For Women who think their men must prioritize them over the kids, just ask them that : "when you have a son, do you really want him to prioritize his gf over you?" And then sit back and watch the cognitive dissonance happen
Yea, if she were a single mother and the new manfriend told her that he doesn't want to see her kid in the house, and that she should send him to her grandmother or to give him in adoption, then her hipocrisy would show.
Men can't help their height, you can help your weight, wimen go berserk if you judge their weight but they will freely judge a man on his height, that is the point, the double standards., which are disgusting. Men are shamed for their preference, thats the point
Thought these were funny. He’s right you can’t change your height but you can change your weight, but they’re both preferences so I think either are valid grounds for rejection. She don’t like short kings, he don’t like fatties- okay, no problem; everyone keep it moving!
I’m 5’7. I ain’t gonna hate on them if they don’t want me cuz I’m shorter. It is genuinely a preference. My only problem is when they start making fun of me for it. And also the whole “napoleon-complex” thing really pisses me off. That shouldn’t be a thing that exists. Whoever came up with that is genuinely a bad person.
@@memetsb I agree totally. Napoleon was not even short in his era, he was average height. Somehow shaming men seems too be acceptable by society but IT IS NOT, especially now when we're not allowed to call a man dressed as a woman Sir, etc.
At this point whole nature/biology is the sole enemy of love. At the end of the day we ALL desire young, healthy and beautiful people. 99% of the populace can fall in love ONLY with the young, healthy and beautiful people. Women want successful, beautiful men and men want young, beautiful women. You say women are " hypergamous creatures" who can't love unconditionally, well no sh... Men can't love unconditionally either. Besides, how can you love someone who's nothing but a "hypergamous creature" to you? You can't love someone and despise them at the same time.
@@TheJaybass32 hyoergany is for those looking for short term fun with no commitment , but if you want long term hypergamy is a losing game because that higher level person probably has better options than you.
Not gonna lie. Now that I'm married, mom come after wifey. Bible says to leave your parents and cleave to your wife. My dad, a pastor and also my counselor, told me to worry about my wife first.
21:25 - Being asked to sign something doesn't mean you have to. If you don't, then why would you drag the person onto a show to try and get them back?!
Pretty privilege is a thing, unfortunately, I usually don’t give in to a woman that looks attractive, one time I said to a girl, when I talk, you listen
Jack i don't agree about putting your mother first in a marriage. Because if we all stit down one it's not God's way and two. Didn't some of us see how are parents put eachother first so what's the difference. And this can cause lots of problem in your relationships and then wonder why you can't keep or find a good partner. Yall need to stop listening to social media and open up a Bible fr.
4:40 "a finer woman thAn her" It always surprises me how anglophones can't spell the simplest shit. "they're, their and there" are just as terrible. Or "too and to". Has anyone been to school in America? Doesnt't really seem like it.
That’s just BS ladies, if a woman is fat she can do something about it A man can’t suddenly just put on some hight. Once a person stop growing ( in their early 20th) that’s the hight you will have. I’m sorry ladies but the way men are treating you is TOTALLY your own fault. There is no man on this planet or any other planet in universe that have to take all crap and disrespect etc that you give them for just being men If you want respect, you need to EARN it by GIVING respect and show your worth it!
12:51 - What is this even mean? The dude says parents should stay together for the kid? That's very stupid. It just creates 2 depressed and angry parents, a toxic environment, a messed up household for the kid. Extremely bad. The best thing my parents did was divorcing. My brother's and my life got instantly better. No stressful home anymore. Sure, it wasn't easy, but was WAAAAY better than parents who were yelling, being mad all the time. That's the worst.
I love the expectation of women treating men like a transaction and they need to pay, but the moment you flip the script and make it transactional, they wanna be like no... Don't want to be treated like a prostitute.... then don't act like one.
"this generation" - No... You really think that back in 200 years ago, women didn't like money? That families didn't want to let their daughters marry a guy in a poorhouse and they wanted a rich dude that makes hard cash? I don't blame women if they want a rich guy, and I'm not rich at all. (Married for 20 years though.) 🙂
A man is to leave his family and cleave to his wife. But that only works if his heart safely trusts in the wife. So if she is not safe, he will stick to mama. If she is safe and he still sticks to mama, he is not the right guy.
