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  • Опубликовано: 20 авг 2024

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  • @prajwal_shindee
    @prajwal_shindee Месяц назад +617

    I am a 22 year old. Until now, I haven't smoked, drank alcohol, or done any other addictive substances. I have a lot of close friends who drink and smoke - during my 4 years of hostel life, 99% of the guys would smoke or drink. But I didn't, because I feel it's not right. I know that if I ever did those things, I would be ashamed of myself, and I don't want that.
    Let's talk about virginity. I am still a virgin. I do feel natural cravings sometimes, but I just can't ruin my character. I've had chances to lose my virginity but told myself not to, just to satisfy some cravings. So many people tease me for that, saying I'm not living life to the fullest. But really, they are ruining their lives.
    I am old school - I will stay pure for my future wife. Yes, I am still single, because I don't want meaningless relationships or flings. We old school people are always looking for something pure and permanent.✌️

    • @sweet4sweet
      @sweet4sweet Месяц назад +17

      Brother you can have a relationship and still stay away from being physical and believe me it will be much better for you

    • @prajwal_shindee
      @prajwal_shindee Месяц назад +32

      @@sweet4sweet the thing is finding a girl who have value is tough these days and I did find some girl with value and morals but due to some reason I know marriage is not goona happen so I desided to step back.

    • @Sadakpemil
      @Sadakpemil Месяц назад +10

      ​​@@prajwal_shindee you're just 21 bruh? I'm 26 still didn't touch a single drop of ethanol nor I smoked. 21 is nothing of an age to give up.

    • @prajwal_shindee
      @prajwal_shindee Месяц назад +8

      @@Sadakpemil osm... Even I believe that I will be like this for lifetime ✌️

    • @Sadakpemil
      @Sadakpemil Месяц назад +2

      @@prajwal_shindee not lifetime make girlfriends too but keep them as friends until you find someone special, I made many good friends. This way you'll also not get distracted and focus on your career with any rona dhona and drama

  • @horiii4626
    @horiii4626 Месяц назад +145

    Leaving your girlfriend after she got r*ped is like leaving your partner in their worst time... She needs support at that time and not only as a boyfriend but as a human, you should support her.

  • @MissMukherjee398
    @MissMukherjee398 Месяц назад +305

    He is a blessing to all the youngsters like us..🥺

  • @lunadawn6594
    @lunadawn6594 Месяц назад +672

    But bro, in this generation we can't trust someone even after marrying. I've seen people falling in love, marrying immediately and getting divorced/cheated once their desires are fulfilled.

    • @yuvrajbagul6690
      @yuvrajbagul6690 Месяц назад +48

      That's why we should choose right life partner.

    • @lunadawn6594
      @lunadawn6594 Месяц назад +70

      @@yuvrajbagul6690 It happens in arranged marriages as well. I'm just trying to tell you that just because we are married doesn't mean he/she is the right person. We never know when that person will cheat on us. It can happen immediately after marriage, 5 years later, 10 years later or 20 years later also. And of course I'm against these casual relationships. I'm a one man woman and I want my man to be a one woman man. But, life is uncertain. Nobody can be trusted completely.

    • @darknessispower3296
      @darknessispower3296 Месяц назад +9

      ​@@lunadawn6594
      True :(

    • @inpursuitofhappiness366
      @inpursuitofhappiness366 Месяц назад +8

      Its really cruel. Because of marriage laws.
      Check the brought up of the girl. That matters a lot
      Usually I can see working parents, and the girl is humble. Knows what difficulty is
      Business parents daughters are far too entitled

    • @We-logs11
      @We-logs11 Месяц назад +13

      (It's my biggest fear) I actually want bhairav to see this comment and make a video on it, I wanna know his opinion

  • @Siddhi_Singh_
    @Siddhi_Singh_ Месяц назад +172

    Sometimes i feel, how there's someone who has similar thoughts, in my college too people consider me as old school, and i'm proudly an old school girl. Thought of people still having same pure thoughts in this generation gives me immense happiness 🥹❤️

    • @nithishactor9764
      @nithishactor9764 Месяц назад +4

      Be proud ❤

    • @mayanks19
      @mayanks19 Месяц назад +2

      Right ... But my question is wht is your actual thought about hookup culture ? Plz reply after deep think . I m waiting

    • @sweet4sweet
      @sweet4sweet Месяц назад

      ​@@mayanks19 summarise aise kar do ''sala kutto ki jindagi''

    • @Siddhi_Singh_
      @Siddhi_Singh_ Месяц назад +1

      @@nithishactor9764 yes,thanks🙏

    • @Ayush_gupta_101
      @Ayush_gupta_101 Месяц назад +2

      @@Siddhi_Singh_ you're like a 💎. Love you from up

  • @Giri-zoro
    @Giri-zoro Месяц назад +222

    Now I find someone with same mindset just like me😶👽 Thanks for your videos bro 📈📈

  • @vareeshaansari3930
    @vareeshaansari3930 Месяц назад +387

    That's why I like the wolf ..bcuz he choose only one life partner and live the rest of the life with her 🤧.....
    Are we greater than animals but worst than humans 👀

    • @Purple_fandom_girl
      @Purple_fandom_girl Месяц назад +45

      Same goes with swan. They only love one swan their whole life and when their partner dies they will also die with them

    • @vareeshaansari3930
      @vareeshaansari3930 Месяц назад +10

      @@Purple_fandom_girl yeah ...right ..I also heard about it 🤧

    • @We-logs11
      @We-logs11 Месяц назад +1

      Whattt!??

