I was married to a narcissist, he just knew what to say or do to impress me. I lost everything, my home and almost my life. Thank God for helping me get away from him.
I so agree. No vulgar language.Its so refreshing to see and hear a movie that’s worth it.Movies now a days if there’s no vulgar language,sex, intimate body parts etc,etc, it’s no good . People really enjoy that kind of stuff.😣😖
I AGREE!!! Lifetime movies have really gone down the shitter!!! I used to watch lifetime religiously, and I always looked forward to a new movie every night! Now its horrible. The new movies have horrible actors!!!
This was really good. He really took advantage of that young girl. I only watch the lifetime movies from the 90s cause the acting was so much better, And the story line was more real cause a lot of them based on real life stories.
And then the film really went wild - shortly thereafter - at the fireworks; when he started touching Bobby, after laying down next to her, while at the same time caressing his wife... 😅
There are soooo many men like that around. And unfortunately so many beautiful young women who have no understanding of their own worth and value. After 2 failed marriages to narcissistic, abusive men, I've finally learnt that my identity is found in Christ. My value and worth come from him. This is a demonic spirit that seeks to destroy women because Satan hates us with a passion. There was a time when I really thought that I needed that approval and "love" of a man, but now, unless Jesus is his standard, and 1st place in his life, I'm absolutely not interested. Ladies, don't be desperate, you are throwing your pearls to pigs, and you will suffer terribly for it.
Very well said 2 failed marriages 1 was a cheater and the other was abuser while I was 81/2 months pregnant I almost died and also my child now it's GODS IS FIRST ONLY
I can understand what u mean I was married to one over 40 years and six grown children going trough a nasty divorce now it’s been 2 years I pray it ends soon narcs hate👿🤮💯
@@voulapetrakos7508 That's horrible. But the fact that you are getting out now is huge. God bless you and I hope you will draw on The Lord for strength xx ❣️
I love this guy as an actor he always makes me laugh. When Bobby asked him how do you know so much I said out loud to myself that's because he's 60 😂😂😂
Based on the real life story of Ronald Harnois. The girl in this movie, Bobbi, was based on Tammy Petrin. At the time of this movie, it states that Bobbi's murder was unsolved. As of 2000 Ronald was found guilty of Tammy's murder. Had had contacted Steve Wilson to commit the murder who also shot the janitor Jenner Villeda. Steve died before he could be charged. Ronald is serving multiple life sentences for murder and attempted murder, conspiracy to commit murder, aiding and abetting, bigamy, possession of a bomb and fourth degree arson. 3 life sentences 1 without parole + 10 years for the conspiracy. Really nice guy. 🙄
The way he made her apologize to his mistress was degrading. And the Wife slow ass hell cause I wouldn’t have apologized to her to make him happy. She should have known something right there.
The spouse was still trying to salvage marriage. Hard to believe the person she married was a monster. That means she married a monster. People have a hard time accepting they were duped. Notice how long she has been married to him in the movie, ten years.
Never understand why women take that abuse just one outburst would be gone. By staying you give them power which inflates their ego they become worse. Just pack your bags and leave.
Totally agree!!! 💯💯💯 😢 He was a severe abuser, dangerous and unfortunately she was under the statistics of high rate of domestic murder in this country. There were obvious signs but both of these ladies were fools to continue to not go against him. Ridiculous!!! Luckily God gave the poor wife strength to have him convicted in the end. Moral of the story, stay away from young women if your married and avoid married individuals!!! The mistress bothered me because she continued to protect him even after knowing he tried to kill his wife. That should have gave me alarm bells, along with the abuse but she was young & very dumb & callous. True story about Tammy Petrin. The movie is a little different and they changed some stuff around.
I remember watching this with my mother in 1994. I was 14 and a total loaner. Didn’t really believe there were really men like this in the world. Fast forward almost 30 years later, And i had two narcissist boyfriends. The toll of hell that they put you through, and then you think everything is all your fault. Don’t let it get to where you are so unhappy and lose who you are and then not care if they would just kill u
Not at all easy to escape from controlling, manipulating individuals. They do not let go of their targets without a drawn-out battle. No way really to not lose who one was before encountering them... Like an unremovable thorn in the flesh, memories of their presence lingers indefinitely.
Josie Bissett was good and so was Gerald McCraney. She's very beautiful and he's been married for some 35 yrs to actress Delta Burke which is really nice to know.
I wonder how she feels about her husband making out with this girl ? Delta must be a very strong, confident woman. I don't think I could deal with it. It wouldn't feel right to me to have my husband being intimate even if it was just acting.
Nelly---I thought it was just me lol It is one of those movies that are unforgettable...like Unfaithful, A Simple plan, Basic Instinct, Malice etc. All brilliant films.......
@@queeng5925 he was charming and she was a shy girl who had never seen any boy or man attracted to her. So it was easy for her to fall in love with him.
This wife was so sweet, loving, seem so submissive and he was so unsatisfied, narcissist man was refusing to mentally grow up. I hope this woman found her peace after him going to jail. Ungrateful man. This movie was so good.
@@bobanristic8721 he didn’t want to grow up.. he wanted his wife to remain that young “Bobby” is why he dated someone who remind him of a young hot version of his wife. He never killed before as far as I’m concern. He moved the table with his feet huffing and puffing instead of just communicating with his wife like an adult. He knew exactly what he was doing was wrong he just wanted to have his way without it having to cost him much.
@@Lovingitjuju The women who try to understand,analize and change obvious psychopath usually end up as their victims.He was even bragging in jail about his evil deeds which just confirmed his mental illness. Lack of empathy is one of the main signs that you are involved with psychopath.
@@bobanristic8721 yeah your reading my comments very wrong. I have not sympathized with him AT ALL. All I basically called him was immature, ungrateful, foolish and whatever else I seen from watching a movie. I didn’t watch a real documentary on him I’m stating my opinions based off a movie from certain scenes that stood out to me . Your the one digging a bit too deep into someone opinion off a movie. He planned to kill his wife and got Bobby along with another young man killed, I am far from disagreeing with you.
Restraining order cause he’s mean to you , that’s evil. Your sick and I hope the person your in a relationship with knows your twisted opinion on the matter.
