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  • Опубликовано: 19 дек 2024

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  • @ellie-louise5302
    @ellie-louise5302 2 года назад +188

    As soon as you get into your 20’s you’ll realise how necessary and normal it is to enjoy things on your own. You’ve got to be your own best friend but being able to learn that in your teens is something you can benefit from definitely!

    • @herman_4558
      @herman_4558 2 года назад +2

      Is that really true? Im 15, and i dont have any friends, lol, i hang out with my self and really really enjoyed the time and privacy i have. It is truly fun that you didnt have to worry about anyone, moments alone made me reflect on myself and i become more self aware. I dont really know if thats a good thing in college or university but i did heard its best you gain friends becasue you cant really suceed doing abything alone and need friends to be there for you, though i do love doing things at my own pace and independently, because i hate getting physically close to people, i just used to it, before, i was so embarassed and shy that i had no friends, but i gradually got used to it, and loved it, inn fact i'm not prepared to make new friends next year, but if its necessary i'll try, but i hope that gaining friends wont gradually make me hate being lonely or alone, because i do realise that being alone or lonely in fact is a great thing and everyone in life would have to go through that phase and get use to it, im happy, but i just hope gaining friends wont make me not use to being alone anymore. Because when i first began that lonely phase i was just so embarrassed that i had no friends and having no friends made you look so awkward and people didnt want to be friends with you.

  • @sillysafa
    @sillysafa 2 года назад +779

    it actually makes me so happy seeing her living the life ive always read about in books or thought about in my dreams this is so wholesome

  • @hannahdigitals
    @hannahdigitals 2 года назад +1606

    you’re slowing convincing me to move to the English countryside, it looks so peaceful

    • @aminfx4112
      @aminfx4112 2 года назад +25

      It's peaceful no one can deny that but in the meantime scary

    • @kristanicole8123
      @kristanicole8123 2 года назад +7

      @@aminfx4112 why is it scary?

    • @cocteautwin
      @cocteautwin 2 года назад +1

      truly, it’s beautiful there

    • @sushmithaapandidhar9979
      @sushmithaapandidhar9979 2 года назад

      Yea tru lol

    • @irenelopez5554
      @irenelopez5554 2 года назад +14

      Oh my, I'm truly convinced of it, it's so peaceful and beautifulI. I wish I could, but I don't even live in the UK 🥲 maybe one day...🤞🏼🥺

  • @sophiaisabelle027
    @sophiaisabelle027 2 года назад +232

    Enjoying time alone gets you to only focus on yourself and reflect on the things that you need some time to actually dwell on. There’s nothing wrong with just spending time with yourself. It’s beneficial to walk around and feel more happy or content than spending time with someone.

  • @moonyscorner615
    @moonyscorner615 2 года назад +433

    i hope this doesn’t sound silly but your videos have shown me that life doesn’t have to be lonely when you’re alone :’) i don’t really like hanging out with people on my days off / every weekend because college can be socially draining, but sometimes sitting at home doing nothing can feel very isolating - your videos have shown me that you can be at peace and do things by yourself (such as going for a walk) and not having to care that you’re alone, so thank you for that

    • @vickyhao1885
      @vickyhao1885 2 года назад +7

      girl I feel the exact same, just started college 2 months ago and the environment is convincing me that I have to hang out w ppl every weekend and post stories about it😢

    • @evaggeliamanetakh6728
      @evaggeliamanetakh6728 2 года назад +5

      @@vickyhao1885 i feel u so much.. can't express how much i actually relate to this. uni has started for me but its just draining going out with people since that's all they do lol,, hanging out by myself is much better.. yea

    • @PLuna-gf6sh
      @PLuna-gf6sh 2 года назад +7

      It brings me some sort of relief that others also don’t really like hanging out with people on their days off lmao

    • @evaggeliamanetakh6728
      @evaggeliamanetakh6728 2 года назад +1

      @@PLuna-gf6sh honestly same.. im glad we all feel the same, it feels less lonely ;")

