Decisions Can Be DIFFICULT Porch Time 2023

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Комментарии • 426

  • @joanncole9603
    @joanncole9603 8 месяцев назад +239

    Good morning from AL. Today we have my husband’s funeral. He has been a good man, my best friend, a good daddy and a good example to our 2 grown sons about providing for their families, about being faithful to the house of God. He built our homestead after retiring. He was a simple man, he requested to be buried in a pine box, and transported to our cemetery plots in GA in the back of his old 91, rusty Dodge Diesel and low and behold, Lord willing, we are going to get to do it with our 2 sons driving him 62 miles an hour down I-20 in GA. Pray that I always honor God and my husband.

    • @kramitdreams
      @kramitdreams 8 месяцев назад +21

      Praying for you today❤ May he rest in peace with the Lord and you and your sons have the peace of the Lord ❤

    • @MsLippy
      @MsLippy 8 месяцев назад +12

      Ms Joan, my Prayers are with you and family, I’m so sorry for y’all’s loss; but your testimony about your husband - says he was an amazing man. 🙏

    • @debbrown4887
      @debbrown4887 8 месяцев назад +11

      Prayers of comfort for you...your son and all of the family...

    • @Rosethatwantstomove
      @Rosethatwantstomove 8 месяцев назад +11

      Prayers and safe travels.

    • @wnctg
      @wnctg 8 месяцев назад +9

      Prayers for comfort and love from Almighty God

  • @SuzieqNC2606
    @SuzieqNC2606 8 месяцев назад +38

    Let us pray! Dear Lord, send down rain from the skies for Danny, Wanda and others in their area. Fill the wells and ponds up with fresh water. Thank you Father for the rain. We ask these things in Jesus’s name. Amen! 🙏

  • @jplynch464
    @jplynch464 8 месяцев назад +47

    When I hear you say, the Lord laid on my heart, I become all ears.
    Although I am a bit older than you, your messages help me keep my feet firmly planted on spiritual ground. Thank you.

    • @marilynmarilynohearn476
      @marilynmarilynohearn476 8 месяцев назад +2

      I almost didn't watch because I didn't think I could take in one more negative thing, but because it was from the Lord I had to listen. I was a private teacher I saw the struggle of children who were home schooled who couldn't read or do math and forget about history or even geography. Often they were just workers in the house. My heart hurt for them.

    • @icecreamladydriver1606
      @icecreamladydriver1606 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@marilynmarilynohearn476 That is so sad and I know that it happens but all the home schoolers that I know, including myself, the kids did very well but to be honest, my kids did go to school part time. When done right I advocate home schooling in these days of far left teaching.

    • @tammyroyal8467
      @tammyroyal8467 8 месяцев назад

      Hi Danny I'm glad you laid on us what's on your heart today. My siblings & I know & experienced similar life happenings once we were out on our own living our life. Not upset one bit because I wouldn't trade it for an easier way. It built our character & we are stronger women for it. Thank you & God bless

  • @arknanny2547
    @arknanny2547 8 месяцев назад +22

    My nephew in law and neice were homeschooled 30 years ago most of our family at the time said they were being made "weird" but guess what the nephew graduated college at 20 and is a Engineer like his dad and for the past 23 years has employed my husband a surveyor. Both married good Christian spouses and flourish in public. Now days there are homeschool meet ups, football etc or they can play sports on local district school team, you pay the taxes your kid should get to participate,my sil fought that battle last year her daughter goes for band only. I wish I had the power to decide for my grans. I am a former teacher FYI homeschool!

    • @icecreamladydriver1606
      @icecreamladydriver1606 8 месяцев назад +3

      Yep!

    • @medtech131
      @medtech131 8 месяцев назад +5

      Well said. Those who do a poor job at homeschooling make others look badly. Finished my 21 year homeschool journey (3 children) in 2022.

    • @icecreamladydriver1606
      @icecreamladydriver1606 8 месяцев назад

      @@medtech131 Good job.

  • @MynewTennesseeHome
    @MynewTennesseeHome 8 месяцев назад +34

    I always felt like society took a nose dive in the 50's and we're still headed down. My mom was an enabler for my sister but not for me, I was too stuborn and independant. I left home at 16. Pretty much all my kids have come home for short periods of time but I didn't make it easy for them. Now that I'm old my children have helped me and I still help them when needed. My family is very independant minded and would rather do without than ask for help but we all know in a pinch someone will be there.

    • @robynearl
      @robynearl 8 месяцев назад +1

      I subscribed to your channel!

