I’m glad you’re happier shgurr and I’m glad that you are working towards that!! I’ve been a fan of your channel for a while and I remember watching your video on how you felt for most of your life and I’m sorry you felt like that but I’m so glad to hear that you’re doing better!
It's really harmful to think that there are just people waiting out there to get you, that everyone hates when you're happy. When that is false and destructive.
@@rynyuh6820 DON'T! It's a terrible, ego centric, paranoid way to live. Just love yourself because it's good to. Not because you think there is some imaginary boogie man that is affected by self love.
@@vaguepepper4028 oooooor I can ruin someones day by loving myself. I'll do what I'll like. & in no way is it really bad, some people feel like they're not allowed to be happy & if they are, someones going to be upset, so fuck it. Imma love myself to fuck someones day up.
@@vaguepepper4028 i think this quote is there to destroy the "imaginary boogie man" , in my opinion its adressed to people who are worried all the time , who feel like they dont deserve to feel happiness or who overthink everything. Its about caring for yourself and not letting other people shit on you and your likes just because you're "nice" or "modest" when actually they're the ones just using you . From my point of view it is realising that you exist and that you shouldnt let anyone negatively affect your view on yourself, that is not to say that there arent good people in the world who want to see you happy , though.
@@totallycarbon2106 idk but it happens for me too,i cannot pass 5k liked videos,every video i click on and i like it's getting automatically unliked once i click another video
exotic butters i hate how some animators force videos on depression and other mental illnesses and they just kinda make a joke about it and say “iM nOt LiKe ThE oThEr OnEs!1!1!”
I'm 12 and everyone my whole life has told me how to live my life, I couldn't play with boys...I had a crush on a girl, whenever I told me teacher that "you can tell me anything.." She said and then when I told her this, her face was all disgusted, she was holding onto a cross on her neck and was shaking... LIKE WHAT KIND OF TEACHER DOES THAT?!? after that, she called my parents and they had a talk...this is what my mom said to the teacher *mom* :okay, she likes girl I don't see the problem. My dad was probably happy cause I don't have to date boys, I mean I'm young an all but most of my crushes are on girls, so I'm either Bi or lesbian...once the entire school heard about this I was made fun off, fir what gender I like...my sister she had bf and gf before so I asked, what I should do... She said *sister* : just don't give a fuck about what they say, you do you...most people don't even know what they are saying... They just want to bring your day down..." After that I confessed to my crush, she said we can be friends tho, better than anything... Every time Someone says something I say... "Oh really, I didn't notice that, thank you for telling me this.." I hit them back with kindness...there is no reason to fight...and plus being kind to them makes them feel guilty and more mad.
I’ve watched this a few times now and it helps me feel good every time so thanks algorithms n stuff for bringing this to me over and over. Each time I’ve needed it and been so grateful for it.
I remembered it today and watched it again, which happens every so often, and it always brings a few tears to my eyes. I will never not love this video.
This is so much better than the “Just be yourself, as long as it fits into our guidelines of what you should be.” Talks I get in school all of the time. I really needed this, thanks dude.
I wonder why schools do that kind of shit where they say they do "understand" yet after that sentence they just made the next sentence would contradict of what they just said of being yourself
Every society has norms and taboos. Every society has guidelines. Do you dislike that? In China, people eat dogs on occasion. Some Americans think that's amoral, but they go and eat cows, which are worshipped in other lands. But I ask again, are you upset that societies have things they collectively like and dislike?
I saw this video a long time ago, I watched it, and I thought it was a good messege, but didn't think to much of it. I've been recently going through some tough times lately regarding friend and family relationships, and as if by some kind of sign, this video popped up again in my feed. I watched it again, and this time, I don't just like the messege, but I understand what it really means, my life's been so much more better off now that I've actually started caring about the things that matter to me, and stopped wasting energy on the things that THEY say should matter to me Thank you.
Man, I was depressed for about 2-3 years. My mother literally hates me. Today she yelled at me at the public place, near my future college teachers. So, I was very afraid, that they reject my application. And, you know, I was trying to die Cause that college is my last hope for normal future. So, I harm myself . Really hard. I think I've got this fucking scares for my whole life And it was very hard day for me. I thought: "okay, not today, but tomorrоw. Not big deal." But, when I saw your video I feel myself normal. And I thought: "Wow, that man can be happy. Maybe, I could be happy too." Thank you, I think you just saved my life.
i literally can’t remember if i’ve made this comment before so forgive me if i repeat myself, but i watch this video every time i start feeling bad again. i can’t even count how many times. thank you for passing your sick ass depression wisdom onto us poor saps
@@frecklezzz496 aw thanks! I don't have a friend like that and I know that if I want someone like that, someone else might to, so why not. Its made me feel better too. I try lmao
I watched this video because of the title. Never see one of your videos before and have had only a very mild struggle with depression, but I decided to give this video a try. I watched the whole thing, read the comments and it really hit me. But you know what? I looked at the description and this video was posted on my birthday. I don’t know why, but I guess the universe is trying to tell me something. Thank you for this, mate. Thank you.
Its been at least a year since I've watched this video, but I still remember a couple of years ago, when I was like 12 or 13. I was in a really dark place. A place I wasn't sure that I'd ever escape. I was so alone and hopeless and scared. But I remember watching this video over and over again. It really kept me going. In fact, I've been going back to all the things that kept me through that time and really realizing how much they meant to me. And they're things that might be considered cheesy idk, but that's ok. What matters is that they were there for me when I needed them and they got me to this point. Idk where I'm going with this comment, I've totally strayed off from what I was originally planning on saying. What I was saying, even though this video is years old and you probably won't see this, is thank you. Idk how exactly, but this 2 and a half minute video spoke directly to 12/13-year-old me and gave me the courage to hold on, to hope. I really hope you're doing well and even if you never see this I'm leaving this here to let you know that you made a difference.
