Home Buyer Remorse is EXPLODING - HOUSE POOR

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @CarynGardiner
    @CarynGardiner  26 дней назад +23

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    • @sandybrown7730
      @sandybrown7730 14 дней назад +1

      I am sorry, but the first dolt specifically said that her mortgage went up (not taxes, not insurance). Hence, she had an adjustable one. If she can't tell apart 1. fixed from adjustable, 2. mortgage vs other expenses - she should not own, period.

    • @yeamore6324
      @yeamore6324 2 дня назад

      Move to moco? 😂😂😂 that place was expensive back in the 90’s early 2000’s can’t nobody afford that

  • @tatianastarcic
    @tatianastarcic 21 день назад +702

    Don't have a job = can't afford housing.
    Have a job = can't afford housing.
    So why have a job?

    • @TinaJames222
      @TinaJames222 21 день назад +5

      I’m closing in on my retirement and I’d like to move from Regina to a warmer climate, but the prices on homes are stupidly ridiculous and Mortgage prices has been skyrocketing on a roll(currently over 7%) do I just invest my spare cash into stock and wait for a housing crash or should I go ahead to buy a home anyways?

    • @nicolasbenson009
      @nicolasbenson009 21 день назад +3

      A lot of folks downplay the role of advlsors until being burnt by their own emotions. I remember couple summers back, after my lengthy divorce, I needed a good boost to help my business stay afloat, hence I researched for licensed advisors and came across someone of utmost qualifications. She's helped grow my reserve notwithstanding inflation, from $275k to $850K.

    • @Vincent-j8u
      @Vincent-j8u 21 день назад +4

      This is definitely considerable! think you could suggest any professional/advisors i can get on the phone with? i'm in dire need of proper portfolio allocation.

    • @nicolasbenson009
      @nicolasbenson009 21 день назад +3

      Certainly, there are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with ‘’Melissa Terri Swayne” for about five years now, and her performance has been consistently impressive.She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.

    • @sharonwinson-m8g
      @sharonwinson-m8g 21 день назад +1

      Thank you for this tip. It was easy to find your coach on web. Did my due diligence on her before scheduling a phone call with her. She seems proficient considering her resume.

  • @droops001
    @droops001 19 дней назад +606

    This is exactly why my husband and I bought a house below our means. Moved to cheaper area, Texas, didn’t buy a nice car, etc.
    Now, we are projected to pay off our house in 5 years (less than 8 months left to go). This allows us to go out all the time, travel, and just enjoy life. Do I wish I had a massive house? Sounds nice, but the bigger you go, the harder it is to pay and clean. Please, everyone, just: Live. Below. Your. Means. It’s that simple.

    • @724kdr
      @724kdr 19 дней назад +20

      This is very sensible advise. Thank you for the reminder.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 18 дней назад +8

      This is how I think of things too. I take this same strategy for everything including buying cars. I never know when we will be laid off so it just makes sense

    • @godzillionairezz
      @godzillionairezz 17 дней назад +10

      I'm a child of God He didn't call me to live below my means, He call me to trust in Him & live an abundant life, abundance of joy, peace etc..

    • @check-yoo-self-l8y
      @check-yoo-self-l8y 17 дней назад +4

      You have a lot of people that want the same dreams as you
      [[ want a house ]] they lost it and so can you..

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 17 дней назад

      @@godzillionairezz - He called on us to pray for discernment and wisdom. We are to count the costs for everything we do and live a modest lifestyle.

  • @bmanagement4657
    @bmanagement4657 22 дня назад +411

    I grew up on a farm and did TONS of home construction and repair. High schools need to teach basic home engineering and repair. This used to be common knowledge among citizens but knowledge threatens power.

    • @almartinez1817
      @almartinez1817 22 дня назад +7

      Yes! I've been preaching this!

    • @mshaz4801
      @mshaz4801 17 дней назад +6

      💯 correct! Wish I was taught basic construction & mechanical things in school. Things that actually help one in life.

    • @mar25947
      @mar25947 17 дней назад +11

      No, it will make people too independent. Can’t have that lol

    • @atthismoment3006
      @atthismoment3006 16 дней назад +1

      This!!

    • @Ganadores500
      @Ganadores500 16 дней назад

      Yessir agree!

  • @mvp5514
    @mvp5514 24 дня назад +480

    You don't own a Home, the Home owns you. 😱

    • @dicktracy5234
      @dicktracy5234 24 дня назад +1

      The RENT is so hardcore also.

    • @kito1san
      @kito1san 22 дня назад +15

      Unfortunately, that is a true statement. It will always own you and you will constantly feed it. It's a money pit. Since there is always property taxes & maintenance that needs to be done. Then follow by other necessities if you want to protect your investment. All of this just in hopes you are treated handsomely when you are ready to move on. Aside from that, it does provide you a shelter as part of the deal

    • @natedowns
      @natedowns 20 дней назад +29

      The bank owns the home

    • @mvp5514
      @mvp5514 20 дней назад +8

      @@natedowns Exactly! 👍

    • @rene-rv6pp
      @rene-rv6pp 19 дней назад +11

      Buying a house equal to taking an additional job. But many think it's all a party..
      You must endure your job your wifes neurosis your kids mantenance and more and more and more🤪

  • @anarojas844
    @anarojas844 16 дней назад +157

    Don't buy the house of your dreams
    Buy the house you can afford

    • @seleneartsy9008
      @seleneartsy9008 13 дней назад +2

      Yes exactly, sadly everyone is trying to keep up with the Joneses or at least the younger generations are

    • @IndelibleHD
      @IndelibleHD 12 дней назад +2

      Amen

    • @Amatiel
      @Amatiel 12 дней назад +1

      ​@@seleneartsy9008 I dont think most of the younger generation will ever be able to afford a home. Even a modest one, and i am talking about the ones that are working hard and have a decent job.

    • @Andrea-iw9gh
      @Andrea-iw9gh 12 дней назад +3

      Or have your dream home be the one that you can afford. 😉

    • @TheeMrsChampion
      @TheeMrsChampion 12 дней назад +1

      That part 💯

  • @santasdoom5791
    @santasdoom5791 18 дней назад +254

    Purchased my home in 2017 and sold in 2023. With what I made i bought a smaller home cash. Ty Jesus

    • @r-e_mii
      @r-e_mii 14 дней назад +4

      Yes due to inflation people paid for your home which no offense, likely isn't worth what was paid. It's happening everywhere.

    • @charleslavoie5402
      @charleslavoie5402 14 дней назад +3

      Good for you….
      That will be your forever home.

    • @LACEVH
      @LACEVH 14 дней назад +4

      That’s how you do it 👍🏼

    • @TheeMrsChampion
      @TheeMrsChampion 12 дней назад

      Glory to God that it worked out for you

    • @williampowell2104
      @williampowell2104 10 дней назад

      Now that's good timing my friend...

