video!!!!
I love Steven's whining laugh over the fart noises, LoL🤣 he sounds so defeated as he grips the wheel in embarrassment during the songs! ❤️🤣💙🙏🏻💜 TY for the laughs today!
Thank you so much for sharing this!! I was diagnosed with ADD as a kid and had to take "medicated speed". My dad was also an alcoholic. You just helped me be able to talk to my doctor and see if I can get the same done for me!! I am 40 and I have the same issues you was having. I have the same issues at night too!!! Thank you!! I am crying but happy tears that I am not alone.
One of your very best videos ever..you remind me so much of my daughter..she is an addict who had hodgkins lymphoma 3 years ago this mounth..we just found out recently that it has come back and trying to get her sober without her wanting it so she can get her chemo treatments is so hard. Shes on day 5 of being sober. I pray she keeps it up..she refuses rehab because she has been in 10 different ones already..not her doing but mine. Took me a while to realise she has got to want it.. but trying to get her to want it is a never ending battle..she calls her a functioning addict but she is totally not..I can only pray that she one day can see the light and realise the potential she has to do great things as you have.
OMG you don’t know how helpful this video has been to me and it’s given me something to work towards with my daughter and future it’s also helped me massively with my past and my ex husband I know what has brought me to the place I’m in and after this video I now know I can move forward with a better life and future thank you so very much for doing this I really believe you have saved my future god bless you and your family and the people you work with 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Laura, You are such an inspiration. You are truly open and honest about what you’re going through and that’s truly admirable. Alfie is a lucky little boy to have such a great mom and dad. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. I admire you and you honestly make me laugh. Stay strong and be proud of who you are.
When he mentioned that 500% increase in the chance of your child killing themselves all I can think of is Cam & Fam's Landon and his two daughters who have to make sense of his death and it is so devastating.
I love that you are putting these things out there for all the world to see, because having a mental health problem shouldn't be a stigma! Also, I haven't had that kind of scan done, but I had multiple CTs and MRIs done because of migraines, and that was how they diagnosed my Bipolar 1. Apparently I'm missing a very small segment of artery that would have fed the impulse control portion of my brain more sufficiently. Anyways, PROUD OF YOU!
My mom is ADD...she’s 79 now and having a conversation with her is really tough 🙂 but we all manage!! I think I have a touch of it and so does my brother and we’re 57 & 58. As for you taking medication, research everything and all remedies possible...none of us would want you to have any kind of relapse.. God bless!!🙏🏻✝️
I feel like I'm rewatching everything I've felt in my head. The worry, fear, and the constant feel of falling apart. It was also hard to deal with things, cause of the meds. They made me dead inside, and sent me into uncontrollable fits where I'm hitting myself, screaming, and shaking for hours. I still have not got much help, and still deal with bad things, like relapses from meds. After years of random diagnosis. They finally found that I had, what they told me in simple form "tripolar". I cannot take any meds, they're dangerous. Plus the only thing I can do, is just deal with it. They said due to this, I am disabled. Yet even though I've dealt with this, for over 20 years, and yet I cannot get disability.
James, have you contacted an attorney? I didn't get disability until my third swipe, the step where one goes before a judge with a lawyer. An attorney will help you get diagnostic testing, specifically for gaining disability. The attorney pays for it all, with the stipulation that when you get accepted, they get 30% of what your back pay is from your initial step of applying. Almost everyone is turned down when they first apply, and when they appeal. Most people do get accepted by a judge. Feel free to contact me if you have any questions.
@@injunsun I have applied many times, and denied. I almost had things going till this covid crap started, and now I have to start all over. I had proof that the doctors would not help me, and kept pushing me to takes meds. Even though they knew it hurt me badly. I've gone as far as bashing my head into the floor when I was little and on those meds. I did try to get all my records from them, but after reading through them. I found they left loads of info out of it. They even twisted and changed things. I told lawyers this, and each time they claim they help. They end up backing out just as we start to get into things.
@@jamesgolden7317 I suggest seeking a disability advocate service. They may be able to refer you to an attorney who's not shit. Most attorneys actively help, including paying for diagnostic tests, because that's how they get paid. Regardless, please don't get discouraged. I've been there, way down there, and I know it hurts. Be kind to yourself. You deserve that.
FINALLY! As someone with undiagnosed ADHD myself (had a work screening but awaiting formal diagnosis) I have been watching Laura with great interest ever since I first stumbled upon her videos, wondering when she will have the same realisation! With knowledge comes the ability to do something about it. All the best Laura!
I'm sorry to hear at such a young age you're having problems.I want to know what kind of Dr he was.Ive done the Neuro Dr's that prescribed pills I no longer want.Ive been told mines PTSD.Im in recovery so no.longer want drugs.I need a Dr like him.Thank you. Love your family.
Sorry for commenting 2 times. I also have ADD and C-PTSD. I am doing a therapy called EMDR for my PTSD and it’s working miracles. Yes, it’s really REALLY hard reliving my horrible childhood but it’s definitely worth it because I am slowly healing. I also started actually reading the Bible and strengthening my relationship with Christ. I know without God I wouldn’t have survived all that I have. I also have over 13 years of sobriety from alcoholism. I will be interested to hear if your ferritin is low, high or just right. I can’t get my ferritin levels to stay above 35. My Dermatologist said ferritin has to be minimum of 60 for hair production alone. Often times children diagnosed with ADD/ADHD actually have low ferritin levels. Instead of being nourished children are being medicated. The mental health system is doing more harm than good the way it is right now. God please bless, heal and protect everyone here!❤️🙏🏼
This was soo informative! I also have ADD, but just haven't treated it, and so many things he spoke about that are related to the untreated ADD are problems I'm experiencing.
