I have always been amazed by people who can look other people squarely in the eyes and lie. Telling two (or more) people that each is the only one. People can be garbage sometimes.
Low key because jeez people, investigate your potential partners. And please don’t use that asinine “I love him/her” crap. You know quite well that you don’t f..k around with married people.
The only people I feel sorry for who were in affairs are the ones who had no idea that the one they were with was already in a relationship... For the ones who knowingly go into relationships with married people, they're just as gross as the ones who are ruining their marriage by cheating...
I accidentally became a side chick twice(sorta?). The first I started talking to this guy that Ive known all my life, we were kinda into eachother so we started messaging and sending pictures, we were also 16-17 so when we were making plans to meet obv they didnt work so we never got physical, then randomly in a conversation he says "oh yeah, can you not text me when Im at school?? My gf almost saw it" like BRO??? The second time this guy who I knew had a gf came over to my house bc his gf and him were fighting and she apparently broke up w him...WELP turns out she didnt and he broke down infront of me crying and saying how could he be such a bad person
I was the side chick, had i known he was married i never would've gone there because i am not that kind of lady, turned out he had another side chick too and it all came to light when one of my friends did some digging around coz she thought he was cheating on me
I was about to be engaged to a guy who was already married. I read too many stories about side chicks before and had my research done. Rejected him before it got serious.
Wow. I kinda feel just A LITTLE bit bad for the side chick's that got in that position because their mental health is trash. Like, to my understanding, love makes you do BATSHIT CRAZY...SHIT! And mental issues make that WAAAAYYYY worse. Really clouding the person's better judgment. So, like the person in the first story, I felt just a little bit bad for them. The main AH is the cheaters, and the people I REALLY feel bad for are the partners.... unless they're like, some really bad person.....? Yeah...
Agreed. OP in the first story was an easy mark because she was in a bad place mentally. The guy was gonna cheat no matter what, but it kinda feels like he targeted her.
@@1986bab yeah that's true, he could've had a secret dating app profile or something. They said that her coworkers met the boss's wife and that she was basically perfect (beautiful, fit, nice) so in theory there would be no reason to cheat other than the boss is a piece of garbage that needs to be thrown (obviously for cheating but yeah he definitely was lying to OP to get something)
I don't wanna sound awful but I have no sympathy for people who knowingly hook up with a married person. Whenever I flirt with someone, as soon as I find out they have a relationship or they're interested in someone, I stop. Because I don't wanna be a homewrecker. I once had a crush on someone and when I found out he had a girlfriend (While I couldn't change my feelings), I tried to move on and eventually succeeded.
A relative of mine became a side chick to a guy for over a decade. This guy was unhinged, even controlling. She even lied to us about him being married at first, claiming he was divorced (later admitted she knew he had a wife and kid). He justified the affair by claiming his wife cheated (he had zero proof of this and didn't personally catch her). Relative neglected everyone but him. Need help getting to a doctor? Good luck, he needs her to come cook him a steak dinner, too bad. Even tried to convince a former friend of mine to talk me into accepting the affair! They eventually "broke up," (oh lord the screaming and crying that day,) but still really haven't. He's seeing yet another side chick, but my relatives still contacts this guy and tries to hide it from everyone now, since nobody likes this guy or approves of this, and she knows it. I used to respect her and look up, to her. Now I just feel scorn and disgust.
Had this happen to me. He talked to me about exes and people from work he wanted to sleep with but he never mentioned having a fiancé then wife. i found out from a mutual friend. at first i was devastated, then i was pissed off. it gets worse, he was cheating on a dying woman. 6 months after i found out, she died. Now all our friends know him as the horrible guy that cheated on their dying friend with another friend.