  • @Lally-l2n
    @Lally-l2n 16 дней назад +243

    Shocker…. Minimum wage is $17/ hr, houses are $1M, vehicles are $65k, corporations and governments are gouging us all…. And people are shocked they can afford life?!

    • @Cogic
      @Cogic 16 дней назад +5

      What the hellllp minimum wage is 17 I thought it was 15 damn time flying on me I'm making 18 I gotta step it up..
      But anyway you gotta have numerous sources of income to live descent out here this ain't the 50s no more moms gotta work too

    • @nataliedawson8801
      @nataliedawson8801 15 дней назад +11

      In NC minimum wage is$7.25 an hour 😩

    • @fintansky9369
      @fintansky9369 15 дней назад +10

      It’s 7.25 buddy

    • @fattoria_di_bastoni
      @fattoria_di_bastoni 15 дней назад +6

      @@nataliedawson8801
      It is everywhere. It’s not paid in many places and no skill isn’t worth anything. Get trained in something other than “do you want cheese on that?”

    • @eguzman4324
      @eguzman4324 15 дней назад +5

      in Texas it’s 7.25 damn we can’t afford to breathe

  • @matthewbullock5133
    @matthewbullock5133 17 дней назад +173

    I’m house poor but by gods grace it’s been better then being rent poor

    • @taraking8555
      @taraking8555 16 дней назад +32

      Rather be rent poor!! If I buy it will be a vacation home. At the end of the day. I would rather not have the burden for 40 plus years!! Half of yall will not live that long!! Enjoy! 😂

    • @Lally-l2n
      @Lally-l2n 16 дней назад +1

      @@matthewbullock5133 house poor is for life. Maintenance cost, utilities & property taxes are through the roof (by design). You will own nothing & be happy.
      Rent - you can walk away at any time. We’re heading to S/E Asia where you can live for $1500/ month and it’s safe.

    • @Cogic
      @Cogic 16 дней назад

      ​​@@taraking8555Well the difference is if the house poor falls behind they won't get kicked out until a long time meaning they have time to get the ish together to keep it if rent poor falls behind an eviction will come in 30days 🤦‍♂️. ..And you say they won't live that long for the mortgage well they will have something to pass down to they kids unless the kid losses it like my dumb @$$ did...
      But either way owning a home is a bit of a damn scam if you ain't rich.

    • @fintansky9369
      @fintansky9369 15 дней назад

      @@taraking8555but when you do live that long you won’t have shit owned

    • @surebrualassassin5011
      @surebrualassassin5011 15 дней назад

      @@taraking8555 yeah but unfortunately, you've been the same amount of money as paying, but nothing to show for it

  • @felix842002
    @felix842002 23 дня назад +210

    A small advice to young married couples..dont buy a house with 2 persons income. Use only 1 persons income to check eligibility and affordability. Buy a home based on the amount granted by 1 person salary. If its too low and u cannot buy a home..then keep saving until you can. I say this because once u buy a house..ur family will expand. One person may get only 60% income. There may be maintenance cost. Grocery cost. Phone, tv and wifi bill. Car payments. Home maintenance etc..if u buy based on 1 person salary..u can still ride through the time until the other person is able to work..otherwise its very stressfull. Ur marriage can also hurt. U may end up selling ur home. U will lose respect for each other. So live within ur means if u want to be happy. There is a lot of joy to he found in little things.

    • @CarynGardiner
      @CarynGardiner  23 дня назад +11

      Good advice!

    • @Cogic
      @Cogic 16 дней назад +1

      How much should you save to put down on a home

    • @felix842002
      @felix842002 15 дней назад +5

      @@Cogic In a perfect world I would say 20%. However when u pay rent it’s not easy to save a lot. So if u follow what I have written above and u can manage only 10% down that will work too but you may have to take the insurance for either the bank or credit union to give u the money which means u have to pay more or longer but the good part to this is that usually ur interest rate is better than 20% down. I had only 10% when I bought my home. Took it for 25 years but finished it in 10 yrs. But that’s also because I got a good job with better pay later in life.

    • @Cogic
      @Cogic 15 дней назад +1

      @felix842002 Yeah that's the only problem you can't manage off a average income anymore the mortgage is my whole check before taxes

    • @felix842002
      @felix842002 15 дней назад +3

      @@Cogic Hmm..yes and no..u can always find a second or third job to increase ur income or you can try and reduce ur spending and save more..or try doing both. U can buy a trailer for 10K if u are single and live in it while u invest ur money into growth MF for your down payment. Initially ur life will feel miserable but slowly as u get closer to ur target..that will become ur motivation to get up and go for work. U dont need more than 6 hrs of sleep. Rest of the time u are either working making money or you are breathing fresh air which costs no money. No cigarettes, no beer, no drugs and defintely no women. Not until you make something of urself. The other option is to work days and study nights or weekends..say for becoming a plumber, welder, carpenter whatever u fancy..and then getting 2 or 3 years experience learning ir craft and then starting ur own buisness. I dont know buddy..u cant say i have no money for down payment and then not work 2 jobs.

  • @jdprentice720
    @jdprentice720 20 дней назад +75

    I’ve owned 3 homes including the one I currently live in. These are great tips at the end. I would add one more. Don’t empty your whole bank account on the down payment. Starting off with a 2-3 month mortgage cushion alleviates a ton of stress.

  • @letmefindout81
    @letmefindout81 23 дня назад +82

    Although homeownership may not guarantee financial stability, it is important to consider the rising cost of rent when making housing decisions. While insurance and taxes may increase over time, so does the cost of renting. To ensure financial stability, it is crucial to adhere to a budget and plan for unexpected expenses.

    • @CarynGardiner
      @CarynGardiner  23 дня назад +2

      Agree!

    • @gh2543
      @gh2543 17 дней назад +4

      Well said!!!! Currently I’m a renter, but looking to buy my first property soon. Reading these comments don’t give me much hope. I’m glad someone can put it into perspective. Thanks.😊

    • @CynthiaLamb-jf2md
      @CynthiaLamb-jf2md 16 дней назад +2

      I had to buy a house, I couldn't afford to rent
      .

    • @Cosmo4357-mj1tw
      @Cosmo4357-mj1tw 16 дней назад +1

      You may need to buy a house that you can afford not what you want.

    • @idliketosay
      @idliketosay 14 дней назад +2

      Most renters don’t understand….property taxes going up and home insurance going up means YOUR RENT is going up. Your landlord is not paying more property taxes and insurance premiums without making sure pay YOUR share 😂. So yes, always best to buy/own if you can afford it and plan to stay 5+ years.

  • @theunbreakable1587
    @theunbreakable1587 16 дней назад +25

    I so glad I'm one of those people that knows how to fix and has fixed just about everything. Owning a house is a thousand times better than renting.

  • @morrismorrison2020
    @morrismorrison2020 15 дней назад +60

    I decided to build a off grids cabin in the back of the woods. I refuse to live in a system that is rigged against me.

