Exes: Is This Our Last Conversation Ever? | {THE AND} Annalisa & Jeron

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  • Опубликовано: 3 авг 2021
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    Exes Annalisa and Jeron enter {THE AND} space and see each other for the first time since the couple broke up. The two talk about how they got to the space they are in and the forgiveness they have achieved. Annalisa and Jeron discuss if their past, present, and if they will have a future.
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    DIRECTOR | Nick D'Agostino
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    WITH THE PARTICIPATION OF | Annalisa & Jeron
    Exes: Is This Our Last Conversation Ever? {THE AND} Annalisa & Jeron
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Комментарии • 3 тыс.

  • @KJ-ge9jx
    @KJ-ge9jx 2 года назад +2591

    When He said “I miss you everyday” The tearsss the tearssss 😪

  • @nyabea03
    @nyabea03 2 года назад +2225

    “Sometimes I wanna ask you how you are but I don’t because .. I just don’t. I just feel like it’ll draw me in, in a way”. I’ve never felt something more seriously, shit hurts like hell knowing you love a person to death & can’t be with them because your sanity comes first. 😪

  • @TynishaTalks
    @TynishaTalks Год назад +728

    “I miss you everyday. Most days. All days.”
    Wow, that broke my heart 🥺

    • @bawsnitti
      @bawsnitti 11 месяцев назад +7

      She broke his heart cheating and doing OF

    • @JosephineMaryo
      @JosephineMaryo 10 месяцев назад

      🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @Mikoexoh
      @Mikoexoh 10 месяцев назад

      Mine too

    • @bawsnitti
      @bawsnitti 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Mikoexoh but y'all don't care that she's stripping and doing OF

    • @Mikoexoh
      @Mikoexoh 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@bawsnitti what lol

  • @AbigaillOwusu
    @AbigaillOwusu 2 года назад +1215

    Although he has forgiven her, she hasn’t forgiven herself. This was so real and raw. Thank you the skin deep!

    • @luvhyroosje1155
      @luvhyroosje1155 11 месяцев назад +1

      What did she do?

    • @optimusprimevil1646
      @optimusprimevil1646 9 месяцев назад

      you have to get to accountability first

    • @rosegallus4048
      @rosegallus4048 3 месяца назад

      ​@@luvhyroosje1155Exact my curiosity because I've listened from start to the end but I'm not comprehending.
      Was there another episode before this?😊

    • @Swagbosses7
      @Swagbosses7 2 месяца назад

      Basically she cheated

  • @TonyGeeII
    @TonyGeeII 2 года назад +3198

    Shout out to her for the vulnerability and accountability.

    • @itsmeeenatalie
      @itsmeeenatalie 2 года назад +29

      I thought so to on both sides but she left him hang in the end for that last question! 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @monamariin750
      @monamariin750 2 года назад +9

      She is a strong person.

    • @cerenthugger
      @cerenthugger 2 года назад +14

      @@itsmeeenatalie yea she was wrong for this smh

    • @sumeya1923
      @sumeya1923 2 года назад +6

      @@cerenthugger maybe she felt uncomfortable w it

    • @dkvldz7224
      @dkvldz7224 2 года назад

      👍

  • @marieyellow6923
    @marieyellow6923 2 года назад +1386

    It sucks when u wanna love someone but u can't trust them bc they showed you they can't be trusted 💔 😔 😪 🤧 😕 😞 💔

  • @stuff1784
    @stuff1784 11 месяцев назад +128

    You couldn’t PAY ME to do one of these interviews with my ex!!!!
    I’m impressed how these people get together and do this. 😵‍💫

    • @Izzymeyokee1
      @Izzymeyokee1 10 месяцев назад +8

      I have some ex's. I believe I need to hear the truth.

    • @mariabh1274
      @mariabh1274 4 месяца назад

      My god YES!

    • @Ff-gl1nb
      @Ff-gl1nb 3 месяца назад

      @@Izzymeyokee1you think you do but you don’t. Trust

  • @NaidaAri
    @NaidaAri 2 года назад +1081

    Someone once told me “love isn’t enough”. Boy was that person right! My ex and I loved each other so much but we had a lot of issues. There was a point when we were fighting every single day. Like them, we had a mediator (well, a couple of mediators, different times). Our relationship was still not salvageable. I wish we had a chance to talk like this. Unfortunately, he passed away 3 years ago. I didn’t get the chance to tell him that I loved him. I eventually forgave him. I miss him so much, it hurts. Oh what I would do/give to be able to tell him I forgive in person and tell him how much I loved him?!

    • @KevinSmith-xt8xr
      @KevinSmith-xt8xr 2 года назад +36

      😔 My Condolences

    • @tiny_k738
      @tiny_k738 2 года назад +25

      I'm so sorry. Take comfort in the fact that you truly loved and had forgiven him.

    • @elises2074
      @elises2074 2 года назад +8

      My heart is so sorry for you

    • @NinaAngelina25
      @NinaAngelina25 Год назад +5

      So sorry for your loss 🥺

    • @florencezizo
      @florencezizo Год назад

      Love is truly not enough 🤷

  • @samsonmapiye8256
    @samsonmapiye8256 2 года назад +3484

    This guy's wall of indifference is top tier, he realized you can not change anyone no matter how you feel about them and he left her peacefully.

    • @BrandonCiCi
      @BrandonCiCi 2 года назад +37

      Well said! I agree!

    • @stacyraywebe1471
      @stacyraywebe1471 2 года назад +20

      very powerful loved it

    • @jrbugz761
      @jrbugz761 2 года назад +37

      Facts 💯
      She don't wanna be changed

    • @876me7
      @876me7 2 года назад +279

      He’s literally not indifferent. He said he misses her everyday and he even admitted he was about to cry at the end. He’s not indifferent at all. He was very open about his emotions and how difficult their break up has been for him. He simply just decided that they were on two different paths and that they could not be together. That is not indifference. Indifference would have been him pretending like he didn’t care.

