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Thank you very much!!!🙏❤ This resonates so much with me and reassures me I'm on the right path. Your teachings have helped me to redirect my life, understand myself better, love me more and deal with uncomfortable situations without letting those limiting beliefs get to the deepest of my being. I don't accept them as truth anymore. Greetings and hugs from Peru😄🙏❤
Hi @ginaburton1960, That's wonderful to hear! It's fantastic that your Inner Child is connecting with these teachings. Encouraging this understanding can profoundly shape their way of thinking and choosing in life. Keep nurturing their curiosity! Kind Regards, David
Thanks Alex and David I’ve been watching for years,you have helped me sometimes and I’m very grateful with regards to fear and worry and other issues xx
Hi @meekomania205, Thank you so much for your kind words and for being a part of our journey over the years! I’m truly glad that our teachings have been helpful for you in managing fear, worry, and other challenges. Remember, each step you take towards harmony and balance is a testament to your inner strength. Stay connected, and if you haven’t already, consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom Facebook community, where you can connect with others on a similar path: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. P.S. Exciting News! I'm launching David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available. Subscribe for free or join the inner circle: davidjameslees.com Looking forward to sharing this journey with you! Kind Regards, David
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thanks for continuing the life lessons, even under tough circumstances. I've never heard such practical, basic, life changing guidance, teaching, and lessons. I do have some questions, especially about the reality of death and other potentially, what could be called, tragic and disastrous life events, and how we're actually creating all the emotional feelings that typically accompany us who are experiencing these events. It almost seems that, in those life challenging/changing events, that the emotional feelings are instinctual, like it's just something created in our spirit before birth instead of something we learn. Does that make sense? Thanks again, my life is better from your lessons and inspiration 😃
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thank you so much for this teaching .At long last after years of trying to do inner work I finally got some answers today.The light came on!🙂.and everything is clear to understand.Im very grateful for your guidance. Thank You.😊
Thanks both!! I’m struggling with some inner child issues at moment and as ever your teachings are so helpful in empowering us with tools to understand our situation and make positive changes ❤
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
@14:11 sorry I don't understand, your client has been abandoned by his father, but you say (Alexandra), the reality is "different". What do you mean? He wasn't abandoned?? .... Ok at @33:00 you say, whoever leaves, they cannot take "the persons value".
Hi, thank you for your comment and for sharing your thoughts. When Alexandra mentions that the reality is different, she is guiding us to understand that while someone may physically leave or choose to distance themselves, it does not diminish or change our true value. The concept here is about recognizing that our Shen (spirit) remains whole and intact, regardless of others' actions. We may experience someone's absence, but that doesn't equate to being abandoned in a spiritual sense, as our worth is innate and unchangeable. The message is to focus on this inner truth rather than the external circumstances. Kind Regards, David
I do this and feel this video so much. For me it is based on all three lies and I swing from one end of the pendulum to the other and it's quick based on my thoughts and emotions at the time. It doesn't make for a good marriage and it's hard to admit that I'm the problem. My spouse is more stoic and balanced than I and I'm the one that will be so out of balance emotionally based on what was said or what someone did. It's very hard to get through to my inner child that what my spouse does, good or bad, is not always about me and sometimes has nothing to do with me. He's a separate person from me and I can't control him just because I think I'm not good enough or unlovable or can't cope with situations in life. I'm not good enough and I can't cope are the two that have pained me the most throughout my life. I'm having such a difficult time getting through to my inner child that what happened in the past is not about me and my parents, my ex, and even my spouse have their own issues and that does not mean that if something I deem out of my expectations happens that it's about me, my fault, or my issues. Sometimes others need to learn their own lessons and that is so hard for me because I want to product those I love and yet I can't at all times because it comes very controlling and abusive.
Thank you David and Alex for your insightful and informational videos. Please address PTSD in a future video. I wouldn't want someone who deserves specific treatment for PTSD to think they can control responses to triggers for traumatic memories that are buried on their amygdala.
I understand about our inner child. But how can you handle a situation when someone does you dirty? How are you supposed to not feel when someone hurts you?
In my experience, talking with the inner child does help. We need to connect the inner child to the inner wisdom, so s/he understands the situation with the correct belief, that s/he is absolutely awesome and nothing is wrong about him/her. If s/he rejects, then we have to discuss deeper about the past, what happened long before that has made impact on his/her belief, so hopefully s/he will heal from the sad past.