Yeah, let's bog down the system w/frivolous legal proceedings because someone's been mean to you...good grief, does that fall under the "emotional abuse" category?🙄Why have some adults become such babies?
What a bizzare code of ethics that predator/narcissist Tom had. Felt bad for Bobbi, she just needed attention. Unfortunately, she met the wrong guy. 🚩 😕 *Great movie Thanks for sharing!*
He started verbally abusing her and talking to her any kind of way eventually too like he did Nancy. She should've known that if he treated Nancy that way simply because he was bored with her, he would've did the same thing to Bobbi, which was slowly already starting to happen when she tried to follow him into the payphone.
When a man start picking fights with you and all you doing is sitting there breathing just know he cheating. He making excuses to be mad at you and start a fight so he can leave the house and go see the mistress. Just like he did in 18:06. That is your cue to leave his butt.
That is kind of what I was thinking. The fire of his wife and him when they were young has become a dying ember and they are slowly realizing it. Him more than her.
This man is a narcissist in the truest sense of the word. Controlling everybody and everything. Gerald McRaney is an exceptional actor and Peggy Lipton is beautiful as always. Watch this movie. It is worth your time.
Good lord..as a woman these two female characters terrify me. This weakness of the mind is just .. how? How does this happen? The way these two are committed to their convictions.. sad thing is I see this in some of my friends and family. Not this bad, but just denial and hanging on when letting go is not only best but easier life wise. 😩God please protect my mind!
I don’t think it’s the mind as much as the heart. When you’re in love you see what you want to see, no matter how idiotic. As soon as she found out he lied about being married, the first thought should have been, ‘someday he’ll do the same thing to me.’
The normal lifestyle of Mormon women, is to appreciate and openly welcome new sister wives - of all ages. Find it totally bizarre how they are able to convince themselves of their own superiority, since they apparently are not jealous of one another... How is this even possible? 🧐😅
I was uncomfortable throughout this whole movie. It’s outdated and quite a slow burn, but definitely worth the watch. Good acting from all of them. Disturbing that this is a true story, wasn’t expecting that ending
@Evan Hodge I actually meant “outdated” as in you can tell it’s an old movie, it’s not modern or something that would get a lot of attention to watch today. Nothing to do with the message in the movie.
I read that often the creator of the movies will claim the story is true, when it isn't at all. It just seems to generate more revenue. I really hope this one isn't true either.
Think one of the things a narcissist is good at is stripping away a person’s confidence until they feel utterly worthless. It can take a long time to recover from the effects of narcissistic abuse, but you CAN come out the other side stronger, wiser and able to love the beautiful person you are again x
Spouse has groomed her over ten years. She needs therapy. Spouse made her doubt her self by saying misheard or crazy or ??? A common tactic of groomers and warped people.
Holy s***, only in five minutes and this brings back everything about my first relationship with an older man. When he tracked her down when she was walking on the sidewalk I just wanted to scream RUN GIRL!!! Bless her heart. If only younger people had the life experience to realise this is not flattering, it is controlling and stalkery and clearly shows signs of an abusive and probably crased man. Not sure I can get through this. I think I've already lived this.... We'll see.
How can the wife be so naive? Anyway, thank God she testified finally and put him behind bars! But felt sorry for the young girl whose life was snuffed out too soon.
Wife was scare of the husband she played along he put fear in her. The young girl was not smart believe anything someone tells her but the parents never talk to her about life it sad. Tom is narctassic he get 20 years but he going to do it again.
Ronald Harnois (Tom Weston) was convicted and now serving a twenty year sentence for the attempted murder of his first wife Joanne and three additional life sentences for the murder of his second wife Tammy Petrin (Bobbie Gilbert) and the murder of her co worker.
I Love this Movie I remember it from years ago, actually I Love All the old Lifetime Movies so much better then today's Lifetime movies!!! Much better Acting as well!!!
His wife as well... she was super sweet and kind to him... Its clear he is a bully(Narc),he targets kind gentle innocent pure hearts💕 Run them down to make himself better ...
After awhile you light yourself on fire to keep them warm. I believe it's really demonic at its root. They all act the same way, they're all dishonest and nasty. They don't care about anyone else's needs or desires. The worst part is the Jekyll and Hyde business. You never know who you're dealing with.
@@supertrucker99 I pray your son is safe wherever he is and he comes back home that you may find some comfort& peace of... May you workout your family situation...
I get the impression that Bobbi was a little slow / not the full dollar aside from being young. And to top it all that monster looks like he's having a nice time in prison acting like he's boss and showing off , talking to all his buddies there about her..
This movie reminds me of the time I went to see my boyfriend at his house - unannounced, something I had never done before. I was surprised to find cars surrounding the house and all over the driveway. There was a party going on, a party I knew nothing about. I knocked on the door and my boyfriend, along with a cute blonde came to the door. He didn't look so good when he saw me and didn't open the door, but said hi to me through the open screen. The cute blond went back to the party and he eventually told me that he had been seeing said blond for two years. He had mentioned her by name and other 'friends' all the time, a neat trick and really despicable. He went on to marry her, she divorced him in no time and he married someone else, had children he didn't want with her and continued to cheat on her, at first with his employer's daughter and many other women. Unfortunately I met another creep. Once again I went to his house early on a Saturday morning with breakfast, because we would not have an opportunity to see each other for a few days. I knocked on the door, rang the bell and got no answer. I waited and rang the bell again while looking through the window in the front door. I was in time to see my boyfriend, wearing nothing but grey underwear, duck into the kitchen. I rang the bell and knocked on the door non stop then. This time I saw a blond woman come downstairs from the bedroom and head into the kitchen. I could see her but not my boyfriend. She looked mad, and kept pointing to the door and waving her hands around. He called me later to ask me if I had come to see him, that he thought he had heard the doorbell but wasn't sure. A really bad liar. When I mentioned the blond he said, "Oh yeah, she's just a neighbor who dropped by." Like I said, a really bad liar. No wonder I prefer dogs now.
Never go to anyone's house unnanounced. I learned that's bad. I don't like anyone coming to my house unannounced either for different reasons. I just like to know whose coming and when:)
It's really sad that he took advantage of both these women but Bobbi soon turned to be as deceptive as he was. The way she behaved with the wife shows that she was willing to do anything - which is not a great standard at all regardless of whether she was just a lonely girl to begin with.