  • @adelaide3286
    @adelaide3286 2 года назад +178

    this summer i spent the majority of my time alone (i too am a 17 year old girl). i would go for drives and long walks and take myself to get groceries and to the bookstore or thrifting or i'd cook fun meals for myself. it wasn't because i didn't have anyone around me or any friends or any support, but it was because i found that spending time by myself helped me love myself more. and i also just really enjoyed it. i started to learn all the little things that make me happy, or things that made me laugh, or that just made me feel anything at all. i became very independent and was able to make a lot of choices for how i spent my time; either productively or leisurely. i love my friends and my family and all my social spheres but having days alone is super important and teaches you to love yourself a little bit more each time ♡

    • @manasvi4404
      @manasvi4404 2 года назад +5

      love that for you

    • @maria-77
      @maria-77 2 года назад +5

      this comforts me so much, i have so many outgoing friends who are always going out for fun, which makes me feel a little guilty sometimes bc as much as i love them, i love my time alone. you rlly put things into perspective for me thank you

    • @gothgirlgrace
      @gothgirlgrace 2 года назад +7

      beautifully said, I’m glad you made those empowering decisions for yourself

    • @evaggeliamanetakh6728
      @evaggeliamanetakh6728 2 года назад +3

      @@maria-77 ..can't even express how much i relate to how you feel. you genuinely explained my emotions, i feel less alone after reading this. hope you'll be able to find whatever you're looking for in life, im sending you my love.

    • @maria-77
      @maria-77 2 года назад +2

      @@evaggeliamanetakh6728 i’m so glad i could make you feel less alone- and you’ve done that for me as well, thank you. you’re so so sweet, thank you for the kind words and i wish the same for you. sending u love- wish you all the happiness the world has to offer

  • @jvliakay
    @jvliakay 2 года назад +107

    I’m 22. I spent all of my pre-teen/teenage years mostly alone. I had a great friend group and we would hang out probably once a month but other than that I did everything on my own. I think it sets you up great for life. Sometimes you don’t always have people there to support you. All you have is you. You’re definitely right that alone time is good :)

    • @simrankhurana0
      @simrankhurana0 2 года назад +8

      Thank you for this. I’m 18 and my friends are all about that party life, going out every night. But I just don’t enjoy it that much and I genuinely thought there was something wrong with me and that I should want the party life too. I’m trying to come to terms with the fact that I don’t need other people to enjoy my life (of course everyone needs people to be around with, I just mean that I don’t need to constantly be around someone to have fun). I think it’s when I’m alone that I truly notice the little things about myself, like what I enjoy, what makes me smile and what drains me of my energy.

    • @christina8866
      @christina8866 Год назад

      totally relate to this!

  • @annieeinn
    @annieeinn 2 года назад +169

    The thoughts I’d been having for a long time were that I’m 17 and “Why am I so different from every teenager around me?”. But now I’m really enjoying spare time alone and learning to be the person for myself i’d love to live with till the end:) For the first time in my life I’m finally in the place where I’m admitting and admiring myself and my preferences as well. I truly feel that I’m living. That’s the point I wish everyone to be at.

    • @nelly3625
      @nelly3625 2 года назад +1

      Yeeeees

    • @namhanami
      @namhanami 2 года назад

      @@nelly3625 уууууууууееееее

    • @real.parzival
      @real.parzival 2 года назад +1

      i think being different from other, thinking different and having different goals from others in life is whats makes a someone unique person. and i think im one of that persons and im happy about that

  • @emmabruh
    @emmabruh 2 года назад +12

    Countrysides are so relaxing ngl, I really enjoy living in a small town in the German countryside. It suits myself so much, I find comfort in it and my anxious self doesn’t get stressed as much

  • @amilia_raymond3634
    @amilia_raymond3634 2 года назад +56

    as someone who lives in a rlly busy city, i feel so at peace when watching your videos. i love the cozy countryside vibe. making me want to move to europe more and more

    • @emmakate2376
      @emmakate2376 2 года назад +4

      sameee but also i live in portland oregon ( literally trees everywhere lol) there’s a forest and a river literally down the hill from my house but also i live in a big city i get both worlds

    • @thu9312
      @thu9312 2 года назад

      Yasssss. I'm 18 and I don't even have a car so escaping the busy city seems like an impossible task for me. There are not mountains or rivers around the city, just buildings and endless lines of traffic, which make me sick