I was diagnosed with ADD / ADHD when I was 27 ....... this is the first time I had it explained to me and made sense..... in so many ways.... thanx for getting your brain checked.... I know u wasn't expecting the result u got but..... at least now u know ..... loves u all xx
Thank you for sharing on a much needed topic, ADD in adults. The humor you bring in is delightful. I appreciate how your content is funny, but educational & often thought provoking.
I am so very proud of you, what you are doing for yourself and your son is astronomical. My Son was diagnosed with adhd and low spectrum of autism. It is a struggle for him. Even though we have seen many doctor's and psychologist, I learned things from your video today. One thing I can say there is no easy answer, everyone's metabolic system is different. Keep that in mind when going through this, some will get better very fast. While others will take more time. Hang in there and know this is a good doctor. We know, we have seen so many.
I am crying right now watching this. My upbringing was quite similar and I would have dark thoughts, have been in hospitals for depression and have been diagnosed with PTSD. Please keep me updated and it gives me courage to go get checked out!!
All these things are so relatable.. And my whole family is also always 'like you just have to have will power.. You don't try' and stuffs... There's so much life ahead of me and nothing at all... Hope you guys have happy life ahead... ❤️❤️❤️
Hey Laura Thank you for everything you do. I have ADHD and am currently on Adderall. Trust me when I say the difference between being on it Is like Night and Day. Know that you are amazing and awesome.
12:10. Yesss!!!!!!! Having lost my mum to although not suicide, but cancer, i still know and experience what it is like to be one of the ones left behind. This doctor hit it right on the nose. No the ones left behind are not better without You. We are the ones reminded of the one passed on in way or other everyday and know we cant talk to them. And we live with that for the rest of our lives.
This is amazing. I was diagnosed with add last year at 33 years old. My doctor gave me adderall and I didn’t like it at all. Then she gave me Ritalin and I’m a completely different person. I can finish a task at work instead of having 3 or 4 different unfinished things. But I learned a lot from this video that my doctor didn’t tell me. I love it.
Thank you for this video. I think I’ve mentioned before that my dad is an alcoholic, and has dementia. His family is also full of alcoholics. And I just don’t have a relationship with any of those relatives. I’ve suffered from anxiety, depression and worried thoughts my entire life. I’ve thought for a while about getting a brain scan. Especially after a concussion a few years ago found a whole in my brain, but it was never discussed. Thank you for this. Now I’m going to try and schedule me an appointment.❤️
Laura, this will be a turning point for you. I’ve had periods in my life since diagnose without any medication and it worked - but only under very specific circumstances. When those change it’s fundamental to have other alternatives. I’m seeing my meds a bit like a supplement - my brain is in actual lack of something. It’s amazing what you can complete and connect with when your brain isn’t running in 200mph 🤷🏻♀️ So, from my ping pong brain to yours - welcome to the club! We love squirrels.
Thank you for sharing. Having ADD and being female myself I really ralate to your thoughts of being lazy ect... You also have an incredible doctor at your side! Explaining and taking so much time to help you understand and accept.
It is brave of you to post a video with so much personal information like this for all to see. I’m sure that many will benefit from this. Glad you’re doing good.
You have helped me Laura by me being able to explain what I am going through and Im able to show my loved ones your video to explain me too. THANK YOU!!!
My daughter has ADD. She’s been on Adderall for three years. She has shown so much more improvement in school since she’s been on medication. If you find something natural that works just as well I would love to hear about it. Good luck, Girl!
OMG thank you so much for this! My son got diagnosed with ADD and I always wondered if my partner has it because they behave so similar. Thank you for sharing. I"m going to get them tested
I listened to your audio book before I started watching your channel. My daughter and my husband have ADHD. I KNEW you also had it. You are far to smart to have struggled the way you did in school. Everything your doctor said about ADHD medication is spot on. Kids who don't get treatment for ADHD are far more likely to self medicate with alcohol and other drugs unknowingly. I want to see that doctor. LOL. Unfortunately we live in Australia.
Thank you for this. Making an appointment today. 90% of what you’ve talked about here is me and that’s scary to me. Just so you know, you’ve helped me today.
I am glad you are okay Laura. Dr. Amen is amazing. He is the authority on all attention deficit disorders for sure. I want to get one of these scans for my son and I. Gon b a see if We can afford it.
Omg Laura! We have the same experience! Alcoholic upbringing, and ADD all my life and I was diagnosed at 42 years old! The dark times you’re taking about i call « impending sense of doom » I experience it on the daily until I take my meds. Meds combined with trauma therapy has been incredible! I’m looking at trying SAM-E instead of my med this year. It is night and day though since before treatment. I’m so happy for and I suggest watching lots of RUclips videos about what add is and you’ll have your mind blown! Dr Gabor Mate talks a lot about add and trauma and alcoholism. Alfie may show signs of add by 1st or 2nd grade and your first hand experience and education on it will be such a blessing. I was diagnosed after my son was diagnosed and I educated myself about it. It’s not laziness!! It’s Executive Functioning Deficits and stimulation seeking. I used to drink 10 cups of coffee a day - after meds I only want one💕 it’s mind blowing. “Drummer and the Great Mountain” is the best adult add resource I know of that’s all natural and no meds - awesome podcast and book with nutrition info. I’m also vegan so protein is tough and super important. Here’s a great channel to start with! ruclips.net/video/cx13a2-unjE/видео.html
Thank you Laura for your videos. This specially is very great because I think my 9 yeasts old has ADD and my husband keep saying “just focus”. Thank you so much! BTW I just finished reading your book. I read the whole book in less than a week and I never finish a book. Lots of great stories and learning experience. My daughter and I went for a three miles walk yesterday and I told her your story. It is a great time to have a sex, drugs and human trafficking conversation awesomeness because this shit is real!!!!