This is what a midlife crises is .This man is looking at his life as a burden .Not knowing he has everything he needs .A good wife whom loves him .Dedicated friends honest job .Still ain’t happy .He needs to feel young and by doing so he manipulates this young girl.Gets what he wants marry her while still being married which is sick .And even plans to kill his wife with her participation. At the end he treated her like trash too.He made her into his prize possession like eye candy on his arm to feed his ego ..This man is a representation of a man you want to dodge and stay far away from asap
Bobbi should've had the mindset "If Tom tried to kill Nancy, he would've done the same to me once he got bored with me." Common sense would've saved her life Ultimately. I wonder what happened to Nancy after she testified against Tom.
🤮🤮🤮....how do young women get taken in by slime buckets like this?? Just the fact he had his choice of lipstick ready and applied it himself, before that ludicrous wedding ceremony turned my stomach . 😖
Due to childhood trauma or lack of self-esteem in their beautiful looks because of society's pressures, they are desperate for love and desperate and will mistake compliments, as love . I know i was like this when young and older men behaved abominablly towards me , I can't believe I let it all go and often ended up with those creeps
Sadly so many red flags to the wife & Bobbi ... I don't understand why either put up with him .. Except they are both low self esteem and easily manipulated ...
The "Family Meeting" was hilarious. Nobody was fooled. Lol. Gotta give him credit for not panicking. Waltz right up, and introduced wifey to Bobbi. Mom n Dad looked happy. Lol. Wifey too! "Hi I'm your new Son n law and this is my wife"
Felt bad for Boddy at first but after she new what was goin on and still went along, taking the wife shopping and sneaking in lil hugs whn the wife back is turned my feelings changed.. talking bout am his wife after u find out he tried to kill his real wife but the wife jst as dumb 🙄
What an utter creep he was!! Vile to his wife, (and in front of their friends), picked a fight so he had the excuse to leave and go and meet his love interest. The way he took control of her right from the start, was chilling. A beautiful young girl, with low self esteem and no confidence, suffocated at home by her overbearing parents- so easily fell for him. It's hard to believe she allowed him to marry her knowing he was already married!!!
Never mess around with a married man, period! I dated a guy that was "legally separated". Yeah, what a bunch of b.s. that was. He was EXACTLY like the monster in this movie. Luckily, I found out he was a narcissistic sociopath that was married to a wonderful woman. Lying to me and emotionally abusing her! I ran soooo fast and never saw that loser again! Btw; his beautiful wife divorced his sorry a** and met a good man at church and married him; we are now friends! Happy ending.😁🌈
Check out how the character says is a shame the flower fades. Most men pick the same just a younger model when in their 40s due to fearing death and getting old.
His wife is so sweet l can't stand him and she wants love and she deserves to be happy at least he could be honest and tell her get q divorce so she can meet somebody and be happy too
The fact that the wife & Josie/Bobbi resemble each other (in my opinion, it’s something you kinda notice if you look long and hard enough). Not just the blonde hair, but in the face.. maybe it’s the eyes. I’ve never noticed that before.
Nothing to with the color of their hair. 😂😂😂 They are just very very desperate, A bit stupid, and wayyyy to submissive to the wrong man. They had no type of self- worth.
The abuser in this film yells at his wife when he is the wrong to divert her attention from attacking to defensive. A common trick of the narc. See tube for steps of a narc abuser.
43:30 "We just can't have this kind of problem here, we're gonna have to let you go" Lmao, oh yea, can't have such a scandal at the laundry warehouse 🤣🤣😂😂
Notice first something small, then flattery, then lie promises person wants to hear, then physical petting, next more petting and some pretext to take off clothing in private place. Then social interactions, then lies found out. Then blame others, offer golden nugget maybe marriage or money or success or position. Then derogratory remarks, then physical arm grabbing and hitting, then containment by making other lose job and drive away family and friends and always promising better to get what narc wants. A gradual process to destroy other person while fulfilling abusers wishes.
@@kittyk.klandasions7008 of course not...tough role to get the emotions right.. many women are in that situation and planning and timming are essential to escape injury or death. Sorry you dont agree but I thouhjt she did a good job.
That’s one of the guys you’re parents pray that you never ever meet he was preying on her since the moment he saw her and starts with his wife just so he can sneak out out to be with her ughhhhh he’s so sick 😩😠
Agree!He was excellent in the movies "easy prey" and "someone she knows" ,where he plays the bad guy.He also appears with his wife Delta Burke in "going for broke" ,where he`s the supportive husband of his wife`s gambling addiction.
Peggy Lipton (the wife here) considered the cool, hot hippie girl back in the day on Mod Squad. I’ll bet millennials never heard of her. She’s still beautiful here. Wish she kept her long hair tho.
Actually the psychology of narcissism is that they have a poor self image and low self esteem and feel worthless. They need to dominate to feel better about self.
I’m not sure which is stranger, that some creeps actually try this stuff and get away with it, or that some people actually go for it.... 2 reasons might be.... because he wants what he’s can’t have, and she wants what someone else has. It’s another reason I’m skeptical marriage. Because, so many people do it for the wrong reasons and wind up wishing for someone else🦉
It is an interesting film to see and learn from male behavior. The wife and girlfriend do play some interesting roles, sad, funny and naive at moments. It feels good when he is caught by the Police. It is an entertaining story.
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I was married to a narcissist, he just knew what to say or do to impress me. I lost everything, my home and almost my life. Thank God for helping me get away from him.
Thank God indeed ❤Jess,
I got away early.
Me too
My mom also almost lost her life due to my biological father. Thank God helped her get away from him. Today we live a good life without him in it.
I can relate. Took me 14 years but i finally left
He is a narcissist
a psychopath. They turn everything around to blame the other person. This movie is more reality that what people think.
Bingo. Glad other people recognize that.
He is jelousy and are cruelty
I have a daughter like it
Gonna check it out.
@@818izeUnaFlor Allrighty Then
No cell phones, no social media, no surveillance cameras, no internet used in this great movie. And it's nice not to hear vulgar language.
Agreed - on all points.
He called his wife a "bitch" in one scene lol.
