No More Crabs in a Barrel Once I Left America's Barrel

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

Комментарии • 129

  • @leejaved4183
    @leejaved4183 День назад +27

    Stephanie, you are glowing. Being away from the US suits you. Your hairstyle is gorgeous.

  • @GeaDonnaMoore-h9s
    @GeaDonnaMoore-h9s День назад +24

    I like your strand twist!!

  • @karenl7786
    @karenl7786 День назад +31

    "The problem isn't the crabs, the problem is the barrel." Bars!!

  • @capoislamort100
    @capoislamort100 2 дня назад +12

    Very attractive sister, sharing vital contents for the family. I’m glad I found this channel.

  • @Grahmahshanz
    @Grahmahshanz День назад +11

    The crab in a barrel analogy is so perfect for the way we've been "positioned".

  • @rose4u111
    @rose4u111 2 дня назад +18

    🕊️Happy Holidays to Stephanie, Roshida, Adalia, and the entire Exodus Summit Community…wishing peace and blessings to everyone!🕊️

  • @moerober
    @moerober 2 дня назад +22

    Happy Holidays!! I just had a discussion with my son and how important it is to leave this country, live, and exhale. We are getting ready to leave, leave, leave the US. This is the best decision ever! Thank you for your support. You'll hear from me again. 🙂

    • @tyronevincent1368
      @tyronevincent1368 День назад +1

      Left US 25 y ago. Trust me your decision will be a game changer. Congrats 💐 Good Luck👍

    • @ericbell3986
      @ericbell3986 14 часов назад

      Had passport for a year and once I finally can get my financial situation where it needs to be I will be leaving the u.s. and if I'm Breathing I will retire outside this nation and I'll hope that things don't get too bad where I can't leave but I'm determined to get out of America no matter what and now that I got my passport is the 1st step.

    • @ericbell3986
      @ericbell3986 13 часов назад

      ​@tyronevincent1368 I watch this sister like I have for off and on the last 7 years I want to say but she gives out a very indepth understanding why children of slaves born in the U.S.A should leave America and though fight is left in me but as a black person and male I can identify. That's why I'm subscribed to this sister again although I don't think I ever unsubstantiated her but I guess that's youtube and social media technology imperfections.

  • @lovelydaye6640
    @lovelydaye6640 2 дня назад +17

    Buenos Dias Bonita. I follow Karen Hunter but I strongly agree with you - we shouldn't move to places we're not wanted. It's Peace Out time✌🏽

  • @valeriemichelle07
    @valeriemichelle07 День назад +3

    Loving the hair, Sis!!!

  • @partlowart8802
    @partlowart8802 День назад +9

    The black dialect you hear in The Wire is unique to black Baltimore. The script was written specifically with that dialect and it was spot on.

  • @MrMrzLPC
    @MrMrzLPC 2 дня назад +8

    Yep, I agree 110%.

  • @callende
    @callende 2 дня назад +13

    Good afternoon from the future. You look fantastic, Stephanie! 🙌🏽💜🙌🏽Just missed you live, but so HaPpY to see your live! Happy Holidays and Happy New Year, All! ~~ 🎉😊🎉😊🎉

  • @free_spirit_148
    @free_spirit_148 День назад +8

    Happy Holidays! 🎄 You spoke a word today!! 🙌🏾 I am removing myself from the "barrel" soon and am starting the digital nomad process this coming year. What an inspiration you are for me and everyone I share your videos with!

  • @toniwebb4293
    @toniwebb4293 День назад +5

    Buenos días Stephanie!

    • @toniwebb4293
      @toniwebb4293 День назад +1

      Love your new look and red is great on you!🎉

  • @MyName-wl6cd
    @MyName-wl6cd День назад +6

    You look beautiful - hair is gorgeous ❤❤❤

  • @GentleGlowSerenity
    @GentleGlowSerenity 2 дня назад +4

    You are such a delight

  • @naomim5746
    @naomim5746 2 дня назад +5

    24:09 I watched that same video and thought the same thing you did.
    It sounds good at first, if your goal is to move the needle in America.
    I also enjoy her channel.

  • @Grahmahshanz
    @Grahmahshanz День назад +3

    Happy Saturday

  • @lillianhoward9460
    @lillianhoward9460 2 дня назад +6

    Happy Holidays, Stephanie and I love your hair! Have an amazingly awesome season of All things Beautiful!🌹💖

  • @ang2733
    @ang2733 19 часов назад +1

    You look fabulous. Love your hair

  • @WovenPsalm
    @WovenPsalm 2 дня назад +3

    Good morning All! It doesn't happen often but I love it when Stephanie goes IN! Thank you.