    • @lolaispure4296
      @lolaispure4296 2 года назад +47

      @@876me7 indifference is acceptance in this case. Not that he doesnt care. If he didnt care he would not be their and it would hide suppressed feelings. He is balanced is his emotions. He is not all over the place, all the while remaining sensible.

  • @Sheisbrittanynichole
    @Sheisbrittanynichole 2 года назад +5249

    Wow, this right here was raw emotion. It just oozed from the screen. Most people on here are giving this man accolades, which he deserves. However, this young lady was equally vulnerable, brave and I love that she showed accountability for her mistakes which shows a lot of growth. I just want the best for both of them!!!

    • @fromthebottom1112
      @fromthebottom1112 2 года назад +147

      It's the mutual respect for me..

    • @08054765886
      @08054765886 2 года назад +92

      Mutual respect is something most folks can’t have bcos of childishness..

    • @postmacrohns
      @postmacrohns 2 года назад +81

      I agree completely. She really was brutally honest when it came to herself and her own shortcomings and that shows SO much maturity. They're both beautiful people who deserve the best that life can give them.

    • @shikita007
      @shikita007 2 года назад +45

      I just started watching and i low key hope they could've fixed it.

    • @tommyboyd2674
      @tommyboyd2674 2 года назад +31

      She is VERY rare, she was actually accountable 👍🏾🔥🔥🔥

  • @Ms19741979
    @Ms19741979 2 года назад +153

    I feel like he's going to be an amazing husband one day!

  • @rachel.shakira
    @rachel.shakira Год назад +215

    the fact that you can hear one of their heartbeats by the placement of their mics, idk why but it added such an aesthetic to this entire video. It just shows how much emotion impacted this conversation..

    • @judahlindsey1513
      @judahlindsey1513 11 месяцев назад +8

      Not even gonna lie. I didn't even know that the mic caught that until you said that. Good catch fr 💯

    • @aboubaro9751
      @aboubaro9751 11 месяцев назад +1

      @rachel.shakira now that you mentioned it, I can’t unhear it

    • @karaboisco4219
      @karaboisco4219 11 месяцев назад +2

      Where?

  • @Analena30
    @Analena30 2 года назад +481

    "I miss you every day"🥺

    • @lillymcintosh7114
      @lillymcintosh7114 2 года назад +31

      That shit hit me hard brooo 🥺🧡

    • @antiyanna537
      @antiyanna537 2 года назад +3

      My ex told me that too in person 4 months after our breakup… it crushed me..

    • @lauritagarza5400
      @lauritagarza5400 2 года назад +1

      I cried , I miss my x bf 😭😭😭😭

    • @hettygrant2040
      @hettygrant2040 2 года назад

      Wow! the honesty....

    • @mosval8985
      @mosval8985 2 года назад

      Drakes next album title

  • @anitashortz2554
    @anitashortz2554 2 года назад +238

    I love this. Real mature conversation. No one aired out anyone's dirty laundry. No one responded with shade. Just reflection and understanding. This is closure.

  • @hasandutton5498
    @hasandutton5498 2 года назад +85

    She’ll always regret not fighting harder for this relationship. Love is compromise and sacrifice something she wasn’t willing to do

    • @kimjackson9467
      @kimjackson9467 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes, she will forever miss the opportunity to compromise

  • @brandyfifer688
    @brandyfifer688 2 года назад +2813

    Oh. My. Gosh. He is so so so sweet and respectful to her, while maintaining his boundaries.

    • @monamariin750
      @monamariin750 2 года назад +22

      A real man😭😭😭

    • @yupdest7129
      @yupdest7129 2 года назад +26

      You can't go based off a video though

    • @xinahicks13
      @xinahicks13 2 года назад +14

      @@yupdest7129 you know they can put on a show

    • @msreeboo
      @msreeboo 2 года назад +1

      When Love was genuine...

    • @pickupretty6081
      @pickupretty6081 2 года назад +1

      I’m TELLING you 💜STILL HOPE

  • @Melmel1231
    @Melmel1231 2 года назад +1708

    She feels it- that feeling when u know you’ve lost a good thing but u can’t get it back. 🤦🏾‍♀️ love how they kept it private even tho this was public (we don’t know WHY they really broke up)

    • @serendipity1273
      @serendipity1273 2 года назад +19

      Right!!

    • @barracuda-s5r
      @barracuda-s5r 2 года назад +77

      She cheated with someone close with him

    • @UserIzzy-hhigs57gh6
      @UserIzzy-hhigs57gh6 2 года назад +89

      @@barracuda-s5r I don’t think that’s it

    • @Melmel1231
      @Melmel1231 2 года назад +122

      @@barracuda-s5r why was that your assumption? 😂 how did u get that from that? I honestly think she wasn’t in love with him as much as he was in love with her 🤷🏾‍♀️ it happens n when u go a find someone new u regret what u lost

    • @charliehinds700
      @charliehinds700 2 года назад +216

      It sounds like a stripper. She said she loves dancing..

  • @theresaodigie8330
    @theresaodigie8330 2 года назад +194

    She is so beautiful. Her smile is infectious and his vulnerability is admirable.

  • @catherinerobles3242
    @catherinerobles3242 11 месяцев назад +65

    They still truly love and respect each other and i love how soft spoken they are

  • @caronniceness1660
    @caronniceness1660 2 года назад +2619

    This brought tears to my eyes. I could see the love in his eyes. I commend him as a man for being able to express his emotions, and not keep them bottled inside by playing tough. He allowed himself to be volunerable, which is soo attractive in a mature man. He even got his sister involved to mediate the situation, as a last resort to salvage their relationship. He is a stand up guy. I like him.

    • @mpalmer7800
      @mpalmer7800 2 года назад +27

      That’s a good mommy’s son , she’s a beautiful girl. Pray someday love will bring her right back into his arms. They both are still young and definitely love each other❤️❤️

    • @forthepurposeofscience
      @forthepurposeofscience 2 года назад +5

      @@mpalmer7800I agree w/you. I believe with this couple together and with their love the whole world can be a better place❤️

    • @mmekon5209
      @mmekon5209 2 года назад +1

      Link up with him

    • @shaylawrice7056
      @shaylawrice7056 2 года назад +1

      Me too I drop a tear

    • @jenasaisquoi9202
      @jenasaisquoi9202 2 года назад +3

      I commend them both. She showed great maturity. I wish them both the best.