Totally agree 👍💯
I so agree. No vulgar language.Its so refreshing to see and hear a movie that’s worth it.Movies now a days if there’s no vulgar language,sex, intimate body parts etc,etc, it’s no good . People really enjoy that kind of stuff.😣😖
Those were the golden days, we should try and get them back.
This was one of my favorites 💓💓💓, I wish that Lifetime was still making movies like this. The good ole days !!!!
Their movies now are HORRIBLE and predictable. Even the ones based on true stories. All sexual, stalker, demented, juvenile, just awful.😔
I AGREE!!! Lifetime movies have really gone down the shitter!!! I used to watch lifetime religiously, and I always looked forward to a new movie every night! Now its horrible. The new movies have horrible actors!!!
me too the true story movies are the best!
@@Guidette_Barbie They are starting to put good actors now .. Christina Ricci did one with life time she was great. You should check it out.
@The Unsinkable Molly Brown Hi., thank u I sure will, they had the best movies back then.
This is one good reason why a father should show his daughter what it really means to be loved so she doesn't end up settling for less
Truth !!
It makes the difference between happiness & unhappiness, and tragically, in this case, between life & death.
Yes!
Some daughters dont have good fathers unfortunately, or bad childhoods or undiagnosed autism there are many factors
Settling for less or sellin some ass
@lukeallan8876 Too sheltered or shy can cause problems too.
I give this 5 stars. I saw this back in the 90"s and have always liked it.
This was really good. He really took advantage of that young girl. I only watch the lifetime movies from the 90s cause the acting was so much better, And the story line was more real cause a lot of them based on real life stories.
Exactly 💯
Agreed! He was awesome in this. He was In a few episodes of touched by an Angel also.
What's good about a young girl being taken advantage of???
What I don't get is he failed an attempt on his wife's life but goes back all out on the girlfriend aka secret wife by putting a hit out on her.
@@mwhitehall889 He said the quality of the movie is good.
Thanks for sharing , enjoyed this .Great quality too .The older films are so much better than current , my preferred option .
The moment I saw him introduce his wife to his mistress, I knew this film was going to be crazy 😂
Right?! The complete audacity of the prick
Yes
Oooh
And then the film really went wild - shortly thereafter - at the fireworks; when he started touching Bobby, after laying down next to her, while at the same time caressing his wife... 😅
It’s even crazier that it actually happened!!!
That dear sweet lady, his real wife, didn't deserve to be treated that way. 😢
He really knows how to find women with low self esteems so he has control, I have always loved the older lifetime movies
Why he are finds women with low self esteems ?
They're easy targets for big bad wolves.
He needs someone Like Betty Broderick
They know what to look for. A strong women wouldn't interest him.
@clayclabaugh5573 They don't interest me either. Some men like a challenge I don't 😊. I'm not mean either😊.
There are soooo many men like that around. And unfortunately so many beautiful young women who have no understanding of their own worth and value. After 2 failed marriages to narcissistic, abusive men, I've finally learnt that my identity is found in Christ. My value and worth come from him. This is a demonic spirit that seeks to destroy women because Satan hates us with a passion. There was a time when I really thought that I needed that approval and "love" of a man, but now, unless Jesus is his standard, and 1st place in his life, I'm absolutely not interested. Ladies, don't be desperate, you are throwing your pearls to pigs, and you will suffer terribly for it.
100% true!
Very well said 2 failed marriages 1 was a cheater and the other was abuser while I was 81/2 months pregnant I almost died and also my child now it's GODS IS FIRST ONLY
@NE POWERS Thankyou so much, you too ❣️
I can understand what u mean I was married to one over 40 years and six grown children going trough a nasty divorce now it’s been 2 years I pray it ends soon narcs hate👿🤮💯
@@voulapetrakos7508 That's horrible. But the fact that you are getting out now is huge. God bless you and I hope you will draw on The Lord for strength xx ❣️
These movies was way better then the TV movies today
I love this guy as an actor he always makes me laugh. When Bobby asked him how do you know so much I said out loud to myself that's because he's 60 😂😂😂
🙏🤣🤣😅👍🤦‼️🤣🤣
he was not 60 he was 48. Thats not old ffs
A L it's called sarcasm 🙄
I said the same thing... 😂😂😂
48 is only 12 short of 60. Dude was an old creeper dude.
Based on the real life story of Ronald Harnois. The girl in this movie, Bobbi, was based on Tammy Petrin. At the time of this movie, it states that Bobbi's murder was unsolved. As of 2000 Ronald was found guilty of Tammy's murder. Had had contacted Steve Wilson to commit the murder who also shot the janitor Jenner Villeda. Steve died before he could be charged. Ronald is serving multiple life sentences for murder and attempted murder, conspiracy to commit murder, aiding and abetting, bigamy, possession of a bomb and fourth degree arson. 3 life sentences 1 without parole + 10 years for the conspiracy.
Really nice guy. 🙄
The way he made her apologize to his mistress was degrading. And the Wife slow ass hell cause I wouldn’t have apologized to her to make him happy. She should have known something right there.
The spouse was still trying to salvage marriage. Hard to believe the person she married was a monster. That means she married a monster. People have a hard time accepting they were duped. Notice how long she has been married to him in the movie, ten years.
Yes, that scene was painful.
This movie, very well acted.
Stop just blaming the wife….Bobby was ridiculously naive as well. I get she was young, but good lord
Never understand why women take that abuse just one outburst would be gone. By staying you give them power which inflates their ego they become worse. Just pack your bags and leave.
Totally agree!!! 💯💯💯 😢 He was a severe abuser, dangerous and unfortunately she was under the statistics of high rate of domestic murder in this country. There were obvious signs but both of these ladies were fools to continue to not go against him. Ridiculous!!! Luckily God gave the poor wife strength to have him convicted in the end. Moral of the story, stay away from young women if your married and avoid married individuals!!! The mistress bothered me because she continued to protect him even after knowing he tried to kill his wife. That should have gave me alarm bells, along with the abuse but she was young & very dumb & callous. True story about Tammy Petrin. The movie is a little different and they changed some stuff around.
I remember watching this with my mother in 1994. I was 14 and a total loaner. Didn’t really believe there were really men like this in the world. Fast forward almost 30 years later, And i had two narcissist boyfriends. The toll of hell that they put you through, and then you think everything is all your fault. Don’t let it get to where you are so unhappy and lose who you are and then not care if they would just kill u
I was 14 in 1994 as well and I totally get what your saying
If you were with 2 narcisist and are mentally ok today you have made a huge accomplishment
I’m sorry sweetie. I hope things are better now.