Dude holy crap. In the middle of this video I started to cry. I don’t know why but I started to cry. I wish more people were like you. You just made my entire week so much better. Thank you.
I'm not gonna make a big ol vent or story out of this, I'm just gonna say it simply. This is the best video I've seen, ever, and it's by far the most important.
ive watched this so many times and ever since i watched it, your words keep repeating in my head, instead of the negative words i put in ,my own head that were repeating in my head before thank you so much so many people needed this edit: sometimes, i’d get really sad when i see people able to be themself and express themselves the way they want to and are so happy, (not because i dont want them to be happy, i am so happy for them and i love everyone to be happy how they are) but because its so fucking hard for me to be able to be myself or to express myself the way i want to, due to falling for “them.” i really need to stop giving a fuck about what the “they” say, and listen to who and what makes me happy. its just so fucking hard to be able to be myself when i lost who i am in “them” so long ago.
This is going to sound creepy but I literally watch this video like every day. I gives me the go to get up in the morning after being in a dark place for so long. Thank you so, so much for making this. You put what I used to say to other people into words that actually make sense.
almost 5 years later, i'm 3 and a half months on T, over 2 years on antidepressants, and so much happier than i was then. i didn't start getting better immediately, but for a long time after this video came out, i'd watch it constantly. obviously it wasn't the biggest thing that helped me through my depression, but it helped, thank you.
Nice to see a youtuber I like watching the same stuff as me. I love this animation because it shows that people in power push people down and make them feel bad so they can't take thier power back.
"Harm no one and do what you want" Where is the limit? What's the "harm" limit? If someone feels like I'm hatting on them and gets depressed because I do something that's offensive for their culture but not for my own, should I stop? If I'm having a genetics conversation about gender with another person and he/she gets offended by numbers and non-biased facts, should I stop? If the thing that makes me happy will do future harm to myself in an endless cicle that makes me a bit sadder slowly every day to the point of depression in some years, should I continue doing it? If what makes me happy does subjective harm to others, should I stop? If what makes me happy does objective harm to others, should I continue? If what makes me happy is killing bacteria, or plants, or incects, or fish, or birds, or reptiles, or mamals, or highly intelligent mamals, or humans, should I continue? Where is the limit? If what makes me happy will make sosciety fall after I die, should I continue? If my happiness comes from telling people about what could they change about their lives for better, should I continue? If my happiness comes from being irrational, is that ok? If someone is depressed because he/ she can't find anyone who is rational because (hipotetically speaking) most people like being irrational and not analize what they like or what their personal problems really are? Thus feeling empty, wanting personal improvement but not finding a single person that likes that. Should people stop being irrational? To which point should I take this advice? If what makes me depressed is common sense, should I start burning down buildings? These are actual non-personal hipotetical questions I have watching this video and not jokes. If I liked to comment this stuff, should I continue doing so? Am I "they" and are they "I"? Should I care if people want me to be simple but I want to be complicated? Should I care if being an asshole makes me happy? hmm
For 10 months I’ve been trying to avoid this video due to fear of click bait. Seems like for 10 months I’ve been missing some good advice that I needed.
2 years ago i was depressed as fuck and ive come back to say that this this video is part of what helped me through those difficult times. i am now so so happy and glad to be alive. thank you. to the person reading this - i hope you are doing well and please push through whatever you may be going through. life can be beautiful, cherish and appreciate it
I’m tired of dealing with all the ‘theys’. I’m patiently waiting to leave my whole life behind and be happy with my friends. ‘They’ did not raise me into the person I am today, only tried to snuff out the flames to make me obedient. ‘They’ did not make me feel good about myself, only put me down because I loved everything just because how it looked. ‘They’ never cheered me up when I started to cry out of the blue just because I thought of something sad, or happy, or awe-inspiring, only complained and said crying is only for her. I’m fucking done with all the ‘theys’. ‘They’ were never a parent to begin with, not even a bad one. Just someone who let me survive, and complain about why I won’t live.
This is all too true, and as someone who has also been going through depression, it is hard to get out of it, I’m still not entirely out of it and I know people tell me to take meds or get high, but I want to be happy without relying on pills or people. As for the “being yourself” part, that’s also very true, don’t let people decide who you are and who you’re going to be. Everyone wants something different, and you know what? None of them will actually care that you did that for them. Do it for yourself, be what you wanna be for yourself. It will be much better in the long run, I know that it is, even if I still haven’t learned.
its been years. I've graduated highschool, dropped out of college, had many ups and downs...and i still come back to this video. I cant express how much this video helps me get through the hard times and im so grateful its still up and im even more grateful that you would put out this message. Thank you so much :)
i've been hiding my sexuality and beliefs from my parents and relatives for years since they're extremely homophobic but this will be the video that finally stops all that. thank you scotch, bless you. i'm finally going to live my life the way i want to
Damn. Hope things work out for you. If anyone bashes you for being you, fuck them. As long as no one is hurt anyone can and should be who they want to be.
main I support you all the way cause I hid my sexuality from my family as well I started noticing I feel for girls and I didn’t really agree with my gender so I wanted to be a guy and I started liking guys but now I came out to my family as a bisexual transgender and I’m happy about that. And that’s what I’m gonna be from now on.
being happy and carefree is honestly the best revenge. people get so pissed when they see you embracing that you don’t know what the fuck is happening. they get so pissed cause you’re just loving yourself and being alive. fuck them. they can be unhappy all they want. because you ARE happy. it’s honestly the best feeling in the world to just. be. happy. :)
I think they call those people "they" because everyone sees someone else in them. Like their family, people their work with, people from school etc. So that when they talk about "they" you can think of yourself who is supposed to be it.