  • @Livetoworship1521
    @Livetoworship1521 2 года назад +2388

    It’s his smile, his confidence, his tone, his LIPS and his maturity for me!

    • @daghettogandhi8746
      @daghettogandhi8746 2 года назад +71

      He for sure sexy

    • @Dvinecreations7
      @Dvinecreations7 2 года назад +75

      @@daghettogandhi8746 Thank you for saying it!!! I’ve tried so hard to be respectful to their process ... however my Lordddd!!!!

    • @cllokki
      @cllokki 2 года назад +61

      HIS LIPS...!!!!!

    • @shonb989
      @shonb989 2 года назад +3

      @@Dvinecreations7 kmsl!!!!!

    • @lindalatouche8728
      @lindalatouche8728 2 года назад +3

      @@Dvinecreations7 LMBO!!

  • @essence4life23
    @essence4life23 2 года назад +197

    I meant my husband at 20yrs old. It was the 1st time I realized what love felt like and heart break 3 years later. I moved away didn't see him for 5 years and the day I saw him every emotion buried resurfaced. When we decided to give it another go I told him either he was all in or we were nothing at all. He said God told me you were the one. We have been together 13 years married 9 and 2 kids. But anyway looking at this I can tell you closure is very important because without it takes longer to heal emotionally.

    • @Mbeat157
      @Mbeat157 Год назад

      Agreed

    • @Mbeat157
      @Mbeat157 Год назад +2

      God bless you and your husband

    • @haahmayan9637
      @haahmayan9637 Год назад +3

      This is beautiful 🤩 your situation sounds like a good book reading this comment had me on the edge of my seat 🎉😂 I’m so happy that you made it work that’s so beautiful you rekindled ‼️

  • @AirItTfOutPodcast
    @AirItTfOutPodcast 2 года назад +872

    She has eyes full of tears the whole interview. He still cares and will always love her, he’s still hurting, BUT she’s in PAIN. Don’t EVER think that you didn’t matter to someone. How people do you has NOTHING to do with you. People are battling themselves daily. Within the first 5 minutes, I knew all that I needed to know. I see so much growth and maturity in this King. I feel like he held back a little. He probably had so much more on his heart, but she probably hasn’t changed. So, I feel like he didn’t say everything that he wanted to. It’s like talking to a brick wall. No shade to the Queen, but she still has to grow and learn. She thought that she could do him any kind of way and that he would never leave, now, 2 years later, she’s suffering. A man will not love many women in his lifetime. When he does… it shouldn’t be played with. He proposed. He wanted a future with her. Moving forward, it may be difficult for him to be that vulnerable in another relationship. If you don’t want someone, let them know! Life will humble you and anything that you do in these relationships that you take for granted will ALWAYS find its way back to you. You can’t expect someone to give you the BEST of them while you are giving them the WORST of you. I wish them both well. I love this channel.

    • @sweetcandigirl2751
      @sweetcandigirl2751 2 года назад +25

      This was beautiful! Love the wisdom you have😊 God Bless🙏🏾

    • @AirItTfOutPodcast
      @AirItTfOutPodcast 2 года назад +7

      @@sweetcandigirl2751 Thank you so much! 🙏🏾

    • @ms.ladybug6186
      @ms.ladybug6186 2 года назад +45

      Well said!.. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I had the feeling he was holding back as well waiting to see where she’s really at in growth while talking especially the end when he said you have anything else to say , your sure.. you sure!.. she had a chance.. he’s probably officially done now!.. but still has love/care for her! Sad ..I wish all the ppl tht wants the same love & willingly to give it can find each other but it’s always your damn opposite!😞

    • @AirItTfOutPodcast
      @AirItTfOutPodcast 2 года назад +17

      @@ms.ladybug6186 Right! You are speaking facts Queen. I’m happy that I wasn’t the only one who peeped that. Love is so beautiful and just like you said, the good ones get matched with them not so good ones.

    • @naimalee1046
      @naimalee1046 2 года назад +2

      💯💯

  • @CaribbeanQueen72xx
    @CaribbeanQueen72xx 2 года назад +2126

    Ohhhhh my God ♥️♥️♥️who has an ex like this gentleman ? Most men act like a narcissist after a breakup . Whoever raised this gentleman did a marvelous job, he’s gonna be an amazing father and husband to a lucky lady one day .. I wish them both luck.

    • @nottedeliziosaa
      @nottedeliziosaa 2 года назад +15

      Very true

    • @YaYa-zm3wu
      @YaYa-zm3wu 2 года назад +27

      Not me because if I had a guy like him we wouldn't be exes (based on this interaction because we have zip else to go on)

    • @IdcBoffendedWEAKHUMAN.
      @IdcBoffendedWEAKHUMAN. 2 года назад +9

      Also being recorded so why act like you're true self on cam🤔

    • @beautifulj2952
      @beautifulj2952 2 года назад +12

      I just said this; lord knows my ex is a narcissist.

    • @Acecentricsp05
      @Acecentricsp05 2 года назад +31

      I feel like this is the first time I've ever seen a girl admit fault in a relationship so if disagree about who the narcissists are.

  • @EatwithQue
    @EatwithQue 2 года назад +2439

    He is so handsome and gentle. I hope he finds someone that will love him beyond he could ever imagine

    • @tamarayoung949
      @tamarayoung949 2 года назад +91

      That won't be hard! I hope she's confident with what she's letting go. It looks like they could start again. But, she seems to love dancing more. Too bad there isn't a compromise. They are pretty young though. Maybe they'll find it later with each other or someone else :/

    • @lleebabyy
      @lleebabyy 2 года назад +4

      Forsure !