  • @_sana22
    @_sana22 2 года назад +27

    You should never be embarrassed of what you are doing. My dear you are doing better than all this teenagers. Spending time alone is the best life. Being able to enjoy your own company is something people wish to have. I wish I could live in a place like your's. You are amazing and you are living the best lifee

  • @kozlikgg
    @kozlikgg 2 года назад +36

    this is exactly what we need during this cosy season ☕️🍪🌧️

  • @carysrachell
    @carysrachell  2 года назад +16

    hello can everyone watch this vid now let me know if it working!!🫶

    • @Uossaf7
      @Uossaf7 2 года назад

      Yeah, it is working, just go to a safe places, connection with nature is a helpful way to realize who you are beyond what you are thinking. Wishing you a fruitful journey. Take care ✌

    • @serino6822
      @serino6822 2 года назад

      Yes it working

  • @gothgirlgrace
    @gothgirlgrace 2 года назад +20

    this was so peaceful to watch, I love your attitude and outlook. it’s so refreshing to see and you have a beautiful soul

  • @jordonphilips
    @jordonphilips Год назад +4

    I cannot believe you are only 17, your understanding of the world is incredible. When you said it literally doesn’t matter we’re all gonna be dead one day I just took the deepest breath and calmed myself down so thank you for that

  • @abbysarchives3451
    @abbysarchives3451 2 года назад +21

    this is so cozy. i love your videos, they bring me joy ❤

  • @jas-oi9qv
    @jas-oi9qv 2 года назад +16

    watching your videos is like also my alone time. it's so peaceful

  • @_sana22
    @_sana22 2 года назад +10

    Your recent videos are so calming so nice and so asthetic

  • @murkygravy9727
    @murkygravy9727 2 года назад +16

    i love everything about this video, the filming, the editing, the music and ofc carys

  • @oliviamcmeeken2928
    @oliviamcmeeken2928 2 года назад +11

    i just stumbled across this video and i absolutely loved it. it was just so calming and it really shows that being alone doesn't have to be lonely. :)

  • @anasudar
    @anasudar 2 года назад +1

    spending time alone walking outside or just doing things you simply enjoy is probably quite helpful to get to know oneself and feel more comfortable

  • @leahmegan
    @leahmegan 2 года назад +55

    you remind me a lot of my younger self
    though i’m only 20 lol
    this video was peaceful . you captured nature beautifully . music was perfect and everything came together so well (: keep makin videos

  • @cocteautwin
    @cocteautwin 2 года назад +2

    doing fun things alone like taking scenic walks is always better bc what else would i do alone? ruminate n over analyze everything ?

  • @mia.martin.19
    @mia.martin.19 2 года назад +10

    I love those little insights that you share with us

  • @jessicasimpson8201
    @jessicasimpson8201 Год назад +4

    Hi Rachel,i am from India living in small village of Sikkim ,gangtok .the place here is so peaceful and the weather is always cozy . I was 14 when I understood the law of life ,my conscience, the healing journey after worst teenage breakup..Glad for that moment as it let me understand Mindfulness 🌄. I am 16rn and i often go for early walks and evening i venture further sometimes.and every walk i have took has made me feel quite relaxed, i feel there an insane energy in nature 🍓I have had bad days as well over the years but walking in nature makes my day save and turns around the whole mood ❤️ nevertheless ily luv your service the vlogs are tranquil and mesmerizing. I see world differently than the people living near my Village side , i enjoy watching the season change,the birds chirp etc like i feel no one here has ever enjoyed the nature like I have in my teen year☕

  • @victoireonfray8211
    @victoireonfray8211 2 года назад +36

    hey love ! for the cutting trees part don’t worry if they are cutting just a few tree (usually big ones) it’s to offer the chance of growing to the smaller trees
    bc if a big tree takes all the light and put shadow over the smaller ones then they can’t do photosynthesis
    if they were cutting a big patch then i has nothing to do with what i explained lol

    • @annieeinn
      @annieeinn 2 года назад

      Thank you for that, sweetheart🥺. I’m not Rachel but I also need this)

  • @leksannaaa5393
    @leksannaaa5393 2 года назад +2

    im in love with your videos!! so much comfort and peace. you're living my dream life

  • @justmedoinstuff
    @justmedoinstuff 2 года назад

    i love the nature girl I LOVED THIS VIDEO cause its so comforting

  • @danielachiran3975
    @danielachiran3975 2 года назад +5

    I can't say in words how much I enjoy watching your videos!!