    • @GauravBishwakarma
      @GauravBishwakarma Месяц назад +4

      Your point is valid ❤❤but the female wolf will try to get a new partner the moment her partner dies💔💔💔💔

    • @vareeshaansari3930
      @vareeshaansari3930 Месяц назад +1

      @@GauravBishwakarma
      Alas 🤧🤧....kya karein ..hum ladke h janab🥲

  • @dr_m_kanimozhi
    @dr_m_kanimozhi Месяц назад +43

    I have heard this same words from my professor in our lecture during my second year" we preserve our bodies for our spouse"..... And after 6 years, I'm hearing it out loud in a social media..... I'm really happy about this, that we gen z really have a good understanding of what virginity is, ( where we usually stereotyped as gen z, which i feel is a myth- atleast partially)

  • @eshapaul5692
    @eshapaul5692 24 дня назад +10

    Finally found someone with same mentality of mine... it's good to see people like us still exist

  • @Devji-u3z
    @Devji-u3z Месяц назад +17

    bro is hero
    no matter what he is a gem to us

  • @balajik2850
    @balajik2850 Месяц назад +34

    The actual point is not about the V!rg!n!ty, the actual point is about the person who has clear mindset on not to cheat or treachery to their future partner. A r@ed girl hadn't a mindset to cheat on her future partner, its an accident so it's not her fault

    • @idanm7510
      @idanm7510 Месяц назад +2

      Very well said

  • @gihi112
    @gihi112 Месяц назад +62

    Great message ❤
    Virginity should be given( or offered) not taken (or forced).

  • @Eclipse-14809
    @Eclipse-14809 Месяц назад +87

    he isnt human he is the man the myth the legend batman

  • @Gowtham.NN-pp3st
    @Gowtham.NN-pp3st Месяц назад +16

    I thought only I had this mindset but even my mentor has this. Of course, if a girl is touched without her permission, then there is not even 1℅ of wrong from the girl's side. Heads up siters, you have the courage to face this society 😊

  • @srinivasr8269
    @srinivasr8269 Месяц назад +54

    Bro WT a coincidence just now I was thinking abt one of ur videos and suddenly I got ur new videos notification

  • @Bhw_2901
    @Bhw_2901 Месяц назад +15

    Body never forgets the touch, be careful before letting someone touch it.

  • @anushkaa481
    @anushkaa481 Месяц назад +2

    The most honest person in this generation, no sweet lies about love, always honest and modest. Proud of you Bro, keep going on🤞🏻🤞🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @sneharkive
    @sneharkive Месяц назад +24

    Your wife will be the luckiest girl😊

  • @aniket3902
    @aniket3902 Месяц назад +119

    such a stupid question that was. Were you in a relationship just for sex? Go give her some mental support, make her feel safe, wtf is break up?

    • @Guyfromiit
      @Guyfromiit Месяц назад

      Its your pref its his pref simple

    • @aniket3902
      @aniket3902 Месяц назад +33

      @@Guyfromiit would leaving ur gf be even a 'preference' if she got rped?

    • @himanshukushwaha3055
      @himanshukushwaha3055 Месяц назад

      ​@@Guyfromiitno his pref is totally shit and u can't ignore

    • @RavinaPande
      @RavinaPande Месяц назад +22

      ​@@Guyfromiitshe should also leave u when u face an accident. And leave u in your hard times

    • @Guyfromiit
      @Guyfromiit Месяц назад +2

      @@aniket3902 i said that everyone has there own pref. Btw i m in a healthy relationship for 3 years she was a victim of rape ,it happen to her when she was 10 yo

  • @ritikahere00
    @ritikahere00 Месяц назад +16

    Having a sex before marriage will gonna lose that emotional and that feeling when we feel after having a physical connection which somehow gonna affect our bond with husband !!

    • @Truthisbitter575
      @Truthisbitter575 Месяц назад +1

      Am I listening it from a women?... Really??

    • @ritikahere00
      @ritikahere00 Месяц назад

      @@Truthisbitter575fs ? 😅

    • @ritikahere00
      @ritikahere00 Месяц назад

      @@Truthisbitter575 kyu?

    • @athvii
      @athvii Месяц назад +5

      @@Truthisbitter575 Bruh just stop generalising the complete gender just because of some fools on internet. A lot of women in this world exist with the same mentality. Just they don't open up a lot about this. Support, don't discourage or generalize like this.

  • @DeepakKumar-zn9zm
    @DeepakKumar-zn9zm Месяц назад +30

    Marriage doesn't give you guarntee that he or she will never cheats you,what if the person who was genuine untill marrige goeson to cheating after a few years of marriage,what the other person should do,is she divorce the cheated partener and live the rest of the life all alone? Is getting cheated his/her fault? Don't they deserve second chance?

  • @Lonewolf-ui7du
    @Lonewolf-ui7du Месяц назад +62

    Bhairav, I think you might be wrong: marriage is indeed a big commitment, but the fact, that a woman or a man takes upon that commitment, it doesn't mean it's gonna work for life: some marriagies fail, some marriagies are taken too lightly, some other marriagies are either forced or are made by convenience (money, fame...) and some of these failing marriagies often end up in cheating rather than divorce; marriage doesn't have the same importance as when our grandparents married: mines still deeply love each other at 90 yo. This said, I've followed your videos for a long time and you have my respect for the message you're sharing from time to time.

