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When you talked about wrapping, it reminded me of my college days. I had very little money and was invited to a little girl's birthday. I bought her a set of coloring pencils from the supermarket but had nothing left to buy wrapping paper. So I went home I took a sheet of white paper and painted it with a lot of colors. At the party, I was a bit ashamed she had so many big, gifts wrapped in shiny, beautiful papers. But when she got to mine, she just caressed the painted paper and let out a soft: " wooow!". I had tears in my eyes, intention and care really do count when gift giving. Anyway, thank you for your very informative video.
@@JamilaMusayeva Oh thank you for your reply, it's really nice that you interact this way with your audience. You are as nice as you are elegant :). I follow you on instagram too. Have a lovely day!
This actually made me cry. 😭 Sendung you some virtual hugs! I hope you in a better spot by now, but giving a gift although you don't have the money is really precious.
Very interesting video! In the Asian (Chinese) culture when receiving a gift you should pretend not to be interested 😅. You never open it in front of the person gifting your gift, you always do it in private. If you open it in front of them you look greedy. So if you ever gift a gift to an Asian person and they don't seem impressed, it is because to them opening it is rude.
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you for replying! That was what we were thought, not open gifts in front of the person giving it. And also politely deny the gift and afterwards accept it. Because not accepting the gift is also rude 😅
@@JamilaMusayeva family and acquaintances as well. In Chinese New Year even if you are visiting your friends' houses, if they have kids, you might need to give all of them the red envelops as well!
I liked all of these points. Beautiful presentation, Ms. Musayeva. I will add something that a friend taught me many years ago, and I think it’s important. After you have sent a gift to someone for any occasion, even for a wedding or birth of a child, under normal circumstances do NOT contact that person to see if the gift was received, or ask if they liked your gift. Once you have gifted someone, your work is done. Forget about the gift. The receiver will acknowledge the gift (hopefully) or they might not. Any inquiries about the gift could result in embarrassment for the gift receiver and will very likely not make you feel better about the lack of a “thank you”. Thoughts, anyone?
Great video Next video topic ideas 1 House tour 2 house etiquette 3 how to attend guest 4 study tips 5 school etiquette ( i know you are not in school lol)
It's a great gift but I'd say only for those who love cooking at home or spend time in the kitchen. It's a waste if someone just eats out and the bottle is shoved in a cabinet somewhere.
I was dating a rich girl who travels alot, she bought me a bottle of some expensive Olive Oil, and was looking at my face to see me excited, i literally don't know anything about olive oil, long story short, i used it to fry eggs... cus i didnt know what to do with it
@@vilieto we are actually Lebanese and we cook EVERYTHING with olive oil it's part of our culture so we do value it alot! Many middle eastern country are like that! But you are right it's definitely a tricky gift
WHY ARE YOU SOO SOO PERFECT? I really aspire to become a sophisticated lady like you when ill grow up. LOVE FROM INDIA. P.S - I thought you are 21 before I started to binge watch all your vids.
In India people give money in decorative envelopes as wedding gifts. This can be given to both the close ones as well as someone you don't know that well. Money is also given to children when a relative visits them.
I feel like it is good to give money as a gift to someone whom we don't know very well. Because it is better than gifting something that they don't like and they can get whatever they want with that money.
I love the idea about using magazines for wrapping a gift 🎁 I've been using brown paper this year for my Christmas gifts and then I drew some ornaments and stars with a marker. It looks special because it's personalised. It's the small touches that make a difference 💖
I like this very much. My dad does calligraphy. I enjoy his wrapping paper so much that I sometimes keep them. I don't really like newspaper as wrapping paper. I always have to think about this episode in Gilmore girls where this girl wrapped her gift with some bad news in front. So that the gift receiver couldn't complain about the gift as their was something way worse happening in the world.
I am really enjoying watching your channel grow. It’s amazing how much more beautiful the cinematography and editing have become, and watching your subscription numbers go up makes me feel like your wonderful content is getting out there. The world needs gracious role models like you!
I really like how you emphasize considering the receiver in all aspects of gift-giving. Especially when you mentioned to consider the receivers feelings about the environment/going paperless etc. I have personally been trying to reduce my eco-footprint, and I always appreciate when other people show respect for my feelings and beliefs with small gestures like omitting the wrapping. Great video, Jamila!
Yes, if they wrap the gifts it is also nice if they don't fold it as much. I like to open them carefully and keep the wrapping paper. Then i will reuse it. Only if it still looks nice of course.
Lovely lessons. I feel like so many of these I was brought up on in England as well as experiencing a different culture in Nigeria and being aware of different norms. It's nice to know that my parents' strictness about etiquette is universal! Enjoying your series, thank you.
