Fahima Ali On Muslim Marriage Crisis, Priorities For Men, What Sisters Want And More...(EP.064)

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  • Опубликовано: 12 окт 2024

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  • @jahanarabegum4846
    @jahanarabegum4846 18 часов назад +4

    Sister Fahima it is great to have therapists like you out there helping our community navigate through the difficulties that span generations.Now aged 45 i realise how important it is to deal with emotions and trauma which in the past was taboo to encourage.So im happy our younger generation will have better tools to start their marital jouneys.Great interview brother kazi.

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  16 часов назад

      She’s more knowledgeable than I anticipated mashallah.

  • @RSADYNAMICS
    @RSADYNAMICS 20 часов назад +7

    I think the secret to having successful marriage is to have four wives that way they will be grateful for your time

    • @hydragons
      @hydragons 19 часов назад +2

      Congrats. You are about to get cooked medium-well mate.

    • @RSADYNAMICS
      @RSADYNAMICS 19 часов назад

      @@hydragons this is the Fitra of men and Allah has given us provisions to enable us to have more than one wife women are fickle. That’s why we need 4 wives

    • @RSADYNAMICS
      @RSADYNAMICS 19 часов назад

      @@hydragons the sunnah is to have multiple wives

    • @AccountHolder007
      @AccountHolder007 19 часов назад

      @@RSADYNAMICS 😂😂😂 Nice one geezer

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  16 часов назад

      Behave!!!

  • @raalaa121
    @raalaa121 День назад +6

    These conversations are so important i'm glad podcasts like yours with these amazing guests exist.

  • @hodanabdulkadir9019
    @hodanabdulkadir9019 День назад +4

    What amezing episode this is the best episode ever sis fahima nailed it on the head very true everyone needs that one person who trust and not to afraid to judge absolutely that’s my take away also the brother asked all the right questions absolutely we need fahima back part 2, 3 etc

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  День назад

      Thank you we are glad you liked it.

  • @jesusdaughter6559
    @jesusdaughter6559 9 часов назад

    A secret to a successful, healthy marriage is finding a spouse that loves God more than they will ever love you and live by the Bible ❤

  • @GC4justice
    @GC4justice 16 часов назад +2

    This feels like a very western feministic approach to tackling marital problems.. I don’t see how a Muslim couple would stand to benefit from most of what the sister has said.

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  13 часов назад

      Which part of what she said did you have problems with? Time stamps would help.

  • @RSADYNAMICS
    @RSADYNAMICS 20 часов назад +1

    This video inspired me to get divorced … even though I am not married yet

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  18 часов назад

      I don’t find it funny.

    • @RSADYNAMICS
      @RSADYNAMICS 14 часов назад

      @@kazishafiqur brother humour is important in marriage .

  • @momotajchowdhury1245
    @momotajchowdhury1245 15 часов назад

    Good 👍 discussion hope it educate people who are so ignorant about coming out and speak about facts . We need more people to come out and speak out to better the society and next generation to grow !!

  • @samuelahmed5951
    @samuelahmed5951 15 часов назад +2

    This is not the women ou want to have on you're show, as she promotes single motherhood lifestyle on her tik tok

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  13 часов назад

      I have seen the TikTok videos and I think we have to relax here because there is a difference between someone propagating and instigating vs someone who’s just sharing the diary of their life? Allah knows best.

  • @RimaKhatun-m7p
    @RimaKhatun-m7p День назад +1

    Really helpful and educational for everyone. Thank you

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  День назад +1

      I hope you will share with everyone!

  • @momotajchowdhury1245
    @momotajchowdhury1245 15 часов назад

    Very excellent educational and informative I like this sister she is to the point and many will appreciate and many may not but stop using foul language as some using rude words get your self some education who is calling names Thank You 🙏 Thank You brother gor sharing your podcast 👏👏👏👏👏

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  13 часов назад

      Thank you for your kind support.

  • @ashfoyowa6689
    @ashfoyowa6689 15 часов назад

    Good interview but i disagree with what she said about the 6ft plus debate. A lot of women definitely prefer taller men and look down on short men. That doesnt mean there arent short men that get married but shes being disingenuous when she says it a myth

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  13 часов назад

      I also disagree. And this is why I brought it up.

  • @1371990su
    @1371990su 16 часов назад +1

    Height has also been an issue. Unless he can accommodate other ways. For example well off, house , cars and etc. Im sorry but the sis had got it wrong there.
    Sometimes ppl get the whole marriage thing in the wrong way around when they meet someone. You rather take 6 to 12month getting to know someone by asking the correct questions you think youll need to have a successful marriage. Dropping in a few planned arguments to test them out is also necessary. Nobdoy needs to go and see someone on how to live a life. Speak to allah in the middle of the night and thats biggest guidances you can ever have. Not human 😊

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  13 часов назад

      That’s a very interesting perspective I’m not going to lie 😀

    • @1371990su
      @1371990su 13 часов назад +1

      @kazishafiqur I watch your RUclips channel bro. Sometimes it's common sense

  • @miamia1550
    @miamia1550 День назад +5

    I found the guest very boring, It was dragging...45min wud have been fine but this was too long!! 😂😂😂 I stopped watching after 50min.

    • @jenniehaque
      @jenniehaque День назад +4

      Really? Think shes done amazing

    • @miamia1550
      @miamia1550 День назад +1

      ​@@jenniehaquethis is the first time i couldnt finsh the hosts episode. It was boring. I zoned out so many times, but im glad u liked it

    • @kazishafiqur
      @kazishafiqur  День назад +11

      Next time put speed to 1.5x and you will listen very fast.

    • @R4X90
      @R4X90 День назад +5

      It wasn’t boring, you weren’t interested, there’s a difference. It was very informative.

    • @miamia1550
      @miamia1550 День назад

      @@R4X90 it was boring and thats my opinion! Are we allowed to have opinion or not? Information was repetitive!! Its not my fault I lost interest.

  • @Naz546
    @Naz546 22 часа назад +2

    Shoitan betin logeh latyami koreh ni

    • @Yogeezah12345
      @Yogeezah12345 22 часа назад +1

      Na tor logeh foga

    • @Yogeezah12345
      @Yogeezah12345 22 часа назад +1

      Goo khaya mor

    • @ameenali280
      @ameenali280 19 часов назад +1

      Tor bafor mata, halar hala

    • @AmaiEthoRaate
      @AmaiEthoRaate 16 часов назад

      ​@@Yogeezah12345dur foga

    • @Naz546
      @Naz546 15 часов назад

      @@Yogeezah12345 goo khabah