  • @wiktoriazaleska1883
    @wiktoriazaleska1883 2 года назад

    the most comfort person ever, love everything about your videos and I need more

  • @Itsdaiisy
    @Itsdaiisy 2 года назад +5

    This video was so calming and beautiful,I liked it so much 🤍

  • @patrycjaantosiak9356
    @patrycjaantosiak9356 2 года назад +3

    You are my comfort character
    Ily Carys

  • @moritz57
    @moritz57 2 года назад

    doing things alone is so alpha! just dont wait for others to share your love just do it on your own cause you wanna enjoy it :) inspiring have a good time

  • @polinasdream
    @polinasdream 2 года назад

    It's so wonderful that you're just seventeen and you have such pure mind

  • @altheasevilla139
    @altheasevilla139 2 года назад +2

    if i took a walk in woods like that i think i would collapse from pure serotonin

  • @yourfavcapricornlucy
    @yourfavcapricornlucy 2 года назад +1

    i love sm your videos,they give sm comfort plus the vibes and everything are beautiful

  • @pomegranatepeach446
    @pomegranatepeach446 2 года назад +3

    If it helps, sometimes they chop down trees because they have diseases that can spread to all the trees and kill off the whole forest. So sometimes it’s good to chop down a few trees ❤

  • @MarieRieri
    @MarieRieri Год назад

    this is one of my favorite videos on youtube. thank you!

  • @alicjag6317
    @alicjag6317 2 года назад +1

    honestly, you're such an inspiration, love your vlogs

  • @zainahakeem2913
    @zainahakeem2913 2 года назад +1

    Iam in love with this vid ,and the lake is sooo pretty

  • @kosmaria
    @kosmaria 2 года назад +2

    hearing leith ross unexpectedly made me so happy, i loved this video, i hope you are doing well!!

  • @carmencruzanaya5229
    @carmencruzanaya5229 2 года назад

    these videos bring me so much peace

  • @terradisco9319
    @terradisco9319 Год назад +1

    i really wish it was safe enough to do this where i live

  • @АнастасияУралова-д5ю
    @АнастасияУралова-д5ю 2 года назад +2

    i dream of living in a such a beautiful and peaceful place💌

  • @retaj3924
    @retaj3924 2 года назад +4

    First, I liked the vid so much!! And when you sit alone, this is good for you. Sometimes a person needs to spend time with himself. This does not mean that he does not like to spend time with his friends. But he needs some space for himself to collect his thoughts to think about things. He does some of the things he loves. It is good, but not all the time. I loved that you talked about this. i love you so much💟💟💟💟

  • @ceciliasaraiva1628
    @ceciliasaraiva1628 2 года назад

    everything about this video is just gorgeous

  • @keiraoneill7546
    @keiraoneill7546 2 года назад +4

    i love ur videos sm, they bring me so much comfort🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @amimurtazalieva8219
    @amimurtazalieva8219 2 года назад

    you literally make me feel so comfortable, and the nature is just incredible 🤍

  • @lauramotyl4567
    @lauramotyl4567 2 года назад

    whaaaaat spending time alone is literally the best - you should not be embarrassed at all! you are a clearly a very smart 17 year old to catch on to this - and honestly that just makes you really cool. self-reflection and just being able to enjoy your own company are skills not everyone has but will serve you long through your life :) xxx

  • @valvt_
    @valvt_ 2 года назад +4

    ur one of my fav youtubers bc ur vlogs are so comforting and make me feel so happy, so grateful for u carys love this vlog! ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

  • @sharukmsd
    @sharukmsd 2 года назад

    I do the bicycle rides same as you. Wondering around alone. Alone time is good, it help sort the mind out for me.😊

  • @Beautifuldivine24
    @Beautifuldivine24 2 года назад +6

    I literally love u I’ve been trying to find someone my age to watch ur videos are so calming