    • @robster7787
      @robster7787 15 дней назад +7

      Not a good idea. That means you are not subject to property rights and anyone can tear down your home

    • @idliketosay
      @idliketosay 14 дней назад +2

      Me me me me me me meeee…

    • @TheDoomWizard
      @TheDoomWizard 14 дней назад +2

      I moved off grid this year

    • @moonwvlf6919
      @moonwvlf6919 14 дней назад +2

      I live in a teepee in my neighbors yard

    • @nateh8796
      @nateh8796 14 дней назад

      ​@@idliketosayMe too 😎

  • @deebrown7160
    @deebrown7160 24 дня назад +231

    Better to buy well below your means but everyone wants to be Instagram ready and show off.

    • @jaydot6360
      @jaydot6360 20 дней назад +7

      Insta ready 😂😅

    • @sheldonmaurer5912
      @sheldonmaurer5912 19 дней назад +7

      Exactly that’s all people want to do

    • @edgarcardenas455
      @edgarcardenas455 19 дней назад +5

      Nope you’re wrong depends on where you live a house that is 10 years old will cost the same as a new one. Also you forget about 1st time home buyers it is not cheap or easy.

    • @3questionspodcast
      @3questionspodcast 17 дней назад +3

      It certain areas buying “well below your means” is not possible. I live in Toronto and the avg. price of a condo in the greater Toronto area which includes several suburbs is about $1,000 per sq ft. Moving an hour out of the metro area does not even reduce your cost significantly and the money you on the mortgage you will just end paying on gas and the time you spend commuting to your place of business or work.

    • @deebrown7160
      @deebrown7160 17 дней назад

      @3questionspodcast Move to Alabama

  • @RB-je3yj
    @RB-je3yj 15 дней назад +41

    I bought my house for $120k in 2000, I was pre approved for $360k always live below your means! I paid it off in 2015! Taxes are for ever but I don't have the stress of a mortgage! I was so lucky my property is a duplex now my house pays for everything! Truly passive income!

  • @Moselle-l7w
    @Moselle-l7w 15 дней назад +13

    Paid off my house-paying only $1,600 yearly in property taxes and LOVING IT!!!!!!!!🎉

  • @Fishflorida59
    @Fishflorida59 18 дней назад +44

    What kind of hotwater heater are you buying that doesn’t have a 3 year warranty? If you are paying $2600 for a water heater it better have at least a 6 year warranty

    • @fixagent81
      @fixagent81 16 дней назад +6

      Agreed another tip is to change out the anode every two years and doing a water flush annually!

    • @drinkthekoolaidkids
      @drinkthekoolaidkids 15 дней назад

      Most if that cost isn’t the water heater as much as delivery and installation , i recently helped my father replace his water heater after he was quoted a price of 2000 dollars to replace his water heater .

    • @austinmcwilliams5020
      @austinmcwilliams5020 15 дней назад

      Came here to say this…

    • @TOdoubledizzle24
      @TOdoubledizzle24 14 дней назад

      The one that came with the house and you didn't personally buy so you don't have the receipt.

  • @ICESTORMSx
    @ICESTORMSx 16 дней назад +127

    Too many people think they do it all alone without ever giving God a simple thank you!

    • @citrinehills7131
      @citrinehills7131 15 дней назад +7

      I cry and pray to god everyday to help me

    • @angelabueno120
      @angelabueno120 15 дней назад +6

      I always thank God for all the blessings. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @jacnamo4641
      @jacnamo4641 15 дней назад +8

      God is not real

    • @thomaslynch9016
      @thomaslynch9016 14 дней назад +2

      Preach

    • @miram2053
      @miram2053 14 дней назад +2

      This too. He would warn us against this lol

  • @YemayaIndigo
    @YemayaIndigo 14 дней назад +5

    Our house cost 400k. We had home buyers remorse for a first year because it's brand new and responsilities that you're learning but now we feel blessed and highly grateful to have our home and no longer deal with renting, not knowing how the future may go while living under someone else's roof.

  • @socal2498Gaming
    @socal2498Gaming 17 дней назад +101

    I bought my 4-bedroom house in 93' for $268,000 and its worth $1.6 million in this down market. I paid the house off in 2011 and plan on living in the house for another 25 years.

    • @styxvxn4435
      @styxvxn4435 16 дней назад +2

      May I ask where do you reside?

    • @kcor4
      @kcor4 16 дней назад +23

      Why would you think anyone gives a shit?

    • @jedizzo111
      @jedizzo111 16 дней назад +24

      Good for you Boomer 🙄

    • @alfonsom8286
      @alfonsom8286 16 дней назад +5

      ​@@kcor4, 😮 Goodness gracious, why are you being so rude?

    • @2024-JOKER
      @2024-JOKER 16 дней назад

      @@kcor4lmfao 😂

  • @cmackscott761
    @cmackscott761 16 дней назад +51

    One person stated in the comments... "I bought my 4-bedroom house in 93' for $268,000 and its worth $1.6 million in this down market."
    Me: Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't what people view as appreciation really miserable inflation? And then there's the property taxes on 1.6M vs 268K. Money creates some powerful illusions. I bought my first home in 1973 in California. It cost $21,000. Today Zillow has it valued at $706,000. My old house is simply not worth that much and not even close. Today's home buyers are getting royally ripped off. Inflation is mostly caused by our insane, irresponsible government allowing the unrestrained printing of our fiat currency and wasting our tax dollars.

    • @Axrover
      @Axrover 16 дней назад +4

      You pay taxes on the assessed value, not the listing amount or the selling price.

    • @cmackscott761
      @cmackscott761 16 дней назад

      @@Axrover Yes, I know that.

    • @Axrover
      @Axrover 16 дней назад +2

      @@cmackscott761 appeared u were arguing the opposite.

    • @BigRedVeteran
      @BigRedVeteran 15 дней назад +1

      OK so go sell your house for $100,000 what's your point?

    • @cmackscott761
      @cmackscott761 15 дней назад +4

      @@BigRedVeteran I'm more on the side of a house being a home as opposed to a stepping stone to wealth. The younger generation is getting screwed by this economy. With all of this technology, life should be easier not ridiculously harder for someone just wanting a roof over their head.

  • @l4ylowjoe
    @l4ylowjoe 20 дней назад +31

    I did too at one point, but I just picked up a 2nd job working part-time at lowes. People want nice things but dont want to work hard for them. I grew up poor, and I will never go back to that.

    • @IamJZumba
      @IamJZumba 19 дней назад +4

      💯 💪🏼

    • @tarrilb
      @tarrilb 18 дней назад +4

      That’s what’s up. I did the same thing. I picked up a 2nd job at CVS. I too was poor growing up and I’m going to try my hardest not to ever be there again.

  • @almartinez1817
    @almartinez1817 22 дня назад +11

    I wish someone would have given me your advice. Ended up with 3 jobs but was very fortunate to be able to pay our mortgage off. What a nightmare, but the amount of weight that's off our shoulders now is such a blessing.