I’ve watched/listened to this video so many times I’ve lost count. Idk what it is abt this video that makes it so... addictive? Is it the animation? Is it his voice? Is it the wisdom? Is it all? Idk but I keep coming back and watching it again because it’s so amazing
I, myself might be a “they” to some people, and i wanna change that Edit: forgot this comment even existed. Well, turns out at the time, I was being hugely manipulated by this really toxic friend who was making me think I was being a horrible person to them, made me think I was the bad guy, and I believed that crap for the longest time. I’m better now. She’s still got some of a grip on my friends, but I try not to think about that. Love all the care and support y’all gave me 💖💖💕❤️
@QuackImBack I have been treated terribly by a "they", and now I have probably been a "they" too. Even if "they" will ruin my mood, doesn’t mean I should be one of them and do the same. Hope we can both become better people, it starts all at ourselves.
I seen this comment and was scared that the replies were going to be people attacking you, I'm so glad I was wrong. It's been 9 months at this point and I sincerely hope that you're doing better. I've been a "they" at certain times, we probably all have. I believe that there's a "they" in all of us that exists to some extent really, it's important that we channel it into positivity. It takes a lot to admit that you've been wrong and I'm really proud of you
QuackImBack I was a they 100% when I was younger I was a bitch to so many people and now I realized I am one of the people I used to hate and I’m so done being who I was and now I’m a better person and am finally the true me.
Its super cool that you're trying to change dude! I hope everything is well and that you've turned into the person you wanted to become :) (also if anyone here has any tips on how to become a better person it would be greatly appreciated!!)
This whole damn video is an amazing quote so: “I'm gonna tell you something they don't want you to know. I'm gonna tell you something THEY don't want you to know. They don't want you to be happy. THEY want you to be ashamed of yourself. THEY want you to have to make excuses for who you are and why you are that way. What you like, what you wear, how you feel good. They want you to DEFEND it. They want you to be on the DEFENSE all the time. D'you know whyyy? ‘Cause when you're happy, you're on the offense. When you feel good about yourself, you're on the OFFENSE. When you express yourself unapologetically, no sorry's, no ‘scuse me's, no explanations. When you're just happy & vibin’. They hate that shit, man. They'll do whatever they gotta do, to bring you down or make you question it or make you question yourself or make you question how you should feel or why you do feel that way. They don't know shit, man. They don't know SHIIIT. I've been depressed for however many fucking years, I've been on meds for however many fucking years, I've been trying to die all the fucking time, I've been through it. I've been through it and it sucks and I hate it. Y'know why I felt that way? Because I thought I had to be a certain way and I thought that if I wasn't a certain way, I had to explain myself, and when I'm left trying to explain myself and why I get to feel the way I feel and why I get to feel happy the way I feel happy. I'm left trying to explain what happiness is. And you know what? That made me depressed as FUCK. You know how I cured my depression? I stopped giving a FUCK. I took two tabs of acid one time, had a massive trip, killed my own ego, came back to life and decided I only wanna be happy from now on. And I've been trying to live that life ever since. And I'm here to pass that wisdom onto YOU. ‘Cause you don't have to give anyone an explanation. You don't owe anyone a reason. You don't owe anyone shit, for being happy. If you're doing you and you're vibin’ on your own shit. GOOD. That's what they hate. Go be happy. Fuck someones day up by loving yourself.”
I know this video is a few years old at this point but I always end up coming back around to it again every so often and it always makes me feel better about myself, even if it's only for a little while. This helps me realize that it's okay to like the things I like and its okay to be the way that I am. Thanks for making this :)
Your voice is perfect for this video, I don't know why but it's so comforting. I've watched it two times already and it's so inspirational. Thank you! Edit: I've watched this video over 8 times since I posted this comment. It really does help, its just such a good video I cannot stop watching. Seriously, thank you for making this video.
I come back to this often when im in a mental blockage because sometimes it’s all that can put my mind at ease. It’s gotten me to be able to sleep. It will always be relevant because there’s always gonna be ups and downs. Thank you dude you have no idea how much your words mean to me
This video makes me feel something. I watched this a few months ago, can't remember what it meant to me then. But now. It means a lot. The way you talk about "them" shooting words and questions at us make me realize what "them" you're talking about. "They" aren't people. I believe "they" are your own mind. Even though it is your own brain that is telling you what to do, and making you who you are. There is still part of it that tries to force away feelings and emotions that are supposedly threatening to break into your life. I am transgender, and pansexual. When I first got signs that I might not feel safe and comfortable in the body I'm in, or that I might like the same gender, I was scared. I was frightened because I didn't know why I felt the way I did. It got so bad to where there was some deep depression involved. I did some very regrettable things, and still I was scared. I started to seek things that I could relate to and stumbled upon a group at school that accepted me with open arms. We call ourselves Skittles. I talked to people who cared and supported me, told me that even if others left me they would be right by my side. This made me so grateful. So incredibly happy. I was so happy to a point I accepted myself. And I had so much pride that I couldn't keep the secret from my family any longer. I came out to them and they accepted me, it was more than I could have asked for. My parents didn't immediately transition, but I was expecting it. A few months later the correct pronouns started being used, my chosen name as well. I was overflowing with happiness, even as judgement was being thrown at me. But then my mind started to feel threatened again, I had made a friend earlier in the year and my feelings for them had grown way too much. It was to a point that I couldn't handle it. One day they told me that they knew about my feelings and that they were questioned about their tight relationship with me all the time. I felt utterly ashamed that my own lack of self control and boundaries had made the person I cared about most suffer. I felt down in the dumps, even as my life seemed to carry on like normal. The guilt built up and suddenly I couldn't really control my actions. This is where the other part of the video comes in. When you said that other people try to make you explain your actions and they try to coordinate them with your emotions. I hate that shit. I know they want to try and help, but all the questions can make someone feel overwhelmed, trapped as though maybe the thoughts they were having were the only way out. Whenever I showed my mother the scars on my wrist, she didn't immediately tell me that it was insane and that I needed to stop immediatey. She told me that I couldn't control it and she understood, because she had been through it too. She walked me through some questions about everything leading up to that point, along with her hand lacing mine. She told me that therapy was a good option, and that telling my dad would be preferable. I agreed with her all the way, and there is the other part of the video. Be happy. Do what you can to make yourself happy so you can slap that fucking smirk off your mind's face. I haven't gotten there yet, and honestly... I'm scared to death. But seeing this video, remembering that life can get better if you do it for yourself, has made me realize just how much I want to be happy again. Truly happy.