I agree it is person specific. I grew up in North America, opening a gift was not expected, not even at a party so as to not put the giver in a position in front of other guests. Ask. Alcohol used to be the thing when going to a persons home, especially for a meal or as a thank you but that has changed as we have become aware of addictions. I travel internationally and people do ask for lovely pens or a tea from the location I visit. When people stayed with my grandmother the first time they gave her a teacup/saucer or gift certificate to the place she paid to do the laundry. Especially at weddings or graduations money is appreciated and needed. Non scented candle if you do not know their scent. So agree with the budget. We also changed holiday gifting to name exchanging due to not wanting more 'stuff'. Do not expect the person to keep the gift. So agree with wrapping and I have cloth that a Japanese friend gifted to me years ago. It has come/gone from my life for 20 years. Such good points on receiving gifts. It has been a problem in extended family as many do not give any thanks. Some adults have avoided family gatherings and limited visits by children while not sharing they avoid it because they feel guilt at neglected thank you's. A thanks is so important. How do we deal with relatives who give us gifts based on what they think we should like or how we should decorate or continue inappropriate gifts for children?
Looking so pretty, Jamila! Thank you once again for saving us from another awkward moment. You've helped me get rid of my panic attack at the time of giving and receiving gifts....
I love how your videos has background and some history. Everyone at that point will know if someone complimented the giver not the gift it means he didn’t like it😂🌚
I like giving gifts wrapped in ribbons. 🎀 I only give brand names or quality gifts with high monetary values because most people won't like cheap stuff.
Tip #5: In the past, my skin was quite bad. I received a gift from a man who wanted to date me. It was a skin care product for bad skin. I felt offended and never met the man again.
Your voice is so calming. These tips are really good too. I especially like the video of always finding a positive compliment to give in thanks for a gift, even if it is unliked. It is so classy, elegant and truly feminine.
These are some very wise suggestions....I have been dealing with my friends and family disappointment for years: every time they gift me with something, it's something I cannot eat (I have many allergies), some smell I hate, parfumes (I'm allergic to alcohol) or clothes in sizes too small and colours I never ever wear....the frustrating part is, I talk and see them quite often, so they should know these things: every time I open the present I always try not to let them down and thank them....and then they want to see how the clothes look on me or ask me to eat whatever they bought....of course that's when everything goes to hell since they don't take subtle hints like "no now" or "sorry I'm not hungry" and then get disappointed when I say I cannot or see the clothes don't fit at all: the sad part is they suggest I loose weight (I'm not fat at all) or ask me to make an exception to eat what I'm allergic to...and I have to explain them it doesn't work that way, but they still insist and I end up getting angry or my parents have to usher them out of our house with some excuses because they become too insistent. They should watch your videos.
Oh, I am sorry to hear that. That is very insensitive of them. It truly hurts to see that people care more about their gifts than the person whom they intended to make it for..
@@JamilaMusayeva I think they are pissed off by the fact they spend time (and money) selecting what they think it's the perfect gift and don't even consider they have overlooked the fact that I have some health problems and have defined tastes....I understand they have selected the gift thinking about me, but if the image you have of me doesn't correspond to reality it's not my fault: this apperars to be quite a difficult concept for many people, it's as if the have an ideal model of the person/friend/family member and don't like when they are hit in the face by reality...instead of apologizing for the mistake, they get offended by the fact that the person hasn't conformed to their fantasy.
that's so sad. This would be an absolute horror for me. I can't throw anything out someone has gifted me if it isn't damaged and even then I kinda feel sorry about it because they spend time picking it out for me. I hate receiving gifts. I Can relate to your struggle. Gladly I only have some people who do that and not as drastically wrong picked as in your case. Hope in the future it will get better for you
@@redhead0122 I understand perfectly! For years I have saved gifts I didn't want or couldn't use because someone had put time, effort and money to buy me a gift....Until one day I realized it's not so: while I always select gifts with care, if you gift a person dear to your heart something she/he's allergic to, doesn't ever wear or don't ever use, you either pick a random gift or recycle one you yourself receive....maybe even you didn't consider the real person at all if you keep acting as if the person has no health problems and no specific tastes. I'm not saying they do this maliciously, but surely they are not very considerate and attentive. So now I simply give those gifts away of if it's impossible, I throw them away. Sometimes I'm lucky and I know the shops they bought the gifts in and I'm able to switch them. It's hard, expecially since you are disappointed and sorry for having to give up the gift, but it gets better with time even if it probably shouldn't.