    • @maryelizabethpitts7148
      @maryelizabethpitts7148 2 года назад +1

      B

    • @skillsphere9245
      @skillsphere9245 2 года назад +22

      @@tamarayoung949 even if she wånted he wouldnt do it he cånt trust her coz she cheåted hes reål mån not lowering his ståndårds ånd tåking thåt disrespect å womån ålwåys wånts the relåtionship båck if it depends onn her she just is the one who got rejected first ånd tried to keep the respect for herself

    • @zariam9928
      @zariam9928 2 года назад +11

      Can this man marry my sister abeg

  • @cootiemya1
    @cootiemya1 2 года назад +585

    “But while I was crying, I was dancing.” Mannn, that statement was sooo powerful & deep... literally brought chills to me.

    • @hettygrant2040
      @hettygrant2040 2 года назад +68

      It goes to show that love isn't always enough, and I respect her courage to explore and find what makes her tick. Too bad they couldn't find a way to stay together.

    • @eltonjohn4239
      @eltonjohn4239 2 года назад +6

      @@hettygrant2040 being on that pole made her tick#nastybird

    • @M0DeLcH1cK
      @M0DeLcH1cK 2 года назад +1

      Lmbo

    • @christabellatoao
      @christabellatoao 2 года назад +7

      @@eltonjohn4239 she's not a pole dancer but okay

    • @jahleelx9270
      @jahleelx9270 2 года назад +2

      @@christabellatoao based on what? It's pretty obvious that she is a stripper.

  • @janettex08
    @janettex08 Год назад +39

    It’s amazing how people who can be so in love, just cannot be together. It’s truly heartbreaking.

  • @ummidris8514
    @ummidris8514 2 года назад +3020

    I love seeing two dark skin ppl together... Simply beautiful

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 2 года назад +71

      Me too.

    • @mirsasarajlic840
      @mirsasarajlic840 2 года назад +46

      That's true..but black guy thay like more white women

    • @uhlanibrock3868
      @uhlanibrock3868 2 года назад +189

      @@mirsasarajlic840 that’s not true whatsoever

    • @tye1939
      @tye1939 2 года назад +190

      @@mirsasarajlic840 Women like you seriously need to stop putting that narrative on all us black men. It's not even statistically true either.

    • @mirsasarajlic840
      @mirsasarajlic840 2 года назад +19

      I have friend she is Black .she told me that before 70% black guy likes More white women but nothing is wrong with that

  • @CanithaReme
    @CanithaReme 2 года назад +471

    Wow, he is a grown man!! They’re both beautiful people.

  • @chinky880
    @chinky880 2 года назад +136

    It seems like she’s dealing with self-worth and self-esteem issues that cause her to sabotage good situations.But it seems like she’s learning and growing. I hope that she heals and moves forward in a positive way.

  • @MDAce150
    @MDAce150 4 месяца назад +3

    “If this was our last conversation…” and then he says it actually might be and then expresses everything he’s ever felt about her and that he’ll always love her… and then when he asks if she had anything to say she said “no… nothing”? As a man that is also very honest about how I feel with those I love, this infuriates me… I totally understand how they got here.

  • @MRSYELLOWJELLO021
    @MRSYELLOWJELLO021 2 года назад +1018

    You can tell she is still kicking herself from whatever she did in the past. I know them tears sweetie. Although there are still emotions there, atleast they're able to sit down and have an amicable conversation about it.

    • @oshinofalakoju5749
      @oshinofalakoju5749 2 года назад +35

      Right! I loved how mature the two of them were for having a convo like this.

    • @WashingtonDC20032
      @WashingtonDC20032 2 года назад +75

      Without her disclosing what she did.... I feel like all I'm hearing is Blah Blah Blah Blah... I need a little bit more context and detail for me to really feel this conversation.

    • @tboss3276
      @tboss3276 2 года назад +18

      Jesus loves you!😊❤ take the time to get to know Him and watch HIM fill you with such love and strength.

    • @jazzeezj4649
      @jazzeezj4649 2 года назад +26

      She cheated

    • @WashingtonDC20032
      @WashingtonDC20032 2 года назад +11

      @@jazzeezj4649 that’s what I assumed.

  • @33ladyRAM
    @33ladyRAM 2 года назад +1101

    It's interesting how people had an overall good relationship and one thing happens and it burned to the ground. Some find their way back, and some never talk let alone see each other ever again.

    • @destinycoleman1167
      @destinycoleman1167 2 года назад +14

      So sad

    • @laysolei3341
      @laysolei3341 2 года назад +33

      This comment, especially the end gave me chills.

    • @shanadejohn629
      @shanadejohn629 2 года назад +9

      THIS COMMENT!!! I know it oh to well

    • @shanadejohn629
      @shanadejohn629 2 года назад +3

      @@laysolei3341 Same!

    • @danielmoody8535
      @danielmoody8535 2 года назад +79

      It’s crazy! I think we all have to realize that good chemistry doesn’t equate to a strong foundation.

  • @trukwene7171
    @trukwene7171 2 года назад +187

    Are they wearing their mics against their chests? The heartbeat that I heard throughout made me realize how short life is. When you make mistakes in relationships like this you can only HOPE you learn and grow from it. Too many of us take our mistakes with us into our other relationships and we never truly learn and grow. I commend them both for being able to do this, we all think we want to see that person but so many of us ain't ready to hold space for what they truly have to say.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  2 года назад +15

      Yes, they are all mic'd up!

    • @lilfellabrown927
      @lilfellabrown927 2 года назад +13

      I didn’t even realize the heartbeat til I read this comment. Now I can’t STOP hearing it 😴😂

  • @misspooh2you721
    @misspooh2you721 2 года назад +89

    You can hear one of their hearts beating fast. You can hear the nervousness but most importantly you can see the love 💗

  • @shakirah3919
    @shakirah3919 2 года назад +214

    “Sometimes I wanna ask you how you’re doing but I don’t bcoz I just don’t . I feel it can draw me back in a way.....” .
    This hit home🤦‍♀️.

  • @TashaWashington
    @TashaWashington 2 года назад +160

    He has King energy! That’s super attractive. She lost one.

    • @MlSS.S
      @MlSS.S 2 года назад +6

      Well said!