Kyutie I literally love you but in my opinion I understand where some of these are coming from(mental healths one EX. The first one) When your in a dark place you don’t live for yourself anymore you don’t want to, so what I think goes on is when your brain realizes this it latches on to someone you deem worthy no matter the situation subconsciously because your not living for yourself your living for their love and validation when they constantly tell you things like your pretty, beautiful, smart etc it gives you light in an empty room a warmth feeling that you just want to get back to it. That’s why I think some side chicks put themselves in that situation cause they like the feeling and they want to feel alive again and LIVE for themselves but they can’t yet. Another one is loneliness does things to people it makes people crazy it makes people feel not worthy humans are social creatures at the base of it whether you call yourself extrovert or introvert it’s the base of it you do social things all day now imagine yourself being lonely and having none, wanting to express yourself and you just can’t unless your with that one person you want to explore. An abusive relationship isn’t something easy to get out of it’s something that requires you to pick yourself up and say “No” which is very hard for the victims of these types of relationships do the person no matter how hard they tried couldn’t just “leave” yet it wasn’t an option for them ESPCIALLY since it’s a secret relationship and also a relationship that wouldn’t be normalized even if they were the side chick they never choose to stay it was a survival instinct when someone breaks you down the best you can do is survive you don’t even think of getting out because you feel stuck it requires a snap of reality and that may take a while(talking about the closet relationship one)
Yeah I agree with empathizing with the side chicks but abusive relationships in general are hard to get out of and being side Chick makes it harder bc ur too ashamed and embarrassed to ask anyone for help bc u cheated and so that part is the side chicks problem to get over bc they got themselves into that situation. if they just didn't cheat they would be less and embarrassed and be more willing to ask for help when being abused
My sister was one. She got into it knowing the guy was married, and also knowing that he was already seeing another girl at the time who was also my sister's friend 🤡 And then later came the break up and my sister went through a lot emotionally. But the moment i learned that the guy she was crying over was a married man and that she already knew about it, i didn't feel an inch of sympathy for her. The wife eventually found out and they got divorced and later that dude got married to some other girl. And although my sister claims to have moved on from him, she wonders whether he'd have married her if they remained together 🤡 And to top it all off, the guy still contacts my sister sometimes but she's not encouraging him anymore. The same sister was also involved with another dude who already had a fiance, but this time my sister didn't know about it. And she wasn't interested in him in that way either but the guy was totally kept trying to get with my sister. Later his fiance texted my sister and they talked it out. Apart from her choices in men, my sister is a nice person. 😂
Personally I think you were a little bit harsh Ellen. For someone who speaks a lot about mental health I feel like you could at least see how some of them were in horrible places and were being used and manipulated. If someone is in a horrible mental state and someone tells them they love them they will eat that up. It's basically grooming. And yeah they knew they were with a taken person but they felt remorse and I think that's important. And I'm kinda sad that you would say you don't feel sorry for themcus they "did it to themselves" whenever they were being used, manipulated and abused. And I can't really believe that you would say something along the lines of you could just leave them whenever they're being manipulated. It's not that easy.
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, her boss was completely running game on her just so that he could creep around on his wife and she fell forb it very easily becausse she had low self-esteem. Was the main protagonist that desperate for affection that she chose to go after a married man even though she already knew that he was married?. I get the two of them becoming close because of the business trips and all of the ample amounts of one on one time, but he could've became like a great friend of hers. In the second story, in her defense right he didn't tell her at all that she was the other woman for two long years. He should be ashamed of himself, but unfortunately cheaters like this do this all the time without any remorse in their hearts at all. In the third story, so the main protagonist is mad and salty because she put up with his bs for so long, but when he passed away he didn't leave her any money. I love you my friend!! Have a great day, good night from me!! Stay safe!!
The first girl should apologise to the wife ( i hope she divorced thst guy ) not us , shouldn't explain herself to us but the wife , she's the person who got hurt . Have the guts to face the person who got hurt by your involvement in something, because you also didn't stop the husband and hooked up with him consensually .like okay , you're on your feet, better now ,do you not realise that the wife must be feeling like trash tho?
I have always been amazed by people who can look other people squarely in the eyes and lie. Telling two (or more) people that each is the only one. People can be garbage sometimes.
i lowkey feel sad for people who accidentally became side chicks without them knowing :((
ikr, i would be LIVIDDD! but people who get into that situation while knowing is just sad :(
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It's just horrible how these people get used by bad people who don't know how to communicate with their SO.
Low key because jeez people, investigate your potential partners. And please don’t use that asinine “I love him/her” crap. You know quite well that you don’t f..k around with married people.
That happened to me and I was so disgusted I left him for that for lying to me. I told his wife everything after that.