@@Kleomenides86 yeah as I already mentioned with your family it is way more extreme. For example I got a bag for traveling to my mom. But prior to that I talked with this person about how I have to many bags and trying to sort them out and I already got a new travel case 2 months before the occasion which they knew about. So the intention was good but just not really thought put into it. So its hard for me to get it refunded or give it away as they had good intentions. and I don't want to be ungrateful even if I can't use it. I am pretty minimalistic and hate clutter so this is kinda a dilemma for me 😅As I put a lot of thought into my gifts it is kinda hard for me to understand that people aren't as attentive when gifting. I have lists in my phone what the person likes and doesn't like, if they mentioned they need something or want something so I can pick the right thing for them. Good for you that you have a way of dealing with this situation although it will probably always be frustrating.
Ohh you are looking quite like an Angel in this sparkling white Dress! How nice it is to listen you talking about Gifts with this lovely calming Voice! You are a HeART ❤🧡💛 indeed!!
Hello Jamila, I loved this video. Thanks for it. Just a request, please put time stamps in your videos. They're really convenient when you wanna come back and revise some specific advises.
I didn't skip the video for even a second...I love watching your videos bcze they are so informative and so relaxing... I've realised following etiquettes is such a beautiful thing rather than just being a crap when it comes to treating others... Please keep doing more of these... Also I wanted to know how to refuse people in a polite manner bcze I'm a girl who cannot say no to anyone and bcze of that , I usually end up trapping myself...so I really wanna know how to politely refuse people... Loads of love ❤️❤️❤️💖🤩
It's generally not a problem, since a lot of women wear lipstick and it's almost impossible to prevent transfer - you only have to be careful to always drink from the same spot, so you don't leave the whole rim painted!
A real lady always carries tissues in her handbag. She can do a lot with it. Remove the stain with one tissue. Gently press the lips on the tissue before drinking to not leave ugly stains. Before going out to an event you can think and plan accordingly. Apply some forever stay lipstick which leaves no red stains everywhere. Especially on formal occasions this is the best lipstick ever. Your lips will look perfect for up to 24 hours.
The English royal family has a rule that those wearing lipstick must drink from the same spot on their cup or glass, to prevent, as another commenter said, the whole rim being covered in lipstick marks. To try and get none on the rim is to hold yourself to an unreasonable standard, and likely to take you out of the moment, leaving you poor company. Many find long wearing lipsticks very uncomfortable, so don't be hard on yourself if you can't stand wearing them. If you don't mind them remember that they are not fool proof, and still hold a high likely hood of transferring, particularly after eating.
In the Netherlands it’s pretty common to give money (especially at children’s birthdays) in a card because that allows the person to buy something they’ll definitely like, or save up for a big purchase! We even have kids asking for only money so they can buy the phone or game they want! I’ve gotten perfume before but I never wore it because i didn’t love the scent.
I would actually stay away from scented candles, cut flowers and anything involving perfumes and aromas unless you know the person loves that particular thing. A lot of people nowadays are allergic or sensitive towards smells, so it may cause discomfort at a big event, not to mention fragrance preference is very individual. If you still want to gift a perfume, some fragrance companies may have matching service, where you bring a sample of what the person usually wears and they suggest based on their catalog.
Adding some nuance to this: while it's common nowadays to be sensitive to smells (I happen to be too), it's mostly chemical smells that trigger this. Natural scents are generally a safe bet considering there's always a small risk when gifting. Flower allergies are rare. You make a very valid point, it's very thoughtful to think of this. :)
Hi Jamila, This is the third of your video lessons that I have watched and I really appreciate your perspective of good manners being all about considering the feelings of others. Many people think of manners as being rules made to torture them.... But you made it clear, especially in gift video, that it is all about considering how to make others comfortable.❤️❤️❤️
I saw this great advice on reddit that when your budget for a gift is tight, buy a nice version of something small that would usually be quite cheap instead of an "average" version of something less useful. For example, with $15, buy a very nice pen or notebook instead of something "bigger" of low quality. I loved the video!
Your videos are really useful and the way you teach is really amazing. There is a little request from my side, if you can make a video on "phone etiquette" . That would be very helpful. Thank you.
Accept love from Pakistan 🇵🇰. I wait badly fr ur videos. ur voice is soooo soothing n the way u teach is fab. This video particular is what i really wanted to see.