  • @nolj67
    @nolj67 14 дней назад +2

    Thank you so much. You made me feel so much better on my decision to back out on a house I was in contract with. The house was $345k and the monthly mortgage was $2,600. I’m a first time home buyer and honestly say wasn’t fully acknowledge able on what I was getting myself into. But I’m planning on pursuing my goal on buying a house after I put myself in a better financial position.

  • @MagarethWoods
    @MagarethWoods 16 дней назад +44

    Last year, I was working full time, budgeting groceries, unable to afford date nights, and missing time with my kids. Now I learned how to make money online. Now am a SAHM, homeschooling, and making profits every week.

    • @ArshbyJushua
      @ArshbyJushua 16 дней назад

      Wow that's awesome investing in alternate income streams should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment.

    • @NatalieDormer-or4jj
      @NatalieDormer-or4jj 16 дней назад +1

      Am looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you think I should do?

    • @MagarethWoods
      @MagarethWoods 16 дней назад +2

      Cryptocurrency/stock investment, but you will need a professional guide on that.

    • @MagarethWoods
      @MagarethWoods 16 дней назад +2

      Facebook 👇

    • @MagarethWoods
      @MagarethWoods 16 дней назад +2

      Evelyn C. Sanders

  • @SonnetGomes
    @SonnetGomes 25 дней назад +20

    Excellent video and great advice. Life is very unpredictable. Job loss and medical issues are few things very few plan for. 30 year is a long time commitment and be prepared for such events.

  • @DePalma.
    @DePalma. 19 дней назад +17

    If you can’t afford your “dream home”, buy a home you can easily afford the mortgage payment on.
    My “dream home” would’ve cost me $5k-10k a month…so I bought what I could afford. I pay $1600/month…and after 8yrs of payments my monthly mortgage payment is $5-$600 less than market value rent. And I’ve grown to like the house, and my equity in it is substantial.
    Living within our means is important & choosing a comfortable mortgage payment is very important, because who wants to be uncomfortable for 30yrs?

  • @SRTJLBRedeye
    @SRTJLBRedeye 10 дней назад +2

    Buying a home is the best investment you will ever make. Ever!

  • @RONderluck
    @RONderluck 17 дней назад +17

    Anyone who bought a house after 2019 is having serious issues. From 2021 to today houses are “worth” 2x-5x what they should be.

    • @TheeMrsChampion
      @TheeMrsChampion 12 дней назад

      Not anyone. We bought our home in July 2020. The kicker is we didn’t buy outside of what we could financially handle.

    • @RONderluck
      @RONderluck 12 дней назад

      @ Way to reply to a comment from 5 days ago.

  • @brianlee2646
    @brianlee2646 17 дней назад +23

    Older generations just don’t get it. These days putting yourself in debt destroys your ability to build wealth.
    I regret buying my house. Yes I was living out of my car but I was able to save my money and invest it. I couldn’t believe how fast I was able to build wealth and now my house slowly is chipping away at it

    • @idliketosay
      @idliketosay 14 дней назад +4

      You clearly bought waaaay above your means.

    • @dave3657
      @dave3657 14 дней назад

      Get a roommate to share expenses, maybe a friend in an apartment. You will be surprised how quickly you can build wealth without a mortgage when you pay the house off.

    • @abeck7929
      @abeck7929 11 дней назад

      Your story touched me because this is my biggest fear. I know others who feel the same, and they are renting out their rooms.

  • @joedeschamps8732
    @joedeschamps8732 19 дней назад +60

    I rent, and i love it.
    I travel, go out, eat whatever i want, and no debt.
    I'm totally free!

    • @chriscrawl3732
      @chriscrawl3732 17 дней назад +21

      Free to pay someone elses mortgage for life

    • @joedeschamps8732
      @joedeschamps8732 17 дней назад +28

      @chriscrawl3732
      Yup.
      And I travel 4 times a year.
      No fucks given.

    • @robinsonfamily222
      @robinsonfamily222 17 дней назад +1

      ​@@chriscrawl3732And your mortgage pays all of the bank's CEOs, investors, and everyone's mortgage. Drop the false sense of superiority over renters.

    • @Joeyb33f
      @Joeyb33f 17 дней назад +18

      And homeless when they want you out!

    • @chriscrawl3732
      @chriscrawl3732 17 дней назад +10

      @joedeschamps8732 lol.. you think owning a home bars you from traveling? I own my home and travel all the time. I can also never be asked to leave my home. To each his own I guess,.I'm certainly thankful for my tenants in my rental house. I charge them twice as much as the mortgage, and then reap the benefits of their work.

  • @BobbyBasketballl
    @BobbyBasketballl 11 дней назад +2

    Becoming house poor is a test of intelligence and compulsiveness. Despite the state of cost of living you can still buy a home within your means if you are both intelligent and non-compulsive.

  • @Trtrucking79
    @Trtrucking79 24 дня назад +165

    In 2019 we closed on our first home….. my wife hadn’t worked in 10 years….. she still has no job… it’s a struggle….but she’s in nursing school ..help is almost here …. RN🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿👍🏿👍🏿

    • @2pat2008
      @2pat2008 24 дня назад +58

      When she will be making 6 figures income. Pray that she won't leave you.

    • @Trtrucking79
      @Trtrucking79 23 дня назад +16

      @ 😂😂😂😂…. Boy I wish…. .. I make $250k… I’ll be fine

    • @jorge923
      @jorge923 23 дня назад

      @@2pat2008nurses and women in general tend to be extremely promiscuos once they have a little money coming their way , I hope his lady is the exception

    • @User-tn7dh
      @User-tn7dh 23 дня назад +32

      ​@@Trtrucking79....but crying over a mortgage.......😂

    • @Trtrucking79
      @Trtrucking79 23 дня назад +23

      @ wife in college.. 2 kids in college… one kid in middle school….. 1 income…..another kid just left for the Air Force

  • @MyWitsEnd190
    @MyWitsEnd190 20 дней назад +42

    If you can comfortably afford a 1.5k rent, the maximum mortgage you can afford is 1k.
    People dont realize all the extra monthly coats, from. Tax, insurance, home warranties, maintenance, and everything else under the sun.
    Then it goes up every year.
    Home buying isn't for the weak.
    I have 3 friends who boight homes and sold them a few years later to gonrent again.

    • @Lucasproduccionesfr
      @Lucasproduccionesfr 18 дней назад +4

      @MyWitsEnd190 rents here in CA for a 3 bedroom house is 3k. New house with 3 room, mortgage is 6,500k

    • @Wonderyear88
      @Wonderyear88 16 дней назад +1

      Not true

  • @Benji17175
    @Benji17175 18 дней назад +11

    That’s why you should learn DIY and buy within your means.