  • @nontsikelelokafundo5081
    @nontsikelelokafundo5081 День назад +2

    Good morning from SA, you look gorgeous, The blouse color suits you and off course the wholesome conversation 😊, thanks

  • @MrMrzLPC
    @MrMrzLPC 2 дня назад +4

    Yes! There is enough for everyone!

  • @karenl7786
    @karenl7786 День назад +3

    Oh, and good afternoon. Replay crew!

  • @stellam8379
    @stellam8379 2 дня назад +6

    Buenos tardes from the future!

  • @livingabroad60
    @livingabroad60 День назад +4

    Happy holidays Stephanie and everyone here, from San Miguel de Allende Mexico 🇲🇽 🎉

  • @leejaved4183
    @leejaved4183 День назад +3

    Excellent metaphor regarding the crabs.

  • @vienicestyles
    @vienicestyles День назад +3

    Greetings and salutations from Hawaii 🌈 Stephanie, your Saturday videos make my weekend. They keep me looking forward and motivated to my move abroad. ♊️ 👩🏽 🌟 🌍

  • @shelleytaylor9188
    @shelleytaylor9188 2 дня назад +11

    Happy Holidays! BW and long time subscriber, viewer - just rarely if ever comment. But I really love your particular description of "Crabs in a barrel". This is something I've experienced alot in my adult life which is disappointing, b/c in my youth in the DC/MD area, I came up with other AA friends who all genuinely supported and inspired each other. As we we got older and began to move away and/or travel our own paths, I began to experience more and more of these other types ... that were identified to me as "crabs in a barrel". It was sad to me. But I'd never thought about the phrase in a way that focused on the "barrel" as the problem, rather than certain AA mindsets that follow some wherever they go. You've given me a new way to think about it and I like it.

  • @lazarocedeno5270
    @lazarocedeno5270 День назад +3

    Stephanie ❤you are and look fantastic.😊

  • @findingmaitribe
    @findingmaitribe 13 часов назад

    PREACH 🎉🎉🎉❤!
    NOT HAVING PEOPLE IN YOUR FACE...CHANGES EVERYTHING 👍🏽👍🏽🥂😎!

  • @barbarabyrd4703
    @barbarabyrd4703 2 дня назад +4

    GREAT Blessings Sis Stefanie...You're Looking FABULOUS as Always from South Carolina!!❤❤❤🎉

  • @NatashaJRiley
    @NatashaJRiley 2 дня назад +3

    Happy Holidays.
    Also...the hairdo is *chef's kiss 😊

  • @soundenergyXmedicine
    @soundenergyXmedicine День назад +2

    Thank you, so much! Good Afternoon.

  • @debraquarles3464
    @debraquarles3464 День назад +5

    I think I remember you from Cleveland, Ohio. Yes, Ohio can radicalize you. I also listen to KH channel, but missed the Move suggestion-No Way!

  • @GentleGlowSerenity
    @GentleGlowSerenity 2 дня назад +3

    Good afternoon! Love your hair!

  • @ymabet7984
    @ymabet7984 День назад +3

    Good evening from Ethiopia

  • @rosamarynorwood9735
    @rosamarynorwood9735 День назад +2

    Hello friend from Columbus, OH 👋 ❤

  • @Maati-wu8qb
    @Maati-wu8qb День назад +2

    Peace & Blessings

  • @BaldandBeautiful45
    @BaldandBeautiful45 День назад +3

    Happy Holidays Stephanie!!! And to the all the Beautiful Sistas here. And yes I do not have any friends that are wormen and I hope when I move abroad one day that I can gain what we call True Blue friemdships. Thank you Stephanie for another great❤❤ video

  • @GeaDonnaMoore-h9s
    @GeaDonnaMoore-h9s День назад +5

    Stephanie, of course I have heard the term or phrase, crabs in a barrel or they acted like or they were or are acting like crabs in a barrel. I have yet to hear it pointed to a particular 'race' of people like you said Black people. Per example: I hear it on the day of Black Friday. Shoppers were acting like crabs in a barrel to get to the best deals at 4am when the stores opened. As the cruise ship experienced trouble passengers were acting like crabs in a barrel to get a life vest for themselves. I have personally (as of yet never heard it pertaining to any race of people. Nope. Not yet.

  • @vienicestyles
    @vienicestyles День назад +6

    That dog doesn’t like paparazzi. 😉 😉 😂 ♊️ 👩🏽 🌟 🌍

  • @lazarocedeno5270
    @lazarocedeno5270 День назад +2

    Happy holidays.

  • @leejaved4183
    @leejaved4183 День назад +1

    Good evening, Stephanie and everyone.