I wasn't aware of all the things one should take into account when making and recieving a gift, till I saw your video! Thank you for all the useful tipps! 😇
Couldn't agree more how important it is to understand what's appropriate in certain cultures. I remember when I was staying in Vietnam and people were giving money in small envelopes. Firstly, I found it very uncomfortable, but then I learned the reason behind it. A beautiful video as always 💜
Hi Jamila whatever the topic is, the way you present in such sweet low tone with ease is what gets etched in my mind. I have forwarded your talks to my cousin and they felt the same. thank you🤗
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When you talked about wrapping, it reminded me of my college days. I had very little money and was invited to a little girl's birthday. I bought her a set of coloring pencils from the supermarket but had nothing left to buy wrapping paper. So I went home I took a sheet of white paper and painted it with a lot of colors. At the party, I was a bit ashamed she had so many big, gifts wrapped in shiny, beautiful papers. But when she got to mine, she just caressed the painted paper and let out a soft: " wooow!".
I had tears in my eyes, intention and care really do count when gift giving.
Anyway, thank you for your very informative video.
Thanks for sharing this. Gift giving is not about a price tag but the care and the attention you give. It matters more ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva Oh thank you for your reply, it's really nice that you interact this way with your audience. You are as nice as you are elegant :). I follow you on instagram too. Have a lovely day!
This is a lovely story and she's lucky to have you as a friend/acquaintance. :)
At the end if the , it's all about Feelings 😇.
This actually made me cry. 😭
Sendung you some virtual hugs! I hope you in a better spot by now, but giving a gift although you don't have the money is really precious.
this channel is literally saving me as an introvert girl
Happy to hear it 💫
whats wrong being inrovert?
@@anuj007thakur there's nothing wrong to be introvert
@@anuj007thakur there's nothing wrong being an introvert. She is Just saying it because we introverts have lots of struggles because of our anxiety
Introvert girls are boring.
For me, handmade gifts are above everything. They are priceless :)
GOOD
Those are the kind of gifts I love giving because I took the time to create something unique for someone it always feels good : )
@@mxxxn I would love to receive them too :D As I always make them for my friends and family :)
I hate them 😂🤫 and then u have 2 keep it 😥
@@andreak.5739 Haha
Finally a guideline for an awkward girl like me, who gets excited and doesnt know what to do when receiving a gift lmao
I like awkward girls more, girls like her are so uncomfirtable to talk
@Anna crystal hahaha
@@amogh708 exactly!!
@Anna crystal no one asked for your reply, why you offended?
@Anna crystal I'm just telling a general thing, awkward girls have more friends than those have etiquettes
Very interesting video! In the Asian (Chinese) culture when receiving a gift you should pretend not to be interested 😅. You never open it in front of the person gifting your gift, you always do it in private. If you open it in front of them you look greedy.
So if you ever gift a gift to an Asian person and they don't seem impressed, it is because to them opening it is rude.
Thank you for sharing this. I mentioned that in Asia, you would not unwrap the gift in front of others. Perhaps for that particular reason.
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you for replying! That was what we were thought, not open gifts in front of the person giving it. And also politely deny the gift and afterwards accept it. Because not accepting the gift is also rude 😅
@@Pluizje1998 Haha yea thats true! Asian gift receivers usually say "oh you didn't have to do this.....if you insist, i'll take it. Thank you!"
@@nghibluu Same with the red envelops, pretend you don't want it until if you deny again it will be rude and then accept 😂
@@Pluizje1998 :))))))))))))
I'll say in Chinese cultures, money is the wedding/Chinese New Year gift - usually crisp, new bills in a red envelope.
Only to family or acquaintances as well?
@@JamilaMusayeva family and acquaintances as well. In Chinese New Year even if you are visiting your friends' houses, if they have kids, you might need to give all of them the red envelops as well!
Same thing in south India, too
I really love this culture! Red envelopes are my fav! 🧧
红包🧧 yeah! Always giving out red packets . New Years , weddings, when baby passes 100 days old and the 12th birthday ~ red packets are great .
you smiling and saying "that's a huge mistake" needs to be a GIF
yes lol
i just made it
@@MalaikaB bless you
Right
@Rania Hameed Chaudhry 8.56
Her voice is so relaxing!
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It sounds like ASMR, love it
Her voice is so soft and gentle it almost gave me ASMR.
🙏🏻
Her voice and female taste are the best things about her.
I love that you talk about the history at the beginning ❤️
Thank for mentioning that ☺️
I liked all of these points. Beautiful presentation, Ms. Musayeva. I will add something that a friend taught me many years ago, and I think it’s important. After you have sent a gift to someone for any occasion, even for a wedding or birth of a child, under normal circumstances do NOT contact that person to see if the gift was received, or ask if they liked your gift. Once you have gifted someone, your work is done. Forget about the gift. The receiver will acknowledge the gift (hopefully) or they might not. Any inquiries about the gift could result in embarrassment for the gift receiver and will very likely not make you feel better about the lack of a “thank you”. Thoughts, anyone?