  • @alohasparkles
    @alohasparkles 23 дня назад +13

    I get what you’re saying here….but going by numbers on paper My husband and I have been house poor from renting for years… at this point a mortgage would at least stabilize our housing costs from going up drastically.

  • @ruthless6834
    @ruthless6834 17 дней назад +5

    Thank God I paid off my home. Took a lot of work and sacrifice but the effort was worth it! This video is a huge eye opener.

  • @mannycalavera2335
    @mannycalavera2335 14 дней назад +3

    I live in a country where people buy some of the most expensive houses relative to their income. One of my best friends has the largest house and the nicest car in my friends group. But when we ask him to come out to eat, he tells us he's tapped out... It's a very rich looking kind of poverty.

  • @Crownd1_
    @Crownd1_ 16 дней назад +6

    Here's my advice on buying a home in todays market and economy. Don't do it unless you're a top money maker. This woman is absolutely correct. It's not just your mortgage amount. It's the other things that come with it. The house insurance is killer and I don't ever see it going down. In fact, it'll continue to go up year after tear. Property taxes. There's another big ticket item. Maintenance. Wow! $12k for a new roof? $15k for a new heating system. $10k for a new septic system? These are some of the expenses I've had to deal with in the last few years. Home ownership is not for the faint of heart, believe me. And please, don't be fooled by the 'First time home buyer' scams!!! It's just another way of saying 'predatory lending'. Don't get caught up in the FOMO mentality. That's my advice. 🙏🇺🇸✌️😎

  • @Dragonologist
    @Dragonologist 9 дней назад +2

    $2,600 for a water heater? Mine was $500 with a 5 year warranty and took me less than an hour to install. Its literally 2 pipes...

    • @Brandonhistorymakerz
      @Brandonhistorymakerz 9 дней назад

      Yup she got robbed 😂

    • @Dragonologist
      @Dragonologist 9 дней назад

      @Brandonhistorymakerz There are some fancy water heaters you can get with a million functions you'll never use. Change the water temp with wifi and you can schedule use periods for saving energy. She might have bought a $2,200 dollar heater and the install guy didn't get her too bad.
      If she has a regular old Rheem 55gallon then the install guys ate good that week.

    • @Mega-zi7ys
      @Mega-zi7ys 5 часов назад

      ​@@BrandonhistorymakerzMore or being dumb than robbed

  • @llcooljean
    @llcooljean 18 дней назад +14

    The cost of living has gotten way out of hand in the US. 👇
    (Meamwhile, the Federal Reserve is devaluing the dollar)

    • @Cogic
      @Cogic 15 дней назад

      Welp 2020 a lot of free money was given and a lot of fraud was going on towards the government form the citizens..
      The government gotta recoup time to pay up with interest

  • @makoa143ify
    @makoa143ify 16 дней назад +14

    I rather make be house poor, than make a landlord rich

    • @makoa143ify
      @makoa143ify 15 дней назад

      @ I Got a House and 50% paid down. The struggle is real and my mortgage is cheaper than some people rent here in Hawaii.

    • @makoa143ify
      @makoa143ify 15 дней назад +1

      @ how about you? Or You paying off your landlords debt?

    • @makoa143ify
      @makoa143ify 15 дней назад

      @artisdrawing

    • @rebarguy4051
      @rebarguy4051 6 дней назад

      If u bought when prizes were low and good I won't argue with u...but if u want to buy now this days not worth at all rather make a landlord rich because literally all b paying half the price and no property problems

  • @smck9120
    @smck9120 16 дней назад +6

    And when you pay it off like we finally did … you then have a large tax bill due at the end of each year you need to budget for… it comes quick.. we owe 1300.00 by March. You never truly own your home.

    • @markcowan3366
      @markcowan3366 12 дней назад

      But you'd still be paying rent and substantially more than $120/month that you have to "budget" for. You're correct about never owning our homes because of property tax. Government agents will come to your door and remove you by force if you don't pay it.

  • @CMCraftsman
    @CMCraftsman 22 дня назад +6

    I may be house poor right now but I’m a carpenter and am good at all phases of construction so eventually when the house is finished I’ll have peace of mind and low energy bills with the energy upgrades being my focus instead of expensive finishes.

  • @dan0711123
    @dan0711123 16 дней назад +12

    2:04 I ran into the same problem with my water heater . I large home heating and plumbing contractor wanted 3 grand for the water heater installed . I said thanks but no thanks and bought one at a big box store and got a craigs list plumber looking for side work paid him 300 cash. He was done in an hour or so and I use him to this day. I'm not good with math but 900 beats 3 grand

    • @Cogic
      @Cogic 15 дней назад +1

      Only thing is the contractors are 95% guaranteed to the job right and if it's done wrong you can get reimbursed or sue with no problem...Unlike the craiglist or flyer guys he long gone and you just wasted your money on a poor job
      But in your case and many others its a truly a blessing when you have a side street me mechanic you can trust and negotiate a good price 🎉

    • @dan0711123
      @dan0711123 15 дней назад +1

      @@Cogic I suppose I'd be out the 300 but I would get another in but he did a good job and is a full time plumber moonlighting

  • @mjc1177
    @mjc1177 15 дней назад +3

    I keep reading about fixing things themselves. One of the biggest issue is property taxes and insurance go up almost every year especially if you're in a hot growing market...

  • @LIGHTOFTHEWORLD777
    @LIGHTOFTHEWORLD777 13 дней назад +2

    These are prime examples why we saved $100k on a down and made a huge plan to pay 3x, at least, a month. We did and payed of a $150k mortgage in 3 years. Not only is it payed off but the housing market in Mesa, Arizona doubled in value and has stayed. Hope someone can learn do save a huge down so the mortgage can be low.

  • @quisqueyapride5534
    @quisqueyapride5534 20 дней назад +22

    When I was renting I was in top of the world money and freedom and the minute 2 after I bought my home I being living pay check by pay check and I hate it!

    • @jesseurizar7146
      @jesseurizar7146 20 дней назад +13

      Suffer now so you don’t have to suffer when you are old. Imagine how much rent will be when you are old?

    • @tarrilb
      @tarrilb 18 дней назад +7

      I used to think the same thing. I bought a home two years ago and quickly regretted. Serious buyers remorse. I was in literal tears 6 months in. Not because I can’t afford it, it was the fact I was doing it alone. When I was renting I had a ton of money in the bank, now I’m living paycheck to paycheck due to relocating. I have no regrets now, especially with the cost of rents here in California that keep rising.

    • @robinsonfamily222
      @robinsonfamily222 17 дней назад +1

      ​@@jesseurizar7146Interesting since a lot of old people end up moving into income based senior housing anyway. Most people get mortgages because they feel like they have one up on renters. They get a false sense of superiority over everyone who rents. That's all they bring up is well at least we're better than those renters down there

    • @robmaas3356
      @robmaas3356 8 дней назад

      @@jesseurizar7146 And that is what I do not get, why would one suffer in the peak of their live so they have more to spend at an old age when getting healthy out of bed is your first priority.