Man. This video literally stopped me from trying to end myself again, I was scrolling through recommended, about ready to just end it, and this made me re think my decision entirely. It resonates with me so much. Even now, months after its been uploaded and the first time I saw it. Every time I hear it i remember to try to be myself, which is extremely hard for me. God bless you man. You are my favorite youtuber.
If you stop climbing, halfway up the mountain, you'll never get to see the view. Even if the light on the horizon is dim, you might just not have climbed far enough yet- keep going. Keep loving yourself, even if the world makes you feel like you don't deserve it. Keep on going, if not for yourself, but to prove that you could to all those who would tell you otherwise. Love yourself. Do what you love. Love those who love.
@@arieson7715 don't write a comment correcting someone if isn't needed. the only thing you're doing here is forcing OP to explain themselves, and draining their energy. i would rewatch the video if i were you since it looks like you didn't really get the message
@@albingrahn5576 Yeah I saw it, be nice to everyone, even if they are doing stupid stuff, and maybe drugs too, yeah drugs are cool, lets also not forget that if we don't critique anyone then they won't get any better.
Hey I found this video ages ago when I was a depressed anxious teenager and I could see back then how this is fucking brilliant but couldn't fully apply it to my life at the time. I'm an adult now and I still struggle with depression and anxiety but I feel like I can finally relate to the mindset you had in this video and really really appreciated the moments and people that let me exist and be myself unapologetically. Thank you so much for this video, I will keep coming back to it whenever I need a reminder that shit's fucked but I can still feel content with living:)
"You do you" they said "Be yourself" they said "Don't change for no one" they said Years later "Can you call me by my male name pls??" "Hell nah" "......." I really needed to hear this now
I relate to this so hard man, "do you really need those operations? People are going to judge you, why don't you just do the safer thing?" Their happiness isn't mine and I just want to finally feel comfortable, I want to be able to feel good about myself :(
You should love yourself for you who are. Stop being depressed Well hey i wanted to let you know I’m a guy okay?. Apparently I have to love myself the way they picture me doing it. But yo I’m happy right now and I hope you are too.
I remember seeing this video years ago when I was at one of my lowest points. I'll think about this video and return to it when I'm feeling thos things again. Every time I come back I find a new understanding. I just saw your most recent and I'm glad you're still here. Thank you for just being you and existing here
I like how he calls it “they” so that anyone who watches this it can interpret “they” as anyone or anything that applies to them in their own life. They can be people, or they can be the voices of doubt in your mind, or whatever They are to you. I mean it’s lazy writing but fuckin what do I know man, live happy.
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i still come back to this video every once in a while for a refresher
sage same
Same as well, we're still here
Same
All the time. This video's important af.
Same
literally the best ted talk I have ever heard.
they could just play it for real during a break at Ted Talk and people would applaud this :D
Even Ted Talks are better than this trash
Meme Jesus excuse me
I’ve continually come back to this video whenever I feel like cutting,, this is the best thing thats happened
@@memejesus327 Your opinion is incorrect.
it's been almost a year, and you're alive. you've survived all the shit. good on you, man. genuinely. really.
i'm glad you're alive, scotch.
he's still alive
Oh hai fellow Sophia
@Caden Cummins what
Is he still alive
@@kenttristan7201 ye
This video is still relevant
Been a year since I learned to be happy ^^
Take responsibility for your own happiness 😊
I’m glad you’re happier shgurr and I’m glad that you are working towards that!! I’ve been a fan of your channel for a while and I remember watching your video on how you felt for most of your life and I’m sorry you felt like that but I’m so glad to hear that you’re doing better!
im so happy for you shgurr!!!
i adore this, and i adore you
im here 4 no reason . . aww dats cute
@@pyrz5011 ok
You know what, I adore you, cuz you need to be adored too!. Admiration at its finest.
May i marry u
Apselene yes many peaple tell me that they adore me
"F☆ck someone's day up by loving yourself"
New favorite quote
It's really harmful to think that there are just people waiting out there to get you, that everyone hates when you're happy. When that is false and destructive.
I love it. Honestly gonna live by it lmao
@@rynyuh6820 DON'T! It's a terrible, ego centric, paranoid way to live. Just love yourself because it's good to. Not because you think there is some imaginary boogie man that is affected by self love.
@@vaguepepper4028 oooooor I can ruin someones day by loving myself. I'll do what I'll like. & in no way is it really bad, some people feel like they're not allowed to be happy & if they are, someones going to be upset, so fuck it. Imma love myself to fuck someones day up.
@@vaguepepper4028 i think this quote is there to destroy the "imaginary boogie man" , in my opinion its adressed to people who are worried all the time , who feel like they dont deserve to feel happiness or who overthink everything. Its about caring for yourself and not letting other people shit on you and your likes just because you're "nice" or "modest" when actually they're the ones just using you . From my point of view it is realising that you exist and that you shouldnt let anyone negatively affect your view on yourself, that is not to say that there arent good people in the world who want to see you happy , though.
RUclips keeps unliking this video so I keep having to come back to it, just to relike it. Because it deserves to be liked
@galaxyandromeda wait, that's a thing??
