My daughter and Son-in-law became foster parents to a brother and sister. On their birthdays, Christmas, etc. all relatives brought presents for them. They were eventually reunited with their parents. I can’t imagine treating children who are going through so much so meanly.
When I was 4 1/2 my mother got married and he adopted me, when we got to his parents house after the adoption she bent down looked me in my eyes and said I will never love you as my own grandchild. I still have that in my head and I am in my 40's glad they left and went where there are supportive people!!
What a horrible thing to say to a child no matter their age. Sorry that happened to you. Hope your adopted father put his mother in her place. I believe you don't have to be blood related to be family. Wished she had believed that too.
Notice that idiot MIL ket referring to OP as "it", like she didn't see him as a person. "What kind of DOL doesn't trust her MIL", said by a snake that is already planning something. Booking a hotel room was suspicious, especially her comment, "I assume you and my son are making an appearance" when that should be a given.
Elizabeth is weird, because she's forgotten that she was in the same position when she first married into the family. She wasn't connected by blood either.
I disagree with the comment that "you do need to have a big family to celebrate the good moments in your life". My entire family consisted of two people, and we celebrated just fine, thank you. Please rethink such statements.
Rethink isn't the word for this. Edit is. What I think they meant to say is "you don't need to have a big family to celebrate the good moments in your life".
So if you go by the MILs logic about blood and family then her husband isn’t blood related so he’s not her family right? Unless she married a relative 🤢🤮
@@laura-kn9qfno not hillybilly style more like city folk style. Grew up in the country and never heard of peopke doing that. In fact one of my cousins adopted a girl and we allvtreated her like another cousin. Not treat her like she did not belong, so like I said city crap
When you adopt a child, then you have to be aware of some important pros and cons about it. Learn to accept that many will not support your views. Learn to accept that your loved ones will let you and your adopted child down. Learn to accept that people like in-laws and your own parents will not love your child like they love their own blood. Understand that this is going to cause a lot of hurt and pain, when your loved ones will not treat your child and you equally. Both of you have to mentally, psychologically, emotionally, and physically have to become strong to face such challenges. Adoption is not for everyone, it is for those who can love others other than their own blood unconditionally.
My half brothers grandmother favored him. Over me. My moms adopted father favored me over my younger brother mostly because my brother sassed back at him and misbehaved and i adored my grampa. He would play chess and checkers games with me and hand made jigsaw puzzles for me and grandma to put together. We had family game nights too.
These stories really tear me up. I was adopted when I was 3. Then 2 days before my 5th birthday a boy was born to my parents and the whole family forgot I was alive from then up to today. 50 years later.
How can someone ban you from attending your own child's birthday party?. That's insane😂😂😂... they would be the one who is banned.. that's my kid, I'm his mother... I wish a bytch would..I would NEVER allow anyone to mistreat or disrespect my kid.. that would get you severely hurt.. just because she didn't give birth to Simon, that doesn't make him any less their child.. giving birth doesn't make you a parent.. loving, raising and taking care of that little human is what makes you a parent.. I think they allowed her to disrespect Simon and them for way too long.. she would've been removed from our lives the minute she got disrespectful.. your job as a parent is to protect your child.. even if it means protecting them from your own family.
That 'soire' was never Simon's party. That old bat will never be his grandparent. Best to teach the child that Dad's side of the family is emotionally dead and never trust them, no matter what is said. Also, any parents in this situation MUST make sure that their estates and inheritances are set in Titanium, with an attorney to look over the kid's well~being.
How could a husband stand for it!!! If they don’t accept the spouse, they are not accepted in the family. Turn this around and take your power back!!! No one can stomp on you if you don’t lay down for it!!! God gives you friends that can be better family members then the poop heads that our born into it.😂
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I’m glad Ryan supported his wife and son and not his toxic relatives
Congratulations to the new parents and congratulations Simon 😅
My daughter and Son-in-law became foster parents to a brother and sister. On their birthdays, Christmas, etc. all relatives brought presents for them. They were eventually reunited with their parents. I can’t imagine treating children who are going through so much so meanly.
Blood, blood, blood...she's always talking about blood, who the heck is she? A vampire?
Whiskey tango Foxtrot stands wtf
When I was 4 1/2 my mother got married and he adopted me, when we got to his parents house after the adoption she bent down looked me in my eyes and said I will never love you as my own grandchild. I still have that in my head and I am in my 40's glad they left and went where there are supportive people!!
Wishing you all the best, you deserve to be surrounded by people who love you.