From my understanding and experience, it's alright to feel the initial hurt and pain of being done dirty by someone else. Then, to not allow ourselves to ruminate on the event, we can gently ask ourselves why do we feel hurt and pain from what just happened? At first, the answer (s) will seem, and can even be, legitimate. Then to continue on, asking ourselves what is it that we believe that is allowing/causing us to have these emotional feelings. It's helpful for me to have something to write on during this inner child process cuz my brain 🧠🙃 just doesn't retain everything. So then, when you have an awareness of a belief, or beliefs, that you have about yourself that allows (causes?) you to ruminate on an initially painful and hurtful event, then ask yourself why do you believe that about yourself? What happened in your life and when, that brought on that belief about yourself that, in turn brings you to thinking then feeling what you think and feel. I only recently realized that for most of my life I've believed, thought, and felt that I'm wrong; in my opinions, my words, behavior, and very likely, in just being (still working through it). What I'm getting at is, give yourself the room and the grace to grow, to make mistakes, to have others misunderstand you, to do what's best for you (even if, and especially, if you're still trying to figure that out), and above all, never give up.
@@yohanessunjoko2837 Thank you so much... I'm working on her. I even have my 8 year old self on my screen saver. So much easier to speak with her. It's hard to believe my mom physically and emotionally abused such a beautiful little girl.. 🙏❤
Aaaw seems strange to see you apart. But needs must and change is good. So well done you for finding a way to still help us all out. Blessings to you both ❤️❤️❤️
If you have Complex PTSD you may have experienced the abandonment melange .. a term coined by expert Pete Walker .. it’s a combination of emotions in an emotional flashback and can make you feel like your dying .. the book is called from Surviving to Thriving .. life saving kit
Hello Rachel, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT! 👉👉
▶ OUR LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS VIDEO PLAYLIST ruclips.net/p/PL9NQ_PWX4zID3yxrdCbbZFuKHCwgV6qhX
▶ Why Do I Seek Approval & Validation From Others? The Needy Inner Child ruclips.net/video/uACgIJGrLPg/видео.html
▶ How to Control Emotional Triggers ruclips.net/video/b6rhyu7WISQ/видео.html
▶ The Emotional Pendulum: Your Mood Swings Explained ruclips.net/video/wOC3CgmrgSU/видео.html
▶ How to Stop Giving Your Power to Others ruclips.net/video/rxZFelCBzsY/видео.html
▶ Reparenting Your Inner Child (Part 1) ruclips.net/video/SndWtblVf2U/видео.html (Part 2) ruclips.net/video/BYUxAQYpsKg/видео.html
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❓ Did you enjoy this video? Post your comments and questions below - we'd LOVE to hear from you!
🌱 Want to work one-to-one with David? ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies-for-body-mind/
🌱 Join our private Facebook Community Support Group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
🌱 Sign up to receive a RELAXING GUIDED MEDITATION GIFT, plus our weekly newsletter + offers via email ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/signup/
Thank you very much!!!🙏❤ This resonates so much with me and reassures me I'm on the right path. Your teachings have helped me to redirect my life, understand myself better, love me more and deal with uncomfortable situations without letting those limiting beliefs get to the deepest of my being. I don't accept them as truth anymore. Greetings and hugs from Peru😄🙏❤
Thank you for not Abandoning us despite the difficulties of your travels. 🙃
My child loves this
Hi @ginaburton1960,
That's wonderful to hear! It's fantastic that your Inner Child is connecting with these teachings. Encouraging this understanding can profoundly shape their way of thinking and choosing in life. Keep nurturing their curiosity!
Kind Regards,
David
Please keep teaching us!
Thanks Alex and David I’ve been watching for years,you have helped me sometimes and I’m very grateful with regards to fear and worry and other issues xx
Hi @meekomania205,
Thank you so much for your kind words and for being a part of our journey over the years! I’m truly glad that our teachings have been helpful for you in managing fear, worry, and other challenges. Remember, each step you take towards harmony and balance is a testament to your inner strength.
Stay connected, and if you haven’t already, consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom Facebook community, where you can connect with others on a similar path: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
P.S. Exciting News!
I'm launching David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available.
Subscribe for free or join the inner circle: davidjameslees.com
Looking forward to sharing this journey with you!
Kind Regards, David
This was very helpful. I need to listen to it again!
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thanks for continuing the life lessons, even under tough circumstances. I've never heard such practical, basic, life changing guidance, teaching, and lessons.
I do have some questions, especially about the reality of death and other potentially, what could be called, tragic and disastrous life events, and how we're actually creating all the emotional feelings that typically accompany us who are experiencing these events. It almost seems that, in those life challenging/changing events, that the emotional feelings are instinctual, like it's just something created in our spirit before birth instead of something we learn. Does that make sense?