  • @belmasalkic4766
    @belmasalkic4766 2 года назад

    this video made me miss my small village back home in Europe, you can walk for ages and find small paths, ponds, and streams along the way, wouldn't mind moving back since I live in the U.S

  • @LaurenTuong
    @LaurenTuong 2 года назад

    this is so peaceful! i love this vibe

  • @3vie._.868
    @3vie._.868 2 года назад +3

    You should so make series called random rambles or something and just talk about different subjects when u study or go on a walk, I really like the way say things and ur view on these type of subjects:)

  • @sarahj4486
    @sarahj4486 2 года назад +1

    I cannot get over how beautiful it is where you live!😍

  • @mee4651
    @mee4651 Год назад

    I’m also 17 years old and adventures like these fulfill me so much

  • @mellowmusic9577
    @mellowmusic9577 2 года назад +1

    Great music, great nature, great vibes, great video :)

  • @nenaserafim1774
    @nenaserafim1774 2 года назад

    When I was 19 I went to the UK during uni break, met up with a few mates but then spent heaps of time travelling around on my own and going for amazing walks through the countryside and roman ruins. Nothing to be embarrassed about whatsoever, it's awesome when you can do what you want when you want, and not have to worry about entertaining others ;)

  • @nisanyaman
    @nisanyaman 2 года назад +2

    i'm so happy for you and proud of you for figuring yourself out and enjoying alone time at a young age. it's not for me to say anything lol because I'm just 18 but still. it's so great to see people figuring things out so young.

  • @Βασιλικηνικα-β4θ
    @Βασιλικηνικα-β4θ 2 года назад

    Live and enjoy your time alone it’s very difficult especially in the beginning but after you will feel more confident in your own skin and more indipendent.It’s ok to haven’t a lot of people choose right for a happy life.Amazing things gets time

  • @charo5320
    @charo5320 2 года назад

    this is the most relaxing video i have ever seen

  • @MultiRealdeal09
    @MultiRealdeal09 Год назад

    Simply amazing. Poor trees...
    Do more adventures like this.

  • @kimvu9728
    @kimvu9728 2 года назад

    this is so comforting.

  • @onthebasscleff
    @onthebasscleff 2 года назад

    This is so beautiful. I never knew I needed this but now I am here realising I did. Thank you to the RUclips algorithm ♥️

  • @R_kaldovich
    @R_kaldovich 2 года назад

    I'm in love with your videos 😭😭

  • @pietrafloriani
    @pietrafloriani Год назад

    i think this is the most beautiful vlog i have ever seen

  • @meldauysal
    @meldauysal 2 года назад

    I haven't watched any video as relaxing and peaceful as yours recently. I also used to care what people think of me all the time and I questioned myself because of that , like why I like spending time alone and mostly I prefer being alone. I think that is not something to be questioned. We have just one life and we should live however we want. Thanks for sharing this cosy video with us :)

  • @catamassau7819
    @catamassau7819 2 года назад +1

    omg every time you upload a video it really inspires me to romanticize my life even though i live in buenos aires which is a huge city but your videos kinda remind me to romanticize those moments alone 🥺

  • @rub3183
    @rub3183 Год назад +1

    ‏You really make me feel good and good vibes , watching you from Saudi 🇸🇦 ❤

  • @rebeccamclaren97
    @rebeccamclaren97 2 года назад

    I booked myself an Airbnb in the highlands for a week, went up there with my bike and a load of jumpers, played some tunes, drove for miles, hit the trails, walked for hours, ate a ton of snacks, climbed mountains, read books and slept well. Ngl I actually don't have friends, but in their absence I had a great time and definitely recommend it.

  • @melis58
    @melis58 2 года назад +1

    ı really like your videos they are very realistic ı feel like in our daily life we dont do extreme things as a human beings but you know ın social media everything is very glamorous thats why ı feel like ur videos are more relatable

  • @anna.willss
    @anna.willss 2 года назад

    i’ve just found your channel and i’m obsessed with the whole vibe

  • @Yesther
    @Yesther 2 года назад

    So sweet! Your video made me feel so peaceful. Thank you for making this.