Thank you guys so much for making this video. It's really making me think back on my own life and I realize I am just like you Luara,... I'm not bipolar (at least I don't think I am) but I do have the same problem with memory. I'll remember some of the more important things but for the most part I've forgotten almost all of my childhood. More recently though with the state of the world I've found myself more than once thinking very negative thoughts (not suicidal,... I'm afraid of death.) but after watching this I think I might try and reach out and at the very least talk to someone close to me. Then maybe if I grow a big enough pair of balls maybe even seek some form of professional help.
Please do as you mentioned. Don't put it off. I'm 52, living in a life of shit, because I didn't realise how much I had just let go. I'm getting help, and now, life is improving.
I’m glad it went well. My doctor suggested a brain scan and full cognitive assessment, but I couldn’t afford to pay the out-of-pocket expense of was 3k. My symptoms are similar to yours, but possibly worse. There’s been a few days I’ve woken up and couldn’t remember the month. When I read it seems the words get jumbled and all string together. I forget my words and more. I’m only 56, but worried sick I may have early onset dementia. love you guys!!!
I have never watched anything that makes as much sense to me as this video! Your journey is amazing and I absolutely love how enthusiastic you are about everything! The energy you give off is incredible, it really motivates me to get my ass out there and get stuff done (even if I get distracted and it takes me 10X longer to do it! 😂) super big fan of your content! Keep going your fabulous keep spreading those vibes!!!
I am a social service worker and have taken many courses on mental health and addiction but there is always so much more to learn thanks for sharing this Laura so interesting !
I have ADD as well with depression problems. And after seeing this video I understood everything he said and was like ya I have that. It makes total sense to my own problems. I also have thoughts at night and could never figure it out. I didn't know that untreated ADD could do so much damage to myself. Thank you so much for sharing this cuz this gives me the courage to try to get back on medication for it and get my life back together for me and my son.
I hope that things turn around for you Laura, your healthiness is so very important, not only for you, but for Alfie & the new baby coming.. My thoughts are with you!!
Thank you so much for sharing this. It is so important. Some things in your diagnosis hit really close to home for me. I hope everything takes a step for the better and more healthy for you. 💗 Also, shout out to Dr. Amen. You are kind of a rock star! :)
I just kept laughing at the car farts, i'm 20 years old and i have the sense of humour of a child.
I'm 52. Some things are just always funny. You be you.
Agreed.. I'm 41 and the car farts had me literally laughing out loud.
an unexpected fart IS hilarious, im 35 and still giggle sometimes.
Shameful
Me too lol
Honestly, this is why I watch her videos. Aside from her being funny she is extremely transparent and seems to be very open and honest with her fans about her life experiences. Both past and present. ♡
Well this is what vloggers do, definition of their job...
Totally agree 👍
@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 That's great but I'm sure there are bloggers that are not transparent and lead fake lives. So thanks for your little comment but no thanks! ✌🏻
My daughter was diagnosed with ADHD at 4 years old. I was terrified to medicate her. But we tried everything else and it wasn’t helping. She was constantly in trouble at school and was depressed because she was always getting scolded. Now, 3 years later, an entirely happy kid who can show off her brilliance and artistic side because she’s not fighting against her brain and impulses. I hope you are also able to feel your brain is working with you. ❤️
I'm curious. What did you do to help her and turn her into a happy kid not fighting her impulses? Cause that sounds EXACTLY like my 5 year old son who also has ADHD. He's always in trouble and such and I don't know what else to do. He is medicated. But please, tell me your ways!
Brittany Jokela Hugs, sweet lady. I know the feeling. We spent a ton of time finding her triggers. She is mostly triggered by sound. So she wears protective headphones in school whenever possible, and we found compression vests and hanging bars help her get out the tension when she’s “feeling like a volcano” (what she says it feels like). We have also found that Guanfacine at night and Ritalin in smaller doses throughout the day are better than one big dose.
It took months and MONTHS of trying everything we could think of, and she still has days (as we all do) where nothing helps except crying and slamming a door. But it has been so much better than it was three years ago.
My son is on Guanfacine too. I don't see much of a change in anything though. I'm not sure what else to do.
Brittany Jokela I would check with his pediatrician or a behavioral specialist. I believe there are ritallin patches that can be used for younger-than-usual patients like our littles. That might help the impulse control during the day.
I truly do know how awful it is. We went through 8 daycares in one year when she was younger. It’s so sad to watch them lose their spark. And it’s so hard not to lose our temper. I honestly still have tantrums myself when I feel like I can’t reach her. But thankfully her brain is maturing and learning each day. And getting us one day closer to being her best self.