@@mattwho81 Thank you! It took a lot of healing from my childhood trauma but I do have a couple of people who love me!
What a horrible thing to say to a child no matter their age. Sorry that happened to you. Hope your adopted father put his mother in her place. I believe you don't have to be blood related to be family. Wished she had believed that too.
How the hell, can a husband's family feel it is right to exclude Op from her baby's birthday party
Entitlement ?
Notice that idiot MIL ket referring to OP as "it", like she didn't see him as a person. "What kind of DOL doesn't trust her MIL", said by a snake that is already planning something. Booking a hotel room was suspicious, especially her comment, "I assume you and my son are making an appearance" when that should be a given.
Its Op's son, not theirs, How Dare they!
Loved this story.
Elizabeth is weird, because she's forgotten that she was in the same position when she first married into the family. She wasn't connected by blood either.
Maybe she don't see hear housband's family as hear family.
I disagree with the comment that "you do need to have a big family to celebrate the good moments in your life". My entire family consisted of two people, and we celebrated just fine, thank you. Please rethink such statements.
Rethink isn't the word for this. Edit is. What I think they meant to say is "you don't need to have a big family to celebrate the good moments in your life".
Exactly. I have a small family and we are just fine
Most of my extended family ended up having two kids apiece; I can think of only three, mine included, that ended up with three children.
MIL lost her son, while her son, DIL and their son have a big community who love them
So if you go by the MILs logic about blood and family then her husband isn’t blood related so he’s not her family right? Unless she married a relative 🤢🤮
That only ever counts with the MIL's like that in these stories. It's like they forget that they married in too. SMH.
@@laura-kn9qfno not hillybilly style more like city folk style. Grew up in the country and never heard of peopke doing that. In fact one of my cousins adopted a girl and we allvtreated her like another cousin. Not treat her like she did not belong, so like I said city crap
*people * all treated 😊
If I took a shot every time they said "I know", I'd be drunk a quarter of the way into this LOL
You don’t give a child back when you adopt it.
My bio family is so small but I have a HUGE ❤️ family. I love the diversity we have spread the rainbow (which means all different ethnicities)!
Elizabeth is weird to give OP crap for not being a blood relative. So you want your son to marry someone he’s biologically connected to then?
Maybe female cousins and other distantly related relatives ?
Must be from Alabama.
When you adopt a child, then you have to be aware of some important pros and cons about it.
Learn to accept that many will not support your views.
Learn to accept that your loved ones will let you and your adopted child down.
Learn to accept that people like in-laws and your own parents will not love your child like they love their own blood.
Understand that this is going to cause a lot of hurt and pain, when your loved ones will not treat your child and you equally.
Both of you have to mentally, psychologically, emotionally, and physically have to become strong to face such challenges.
Adoption is not for everyone, it is for those who can love others other than their own blood unconditionally.
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My half brothers grandmother favored him. Over me. My moms adopted father favored me over my younger brother mostly because my brother sassed back at him and misbehaved and i adored my grampa. He would play chess and checkers games with me and hand made jigsaw puzzles for me and grandma to put together. We had family game nights too.
These stories really tear me up.
I was adopted when I was 3. Then 2 days before my 5th birthday a boy was born to my parents and the whole family forgot I was alive from then up to today. 50 years later.
Good for the kid !!!
Good story….except at 10:30 minutes in…should read “Adam and MY family. NO SUCH WORD AS I’s. 😊
How can someone ban you from attending your own child's birthday party?. That's insane😂😂😂... they would be the one who is banned.. that's my kid, I'm his mother... I wish a bytch would..I would NEVER allow anyone to mistreat or disrespect my kid.. that would get you severely hurt.. just because she didn't give birth to Simon, that doesn't make him any less their child.. giving birth doesn't make you a parent.. loving, raising and taking care of that little human is what makes you a parent.. I think they allowed her to disrespect Simon and them for way too long.. she would've been removed from our lives the minute she got disrespectful.. your job as a parent is to protect your child.. even if it means protecting them from your own family.
That 'soire' was never Simon's party. That old bat will never be his grandparent. Best to teach the child that Dad's side of the family is emotionally dead and never trust them, no matter what is said. Also, any parents in this situation MUST make sure that their estates and inheritances are set in Titanium, with an attorney to look over the kid's well~being.
How could a husband stand for it!!! If they don’t accept the spouse, they are not accepted in the family. Turn this around and take your power back!!! No one can stomp on you if you don’t lay down for it!!! God gives you friends that can be better family members then the poop heads that our born into it.😂
Why did you guys stop