  • @anonymousresistance123
    @anonymousresistance123 8 месяцев назад +17

    I'm 41 and have lived in a multigenerational house since 2014. My stepdad just died in June, but mom is still here. She might have made certain decisions but certain things happened she can't control. Those same things happened to me and we help each other. It's possible to live multigenerationally and not enable anyone. Mom is a covert narcissist. Trust me that she doesn't get enabled and nor do I. Society is ruthless and i have done much to unindoctrinate myself. This wasn't a hard message Danny.

  • @junkinjodi
    @junkinjodi 8 месяцев назад +8

    Danny our pastor has always said we let things in our homes through our televisions that if it came to the door we wouldn't let it in.

  • @kathieswan3830
    @kathieswan3830 8 месяцев назад +37

    Sir, that wasn't a "hard" message. Timely, wise, MUCH needed, well delivered is how I would describe it.
    Thank you so much for your faithfulness in delivering it!...YHWH bless you.

  • @geoffoutdoors
    @geoffoutdoors 8 месяцев назад +21

    Thanks Danny! I am 20 years a live-in care-giver for my parents... dad passed away 7 years ago and now I have mom. I knew it would be me taking care of them back when I was 17, out of all my siblings.

    • @jtharp9265
      @jtharp9265 8 месяцев назад +3

      God bless you 🙏 ❤️

    • @icecreamladydriver1606
      @icecreamladydriver1606 8 месяцев назад +4

      And no matter how good your siblings are they will never understand what you go through. Been there, done that but I don't regret it. My mom was a saint.

    • @geoffoutdoors
      @geoffoutdoors 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@icecreamladydriver1606 100% truth 👍. It is the hardest yet most honorable thing i will do in my life and honoring my dad's request on his deathbed to take care of my mother.

    • @icecreamladydriver1606
      @icecreamladydriver1606 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@geoffoutdoors Bless you for what you are doing and though it may sound hard, you have to take care of yourself too.

    • @geoffoutdoors
      @geoffoutdoors 8 месяцев назад

      @@icecreamladydriver1606 always trying

  • @missiechako5917
    @missiechako5917 8 месяцев назад +47

    This Word this morning is SO REFRESHING Mr.Danny! The Truth is always such a salve! We just ushered Mama into the hands of The Lord after caring for her the last 15 yrs! We also are " Cleaning out the house and shutting off the "noise" of the world! Your Porchtimes this year,as the year of SOLUTIONS, have been timely and insightful! God has,and us,using you in a Mighty way in our lives and we just want to Encourage you and Wanda to continue to PREACH and Speak as God leads y'all! ❤

    • @DebrasBeautifulMusic
      @DebrasBeautifulMusic 8 месяцев назад +1

      It is very difficult to have to go through a loved ones belongings and make big decisions about what to do with their life's accumulations. We went through that when my mother and mother-in-law died in 2019 and 2018, respectively. Miss our parents so much. May God bless you in this journey.

    • @missiechako5917
      @missiechako5917 8 месяцев назад

      @@DebrasBeautifulMusic Thank you so much for your kind,gentle and compassionate words. I appreciate them more than you can imagine. It is very difficult to navigate emotionally.

  • @joespaw3812
    @joespaw3812 8 месяцев назад +12

    I remember when we had to put everything that would freeze,knee-high because the floors were so cold. We have become a very soft society. God help us

  • @stephencourtright8099
    @stephencourtright8099 8 месяцев назад +8

    You can tell when a child is spoiled when a mother comes home with the groceries and the child don't come running to help bring them in they must not be that hungry. You know what I mean

  • @MarthaAzari
    @MarthaAzari 8 месяцев назад +23

    Amen Danny! Sometimes the truth hurts. And those that take offense are also deeply indoctrinated, so if you get ugly emails…… just move on and don’t take their words to heart. Follow your own instructions. Love and Prayers to you and Wanda!

  • @marilynmarilynohearn476
    @marilynmarilynohearn476 8 месяцев назад +9

    Mr Danny this is not too hard. Yes I want to hear well done good and faithful servant too. My daughter home schooled her 6 children. They are Christian started college at 16 and are very good workers. I've been through some really hard times, but God was with me all of the time carrying me through it. I'm very curious about the plans to mold us so we could be manipulated today. I think the worst and best thing that happen to me was television. One of the worst things that happened we stopped visiting with our neighbors and building our communities. I remember when they started putting new math in our schools. I'm 72 and I've seen lots of changes. I wore my friends out talking about the things that were happening. Still today people, friends and relatives are seeing what I've been talking about. It's almost too late for those who wouldn't pay attention and now it's hard to know who to help. For me I have to keep telling myself God's in control and He has a good plan for me and to keep my eyes on my creator.