  • @gugumbatha4101
    @gugumbatha4101 2 года назад +215

    These videos are helpful. Even though my ex and I aren’t talking, I still find myself responding to these questions and I’m creating my own closure. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @smallgalbiggod1409
    @smallgalbiggod1409 2 года назад +44

    This is breaking Me down, there's no perfect relationship they should get back together 😭

    • @napsterdeus5770
      @napsterdeus5770 Год назад +6

      But she want to dance . 🤷‍♂️

    • @KC-rb4gv
      @KC-rb4gv Год назад +3

      ⁠right, I’m like girl dancing? Really this man would have been willing to spend a lifetime with you and create so many great things. Dancing is such a rough lifestyle she’s addicted to attention you can tell

  • @gab19guerin72
    @gab19guerin72 2 года назад +1568

    This is so sad.
    I can’t say what I want to say without sounding judgmental. So I will just say
    1. She is absolutely gorgeous.
    2. That is a good man.
    3. He loves her.
    4. It is rare to get a man to look at a woman the way he looks at her. I hope she doesn’t regret it.

    • @nekpenasiriuwa8627
      @nekpenasiriuwa8627 2 года назад +165

      I do feel like she might be missing her blessing with this one. They seemed like they were meant to be.

    • @gab19guerin72
      @gab19guerin72 2 года назад +104

      @@nekpenasiriuwa8627 I agree. She is giving up a good man for some foolery that amounts to nothing.

    • @k.h.a.l.i.l.
      @k.h.a.l.i.l. 2 года назад +41

      i love the maturity of this comment. internet, take note lol

    • @ewashington4178
      @ewashington4178 2 года назад +50

      @@gab19guerin72 facts, dancing...years down the road she will regret

    • @mellajoe
      @mellajoe 2 года назад +7

      Yep she’s not going to be young forever

  • @nashcamacho2671
    @nashcamacho2671 2 года назад +90

    It's the "I miss you everyday" AHHHHHH I'M EFFING CRYING.

  • @SolarBabeLLC
    @SolarBabeLLC 2 года назад +56

    The way they catch each other gaze, I know the love is definitely still strong.

  • @RoLee705
    @RoLee705 2 года назад +38

    I just love how soft spoken they both are.

  • @laila-lynae6248
    @laila-lynae6248 2 года назад +128

    Sometimes we tend to forget men are hurt too.. mislead , treated horribly, and let down. I loved this

  • @dandelion_.
    @dandelion_. 2 года назад +273

    Me the whole video: wHaT wAs tHe rEasOn???

  • @Biscuitplease
    @Biscuitplease 2 года назад +31

    What I think is that she loves him enough to leave him free. And think he loves her enough to not limit her despite their ultimate live for each other. They need a detox, but they belong together. They know each other so well that their ego equally yoked. Neither wants to compromise and hold each other accountable.

    • @Biscuitplease
      @Biscuitplease 2 года назад +4

      @Blank Mane no man has self respect if he wants to change the person he loves. I'm not saying he is to blame but he is crying on the inside thinking he is right. Don't get with the hot girl and ask her to be basic. She is wild and fun but loves him. He likes that.

  • @aziabrowder7104
    @aziabrowder7104 10 месяцев назад +20

    Awwww I love how they sat down and communicated together you can tell the love & passion they have for each other is still there. I hope they get back together and work things out. ❤️

  • @clarisa8452
    @clarisa8452 2 года назад +92

    her accent is beautiful

  • @PhoenixGoddess
    @PhoenixGoddess 2 года назад +235

    It's sad to see ppl so in love but can't be together 😔..

    • @sashnieify
      @sashnieify 2 года назад +9

      But the real question is why can’t be together, whatever happen, that you still find love but can’t put everything aside and be together

    • @PhoenixGoddess
      @PhoenixGoddess 2 года назад +8

      @@sashnieify Some ppl don't wanna put their Pride aside. Not everyone find real Love but to just let it go like that.. smh

    • @hettygrant2040
      @hettygrant2040 2 года назад +5

      @@PhoenixGoddess This comment right here is spot on in a whole lot situations. I love them both and it's truly sad seeing how much they love each other, and makes me question has he truly forgiven her, not that I am questioning him, but it's just so sad that moving on is better than finding a way to make it work...

    • @PhoenixGoddess
      @PhoenixGoddess 2 года назад +1

      @@hettygrant2040 I totally agree with you. You can see they are both missing each other. It's sad....

    • @KevinSmith-xt8xr
      @KevinSmith-xt8xr 2 года назад

      @@hettygrant2040 and in this generation its even worst, they would rather call it quits. Than rectify the situation. everyone thinks people are some garbage disposal just to throw away and not work things out respectfully

  • @alanna4148
    @alanna4148 2 года назад +178

    this story is similar to mine. BUT first before I share my story I want to say I admire so much that this BEAUTIFUL couple was able to sit and have a true conversation of reflection and love for each other despite their differences and past. Their mutual respect is amazing. I felt every emotion in this video that even brought tears to my eyes. I even heard their HEARTBEATS picked up from the microphone clipped on their shirts. God bless them and I hope they are both able to HEAL from the breakup because the pain is truly deep. Then I hope they Both are able to find love again in the future that doesn't bring them pain, and instead brings them happiness and marriage...
    My ex left me in April this year. our 3 year relationship wasn't bad at all. we were so in love. with so many plans to spend our lives together. But Nov. 2020 we got in a big argument for the first time while I was out of the state for a couple weeks visiting family, and it just went down hill after that. It wasn't anything serious but it led to many issues that made him give up on us and fall out of love with me. It was so difficult for me because not only did i miss him but his dog I love with all my heart. I would cry so much missing him and his dog. I never got to see him (the dog) again. Also during the first year of us dating I bought my ex a heart shaped pillow that he slept with every night.. I still wonder if he has it or threw out .. i'll never know because he broke up with me a couple days before my birthday in April this year and on my birthday we texted dry messages back and forth and i told him how hurt I was and he never responded to this day. He completely disappeared from my life. I am 26 years old and he has been my first and only person iv'e dated. This first breakup almost cost me my life from the depression this year. But im staying strong and I do sometimes still grieve the breakup but im a lot better. I hope I meet someone in the future that doesnt give up or fall out of love again. Its too painful to experience. i wonder if he ever thinks of me or misses me.. so heartbreaking to think about..