Most people who have ADD and ADHD are already treated it with sugar or caffeine. They just don't realize it yet
My father passed from suicide. He passed on a cold rainy night. Since his death, I get mini anxiety attacks when it's raining and windy, epspecially at night and really bad headaches at times when there's thunder . Btw recently found this channel and love it so much 💕
🧡 hugs
I'm so sorry about your dad.💔🌹
I'm so sorry. ❤
I feel your heart break, my older Sister died from her own choice 23 years ago on Valentine's day - it is horrible for those left behind, it's like reading a fantastic story & then finding out the Author didn't finish the book - Because her story definitely wasn't over yet, and suicide doesn't solve anyone's problems, it just created a whole world of new ones for those left behind. ; RIP to your Dad & my Sister Becky. 🙏🦋🙏🦋🙏
Remember, we have a forgiving God & he knows they weren't in their right mind when they took their own lives, so regardless of what others say, they did not go to Hell, God loves all of his Children 🙏♥️🙏♥️🙏
I’m sorry about your dad. I lost my dad last year to cancer and know how bad it feels to lose a parent. I also suffer from anxiety and flash backs. I’m here if you need to talk.
I was diagnosed with ADD at about age 45. It changed a great deal for me, particularly in the sense that it allowed me to stop feeling helpless about how I was in my life.
And Ritalin and/or Adderall...allowed me to think deeper and more complex thoughts than I ever had before. Once I could hold onto a thought train it was incredible how far they would go, combined with the wide-ranging info gathering ability of our brain type.
The other side of it is that ADD brains are also better at some things than other people's, big picture thoughts particularly, so while you may not always the most efficient at getting something done, you often have a better perspective on whether its the right thing to do in the first place. And isn't that actually more efficient?
Good luck on your journey.
Wow you are so wize, I like your comment a lot. As an undiagnosed ADHD person myself, I am grateful for your advice.
well said Tim! I fully feel how your saying this is real. It reminds me of the person who has lost there sight can heighten there abilities for hearing and eco-location. But it is still hard to believe i come from a place of minus something when looking in that direction.
I know this is you but its makes me sad for me, someone who grew up with an emotionally abusive parent, alcoholic parent, trouble with drug and alcohol abuse and highly emotional that I dont have the financial stability to get this kind of treatment. I have felt so wrong for my whole adult life. I wish this was more accessible for people in poverty.
Wow, 69, go fuck yourself.
Kelsey, look into RUclips videos and books on CPTSD. I recommend Pete Walker. Also, the VA made a great free app for practicing mindfulness. A lot of trauma recovery is replacing bad coping mechanisms with healthy ones and also understanding how the trauma effects your personality so that you can make changes to your perception of yourself and the world around you. Many of us are hear because we identify with Laura and love her. If you feel you need help, take the initiative. You are, in the end, the only one that can save you. You are worth fighting for. ❤
@@69zenos1 but that's the point right, the ambition comes from the brain and if your brain isn't making the right decisions for you, then you're done for
Some one has a step dad and step mom and step sister
My husband is in your situation. I suggest applying for Social Security Disability. It is difficult, and I'll tell you now, they set it up to discourage people. You WILL be turned down upon first application. Almost everyone is. You likely will be turned down on appeal. Third step is where I was accepted, where you present your case before a judge, in person, with a lawyer who will take 30% of whatever you qualify for from when you first applied until acceptance, but those thousands you already don't have are a small proce to pay for the benefits received. After a small doughnut hole of $350.00 each January, all of my expensive meds are completely covered (I have HIV). My hip replacements were entirely covered. My every ER visit for asthma, or whatever else, covered. Literally any medical need will be covered. Feel free to contact me, ask me anything. I literally live to feel appreciated, so use me like a resource. I will be seeking help myself with a scan, as I'm HF Autistic, suffering extreme, unremitting depression. I've attempted suicide several times, but I'm glad I'm still here, and glad you're here on Earth with me. I wish you healthy longevity, and prosperity.
@@parkerlee3912 thank you
I have to be honest I thought you were already assessed as ADD. I found out just a few months ago that I have Autism. I started telling people and they were like “ well,yeah”! Come from addictive parents and have trauma etc. I read your book and can relate as an addict myself. My dark thoughts come at weekends and thinking back that’s when the shit used to get real when I was a kid. Laura, thank you, thank you, thank you for being so real and sharing your journey. You’ve given Alfie and your future children such a gift of knowledge, sending love and strength ❤️💪
I can relate to So many things she has been through including Addiction, Alcoholism, Depression, Nighttime Anxiety.
Your Strength gives me Strength, Laura. You're a Blessing.
My jaw literally dropped when the Dr. talked about people feeling like those in their lives would be better off without them. I think this a lot but never considered myself suicidal.
Likewise, I would never commit suicide but I feel everyone around me would be better off without me so I often fantasize about just disappearing from the face of the earth or disappearing to a different country and start over there.
When the doctor said she gets those thoughts at night because her trauma would have happened at night... her face..you can see she clicks and the hurt..
That’s scary because I do the same thing. Everything bad to me happened at night.
It's apparent her comedy was her way of coping and staying sane. She probably went out of her way to try and keep her family happy. 😔
It is so inspiring how you are able to be open with these things and still find a way to be fun about them and then be serious at the same time.
Thank you for sharing as at 54, I was diagnosed having ADHD though those tests you took but bot a brain scan. Dark thoughts at night associated with time time of day you’ve had trauma is very insightful. Your openness changes lives.
The “Do do do” then the car exploding. 😂😂😂 And also I just cut a giant fart while you were playing with the whoopie cushion. Power of suggestion is a powerful thing.