  • @oldnanz
    @oldnanz 8 месяцев назад +17

    My husband and I talked about enabling our grandchild we have that lives with us. We have been trying to be more No and figure it out yourself. He has now been trying to get ahead in life. He has now started a career as an electrical apprentice.
    Sometimes you fall into the trap helping to much. Thanks for the message

  • @voiceinthewilderness2290
    @voiceinthewilderness2290 8 месяцев назад +14

    I agree with most of what you’ve said. Usually I’m on board with all. The times we’re living in are requiring some multi generational households sometimes. Buying a home is not possible for some. That dream has died. We need to pull together, put aside differences, set biblical rules for living and get through these times to the end in some cases. Hard choices face many these days and it’s not going to get any better. Just my thoughts. God first, family then all else. Yes we have been conditioned. We have been conditioned to walk away from God first and embrace the world. God and family are what we have. That may be blood family or not but we either unite together or fall divided. Wise words you speak Danny. God bless you and Wanda in these times we’re in. Glad you’re housecleaning. LaVonne

  • @momp7218
    @momp7218 8 месяцев назад +3

    I am thankful that some of my daughters moved back home because my husband just passed away and if they didn’t live me I would have to sell this beautiful place

    • @leee7115
      @leee7115 8 месяцев назад

      I understand. Situations are different for everyone. Sometimes families living together can be a blessing for everyone involved. You should not be made to feel guilty for the happiness you’ve found.

  • @deano1438
    @deano1438 8 месяцев назад +4

    Multi generational living use to be common. And it worked. They were a tribe. They lived biblically..the system changed that. David Rockefeller was a leading guy in the movement.

    • @leee7115
      @leee7115 8 месяцев назад +1

      I like and respect Danny a lot but not all circumstances are the same. What you said is very true. Sometimes families living together can be a blessing from God.

  • @austinwilloughby3439
    @austinwilloughby3439 8 месяцев назад +11

    Amen Danny! Society is out of place! People today spend money on useless things! Where the wife could be at home with the children if the money at home and time at home was used better! People want to many things that are unnecessary! Kids have piles of toys in the yard and in their rooms they don't even play with,that end up in the landfill .When we were growing up every dime was important to make ends meet, or at least get close!

    • @DebrasBeautifulMusic
      @DebrasBeautifulMusic 8 месяцев назад +1

      Nowadays, it cost more to have to put children in day care than a job pays.

  • @kathleenmaddox2346
    @kathleenmaddox2346 8 месяцев назад +12

    Danny, everything you said was correct and none of it offensive. Thank you for another great Porch Time!

  • @melissavisconti89
    @melissavisconti89 8 месяцев назад +12

    Mr.Danny you have described my family in so many ways. Grandparents always covered up tracks for my mother no matter the crime or drug. I've grown up hard because of it mom never could stand on her own. Now shes 64 and terribly sick no money us kids have it being pushed on us from grandmom that it's our turn to feed mom. We've said no. Hand up yes hand out no. I take her shopping listen to her rambles but can not go any further. I've raise my son with the way of the Lord opposite of my up bringing honesty value of a dollar no screens etc. He's a sweet young man at 14

    • @miephoex
      @miephoex 8 месяцев назад +1

      It’s not your job to deny your mother! Can you imagine Jesus denying us because of our sins and discretion? Every time we sin, we are denying our Lord. Yet He is staying by us 24/7. Forgiveness is a must! Good Bless You.

    • @melissavisconti89
      @melissavisconti89 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@miephoex I don't necessarily deny her I just can't fully support someone who left me homeless as a teen, had my childhood home robbed for drug money and lies to me daily still to today. Sorry if that bothers you it's not meant too

  • @labreeskarogers1102
    @labreeskarogers1102 8 месяцев назад +6

    Danny, do you think you and Mrs. Wanda could cover some of the frugal living older generations used to live by?

  • @twistedponies7480
    @twistedponies7480 8 месяцев назад +7

    You’re spot on Mr Danny. Our school system was always designed in this manner. I discovered this right before my boys were born. The other thing that occurred to me was that in school, the children are being raised by each other more so than the adults. Since our youngest had a speech issue, we utilized the resources offered by the school and after about 5 and 8 years of homeschooling, ours went to public school. In a town of 800 people, school was not as far off the rails.
    They have both done pretty well. The thing that continues to shock me is the things that their friends believe or just don’t know at all. It is obvious when observing the current 20 somethings that many parents spent more time rewarding themselves than parenting.
    I blame the parents AND the young people. When you become an adult you have the choice to change your thinking, UN-indoctrinate yourself and make better decisions. Seems many use their parents as an excuse for their behavior. Recognizing a problem and making an excuse rather than looking for a solution seems lazy and weak.
    My boys still live on the property but not in the e same house. They pay rent and help on the farm. It’s worked out well.
    I’d love to say that I planned for all of this to work out. Looking back, it is clear that the Lord led us to the place we are now, tho we had no clue at the time.
    Thanks for sharing. I thought the video was well presented and not the least bit offensive.
    I do so appreciate all the work that y’all put in to share these videos with everyone.
    Blessings from the river swamp ❤

  • @RobinL4715
    @RobinL4715 8 месяцев назад +10

    Your message is wise. I have an adult child with mental health issues, who needs to find his own way, but it sure is hard to kick him out when the system out there is broken. I pray for his healing daily. Your message is realistic. We need to toughen the next generation or they will be lost.

