What to Do After Your New Year, New You Plan Falls Apart | Black Women Abroad

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @lisabryant5424
    @lisabryant5424 11 месяцев назад +28

    I am listening to this after doing laundry, putting up a fence in my yard after a winter storm and all of this makes sense to me and made me cry too. Much love to you ladies. We all need to feel supported.

  • @LifeBetweenTheDash
    @LifeBetweenTheDash 11 месяцев назад +16

    I love the idea of that rest practice and the thought of "let the things that are supposed to support you, support you." ❤ SO GOOD!!!!!!!!!!! Lot's of learning here. Right what I need.

    • @StephaniePerry
      @StephaniePerry  11 месяцев назад +2

      That's really changed things for me in the last few months. I think you'd love Octavia Raheem's book Pause, Rest Be: amzn.to/3O1Xp7B

  • @ndr167
    @ndr167 11 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you ! Just booked my first house sit after the interview. Yes, we need a community that supports us.

  • @YogaBlissDance
    @YogaBlissDance 11 месяцев назад +3

    I was called "spoiled" too because I had an "easy" life in America. Not really but that's how older Caribbean folks saw it.

  • @MotunrayoO
    @MotunrayoO 11 месяцев назад +6

    Words cannot express my gratitude for the work you do Stephanie.. “let the chair hold you” literal tears 😭 so simple but such a powerful reminder that there is no need for me to be all things and do all things. I can allow myself to be supported 🙏🏾

  • @TheCrosswalkInspiration
    @TheCrosswalkInspiration 11 месяцев назад +18

    This conversation was so refreshing, thank you ladies for your transparency.

  • @dews3340
    @dews3340 11 месяцев назад +7

    JUST SHARING BW, Dr Antoinette Candia-Bailey, a university administrator died by suicide Jan, 2023, I read yesterday. It's been a long day here, stay safe ladies and healthy...... Eze unbothered non working spouse, child FREE thankfully in the Ozarks 🎉

  • @daledottin7548
    @daledottin7548 10 месяцев назад

    Stefanie, just want to say you’re my hero. I always feel so invigorated when I watch your videos. You teach me so much and do it all with ease and a smile. You’re doing so much for the black community and women specifically. As a future corporate jumper, thanks so much for reminding me that I matter and I need to show up for myself. I applaud you 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @stephs17
    @stephs17 11 месяцев назад +3

    You're one of my favorite content creators. Your questions are well thought out and you're always prepared with great questions. You're a good listener also. Thank you for providing this platform for black women.

  • @amethyststone1678
    @amethyststone1678 11 месяцев назад +8

    Thank you Stephanie for such a great video interview with your guest. I see nothing wrong with starting fresh wiping the slate clean and starting over. It's okay to restart and revise your New Year's plan. The point is to keep moving forward stay focused and see your future that you want become closer. 2024 is going to be a great year for black female solo travelers who are taking the world by storm. This is our time to shine and embrace the world🌎✈🧳🚶🏾‍♀

  • @soulnspired888
    @soulnspired888 11 месяцев назад +3

    I've not been working a 9 to 5 since July 2023 and I don't miss it at all. I'm living off of less right now hoping to get more money opportunities so that I can live a little more luxurious and for an emergency fund. I'm letting the universe know I'm open to new abundance 💚

  • @Erica-en2qz
    @Erica-en2qz 11 месяцев назад +2

    This is exactly what I did on my sabbatical, minus visiting Portugal! I'm gonna get there one day, though! It was all about rest for me, and I was lucky to have people to tell me to sit myself down when I forgot! I can't even tell you how much I related to this, because my modus operandi has always been "keep going", and I want to keep valuing being able to pause, appreciate, heal, celebrate, and rest on a more regular basis.

  • @ndr167
    @ndr167 11 месяцев назад +4

    Learning to live a life of ease.

  • @JabouJ.
    @JabouJ. 11 месяцев назад +2

    This was great to watch. I also resonate with Aundrea about going back home to West Africa and being mocked at the American girl 😅 my roots are from Gambia & Senegal

  • @fairlady402
    @fairlady402 11 месяцев назад +1

    my plan is life-changing. I moved to Africa last year and have started building my home. I created a budget but did not anticipate the rise in prices and labor, and now I have to go back to the U.S. to work and make the money I need to complete my build. I am not sure how long it will take but I really do not want to go back to the states.

  • @kimhoward55555
    @kimhoward55555 11 месяцев назад

    I love the idea of Angels of many forms showing up❤.

  • @NatashaJRiley
    @NatashaJRiley 11 месяцев назад +3

    What a WONDERFUL interview! I caught it after the live this week, but this one was special! So many gems! I definitely teared up a few times as she talked about hoow to show up for yourself, imperfect and making mistakes...and what that does for your spirit and the inner healing that follows the decisions you make FOR YOU! ❤

  • @Qwertyflirty26
    @Qwertyflirty26 11 месяцев назад

    Yay! A fellow Sierra Leonean and Marylander. Aundrea is gorgeous (as are you Stephanie!) and this interview was a pleasure to watch. Thank you so much Stephanie for bringing us quality content time and time again.

  • @cheryldurham6021
    @cheryldurham6021 11 месяцев назад +1

    I am so glad I caught this on replay. It was so refreshing to be reminded about the importance of support and taking small steps over time an lead to rewarding outcomes. Loved the conversation with you and Aundrea. Thank you for helping me to see a pivot doesn’t have to be seen as a problem…it can be a necessary thing that stimulates future movement. I will cherish the statement “start before you are ready!”

