No Ring, No Sex: Henry Bromin v Julia Saavedra S24 E39
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- After 4 years, Henry is tired of Julia using religion as an excuse not to have sex with him and he wants a change. Julia says Henry needs to respect her religion or they're over.
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Nailed it!
Love this analysis 👏
And judge lynn wins..
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@@nadunherath8421 . Judge Lynn was the best!
I don’t see why this case had to come to Divorce Court. Just break up and keep it moving. They are incompatible.
Just a waste of our time 😂
@@amberwilson8775 😂😂
She still wanted him
Same thing am saying. Maybe they just wanna be on tv. Bc this isn't difficult to solve.
She was saved, sanctified and filled with the holy ghost until they started talking about him being with other women. Then she converted to sailor and cursed his tail out. 😄😄😄
Hey lady I caught on to that!
😂 she is a sanctified heathen...lol
But at least he was man enough to tell her he wants to sleep with other women, most guys would have just cheated on her and not say nothing.....
@@zulu3274 maybe that's what he should have done....these religious nutballs
Facts. Devil all up and thru her lol
Christians and "cursing" correlate. I'm not surprised 🙄🙄😐.
If she’s so committed to her beliefs why stay with him for this long?
Most likely she hoping he hits his head and believes in God
She wants to be a martyr apparently and save his soul.
He knows what he wan't and know that's her beliefs. He had the option to walk. I do the same thing
Because she's like most women, gluttons for punishment!!!!
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I don't see the problem. If he doesn't agree with her religious beliefs he can just leave. Find someone else. What's the issue?
She wants to bestow her beliefs on him.
She loves him and Hope's he will change...like so many people in relationships. If he doesnt love her enough to stay with her and marry her before sex, then he needs to let her go....clearly he doesnt want to marry until hes been sexual with her and it is just not right. It's being put on her but she isnt doing anything wrong, other than wishing he would change.
And personally, I couldn't be with a non believer as a christian.... it would be too hard to live a life with someone I am deeply in love with and know death will forever part us... and if you have kids, they have every right to corrupt the child's relationship with God. She needs to consider these things too. Life is a book and not everyone is written in as a faithful person.
This one seemed too staged
Exactly. Makes zero sense for this to have even been an episode
I think he was ready to go. He just wanted some outside confirmation. Personally, I don't think he should have even gotten involved with her in the first place.
Especially once he found out she was not willing to engage in premarital sex.
Just a young man figuring out that “core values” are the most important aspect along with trust. Why keep going if those huge things don’t align?
"It's a wig" took me out. I love Star as a Judge 🤣
She made the mistake a lot of women make, hoping a man changes and molds into what they want. He’s not religious and he enjoys sex. That doesn’t make him a jerk just wrong for her to date. She kept saying one day he will see it my way. No he won’t
then she'd better give up some pussy soon or she will really find herself alone, because no one else is gonna want to become religious to be with her...bring on the cats, because that is her future🤣🤣
Agreed, I think really controlling women make this mistake
💯 I 100% agree with you!!!
He made the EXACT same mistake. Weird for you to only point it out in the woman.
@@WesleyLindsey not really. He wasn't trying to convert her. He was willing to wait until marriage and she agreed to him being with other women in the mean time.
She lost me at switching through multiple religions but expecting him to follow 🤷🏽♀️
it is her journey to truth. he doesn't need to be there.
Right , how do you expect him to just switch to another religion because your confused 😂. Her sister is very annoying.
I think she should find someone who is going to support her religion and help her grow in that manner
I'm in my 30s and still haven't done the "deed" b/c I haven't met some I can be physically/emotionally vulnerable with (not necessarily religious based). That being said, it is hard to date with the "normal" dating rules. I may not have the best love life, but at least I'm authentic and honest w/others and myself. She needs to do the same
God bless you
Turning 28 this month. Still untouched. Little scared too about the dating life. Never dated and not really a people person. I’m doomed 🥲
Almost 40 and me too! God bless you sister💜
Keep it up
YOG
Life is too short
It’s so refreshing to see a “woman” stand in her truth and not giving her body to every man, hope she finds her husband soon 🙏🏾
Amenn I’m on the same journey as her
then she better get ready to die alone or buy stock in cat food😂😂
She may find someone that won't give up even after marriage.