    • @lisascott9670
      @lisascott9670 8 месяцев назад

      Perhaps you need to find your child a home for disabled adults. Medicaid pays for this

  • @abundantlyyours6861
    @abundantlyyours6861 8 месяцев назад +2

    When we homeschooled, we did LOTS of volunteer work as a family. Our kids were used to talking to and working with people of all ages. There are tons of opportunities to get your kids out and socialized. It is up to the parents to do it.

  • @livinnfl
    @livinnfl 8 месяцев назад +10

    Thank you Mr. Danny for your much needed words of truth!
    This world is so full of lies and evil.
    Please continue with your spiritual words of guidance as our ears are open and our eyes will see the way.🍊🕊️🍊

  • @conniemoore3207
    @conniemoore3207 8 месяцев назад +2

    I don't usually comment but this was one of the best porch time I've watched.

  • @jennifersanders2456
    @jennifersanders2456 8 месяцев назад +2

    I was not offended in any way. Thank you for following God’s requests. 🙏🏻

  • @emeraldwaterlifehomestead2180
    @emeraldwaterlifehomestead2180 8 месяцев назад +10

    Good morning, I’m so glad you are speaking your heart. I hope you share more. Always look forward to Porch Time. ❤

  • @angelacalloway8125
    @angelacalloway8125 8 месяцев назад +8

    Good morning Mr Danny! Great message this morning. We have to be obedient to God, if he put this message on your heart, nobody should be upset by it. I believe and receive the word of God!! Thanks for sharing. Peace and blessings to you and Mrs Wanda.

  • @educatedchoice2139
    @educatedchoice2139 8 месяцев назад +5

    Thank You for speaking today Danny! Its nobody s fault that we were born into a fallen world! Up on the N. East Coast we have had enough Rain this year to fill a 50 gallon drum to brimming. Todays snow, and low temps. will start to freeze it all up. Be Blessed in Our Lord as its a great time to be alive.

  • @This-Hobos-Tread
    @This-Hobos-Tread 8 месяцев назад +5

    My grandmother, who would be 100 y/o, said, "Every time you point your finger at someone, you have three more pointing back at you."

    • @wnctg
      @wnctg 8 месяцев назад

      What an awesome comment, this hot me in the right way.

  • @joanncole9603
    @joanncole9603 8 месяцев назад +2

    Danny, I’m coming back to this video after my husband’s funeral service yesterday. He had a service that he would have been pleased with, honored God, him and our family. Thank you for the wisdom you shared, I will be prayerfully using some of what you shared. Bless you & Wanda today.

  • @JuanGarcia-hz2jw
    @JuanGarcia-hz2jw 8 месяцев назад +3

    I have to differ with you on homeschooling, we have extra places to stay and use them to help folks that are having a hard time, the most sheltered kids I have ever met go to public school everyday. Like you we did a mixture of private, public and home schooling for ours and the one with the most homeschooling is a very social Aerospace engineer and about as far from sheltered as you can get, it's all about what you teach them not how.

  • @jeffwerchan724
    @jeffwerchan724 8 месяцев назад +4

    I feel you Danny my Dad was off grid before it was cool. My Mom made our clothes when i little. I didn't like it as a kid but now I can't wait to get back to the country. Thank You for the message today Danny and you don't have to apologize for what God put on your heart. The TRUTH is the TRUTH...

  • @prayerwarrior424
    @prayerwarrior424 8 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for your God given wisdom. I have been feeling these things and have felt like the odd one in a liberal state in the rural suburbs. Everyone seems blind to the hard times, all have the flashy toys, vacations and shared on FB. I’m growing in 9 raised beds this summer, canning, freeze drying, and preparing for social unrest. My neighbors think I need to get out more in retirement… I’m working harder now and talk to the Father throughout the day! They don’t want to hear about God.. it is very sad! I hope my one son comes back to God and the other 2 are lukewarm. I pray on their behalf every day. I tried to keep them from the worlds temptations but one was fully indoctrinated into the alphabet lifestyle. If it is in your heart to pray for him, I’d appreciate your prayers for Drew🙏

  • @Teena-yi9xw
    @Teena-yi9xw 8 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you Danny for being obedient and relaying this message!