The only people I feel sorry for who were in affairs are the ones who had no idea that the one they were with was already in a relationship... For the ones who knowingly go into relationships with married people, they're just as gross as the ones who are ruining their marriage by cheating...
I accidentally became a side chick twice(sorta?). The first I started talking to this guy that Ive known all my life, we were kinda into eachother so we started messaging and sending pictures, we were also 16-17 so when we were making plans to meet obv they didnt work so we never got physical, then randomly in a conversation he says "oh yeah, can you not text me when Im at school?? My gf almost saw it" like BRO??? The second time this guy who I knew had a gf came over to my house bc his gf and him were fighting and she apparently broke up w him...WELP turns out she didnt and he broke down infront of me crying and saying how could he be such a bad person
I was the side chick, had i known he was married i never would've gone there because i am not that kind of lady, turned out he had another side chick too and it all came to light when one of my friends did some digging around coz she thought he was cheating on me
I was about to be engaged to a guy who was already married. I read too many stories about side chicks before and had my research done. Rejected him before it got serious.
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Wow. I kinda feel just A LITTLE bit bad for the side chick's that got in that position because their mental health is trash. Like, to my understanding, love makes you do BATSHIT CRAZY...SHIT! And mental issues make that WAAAAYYYY worse. Really clouding the person's better judgment. So, like the person in the first story, I felt just a little bit bad for them. The main AH is the cheaters, and the people I REALLY feel bad for are the partners.... unless they're like, some really bad person.....? Yeah...
Love and depression. Like a friend said, when you're drowning you grab onto *anything* to stay alive.
Agreed. OP in the first story was an easy mark because she was in a bad place mentally. The guy was gonna cheat no matter what, but it kinda feels like he targeted her.
@@1986bab yeah that's true, he could've had a secret dating app profile or something. They said that her coworkers met the boss's wife and that she was basically perfect (beautiful, fit, nice) so in theory there would be no reason to cheat other than the boss is a piece of garbage that needs to be thrown (obviously for cheating but yeah he definitely was lying to OP to get something)
I don't wanna sound awful but I have no sympathy for people who knowingly hook up with a married person.
Whenever I flirt with someone, as soon as I find out they have a relationship or they're interested in someone, I stop. Because I don't wanna be a homewrecker. I once had a crush on someone and when I found out he had a girlfriend (While I couldn't change my feelings), I tried to move on and eventually succeeded.
Omggg >< I used to watch your vids all the time back then lollll ! Im so happy to see that you still post !! 🌷💕🧸
A relative of mine became a side chick to a guy for over a decade. This guy was unhinged, even controlling. She even lied to us about him being married at first, claiming he was divorced (later admitted she knew he had a wife and kid). He justified the affair by claiming his wife cheated (he had zero proof of this and didn't personally catch her). Relative neglected everyone but him. Need help getting to a doctor? Good luck, he needs her to come cook him a steak dinner, too bad. Even tried to convince a former friend of mine to talk me into accepting the affair!
They eventually "broke up," (oh lord the screaming and crying that day,) but still really haven't. He's seeing yet another side chick, but my relatives still contacts this guy and tries to hide it from everyone now, since nobody likes this guy or approves of this, and she knows it.
I used to respect her and look up, to her. Now I just feel scorn and disgust.
girl I LOVE YOUR HAIR!
Had this happen to me. He talked to me about exes and people from work he wanted to sleep with but he never mentioned having a fiancé then wife. i found out from a mutual friend. at first i was devastated, then i was pissed off. it gets worse, he was cheating on a dying woman. 6 months after i found out, she died. Now all our friends know him as the horrible guy that cheated on their dying friend with another friend.