  • @Lucasproduccionesfr
    @Lucasproduccionesfr 18 дней назад +7

    I am live in CA, and I work for a company that provides a service for new home buyers (new track homes) for one full year. I hear the same story every time! They are paying too much, they are not happy with the mortgage, the solar panels are too expensive, the new house needs many repairs, they want to sell, etc. Something is very wrong with this country.

    • @alfonsom8286
      @alfonsom8286 16 дней назад

      Capitalism =corruption =debt=poverty =inequity=mental illness =the destruction of a society.

  • @Yws-kg8tl
    @Yws-kg8tl 16 дней назад +3

    Bought a house only 20 years old, had to replace entire central air system, cost $9,000, water heater went one year later, cost $3,500. Plus windows, deck, door frames, paint, etc… lost all my savings. Owning a home, especially the way things are right now is absolutely ridiculous.

    • @english7451
      @english7451 14 дней назад

      I replaced all the major appliances in my old fixer. New ac unit new furnace new kitchen appliances new sump pump remodeled kitchen. Just had the home insulated by city for free have to fix the walls now but the work done worth thousands I didn’t have. I paid 20% down so no PMI. If you only have down payment you can’t afford to buy. Bought in 2018:before pandemic my second home will never rent in Chicago.

  • @SHV881
    @SHV881 12 дней назад +2

    Now imagine renters remorse where you're losing 100% of your money 😅

  • @keinorookwood986
    @keinorookwood986 19 дней назад +3

    There’s so many shadow cost homebuyers are unaware of rising utility cost, water, electricity, gas / heating. Insurance and tax increases, maintenance. Not to mention food cost etc. I’m shocked this process isn’t taught in schools. Smh

  • @BimqyMalmsteen
    @BimqyMalmsteen 2 дня назад

    This makes me feel a little better. My wife and I have been trying to buy a house since early 2020. The types of houses we were looking at have gone up 100k-200k in the past 5 years. Ontop of that, our budget hasnt changed and a lot of homes that were in our budget are now unatainable. We have been intimidated by taken the big leap with fear of becoming house broke. We know 3 couples personally that have bought their first home in the past 4 years, one of them lost their home and are back with their parents, and they other two are really struggling. Meanwhile our rent of our apartment has only gone up $135 in the past 7 years. So I guess that softens the blow of us being turned away from 14 offers on houses over the years. It's almost a blessing in disguise at this point.

    • @CarynGardiner
      @CarynGardiner  7 часов назад +1

      Ugh. I’m sorry. I hope you’re having a happy holiday!

  • @waynecmontgomery
    @waynecmontgomery 22 дня назад +10

    Most people need to start off with a small condo it is the perfect starter home. You do NOT want to buy a single-family structure, that is the most expensive housing you can buy.

    • @sheldonmaurer5912
      @sheldonmaurer5912 19 дней назад +4

      NO🤣🤣. Condos are terrible

    • @tarrilb
      @tarrilb 18 дней назад +4

      I would suggest a townhouse. That’s what I did and I don’t regret it at all.

    • @waynecmontgomery
      @waynecmontgomery 18 дней назад +2

      @@tarrilb AGREED !!!!

    • @sabrinad513
      @sabrinad513 18 дней назад +1

      @@tarrilbwhy a townhouse?

    • @tarrilb
      @tarrilb 18 дней назад +2

      @ they tend to be more affordable with the exception of the HOA dues. I had a very hard time trying to get approved for a condo, way too much hassle depending on the type of loan you get. Condos were being snatched up like hot cakes by cash buyers when I was in the market to buy and there are too many stipulations. Being a single woman, it was the best decision for my situation at the time. I only planned to live in it 6 months and then rent it out, but due to the current housing situation, I chose to stay put.

  • @FulcanelliRosetta
    @FulcanelliRosetta 13 дней назад +1

    What hot water heater costs $2600? Did you have to get a gold plated one?

  • @MarioCastillo-qn5uc
    @MarioCastillo-qn5uc 16 дней назад +6

    House poor?! Man it’s house poor, apt poor, living poor, everything poor when you are worrying that much 😂.

  • @jrjr3412
    @jrjr3412 4 дня назад

    In NJ, if you buy a used house, guaranteed that 2-4 major things will need repair or replacement within 1 year. Sellers leave these things to rot until they can sell the house.

  • @PROLKR
    @PROLKR 17 дней назад +10

    I deal with people that have to work overtime to afford their mortgage. Now I deal with people that just got a warning from HOA that their bill will increase from 300 to 1000.00. What a life

    • @fixagent81
      @fixagent81 16 дней назад

      300 to 1000 where is this at?

    • @PROLKR
      @PROLKR 16 дней назад

      Utah

    • @fixagent81
      @fixagent81 16 дней назад

      @ is this real 300 to 1000?

    • @zachariahestepp8527
      @zachariahestepp8527 15 дней назад +1

      There's no way that 700 shift is justified

    • @PROLKR
      @PROLKR 15 дней назад

      Look it up it's even been in the news! I talk to these people since it's my job to hear their problems their mortgage payments ​@@zachariahestepp8527

  • @kimberlye5260
    @kimberlye5260 8 дней назад +1

    Although I want to buy a home in California, i just recently made peace with myself that the housing and interest rates are too high and I don’t want to be house poor. Therefore, I have made peace that I may be moving into an apartment or an affordable condo or townhouse. I would rather max out my retirement and save,than struggle as I am up in age.

  • @WelsHomEx
    @WelsHomEx 12 дней назад

    As someone in home service: a lot of companies have stopped canvassing middle class neighborhoods altogether

  • @DePalma.
    @DePalma. 19 дней назад +14

    Water heater costs about $900…if you can’t install it yourself, installation should be about $400.
    (In coastal Southern California)

    • @CarynGardiner
      @CarynGardiner  19 дней назад +2

      Not here. Cost me $2600 depends on the size obviously

    • @DePalma.
      @DePalma. 19 дней назад +3

      @ oh I don’t doubt that you pay $2600, I was just trying to express in a nice way that you overpaid. At least in my opinion. But every contractor has their price for every person, a lot of times it depends whether they’re figuratively losing or winning at the track, lol.

    • @drinkthekoolaidkids
      @drinkthekoolaidkids 15 дней назад

      Oh yes that price is about right , I live in Ga and recently helped my elderly father replace his water heater after he was quoted a price of 2k to have his water replaced , and the quote was from Lowe’s .

    • @christopherblaze9992
      @christopherblaze9992 14 дней назад +1

      She just enjoys getting ripped off 🤣

    • @frankwhite3154
      @frankwhite3154 14 дней назад

      Not everybody wants a budget hot water system.unit.

  • @whitemagus2000
    @whitemagus2000 13 дней назад

    I bought a small house below my means. It's half the size of my friends, but I just paid it off after 9 years, while my friends had to take our second mortgages to cover major repairs.