  • @berly6412
    @berly6412 8 месяцев назад +3

    Wow...God made those batteries last to help me. I'm in the middle of having to help an unhealthy aging parent and it is very difficult for me. She made choices over the years that have made everyone's life harder. And she does not appreciate the help. Helping her this past year has put a great strain on my life. May God help me in my decisions going forward.

  • @marjoriedanley6131
    @marjoriedanley6131 8 месяцев назад +2

    What a great talk Danny is giving us in this Porch Time. I find myself agreeing with everything he has said. At one point Danny was discussing on subjects concerning our children, it brought to my mind how when our son, who is now 44 years old, married with 2 children, was a 16 or 17 years old finding a used car that he wanted. It didn’t cost a lot of money at all, but oh did he want that car! My husband and I could’ve paid cash for that car (and it was tempting to get it for him) but as he was just starting his summertime job, pitching cantaloupes and watermelons for a local farmer, we told our son that he would have to pay us so much a week until he had paid us back. He only thought about our proposition a couple of minutes then he agreed to that. And by the end of that job, he had paid us all the money he owed us. I have to admit, that it was hard not to just tell him, “That’s ok son, you don’t owe us anything, we will get you that car”. But of course we wanted him to learn a life lesson of, You have to work in life in order to get what you want. Starting when he was about 19 years old (when he moved to another state for high s job) all through the years to now present day, he has never asked us for any money. We have told him a few times over those years, that if he, or his wife and children, needed us to help out in any way, to let us know. But he never has. We are so proud of him in a lot of different ways, but I guess the main way is how he has worked hard and has taken responsibility as a husband and Dad so well. Well, I didn’t mean to write such a long comment here. I thank Mr Danny and Ms Wanda for allowing us to somehow feel a part of their lives. May our Lord God bring them much needed rain, if it be His Will. Amen.
    Much love for both of you, from my tiny part of the world,
    Southeast Missouri.

  • @MarilynWallace-lw3tb
    @MarilynWallace-lw3tb 8 месяцев назад +2

    A great message, thank you for sharing. It puts everything in place to see how “they” have worked out their plan. I have always felt women going to work outside the home was the beginning of so many problems.

  • @taylorsmart3192
    @taylorsmart3192 8 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for this Danny. My kids are 7 and 9 I have a boy and a girl and I home school them. It is hard to find friends for them long term so they can get those social skills because a lot of the families you run into are just not good ones that you want to be hanging around with long term. I do try to teach them how to deal with there problems and on their own with each other and how to deal with others when they aren't so nice. And just over all skills that are needed and good values. I really appreciate Wanda and you and all y'all do you have taught me a lot.

    • @Sarah19604
      @Sarah19604 7 месяцев назад +1

      My kids are of similar age to yours and I have some teens as well. Socializing opportunities can be hard to find sometimes but here is how we do it: We got involved with homeschool co-ops (find them through churches and Facebook/email district groups) , we joined a karate studio that allows the whole family to workout after we pay for 2, my older kids are working jobs right along side the public school kids, my younger kids play with the”potty-mouthed” neighborhood kids and they are welcome at my home as long as they can behave themselves..we verbally correct their behavior if they don’t... We talk about the things those kids are being taught in school with our kids so they know what type of mindset those kids are being taught to have, I tell my kids our perspective on those things from a Biblical worldview. Our kids will need to be able to navigate this world and be able to keep their biblical worldview. There are a bunch of great Christian apologetics channels out there…red pen logic, Alissa Childers, Living waters/ ray comfort…answering my children’s questions and talking with them about worldview has been good for me as well. It’s better that our children are exposed to the world under our supervision and guidance than letting them loose as untethered young adults with minds that have not ever come across these ideas and the people who follow secularism. I am of the opinion that they should be exposed to it and learn to function in it and interact with all sorts of people, but do it with your guidance. This will help them be able to develop critical thinking and discernment.

  • @arkansasmccoy8592
    @arkansasmccoy8592 8 месяцев назад +4

    Everything sounded spot on to me! Enjoyed it!

  • @freerangehomewithtrish102
    @freerangehomewithtrish102 8 месяцев назад +1

    I totally agree Danny. I see some things my grandsons are exposed to and it saddens me. I pray daily for them and my children.

  • @makingmemorieswithbenji3004
    @makingmemorieswithbenji3004 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Danny, truth is sometimes hard to say , even harder to hear but needed. God Bless you both. Part of my family in Christ.