Thanks again, my life is better from your lessons and inspiration 😃
Thank You 💕😊
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thank you so much for this teaching .At long last after years of trying to do inner work I finally got some answers today.The light came on!🙂.and everything is clear to understand.Im very grateful for your guidance. Thank You.😊
Thanks both!! I’m struggling with some inner child issues at moment and as ever your teachings are so helpful in empowering us with tools to understand our situation and make positive changes ❤
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
@14:11 sorry I don't understand, your client has been abandoned by his father, but you say (Alexandra), the reality is "different". What do you mean? He wasn't abandoned?? .... Ok at @33:00 you say, whoever leaves, they cannot take "the persons value".
Hi, thank you for your comment and for sharing your thoughts. When Alexandra mentions that the reality is different, she is guiding us to understand that while someone may physically leave or choose to distance themselves, it does not diminish or change our true value. The concept here is about recognizing that our Shen (spirit) remains whole and intact, regardless of others' actions. We may experience someone's absence, but that doesn't equate to being abandoned in a spiritual sense, as our worth is innate and unchangeable. The message is to focus on this inner truth rather than the external circumstances.
Kind Regards,
David
Awesome stuff! Thank you David & Alexandra!!
I do this and feel this video so much. For me it is based on all three lies and I swing from one end of the pendulum to the other and it's quick based on my thoughts and emotions at the time. It doesn't make for a good marriage and it's hard to admit that I'm the problem. My spouse is more stoic and balanced than I and I'm the one that will be so out of balance emotionally based on what was said or what someone did. It's very hard to get through to my inner child that what my spouse does, good or bad, is not always about me and sometimes has nothing to do with me. He's a separate person from me and I can't control him just because I think I'm not good enough or unlovable or can't cope with situations in life. I'm not good enough and I can't cope are the two that have pained me the most throughout my life. I'm having such a difficult time getting through to my inner child that what happened in the past is not about me and my parents, my ex, and even my spouse have their own issues and that does not mean that if something I deem out of my expectations happens that it's about me, my fault, or my issues. Sometimes others need to learn their own lessons and that is so hard for me because I want to product those I love and yet I can't at all times because it comes very controlling and abusive.
Thank you David and Alex for your insightful and informational videos. Please address PTSD in a future video. I wouldn't want someone who deserves specific treatment for PTSD to think they can control responses to triggers for traumatic memories that are buried on their amygdala.
I understand about our inner child. But how can you handle a situation when someone does you dirty? How are you supposed to not feel when someone hurts you?
In my experience, talking with the inner child does help. We need to connect the inner child to the inner wisdom, so s/he understands the situation with the correct belief, that s/he is absolutely awesome and nothing is wrong about him/her.
If s/he rejects, then we have to discuss deeper about the past, what happened long before that has made impact on his/her belief, so hopefully s/he will heal from the sad past.
From my understanding and experience, it's alright to feel the initial hurt and pain of being done dirty by someone else.
Then, to not allow ourselves to ruminate on the event, we can gently ask ourselves why do we feel hurt and pain from what just happened? At first, the answer (s) will seem, and can even be, legitimate. Then to continue on, asking ourselves what is it that we believe that is allowing/causing us to have these emotional feelings. It's helpful for me to have something to write on during this inner child process cuz my brain 🧠🙃 just doesn't retain everything. So then, when you have an awareness of a belief, or beliefs, that you have about yourself that allows (causes?) you to ruminate on an initially painful and hurtful event, then ask yourself why do you believe that about yourself? What happened in your life and when, that brought on that belief about yourself that, in turn brings you to thinking then feeling what you think and feel.
I only recently realized that for most of my life I've believed, thought, and felt that I'm wrong; in my opinions, my words, behavior, and very likely, in just being (still working through it). What I'm getting at is, give yourself the room and the grace to grow, to make mistakes, to have others misunderstand you, to do what's best for you (even if, and especially, if you're still trying to figure that out), and above all, never give up.
@@jamiepaich Thank you for your much needed advice. 🙏
@@yohanessunjoko2837 Thank you so much... I'm working on her. I even have my 8 year old self on my screen saver. So much easier to speak with her. It's hard to believe my mom physically and emotionally abused such a beautiful little girl.. 🙏❤
@@HD-mg9ru I'm thankful and glad I could help.
Never Give Up
I really love your videos so helpful thanks ❤️🌻🙏
Aaaw seems strange to see you apart. But needs must and change is good. So well done you for finding a way to still help us all out. Blessings to you both ❤️❤️❤️
If you have Complex PTSD you may have experienced the abandonment melange .. a term coined by expert Pete Walker .. it’s a combination of emotions in an emotional flashback and can make you feel like your dying .. the book is called from Surviving to Thriving .. life saving kit
Hello Rachel, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
This format works great!