    • @brownsugamiles920
      @brownsugamiles920 2 года назад +9

      Thank you for sharing its brave to be vulnerable in that way. You will fully recover from this and have great love in the future. Keep your head up and allow the process of growthZ can tell by your post you’re doing that already.

    • @lizzieann866
      @lizzieann866 2 года назад +4

      Are you feeling better now, a few months later?

    • @matheboythegreatphilosopher
      @matheboythegreatphilosopher Год назад

      Sorry love❤, Hope you find a good person

  • @MONEYWAYTV
    @MONEYWAYTV Год назад +25

    I would love to do this with my ex but I would be sobbing the WHOLE time like before we even start talking 😂😂😂

  • @precious9594
    @precious9594 2 года назад +37

    Her: "after everything that happened" "when it happened "
    Me: what happened?? 👀

  • @MuvaEarf
    @MuvaEarf 2 года назад +496

    whew, healing from a break up and watching these are so... not the best lmao.

  • @AlexMayore
    @AlexMayore 8 месяцев назад +12

    I love how open this conversation is

  • @mrsaunders9989
    @mrsaunders9989 Год назад +23

    I gotta thank my ex for having this convo with me…she healed a lot of wounds for me and I hope I did the same for her

    • @miss_Peace
      @miss_Peace 7 дней назад

      Oh, you’re him? Jerom ? Please update us, how are you, how are you both doing ?

  • @anonymousa3413
    @anonymousa3413 2 года назад +331

    He is sooo attractive, and his demeanor just adds his attractiveness beyond level 10

    • @erika6671
      @erika6671 2 года назад +8

      Yesss he is absolutely beautiful

    • @naimalee1046
      @naimalee1046 2 года назад +10

      He fine as hell and definitely his aura is beautiful...

  • @je39981
    @je39981 2 года назад +76

    He's done and she's still hurt of what happened in the past. I don't see them getting back together. He received his closure even more from this situation and that's it.

  • @char6201
    @char6201 Год назад +17

    Her smile is beautiful and he has very beautiful energy. You can feel their Love for each-other through the screen

  • @annayaosinuga2192
    @annayaosinuga2192 2 года назад +29

    Going through a breakup myself and seeing them (the way they spoke to each other, their bond, the still very obvious feelings, but the acceptance of their situation) was cathartic. Bawled and blubbered like a baby.

  • @Lollii_Popp
    @Lollii_Popp 2 года назад +316

    Their relationship was more than a union. They were connected on another level

    • @RUBY-zi2ug
      @RUBY-zi2ug 2 года назад +4

      Like family

    • @ashlinluvsaries
      @ashlinluvsaries 2 года назад +17

      I knew when she said he texted the day after she deleted his number

  • @ratchetrenaesrendezvous6601
    @ratchetrenaesrendezvous6601 2 года назад +746

    I wish I had the opportunity to have a open honest vulnerable conversation like this with my ex fiancé. Closure is something you must not take for granted.

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 2 года назад +26

      Yes. I cut off communication after being lied to and cheated on. I didn't want closure because I expected more lies, but now I wish I had asked. She tried to continue as my friend, but the disrespect was too much too overlook.

    • @tracybuford9243
      @tracybuford9243 2 года назад +8

      People just don’t understand how important that is.

    • @samantham9056
      @samantham9056 2 года назад +22

      My first thought was everyone needs to do this, but if you ever really loved someone it could be detrimental to your new growth. Imagine talking to someone you love 7 years later, it can take you back to the relationship and ruin any progress you have made. I am a person that wants to know “why”, I’m learning as I’m getting older I don’t need to know everything.

    • @monquel122
      @monquel122 2 года назад +26

      In some situations, it's best to walk away with no closure.. Some people use that as another way to "get back in" and manipulate.

    • @samantham9056
      @samantham9056 2 года назад +6

      @@monquel122 you are sooo correct, dead on comment

  • @lloydiciaarcher
    @lloydiciaarcher 2 года назад +14

    This is one of the most civilised sit downs between exes I've ever seen. He kept showing her that he really tired and she was the reason and she really hurt him. Even though he genuinely loves her he just can't be with her.

  • @lepa2863
    @lepa2863 4 месяца назад +2

    💞 To delete his number, then he txts the next day - Thoes things are ment to be in Love - And true signs of true love and 'connections'

  • @clivegameinnmg7055
    @clivegameinnmg7055 2 года назад +138

    Cheating has very bad consequences, you lose something important and replace it with something that will never be the same as what you had

  • @karmicperspective
    @karmicperspective 2 года назад +416

    This video made me cry and wanna hold my man closer . It’s so bittersweet loving someone so much but not being able to be with them. Very mature and open convo I loved this so much

    • @nateshajohn1896
      @nateshajohn1896 2 года назад +7

      Ikr....that's how I feel about my soon to be ex. I love him dearly but I am NOT happy at all in our relationship of 12 years.

    • @her0807
      @her0807 2 года назад +1

      I know the feeling all too well 😩

    • @feidhaniabdallah
      @feidhaniabdallah 2 года назад +3

      Yeah it is bittersweet that’s what hurts the most tbh, when u still love them but have to let go

    • @4our6ixkwvmz
      @4our6ixkwvmz 2 года назад +5

      @@nateshajohn1896 If you don't mind me asking, why aren't you happy

    • @UnitedGloryTV
      @UnitedGloryTV 2 года назад +1

      @@nateshajohn1896 I'd like to know tooa

  • @thatruist20
    @thatruist20 2 года назад +5

    When he said "I miss you everyday". I felt that...Damn I felt that!

  • @sharesewilliams7811
    @sharesewilliams7811 2 года назад +20

    The maturity and respect in this conversation. 🔥

  • @MrAtoapete
    @MrAtoapete 2 года назад +525

    He still loves her but he can’t trust her. Him bringing up the dancing should tell her what she needs to do to get him back. They love each other.