  • @DelChi_
    @DelChi_ 26 дней назад +10

    6 of my close friends here in Chicago bought houses and now they are having a hard time saving money or spending money on things they love doing. No vacations, no going out to bars 😮. Chicago housing market, I believe is the worst in the entire country

    • @JoeyOlin
      @JoeyOlin 26 дней назад +1

      Your friends will stuck for 30 years. This is not a dream home for me if i buy a home and can do other things. Stop listen to agents tell you, time to buy or price will go up and up. Many people predicted we will have more layoff. hope your friends is ok.

    • @CarynGardiner
      @CarynGardiner  25 дней назад +1

      Ugh. I’m sorry

    • @Lboy122
      @Lboy122 25 дней назад +1

      @@JoeyOlin are your friend single women, it’s harder for a women to do it by themselves

    • @deebrown7160
      @deebrown7160 24 дня назад

      Not true I own 5 houses, moved when I wanted too. No one is stuck
      ​@@JoeyOlin

    • @MrCrossface007
      @MrCrossface007 24 дня назад +1

      Location location location.

  • @BREEZYM6015
    @BREEZYM6015 15 дней назад +2

    Why would I buy a large house as a single person? I bought a 2 bed, 2 bath townhome in Las Vegas last year with a mortgage of $1,550. My HOA fees pay for the water, sewer, trash, and landscaping maintenance. It's been about the same as renting so far so maybe I made a good decision to buy.

    • @lunam7249
      @lunam7249 14 дней назад

      vegas real estate ❤

  • @nogood2023
    @nogood2023 20 дней назад +4

    The more i look at it, owning a home sounds like a headache.

  • @LESLASLESLAS
    @LESLASLESLAS 12 дней назад

    I bought a house in 2017 and almost immediately the saddle strap around the well casing gave out and flooded my yard. I called a company to get a quote and they wanted over $5000 to fix it! I grabbed a shovel and started digging a hole. My father-in-law is a maintenance man, so he was able to get the part for me for $75. He came down on a weekend and we had it back up and running in no time. I recommend to anyone buying a house to have it thoroughly inspected by an inspector of your choosing, not your realtors. Get a separate well inspection too, which was an oversight of mine, and learn some skills. If you’re not handy, owning a home can definitely be costly.

  • @loanswithsam
    @loanswithsam 25 дней назад +9

    Good advice Caryn. I think these are the same people during covid bought homes over asking price when rates were at its lowest, waived inspections, didn't look at property taxes in the neighborhoods they were buying in, bought homes sight unseen, etc. I think the next wave of buyers will be a lot smarter moving forward.

  • @ivanmedina8612
    @ivanmedina8612 17 дней назад +2

    insurance has gone up accross the board. i bought condo in 2021 mortgage is 2700 plus 300 in hoa. i live in california :/
    but im looking at the possibilities of buying a house and i dont think im ever going to be able to afford a house

  • @beeblack2210
    @beeblack2210 24 дня назад +19

    I bought a starter house 3 bedroom to whole bathrooms🏡 23 yrs ago did up grades recently plenty of land also between my neighbors in Ga now my home is worth 300k i paid nothing close to that i bought a home i could afford my mortgage is about how much a 1 bedroom apartment was 15 years ago in Ga.

  • @ophilianecr
    @ophilianecr 15 дней назад +1

    People also need to take into consideration the areas they're in! The accessibility of parks, schools, historical sites/ museums, shopping and public transportation can affect home price too!
    Historic areas can have a pricetag AND a standard of what you can have and how to maintain a home. Big cities are always more expensive than smaller ones and towns. Theres really run down homes in rough neighborhoods in Chicago that are over $500k or $1M+ because of the type of homes and materials ( like old, grand brick bungalows) that need tons of renovation

  • @jefthe1
    @jefthe1 20 дней назад +5

    Ty you made my mind. I’ll keep saving for new opportunities but not buying at this moment.

  • @Sotweetie
    @Sotweetie 14 дней назад

    Our county is growing extremely fast (top 10 in the nation) and property taxes are WILD. We bought a 40+ year-old home and our taxes still went up over 50% the first year before the Homestead Exemption kicked in. New home buyers in our area are absolutely panicking because they structured their budgets around their first year property taxes which were based on there not being a structure on the land, and now they are getting the updated valuations that include the brand new McMansion. I see lots of people saying their mortgage is about to be TWICE what it was last year thanks to taxes. So glad we bought an older/existing home.

  • @wanda520
    @wanda520 16 дней назад +5

    Houses are a big responsibility

  • @vicmur4679
    @vicmur4679 13 дней назад +1

    Don't forget, HOA can also raise the price of your monthly payment. That's what they did to us, went from 900 to 1200 the next year.

    • @Thechosen77
      @Thechosen77 12 дней назад +1

      I feel you, I live in an old building, and I was paying 500, next year it’s gonna be 600, it’s insane

  • @davelpz3340
    @davelpz3340 18 дней назад +5

    You will own nothing and be happy. They are using extreme weather to raise insurance prices.

    • @lunam7249
      @lunam7249 14 дней назад

      arson wood fires

  • @xOscarIGZx
    @xOscarIGZx 13 дней назад

    Shocking to see so many people don't think of the long run. When my wife and i bought our house we refused to purchase past our means and i can tell you we live more than comfortable. With everything else being so expensive it helps not having to spend all of our money on our house

  • @robster7787
    @robster7787 15 дней назад +3

    Y’all need to take into trade school or put some effort into learning how to DIY home projects.
    I went into Plumbing and Electrical trades back in highschool as a side gig.
    I haven’t called a mechanic, HVAC, Electrical, or Plumber, or appliance repair man for more than 15 years.
    I saved hundreds of thousands of dollars just fir having the knowledge of fixing stuff. Best part? I’m not even a tradesman as a career, I’m an engineer.

  • @pontiacgt60
    @pontiacgt60 14 дней назад

    The main problem is that people often spend more than they can afford, but another worry is that they don’t feel motivated to work hard. My parents worked long hours for many years to pay off their house, cars, and other things, but these days, people seem less willing to stick to a regular 40-hour workweek.

  • @joncarbone
    @joncarbone 15 дней назад +3

    I thank God for my $1,030 mortgage payment. This allows me to pay extra on the principal.

  • @Xitsaapril
    @Xitsaapril 15 дней назад +1

    Just bought a house and I need a new roof. I can’t afford a roof. I am stressed the heck out guys. 😮

  • @lynny397
    @lynny397 24 дня назад +4

    Do you recommend buying a house at auction?

  • @BigPulleyPapi
    @BigPulleyPapi 16 дней назад +2

    Imagine being excited to sign a loan for 30 years. The marketing canpaign for home ownership is insane.

    • @unkownuser5809
      @unkownuser5809 16 дней назад +1

      Cmon bro, its the american dream. Being tied to a money pit is where its at.