    • @can7964
      @can7964 Месяц назад +1

      Bro , the reality you told is truth, but here in this video, bhairav was relating marriage to virginity, that it should be satisfied only with the person whom you marry that was the point he trying to make! ( it turns out in this gen that there are many ex-husbands and wives wandering in the streets , so the only way to lose virginity with your soul mate is... by marrying the person you think your soul mate will be and wait till both of their age turn to " 80 " where you both will not even think of cheating, and you can have segs and hence confirm your soul mate! ... and have segs many times afterward😌(it's only my op))

    • @Lonewolf-ui7du
      @Lonewolf-ui7du Месяц назад +4

      @@can7964 Not even the most pure hearted people would do such thing and I am not pure...

    • @Radhya554
      @Radhya554 Месяц назад +1

      He is speaking about casual multiple relationship and victim of some relationship either rape or marital abuse .

    • @Orewa_Ani4683
      @Orewa_Ani4683 Месяц назад

      ​@@Lonewolf-ui7dudo 90% of marriages end like this ??????? How many percentage of marriages did you see these things ??? Stop blaming marriage for this type of stupid things

    • @Lonewolf-ui7du
      @Lonewolf-ui7du Месяц назад

      @@Orewa_Ani4683 Very well, it seems you understood nothing from my explanation.

  • @teengaming371
    @teengaming371 Месяц назад +3

    Now !!! I'm relieved that there are few men out there ready to accept girls /women even if they are not virgin (raped) as a girl myself ,as a victim ....... I feel so happy right now bro thanks for an amazing video 😊

  • @Herrr2001
    @Herrr2001 Месяц назад +6

    You are a gem🙇🏻‍♀️...bro hatts off your mentality 🙌🏻👑

  • @manjukrishna5373
    @manjukrishna5373 Месяц назад +12

    Hey Aj bhairav, i saw you first time in yt shorts and i liked your videos and now im watching your every videos... You are a great inspiration for us youngsters.... And you are the true social media influencer... Some of the social media influencers are uploading stupid contents to get more views but you are not like that.. Hats of you man👍🏻
    Love from Kerala ❤️

  • @patrinaharim.s5329
    @patrinaharim.s5329 Месяц назад +7

    bro, first i am big fan of urs and i am 21 yr old female who is single, even though I am 2k and GenZ ppl call me boomer cuz in my personal opinion i don't accept with this entire dating and boyfriend/girlfriend phase, i personally feel if i date someone and end up marrying someone i feel like cheating on both my ex and my husband (even though i have never been in a relationship till date) also if i am getting married (which will mostly be arranged marriage in future (hope so) ) i want to stay loyal and faithful to my husband alone and i expect the same from him. Also right now i am doing my masters and i want to get into a job so that i can make my parents proud. But having this mindset and living in this society being a psychology student people call me boomer, aunty and also paati, at first i felt really bad that except me all my frnds are in relationship maybe i should join the trend, but being a christian comes with its own benefits ig, i decided to wait for my future husband. (idk if u ever read this comment but yea :) )

    • @pratikashranjande7833
      @pratikashranjande7833 Месяц назад +2

      Sister, if you feel so to be cheating, divorce would also feel like cheating? If you would not divorce in case of unfortunate, is it not a potential trap of a lifeview? I do not understand why you think dating phase is wrong if not with sexual activity.

  • @prabhanjanmohanty3040
    @prabhanjanmohanty3040 11 дней назад +2

    Bro you are absolutely right,but some girls are can't understand our sacrifice,emotion,feelings and everything we are gave them to her.No matter how much I treat them like a queen she is always ignore me and thought that I am wrong.Means bro my feelings was just a toy for her.
    Still all womens are not same.

  • @Anonymouslyyinsane
    @Anonymouslyyinsane Месяц назад +15

    That's why I love him🙂‍↕️💗!

  • @aliwaheedmomin5962
    @aliwaheedmomin5962 Месяц назад +10

    Bro these people are asking these kind of questions purposely,just twisting the vision of having loyalty, they think beyond that what if these kind of situation is happening then what's your opinion in this and that, and after hearing they'll decide to criticize those questions.. it's as transparent, anybody with kind heart will accept the girl if she is going through such situations..and they all know you're kind enough, but they still asked these questions to judge you again according to what you reply on those.

    • @sweet4sweet
      @sweet4sweet Месяц назад

      Didn't you hear or read that, the person who has asked the question is a teenager ?

    • @aliwaheedmomin5962
      @aliwaheedmomin5962 Месяц назад +1

      @@sweet4sweet so? Why does it matter to you?

    • @sweet4sweet
      @sweet4sweet Месяц назад

      @@aliwaheedmomin5962 a teenager is not well aware of the world he/she doesn't have full knowledge of everything that's why that person asked the question to get his answer he got his answer and now he will be his gf side and also he will also influence people of his age for the same thing

    • @aliwaheedmomin5962
      @aliwaheedmomin5962 Месяц назад +1

      @@sweet4sweet you can see few more videos on his channel,then you'll understand what m I saying, I don't need to explain anything to you.. peace 🕊️

    • @sweet4sweet
      @sweet4sweet Месяц назад

      @@aliwaheedmomin5962 are you out of your mind he is clearly answering a question and giving a suggestion to a person for a situation about which that person is not well aware. Is that wrong? And also he gave a good suggestion tho

  • @Futurebillionare114
    @Futurebillionare114 Месяц назад +22

    Bro is 100 % right

  • @Herrr2001
    @Herrr2001 Месяц назад +9

    7:37 🙃🥀 yesss it's my fault that i trust him a lot and he used me💔 i can't blame him because i trust him blindly that's why i do that....after breakup i realised my mistake and decided not to marry because i don't want to ruin other person....i don't know if god will forgive me or not💔

    • @athvii
      @athvii Месяц назад +8

      It was his fault, not yours. We make mistakes, but learning from them is something preferable. You're not God to never make any mistakes. But being a human there is always a chance not to repeat the same mistake but to learn from them and progress. Trust, but avoid blind trust. Coz some deserve it & some don't & we can't determine who deserves what. Don't blame yourself & God is kind to everyone. God bless you, sis!