    • @Earthomo
      @Earthomo 2 года назад +2

      @Kwame Boateng 👊🏾

    • @localjunckieasmr9207
      @localjunckieasmr9207 2 года назад +80

      She knows what she needs to do but chooses not to bc dance is her happy space. He respects that n didn’t wanna take that away from her so they went they separate ways

    • @MrAtoapete
      @MrAtoapete 2 года назад +9

      @@localjunckieasmr9207 I was wondering what kind of dancing she does because I don’t know why he can’t trust her because of dancing

    • @marleciabrown7310
      @marleciabrown7310 2 года назад +24

      @@MrAtoapete prolly stripping 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @issys21
      @issys21 2 года назад +27

      @@marleciabrown7310 I saw her ig page she isn't a stripper but she is a dancer ...like for west indian carnival, dancehall video etc. It can be a bit raunchy.

  • @k_2k00
    @k_2k00 2 года назад +918

    Watched the entire 20 mins of this and still have no idea what happened between them lol, they did so well of keeping it private!

    • @passwordismypassword7403
      @passwordismypassword7403 2 года назад +257

      She started stripping and lied about it!

    • @Neekie_Knows
      @Neekie_Knows 2 года назад +152

      @@passwordismypassword7403 I was thinking this but it almost also made me feel she stepped out on him. Not in a sexual way but in allow men to hold my attention. I will definitely agree with you.

    • @A_Truu_Goddess
      @A_Truu_Goddess 2 года назад +105

      I thought it was meeeee I was lost as hell lol 🥴😂

    • @YaYa-zm3wu
      @YaYa-zm3wu 2 года назад +84

      Seems like she cheated and then started stripping...

    • @DionneJourney
      @DionneJourney 2 года назад +60

      @@passwordismypassword7403 I thought so too due to them saying they are living "different lifestyles" in the context that said it in

  • @Hussle436
    @Hussle436 Год назад +9

    God, do your thing… heal them both and let them find love again even if it’s not with eachother ❤

  • @becomingru
    @becomingru 2 года назад +7

    You can tell they still LOVE each other ALOT 🥺. She is absolutely beautiful and he is such a gent, I wish they could fix it.

  • @PrinceShakurYoutube
    @PrinceShakurYoutube 2 года назад +242

    I love that you can TELL he got some good ass closure in this conversation. The way he did the labor of nudging her to answer questions more deeply, found space to share what he wanted to share, how his body language changes with certain realizations he's having.

  • @OmoladeOkaiyeto
    @OmoladeOkaiyeto 2 года назад +245

    That was soo deep you can even feel the emotions through their conversation

  • @99BullD
    @99BullD 5 месяцев назад +2

    I hope this guy finds a real queen someday cos he absolutely deserves one, she realized that she fumbled the bag.

  • @keniguillen1520
    @keniguillen1520 2 года назад +2074

    Love isn’t enough is a hard lesson to accept 🥲

    • @CoachAryi
      @CoachAryi 2 года назад +14

      It is but the thing that sets you free

    • @2014kaydee
      @2014kaydee 2 года назад +38

      Completely agree and the other side of that is love isn’t necessary. I know plenty of successful couples who do not love each other but are healthy together and raised good children who turned out to be happy adults. I’m a product of a household like that. I’d rather have stability and healthy household than one filled with love and chaos. To be clear my parents did not love each other but they expressed plenty of love for me.

    • @Courageouswolftarot
      @Courageouswolftarot 2 года назад +2

      Totally!

    • @33ladyRAM
      @33ladyRAM 2 года назад +6

      yet love is the greatest commandment and yet you are right it is not enough so many other intangibles required. :~)

    • @kyraalani96
      @kyraalani96 2 года назад +5

      Girl, the hardest

  • @capri491
    @capri491 2 года назад +17

    I was locked in on the screen for this one, this is sooooo real and raw. If only all exes can have a conversation like this to avoid bringing same issues to the new relationship.

  • @jaquilliahayden1339
    @jaquilliahayden1339 2 года назад +78

    He really loved her, and still has love for her. She broke his heart.

  • @chrisgarcia1487
    @chrisgarcia1487 2 года назад +190

    He might always love her, but he will never look at her the same.

    • @Quinnfos
      @Quinnfos 2 года назад +5

      exactly

    • @shudanielle6177
      @shudanielle6177 2 года назад +1

      Quinn94 :(

    • @deenad3562
      @deenad3562 2 года назад +12

      They both Can and Need to get over it. They may never find love even close to theirs and will always miss it. Things happen in Every relationship and people have to get over things and have room to learn and grow.

    • @chrisgarcia1487
      @chrisgarcia1487 2 года назад +3

      @@deenad3562 They will and I'm sure both are aware of that. There's a healing process that takes place first which they allowed us to get a glimpse of.

    • @MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK
      @MZPOETSKYLOVEBLACK 2 года назад +3

      That’s what happens when you break someone’s trust
      You may love them but it will never ever be the same 💔

  • @Michellemybell739
    @Michellemybell739 2 года назад +8

    Wow! My ex reached out to me today after I broke it off with him 8 mos ago. He was so sincere and apologetic for breaking my heart and losing my trust. He spoke about how he rode by my house a few times to see if he could catch me outside and that he wanted to leave flowers and a note but his pride stood in the way. He told me he loved me and wanted nothing from me other than to be back in my good graces. This was eating him up all these months and he just had to get this off his chest. But like this couple we simply can’t be together again because I don’t condone my ex’s street lifestyle and hustle so it is very very true that LOVE is not enough and that two people can love each other to pieces but just can not find middle ground to grow and continue a relationship.

  • @mandalynn33
    @mandalynn33 2 года назад +3

    I relate to this so much. It’s so hard to stand in your truth, but she is doing it! I have so much respect for both of these two.

  • @xoxoIzzI23
    @xoxoIzzI23 2 года назад +237

    Oh these two were impeccable! The vulnerability and level of love was so heartwarming. Hoping they heal fully.