So do I 🙏🏼♥️
She doesn't understand the scriptures don't worry I'm here tho, a man can have more then one woman in order, the most high told David I gave you your "wives" you can look it up for yourself, a man can't sleep with another man's woman that's what we can't do, ✌🏿
If the partners are not on the same page religiously then there is no relationship
How can you have a relationship with GOD and pursue a relationship with someone who doesn’t share your faith?
Great question
She thinks he’s gonna change into a religious person
She is a walking contradictory as Porsha from RHOA would say.
She thinks God will work in her favor and change him.
God prefers us to be equally yoked, however, He gave us free will. We get to choose our way or His! She’s 23… a dreamer… trying to figure life out. He's not for her, but she fell for him… that happens everyday! Shes’s got to learn she can’t change anybody. She has to want God’s desire for her over her own.
Yeah they are just not for each other and you can’t blame neither one of them for choosing different path than her ..: there is someone for everyone
Don't date if you need sex. Date someone who is on your level.
Like he said, she doesn't even know what she wants to do!! That whole rib cage thing was weird..they're not even married! No one can make you do anything..
I don’t find him to be the faulty person here because as a religious person who claim to hear from God, she has no business being with him knowing that they don’t believe the same thing.
She’s suppose to be the woken person not necessarily him.
Right
I was just coming say so shaking up is ok lmao
Yep, couldn't have said it better.
"this sounds like bullshit sir" LMAO I like Star
She knew it but still had them on the show LOL
She knows her worth. Keep saving yourself for that special someone.
After they make out huh no should been discussed at the start then if they don't agree then leave
Amen Terri!!
Yes 🙌🏾
No she don't
Absolutely she saving herself for the right man. I don’t blame her at all.
Stay with your beliefs girl! If a man truly loves you he will wait for you!
That's the problem she doesn't even know what religion she wants.
I left religion alone 5 years ago and I could not even entertain a man who is religious, that'd be an instant deal breaker for me, there's no conversation about it. good luck to y'all. don't forget to check on your mental health and those around you.
Same, met a guy at a bar he said he was super Christian, I said I'm not and we said cool good luck in life hope you find someone for you.
@@Black_and_Green and that is how grown folks handle their business
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 a lot of bw are so brainwashed by "religion " and church. Glad you ha e your boundaries set straight.
I left religion a long time ago. Was never interested anyone that would require that change in me since then. They shouldn’t have lasted 3 years. Hopefully, they’ll find someone more in line with their own values.
Same. After trying 6 religions (born a Christian, then catholic, then Judaism, then Baptist, then Buddhist, then 7 day Adventist). I was done. I gave them all a fair chance, learned a lot but I had too many questions. I wanted answers, change, and results that religion couldn't give me. Wait, why? Pray, for human necessities? Be patient, so what do I do in the meantime because rent is due tomorrow and signing up for this resource seems faster? Have faith, in what exactly? So many things. Read the Bible, which version the current one isn't accurate. He has a plan for you, can you let me know what it is, I prefer to be prepared. He's testing you, I think giving someone an incurable terminal illnesses so they and those around them convert to a religion is a bit extreme, perhaps manipulative. Give offerings/tithes, so the pastor can buy a new Porsche or keep his side girl quiet? Religion. No thank you. Therapy was the best option to spiritually cleanse myself. I am able to process, handle, and confront trauma, emotions, bad situations, and hard times. (In my case no medications were needed). I want answers not oblivious platitudes.
Was he really a jerk tough? He was honest about his needs and they had an agreement. They simply just weren't compatible Glad they parting ways though. It would never work unless one side moved to the other.
He tried to sleep with her sister...
HE really needs to goes ON WITH HIS LIFE AND LEAVES HER ALONE.
Thank youuu
Ms Saavedra, I think you're misquoting the Word. You're not supposed to push your religion onto others and you're using it as an excuse to justify your desire to "save" the man. The way Ms Saavedra acted and expressed herself in front of the judge was such a contrast to how her sister painted her as a part of the relationship.