    • @Herrr2001
      @Herrr2001 Месяц назад

      ​@@athvii Thank you sis 🙌🏻

    • @athvii
      @athvii Месяц назад

      @@Herrr2001 Most wlc! But I'm bro🤧 Athvi is my nickname

    • @Herrr2001
      @Herrr2001 Месяц назад

      @@athvii ohhh... sorry sorry 😅

    • @tanishhh07
      @tanishhh07 19 дней назад +1

      If someone is willing to marry you he won't sneak into your past, everyone make mistakes that's just human nature. God is great trust him!

  • @ruksharbanunirban8400
    @ruksharbanunirban8400 26 дней назад +3

    Ur thinking = My thinking 😊❤

  • @kidszonebabyshop877
    @kidszonebabyshop877 Месяц назад +16

    Even tho I’m only 11 you’re still my future inspiration

    • @athvii
      @athvii Месяц назад +4

      @@kidszonebabyshop877 Just remember to have your own thoughts too, while getting inspired/influenced by others. No one is 100% right.

    • @adhiramahesh9783
      @adhiramahesh9783 Месяц назад +4

      Internet isn't safe..... Don't reveal ur age again

    • @harpindersingh-ik6sh
      @harpindersingh-ik6sh Месяц назад +5

      ​@@adhiramahesh9783 bro when I was 11 I didn't know anything about such things when I was 11 even when I was 14 I didn't know anything. Nowadays 8 years old kids are having relationships like wth is happening in this world.

    • @athvii
      @athvii Месяц назад +2

      @@harpindersingh-ik6sh Let it happen. Just don't break the natural cycle. Everything has it's own time, 8 year old kids having relationships is completely meaningless. And same is till 17-18 or even till 25 if you ain't mature enough to handle it. Age might just be a number but it's true that you learn based on your experiences something like a relationship needs emotional maturity which can only come through experiences which youngsters lack and later they call themselves depressed when they break up. Better is to stay away until you both are mature enough to handle it. Best way is to focus on your career, if you like someone ask them to wait & wait for them to build their career too. If the other one is patient enough to wait for you. You found your soulmate

    • @harpindersingh-ik6sh
      @harpindersingh-ik6sh Месяц назад

      ​@@athvii Yes, you are right. I agree with that viewpoint. I never think about such things because I have so many other things to do, such as study.

  • @roobanist
    @roobanist Месяц назад +7

    Vera level ya 👏🏻 nee oruthan podhum to make this generation in right track

  • @tamilarasanselvaraj9953
    @tamilarasanselvaraj9953 Месяц назад +10

    Gifted person in media for young generations🎉❤

  • @acharyaindu
    @acharyaindu Месяц назад +2

    very true bro ✌️✌️ he is trying his level best to help current generation tobe in the right track 👏👏👏🙏

  • @Parkoo07
    @Parkoo07 Месяц назад +6

    Bro this is my opinion. Marriage doesn't mean they are some saints. Many men/women cheat even after marriage. You need two people to make a successful relationship. Just because you are married doesn't mean the relationship will succeed. And you are not obliged to have an intimate relationship with a person just because they are married to you. Both men/women should marry the person they love or love the person they marry and then think about an intimate relationship.

  • @ishitasharma1362
    @ishitasharma1362 Месяц назад +3

    Investing trust from a place of reality and not potential. Accepting people for who they instead of accepting their ideal versions that only exist inside mind.

  • @gamerinferno7
    @gamerinferno7 Месяц назад +33

    Thanks a lot you chaged my life a lot

    • @KoralKaur4731
      @KoralKaur4731 Месяц назад +2

      He literally hid your name ..and you showed up 😂 in comments saying thanks
      What's the point of hidding your name then
      😂

    • @gamerinferno7
      @gamerinferno7 Месяц назад

      Bro it is not me 😂😂 you mad e a misconcept he helped me to come out from a lot of bad habits and that's why I am saying thank you he thought me diff between love and lust@@KoralKaur4731

    • @gamerinferno7
      @gamerinferno7 Месяц назад

      ​@@KoralKaur4731it is not me I am saying thanks because to helped me came out from a lot of bad habits

    • @gamerinferno7
      @gamerinferno7 Месяц назад

      Hii

    • @gamerinferno7
      @gamerinferno7 Месяц назад +3

      It is not me

  • @vasarecta05
    @vasarecta05 Месяц назад +2

    All men with his mindset need to be protected.. for the girls with this same mindset.. I really hope my life partner thinks this way..
    Not one of this generation

  • @ytuser920
    @ytuser920 Месяц назад +7

    What a nice answer…we have such similar mindset on these gender topics… hopefully I’ll find a partner with similar mindset like you… fingers crossed 🤞

  • @LD72505
    @LD72505 20 дней назад +1

    First time watching your video.
    I am from Kerala
    Thanking God that youngsters with these kind of good mindset also existing in this present world ❤.