You are very welcome. And yes, I agree. It is up to them to follow up.
Out of context:
It is 2 am and I was having some anxiety attacks. Your video calmed me down and I learned something.
Thank you :)
Happy to hear that my videos were helpful in that way ☺️
Ohh, I hear (from Above) that both Rose🌹 and Litsea Etherial Oils could help you in those Situations. Enjoy ❤❤❤
I love how we get a little history lesson with these etiquette videos!
Glad you like it ☺️
Great video
Next video topic ideas
1 House tour
2 house etiquette
3 how to attend guest
4 study tips
5 school etiquette
( i know you are not in school lol)
I once gifted a bottle of olive oil to a friend! It was an amazing virgin olive oil made in my country! She loved it and thought it was original! 😅
It's a great gift but I'd say only for those who love cooking at home or spend time in the kitchen. It's a waste if someone just eats out and the bottle is shoved in a cabinet somewhere.
I love that! That’s such a nice gift!
Nice gift! I’d have definitely appreciated it too ☺️
I was dating a rich girl who travels alot, she bought me a bottle of some expensive Olive Oil, and was looking at my face to see me excited, i literally don't know anything about olive oil, long story short, i used it to fry eggs... cus i didnt know what to do with it
@@vilieto we are actually Lebanese and we cook EVERYTHING with olive oil it's part of our culture so we do value it alot! Many middle eastern country are like that! But you are right it's definitely a tricky gift
WHY ARE YOU SOO SOO PERFECT? I really aspire to become a sophisticated lady like you when ill grow up. LOVE FROM INDIA.
P.S - I thought you are 21 before I started to binge watch all your vids.
Thank you ☺️
What’s her actual age??
@@kanchanbehera8450 29 I think
In India people give money in decorative envelopes as wedding gifts. This can be given to both the close ones as well as someone you don't know that well.
Money is also given to children when a relative visits them.
Thanks for sharing ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva ☺️
In japan it is normal to give money for weddings
I feel like it is good to give money as a gift to someone whom we don't know very well. Because it is better than gifting something that they don't like and they can get whatever they want with that money.
@@sumabhat8983 True.
I love the idea about using magazines for wrapping a gift 🎁
I've been using brown paper this year for my Christmas gifts and then I drew some ornaments and stars with a marker. It looks special because it's personalised. It's the small touches that make a difference 💖
Love this idea! Will start doing it too ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva I think your kids would love it too 😊
I like this very much. My dad does calligraphy. I enjoy his wrapping paper so much that I sometimes keep them. I don't really like newspaper as wrapping paper. I always have to think about this episode in Gilmore girls where this girl wrapped her gift with some bad news in front. So that the gift receiver couldn't complain about the gift as their was something way worse happening in the world.
Literally the big sister I never had... Thank you for doing these videos, I learn so much 💕
Aw! Thanks! ☺️
I am really enjoying watching your channel grow. It’s amazing how much more beautiful the cinematography and editing have become, and watching your subscription numbers go up makes me feel like your wonderful content is getting out there. The world needs gracious role models like you!
Thank you so much for your kind words! I truly appreciate them ❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words! I truly appreciate them ❤️
I love how you always include historical information on each topic in your videos. Please keep that up! ❤️
Happy you like it ☺️
I really like how you emphasize considering the receiver in all aspects of gift-giving. Especially when you mentioned to consider the receivers feelings about the environment/going paperless etc. I have personally been trying to reduce my eco-footprint, and I always appreciate when other people show respect for my feelings and beliefs with small gestures like omitting the wrapping. Great video, Jamila!
Yes, if they wrap the gifts it is also nice if they don't fold it as much. I like to open them carefully and keep the wrapping paper. Then i will reuse it. Only if it still looks nice of course.
Your video itself is a gift for us
Aww thank you!
Please,please,make a video on dressing ettiqute.
yes plz!
Yes please
Whatever you choose to give, I hope all of you will support your respective local small/medium-sized enterprises this year.
❤
I agree 💯
I love this idea!
Video suggestion: Must-have clothing pieces.
Lovely lessons. I feel like so many of these I was brought up on in England as well as experiencing a different culture in Nigeria and being aware of different norms. It's nice to know that my parents' strictness about etiquette is universal! Enjoying your series, thank you.