If a woman cares more about me than our kids then that’s not the woman for me although I think it’s wrong to put your parents before your wife when you get married you leave your parents and you become one with her
Kids always come first. You make time for your significant other. You love your significant other and put them above other people. Many people for years have been putting others ahead of their children and look what's happened to the world. Look what's happened to girls and boys. Look at all the kids that need homes. See all the messed up kids. You better bet if my husband would have ever tried to hurt my sons it would have taken everything within me not to kill him. He never did hurt them. My son's came before everyone. Just as they came first before me.
Only direct thing i disagree with, that holds facts and purpose in: when you're married God always first, then your wife. Ya become one. denying her is denying you. then your kids, then your mom. just as she listened to her husband when you were a kid and the husband/dad looked for purpose (God). Kids don't come between spouse because when they grow up and leave ya stuck as strangers. Ya are still suppose to be one. A unit. Can't stop that and that's what God asks of every man and woman.
A contract like that is only good if the man is a millionare or a sugar daddy to protect his assets. If its for a normal relationship that is off. Id be getting alarm bells in my head. Sounds like the start to a dark romance wattpad story😳 with weddings thats why theres prenups but for just dating thats a bit much imo
10:10 The woman in white has become a little annoying. She always speak in an arogant tone. I mean, I agree with her views, most of the time, but just be a little more pleasant.
The one thing I will ALWAYS disagree with is putting your kids or mom before your wife. This is the mentality that leads to the skyrocketing divorce rates. Kids should know they are secondary to ANY adult, but especially your spouse. You model for them the type of relationship you would want them to have. I want my sons to be number one in their wives eyes, and vice versa. Your mother should always be honored, but she should also insist that as an adult, you put your wife before her, otherwise she just raised a mommas boy.
i don't care if it's my mom or my dad, family _always_ comes first. these are the people who've always been there for me, why wouldn't i extend that back?
11:20 The guy AND the NARRATOR's priorities are completely messed up. Biblically speaking, your wife always comes first (after God). Once you get merried, your parents have given you to another you should not put them above your spouse. Your children are given to you by God to nurture, teach and raise and then give them to another. But your wife is SUPPOSED TO be with you for the rest of your life. That is the problem with society today. Wrong priorities!!!!
The Bible also says the wife must submit to the husband. Her happiness does not always come first because the man is supposed to have the final say in all things. Also let's say one of your parents is about to pass away...and your wife wants to go shopping for herself, with your logic you're going to honor your wife's wishes correct??
@@babydriver8134 Now you're being completely rediculous! Have you read the entire Bible? or do you cherry pick what you want from it? or neither? The wife is to be a helper to the husband, but the husband is to love the wife as Christ loves the Church and gave himself for it. Moreover, you are taking the verse out of context. If the wife is supposed to submit to the husband and she wants to go shopping when his parent is about to pass away. If he needs to go him/her, then the wife should support him. The husband AND wife should support eachother with the kind of love Jesus shows them.
More 'whack' than assuming your broke ass doesn't need to pay your half of the bill? Modern woman have made 'dating' transactional. You've turned yourselves into prostitutes. Why would you think you're getting paid if your not doing your job?
11:00 I hate to say it guys, but she is right. Your mom cannot be your priority when you have a wife... and your kids are the fruits of your marriages; they require a lot of attention, sure, but they do not hold priority over your spouse.
My wife and I made a verbal contract, no paper, no lawyers. 37 years so far. 4 kids 6 grandkids 2 homes, which I signed both over to her as soon as they were paid. It was never about me or her, it has always been about US. EFF probate court.
That girl crying that her boyfriend won’t take her to see her ex in hospital, like what the hell lady. He’s gone just like you just now.
If rejecting a woman because of her weight is body shaming, and rude.
Then rejecting a man because of his height is no different.
40 with 5 kids 3 baby daddies is craaaazy!!