  • @Unuunhunuun
    @Unuunhunuun Месяц назад +4

    That is not their fault . If he Truely loves him . He will stay with her .

  • @aprameyaj4072
    @aprameyaj4072 15 дней назад

    This feels like listening to my thoughts... Thanks for saying the things that need to be said, but many people are afraid to say out loud

  • @chhikaraji3227
    @chhikaraji3227 Месяц назад +2

    Being a 23 year old girl feeling so proud being virgin and i hooe i can get someone like me ❤

  • @Soulful_Seeker
    @Soulful_Seeker Месяц назад +1

    Thankyou for existing bro!🙏
    Atleast there are some influencers who are posting meaningful contents that can have a great impact on this disorganised messed up generation and throw light upon such matters which are not happening in homes between parents and children.

  • @user-mj5fk1tv1d
    @user-mj5fk1tv1d Месяц назад +2

    Can I please clone this guy and protect him with all my might . He is so good yaar

  • @Poojuroy
    @Poojuroy Месяц назад +2

    bro you are almost right, but please consider my comment : don't post videos at night bro! our generation thinking awake at night is common. You are a great influencer bro, just change this timings otherwise your's truely followers may think awaken at midnight is casual and normal. The one who awaken at nights has more lustful desires and cruel thoughts. Please read my comment bro. Anyways you are thoughts are amazing. GO further spirtually.

  • @prince0261
    @prince0261 Месяц назад +5

    0:08 :- what if your gf got "👁️👄👁️" what should u do

  • @saitrishalsonti1527
    @saitrishalsonti1527 Месяц назад +1

    i had promised at my peak of sadness where i ended up being fooled by a girl her intentions was clear that she is going to cheat me when her ex comes again into her life and i was the one stayed loyal and serious towards the relation and ended up being not to go relationship until my death comes infront of me it's been 3and half years since she broke up with me. from then onwards i decided not to go into relationship because i thought one fine day she would just realize that how much serious i was about her soo staying for a girl who left you in a bad situation is it wrong or right bro, but one thing for sure that i hope not to go into relationship with any other girl and not to get married i love being single upto death , one wish to god that if possible in next life she would be my life patner as a correct person.if you read this thank you very much for saving young generation .heart from me brooo,❤

  • @Itz_GachaSparkle
    @Itz_GachaSparkle Месяц назад +1

    Bhaiya, thank you so much. People like u are going to save us, our future generation. ❤ Proud to be a subscriber. I'm in 7th grade rn (12 yrs ). Things r going rough regarding relationships and all to the point I think all this is stupid. But you, Brother, Made me Believe and realise True Love.

  • @JakeRobert123
    @JakeRobert123 Месяц назад +55

    That's not even a reason. It wasn't her fault. If you really loved her you would be comforting her instead of asking this question

    • @Purple_fandom_girl
      @Purple_fandom_girl Месяц назад +4

      I find a real MAN right now

    • @We-logs11
      @We-logs11 Месяц назад +1

      Yeah but that boy was a teenager so asking question is not wrong

    • @JakeRobert123
      @JakeRobert123 Месяц назад +6

      @@We-logs11 I am one too. It's more about mindset than about age

    • @user-ti6my1if2m
      @user-ti6my1if2m Месяц назад +1

      I think it was just out of curiosity

    • @sweet4sweet
      @sweet4sweet Месяц назад +3

      ​@@JakeRobert123not every one has the same level of knowledge or mindset people learn things by asking questions either with themselves or someone else

  • @moumitapatra1847
    @moumitapatra1847 Месяц назад +4

    I totally agree with you Bhairav bhai...❤

  • @SidX3M
    @SidX3M Месяц назад

    Bro came Changed some people's mindset and vanished in just 13 fking minutes, hats off to you AJ Bhairav

  • @lkcp2214
    @lkcp2214 17 дней назад

    Finally this proves I am not old age minded. Thanks bro, well said

  • @itsjagritiverma
    @itsjagritiverma 28 дней назад +1

    Finally somone speaking my mindset.
    I belong to genzs but my mindset is like that. Will society accept me? 🗿LMAO! Ofc yess!

  • @gamingwithme9897
    @gamingwithme9897 Месяц назад +2

    I excpected this answer from bro ! i also think like that only . cheers mate who think like that!

  • @harshit_sus
    @harshit_sus Месяц назад +7

    Your videos are special ❤❤

  • @Yuno_351
    @Yuno_351 Месяц назад

    Thanks sir, am a teenager and your advice felt like my brother is advicing something just loved the way you comprehended this :)

  • @Lilo-j7e
    @Lilo-j7e 29 дней назад +1

    What's wrong with teenage love? Any love which hampers the growth of am individual isn't good, be it teenage or adult
    When you have found someone who priorities growth of both of you together, there is nothing wrong in it
    Me and my partner both of us have cracked neet, got a rank good rank, top government college of the state, while being in a relationship, and are now in the same college together, we have our ups and downs but it's a very healthy relationship
    And as you said lying from parents, Indian parents are not cool enough to accept love, it's all a waste of time for them, so you do lie about dating
    I don't feel it's wrong, because the relationship wouldn't be there in the first place if parents knew
    Don't associate lying to parents as a bad thing.

  • @ralphthomson6168
    @ralphthomson6168 Месяц назад

    The fact that comments on a yt video are respectful even when disagreeing with op speaks volumes on the quality of the content and character of op. Props to you bro.