You are very welcome ☺️
I always feel awkward when others read the card I wrote them out loud, that was meant for them, not everyone else 😅
Which is why they should read it to themselves, not outloud ☺️
I agree it is person specific. I grew up in North America, opening a gift was not expected, not even at a party so as to not put the giver in a position in front of other guests. Ask. Alcohol used to be the thing when going to a persons home, especially for a meal or as a thank you but that has changed as we have become aware of addictions. I travel internationally and people do ask for lovely pens or a tea from the location I visit. When people stayed with my grandmother the first time they gave her a teacup/saucer or gift certificate to the place she paid to do the laundry. Especially at weddings or graduations money is appreciated and needed. Non scented candle if you do not know their scent. So agree with the budget. We also changed holiday gifting to name exchanging due to not wanting more 'stuff'. Do not expect the person to keep the gift. So agree with wrapping and I have cloth that a Japanese friend gifted to me years ago. It has come/gone from my life for 20 years. Such good points on receiving gifts. It has been a problem in extended family as many do not give any thanks. Some adults have avoided family gatherings and limited visits by children while not sharing they avoid it because they feel guilt at neglected thank you's. A thanks is so important. How do we deal with relatives who give us gifts based on what they think we should like or how we should decorate or continue inappropriate gifts for children?
I was browsing videos on youtube with my daughter she actually observe:mama:how soft spoken this lady is😍
Aww thank you! Say hi to her from me ☺️
Looking so pretty, Jamila!
Thank you once again for saving us from another awkward moment. You've helped me get rid of my panic attack at the time of giving and receiving gifts....
I am so happy to hear that! 🙏🏻
I love how your videos has background and some history.
Everyone at that point will know if someone complimented the giver not the gift it means he didn’t like it😂🌚
Thank you. It is best to find something honest to thank about that a generic thank you 😉
I like giving gifts wrapped in ribbons. 🎀 I only give brand names or quality gifts with high monetary values because most people won't like cheap stuff.
Tip #5: In the past, my skin was quite bad. I received a gift from a man who wanted to date me. It was a skin care product for bad skin. I felt offended and never met the man again.
Oh, I am sorry to hear that!
The audacity 🤣🤣
Your voice is so calming. These tips are really good too. I especially like the video of always finding a positive compliment to give in thanks for a gift, even if it is unliked. It is so classy, elegant and truly feminine.
Thank you so much!
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank YOU! Great content. I really enjoy your videos. I'm working on embodying such femininity.
Your voice is a therapy ♥️It's so calming 🌹
Thank you!
She's the perfect balance of classy and fun, she's so beautiful
Thank you 💫
These are some very wise suggestions....I have been dealing with my friends and family disappointment for years: every time they gift me with something, it's something I cannot eat (I have many allergies), some smell I hate, parfumes (I'm allergic to alcohol) or clothes in sizes too small and colours I never ever wear....the frustrating part is, I talk and see them quite often, so they should know these things: every time I open the present I always try not to let them down and thank them....and then they want to see how the clothes look on me or ask me to eat whatever they bought....of course that's when everything goes to hell since they don't take subtle hints like "no now" or "sorry I'm not hungry" and then get disappointed when I say I cannot or see the clothes don't fit at all: the sad part is they suggest I loose weight (I'm not fat at all) or ask me to make an exception to eat what I'm allergic to...and I have to explain them it doesn't work that way, but they still insist and I end up getting angry or my parents have to usher them out of our house with some excuses because they become too insistent. They should watch your videos.
Oh, I am sorry to hear that. That is very insensitive of them. It truly hurts to see that people care more about their gifts than the person whom they intended to make it for..
@@JamilaMusayeva I think they are pissed off by the fact they spend time (and money) selecting what they think it's the perfect gift and don't even consider they have overlooked the fact that I have some health problems and have defined tastes....I understand they have selected the gift thinking about me, but if the image you have of me doesn't correspond to reality it's not my fault: this apperars to be quite a difficult concept for many people, it's as if the have an ideal model of the person/friend/family member and don't like when they are hit in the face by reality...instead of apologizing for the mistake, they get offended by the fact that the person hasn't conformed to their fantasy.
that's so sad. This would be an absolute horror for me. I can't throw anything out someone has gifted me if it isn't damaged and even then I kinda feel sorry about it because they spend time picking it out for me. I hate receiving gifts. I Can relate to your struggle. Gladly I only have some people who do that and not as drastically wrong picked as in your case. Hope in the future it will get better for you
@@redhead0122 I understand perfectly! For years I have saved gifts I didn't want or couldn't use because someone had put time, effort and money to buy me a gift....Until one day I realized it's not so: while I always select gifts with care, if you gift a person dear to your heart something she/he's allergic to, doesn't ever wear or don't ever use, you either pick a random gift or recycle one you yourself receive....maybe even you didn't consider the real person at all if you keep acting as if the person has no health problems and no specific tastes. I'm not saying they do this maliciously, but surely they are not very considerate and attentive.