  • @lifewitheula
    @lifewitheula 2 года назад +783

    Again we don’t know exactly what happened but I feel like she’s losing a good one 😩

    • @atlantasfaithsmom
      @atlantasfaithsmom 2 года назад +79

      Me too. True love is hard to find.

    • @k_roc200-32
      @k_roc200-32 2 года назад +110

      I think they're both good. I feel that she grown from whatever happened. Both of them will be better in their next relationship as a result of knowing the other.

    • @RearviewWisdom
      @RearviewWisdom 2 года назад +31

      People need guidance ! Counseling, accountability , could have taken them such a long way. From this I see no reason why they aren’t together and why they aren’t giving it a second chance. They clearly are not OVER each other. I really wonder what happened . Life is too short man.

    • @Miltonman100
      @Miltonman100 2 года назад +62

      @@RearviewWisdom shes a stripper and probably cheated on him for a payday , they alluded to it several times towards the end

    • @Lee-qj1wu
      @Lee-qj1wu 2 года назад +17

      @@Miltonman100 facts lmaoo I swear I was thinking the same thing about her

  • @raisinbrand3663
    @raisinbrand3663 8 месяцев назад +3

    Seems like he was a great dude and he gave it all to someone who wasn’t ready to give him what he was looking for . I think that this breakup is fresh but the love is there but something’s won’t be given up

  • @frenchfyr3716
    @frenchfyr3716 2 года назад +15

    This is amazing! There are a few exes that I could not see in person because the feeling are so hard to deal with. My hats off to both of them.

  • @lichi1244eva
    @lichi1244eva 2 года назад +175

    They're so New York! Love their accents, loved this conversation 😍

    • @youngbori99
      @youngbori99 2 года назад +4

      I thought i was the only one that knew they were from the city 🗽

    • @suppn2tlkbout
      @suppn2tlkbout 2 года назад +14

      She gives me Jamaican vibes

    • @Realitybit
      @Realitybit 2 года назад +10

      Def Jamaican new yorkers i called it immediately

    • @EB-ok3io
      @EB-ok3io 2 года назад +9

      Both sound like they from the Islands. Definitely from Brooklyn

    • @AuntieSenSen
      @AuntieSenSen 2 года назад

      @@suppn2tlkbout Nah I think Latina

  • @oshinofalakoju5749
    @oshinofalakoju5749 2 года назад +516

    This seemed like such an impactful conversation for both of them. I'm proud of Jeron for giving himself the space to be honest and vulnerable. It seems like it took a lot for him to even speak to her after what happened between them. I'm proud of Annalisa for holding firm to her truth and acknowledging where she went wrong in the relationship and setting a boundary on what makes her happy. I pray that the two of them heal from this breakup and that it leads to more clarity and happiness in whatever they pursue.

  • @stayin2fly
    @stayin2fly Год назад +1

    Oh my goodness! This is one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen! I truly wish the best for both of them!

  • @biblelovingirl
    @biblelovingirl 2 года назад

    This is my favorite episode!! He is so amazing I pray he meets a women that will love him and be faithful!

  • @nicolesvlog4272
    @nicolesvlog4272 2 года назад +194

    It goes to show that sometimes it takes more than love for 2 people to be together. This was a very mature conversation.

  • @lillymcintosh7114
    @lillymcintosh7114 2 года назад +134

    These folk are in love here and its crazy that they cant be together due to the situation

    • @Eyeswide39Open
      @Eyeswide39Open 2 года назад +20

      This is what I’m saying! I believe in my soul, people like this are destined to be in each other’s orbits.

    • @ericabrowm8259
      @ericabrowm8259 2 года назад +2

      Baybee I would quit whatever lifestyle for this man. He's sturdy.

    • @sweetcandigirl2751
      @sweetcandigirl2751 2 года назад +8

      @@ericabrowm8259 Girl me too!!! I'm like this girl is selfish as hell to not want to put dancing aside for a wonderful man like this! She is going to regret this for the rest of her life unless she decides to stop dancing and make things right with him! He literally said he still.loves her and always will..she does not know how hard it is to find a love like that from a man.

    • @CeCe-os3ul
      @CeCe-os3ul 2 года назад +3

      @@sweetcandigirl2751 right. She can’t dance for life especially as she ages but having a man to age and be in love with can definitely be for life

    • @vibrantvibes6185
      @vibrantvibes6185 2 года назад +4

      @@sweetcandigirl2751 It's good to be selfish that's whays making he'd happy.They're not meant to be I've been in the same situation love isn't enough.

  • @Elmeromanny
    @Elmeromanny Год назад

    The heartbeat in the background. This video is so raw.

  • @NandoGriffiths
    @NandoGriffiths 2 года назад +2

    Amazing. More of this please and thank you to these two. Healing energy

  • @J.LS.
    @J.LS. 2 года назад +63

    You can see there is a lot of love still there.

  • @luvu4eva16
    @luvu4eva16 2 года назад +180

    This has to be my favorite one they’ve ever done. You can tell they have so much love for each other :(

  • @SammyLOVE2018
    @SammyLOVE2018 11 месяцев назад +5

    I am going to need more back story with their relationships. lol

  • @anessaneal996
    @anessaneal996 2 года назад +2

    This is now my favorite RUclips video you can see bare raw emotion in both of them it literally hurt and made my heart smile saying she came home and was crying and dancing at the same time like wow 💙

  • @geraldmiller7326
    @geraldmiller7326 2 года назад +77

    15 years from now she is going to be searching for him to be in her life. I highly doubt he would be available by then or even view her in the same light as he does today. Sadly love love that died young.

  • @mw1685
    @mw1685 2 года назад +49

    Bro Is an Ice Cold King who stuck to his principles... Dope!!!

  • @VikCalo
    @VikCalo 2 года назад

    This was pretty powerful stuff. I’m sure many of us have some one from our past that lives in us but the current of life has washed it up. And we move on 🌊

  • @gabrielasafundzic7281
    @gabrielasafundzic7281 2 года назад +8

    This was one incredible post break up conversation! I really enjoy content on this channel and I tend to keep up with all [The And] convos here and.... it's just wonderful. Wonderful content.