Wow, the last part made me cry.. I suffer from anxiety, depression, panic disorder and ptsd. It’s not easy. Everyday is a struggle so I understand how you feel and I’m here for you. You are not alone. 😢
This was full-on. I just got diagnosed with ADHD (2 months ago, at 34, at the start of covid lockdown- thanks, 2020) and it's an absolute mindfuck. I guarantee you that once you start researching a BUNCH of things will click into place (prepare for many 'oh dang 😮' moments). Good luck with your self-rediscovery - the ADHD community is really supportive, and I hope your new relationship with yourself paves the way to even greater self-love, self-understanding and personal growth xx p.s I alsostruggle with addiction... veeeeeery common in the ADHD community!
Super glad you are finally going to get some answers! Congrats again on baby #2!🥰🥰
I was diagnosed with ADD and ADHD as a child. I literally could not sit still until I got put on medication. At first I was on adderall and it wasn’t good for me at all. I’ve been on Vyvanse for majority of my life. Then I thought once I got out of college I didn’t think I needed it anymore.. so I stopped taking it and it really wasn’t good for me either. I was literally off the wall and I was acting completely different than what I usually did. So I got back on it here recently... it’s been a real struggle to live with ADD/ADHD to feel... normal. But I’m trying to embrace it because it’s something that makes me, me.
Hi Laura, I do not know who you are, but your courage to share your journey is beautiful. You are choosing health for yourself and your child. Keep blowing up the trail for others. LOVE IT.
Girl, I understand your struggles. All those thoughts run through my head. Thanks for bringing light to this subject. You are doing this for people out here that may not have the financial means or strength to uncover these deep and often dark thoughts. Your awesome and I can relate so much with you.
Hold up girl, you didn’t know you had ADD?
I bought you knew, omg.
I am an adult female with ADHD, my whole family has add or adhd so I spotted it almost immediately when I found you two or three years back.
Girl you go get yourself treated you absolute queen!
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Like, I was going to comment too. I was shocked that she was shocked lol. Not that a diagnosis defines you at all but I thought she maybe had a thought she could be.... but i dont know if that because i have worked in Mental Health for years.
Laura I must say to you, THANK YOU. For you to put this out in the open is beyond brave of you. I have struggled so much in my life and have not understood why. I like yourself have had the trauma from childhood and the struggles of family addiction. This video you made also shows that other people do or have had the same struggles and you are not alone. People don't understand how difficult ADD is to live with, but it is real. Thank you for opening up about this.
I clicked extremely fast! I was honestly kinda worried about the results...
Thank you for sharing!!! I also had an alcoholic father and the night thoughts made total sense. Thank you for helping me to find a way out of the dark♥️
Laura, welcome to the ADD/ADHD CLUB!! I got diagnosed as an adult after my son was diagnosed. I was so overwhelmed at first, but then it all just made so much sense. There was a huge sense of relief in knowing there was a reason I was the way I was!! The thing is, once you get diagnosed, you can learn awesome ways to make it your super power! The more you know...
Laura as I get tired during the day I have less control over my thoughts and all my other issues get worse. So rest is so important
Getting diagnosed with ADD changed my life (for the better). It helped me understand myself so much better. And there are so many techniques and tools and treatments for ADD that don’t involve medication (I take medication for my ADD, but I pair it with CBT and other ADD tools).
Thank you for posting this. I was recently diagnosed with ADD and I did not take the doctor seriously. This helped. Perhaps this is why I identify with you so often. Have a great day, Laura and Fam ❤️
Whoa!!! Something just clicked.. I HAVE ADD!! My whole life I have struggled with focus, memory, considered lazy.. stupid even. Everything makes sense now. I will see a specialist! Thanks for this.
Wow! Some of what the doctor said hit home! Thanks for sharing this. I love you and your little family.
The Dr. Said some stuff about the dark thoughts that made complete sense because I'm going through that too. Just like you. I'm so glad I watched. Thank you for sharing.
Wow I thought that was extremely interesting. Also for some reason I felt like tearing up when you talked about the morbid suicidal thoughts because I was the same exact way just a couple years ago. God bless you for being productive with yourself especially now being a mother. 🙏💗✝️
This was so helpful. Thank you for advocating for mental health. I lost a sister to bi polar disorder, and I lost a cousin last month to it too. I really appreciate that you care enough to take us along your life journey.
Laura thank you for sharing with us. Sometimes it is hard to admit the thoughts especially when you know you won't act on them,but they are there. I love how you are doing this to help others.
Thanks for doing this! please encourage others to do the same and post results. It can save many lives! Bless you!
Welcome to the club! Got officially diagnosed beginning of the year at the age of 32. It truly changed my life and explained sooo much...
Funnily enough, even reading your book i thought you had it, just never mentioned it.
You've got to watch 'how to adhd' on RUclips. Or 'totally add'. They really really helped me understand myself sooo much better 💞
Wow Laura, what a refreshing video, to see a doctor having an educational, informative conversation with a patient, that answers to a lot of your trauma. If we could cut the piece about how suicide affects others, and make that into a short clip that can be shared, imagine how many lives could be saved. This was so refreshing to watch, and see his value as a medical professional, clearly doing a job he loves and is very, very good at. I hope he can help many more, looking forward to Stephen's brain scan too! xx
That doctor was so sweet. Thanks for posting this, it’s so personal but it can make people feel less weird if they can relate to you
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve had the dark thoughts too... and this year hasn’t helped. Thank you for being brave and helping others feel less alone
Thank you for this video! Honestly I love your humor but I also love the seriousness in your humor. I am in recovery 6yrs now clean & sober but my thoughts are like yours & I had a horrific childhood. THANK YOU, FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY ❤
I am so happy you have shared your life with us. You are helping so many people understand the connections of trauma with ADD, addiction etc..things I have never read about as a connected unit, only each diagnosis separately. Why have not more mental healthcare professionals studied this and put it into their practice is my question. I am so happy for the four of you! Knowledge is power! Blessings to each of you!