So now I simply give those gifts away of if it's impossible, I throw them away. Sometimes I'm lucky and I know the shops they bought the gifts in and I'm able to switch them.
It's hard, expecially since you are disappointed and sorry for having to give up the gift, but it gets better with time even if it probably shouldn't.
@@Kleomenides86 yeah as I already mentioned with your family it is way more extreme. For example I got a bag for traveling to my mom. But prior to that I talked with this person about how I have to many bags and trying to sort them out and I already got a new travel case 2 months before the occasion which they knew about. So the intention was good but just not really thought put into it. So its hard for me to get it refunded or give it away as they had good intentions. and I don't want to be ungrateful even if I can't use it. I am pretty minimalistic and hate clutter so this is kinda a dilemma for me 😅As I put a lot of thought into my gifts it is kinda hard for me to understand that people aren't as attentive when gifting. I have lists in my phone what the person likes and doesn't like, if they mentioned they need something or want something so I can pick the right thing for them. Good for you that you have a way of dealing with this situation although it will probably always be frustrating.
Ohh you are looking quite like an Angel in this sparkling white Dress! How nice it is to listen you talking about Gifts with this lovely calming Voice! You are a HeART ❤🧡💛 indeed!!
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when she mentions Brazil, I feel like crying! hahaahh I loveeeed the video
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You’re an excellent lecturer, the historical background at the introduction. Very insightful video....
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I’m learning so much from these videos
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That lip color looks so pretty on her. Her whole makeup is beautiful, I love it 🥺
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This is my favourite channel, always excited and waiting for upcoming video.
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Handmade gifts are a must for me and i love gifting all my family something that i've made or they made
Love them too!
I would be interested to see a video on hosting guests in formal vs casual settings 😊
Hello Jamila, I loved this video.
Thanks for it.
Just a request, please put time stamps in your videos. They're really convenient when you wanna come back and revise some specific advises.
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great tips, as always
Your channel has helped me a lot. Thank you!
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Your voice is sooo smooth like you got that flow that is sooooooooo satisfying. I luv each one of your rules. Keep up the good work girl! ♥️
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So Pretty Candles And Our Beautiful.
Your channel teaches us lot of things,thank you.
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Ma'sha'Allah, you looked so beautiful! And I love how comforting your voice is!
You look like a model I followed every etiquette of yours and I got tons of compliments from people❤
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I didn't skip the video for even a second...I love watching your videos bcze they are so informative and so relaxing... I've realised following etiquettes is such a beautiful thing rather than just being a crap when it comes to treating others... Please keep doing more of these... Also I wanted to know how to refuse people in a polite manner bcze I'm a girl who cannot say no to anyone and bcze of that , I usually end up trapping myself...so I really wanna know how to politely refuse people... Loads of love ❤️❤️❤️💖🤩
Thank you for your kind words! I truly appreciate them ❤️
I love the historical background part at the beginning!
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Watching this video about giving gifts on my birthday haha I hope i can send this video to my family and friends
Services are the best gift because you support another persons business and no clutter ,, massage, nail salon gift card, etc
Depends on the receiver. Not everyone like it.
What should you do if you get lipstick on the cup/glass while drinking? 😶
It's generally not a problem, since a lot of women wear lipstick and it's almost impossible to prevent transfer - you only have to be careful to always drink from the same spot, so you don't leave the whole rim painted!
A real lady always carries tissues in her handbag.
She can do a lot with it.
Remove the stain with one tissue.
Gently press the lips on the tissue before drinking to not leave ugly stains.
Before going out to an event you can think and plan accordingly.
Apply some forever stay lipstick which leaves no red stains everywhere.
Especially on formal occasions this is the best lipstick ever. Your lips will look perfect for up to 24 hours.
The English royal family has a rule that those wearing lipstick must drink from the same spot on their cup or glass, to prevent, as another commenter said, the whole rim being covered in lipstick marks. To try and get none on the rim is to hold yourself to an unreasonable standard, and likely to take you out of the moment, leaving you poor company.
Many find long wearing lipsticks very uncomfortable, so don't be hard on yourself if you can't stand wearing them. If you don't mind them remember that they are not fool proof, and still hold a high likely hood of transferring, particularly after eating.
My friend told me this trick, which actually works sometimes, you can lightly lick your lips before you take a sip.
How about transfer proof lipstick?