I have a cousin who at age 25 had 5 baby daddies and didnt take care of none of her kids.
@@LevelUpDaily434 and how many of her kids now have crimnal records thanks to her?
@@LevelUpDaily434 Damn!!
For Women who think their men must prioritize them over the kids, just ask them that : "when you have a son, do you really want him to prioritize his gf over you?"
And then sit back and watch the cognitive dissonance happen
Yea, if she were a single mother and the new manfriend told her that he doesn't want to see her kid in the house, and that she should send him to her grandmother or to give him in adoption, then her hipocrisy would show.
Gf & wife are 2 different things. If she is married she is supposed to come first. Check your Bible.
@@jamesmudd4162 i dont believe in god. Checkmate
5 kids from 3 baby daddies??? and under 18 ?? damn...
that woman really worked hard with that job
Guess Durex is a strange word to these women no Durex no enter.👊👍
Happy holidays Jack ! 🎄⛄🎉
“Height is preference” 🤦♂️
Men can't help their height, you can help your weight, wimen go berserk if you judge their weight but they will freely judge a man on his height, that is the point, the double standards., which are disgusting. Men are shamed for their preference, thats the point
Thought these were funny. He’s right you can’t change your height but you can change your weight, but they’re both preferences so I think either are valid grounds for rejection. She don’t like short kings, he don’t like fatties- okay, no problem; everyone keep it moving!
I’m 5’7. I ain’t gonna hate on them if they don’t want me cuz I’m shorter. It is genuinely a preference. My only problem is when they start making fun of me for it. And also the whole “napoleon-complex” thing really pisses me off. That shouldn’t be a thing that exists. Whoever came up with that is genuinely a bad person.
@@memetsb I agree totally. Napoleon was not even short in his era, he was average height. Somehow shaming men seems too be acceptable by society but IT IS NOT, especially now when we're not allowed to call a man dressed as a woman Sir, etc.
Height is preference
It is impossible for a hypergamous creature to truly love. Love goes against it's very nature. Infact, true love is the sole enemy of hypergamy
At this point whole nature/biology is the sole enemy of love. At the end of the day we ALL desire young, healthy and beautiful people. 99% of the populace can fall in love ONLY with the young, healthy and beautiful people. Women want successful, beautiful men and men want young, beautiful women. You say women are " hypergamous creatures" who can't love unconditionally, well no sh...
Men can't love unconditionally either. Besides, how can you love someone who's nothing but a "hypergamous creature" to you? You can't love someone and despise them at the same time.
@@TheJaybass32 hyoergany is for those looking for short term fun with no commitment , but if you want long term hypergamy is a losing game because that higher level person probably has better options than you.
His preference is absolutely correct. Any woman who wants the man to choose between his mother and her is not the woman for you.
Not gonna lie. Now that I'm married, mom come after wifey. Bible says to leave your parents and cleave to your wife. My dad, a pastor and also my counselor, told me to worry about my wife first.
I was about to bring the Word of God.. to be a Man, we should set our priorities by the God who designed Man!
11:35 why do they have to be ranked at all? Family is family & your parents, kids & spouse are all the same with siblings slightly behind.
21:25 - Being asked to sign something doesn't mean you have to. If you don't, then why would you drag the person onto a show to try and get them back?!
Pretty privilege is a thing, unfortunately, I usually don’t give in to a woman that looks attractive, one time I said to a girl, when I talk, you listen
Im never asking my future wife what she wants, im just choosing.
Less headaches if you do that
Women are like a car you have to test drive them first before you take them home and leave them in the garage.
if parking is so bad somewhere that you have to block a parking spot for your friend, then maybe just go somewhere else instead of being annoying.
Meeting for first time: mum, sister, you!
6 months in: mum, sister, you!
3 years in: mum, sister, you!
Engaged: mum, sister, you!
Married: mum, sister, you!
Have a child: child, mum, sister, you!
Natural all the way
Jack i don't agree about putting your mother first in a marriage. Because if we all stit down one it's not God's way and two. Didn't some of us see how are parents put eachother first so what's the difference. And this can cause lots of problem in your relationships and then wonder why you can't keep or find a good partner. Yall need to stop listening to social media and open up a Bible fr.