  • @irisjnadar1818
    @irisjnadar1818 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you Anna for making such video.... people these days have become blind... God bless you for you hv showed them correct path

  • @SohamMallik
    @SohamMallik Месяц назад +2

    yes brother, i was born in 2005....and i support your mindset

  • @christymasih9255
    @christymasih9255 Месяц назад

    Bro literally like me....his mentality, his words, his opinions, his pov....demnnnnnn, he must be my 'kumbh mei khoya hua brother ' 😂❤ love you broooooooo❤❤❤

  • @user-gd9ky7xs7t
    @user-gd9ky7xs7t Месяц назад

    bro im 17m and i had a brief thinking on the same topic few weeks ago and i had the same mindset of yours. Being a kid living around "modern culture" friends circle who consider all these relationships and hookups are normal, there are very few of them who actually accept my opinion and im proud of it brother. Idk why i talked bout it but i thought of sharing it..... keep posting such stuff anna, you are the one who this society needs now!
    Love from chennaii!

  • @yashwantsinghpathania
    @yashwantsinghpathania Месяц назад +2

    Good bro ❤ Respect and Support from J&K 👈🔥💯 Regards State President Akhil Bharatiya Kshatriya Mahasabha Estd 1897

  • @arafrahman2154
    @arafrahman2154 Месяц назад +1

    We (Bangladeshi) students are currently peacefully protesting against quota,but Student League an organization of the government ambushed us.Nearly two hundred people were injured and many were killed in the attack. At this time we need you very much because the journalists of our country are on the side of the government.They have no news on this issue.They have not promoting about on this issue.Seeking freedom has now become a crime for us.

  • @Kangkana-qk1jr
    @Kangkana-qk1jr Месяц назад +5

    But brother.... Its still happening that people are divorcing or getting cheated even after love or arrange marriage 🙂

    • @disha2292
      @disha2292 Месяц назад +1

      You are right 😞

    • @sweet4sweet
      @sweet4sweet Месяц назад +1

      Cuz people have no patience nowadays because of fast life

  • @KulluSingh-sj1rz
    @KulluSingh-sj1rz 6 дней назад

    bro looks extra handsome today❤

  • @smilehappy6798
    @smilehappy6798 Месяц назад +4

    1) I'll not cheat you bcoz I'm married to u.
    2) I'll not cheat you bcoz I love you to the core.
    SAME SAME BUT DIFFERENT coz even after mrg cheating is possible if you don't love them🙃

  • @aryansharan14
    @aryansharan14 15 дней назад

    Dammnnnnnn finally found some famous dude with same mindset as me..

  • @Stay.positive.or.f_off
    @Stay.positive.or.f_off Месяц назад +1

    U r amazing. Cuz I have friends who follow u and I didn't know. They are teenagers. And u have influenced them positively...

  • @badboygamer7279
    @badboygamer7279 Месяц назад

    I think bro already learnt biggest lesson of his life😂

  • @Sazer.Sarv24
    @Sazer.Sarv24 Месяц назад +3

    I think that you should stay with your partner if they got r@ped, that would have been traumatising for them leaving them would be so stressful for them, if you truly love your partner then you will stay by them.

  • @dr-ahirbhairav2594
    @dr-ahirbhairav2594 Месяц назад +5

    Bro marriage is not the end point..don't get married expecting sex..😅marriage is a huge commitment but you cannot measure ones sincerity with their willingness to get married or marriage doesn't prove anything for eg one person loved another person for 3 yrs,had sex with her after ring exchange multiple times..anyway they got married.. Slowly girl lost interest in him..but he never forced her..finally one day he realised that his wife was cheating on him..got divorced leading a single life now 😂Based on a true story..

    • @sweet4sweet
      @sweet4sweet Месяц назад

      I don't understand Why loosing intrest in love marriages is getting so common these days

    • @dr-ahirbhairav2594
      @dr-ahirbhairav2594 Месяц назад +1

      @@sweet4sweet Now a days promiscuous modernised married population ( not everyone)try to defend and normalise extra Marital affairs with polygamy concept,which is getting popular nowadays And who knows may be after some 10-15yrs concept of open marriage will come into existence in our society

  • @girl_gamer_yt_tn69
    @girl_gamer_yt_tn69 9 дней назад +1

    Can we believe promises when they are in sad?? 😿

  • @Cocaltacc1
    @Cocaltacc1 14 дней назад +2

    10:45 bro what if their parents are narcissistic and they only care about money . (You get what I am saying right )

  • @lasyadeeksha9011
    @lasyadeeksha9011 Месяц назад +3

    Brooo you are 10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000% right ☺💯💯👏👏🙌🙌

  • @akashytsamanta
    @akashytsamanta Месяц назад +2

    Just like Salil Jaamdar, this guy is also in the rare race to teach values to this generation, and I really appreciate both of you. But, only those people will change who have some sense, and most people don't have it, which is really concerning. But still, these RUclipsrs are trying, which is a very huge thing. I feel strong parenting and powerful laws are needed for effective change in our society. What do you think?
    AJ, you are from Tamil Nadu, right, so could you please throw light on language wars and cultural hate in india???

  • @namitamishra2996
    @namitamishra2996 23 дня назад

    Whatever you said is completely right. In my opinion better not to enter in a relationship before marriage. Bcause once you got involved in relationship, in most of the cases bf/gf s approach for seggs, even do emotional blackmail for it. Friendship is ok but not fwb

  • @Dhivyaa15
    @Dhivyaa15 Месяц назад +3

    Love your character bhairav😍

  • @zaxa6583
    @zaxa6583 День назад +1

    Justice for Kolkata lady doctor

  • @SangzualaSailo-pb9bs
    @SangzualaSailo-pb9bs Месяц назад +1

    For the first question
    Of course i'll stay with her i'll try to love her even more
    And i'll my best to make her forget what happened

  • @nisha_ganesan
    @nisha_ganesan Месяц назад +2

    What kind of profession are you expecting your life partner to be in?