Gerald McRainey is so handsome ❤
Not at all easy to escape from controlling, manipulating individuals. They do not let go of their targets without a drawn-out battle. No way really to not lose who one was before encountering them... Like an unremovable thorn in the flesh, memories of their presence lingers indefinitely.
Josie Bisset is an amazing actress . It's a good cast all round. Good movie.
Right. Nothing like her character on Melrose Place!
@@fwdthinker were Melrose was a cheap soap but it was good.
She was also in an episode of law n order svu
Josie Bissett was good and so was Gerald McCraney. She's very beautiful and he's been married for some 35 yrs to actress Delta Burke which is really nice to know.
I wonder how she feels about her husband making out with this girl ? Delta must be a very strong, confident woman.
I don't think I could deal with it. It wouldn't feel right to me to have my husband being intimate even if it was just acting.
I have watched this movie a couple of times and it never seems to bore me
Agreed its so crazy how he manipulates the two women. He wasn't even a good looking man.
This movie is very entertaining
Nelly---I thought it was just me lol It is one of those movies that are unforgettable...like Unfaithful, A Simple plan, Basic Instinct, Malice etc. All brilliant films.......
hope not.... i was about to turn it off after about 15 mins coz i found it so unbelievable she could fall fer him
@@queeng5925 he was charming and she was a shy girl who had never seen any boy or man attracted to her. So it was easy for her to fall in love with him.
This wife was so sweet, loving, seem so submissive and he was so unsatisfied, narcissist man was refusing to mentally grow up. I hope this woman found her peace after him going to jail. Ungrateful man. This movie was so good.
You are mistaken.That man was 100 % psychophat.Killer,abuser,obvious mental case.Uncurable case.Nothing to do with ''refusing to mentally grow up''.
@@bobanristic8721 he didn’t want to grow up.. he wanted his wife to remain that young “Bobby” is why he dated someone who remind him of a young hot version of his wife. He never killed before as far as I’m concern. He moved the table with his feet huffing and puffing instead of just communicating with his wife like an adult. He knew exactly what he was doing was wrong he just wanted to have his way without it having to cost him much.
@@Lovingitjuju The women who try to understand,analize and change obvious psychopath usually end up as their victims.He was even bragging in jail about his evil deeds which just confirmed his mental illness. Lack of empathy is one of the main signs that you are involved with psychopath.
@@bobanristic8721 yeah your reading my comments very wrong. I have not sympathized with him AT ALL. All I basically called him was immature, ungrateful, foolish and whatever else I seen from watching a movie. I didn’t watch a real documentary on him I’m stating my opinions based off a movie from certain scenes that stood out to me . Your the one digging a bit too deep into someone opinion off a movie. He planned to kill his wife and got Bobby along with another young man killed, I am far from disagreeing with you.
Ikr. I always wanted to know what happened to the wife after she walked out of the courthouse with her head held high.
When your man starts to be unnecessarily mean to you….end the relationship and get a restraining order…no questions asked.
Way to way the court's time. A restraining order because a man is "mean." 🥴 just leave without all the drama.
Restraining order cause he’s mean to you , that’s evil. Your sick and I hope the person your in a relationship with knows your twisted opinion on the matter.
A restraining order doesn’t stop them from hurting you.
The only thing happens, they get punished after the fact.
Yeah, let's bog down the system w/frivolous legal proceedings because someone's been mean to you...good grief, does that fall under the "emotional abuse" category?🙄Why have some adults become such babies?
This movie is Crazy😂🤣
low self esteem can make the smartest, richest, and most beautiful women make the most stupid decisions.. emotions can truly debilitate you ...
What a bizzare code of ethics that predator/narcissist Tom had.
Felt bad for Bobbi, she just needed attention. Unfortunately, she met the wrong guy. 🚩 😕
*Great movie Thanks for sharing!*
He started verbally abusing her and talking to her any kind of way eventually too like he did Nancy. She should've known that if he treated Nancy that way simply because he was bored with her, he would've did the same thing to Bobbi, which was slowly already starting to happen when she tried to follow him into the payphone.
90s are the best movies 😊
When a man start picking fights with you and all you doing is sitting there breathing just know he cheating. He making excuses to be mad at you and start a fight so he can leave the house and go see the mistress. Just like he did in 18:06. That is your cue to leave his butt.
She's a younger version of his wife. His wife knows but refuses to accept it.
Are you saying his wife is as dumb & stupid like Bobbi? I do agree.
That is kind of what I was thinking. The fire of his wife and him when they were young has become a dying ember and they are slowly realizing it. Him more than her.
Why the wife are refusing to accept the truth ?
Yes, I dont understand why and the way he is treating her. 🤔
I @GregSticker I thought that too.
This man is a narcissist in the truest sense of the word. Controlling everybody and everything. Gerald McRaney is an exceptional actor and Peggy Lipton is beautiful as always. Watch this movie. It is worth your time.
@Karey Godwin ~ Thanks for the heads up.
I'm going to watch!
Loved it 🥰
This is a grade A sociopath. Should be educational material for psychologists. Whoever would reject Peggy Lipton is crazy.
Why man are narcissist ?
Great actors and realistic storyline 👏
Good lord..as a woman these two female characters terrify me. This weakness of the mind is just .. how? How does this happen? The way these two are committed to their convictions.. sad thing is I see this in some of my friends and family. Not this bad, but just denial and hanging on when letting go is not only best but easier life wise. 😩God please protect my mind!
Why people are weakness of the mind ?
I don’t think it’s the mind as much as the heart. When you’re in love you see what you want to see, no matter how idiotic. As soon as she found out he lied about being married, the first thought should have been, ‘someday he’ll do the same thing to me.’
@@seer1623 If he can Jelousy to his wife... Also he can Jelousy to her
The normal lifestyle of Mormon women, is to appreciate and openly welcome new sister wives - of all ages. Find it totally bizarre how they are able to convince themselves of their own superiority, since they apparently are not jealous of one another... How is this even possible? 🧐😅
yes this is bad!
I love Delta Burke and Gerald McRaney so much!