Mr Bromin was upfront and honest. I don't think she was pushed into anything. These two are simply better off not together.
Why doesn't he just walk away if it bothers him so much. 🤔 and also what does he want the judge to do? 🤣🤣
right. I've never seen a judge make a order to have sex. he just wants to break her. it's a challenge to this Moran
Him being non-religious should have been an instant deal breaker for her
Why can't she walk away? She knows his views on religion, and it's unfair to ask him just to believe in something that he doesn't. He respects her views, but she hopes he just wakes up one morning and starts believing in Jesus
@@TRINI818 she should. They should both step away from eachother. They are clearly not well matched. But he was the one who took her before a judge. 🤔
He enjoys the challenge
The man is 24 and he needs to take it as a lost and keep it moving. She should’ve told him upfront about being a virgin. Can’t blame him. Man has limits
She is young and approaching this matter in a naive/romanticised fashion. You can’t be with someone who does not agree with you on this issue. She is playing with fire and is lucky she left this relationship with her virginity. She may not be so lucky next time…
You two aren't compatible and really the two of you aren't even in a relationship.
The lady gives me fake religious vibes. How are you going to be with a man that feels indifferent about God but you are extremely religious? Then the twin comes on the show saying that he forced her into an open relationship. She is a grown woman who makes her own decisions. She is not a victim.
💯.... At least he was open enough and man enough to admit that he would like to sleep with other women while they are figuring out where things will go, most guys wouldn't have told her nothing and just cheated on her....lol
she’s not faking, she seems to have the cult like way of thinking and it is hard to shake that.
@@zulu3274 or he could have been a decent man and left her. If sex is that important to him then he should have been honest and left a long time ago
absolutely not. The dude was open and honest with what he wanted and expected and she WILLINGLY got into an open relationship with him. Grooming? Manipulating? Lmao cmon. She is willfully doing all of these things.
@@kittyb275 Exactly
No yolk coming out of that egg 🤣🤣
She's 23 wowwwww somebody lying.
He does not love her he is waiting to pick the cherry
Not pick the cherry 😂😂😂😂😂
Twin sisters always seem to be a package deal, IF I WERE HIM I WOULD KEEP IT MOVING, CAUSE THAT IS AN ARGUMENT HE WON'T WIN 💯
They didn’t say they were twins
@@Zee-ob1pe Do they have too
😂😂😂😂
they aren’t twins lol
They're really bashing this dude like he's some monster when they BOTH AGREED to an open relationship? I'm sorry but this whole episode is a bunch of male-bashing lmao.
He tried to sleep with her sister..
Honestly he should get bashes because he needs to just leave he doesn't want her for her or respect her wishes
Just a reminder that bc she is Christian doesn’t mean she can’t be human. The idea that Christins must be perfect all the time or can’t cuss, sin, etc is impossible. That’s why it’s good to know that Jesus has grace and compassion on His people and forgives our sins.
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That was never going to work. 😅
This would've been easy for me, get another girl lol. No brainer.
Yuck he was attempting to hook-up with her sister too, just nasty 😠💯
She's wrong!! She's not wrong for her belief, she's wrong for trying to force him to believe like she does. It's obvious he doesn't feel that way and she's steady trying to convert him into it. Her sister is wrong for blaming him, she should be mad at her sister cause her sister is grown and sees he doesn't want to change. Smh
Exactly!
I agree with you. However, you can't force nobody what you want to do or believe in but you can absolutely pray for them and let God take control, if you claim want to follow God.
Forcing and preach is to different things, y’all always think when people warn it’s forcing, no human can force anyone
Don't understand!! If they are not married and just staying together why do they come to divorce court 😃
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I ask this damn near every episode..why are y'all here?
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@@northphillyp absolutely doesn't make sense isn't 🙆🤦🤦🤷🤷
She and her sister is crazy, he needs to run.
Facts 😂😂😂
She showed the hypocrisy of religion. She made out with him…. Despite her “beLIEfs”… she cursed twice… despite her “beLIEfs.
So “peaceful a soul” she displayed her curse like a sailor, mode.
