Sorry.but this was almost unwatchable for me...so many things to disagree with even though he says them as if they are unquestionable truths"...like to love someone doesn't mean understanding them...well yes sometimes we can love people and not always understand them but the will or want to understand a person is part of love.It is hard to love someone when we do not know them otherwise it can just be a projection or fantasy about who think that person is or want them to be. I once read in a Graham Greene novel Heart of the Matter that "Love is the will to understand.."and I think that is true.To love someone is to want to know them and we feel loved when we feel seen and heard..this is why maybe many arguments ensue when we feel unseen or unheard.Yes people or parts of people will always be a mystery..parts of ourselves will always be a mystery but to attempt to understand another and ourselves is part of love. Also where was the constellation work in this ? ...just waffle....not surprised that his teacher was Osho..Osho had many wise things to say but lets face it did not end well and became more or less a cult...this is exactly what a cult like member is like,talks in riddles endlesly about vague esoteric things and then anyone who may challenge or disagree looks bad and all whilst at the same tile they talk about "love."....its always so vague but rarely communicated thorugh action...just blah blah blah. Also there is not always unconditional love between a mother and child ..there are lots of reasons why that might be and things which interfere with that bond...what alot of assumptions and simplifications makes
There absolutely always IS unconditional love between mother and child. Otherwise, the child would never have been called to come through her portal. The mother who places her child in a rubbish bin, is a MASSIVE act of unconditional love. Is it outwardly obvious. No. But if she thinks (consciously or unconsciously) the child will be better off without her or dead, there is love. So much to LIFE that is unseen.
yes I agree..I found his portrayal of what it means to be a man or a woman highly stereotyping..."men being logical and woman being emotional"....like men don't get "emotional"..really !!! and women can't be highly logical
I’m a woman. I don’t think he’s saying men don’t have emotions and women don’t have logic. He’s pointing to our base line neural pathways/physiological wiring. Men and women are not the same. Women are the receivers and what we receive we create with … emotion is a key part of creation. Of course men are moved by emotion also, and women have deep logic. Yet when men and women are in their divine expression, we are able to operate from our power centres and our strengths. Let’s not try to make men or women operate in each other’s lanes. There’s nothing wrong with fully embodying your gender operating system. Men who have high feminine traits and women who have high masculine traits, are incredibly lucky to have both rolling through naturally. Yet. When we are the child, we are the child, when we are the Daughter, we are the Daughter, when we are the Son, we are the Son. It’s ok to have balance and remain in our family system order. It’s not up to me to parent my parents, or for my children to adult for me.
An unfortunate framing of only heterosexual attraction and relationship. That is not the only way in which love draws people together. Constellations are changing. I would hope this type of organization would be more inclusive. Love is indeed inclusive. This presentation: not so much.
You are doing the exclusion and suffer from it by complaining and degrading the beauty in this presentation. Is that what you want in your life? Does it make you feel better?
Did you miss the part where he said that love is all inclusive? Also man and woman is referring to male and female energy. In homosexual relationships one partner identifies, exhibits more the female energy and the other the male.
Love may happen in a relationship but it is in a moment and you never know what is going to be in the next moment.... very wise and true...
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Sorry.but this was almost unwatchable for me...so many things to disagree with even though he says them as if they are unquestionable truths"...like to love someone doesn't mean understanding them...well yes sometimes we can love people and not always understand them but the will or want to understand a person is part of love.It is hard to love someone when we do not know them otherwise it can just be a projection or fantasy about who think that person is or want them to be.
I once read in a Graham Greene novel Heart of the Matter that "Love is the will to understand.."and I think that is true.To love someone is to want to know them and we feel loved when we feel seen and heard..this is why maybe many arguments ensue when we feel unseen or unheard.Yes people or parts of people will always be a mystery..parts of ourselves will always be a mystery but to attempt to understand another and ourselves is part of love.
Also where was the constellation work in this ? ...just waffle....not surprised that his teacher was Osho..Osho had many wise things to say but lets face it did not end well and became more or less a cult...this is exactly what a cult like member is like,talks in riddles endlesly about vague esoteric things and then anyone who may challenge or disagree looks bad and all whilst at the same tile they talk about "love."....its always so vague but rarely communicated thorugh action...just blah blah blah.
Also there is not always unconditional love between a mother and child ..there are lots of reasons why that might be and things which interfere with that bond...what alot of assumptions and simplifications makes
There absolutely always IS unconditional love between mother and child. Otherwise, the child would never have been called to come through her portal.
The mother who places her child in a rubbish bin, is a MASSIVE act of unconditional love. Is it outwardly obvious. No. But if she thinks (consciously or unconsciously) the child will be better off without her or dead, there is love. So much to LIFE that is unseen.
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Thank you for that deep thoughtful understanding.
But there are mother who gives so much pain that so many people suffers, at some point one should learn
This was not about family constellation
Saying that a woman is emotional is stereotyping.
yes I agree..I found his portrayal of what it means to be a man or a woman highly stereotyping..."men being logical and woman being emotional"....like men don't get "emotional"..really !!! and women can't be highly logical
I’m a woman.
I don’t think he’s saying men don’t have emotions and women don’t have logic.
He’s pointing to our base line neural pathways/physiological wiring.
Men and women are not the same. Women are the receivers and what we receive we create with … emotion is a key part of creation.
Of course men are moved by emotion also, and women have deep logic. Yet when men and women are in their divine expression, we are able to operate from our power centres and our strengths.
Let’s not try to make men or women operate in each other’s lanes.
There’s nothing wrong with fully embodying your gender operating system.
Men who have high feminine traits and women who have high masculine traits, are incredibly lucky to have both rolling through naturally.
Yet. When we are the child, we are the child, when we are the Daughter, we are the Daughter, when we are the Son, we are the Son. It’s ok to have balance and remain in our family system order. It’s not up to me to parent my parents, or for my children to adult for me.
Very well said.
An unfortunate framing of only heterosexual attraction and relationship. That is not the only way in which love draws people together. Constellations are changing. I would hope this type of organization would be more inclusive. Love is indeed inclusive. This presentation: not so much.
You are doing the exclusion and suffer from it by complaining and degrading the beauty in this presentation. Is that what you want in your life? Does it make you feel better?
Did you miss the part where he said that love is all inclusive? Also man and woman is referring to male and female energy. In homosexual relationships one partner identifies, exhibits more the female energy and the other the male.