You can not inspire a man to have ambition nor vision. I was in a relationship with a man have my own business but he didn’t have vision. He SAID what he wanted but never pursued it. Now he’s 58 years old and still no money in the bank. So NO
It’s only been 3 months and he has a good start in life . I been with mine for 19 years my problem was that I married him based on potential. He never executed. We are 35 and he is 37 . I don’t know what to do . I been the bread winner . People with no vision bothers me too . Now I’m stuck
Leave now. Otherwise you will be like me... pushing 50 and realizing I made a huge mistake in staying and now having to prepare myself for a divorce. 😕I told him early on that I was disappointed and did not sign up for me taking care of a man child. I was 31 which was 2 years in and I still stayed hoping it would change. 2 weeks ago he quit his last job after 3 months because he did not like it and something broke in me. Im done.
I agree its one of the fundamental pillars for a relationship. Have the conversation and take the 3 months and observe. Use the time for other fundamental conversations such as whether he wants kids. Observe other things which are important and see whether it aligns with what you want out of life. I have the same problem and still got married and 21 years in I am looking to break up because of this and other things.
You can not inspire a man to have ambition nor vision. I was in a relationship with a man have my own business but he didn’t have vision. He SAID what he wanted but never pursued it. Now he’s 58 years old and still no money in the bank. So NO
My advice...just leave him alone instead of trying bullying him to being someone or something he's not.
My ex literally was surrounded by my family which is full of goals and ambition and nothing happened 😅. He hates failing and always says oh I’ll see
It’s only been 3 months and he has a good start in life . I been with mine for 19 years my problem was that I married him based on potential. He never executed. We are 35 and he is 37 . I don’t know what to do . I been the bread winner . People with no vision bothers me too . Now I’m stuck
Leave now. Otherwise you will be like me... pushing 50 and realizing I made a huge mistake in staying and now having to prepare myself for a divorce. 😕I told him early on that I was disappointed and did not sign up for me taking care of a man child. I was 31 which was 2 years in and I still stayed hoping it would change. 2 weeks ago he quit his last job after 3 months because he did not like it and something broke in me. Im done.
I agree its one of the fundamental pillars for a relationship. Have the conversation and take the 3 months and observe. Use the time for other fundamental conversations such as whether he wants kids. Observe other things which are important and see whether it aligns with what you want out of life. I have the same problem and still got married and 21 years in I am looking to break up because of this and other things.
I am so glad there is a podcast like this! I’m a bit of a loner so this segment of you guys’ channel is great for me ! I’ve watched every episode yet.
How do I explain this to someone I want to stop talking to because of this? Feels like I always find women like this
I’m soooo happy I found you guys!!!!!🙏💕
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You don’t.
I love tik tok but I also watch what I'm interested in so my algorithm is catered to me
It's all bs why a man need all that most women sleep around with men don't have nothing
So a man isn't supposed to want to learn and grow at all? Even for himself?
Are you 12? 😂😂😂
A black male commented this . Had to
Thank you, ladies, for the advice! I love you guys! Thank you for the encouragement on my goal to become a teacher. It means a lot. 🥹❤️
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