  • @murse_life
    @murse_life 22 дня назад +4

    1:00 - how do "they" raise your mortgage without you knowing?

    • @sh0wg0hard
      @sh0wg0hard 15 дней назад +1

      Taxes

    • @mousecop0761
      @mousecop0761 15 дней назад +2

      Variable rate loans too

    • @BirdGuio
      @BirdGuio 15 дней назад

      @@mousecop0761 variable rate loans don’t happen after one year she also may have had a 1 year or two year buy down and she didn’t fully understand what that meant, but likely it’s taxes an elderly person probably lived in the house before she bought it and so she benefited from that for a year, but then when the tax assessor got a hold of her, they adjusted the price for a non-elderly person and the taxes adjusted accordingly

    • @murse_life
      @murse_life 14 дней назад

      @@sh0wg0hardso your saying the homeowner in the video wasn’t aware that property taxes could change?

    • @murse_life
      @murse_life 14 дней назад +2

      @@mousecop0761so you’re saying the homeowner in the video possibly signed up for a variable rate loan without knowing what it meant?

  • @Mixons
    @Mixons 12 дней назад

    This has been the most solid advice on buying a house! Everything she said was factual

  • @strawberries5151
    @strawberries5151 25 дней назад +15

    Sending this to my dad, just moved to a $2000 a month rental apartment & he says just get a house, thats a mortgage 😒 and i say i dont know a thing about a house! Thank you for explaining all the shit that could happen!

    • @wisdomandlove1661
      @wisdomandlove1661 24 дня назад +2

      Your dad is right. Buy a house with another room at the back and rent it out to reduce your cost. More ideas if you ask. Stay blessed 🙏

    • @John1908-vo1iv
      @John1908-vo1iv 19 дней назад +4

      ​@wisdomandlove1661 not everyone wants to be a landlord or values the privacy and safety more. I would not want a tenant around my kids. These days is too risky being a landlord. Tenants quickly become squatters.

    • @vincentdavis4974
      @vincentdavis4974 16 дней назад

      Remember 2000 a month right now. But I've been renting for 15 years... Was ok when it was reasonable. But 2000 is insane for something you'll never know. And btw rent increases were rare AF up until 4 years ago. Now we get a rent increase of 150 a year... It's unmanageable and you don't own it. Just my two cents

  • @jigarzasu
    @jigarzasu 14 дней назад +1

    We bought our house in 2016 for $200k. Now it’s appraised at $400k. New apartments in our area are renting for twice our mortgage!

  • @AlexP-yb7gh
    @AlexP-yb7gh 17 дней назад +3

    This are people that live beyond there means never buy a house just because you have a job that pays well, make sure cars are paid off and you have a bit of savings just in case you get laid off for whatever reason, use logic people when making the biggest purchase of your life

  • @AlaskanApple
    @AlaskanApple 12 дней назад

    Check your state property tax laws to look for tax reductions based on primary residence. This is the main reason the actual monthly cost increases; property tax is charged differently based on whether the “home” is a true home, or just a rental. If you do not file paperwork to show it is your primary residence: your taxes will be charged as if you are a landlord making money off the property, or a rich person with several homes.

  • @gregcadena1010
    @gregcadena1010 17 дней назад +3

    Everybody knows that right now it’s not a good time to buy a house. Everything is still overpriced.

    • @coreenaburke5378
      @coreenaburke5378 17 дней назад

      Everyone keeps saying it's going to crash for several years now, it has never happened.

  • @pauls5819
    @pauls5819 24 дня назад +13

    In Canada the people live all their life paying debt

  • @TLYoung-n6s
    @TLYoung-n6s 13 дней назад

    I can't believe they sell houses without making sure the buyer is aware of the real costs of owning a home. I bought a cheap house but after 30 years I could have bought a new house when you add up the repairs, interest, insurance, upkeep. Plus, anything only lasts so long. I bought 5 water heaters, rewired electric three times, replaced windows, doors. two furnaces. And then I lost my house to fraud forcing me to retire early poorly after investing in my house for 31 years. I was a single parent. Not to mention the neighborhood totally changed. Not to mention all those things needed replaced again.

  • @45GOAT47
    @45GOAT47 24 дня назад +11

    This is why I rather to be renting !😉

    • @MadamsTrapHouse
      @MadamsTrapHouse 19 дней назад

      Rent way to high for crap they have

    • @mking5909
      @mking5909 19 дней назад +3

      ​@MadamsTrapHouse same with buying a house. Crazy monthly cost and maintenance for small square footage. Renting is cheaper.

    • @mking5909
      @mking5909 19 дней назад +3

      Home prices and maintenance way to high for little square footage.

  • @bleh3039
    @bleh3039 15 дней назад +1

    I’ve owned my home for 12 years now, I bought my house when I was 24, it was difficult the first few years because all I could afford was my mortgage but it got so much better! The more money you earn the better it gets lol.

    • @lunam7249
      @lunam7249 14 дней назад

      that never happened.

  • @FinancesOnBitcoin
    @FinancesOnBitcoin 15 дней назад +3

    2:40 Don’t buy an 80 year old house 😂 what do you expect to happen. Nobody buys a historic car and expects it to run like it was driven off the lot yesterday.

    • @ExtremelyAverageMan
      @ExtremelyAverageMan 13 дней назад +1

      In Colorado, those pos-war late 40's and early 50's 2 bed one bath homes still start at $450k and usually need work

  • @thebestperiod3766
    @thebestperiod3766 15 дней назад +1

    The problem is taxes are based on the previous owner, so guess what? Once you purchase it the county is going to increase the taxes based on the sale price of your purchase amount, thus increased amount in mortgage after 12-18 months after purchase.

  • @MDpart2
    @MDpart2 20 дней назад +5

    Nothing like working hard to pay for your own prison.

  • @YemayaIndigo
    @YemayaIndigo 14 дней назад

    Our pipes broke our first year but it was because we live in very cold climate in the winter and didn't know we needed the heat on in the garage to avoid pipes freezing. The pipes froze in the garage and busted and once that happen, there was a domino effect of busted pipes. We know better now

  • @Lik3ToSing
    @Lik3ToSing 22 дня назад +3

    Student loan , child care cost, mortgage, healthcare are burdens our generation

    • @elizabethlibero1878
      @elizabethlibero1878 16 дней назад

      Late boomers had the same. Now we get the medical bills…

  • @NewLifePat
    @NewLifePat 21 день назад +3

    Just bought myself a rental property. But my monthly payment is 726 not to bad. Probably gonna cash flow $600 once I get some one in there. But this is my first house owning and already had to deal with a squatter. But now it’s renovated ready to go 😀

    • @DWilliam1
      @DWilliam1 20 дней назад +1

      As a guy who is almost 60 and having owned rental properties for years it’s a constant battle. Best advice is vet the renter as thoroughly as possible then strap yourself in. You most likely will still have issues with people paying on time, destroying your place and not following any rules you have, especially if you do short term rentals.