In the Netherlands it’s pretty common to give money (especially at children’s birthdays) in a card because that allows the person to buy something they’ll definitely like, or save up for a big purchase! We even have kids asking for only money so they can buy the phone or game they want! I’ve gotten perfume before but I never wore it because i didn’t love the scent.
Always consult the parent and if the parent says he/she wants money, then of course do that.
Me being an Indian felt really nice u mentioning TAJ MEHEL🔥
You are so perfect . Beautiful , elegant , soft spoken , intelligent , etc etc ❤️❤️❤️
I would actually stay away from scented candles, cut flowers and anything involving perfumes and aromas unless you know the person loves that particular thing. A lot of people nowadays are allergic or sensitive towards smells, so it may cause discomfort at a big event, not to mention fragrance preference is very individual.
If you still want to gift a perfume, some fragrance companies may have matching service, where you bring a sample of what the person usually wears and they suggest based on their catalog.
Adding some nuance to this: while it's common nowadays to be sensitive to smells (I happen to be too), it's mostly chemical smells that trigger this. Natural scents are generally a safe bet considering there's always a small risk when gifting. Flower allergies are rare. You make a very valid point, it's very thoughtful to think of this. :)
Thank you for these very useful guidelines to gift giving/receiving. You have beautiful hands Jamila!
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OMG you look like an angel.
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I love how the red of the rose matches the red of your lipstick!!
Hi Jamila, This is the third of your video lessons that I have watched and I really appreciate your perspective of good manners being all about considering the feelings of others.
Many people think of manners as being rules made to torture them.... But you made it clear, especially in gift video, that it is all about considering how to make others comfortable.❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for saying this! I truly appreciate it 🙏🏻
I saw this great advice on reddit that when your budget for a gift is tight, buy a nice version of something small that would usually be quite cheap instead of an "average" version of something less useful. For example, with $15, buy a very nice pen or notebook instead of something "bigger" of low quality. I loved the video!
Your videos are really useful and the way you teach is really amazing. There is a little request from my side, if you can make a video on "phone etiquette" . That would be very helpful. Thank you.
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Your voice is so soothing. You are smart and elegant. Love your videos! Keep them coming please. So pleasing
Hey one video on classroom etiquettes please! ❤️
You are so wonderfully said. I really like the way you speak and explain things. Love from India 💕
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Accept love from Pakistan 🇵🇰. I wait badly fr ur videos. ur voice is soooo soothing n the way u teach is fab. This video particular is what i really wanted to see.
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I wasn't aware of all the things one should take into account when making and recieving a gift, till I saw your video! Thank you for all the useful tipps! 😇
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Hello Jamila!, L❤ve ur VCA earrings, it compliments v well with the dress☺
I'm Brazilian and I didn't know that giving someone a brooch is taboo here. Thanks for that!!
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Eu não sei se isso se aplica mesmo. Procurei no google e não achei nada em inglês ou português...
Couldn't agree more how important it is to understand what's appropriate in certain cultures.
I remember when I was staying in Vietnam and people were giving money in small envelopes. Firstly, I found it very uncomfortable, but then I learned the reason behind it.
A beautiful video as always 💜
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Please please do an etiquette video about video conferences / virtual meetings. Thanks! Love your content!
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Fəxr edirəm ki, Azərbaycanın belə savadlı gəncləri var.i am proud of you.
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enjoyed the video, unlike Anna Bey whose purpose of gifts is the price, this video is a true guide
Considering budget is the most helpful part in the video. By the way, love your dress!
Love from PAKISTAN ❤️
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thank youu ! this video save me every birthday of me or my friends
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*Even in India* or atleast my state we don't generally give shoes as gifts.
Thankyou for a wonderful video, you have the most calming voice😊.
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Thanx for uploading this video much needed ❤ , I was literally so confused on what to gift my cousin💎 . Lots of love .
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Thank you! Hou have beautiful, very calming voice/tone.
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Taj Mahal is really beautiful
This video has so many interesting informations !! A great place to invest your time in .
Love you're videos, I always learn something. You're really relaxing and induce ASMR! ❤
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Once I found your channel, i can't stop watching all your videos. All of them are so helpful. 💜
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always so refreshing, coming here💖
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Your videos is what we all need n your topics are really well choosen
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I wish this video would never end! Love everything about it!
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Jama I loved this one! Great job!
You are saving me everyday!
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Never knew this would be sooooooo usefull ! Neat , calm and pleasant presentation ❤️
Love from India
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I just discovered your channel and I absolutely love it!
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Hi Jamila whatever the topic is, the way you present in such sweet low tone with ease is what gets etched in my mind. I have forwarded your talks to my cousin and they felt the same. thank you🤗
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You should do how to talk and ans questions perfectly.