  • @SylviaSmith_53Brend
    @SylviaSmith_53Brend 11 месяцев назад +1

    Reallllllllllllly loved this show, I’m currently on a sabbatical in the Caribbean and about to return to London nx week after 3months absorbing great material and learning so much, thank you for sharing 🙏🏾

  • @damalijaye5390
    @damalijaye5390 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hi from chilly 47degree Oxon Hill Md. I'm retired and thinking about warm weather places to travel. Granada sounds wonderful.😊😊 😊

  • @CarolRichard-o8d
    @CarolRichard-o8d 11 месяцев назад

    I have been depprogramming and self healing since June 2020. I feel ya!

  • @gg13308
    @gg13308 11 месяцев назад

    I listened to the replay while basking in Colombia. This was sooo good…loved it and loved her story..very inspiring

  • @RaesOfLight
    @RaesOfLight 11 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my goodness! Aundrea! Wow, i actually went to college with her - she was a couple of years ahead of me but I've since run into her while living in Philly a few years ago and she was so so genuine! If i remember, it was the African American book fair at CCP! I will run to subscribe to her channel!❤❤❤❤

  • @NspireToTheTee
    @NspireToTheTee 8 месяцев назад

    This is good! Ladies I needed this convo! ❤ love this dialogue

  • @Onechosen492
    @Onechosen492 11 месяцев назад

    We need more discussion like this I really enjoyed listening to you guys

  • @juanitasmartofremaxexcelle5080
    @juanitasmartofremaxexcelle5080 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you soo much!! I need that immediately. A dream was in elementary school with my daughter. Too many of us are workaholics. I feel guilty pausing sometimes. I think my daughter is doing the same.😢

  • @lisasims3970
    @lisasims3970 11 месяцев назад

    she is so sweet. i just signd up for the newsletter

  • @thehowardworldview
    @thehowardworldview 11 месяцев назад

    Truly enjoyed this, such an important and necessary conversation. Thank You

  • @YasmineBedward
    @YasmineBedward 10 месяцев назад

    I can’t express how helpful this wasssss! Thank y’all for sharing & shedding light on this

  • @startribecafe
    @startribecafe 11 месяцев назад

    Now I’m standing here realizing that I DO NOT know what REST is.

  • @AmorFati333
    @AmorFati333 11 месяцев назад

    Awesome show loved everything about it! ❤

  • @Nacole_Lashoun
    @Nacole_Lashoun 11 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful interview and information! I loved the guests perspective and insightful view of how she is creating her “new life”

  • @LifeUnfilltered
    @LifeUnfilltered 11 месяцев назад +2

    This is SO GOOD to me!!

  • @dwalker6868
    @dwalker6868 11 месяцев назад

    Loving this thank you for sharing

  • @OddGirl82
    @OddGirl82 11 месяцев назад

    I'm supposed to go to Guayaquil Ecuador from Feb.4 to March 4 for rest and relaxation and I may not be able to go, due to the chaos that is erupting in the country.😞

  • @IamAhShah
    @IamAhShah 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hello, Friends ✨️

  • @gailtriplin9785
    @gailtriplin9785 11 месяцев назад

    Stephanie Perry Thank you for giving me permission to only think about myself without guilt !!!

  • @SylviaSmith_53Brend
    @SylviaSmith_53Brend 11 месяцев назад

    Brilliant discussion 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾very inspirational

  • @Changin4Me
    @Changin4Me 11 месяцев назад

    Watching replay. Reprogramming really resonates for me. Thanks so much for a wonderful interview. It caused me to reflect on my life.

  • @actionvj
    @actionvj 11 месяцев назад

    This was a GREAT conversation. Thank you.

  • @TravelmadicTV
    @TravelmadicTV 11 месяцев назад

    Great conversation ladies! ❤

  • @IELTSspeakingtutor
    @IELTSspeakingtutor 11 месяцев назад +3

    I loved this interview. Years ago, I named my inner white man John.

  • @deneenmarcelbeauty
    @deneenmarcelbeauty 11 месяцев назад

    Hi Aundria from Philadelphia!! ❤

  • @angelique8258
    @angelique8258 11 месяцев назад

    Great interview. thanks!

  • @NotSoEntertaining.
    @NotSoEntertaining. 9 месяцев назад

    Working in corporate for the past 3 years has shown me that I have greatly underestimated my potential for years. These people are fools 😅.

  • @FreedomQuests
    @FreedomQuests 11 месяцев назад

    Cool looks lovely

  • @joyhisway8822
    @joyhisway8822 11 месяцев назад

    What’s her name?

  • @BlackandBlessed100
    @BlackandBlessed100 6 месяцев назад

    Same..a time in my life My plan didn’t work out
    I worked hard for so many years and I had people actually steal money from me tens of thousands $$
    Im devastated and hurt from the level of betrayal
    I had to reroute My plan
    Now I’m the most selfish Me🩷Proudly
    Noe nobody gets my money it all goes to me and my plans
    Right now I’m taking a three day weekend to a getaway every weekend🌸I’m still working of course but very very little🥰
    Now I’m not playing
    I have to plan for my rest and ease while making some money to support my lifestyle- and use the advantages I already have.