They're my favorite celebrities ever!
I hope I meet them soon.
Me too
I was uncomfortable throughout this whole movie. It’s outdated and quite a slow burn, but definitely worth the watch. Good acting from all of them. Disturbing that this is a true story, wasn’t expecting that ending
IS called Grooming now. Gradual seduction of the young, forlorn, innocent.
@Evan Hodge I actually meant “outdated” as in you can tell it’s an old movie, it’s not modern or something that would get a lot of attention to watch today. Nothing to do with the message in the movie.
It's better than the movies now it was reflecting reality
I read that often the creator of the movies will claim the story is true, when it isn't at all. It just seems to generate more revenue. I really hope this one isn't true either.
@@jacquelinemarie1078it's a true story, the other "wife" in real life name was Tammy petrin
Think one of the things a narcissist is good at is stripping away a person’s confidence until they feel utterly worthless. It can take a long time to recover from the effects of narcissistic abuse, but you CAN come out the other side stronger, wiser and able to love the beautiful person you are again x
Theirs absolutely no way I would apologize if i came home and my husband was in my house with another woman. Idk how she doesn't see he's cheating
There's (There is)
That was wild my first thought is who dis women in my house next if it ain’t a relative you need to leave
Why are the wife apologising ?
Spouse has groomed her over ten years. She needs therapy. Spouse made her doubt her self by saying misheard or crazy or ??? A common tactic of groomers and warped people.
Yeah gaslighting@@jackfrosty4674
She's like a younger version of his wife..just twenty-five years younger..
He definitely has a type,plain jane. They're both so dull
Both smoking hot. Gorgeous
@@ieattoesforaliving_ - You need to have your eyes checked!
I was thinking the same thing.
I think the ending of this is sad. My older brother resembled Gerald McRaeny during his Simon and Simon days.
Holy s***, only in five minutes and this brings back everything about my first relationship with an older man. When he tracked her down when she was walking on the sidewalk I just wanted to scream RUN GIRL!!! Bless her heart. If only younger people had the life experience to realise this is not flattering, it is controlling and stalkery and clearly shows signs of an abusive and probably crased man. Not sure I can get through this. I think I've already lived this.... We'll see.
@Memin, I was thinking the same.... FLEE from the pervert. I know I would have
How can the wife be so naive? Anyway, thank God she testified finally and put him behind bars! But felt sorry for the young girl whose life was snuffed out too soon.
Wife was scare of the husband she played along he put fear in her. The young girl was not smart believe anything someone tells her but the parents never talk to her about life it sad. Tom is narctassic he get 20 years but he going to do it again.
Spoilers much?!
Hi RekhazLagali
Hi
Trauma bonding.
90's Lifetime movies are the best
Ronald Harnois (Tom Weston) was convicted and now serving a twenty year sentence for the attempted murder of his first wife Joanne and three additional life sentences for the murder of his second wife Tammy Petrin (Bobbie Gilbert) and the murder of her co worker.
Do you know when this actually happened?
@@kimberlyelliott7933 you can look up the story. It's real and it says it's based on a true story
Yea and the real guy here and Bobby didn’t look anything like these two plating them. They were ugly af!!
@@kimberlyelliott7933The murders were in '91 but he wasn't convicted until 2000. It all happened in Rhode Island.
I Love this Movie I remember it from years ago, actually I Love All the old Lifetime Movies so much better then today's Lifetime movies!!! Much better Acting as well!!!
The wife is pretty smh he treated her terribly.
Why are treating the wife terribly ?
What is SMH??
SMH are shaking my head
Peggy Lipton❤
I have to agree about the quality & acting of 80’s & 90’s Lifetime films
Even the product and the Quality of houses those years are very good😂Now a days are all Shit💩😂
No matter what you always reap what you sow. Your intentions and actions to others harvests a life of happiness or sadness.
Poor girl. She's so inexperienced and vulnerable, she would have fallen for ANYONE.
And anything.
I think we all go thru that sometimes. 🫤😐
His wife as well... she was super sweet and kind to him...
Its clear he is a bully(Narc),he targets kind gentle innocent pure hearts💕
Run them down to make himself better ...
After awhile you light yourself on fire to keep them warm.
I believe it's really demonic at its root. They all act the same way, they're all dishonest and nasty. They don't care about anyone else's needs or desires.
The worst part is the Jekyll and Hyde business. You never know who you're dealing with.
Was with a narc 12; yrs not knowing what one was
Red flags everywhere
His own wife a victim of yrs abuse
Sicko
4th July what a idiot
Wow
Af
Narc
Better believe, I WILL
WATCH this AGAIN!😁
This is your reminder 😂to watch it again
It only gets better and better!!
What amaze me is how calmly and perfectly he comes up with all his lies and manipulations 😂
Right like wow he’s quick lol
He's a natural it's scary
I'm married to one I'm truckers wife ....my son believes his lies
He moved away I miss ny boy.
@@supertrucker99 I pray your son is safe wherever he is and he comes back home that you may find some comfort& peace of...
May you workout your family situation...
Typical sociopath.
1st sign he's cheating: he won't let you take his clothes off. My hubby would smile ear to ear if I tries to undress him😂
Yea mine too!!😂😂
I get the impression that Bobbi was a little slow / not the full dollar aside from being young. And to top it all that monster looks like he's having a nice time in prison acting like he's boss and showing off , talking to all his buddies there about her..
Same. Thought perhaps her IQ was on the low side...something...
This movie reminds me of the time I went to see my boyfriend at his house - unannounced, something I had never done before. I was surprised to find cars surrounding the house and all over the driveway. There was a party going on, a party I knew nothing about. I knocked on the door and my boyfriend, along with a cute blonde came to the door. He didn't look so good when he saw me and didn't open the door, but said hi to me through the open screen. The cute blond went back to the party and he eventually told me that he had been seeing said blond for two years. He had mentioned her by name and other 'friends' all the time, a neat trick and really despicable. He went on to marry her, she divorced him in no time and he married someone else, had children he didn't want with her and continued to cheat on her, at first with his employer's daughter and many other women. Unfortunately I met another creep. Once again I went to his house early on a Saturday morning with breakfast, because we would not have an opportunity to see each other for a few days. I knocked on the door, rang the bell and got no answer. I waited and rang the bell again while looking through the window in the front door. I was in time to see my boyfriend, wearing nothing but grey underwear, duck into the kitchen. I rang the bell and knocked on the door non stop then. This time I saw a blond woman come downstairs from the bedroom and head into the kitchen. I could see her but not my boyfriend. She looked mad, and kept pointing to the door and waving her hands around. He called me later to ask me if I had come to see him, that he thought he had heard the doorbell but wasn't sure. A really bad liar. When I mentioned the blond he said, "Oh yeah, she's just a neighbor who dropped by." Like I said, a really bad liar. No wonder I prefer dogs now.