😂😂😂😂😂
I understand she is a work in progress!
4 years is a lot of time to be with someone who has told you they don't share the same beliefs as you.
I am glad he kept it real with her and didn't try to hide the fact that he was sleeping with other women , she atleast had the option to see if she wanted to stay with him or leave so I don't think he was a jerk he just kept it 💯 and she was willing to stay with him I'm just saying
I hope this young woman will hold firm to her beliefs. I don't believe in the Bible, but I do believe in STDs.
You try being the young woman he’s sleeping with while he waits for the virgin bride. That was me as a 20 y.o. who didn’t know any better and it broke my heart.
He’s persistent on tearing her down, that’s the work of the enemy she doesn’t see it, once they have sex he would tell her “got you!” And he would leave her he’s basically trying to prove that he’s stronger than her relationship with Christ, girl you can’t change him! I hope she finds her husband soon!
So true ‼️‼️this is the work of the enemy .
She believes Jesus can save him problem is he has to want to change. With all the cheating going on a woman who isn't active is a blessing. I think he made the contract to trigger her and play on insecurities
No! the Bible says HE that finds a wife, finds a good thing & finds favor in the Lord. A woman doesn't have no business looking & finding a man. She needs to let him go!
@@reginaflemming4390 Obviously it does say that “he who finds a wife finds a good thing” but she is in search of a husband so there’s nothing wrong with her finding one, I mean the truth is it would be better to find a husband than to stay with this guy so really your argument is irrelevant that just means that the man has favor with the Lord
@@catherinegilbert7057 She does believe that Jesus can save him just like many Christians do I think she’s living in reality by saying that he needs to be saved now because tomorrow’s not promised but like you said he has to want it for himself but at the end of the day it’s just like what I said that it is the work of the enemy, the enemy plays on insecurities too it’s the same thing
This is wild. This was not about to end well
"Bless your heart" 😂😂 I love this woman
They cursing while talking about religion smfh where is Judge Lynn Toler when you need her?
I didn't see anything jerky about the guy. He didn't lie about anything and he even tried to go along with her religion of the week until he couldn't. If he didn't have feelings for her, he could have dumped her a long time ago, instead of continuing to date her despite the lack of intimacy. They weren't equally yoked, but that doesn't make either one of them bad people.
Judge Star is killing it, love it.
They are unequally yoked. It won't work. Lord if this is not of u destroy the relationship.
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Amen!!!! 😅
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Definitely unevenly yolked
If the sister says literally one more time...
If this girl was is as "religious" as she claims she wouldn't be in this mess
That’s not true lol. We get tested daily
Smh... I can't take THEM serious.
For her to be hopping religion so much she doesn't need to be dating until she finds what's best for her. It's not all on him.
Shame on men that think like this man y’all complain about women having sex with men but then when you get a woman that ain’t for the streets they still complain selfish I swear.
I agree but women have to take personal accountability. She knows he is not that religious and then they came up with that crazy contract. They both playing games.
Stop going after guys you only find attractive and then maybe women have this issue because she knows she doesn’t belong with that guy
Exactly!!!!!!!
@@Reezy12333 NO one tells men to get with ugly women....don't do that ish to women🙄
Attraction is important to men it's important to women too.
@@InLoveWithaPaladin it’s too important to women and that’s the problem because nobody said get with a ugly ass mf lol
You can't be celibate and following God and be with someone who has no interest in it..The man, your husband is supposed to cover you, love you like Christ loves the church, lead the household...he cannot do that. It's doomed..
Yess! That’s exactly how it should be, i agree. She can’t stay with him cuz it just won’t work. It’s no point in saving it.
They are not equally yoked. End this relationship
Man got no idea what “bless your heart” means 😂😂😂❤️
Girl run.....He just thought he could get the grand prize.
They are both eachothers deal-breakers. WHY are they together??? Is the dating pool that small wherever they're from?? This is a waste of time for everyone involved...