Oh, and the car farts? Genius! You are never too old to laugh and be silly is my motto!
I feel you so hard!! I suffer with this as well.
Maybe I should get a scan.
You doing this video has made me feel better about seeing a doctor!
I’m so proud of you!!
Thank you so much!
OXOX prayers for you and your beautiful family -Kristen
My husband is a recovering addict of 3yrs and almost 4 months and he struggles with memory loss and rapid thoughts as well as suicidal base lines!!! We have been trying to get him into see a neurologist but honestly this whole video helped me so much I want to talk to this guy....where is he based out of?! Oh my word this would explain so much...even in my own life having PTSD....thank you so much for sharing this video!!!!
I love Steven's whining laugh over the fart noises, LoL🤣 he sounds so defeated as he grips the wheel in embarrassment during the songs! ❤️🤣💙🙏🏻💜 TY for the laughs today!
Thank you so much for sharing this!!
I was diagnosed with ADD as a kid and had to take "medicated speed". My dad was also an alcoholic. You just helped me be able to talk to my doctor and see if I can get the same done for me!! I am 40 and I have the same issues you was having.
I have the same issues at night too!!!
Thank you!! I am crying but happy tears that I am not alone.
One of your very best videos ever..you remind me so much of my daughter..she is an addict who had hodgkins lymphoma 3 years ago this mounth..we just found out recently that it has come back and trying to get her sober without her wanting it so she can get her chemo treatments is so hard. Shes on day 5 of being sober. I pray she keeps it up..she refuses rehab because she has been in 10 different ones already..not her doing but mine. Took me a while to realise she has got to want it.. but trying to get her to want it is a never ending battle..she calls her a functioning addict but she is totally not..I can only pray that she one day can see the light and realise the potential she has to do great things as you have.
I have had 2 brain scans but for migraines. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing these results! Your a great mom and Steven is a great dad! :)
OMG you don’t know how helpful this video has been to me and it’s given me something to work towards with my daughter and future it’s also helped me massively with my past and my ex husband I know what has brought me to the place I’m in and after this video I now know I can move forward with a better life and future thank you so very much for doing this I really believe you have saved my future god bless you and your family and the people you work with 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Laura,
You are such an inspiration. You are truly open and honest about what you’re going through and that’s truly admirable. Alfie is a lucky little boy to have such a great mom and dad. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. I admire you and you honestly make me laugh. Stay strong and be proud of who you are.
When he mentioned that 500% increase in the chance of your child killing themselves all I can think of is Cam & Fam's Landon and his two daughters who have to make sense of his death and it is so devastating.
I love that you are putting these things out there for all the world to see, because having a mental health problem shouldn't be a stigma!
Also, I haven't had that kind of scan done, but I had multiple CTs and MRIs done because of migraines, and that was how they diagnosed my Bipolar 1. Apparently I'm missing a very small segment of artery that would have fed the impulse control portion of my brain more sufficiently.
Anyways, PROUD OF YOU!
My mom is ADD...she’s 79 now and having a conversation with her is really tough 🙂 but we all manage!! I think I have a touch of it and so does my brother and we’re 57 & 58.
As for you taking medication, research everything and all remedies possible...none of us would want you to have any kind of relapse.. God bless!!🙏🏻✝️
I feel like I'm rewatching everything I've felt in my head. The worry, fear, and the constant feel of falling apart. It was also hard to deal with things, cause of the meds. They made me dead inside, and sent me into uncontrollable fits where I'm hitting myself, screaming, and shaking for hours.
I still have not got much help, and still deal with bad things, like relapses from meds. After years of random diagnosis. They finally found that I had, what they told me in simple form "tripolar". I cannot take any meds, they're dangerous. Plus the only thing I can do, is just deal with it. They said due to this, I am disabled. Yet even though I've dealt with this, for over 20 years, and yet I cannot get disability.
James, have you contacted an attorney? I didn't get disability until my third swipe, the step where one goes before a judge with a lawyer. An attorney will help you get diagnostic testing, specifically for gaining disability. The attorney pays for it all, with the stipulation that when you get accepted, they get 30% of what your back pay is from your initial step of applying. Almost everyone is turned down when they first apply, and when they appeal. Most people do get accepted by a judge. Feel free to contact me if you have any questions.
@@injunsun none ever own up to their words to help. I just can't find anyone that'll help, and I have no money to push.
@@injunsun I have applied many times, and denied. I almost had things going till this covid crap started, and now I have to start all over. I had proof that the doctors would not help me, and kept pushing me to takes meds. Even though they knew it hurt me badly. I've gone as far as bashing my head into the floor when I was little and on those meds.
I did try to get all my records from them, but after reading through them. I found they left loads of info out of it. They even twisted and changed things.
I told lawyers this, and each time they claim they help. They end up backing out just as we start to get into things.
@@jamesgolden7317 I suggest seeking a disability advocate service. They may be able to refer you to an attorney who's not shit. Most attorneys actively help, including paying for diagnostic tests, because that's how they get paid. Regardless, please don't get discouraged. I've been there, way down there, and I know it hurts. Be kind to yourself. You deserve that.
@@injunsun I can't find any close, but if I can, I will.
FINALLY! As someone with undiagnosed ADHD myself (had a work screening but awaiting formal diagnosis) I have been watching Laura with great interest ever since I first stumbled upon her videos, wondering when she will have the same realisation! With knowledge comes the ability to do something about it. All the best Laura!