  • @heenar3331
    @heenar3331 Месяц назад +1

    You great mannnnnn …!!!!❤🕊️

  • @harini.s4121
    @harini.s4121 5 дней назад

    Anna I am 17 yrs old and i have been in a relationship for one and half years with my schoolmate. My parents found about my relationship 9 months ago and they didn't let me go to school for few days and started advicing and they even told me to die and i am a shame/burden to their life and many more. Then one day they let me go to school and have my normal life back with some strict instructions and they kept eying on me. But somehow I just cant let go of the boy who loved me and with a gut I again continued my relationship without breaking up as my parents told me to. Its been 8 months and i ama not completely back from that 2 months when i didn't attended school and when i felt my home as a hell. But now they believe me and i am joining college this year. They are giving me the freedom to wear what I want, study what I like and go out with friends 3 months once like that. But they keep saying that if i fell in love with a other caste boy again then that would be the biggest sin that anyone can get in the world and the biggest heartbreak punishment i can give to my parents. Now i am confused thinking that if i am really doing something unforgivable and wrong. Plss tell me anna, is it wrong to fell in love or just tell me what i have to.... Am i doing some sort of sin?... I cant get this out of my head... Plss dont ignore my comment anna.... I have nobody else to ask 💔

  • @Typical__hb07
    @Typical__hb07 Месяц назад +1

    I tried to stay even after knowing she cheated on me!😢

  • @Siblings.Gaming
    @Siblings.Gaming Месяц назад +26

    Tomorrow is my birthday 😅 will turn 20
    Also, growing with your words.😊

    • @Siblings.Gaming
      @Siblings.Gaming Месяц назад +1

      @CAMPS_234 Thank you 😊 means a lot

    • @sanjupm9731
      @sanjupm9731 Месяц назад +2

      Happy bday 🎉

    • @Siblings.Gaming
      @Siblings.Gaming Месяц назад +2

      @@sanjupm9731 Thank you 😊

    • @shaji2166
      @shaji2166 Месяц назад +1

      Happy birthday have a great day

    • @AnjuA.S
      @AnjuA.S Месяц назад +1

      Adv hpy bday yaar❤ keep growing..!!

  • @Galaxylight261
    @Galaxylight261 Месяц назад +3

    Bhaiya I want to know your opinion on trans, bi, lesbian, gay people basically LGBTQ+ community. In my opinion idc who you are or what gender you are, if you are a good person, have a kind heart, respect every one out there then you I would respect and support you. Btw lots of love from West Bengal, you are leading us to the right path💗✨

    • @athvii
      @athvii Месяц назад +1

      Same opinion though!

  • @SangeetaJatinder8398
    @SangeetaJatinder8398 18 дней назад

    Bro I'm very big fan of you...But first time I'm watching your full video..usually i watch only shorts.. Yesterday you came in my dream and we click a selfie in your phone.. I wanna make my this dream real.. I always agree with your every point and way of thinking.. I'm a 23 years old girl.. I am in a loyal relationship ( 8years completed ) (from 2016) and we had sex with each other only and we are engaged now (2022).. I don't recommend anyone to do this before marriage.. I'm lucky that my husband is a good and loyal person.. But not everyone is same.. And that's also a bad thing.. There was nobody to teach me about these things.. We respect you bro that you are teaching manners to this generation .. ❤❤

  • @mithleshkumari1914
    @mithleshkumari1914 Месяц назад +6

    Sir i truly respects your opinion but in my opinion no one can be trusted fully cause even marriage have a end divorce in my opinion i don't want to have any relationship not even marriage. Let me explain it to you with a story (real story of my parents) so from my childhood my father used to raise his hand on my mother and never used to stay at home like even after work after a period of time my mother health started to get really bad because she was doing a degree at that and plus managing home and a lot of health issues because of her irregular time schedule and when i was eight . She got admitted in to a hospital. And got discharged after 4 weeks and after she got home my aunt said to my father that can you please stay to take care of her. Also for context she had some heart problems and had really low hemoglobin level. But he didn't listen and did not stay after 2 or 3 days my mother health started to collapse. And at night she again got admitted to the hospital thank to my neighbour who helped her. And after some time my mother got her first heart attack and soon after second. She died. And after three years of her death. I got to know the reason my father used to stay outside was he was cheating on my mother with another woman. So never ever trust even after marriage.

    • @Sadakpemil
      @Sadakpemil Месяц назад

      Your mother knew. Did your father never talk to you after that?

    • @Raaasimp
      @Raaasimp Месяц назад

      But he already mentioned about the relationship thing. If u r in a relationship taking it to a next level is only good after marriage, it's not like he/she will marry u so don't put so much trust in them that's what he said rytt. Also not as a relationship or a commitment he also mentions how individually virginity matters which is true (asf). At the end pf the day it's all up to the individual. (It is not a flex going around having sex randomly either)

    • @Raaasimp
      @Raaasimp Месяц назад

      And yeah like u said don't give in or trust away right after marriage. Indeed marriage is not trust

    • @mithleshkumari1914
      @mithleshkumari1914 Месяц назад

      @@Sadakpemil never

    • @mithleshkumari1914
      @mithleshkumari1914 Месяц назад

      @@Sadakpemil plus he hate me because I tell the truth to my mother side family and because of that all hate him.