This is an awful episode. 3 years together and no commitment nor sex. I don't believe it
They are friends without benefits
Bro get away from this family
I do like the way that he's describing the girl
She is so religious but telling bad words and in national TV???? I don't think she is religious..lol
People like them annoy me. She's trying to force her religion on him and he's trying to force her to change her standing on her beliefs. I'm very anti-religion. For that reason, I do not date people who are religious. We will not mix--I'm not changing my mind and I don't want to change yours. Whether you are religious or not, if you do not share the same beliefs on religion as someone else, you shouldn't try to be in a romantic relationship with them; you can't stick around trying to make someone non-religious, and you can't stick around trying to make someone religious. Mingle with people whose beliefs are in the same field as yours. Religion is a big deal--you can't force compatibility there.
They're not on the same page. That's it.
Other Judges: Did you just use that language in my courtroom?
Judge Star: That sounds like bullshit, sir!
Love👏🏽her👏🏽
That is was a nice skit.
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He's young and still allowed to live the single life. Just don't try to force her to change for you when you're not willing to do same for her. Girl move on and find someone with the same beliefs. God might change him but you don't know His timing. It maybe in 50 years.
They are not compatible. That contract is bullish!t.
Took me a min! Ms Star, i love your show! I understand how you operates! We need tough love.❤❤
Lol it was the 'pardon me' for me hehe.
The sister LITERALLY don’t look like the other one 😂😂
How you love your sister and she was homeless give me a break,
I loved when the judge said to the young man in the end "Bless your heart!" 😁
Lol judge star silly I didn’t tell my husband I wore wigs 😅
I don't like this one. This woman is not a victim and he's not a jerk. Stop infantilizing her like she's not a grown woman. She's just crazy religious and dumb enough to stick around with a guy who has made no secret he's never going to convert. The contract is stupid yeah but who made her agree to that. Also, the sister is insufferable.
Also, virginity being a prize...oh please. He doesn't seem the type to think that considering he's not religious and those are the ones who seem obsessed with virgins.
She's a little crazy.
“This sounds like 🤬 sir” - Star Jones
Needs to go onto a t-shirt
Neither one of them is wrong, just not right for each other.... he reminds me of Charlie Sheen lol 😂😂😂
I’m sure her husband knew it was wig
Lol right . You can tell
THE SISTER BRING SSSSOOO MUCH SAS HAHAHAHAH
The judge's reaction to this guy is classic, and the sister happened to be a 100% right.
Your dating..yet on Divorce court?..a married person with time in will tell ya,cutting a loss relationship wise doesn't get a second thought,dont know why they hold on to dating prospects longer than need be,its harder after the vows
He never changed who he was and if she was really about her religion, they wouldn’t of made it to 3 years. Christian women want to change and convert their unbeliever man so bad and they end up wasting time. The most you can do is share the word and move on. If he’s not interested in it, she can’t force him to be. Clearly they aren’t equally yoked so why would you stay? You can see what you want in people but they have to see it for themselves. I agree he took advantage of the situation, however, she allowed it and allowed it to continue so I blame her for staying knowing who he is. There was no confusion on his part at all.
Don't let that man bodily fluids in you dear. Stay strong 💪
i also wanna add i don’t blame him for having/wanting to fill the need to sex . she should be understanding . to get mad at an arrangement after you’ve agreed is asinine at best
he was definitely understanding of her because if he wasn’t he wouldnt have tried to make the contract as a compromise
If you can’t respect her views on HER virginity, then go be with someone who’ll give it up. Why waste time trying to convince her to give you something that is not yours, as she is not your wife…
Big facts like move around
So why was he a jerk? Why was it all on him and none of it on her? The sister wants to call him selfish but what is the sister being? Equally just as selfish. And Equally just as toxic in her controlling ways. They were just two different people on different life paths that should've never have been together that long. Nothing wrong with either path. But if you're going to call out one, call out the other too. Men aren't always a problem needing to be solved. And neither are women.
It’s just hard to believe that they are 23 & 24 yrs old
She mad Lol 😂 Henry is selfish I wouldn’t save myself to sleep with no man like that he crazy he can play but he know she want ugh
Did Jesus tell her to cuss like a sailor in the court? 🤣🤣
Girl stop using Jesus as a convenience.
I already know she was confused once she said she was into Buddhism lol 😂