  • @monkeyfoodgarden
    @monkeyfoodgarden 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Mr. Danny. The truth spoke today is so refreshing to hear. I have to interact with some of these children who i have dubbed the entitlement generation every day and unfortunately some of our family falls into this as well. Moved out, lived where many would not want to working 2 or 3 jobs to get by and never got myself into debt. I may not have been able to afford heat in the winter or AC in the summer but the bills were paid and at the same time paid my way thru school with zero debt. Worked my way up thru the years and do ok for myself now. The issue is that this generation believes that there is no working you way up the ladder anymore and have no idea what sacrifice is. When you tell them about what you did they can't even comprehend the fact of living in an 1 room apartment with no heat in the winter because you spent your money to pay your bills they just ask why didn't you put it on a credit card. Just shake my head. I have to thank my Father and Mother for always instilling in me respect, and my self sufficiency. We did without a lot as a child but we always learned how to survive. Thank you for speaking the truth, pray we all down south here hopefully have some rain, and have a blessed day.

  • @jenniferannfox2316
    @jenniferannfox2316 8 месяцев назад +2

    I'm 60 now and my kids in their 30s. I did not homeschool and I have no regrets. My kids learned to be around others, learned teamwork and how to get along with difficult people. Socialization is important just as much as the curriculum. I'm not an advocate of all homeschooled kids. I believe if we coddle them so much growing up and then suddenly put them out into the world, they will have more trouble. They will not know that others can have different beliefs than they do nor have the opportunity to stand up to their beliefs if sheltered. My parents were of the generation that at 18, it was time to move out. I know it's hard for them but at least after college these kids need to be on their own.

  • @terryl.9302
    @terryl.9302 8 месяцев назад +3

    Taxes alone will keep a person in Bondage. Half of earnings, gone = poverty. Add college loans, and it can be near impossible. Cars, insurance ... I cdn't do it and I'm still frugal @70.yrs of age. There's enough blame to spread on all parties, esp post WW2 Govn't planning.

  • @melaniebergstedt3248
    @melaniebergstedt3248 8 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you Mr. Danny!!💞 You speak truth and validate the way I feel. Keep listening and sharing what God puts on your heart, we all need to be still and pay attention to that more.

  • @brianayres4566
    @brianayres4566 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks, Danny. The truth sometimes hurts, but it's still the truth.

  • @waydownyonder8446
    @waydownyonder8446 8 месяцев назад +2

    You always make me think. A little straight talk never hurt anybody. Thans Danny

  • @SimplyBackwoods
    @SimplyBackwoods 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hello Danny.
    Wow those documents are an eye opener.
    I'm thankful my kids and grandkids are hard workers and do for themselves but I know this isn't always true
    for many. Mine aren't totally unprogrammed for certain.
    It's really only in the last several years I've been unprograming myself and it continues to be necessary.
    Thank you for being up front and sharing straight forward. May we all take heed as needed and keep our
    eyes on the Lord.

  • @carolcassidy7700
    @carolcassidy7700 8 месяцев назад +1

    Very well said Danny. You opened my eyes to several things that I hope and pray that I have the guts to change.

  • @kas9589
    @kas9589 8 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you Danny and Wanda, for all you do and all you teach. Today's porch time and thoughts have been very enlightening. I see, hear and understand.
    Much appreciated from New Jersey.

  • @rodjendrysik3444
    @rodjendrysik3444 8 месяцев назад

    You never offend me. You always have positive intentions. I greatly appreciate and enjoy your open and honest discussions. We need to have more of these as a community.

  • @belindataylor9832
    @belindataylor9832 8 месяцев назад +1

    Danny,. I totally agree with you. Please keep telling us the raw truth. Yes most of us know it. But it is good reinforcement.

  • @michellejarvis7878
    @michellejarvis7878 8 месяцев назад +1

    Angela from Parkrose Permaculture, who homeschooled her children, just posted with her oldest child about her difficulties outside the home. She has just started college and is shocked at how much people lie. She says that even some courses ask you to lie, essentially. She is having social problems because she isn't used to lying, or being lied to. She wasn't prepared for society's level of dishonesty.

  • @rickyanderson6805
    @rickyanderson6805 8 месяцев назад +3

    If the home school kid don't have social skills it's the parents fault,

    • @theIAMofME
      @theIAMofME 8 месяцев назад

      I would have to agree. When I homeschooled my youngest, we got involved with a great local homeschool group. We did all kinds of things together. All I see these days is parents giving their kids (very young ones) tablets and phones to keep them occupied so they can go do what they want to do. It's sad. And oh my goodness if you say ANYTHING....look out!!!

  • @haroldmarsh5156
    @haroldmarsh5156 8 месяцев назад +1

    Praise The LORD and open your EYES

  • @kaysmith7684
    @kaysmith7684 8 месяцев назад +1

    Mr. Danny, I know you were telling the truth when you said this message was hard for you present. Because you care about people and don't wish to offend. But you delivered it in a very kind and caring manner, as you always do. Thank you for opening our eyes to how evil our leaders have been and certainly continue to be. I had never considered how some of the things that seem so normal could be so bad for us. I know we as a nation have become a soft people, making us a soft target. But this helps me see how it was encouraged and brought about. Considering the direction things are going in this world, i would love to hear you speak about gog and magog. I dont know if you could without getting in trouble. The last thing i would want is for your channel to be pulled. The information you put out is too important to us, your viewers. I just feel people need to be aware of that part of the Bible in considering the ways we need to be preparing. Thanks for all you do. Many blessings to you and Ms. Wanda.