4:40 "a finer woman thAn her"
It always surprises me how anglophones can't spell the simplest shit. "they're, their and there" are just as terrible. Or "too and to".
Has anyone been to school in America? Doesnt't really seem like it.
I see it all the time.
I try not to let it get to me though.
I agree with you're comment.
It's a spelling mistake, chill out man
Doesn't doesn't have two tts
Your being to harsh they're 😂
I agree with you though.
That’s just BS ladies, if a woman is fat she can do something about it
A man can’t suddenly just put on some hight. Once a person stop growing ( in their early 20th) that’s the hight you will have.
I’m sorry ladies but the way men are treating you is TOTALLY your own fault. There is no man on this planet or any other planet in universe that have to take all crap and disrespect etc that you give them for just being men
If you want respect, you need to EARN it by GIVING respect and show your worth it!
12:51 - What is this even mean? The dude says parents should stay together for the kid? That's very stupid. It just creates 2 depressed and angry parents, a toxic environment, a messed up household for the kid. Extremely bad. The best thing my parents did was divorcing. My brother's and my life got instantly better. No stressful home anymore. Sure, it wasn't easy, but was WAAAAY better than parents who were yelling, being mad all the time. That's the worst.
11:33 that woman is correct. When you are married, the husband & wife come first, kids 2nd, mom 3rd!!
Don’t ever have kids
UNREAL.
I love the expectation of women treating men like a transaction and they need to pay, but the moment you flip the script and make it transactional, they wanna be like no... Don't want to be treated like a prostitute.... then don't act like one.
Happy holidays 🎄🎄🎄im always rejected 😭 i can relate it sucks but i believe i will find someone some day
The best way to love your children is to love your husband or wife
"this generation" - No... You really think that back in 200 years ago, women didn't like money? That families didn't want to let their daughters marry a guy in a poorhouse and they wanted a rich dude that makes hard cash? I don't blame women if they want a rich guy, and I'm not rich at all. (Married for 20 years though.) 🙂
10:53 Blood is thicker than water.
These generations are insane😂😂😂 bring back the 90s please
A man is to leave his family and cleave to his wife. But that only works if his heart safely trusts in the wife. So if she is not safe, he will stick to mama. If she is safe and he still sticks to mama, he is not the right guy.
Wife comes over mom if it’s not that way then youre to immature to be married and should stay with your mom
I gotta hear what Brittany Renner gonna say about it. LOL
Height is not everything if you have that face 😂
Nope!! According to the Bible, once married the two become one...in the vows it says forsaking ALL other's
Modern women typically break every single marriage vow.
5:02 Wait! What did she say?
The fact that they. Are broke and. Act like there have money
Wake up broke girl
U not princess
I LOVE THE LADY NORARATOR
I had no idea we have something called a relationship contract. Good to know.
I’d get a good lawyer to go over that relationship contract. There could be a lot of legal stuff that you could be misinterpreting.
i guess you dont know Sheldon Cooper
@ 😂
first time being here so early
Ikr
If a woman cares more about me than our kids then that’s not the woman for me although I think it’s wrong to put your parents before your wife when you get married you leave your parents and you become one with her
Kids always come first. You make time for your significant other. You love your significant other and put them above other people. Many people for years have been putting others ahead of their children and look what's happened to the world. Look what's happened to girls and boys. Look at all the kids that need homes. See all the messed up kids. You better bet if my husband would have ever tried to hurt my sons it would have taken everything within me not to kill him. He never did hurt them. My son's came before everyone. Just as they came first before me.
Only direct thing i disagree with, that holds facts and purpose in: when you're married God always first, then your wife. Ya become one. denying her is denying you. then your kids, then your mom. just as she listened to her husband when you were a kid and the husband/dad looked for purpose (God). Kids don't come between spouse because when they grow up and leave ya stuck as strangers. Ya are still suppose to be one. A unit. Can't stop that and that's what God asks of every man and woman.