@@totallycarbon2106 idk but it happens for me too,i cannot pass 5k liked videos,every video i click on and i like it's getting automatically unliked once i click another video
It's because you're using yt on the phone
He protecc
He atacc
But most importantly
He stopped giving a fucc
Gotta ruin the 69 likes in there
He never protecc- he always atacc because he's always on the offense
Hey look, it's a video about depression that isn't forced and actually has a very good meaning.
exotic butters i hate how some animators force videos on depression and other mental illnesses and they just kinda make a joke about it and say “iM nOt LiKe ThE oThEr OnEs!1!1!”
yes this is a very inforgaytional vimeo about why u should smoke lsd
Yes
It’s because this video is the sincerest shit you can find
Litteraly how I over came my depression. " i stopped giving a fuuuuck!"
I'm 12 and everyone my whole life has told me how to live my life, I couldn't play with boys...I had a crush on a girl, whenever I told me teacher that "you can tell me anything.." She said and then when I told her this, her face was all disgusted, she was holding onto a cross on her neck and was shaking... LIKE WHAT KIND OF TEACHER DOES THAT?!? after that, she called my parents and they had a talk...this is what my mom said to the teacher
*mom* :okay, she likes girl I don't see the problem.
My dad was probably happy cause I don't have to date boys, I mean I'm young an all but most of my crushes are on girls, so I'm either Bi or lesbian...once the entire school heard about this I was made fun off, fir what gender I like...my sister she had bf and gf before so I asked, what I should do... She said
*sister* : just don't give a fuck about what they say, you do you...most people don't even know what they are saying... They just want to bring your day down..."
After that I confessed to my crush, she said we can be friends tho, better than anything... Every time Someone says something I say...
"Oh really, I didn't notice that, thank you for telling me this.." I hit them back with kindness...there is no reason to fight...and plus being kind to them makes them feel guilty and more mad.
@@ingridinthecoolzone5 that's exactly how i react to hate (:
lmao nice profile picture
Mika Hinako That’s a good way of coping. Good luck!
Your comment matches your profile picture perfectly
I never knew I needed to hear this from you until now, thank you.
Pinksie Heartwishes how do you not have any reply on this
They call me PinUpBoi omg ikr
BOI KEEP GOIN. STAY YOU MAN. STAY. YOU.💙💙💙 UR YOU AND THATS BEAUTIFUL.
Very informative.
I have but one question, How do you hear his "I popped acid 5 minutes ago" voice and say "Yeah I wanna be like that guy."
Y'know, its been a year, but every once in a while youtube recommends this to me and every single time i watch it, im grateful for it
I’ve watched this a few times now and it helps me feel good every time so thanks algorithms n stuff for bringing this to me over and over. Each time I’ve needed it and been so grateful for it.
I remembered it today and watched it again, which happens every so often, and it always brings a few tears to my eyes. I will never not love this video.
Life can be gud
Life can succ
But you know what?
I don’t give a fucc
Hi There oh yes
i love this
klystron2010 No. I’m under 18.
@@attractivecrayon7579 It's okay, I'm patient.
Hi There Ladies and gentlemen, we got em.
This is so much better than the “Just be yourself, as long as it fits into our guidelines of what you should be.” Talks I get in school all of the time. I really needed this, thanks dude.
Finally people who understand!
They dont want you to be yourself, they want you to be quirky
I wonder why schools do that kind of shit where they say they do "understand" yet after that sentence they just made the next sentence would contradict of what they just said of being yourself
@@raphaelladenise8038" be yourself, as long as it fits in with our guidlines and moral code" is pretty much what they are saying
Every society has norms and taboos. Every society has guidelines. Do you dislike that?
In China, people eat dogs on occasion. Some Americans think that's amoral, but they go and eat cows, which are worshipped in other lands.
But I ask again, are you upset that societies have things they collectively like and dislike?
Scotch over here starting the Happiness Revolution
LETS START RAISIN GLASSES
your profile picture says all
Hell yes. I'm part of this revolution now officially
Summer Gordon hell yeah! I'll bring the good goofs and vibes
I saw this video a long time ago, I watched it, and I thought it was a good messege, but didn't think to much of it.
I've been recently going through some tough times lately regarding friend and family relationships, and as if by some kind of sign, this video popped up again in my feed.
I watched it again, and this time, I don't just like the messege, but I understand what it really means, my life's been so much more better off now that I've actually started caring about the things that matter to me, and stopped wasting energy on the things that THEY say should matter to me
Thank you.
You said this better than anyone I've heard try to explain this. Thanks dude, I really needed it. ♡
Saame
Flynnmutt hi I like your art and scotch
Flynnmutt you can say that again
I love how your voice is so chill and soothing
i!Anime x Constellations!i it really is soothing! I want to listen to his voice all day. I wonder if he’s good at singing...
Man, I was depressed for about 2-3 years.
My mother literally hates me.
Today she yelled at me at the public place, near my future college teachers.
So, I was very afraid, that they reject my application.
And, you know, I was trying to die
Cause that college is my last hope for normal future.
So, I harm myself .
Really hard.
I think I've got this fucking scares for my whole life
And it was very hard day for me.
I thought: "okay, not today, but tomorrоw. Not big deal."
But, when I saw your video I feel myself normal.
And I thought: "Wow, that man can be happy. Maybe, I could be happy too."
Thank you, I think you just saved my life.
Awh
Алиса Тетерина I'm glad that you apre still here❤️
You are doing great❤️
Aww 0w0 stay happy and not give a shit about what your mom has to say and if you can stay away from negative/toxic people
Don’t worry there is a special place in hell just for parents like her.
It breaks my heart reading this,,, I really hope it will get better and good luck with everything, ok?
i literally can’t remember if i’ve made this comment before so forgive me if i repeat myself, but i watch this video every time i start feeling bad again. i can’t even count how many times. thank you for passing your sick ass depression wisdom onto us poor saps
two years later... still here
i just came back for the 20th time or smth and i watched it 5 years ago
Am I the only one who absolutely loves this guy's voice?
im here too
I agree
It truly is angelic and beautiful. But like..deep
He sounds like he’s a stoner
Rordan Gamsey But in a beautiful way
*he sounds like that cool friend i've never had lol*
thank u for doing this
He really does and now I kinda feel sad that I don't have a friend like that
I'm thankful I have that kind of friend
If you don't have that friend, be that friend.