Cats and dogs are the best people.
Never go to anyone's house unnanounced. I learned that's bad. I don't like anyone coming to my house unannounced either for different reasons. I just like to know whose coming and when:)
George one I hope you are over all the 🐕 💩 now!!
Cats and dogs definitely better than an abusive partner!!!!!
So sad from your story but all men not same,there still sincere ones
It's really sad that he took advantage of both these women but Bobbi soon turned to be as deceptive as he was. The way she behaved with the wife shows that she was willing to do anything - which is not a great standard at all regardless of whether she was just a lonely girl to begin with.
He should have gotten natural life in prison without parole, and hard labour. He didn't know the meaning of love, just lust.
Like most men
One of the 1st signs of a cheating man is him picking fights out of nowhere about absolutely nothing then storming out of the house.
When he was made, he skipped the brain line and went thru the Balls line twice. Lol.
Performances by leading actors excellent.
This is what a midlife crises is .This man is looking at his life as a burden .Not knowing he has everything he needs .A good wife whom loves him .Dedicated friends honest job .Still ain’t happy .He needs to feel young and by doing so he manipulates this young girl.Gets what he wants marry her while still being married which is sick .And even plans to kill his wife with her participation. At the end he treated her like trash too.He made her into his prize possession like eye candy on his arm to feed his ego ..This man is a representation of a man you want to dodge and stay far away from asap
Bobbi should've had the mindset "If Tom tried to kill Nancy, he would've done the same to me once he got bored with me." Common sense would've saved her life Ultimately. I wonder what happened to Nancy after she testified against Tom.
Well said!!
🤮🤮🤮....how do young women get taken in by slime buckets like this??
Just the fact he had his choice of lipstick ready and applied it himself, before that ludicrous wedding ceremony turned my stomach . 😖
Due to childhood trauma or lack of self-esteem in their beautiful looks because of society's pressures, they are desperate for love and desperate and will mistake compliments, as love . I know i was like this when young and older men behaved abominablly towards me , I can't believe I let it all go and often ended up with those creeps
Thanks for the upload 🇦🇺🦘
Sadly so many red flags to the wife & Bobbi ... I don't understand why either put up with him ..
Except they are both low self esteem and easily manipulated ...
Hi Bibbi
This is so heartbreaking how lonely lovely naive girls are taken advantage of. We need to educate them about preying men.
Sickening hard to watch
Good 90's movie, thanks for the upload
The "Family Meeting" was hilarious. Nobody was fooled. Lol. Gotta give him credit for not panicking. Waltz right up, and introduced wifey to Bobbi. Mom n Dad looked happy. Lol. Wifey too! "Hi I'm your new Son n law and this is my wife"
😂😂😂
Gross cheater
This is a crazy dysfunctional movie ..cheaters are mentally ill.
Lol!!!!!
Felt bad for Boddy at first but after she new what was goin on and still went along, taking the wife shopping and sneaking in lil hugs whn the wife back is turned my feelings changed.. talking bout am his wife after u find out he tried to kill his real wife but the wife jst as dumb 🙄
Exactly
She played herself 😂😂😂
What an utter creep he was!! Vile to his wife, (and in front of their friends), picked a fight so he had the excuse to leave and go and meet his love interest. The way he took control of her right from the start, was chilling. A beautiful young girl, with low self esteem and no confidence, suffocated at home by her overbearing parents- so easily fell for him. It's hard to believe she allowed him to marry her knowing he was already married!!!
Thanks to The Archive TV for a wicked good movie 🎦
Good movie great acting Never mess with a married unhappy man
Never mess around with a married man, period! I dated a guy that was "legally separated". Yeah, what a bunch of b.s. that was. He was EXACTLY like the monster in this movie. Luckily, I found out he was a narcissistic sociopath that was married to a wonderful woman. Lying to me and emotionally abusing her! I ran soooo fast and never saw that loser again! Btw; his beautiful wife divorced his sorry a** and met a good man at church and married him; we are now friends! Happy ending.😁🌈
How did she know he was married. How about if your married don't date nobody but your spouse.
Stop putto g the blame on the single person it's the spouse that's the problem.
This only gets better everytime you watch it.
Anyone else think Bobbi (Josie Bissett) looks like a younger version of his wife (Peggy Lipton)?
Check out how the character says is a shame the flower fades. Most men pick the same just a younger model when in their 40s due to fearing death and getting old.
@@jackfrosty4674 Example, John Derek leaving his wife Linda Evans for 16 year old Bo Derek.
Yup 😊😊😊😊😊😊
His wife is so sweet l can't stand him and she wants love and she deserves to be happy at least he could be honest and tell her get q divorce so she can meet somebody and be happy too
Those type males just always have to snare something to fall back on. Cowards to be on their own ! Midlife crisis nonsense. Males need to grow up.
Yeah in real life he's such a sweetheart but in this movie he's a great psychopath!!!
@@kimberlyelliott7933 Yes he plays a very good role
In real life he was after the life insurance.
I always ❤️Ed Peggy in The Mod Squad , such a fabulous actress she always been , R.I.P beautiful Miss Lipton ❤️🙏
Yea and she was married to Quincy Jones for long time.
Josie Bissett is great in this! Gerald McRaney is great in everything I've seen him in.
After someone broke into Bobby's bedroom the detective should have placed her into protective custody.
Why are breaking into Bobby's bedroom ?
@@donaldknowles9640 Tom sent him to Bobbi's house to kill her but her father caught the guy in the act of trying to break in.