  • @Sam_tbf
    @Sam_tbf Месяц назад +1

    We (Bangladeshi) students are currently peacefully protesting against quota,but Student League an organization of the government ambushed us.Nearly two hundred people were injured and many were killed in the attack. At this time we need you very much because the journalists of our country are on the side of the government.They have no news on this issue.They have not promoting about on this issue.Seeking freedom has now become a crime for us.
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  • @AniMenerd0
    @AniMenerd0 Месяц назад +1

    To be honest the one who dont what to change theor mindset and always say they are the only one who is always right , whatever u do they dont even gonna open their brain and understand the next person 😢

    • @sweet4sweet
      @sweet4sweet Месяц назад

      If you don't want to understand them why do they need to understand you. Just because they have different preferences or different mindset or different thought processes it doesn't mean they are close minded
      It's just a matter of different perspectives and different choices.

  • @Anvesh_9
    @Anvesh_9 Месяц назад +4

    Bro i have some feelings on a girl like one sided love u can say . But i didnt talk to her due to shyness and stammering. Coming to the main matter i have saw her with some 2 boys but i still want her ....

    • @sweet4sweet
      @sweet4sweet Месяц назад

      Are you out of your mind brother ? Stay away from her have some self respect ? You will become only a backup plan for her nothing else
      This is 2024 man you will get heavily manipulated. get out of old era mindset. Be aware of what's going on in the world
      Don't talk to her don't see her stay away from her it will be good for you

    • @athvii
      @athvii Месяц назад +2

      @@sweet4sweet Bruh calm down. Let him behave logically. Do you know what he mean by saying that he saw her with two boys?
      Don't misguide people, please. Those boys might be those you're feeling like but there are chances of them being her friends/brothers/relatives too. It's right to get out of the old-era mindset, but I think that the "new-era mindset" isn't like "If you see a girl with ANY other boy" stay away from her & vice versa.
      You can't predict anything 100% just coz YOU FEEL something is unusual. It's better to clear things up by having a convo rather than making different assumptions in mind. Loyal people & good people still exist. Please don't misguide anyone or force some thought. Help them to think & ask before answering 🙏🏻

  • @vaidehibolke6575
    @vaidehibolke6575 Месяц назад +4

    Just a curious question...what do you have to say on people who have been dating before marriage,got married, everything was good till a point and then he/she was engaged in an extra marital affair..let's consider he for a moment (being involved in an extra marital affair) what then.?? Even then aur trust goes in vain.. Even then we are heartbroken.. Even then we face the same consequences as we would have without getting married and not trusting completely... Let's consider that even in laws do not support you..what then??it's the same situation as without getting married...is there no phase in life when we can sit back and completely relax knowing we'll never get cheated on..and obviously they say theirs gonna be someone for you, who'll never break your trust blah blah..but in search of tht someone we have to cross paths with different someone who's gonna break you ,and hence you give up on love and may never meet the one!!!ughhh

  • @abishabi7961
    @abishabi7961 Месяц назад

    Bro is teaching real batman's lifestyle trust me if any of his subscribers finding true love(like bros mindset) he becomes a real MAN(because it never been found)

  • @Kritiical
    @Kritiical Месяц назад

    Influencers, Celebrities should learn something from this guy.. Actually not only Influencers & celebrities each and everyone should learn from him

  • @harshithapeddada6406
    @harshithapeddada6406 25 дней назад

    Bro really people who are humble and sweet dont bark its true mostly people who are having breakups and do nonsense do create content you saved lives of 100 percent people here first time. As an adult i agree with u its real situations two people who are very disciplined have great parents and inlaws and having gr8 careers really got divorced we dont know reason but we think its studies for 6 yrs they lived apart since they r doctors we never know i hope people will be responsible for the choices they make atleast you took an initiative to speak up to save marriages and considering gf bf as prospects only and mostly peace of mind. I was lucky enough to know strong minded people in my life who value commitment and never gave in to such things. People please develop your character, personality, health and financial health first before finding someone your sharing your 50 percent vibe energy to the other person if you are sleeping with them -u will end up taking trash in and throwing trash out, it takes years to be clean if your wasted if it was drugs or mental health it takes life times to clear such things of your system. Save relations money most of all dont throw yourselves away.

  • @poojamuley1528
    @poojamuley1528 16 дней назад +1

    Each word in this video is 100 percent true. but you said to trust your partner until he or she marries you...i would like to know more about your after marriage thoughts. i think surviving till marriage is one thing and after marriage is another. i see most of the marriages did not last just because of the problems that she face in his house. what would be your take on this.
    bhairav, i am afraid of marriage, I see many girls get married to someone and then she starts facing issues with his family and she cannot leave that man just because her parents wont accept that due to society. i know you will say let her be financially independent but in spite of being independent she cannot take that decision just to keep respect of her parents in society, would like to know from you. also dude, are you a psychologist, like I literally nod while listening to you as if you are really explaining me. I love your videos, I wish to meet you once I get monetize on youtube because that's the easy way to meet you, I think. lots of love.💌

  • @MrMorte-vq1in
    @MrMorte-vq1in Месяц назад +26

    Why the heck did you mute the words like rape, Anna? You're not using it for fun or dark jokes; you're just talking about the topic. When a parent and a teenager sit together and watch this video, the parent will definitely allow her son to listen to this whole thing.