@@justemily6594 uuhh that's actually very clever, I like it lol
also, I'm pretty sure u r the cool one around yours lololol
@@frecklezzz496 aw thanks! I don't have a friend like that and I know that if I want someone like that, someone else might to, so why not. Its made me feel better too. I try lmao
Can... can we get the whole world to view a 2 minute and 39 second video?
Arcade no bc they will see it.
I wish we could....
Arcade I wish..
I want to like this but it already has 666 likes-
We can try to do it
This is slowly saving me. Every time he says "fuCK", my soul is pulled out of it's depression. Thank you.
Givin a fUCK
Him talking scratches my brain so nicely like a catchy song
i can’t put my thoughts into words so i’ll keep it short n sweet. this is really nice. thank you
Same. it's nice in every way
Destroying 666 likes from you
gay
Funny Valentine u rite
Funny Valentine at least take me out to dinner first 😩😩
I love how you’re so chill and have that calming voice guiding us people
Chippy Gravy 666th like
Pro tip: often _they_ are just yourself
No one else like this, this is at *69* likes
@@crabmaster6932 *cums*
No
exactly
1000th like
saw this video at 16, and now i’m 19. thank you for cheering me up when i needed it.
this deserves to be on trending. I think it could help a lot of people.
Imaweirdo Agreed
I watched this video because of the title. Never see one of your videos before and have had only a very mild struggle with depression, but I decided to give this video a try. I watched the whole thing, read the comments and it really hit me. But you know what? I looked at the description and this video was posted on my birthday. I don’t know why, but I guess the universe is trying to tell me something. Thank you for this, mate. Thank you.
Lion The Lion it was posted 1 day after my birthday
hey same birthday!
Happy early birthday Lion The Lion! Your big day is in 9 daaaaaayss!!!!
I read your comment and I checked the date, ironically it's my little bros birthday too.
What time zone are you in?
*Blast this at my funeral.*
Yessssssssss
Lit fam
pls
Yes
@@buggy6673 Øøøøøøøøøøøf yes
HELL YEAH BROTHER
Its been at least a year since I've watched this video, but I still remember a couple of years ago, when I was like 12 or 13. I was in a really dark place. A place I wasn't sure that I'd ever escape. I was so alone and hopeless and scared. But I remember watching this video over and over again. It really kept me going. In fact, I've been going back to all the things that kept me through that time and really realizing how much they meant to me. And they're things that might be considered cheesy idk, but that's ok. What matters is that they were there for me when I needed them and they got me to this point. Idk where I'm going with this comment, I've totally strayed off from what I was originally planning on saying. What I was saying, even though this video is years old and you probably won't see this, is thank you. Idk how exactly, but this 2 and a half minute video spoke directly to 12/13-year-old me and gave me the courage to hold on, to hope. I really hope you're doing well and even if you never see this I'm leaving this here to let you know that you made a difference.
I 100% relate to this too
This is amazing. I've been hating life recently and just don't want to do anything anymore but I have to. It sucks
Hi I just wanted to say I’ve been through it too, and if you wanna talk I’m here
@@cooper419 did you copy paste the other person's response? That's kinda funny tbh
No, I copied it by hand, I put work into my comments
Your the cool older stoner brother of RUclips
oH my god he IS!
you’re*
Casey? Is that you?
Insert name here
Found a Homestuck.
He totally fucking is lmao
*how do you like a video twice?*
True Introvert I’m tryna figure that out too
Ccurlyfry How do I make this video my alarm in the morning?
True Introvert make another account
*_Make a playlist named double like_*
True Introvert
Use All your youtube accounts and Like The Video :P
I come here, annually, is like a tradition I have. When I feel at my deepest point. I love u bro
Dude holy crap.
In the middle of this video I started to cry. I don’t know why but I started to cry.
I wish more people were like you.
You just made my entire week so much better. Thank you.
:)
when u come back to this video every time you depressed
So like, all the time?
Matt basically, yes.
this is fucking inspiring dude.
moral of the story:
_if you’re depressed, take 2 tabs of that _*_good shit, man_*
YUUUUUUUP
Please *don’t*
@@anonymous_afro No, like the " good shit man " tabs like. Good vibes in a pill
nO-
lmaoo if you check the description scotch actually says that he isn’t promoting drug use or sumn like that
Your voice fits your animation.It's just make me so relatable.:3 Thank you.
you’re going to heaven son
This comment and this video made my day thanks
Heheh…
*realization*
JESUS!!
This is not the right jesus, i only laugh at comments from the jesus h christ, born and raised in fiverr
I read it as *soon* not son.. that was close
Jordan Steele HAHAHA
I LOVE THIS
THIS IS the ONLY EMOTIONAL- EDUCATIONAL THING I CAN WATCH WITHOUT HATING
THANK YOU
Coquitten k
Tru
Coquitten *_DOITSU_*
Remember kids
Acid cures depression
Also on a more serious note
This is actually really good advice
cured mine tho
Couldn't have said that shit better myself! Thanks for spreading the good vibes my dude! Good man scotch 🙏
Jesus Christ XD HAAAAAAAAAI
Jesus Christ i agree
Ayy my man
xD
Jesus Christ *that is a sin*
Go to take a nap, love. You deserve it.
Laila James yea he should it makes me happy
Take the longest nap you can scotch
Sugar Animation Studios just not death
Yeah don't go into a coma!
he has insomnia i'm p sure
I'm not gonna make a big ol vent or story out of this, I'm just gonna say it simply.
This is the best video I've seen, ever, and it's by far the most important.