  • @Keys2SOAR
    @Keys2SOAR День назад +4

    Stephanie, that was a profound kind of analysis that I have not heard anywhere except from Malcolm X. That kind of love is on another level.
    Ie. “Who? If they say they love and care for black people would advise them that way”?
    It is on the surface but in application it is a level of absolute insanity & is non sense for AfriKAN sovereignty.

  • @annettefrench4689
    @annettefrench4689 День назад +2

    Preach- leave us black people alone- we still win and "mobilize" for ourselves not for an agenda or party but for ourselves! Thank you for sharing your upsetnessI I feel that1! Always on your job trying to outperform and reinvent yourself to keep that outstanding performance appraisal. NO need for extra harrassment......................... Love your videos! Stay happy!!!

  • @GentleGlowSerenity
    @GentleGlowSerenity День назад +2

    Happy Holidays

  • @a2.oasishaus
    @a2.oasishaus Час назад

    Good morning from the future Stephanie!

  • @csimpsontailoring5972
    @csimpsontailoring5972 2 дня назад +7

    great morning to all.

  • @GentleGlowSerenity
    @GentleGlowSerenity 2 дня назад +2

    You are Brand New! Thank you

  • @kg7836
    @kg7836 День назад +1

    Stephanie. This is a Powerful insight. I also interpreted that saying as another offensive, back-handed insult about black people...absent of any context of racism. It always felt wrong to me. Really appreciate the thoughtful analysis.

  • @denisewilson5914
    @denisewilson5914 21 час назад +1

    Hello . Your hair looks cute. Your colors look really pretty on you.

  • @vienicestyles
    @vienicestyles День назад +5

    I want to be a happy crab 🦀! ♊️ 👩🏽 🌟 🌍 🇿🇦

  • @MrMrzLPC
    @MrMrzLPC 2 дня назад +7

    I live in the SF Bay Area and I’d still rather live around my own folk. B1.

  • @GentleGlowSerenity
    @GentleGlowSerenity День назад +2

    Stay Save

  • @lucindanobles7728
    @lucindanobles7728 День назад

    Good morning❤ Watching this video as replay. Merry Christmas Stephanie as you spend time in PR house sitting 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @Caustin1050
    @Caustin1050 День назад

    This was hilarious. I feel you on the avoidance of certain places for reason i.e. San Miguel. I loved the place, but it was too much on a daily.

  • @jyronav3159
    @jyronav3159 4 часа назад

    Good Day!

  • @NamasteInYourLane
    @NamasteInYourLane День назад +5

    Moving out of America sounds great except I don't like having to bounce from country to country. If i move away, i want stability.
    Is there a way to have stability once moving out of America?

  • @monicam-x8n
    @monicam-x8n 8 часов назад

    The “SoulTrain” analogy in the chat comments was extremely funny & very accurate. I agree.

  • @IrisCurtis-t9s
    @IrisCurtis-t9s День назад +2

    Good afternoon

  • @AnyaTraveling
    @AnyaTraveling День назад

    Happy Holidays 😊 Everyone

  • @sonjal8465
    @sonjal8465 День назад

    Buenos Dias Stephanie!

  • @vienicestyles
    @vienicestyles День назад +2

    As soon as WW say something stupid, I’m out. They’ll ask to touch my hair or just touch it because they feel that we are cordial enough to do so. So, as a rule..I keep them at arms length!

  • @stefaniegueye693
    @stefaniegueye693 2 дня назад +4

    Stephanie you are spot on. We need to stop fighting. That’s what I’m on.😊😊😊

  • @radicalhealthseries9482
    @radicalhealthseries9482 18 часов назад

    About #2, that was why the hair perm was accepted. It used to mean some level of favoritism, now it doesn't mean anything to the other side.

  • @kailisanderson6686
    @kailisanderson6686 2 дня назад +6

    Chai said you have to pay her! Lol

  • @sherryjoseph1287
    @sherryjoseph1287 2 дня назад +2

    Hi ladies👋

  • @vienicestyles
    @vienicestyles День назад

    That she can buy school pics every other year..took me all the way out! 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Maati-wu8qb
    @Maati-wu8qb День назад +1

    I Am in San Jose CA

  • @sabrinamadison8769
    @sabrinamadison8769 День назад

    Good evening. Replay

  • @lirpasregor
    @lirpasregor День назад

    Good Morning Stephanie. I find your description of not needing to hold on to things interesting. I love and live to build and create art. I find that you need tools and other equipment in order to do these things. How can a person let go of their tools to live?