  • @emilyy7023
    @emilyy7023 2 года назад

    this video came up on my recommended and it definitely is a sign, thank you

  • @nayara7604
    @nayara7604 2 года назад +2

    I love nature❤

  • @enchancozreamy
    @enchancozreamy 2 года назад

    your videos are so warm and cozy and you are soo cuuute ,, thanks a lot for the video 💖

  • @merymartinez5179
    @merymartinez5179 2 года назад

    Nada es mejor compañía, que estar contigo misma. Que lindo videos muchas gracias. Es muy sanador :)

  • @rebno5011
    @rebno5011 2 года назад +4

    aaa carys i was abt to go to sleep and i got this notification, i guess i’ll sleep well ❤️
    ps always be careful when you’re in the woods

  • @solcito8xd
    @solcito8xd 2 года назад +2

    Es muy bonito el vídeo y sus canciones de fondo muy relajante me genera y paz inexplicable, sigue así .
    Nueva seguidora

  • @btowang862
    @btowang862 2 года назад

    This is my new fav YT channel 🖤

  • @sourresse
    @sourresse 2 года назад

    your place looks so majestic 🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡

  • @jaylaforrbid9204
    @jaylaforrbid9204 2 года назад +1

    This video was so peaceful ❣️.

  • @melissawirch8948
    @melissawirch8948 2 года назад

    I enjoyed this video so so much!! Uuggh I love it

  • @mariana_serrano
    @mariana_serrano 2 года назад

    i love this! such a chill and nice video, also those woods are so pretty!

  • @phil6175
    @phil6175 2 года назад

    What I love to do on my longer walks is to take a mini gas stove and make my tea/coffee on the hike!

  • @lucas.cullen
    @lucas.cullen 2 года назад

    this is amazing!! such a wise sole. keep embracing what you love to do!

  • @nhubich8768
    @nhubich8768 2 года назад

    what a healing video !!! 🥹

  • @freyafarmer7789
    @freyafarmer7789 2 года назад +1

    Sometimes tree-felling / coppicing is actually necessary to keep the overall forest healthy! So fingers crossed it's being done with good intentions 🤞

  • @Mia-sb1bb
    @Mia-sb1bb 2 года назад

    omg the vibes in this. i live in the swiss countryside and i should really start going out more!

  • @Vitowang
    @Vitowang 2 года назад

    Your videos heal me very much, I love it!❤❤‍🔥

  • @3etheR3al
    @3etheR3al 2 года назад

    Omg I love Chilling Adventures of Sabrina it's the best

  • @lentesymentes
    @lentesymentes 2 года назад

    Some beautiful landscapes and nice vibes ❤

  • @unaanonyma728
    @unaanonyma728 2 года назад

    Just subscribed to your channel bc the vibe and the energy you gave me were unbelievable. You’re the type of person I wouldn’t mind being friend with.
    Love from France!💖

  • @JPGjack
    @JPGjack 2 года назад

    loved the outfit, loved your voice and loved the video! I wish I had your mindset when it comes to what other people think about you, that's something I'm really trying to change about myself. thankyou carys!

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 2 года назад +2

    Hey! Carys rachel your vlogs makes me so so so so so so so happy and I really love your vlogs so so much you inspired me so so much and I wish you reach 200K Subscribers very very soon!✨❤️☺️

  • @rafaelamonteiro8134
    @rafaelamonteiro8134 2 года назад +2

    Your videos are so beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @elsiwandani9424
    @elsiwandani9424 2 года назад

    wow the scenery there is very nice and natural

  • @cerennoir7743
    @cerennoir7743 2 года назад

    a beautiful calming video for me , i really enjoyed .love u💗

  • @turniptoast
    @turniptoast 2 года назад +7

    we're almost the same age and its crazy because where I live its almost impossible for me to go on a walk by myself TT I spend a lot of time by myself and your videos really help me feel better about that thx! I would love to go on a long walk someday and maybe visit England too :D

    • @erinlafferty1447
      @erinlafferty1447 2 года назад +1

      This is in wales

    • @turniptoast
      @turniptoast 2 года назад

      @@erinlafferty1447 oooo I thought she sounded welsh but I wasn't sure since im not the best at accents :D thanks