Bro this happens everyday
6:05 There is a difference between plastic and skinny
A contract like that is only good if the man is a millionare or a sugar daddy to protect his assets. If its for a normal relationship that is off. Id be getting alarm bells in my head. Sounds like the start to a dark romance wattpad story😳 with weddings thats why theres prenups but for just dating thats a bit much imo
Emotions says the truth not lies lol are they dumb
10:10 The woman in white has become a little annoying. She always speak in an arogant tone. I mean, I agree with her views, most of the time, but just be a little more pleasant.
Yeah
The arrogance is necessary
1:22 Those two are 304s
What do we only get 3 choices or Eugenia or Lizzie or bbl no thank you, please bring back the 2000
The one thing I will ALWAYS disagree with is putting your kids or mom before your wife. This is the mentality that leads to the skyrocketing divorce rates. Kids should know they are secondary to ANY adult, but especially your spouse. You model for them the type of relationship you would want them to have. I want my sons to be number one in their wives eyes, and vice versa. Your mother should always be honored, but she should also insist that as an adult, you put your wife before her, otherwise she just raised a mommas boy.
Kids should KNOW they are secondary? Sorry your parents didnt love you enough. Please heal yourself before having children 💙
10:35 Lady J is the wise woman of the year.
Women consider making 60k plus broke
She wanted him because her ftiend was getting him
W
i don't care if it's my mom or my dad, family _always_ comes first.
these are the people who've always been there for me, why wouldn't i extend that back?
Early 🔥👌🏼
Ladies do you take care of your man, do you cook for him, do you clean your house, do you take care of the kids, do you give him your heart and soul?
i'm not happy :)
10:32 ms.frizzle spitting facts
11:20 The guy AND the NARRATOR's priorities are completely messed up. Biblically speaking, your wife always comes first (after God). Once you get merried, your parents have given you to another you should not put them above your spouse. Your children are given to you by God to nurture, teach and raise and then give them to another. But your wife is SUPPOSED TO be with you for the rest of your life. That is the problem with society today. Wrong priorities!!!!
The Bible also says the wife must submit to the husband. Her happiness does not always come first because the man is supposed to have the final say in all things. Also let's say one of your parents is about to pass away...and your wife wants to go shopping for herself, with your logic you're going to honor your wife's wishes correct??
True.
@@Joe-eo1uo
Wow, you sure put a lot of your own spin on what deltekkie wrote.
Maybe improve your reading comprehension?? Work on it.
@@babydriver8134 Now you're being completely rediculous! Have you read the entire Bible? or do you cherry pick what you want from it? or neither? The wife is to be a helper to the husband, but the husband is to love the wife as Christ loves the Church and gave himself for it. Moreover, you are taking the verse out of context. If the wife is supposed to submit to the husband and she wants to go shopping when his parent is about to pass away. If he needs to go him/her, then the wife should support him. The husband AND wife should support eachother with the kind of love Jesus shows them.
That's whack, trying to force a woman to have sex or else you won't pay for her food.. WHACK!!!!
More 'whack' than assuming your broke ass doesn't need to pay your half of the bill? Modern woman have made 'dating' transactional. You've turned yourselves into prostitutes. Why would you think you're getting paid if your not doing your job?
11:00 I hate to say it guys, but she is right. Your mom cannot be your priority when you have a wife... and your kids are the fruits of your marriages; they require a lot of attention, sure, but they do not hold priority over your spouse.
Sorry, but I couldn’t get through this video….
Why?
I can not stand to watch women degrade themselves over some pos!
Why?
Why?
Ah semi click bait man stop that.
Let's debate womans
Have a nice respective debate
Over what@evanpocock6083
The champagne, "we should be above this" Yet we aren't, we are just as petty as them
22:45 tf man.didnt even show the video in the thumbnail
Yes yes he did
My wife and I made a verbal contract, no paper, no lawyers.
37 years so far. 4 kids 6 grandkids 2 homes, which I signed both over to her as soon as they were paid.
It was never about me or her, it has always been about US.
EFF probate court.
Early
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