  • @barbarabuford5795
    @barbarabuford5795 2 дня назад +5

    You look So nice Stephanie! Have u lost weight? The red looks very nice 👍♥️

    • @barbarabuford5795
      @barbarabuford5795 2 дня назад +3

      P.S. Good morning , you have Such a beautiful smile! I will be going to Japan next year to visit my granddaughter and her husband stationed there. It will be quite an experience, looking forward to it! 👍

  • @qw2659
    @qw2659 День назад

    ❤Hi from the future!❤

  • @lswilliams5283
    @lswilliams5283 День назад +2

    🙌🏾💖🕊️🛫

  • @vienicestyles
    @vienicestyles День назад +1

    Whenever I travel abroad, I do not talk to those people unless they’re waiting on me so it cannot be avoided. Otherwise, I avoid them at all cost. ♊️ 👩🏽 🌟 🌍

  • @Maati-wu8qb
    @Maati-wu8qb День назад

    I want to house sit & teach in Cameroon, Kenya, Luxor, Uganda, Ghana & Ethiopia.❤❤❤

  • @truthserum1271
    @truthserum1271 3 часа назад

    I need to get out of the barrel NEOW!

  • @audreys9770
    @audreys9770 День назад

    💯💯💯💯💯

  • @debraquarles3464
    @debraquarles3464 День назад +2

    Question, not sacrificing your life for some cause...? Some of our possibilities are the result of persons that may have adopted that stance. I'm thinking that MLK did. Both he and Coretta were in the north, had gotten educated and chose to return to the struggle. That struggle resulted in the Montgomery Bus Boycott and similar movements. I don't advocate this, but I recognize I have benefited from persons who have done so.

  • @MaxandLiz-27
    @MaxandLiz-27 15 часов назад

    ❤️

  • @MrMrzLPC
    @MrMrzLPC 2 дня назад +3

    Soulless robots 😂😂😂

  • @ALLNATURAL_28
    @ALLNATURAL_28 3 часа назад

    greetings

  • @Maati-wu8qb
    @Maati-wu8qb День назад +1

    I would love to be your friend🎉

  • @JoyceDade
    @JoyceDade День назад +1

    🌼💐🌼

  • @lydiacaradine
    @lydiacaradine День назад

    Hey @Stephanie Perry, which mobile passport app are you using? Is it Mobile Passport Control, or Mobile Passport by Airside? Thank you!

  • @stefaniegueye693
    @stefaniegueye693 2 дня назад +3

    Happy Holidays Cherie coco. Is it too late to sign up for the meet up in Vietnam? If so, what is the date and where can I go to register? Thank you❤

  • @bridgetteyelder77
    @bridgetteyelder77 День назад

    Hello from the future LOL!!

  • @Maati-wu8qb
    @Maati-wu8qb День назад

    I don't have many friends as I am always me since 6. I am 81

  • @kailisanderson6686
    @kailisanderson6686 День назад

    To be black in America, and remain tied to the hardest path to freedom is the biggest irony of all. 😢

  • @AnyaTraveling
    @AnyaTraveling День назад

    We will always have social security as long as American workers work and Naturalized citizens work and pay into the social security system.

  • @AnyaTraveling
    @AnyaTraveling День назад

    It is harsh but true, American Citizens who go to other foreign countries cannot receive that country's government social security without paying into their system.

  • @carpediem44
    @carpediem44 День назад

    "Sorry to Bother You" 😂

  • @barbarapinchemrandle2474
    @barbarapinchemrandle2474 2 дня назад +1

    Hi

  • @ReneeDeane
    @ReneeDeane День назад

    Another barrel analogy. Shooting fish in a barrel. We are crabs being pulled down by those in the barrel with us and we are fish being shot at by those who pushed us into the barrel.

  • @ellenharper4623
    @ellenharper4623 День назад +1

    😂 I still think parts or Maryland and Virginia are okay, but we already vote right. Just move, because these people really tell us what they think about everyone that doesn’t think like them. Black people help elect that _ South Carolina Senator.

  • @Nikitta43
    @Nikitta43 День назад

    My son can't do it and I do it all day long from the time he was born.SMH

  • @BGM4eva
    @BGM4eva День назад +1

    America is a melting pot. What happens in a melting pot? All the different ingredients are eventually homogenized.

  • @Keys2SOAR
    @Keys2SOAR День назад +2

    The voice thing….its cringe….i made a concerted effort to NEVER…! I will not attribute my intelligence and my good qualities to YTNESS…..this is a subliminal almost unintentional occurrence. It is even encouraged! It’s really sad….they assimilated into the soulless, blankness or hollow being….my gwad….!

  • @vienicestyles
    @vienicestyles День назад +1

    Christmas is a European holiday that’s why they go so hard on it. If you’re not European, you shouldn’t be celebrating it.