I'm sorry to hear at such a young age you're having problems.I want to know what kind of Dr he was.Ive done the Neuro Dr's that prescribed
pills I no longer want.Ive been told mines PTSD.Im in recovery so no.longer want drugs.I need a Dr like him.Thank you. Love your family.
Sorry for commenting 2 times. I also have ADD and C-PTSD. I am doing a therapy called EMDR for my PTSD and it’s working miracles. Yes, it’s really REALLY hard reliving my horrible childhood but it’s definitely worth it because I am slowly healing. I also started actually reading the Bible and strengthening my relationship with Christ. I know without God I wouldn’t have survived all that I have. I also have over 13 years of sobriety from alcoholism. I will be interested to hear if your ferritin is low, high or just right. I can’t get my ferritin levels to stay above 35. My Dermatologist said ferritin has to be minimum of 60 for hair production alone. Often times children diagnosed with ADD/ADHD actually have low ferritin levels. Instead of being nourished children are being medicated. The mental health system is doing more harm than good the way it is right now. God please bless, heal and protect everyone here!❤️🙏🏼
Thanks for being so open with us, really amazing to find this depth and honesty here on RUclips.
This was soo informative! I also have ADD, but just haven't treated it, and so many things he spoke about that are related to the untreated ADD are problems I'm experiencing.
I was diagnosed with ADD / ADHD when I was 27 ....... this is the first time I had it explained to me and made sense..... in so many ways.... thanx for getting your brain checked.... I know u wasn't expecting the result u got but..... at least now u know ..... loves u all xx
WOWWWW.. So much of what the doctor is saying makes SO MUCH SENSE to me in my own life. Thanks for sharing this!
I was in the middle of another video and instantly clicked! I LOVE you guys 😍 Very informational. Thanks for sharing!
This is SUCH A GOOD video on ADD , I understand it a lot better now. Very good, Laura and Stephen and doctor and the crew ! Thank you for making it!
She smiled! Sometimes all we want is an answer and to be understood. We are not crazy and we can be helped. That smile :)
Holy crap!! I was blown away by this video! I’m so glad you went to a doctor to get help. Also a lot of the things that were said hit home.
Thank you for sharing on a much needed topic, ADD in adults. The humor you bring in is delightful. I appreciate how your content is funny, but educational & often thought provoking.
I am so very proud of you, what you are doing for yourself and your son is astronomical.
My Son was diagnosed with adhd and low spectrum of autism. It is a struggle for him. Even though we have seen many doctor's and psychologist, I learned things from your video today. One thing I can say there is no easy answer, everyone's metabolic system is different. Keep that in mind when going through this, some will get better very fast. While others will take more time. Hang in there and know this is a good doctor. We know, we have seen so many.
Ohhh and btw, The Car Fart was hilarious!! That will be your saving grace, humor! Don't ever stop!
That Doctor is a blessing!!!! I was WOWED many times 😲
I am crying right now watching this. My upbringing was quite similar and I would have dark thoughts, have been in hospitals for depression and have been diagnosed with PTSD. Please keep me updated and it gives me courage to go get checked out!!
All these things are so relatable.. And my whole family is also always 'like you just have to have will power.. You don't try' and stuffs... There's so much life ahead of me and nothing at all... Hope you guys have happy life ahead... ❤️❤️❤️
Hey Laura Thank you for everything you do. I have ADHD and am currently on Adderall. Trust me when I say the difference between being on it Is like Night and Day. Know that you are amazing and awesome.
This is one of my favorite videos of yours, so far! Love you and your family! Stay healthy!
12:10. Yesss!!!!!!! Having lost my mum to although not suicide, but cancer, i still know and experience what it is like to be one of the ones left behind.
This doctor hit it right on the nose.
No the ones left behind are not better without You. We are the ones reminded of the one passed on in way or other everyday and know we cant talk to them. And we live with that for the rest of our lives.
This is amazing. I was diagnosed with add last year at 33 years old. My doctor gave me adderall and I didn’t like it at all. Then she gave me Ritalin and I’m a completely different person. I can finish a task at work instead of having 3 or 4 different unfinished things. But I learned a lot from this video that my doctor didn’t tell me. I love it.
Thank you for this video. I think I’ve mentioned before that my dad is an alcoholic, and has dementia. His family is also full of alcoholics. And I just don’t have a relationship with any of those relatives. I’ve suffered from anxiety, depression and worried thoughts my entire life. I’ve thought for a while about getting a brain scan. Especially after a concussion a few years ago found a whole in my brain, but it was never discussed. Thank you for this. Now I’m going to try and schedule me an appointment.❤️
Laura, this will be a turning point for you. I’ve had periods in my life since diagnose without any medication and it worked - but only under very specific circumstances. When those change it’s fundamental to have other alternatives. I’m seeing my meds a bit like a supplement - my brain is in actual lack of something. It’s amazing what you can complete and connect with when your brain isn’t running in 200mph 🤷🏻♀️
So, from my ping pong brain to yours - welcome to the club! We love squirrels.
Thank you for sharing. Having ADD and being female myself I really ralate to your thoughts of being lazy ect...
You also have an incredible doctor at your side! Explaining and taking so much time to help you understand and accept.
It is brave of you to post a video with so much personal information like this for all to see. I’m sure that many will benefit from this. Glad you’re doing good.
You have helped me Laura by me being able to explain what I am going through and Im able to show my loved ones your video to explain me too. THANK YOU!!!