This is one of my all time favorite movies, love it classic
Extraordinary
@@brendaatugonza3932Fact's
Great movie from the 90's ... awesome actors
The fact that the wife & Josie/Bobbi resemble each other (in my opinion, it’s something you kinda notice if you look long and hard enough). Not just the blonde hair, but in the face.. maybe it’s the eyes. I’ve never noticed that before.
Absolutely….casting did a great job. Bobby’s a younger version of his wife. Blonde, naive, submissive, & head over heels in love with him.
Those two are the most gulible charectors i’ve seen in stories like these. Specially the mistress. Talk about living in a fantasy world.
They're blondes, darling.
Nothing to with the color of their hair. 😂😂😂
They are just very very desperate, A bit stupid, and wayyyy to submissive to the wrong man. They had no type of self- worth.
An amazing story and a great movie, thank you.
Hi Guy
The poor girl, this was such a lie. How can you be married to someone who doesn't exist!
Great actors.
The abuser in this film yells at his wife when he is the wrong to divert her attention from attacking to defensive. A common trick of the narc. See tube for steps of a narc abuser.
Poor girl? She was a home wrecking whore who knew he was married.
43:30 "We just can't have this kind of problem here, we're gonna have to let you go" Lmao, oh yea, can't have such a scandal at the laundry warehouse 🤣🤣😂😂
I wouldn't be surprised if every coworker went to management and said they would quit if they had to work alongside her. I would have.
@@memom2227 🤣💀
I mean it's her own fault anyways. She should've stopped dealing with Tom the moment she found out he was still married.
Just back from doctors! Gona lay down and watch this movie once again!😃
Vivian....me too lol seen it about 3x
@@fjones
😂😁😂
@@fjones 😂😁😂
I thought I was the only one who watches these 90s lifetimes movies more than once
@@christines1821 no! I di also Christine!😃
Quite a movie. Peggy Lipton did a masterful job. Gerald Mc Raney was scary in this movie. Movie made me very angry in many scenes. Too true to life.
Notice first something small, then flattery, then lie promises person wants to hear, then physical petting, next more petting and some pretext to take off clothing in private place.
Then social interactions, then lies found out. Then blame others, offer golden nugget maybe marriage or money or success or position. Then derogratory remarks, then physical arm grabbing and hitting, then containment by making other lose job and drive away family and friends and always promising better to get what narc wants. A gradual process to destroy other person while fulfilling abusers wishes.
What... at being a Doormat! ???
@@kittyk.klandasions7008 of course not...tough role to get the emotions right.. many women are in that situation and planning and timming are essential to escape injury or death. Sorry you dont agree but I thouhjt she did a good job.
This is a true story!
I did not realise this movie was based on a true story until the end.🤯
That’s one of the guys you’re parents pray that you never ever meet he was preying on her since the moment he saw her and starts with his wife just so he can sneak out out to be with her ughhhhh he’s so sick 😩😠
The only person I am feeling sorry for is his real wife. Poor woman.
Same here. She tried, she really did.
Josie Bissett!!! love her! I had no idea about this movie. gotta love the clothes. what a find!
I cant beleive how dumb the wife was. He was so emotionally abusive towards her.
I'm just glad she finally realized her worth in the end and testified against him.
Why didn’t his wife leave him…She was living in misery and being humiliated.
She eventually did leave him in the end.
I hated how verbally abusive he was to her. He should've just left if he was that unhappy.
I've had a lot of coworkers tell me how miserable they are, complain all the time and yet they stay with the husband. I don't get it.
and she was so lovely.
@@skygazer6898 the actress was lovely. We do t know what the real people looked like
Yes, a narcissist. They are very dangerous people. Lifetime doesn't make good movies anymore. Love this actor.
I don't understand 😕 why can't people just get a divorce 😕 😒
This guy is an Amazing actor! He plays both good and bad.. I've seen him play good on touched by an Angel..
Agree!He was excellent in the movies "easy prey" and "someone she knows" ,where he plays the bad guy.He also appears with his wife Delta Burke in "going for broke" ,where he`s the supportive husband of his wife`s gambling addiction.
He wasn't acting 🤷🏿♀️
16:11 he clearly was trying to start an argument just to get out the house to go see that young lady
Exactly. He started verbally abusing Bobbi later too when she thought he was gonna get a car. How you get someone is how you lose them.
Peggy Lipton (the wife here) considered the cool, hot hippie girl back in the day on Mod Squad. I’ll bet millennials never heard of her. She’s still beautiful here. Wish she kept her long hair tho.
Why she are cutting her long hair ?
I remember her...I was a teen, and watched a few episodes.
I know who she is. She was also on twin peaks
The only person he loved is himself.
Also he loved to jelous
yes definitely.
@@stevensgirl85 also he are anger , full of jelous and are very cruelty
Actually the psychology of narcissism is that they have a poor self image and low self esteem and feel worthless. They need to dominate to feel better about self.
@@jackfrosty4674 also narcissistic people have got a jelous and are need to control
Women need to stop this nonsense of falling for married men!
Men need to also.
@@jackfrosty4674 true .. for a movie where men are falling for married women.
It’s not always that easy… speaking from experience, when I was in my early twenties, now in my fifties and still have regret😔😔
I’m not sure which is stranger, that some creeps actually try this stuff and get away with it, or that some people actually go for it.... 2 reasons might be.... because he wants what he’s can’t have, and she wants what someone else has. It’s another reason I’m skeptical marriage. Because, so many people do it for the wrong reasons and wind up wishing for someone else🦉
It is an interesting film to see and learn from male behavior. The wife and girlfriend do play some interesting roles, sad, funny and naive at moments. It feels good when he is caught by the Police. It is an entertaining story.
It's a true story unfortunately 😕
Peggy Lipton one of my favorite actresses!
So yall don't see Bobbi gagging everytime they kiss? LMFAOOOOO
How does she kiss him ? He are Jelousy and anger and are cruelty
I first saw this in 1995. I forgot all about it. The man who played the greedy and manipulative husband is a great actor.
He took advantage of her because she didn’t know any better
Life with a narcissist is pure hell
She raised in the house with both parents and still was acting like a fatherless girl. Her father was not on his JOB
That just goes to show u having two parents don't exempt you from being played
Tom was so tame, he literally went and sit beside his mistress with his wife!! I bet he was born June a total Gemini ♊
Lol Gemini 😂😂
Totally Gemini movements@@yvonnestaley3564