Shiny _ Bones obviously you haven't seen banana goat
preach.
You can hear the smile in his voice at the end and that really just made this video even more awesome
ive watched this so many times and ever since i watched it, your words keep repeating in my head, instead of the negative words i put in ,my own head that were repeating in my head before
thank you so much
so many people needed this
edit: sometimes, i’d get really sad when i see people able to be themself and express themselves the way they want to and are so happy, (not because i dont want them to be happy, i am so happy for them and i love everyone to be happy how they are) but because its so fucking hard for me to be able to be myself or to express myself the way i want to, due to falling for “them.”
i really need to stop giving a fuck about what the “they” say, and listen to who and what makes me happy. its just so fucking hard to be able to be myself when i lost who i am in “them” so long ago.
You're so right! I've been doing the same thing.
Sammmeeee
T h e y d o n ' t k n o w s h i i i i i t
Ikr I can’t stop listening to it
kittydog I completely agree thank you Scotch!!!! And you right they don't know shhiiiiiiit
This is going to sound creepy but I literally watch this video like every day. I gives me the go to get up in the morning after being in a dark place for so long. Thank you so, so much for making this. You put what I used to say to other people into words that actually make sense.
Ultrahaphazard don't worry, it's not creepy. I do the same thing,mate.
Ultrahaphazard I watch it twice a day, it is like my coffee
Same, its very helpful!
I don’t have a specific calendar for when i watch it but i do watch it pretty often. It just has...good vibes.
same
*THEY*
don't want us to like this video
but *THEY*
don't know we do
- Maddie - Who are they?
Keemstar Kreamstar
People who sell the medics.
People who want to be nornal.
They may not know it but it is them, that is "THEY"
- Maddie - z,z,z,
Isabella イザベラ Wait so they sell doctors to people and are “nornal”?
The way I see it? We can all be Theys sometimes, if we don't check ourselves.
It all depends on what we do to other people.
Just try not to be a They.
almost 5 years later, i'm 3 and a half months on T, over 2 years on antidepressants, and so much happier than i was then. i didn't start getting better immediately, but for a long time after this video came out, i'd watch it constantly. obviously it wasn't the biggest thing that helped me through my depression, but it helped, thank you.
CONGRATS ON THE T BROTHER I LOVE YOU!
This feels like someone's marijuana induced rant but I'm cool with it.
Lauren Lizzzbeth nah dude they explained this it was acid cmon keep up 😂
Acid*
Or sleep deprivation
DesolateArt sleep deprivation AND acid
I love this and u
Chempie most people who are happy outside are actually dying inside. Or maybe he just likes sexi goats and dogs
Nice to see a youtuber I like watching the same stuff as me. I love this animation because it shows that people in power push people down and make them feel bad so they can't take thier power back.
GingerPale ur gay
GingerPale I love you but I hate this and him.
+Ognjen Cvetković Elaborate pls
i love your voice
you’re so inspiring
tbh It's honestly comforting
It sounds exactly how I pictured it would sound.
Dead Broccoli Boi ikr.
Stella Galaxia mhm.
"Harm no one and do what you want" Where is the limit? What's the "harm" limit?
If someone feels like I'm hatting on them and gets depressed because I do something that's offensive for their culture but not for my own, should I stop? If I'm having a genetics conversation about gender with another person and he/she gets offended by numbers and non-biased facts, should I stop?
If the thing that makes me happy will do future harm to myself in an endless cicle that makes me a bit sadder slowly every day to the point of depression in some years, should I continue doing it?
If what makes me happy does subjective harm to others, should I stop? If what makes me happy does objective harm to others, should I continue?
If what makes me happy is killing bacteria, or plants, or incects, or fish, or birds, or reptiles, or mamals, or highly intelligent mamals, or humans, should I continue? Where is the limit?
If what makes me happy will make sosciety fall after I die, should I continue?
If my happiness comes from telling people about what could they change about their lives for better, should I continue?
If my happiness comes from being irrational, is that ok?
If someone is depressed because he/ she can't find anyone who is rational because (hipotetically speaking) most people like being irrational and not analize what they like or what their personal problems really are? Thus feeling empty, wanting personal improvement but not finding a single person that likes that. Should people stop being irrational?
To which point should I take this advice? If what makes me depressed is common sense, should I start burning down buildings?
These are actual non-personal hipotetical questions I have watching this video and not jokes.
If I liked to comment this stuff, should I continue doing so?
Am I "they" and are they "I"?
Should I care if people want me to be simple but I want to be complicated? Should I care if being an asshole makes me happy? hmm
Still come back to this video when I need to hear it, it helps a lot
Me:Who are the assholes that disliked this?
Literally everyone:............they
ryanpower7963 *T H E Y* are sh!t
"they" disliked it because they don't know shit
they don't know SHIIIT
ryanpower7963 because
For 10 months I’ve been trying to avoid this video due to fear of click bait. Seems like for 10 months I’ve been missing some good advice that I needed.
Yeah.... But also im a BTS army! I just watched this and i find it helpful...
Same. I know it’s annoying to see “armmmyyy” and I’m not one of those immature army’s but it’s nice to see other army’s around :)
shit man, me too... glad i watch it
you have the best name
666 likes
This is extremely helpful
Thank you
This was very inspiring
This makes me happy I hope you upload more incredible animations
2 years ago i was depressed as fuck and ive come back to say that this this video is part of what helped me through those difficult times. i am now so so happy and glad to be alive. thank you. to the person reading this - i hope you are doing well and please push through whatever you may be going through. life can be beautiful, cherish and appreciate it
Why isn't *this* trending
osayimwen omo-iyamu Cause RUclips is *they*.
because the dude did not actually kill himself, youtube and logan paul does not like that fact
Cause it's not trending
*cough* yet**
Because "they" don't want others to know this
aaAAAAA i can't even describe how... important? this video is. just be you! thank you so much for making this and still being here
Ruining someone’s day by being happy sounds like the best idea ever to a troublemaker like me! I’ll try it :P
I’m tired of dealing with all the ‘theys’. I’m patiently waiting to leave my whole life behind and be happy with my friends. ‘They’ did not raise me into the person I am today, only tried to snuff out the flames to make me obedient. ‘They’ did not make me feel good about myself, only put me down because I loved everything just because how it looked. ‘They’ never cheered me up when I started to cry out of the blue just because I thought of something sad, or happy, or awe-inspiring, only complained and said crying is only for her.