Wow!!! Love the video. I feel you have an excellent professional attending you and now, waiting for Steven's brain scan and results...❤️
So incredibly fascinating how it’s all so damn connected
My daughter has ADD. She’s been on Adderall for three years. She has shown so much more improvement in school since she’s been on medication. If you find something natural that works just as well I would love to hear about it. Good luck, Girl!
Amazing story and so well told! It's so nice learning the "why" behind something isn't it? So cathartic!
OMG thank you so much for this! My son got diagnosed with ADD and I always wondered if my partner has it because they behave so similar. Thank you for sharing. I"m going to get them tested
I listened to your audio book before I started watching your channel. My daughter and my husband have ADHD. I KNEW you also had it. You are far to smart to have struggled the way you did in school.
Everything your doctor said about ADHD medication is spot on. Kids who don't get treatment for ADHD are far more likely to self medicate with alcohol and other drugs unknowingly. I want to see that doctor. LOL. Unfortunately we live in Australia.
Thank you for this. Making an appointment today. 90% of what you’ve talked about here is me and that’s scary to me. Just so you know, you’ve helped me today.
I am glad you are okay Laura. Dr. Amen is amazing. He is the authority on all attention deficit disorders for sure. I want to get one of these scans for my son and I. Gon b a see if We can afford it.
Thanks for sharing that was pretty interesting “brain scan appointment” THE CAR FARTING HAD ME LMFAO!!!🤣
Omg Laura! We have the same experience! Alcoholic upbringing, and ADD all my life and I was diagnosed at 42 years old! The dark times you’re taking about i call « impending sense of doom » I experience it on the daily until I take my meds. Meds combined with trauma therapy has been incredible! I’m looking at trying SAM-E instead of my med this year. It is night and day though since before treatment. I’m so happy for and I suggest watching lots of RUclips videos about what add is and you’ll have your mind blown! Dr Gabor Mate talks a lot about add and trauma and alcoholism. Alfie may show signs of add by 1st or 2nd grade and your first hand experience and education on it will be such a blessing. I was diagnosed after my son was diagnosed and I educated myself about it. It’s not laziness!! It’s Executive Functioning Deficits and stimulation seeking. I used to drink 10 cups of coffee a day - after meds I only want one💕 it’s mind blowing. “Drummer and the Great Mountain” is the best adult add resource I know of that’s all natural and no meds - awesome podcast and book with nutrition info. I’m also vegan so protein is tough and super important. Here’s a great channel to start with! ruclips.net/video/cx13a2-unjE/видео.html
Thank you Laura for your videos. This specially is very great because I think my 9 yeasts old has ADD and my husband keep saying “just focus”. Thank you so much!
BTW I just finished reading your book. I read the whole book in less than a week and I never finish a book. Lots of great stories and learning experience. My daughter and I went for a three miles walk yesterday and I told her your story. It is a great time to have a sex, drugs and human trafficking conversation awesomeness because this shit is real!!!!
Thank you guys so much for making this video. It's really making me think back on my own life and I realize I am just like you Luara,... I'm not bipolar (at least I don't think I am) but I do have the same problem with memory. I'll remember some of the more important things but for the most part I've forgotten almost all of my childhood. More recently though with the state of the world I've found myself more than once thinking very negative thoughts (not suicidal,... I'm afraid of death.) but after watching this I think I might try and reach out and at the very least talk to someone close to me. Then maybe if I grow a big enough pair of balls maybe even seek some form of professional help.
Please do as you mentioned. Don't put it off. I'm 52, living in a life of shit, because I didn't realise how much I had just let go. I'm getting help, and now, life is improving.
I’m glad it went well. My doctor suggested a brain scan and full cognitive assessment, but I couldn’t afford to pay the out-of-pocket expense of was 3k. My symptoms are similar to yours, but possibly worse. There’s been a few days I’ve woken up and couldn’t remember the month. When I read it seems the words get jumbled and all string together. I forget my words and more. I’m only 56, but worried sick I may have early onset dementia. love you guys!!!
Honestly, this was so helpful. I think I’ll talk to my doctor. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us. Also, car farts. HILARIOUS!
I had similar struggles all my life, got diagnosed and things made sense finally. Thank you for sharing this.
This could save and help so many people Laura! Thank you for being so vulnerable. 😍
I am making my daughter watch this! So many potential answers from this. Thank you!!!
I have never watched anything that makes as much sense to me as this video! Your journey is amazing and I absolutely love how enthusiastic you are about everything! The energy you give off is incredible, it really motivates me to get my ass out there and get stuff done (even if I get distracted and it takes me 10X longer to do it! 😂) super big fan of your content! Keep going your fabulous keep spreading those vibes!!!
I am a social service worker and have taken many courses on mental health and addiction but there is always so much more to learn thanks for sharing this Laura so interesting !
I have ADD as well with depression problems. And after seeing this video I understood everything he said and was like ya I have that. It makes total sense to my own problems. I also have thoughts at night and could never figure it out. I didn't know that untreated ADD could do so much damage to myself. Thank you so much for sharing this cuz this gives me the courage to try to get back on medication for it and get my life back together for me and my son.
Thank you for being so open and honest with your viewers! I'm sure it's not easy putting yourself out there.
I hope that things turn around for you Laura, your healthiness is so very important, not only for you, but for Alfie & the new baby coming.. My thoughts are with you!!
Thank you so much for sharing this. It is so important. Some things in your diagnosis hit really close to home for me. I hope everything takes a step for the better and more healthy for you. 💗
Also, shout out to Dr. Amen. You are kind of a rock star! :)