  • @Jennaweeks61
    @Jennaweeks61 8 месяцев назад +3

    Good morning, I truly appreciate and enjoyed porch time this morning. Definitely need the reminder of some. Truthfully every scripture you have said this morning. I’m so thankful for you and Wanda for all you have done and continue to do. May our Lord continue to bless you and us with you. I pray Lord Father God continue to Bless us and continue to draw us closer to you (God) we need you and we need each other. I thank you for our brother and that he is able to teach us. I pray this in Jesus name Amen and Amen 🙏🏻 ❤😊

  • @strangswife
    @strangswife 8 месяцев назад

    We adopted our daughter from foster care; got her at 11, adopted at 13... She is now 16 and this is our first year homeschooling her (she doesn't like it because she wants to be around her "friends" including the bad influences). But she is doing so much better since we pulled her out. Mentally, physically, everything. She has even gotten a job!

  • @weathermanplus
    @weathermanplus 8 месяцев назад +1

    Good morning brother

  • @bobbibonner
    @bobbibonner 8 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you for another great teaching! I recognized many of the Verses you quoted…they are from the book of Proverbs. Isn’t it wonderful that God gave us 31 chapters in that book….a chapter a day may just keep the devil away 😊I have found it to be most helpful in this battle with the unseen forces of evil that we battle daily. We also wear our armor that Paul told us to wear in Ephesians 11. Thanks again, Danny!

  • @Jules-pu8zd
    @Jules-pu8zd 8 месяцев назад +1

    My 87 year old mother just broke her femur. She had rehab and she will stay with me until she is able to care for herself again.

  • @MaMa-st2eg
    @MaMa-st2eg 8 месяцев назад +1

    Danny, Just read the forecast for winter for Mississippi and they are predicting a La Nina for winter which means a wet winter for you all.....We will pray for a total relief and a complete filling of all your water sources...

  • @jeanettehollabaugh1108
    @jeanettehollabaugh1108 8 месяцев назад

    I knew you were going to get around to talking about it. Yes I am 86 yo and yes we were lied to all of our lives and so were our poor Mother and Dads. Great talk!

  • @joannc147
    @joannc147 8 месяцев назад +1

    Good solid advice all the way thru, Danny! ❤ You got me so excited that I’d hear something offensive…lol….well, I’m disappointed 🤣 I grew up with parents who said a whole lot of “no” to me. It was good training. I’m fiercely independent and not indulgent to my whims. You help explain why so many things “of this world” have puzzled me. I actively avoid ads and don’t watch TV. I find it increasing difficult to make choices watching movies - so many are tainted with violence and the occult. May God continue to bless both you and Miss Wanda for being such good support during these times. 🙏🏻

  • @elizabethjohnson475
    @elizabethjohnson475 8 месяцев назад

    Danny and Wanda, thank you so much. Praying for my husband to start this cleaning from the Lord, and I will gladly follow.

  • @2townsdown208
    @2townsdown208 8 месяцев назад

    Good word brother! Thank you!

  • @laurelanderson8720
    @laurelanderson8720 8 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you Mr. Danny! This is so so true!

  • @margaloone7970
    @margaloone7970 8 месяцев назад

    Danny, thank you. Good talk today.

  • @Tawnya629
    @Tawnya629 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for the wisdom❤

  • @unaffiliated_x9279
    @unaffiliated_x9279 8 месяцев назад +1

    Great message today and full of wisdom as always. Sometimes the truth is hard to hear but it does not mean it shouldnt be shared. I wish we all wanted to live in the truth but unfortunately some people like the lies.

  • @Spry011
    @Spry011 8 месяцев назад

    Finally, yes thank you for acknowledging the home school problems. I have my son in a private Christian school and I'm convinced he's better off. I went to a Bible college and saw first hand how so many of the kids who were home schooled just seemed to be socially lost. I was stunned by how they were so unaware of common things, even like shaving your legs, eating out, listening to music like at all, and drinking coffee. It was terrible. No way.

  • @arnw1175
    @arnw1175 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this talk. It was very beneficial to me. My sister and I have been struggling how to deal with my father after our Mom passed away several years ago. He has made bad decisions and moved to a location that is far from us so it makes it difficult to help him. My brother bought him a home near my sister before my brother passed away and my father is refusing to move to this home which is right next to my sisters. We have told him that we can’t help him where he is currently but he expects us to drop everything and drive for several hours to him. We struggle with the honoring our father part of the scripture because we can only help so much from that distance. It is a frustrating situation. Thanks Danny.