Jeeeez that’s horrific.. good riddance to that dude
Kyutie appreciation for posting at the perfect times 🙏🏿
The guy in the 2nd story got serious karma, and that's all on him. 😌
Kyutie I literally love you but in my opinion I understand where some of these are coming from(mental healths one EX. The first one) When your in a dark place you don’t live for yourself anymore you don’t want to, so what I think goes on is when your brain realizes this it latches on to someone you deem worthy no matter the situation subconsciously because your not living for yourself your living for their love and validation when they constantly tell you things like your pretty, beautiful, smart etc it gives you light in an empty room a warmth feeling that you just want to get back to it. That’s why I think some side chicks put themselves in that situation cause they like the feeling and they want to feel alive again and LIVE for themselves but they can’t yet. Another one is loneliness does things to people it makes people crazy it makes people feel not worthy humans are social creatures at the base of it whether you call yourself extrovert or introvert it’s the base of it you do social things all day now imagine yourself being lonely and having none, wanting to express yourself and you just can’t unless your with that one person you want to explore. An abusive relationship isn’t something easy to get out of it’s something that requires you to pick yourself up and say “No” which is very hard for the victims of these types of relationships do the person no matter how hard they tried couldn’t just “leave” yet it wasn’t an option for them ESPCIALLY since it’s a secret relationship and also a relationship that wouldn’t be normalized even if they were the side chick they never choose to stay it was a survival instinct when someone breaks you down the best you can do is survive you don’t even think of getting out because you feel stuck it requires a snap of reality and that may take a while(talking about the closet relationship one)
I remember the African proverb: "If a child is left out in the cold, he will burn down the village to feel the warmth. " And, he will. Or she will.
Yeah I agree with empathizing with the side chicks but abusive relationships in general are hard to get out of and being side Chick makes it harder bc ur too ashamed and embarrassed to ask anyone for help bc u cheated and so that part is the side chicks problem to get over bc they got themselves into that situation. if they just didn't cheat they would be less and embarrassed and be more willing to ask for help when being abused
Can you please tell me what brand and color of lipstick or lipgloss or whatever lip thingy you use? It's so cuteeee
My sister was one.
She got into it knowing the guy was married, and also knowing that he was already seeing another girl at the time who was also my sister's friend 🤡
And then later came the break up and my sister went through a lot emotionally.
But the moment i learned that the guy she was crying over was a married man and that she already knew about it, i didn't feel an inch of sympathy for her.
The wife eventually found out and they got divorced and later that dude got married to some other girl. And although my sister claims to have moved on from him, she wonders whether he'd have married her if they remained together 🤡
And to top it all off, the guy still contacts my sister sometimes but she's not encouraging him anymore.
The same sister was also involved with another dude who already had a fiance, but this time my sister didn't know about it. And she wasn't interested in him in that way either but the guy was totally kept trying to get with my sister. Later his fiance texted my sister and they talked it out.
Apart from her choices in men, my sister is a nice person. 😂
Personally I think you were a little bit harsh Ellen. For someone who speaks a lot about mental health I feel like you could at least see how some of them were in horrible places and were being used and manipulated. If someone is in a horrible mental state and someone tells them they love them they will eat that up. It's basically grooming. And yeah they knew they were with a taken person but they felt remorse and I think that's important. And I'm kinda sad that you would say you don't feel sorry for themcus they "did it to themselves" whenever they were being used, manipulated and abused. And I can't really believe that you would say something along the lines of you could just leave them whenever they're being manipulated. It's not that easy.
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, her boss was completely running game on her just so that he could creep around on his wife and she fell forb it very easily becausse she had low self-esteem. Was the main protagonist that desperate for affection that she chose to go after a married man even though she already knew that he was married?. I get the two of them becoming close because of the business trips and all of the ample amounts of one on one time, but he could've became like a great friend of hers. In the second story, in her defense right he didn't tell her at all that she was the other woman for two long years. He should be ashamed of himself, but unfortunately cheaters like this do this all the time without any remorse in their hearts at all. In the third story, so the main protagonist is mad and salty because she put up with his bs for so long, but when he passed away he didn't leave her any money. I love you my friend!! Have a great day, good night from me!! Stay safe!!
The first girl should apologise to the wife ( i hope she divorced thst guy ) not us , shouldn't explain herself to us but the wife , she's the person who got hurt . Have the guts to face the person who got hurt by your involvement in something, because you also didn't stop the husband and hooked up with him consensually .like okay , you're on your feet, better now ,do you not realise that the wife must be feeling like trash tho?
Omg early!! ❤❤
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You remind me a lot of rosé
Probably bc she is also Aussie
@@amelia2.7yes probably but she also Looks similar to Rose.
@@amelia2.7and because both of them are Korean but Rose was born in New Zealand but raised in Australia
Hey kyutie! Hru?
is there such thing as a side crush.?🤔
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