  • @dickerson25
    @dickerson25 8 месяцев назад

    Good word!

  • @survivalseamstress8980
    @survivalseamstress8980 8 месяцев назад +1

    Perfect porch time, thank you! I am going thru the same refining with Yahweh.

  • @maryschrader7846
    @maryschrader7846 8 месяцев назад

    A good word.Thank you

  • @sandradobbs8430
    @sandradobbs8430 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you!

  • @a.howell78
    @a.howell78 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing truth! It is really appreciated!

  • @Lucille-eo3vr
    @Lucille-eo3vr 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this message ❤

  • @firefoxkitty3
    @firefoxkitty3 8 месяцев назад +1

    Good message. I was talking about the mistakes I made in my life today with my son so that he can make better decisions. One more item, many people particularly males have some sort of Autism that limits what they can do. Please don't judge them by a 'normal' standard. Oh one more thing, I do not believe the school system prepares children for life. Parents can do that, many do not. My son found much help with that with Boy Scouts, before they got in trouble. In this day and age I do not think that children are ready to be on their own at 18, I think they need guidance for a few more years. My father's generation, born in 1928, went into the military to get the GI bill to go to college after the service. I think our society has stopped bei putting much importance on family. And I think we need to get back to that, to putting family first after God.

  • @michaelmiller4252
    @michaelmiller4252 8 месяцев назад

    Another good one Danny!!

  • @bl8680
    @bl8680 8 месяцев назад

    Amen! An excellent word! I

  • @kentuckycathy9726
    @kentuckycathy9726 8 месяцев назад

    Good message... Thank you

  • @lesliea.m.5392
    @lesliea.m.5392 8 месяцев назад +3

    This is put on my heart soon Farrow will take away the straw and you’ll have to get it for yourselves and those who are strong in the lord will find it

  • @RaysLazyAcres
    @RaysLazyAcres 8 месяцев назад +1

    Good morning Mr Danny and Mrs Wanda😊 we have plowed up our new Garden Spot we've put our bone and blood meal in it and tilt it up again and now it's all covered up ready for the spring! Thank you so much for all of your tips that you have given us over the years I have been paying attention and our household is ready thank you so much we love watching you all! We are always there on Saturday night's🎉 my mother was in the Christian Coalition and she advised me in many areas my son was taken out of public school and put into private school then he had disciplinary problems I couldn't handle him my dad couldn't handle him so he went to live with his other grandma in the country promising he would go to school; he didn't go to school for his grandma either so she homeschooled him however she did all the work for him . The Lord has blessed my son with a job at UPS as a over-the-road truck driver and he was very fortunate to have gotten that job with his schooling that he had I have 7 years difference in my children so my daughter when she came along I tried to put her in private school and her father fought me in court in the court ruled in his favor that she could go to a public school so I made sure she went to good if you could say that public schools because her father my ex-husband worked for the county and we were able to take our daughter to any school we liked without being in that certain area . I have seen friends have homeschooled their children and those children are now Satan followers . Not all homeschooled children are Christians I can say that with 100% accuracy thank you so much for your Insight Mr Danny we are always paying attention God bless you and your sweet family❤

  • @deannalynne1626
    @deannalynne1626 8 месяцев назад

    Loved every word. Bless ya'll.

  • @cimarronpasshomestead5998
    @cimarronpasshomestead5998 8 месяцев назад

    Amen! Brother Danny.

  • @GustavMonkey
    @GustavMonkey 8 месяцев назад +1

    Your message is spot on. I see it and work to do it. God Bless.

  • @trueblue_73
    @trueblue_73 8 месяцев назад

    Solid words, Danny!

  • @raymondbradley6788
    @raymondbradley6788 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you, Danny🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @midwayfarms
    @midwayfarms 8 месяцев назад

    Good message

  • @justinburkett5578
    @justinburkett5578 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @debbyatwell7851
    @debbyatwell7851 8 месяцев назад

    thank you

  • @elbertajohnson937
    @elbertajohnson937 8 месяцев назад +4

    Good one. Pray that the ears of the unbelievers are opened.

  • @stevehoover16
    @stevehoover16 8 месяцев назад +2

    Another great porch time thank you Danny and Wanda

  • @nancyplank1651
    @nancyplank1651 8 месяцев назад

    Amen!! Thank you Mr. Danny! Spot on!

  • @patwilliamson4701
    @patwilliamson4701 8 месяцев назад +1

    Bless you Danny!

  • @mellyg8872
    @mellyg8872 8 месяцев назад +1

    You hit on so many points Danny. And for that, I thank you.