I’m fucking done with all the ‘theys’. ‘They’ were never a parent to begin with, not even a bad one. Just someone who let me survive, and complain about why I won’t live.
You know whyyyyyyyy?
you wanna know whyyyyyyyyyyy
Bc when you're happy, you're on the offense.
Drunk Puppet Boi When you express yourself, unapologetically, no sorries, no excuse me, no explanations…
When you are just happy & vibin’,
They hate that shit man.
they’ll do whatever they gotta do to bring you down
The pure chaotic energy of this video is amazing and I love it
He's high on like 5 drugs at once and that's easily the best part of the video
Laidback chaos vibe
I stopped givin a _FUK_
Chaotic good energy
Mmmm
five years later and i still come back to this video.
I love this video and I love you.
This is an important video, man. Bless you
WhatTheFlup again!! Gah!! Why does this happen!! Anyway. Hi again! =3
This is all too true, and as someone who has also been going through depression, it is hard to get out of it, I’m still not entirely out of it and I know people tell me to take meds or get high, but I want to be happy without relying on pills or people. As for the “being yourself” part, that’s also very true, don’t let people decide who you are and who you’re going to be. Everyone wants something different, and you know what? None of them will actually care that you did that for them. Do it for yourself, be what you wanna be for yourself. It will be much better in the long run, I know that it is, even if I still haven’t learned.
That's..... what I really needed.... Thank you
AvA-Ria so did i.....it helped a lot
i am more confident than before, i think
its been years. I've graduated highschool, dropped out of college, had many ups and downs...and i still come back to this video. I cant express how much this video helps me get through the hard times and im so grateful its still up and im even more grateful that you would put out this message. Thank you so much :)
i've been hiding my sexuality and beliefs from my parents and relatives for years since they're extremely homophobic but this will be the video that finally stops all that. thank you scotch, bless you. i'm finally going to live my life the way i want to
main
good for you.
Damn. Hope things work out for you. If anyone bashes you for being you, fuck them. As long as no one is hurt anyone can and should be who they want to be.
main I support you all the way cause I hid my sexuality from my family as well I started noticing I feel for girls and I didn’t really agree with my gender so I wanted to be a guy and I started liking guys but now I came out to my family as a bisexual transgender and I’m happy about that. And that’s what I’m gonna be from now on.
being happy and carefree is honestly the best revenge. people get so pissed when they see you embracing that you don’t know what the fuck is happening. they get so pissed cause you’re just loving yourself and being alive. fuck them. they can be unhappy all they want. because you ARE happy. it’s honestly the best feeling in the world to just. be. happy. :)
nina bean But who are "they"?
I think they call those people "they" because everyone sees someone else in them. Like their family, people their work with, people from school etc. So that when they talk about "they" you can think of yourself who is supposed to be it.
Rote Blaubeere
very true! i think while we were watching this video, we probably all had a certain group in mind while scotch was talking about “them”
Preach it this is so true!👏
You make me happy
Sydney Hames 666 :000000
Sydney Hames ye right?
I get this video recommended for me ever like 5 months or so and everytime I watch it all the way through
Because it makes me happy
I’ve watched/listened to this video so many times I’ve lost count. Idk what it is abt this video that makes it so... addictive? Is it the animation? Is it his voice? Is it the wisdom? Is it all? Idk but I keep coming back and watching it again because it’s so amazing
JucieSourGrape im going to listen to this wen im sad
I’ve listened to it for the maybe fifth time today and the way they talk and the way they animate it makes me feel those vibes they been giving out.
I think it's all of those but especially the wisdom a lot of us need.
Omg same
JucieSourGrape because u wanted cure ur depression? Like me :) idk
I, myself might be a “they” to some people, and i wanna change that
Edit: forgot this comment even existed. Well, turns out at the time, I was being hugely manipulated by this really toxic friend who was making me think I was being a horrible person to them, made me think I was the bad guy, and I believed that crap for the longest time. I’m better now. She’s still got some of a grip on my friends, but I try not to think about that. Love all the care and support y’all gave me 💖💖💕❤️
@QuackImBack I have been treated terribly by a "they", and now I have probably been a "they" too. Even if "they" will ruin my mood, doesn’t mean I should be one of them and do the same. Hope we can both become better people, it starts all at ourselves.
Good on you
I seen this comment and was scared that the replies were going to be people attacking you, I'm so glad I was wrong. It's been 9 months at this point and I sincerely hope that you're doing better. I've been a "they" at certain times, we probably all have. I believe that there's a "they" in all of us that exists to some extent really, it's important that we channel it into positivity. It takes a lot to admit that you've been wrong and I'm really proud of you
QuackImBack I was a they 100% when I was younger I was a bitch to so many people and now I realized I am one of the people I used to hate and I’m so done being who I was and now I’m a better person and am finally the true me.
Its super cool that you're trying to change dude! I hope everything is well and that you've turned into the person you wanted to become :) (also if anyone here has any tips on how to become a better person it would be greatly appreciated!!)
This whole damn video is an amazing quote so:
“I'm gonna tell you something they don't want you to know.
I'm gonna tell you something THEY don't want you to know.
They don't want you to be happy.
THEY want you to be ashamed of yourself.
THEY want you to have to make excuses for who you are and why you are that way. What you like, what you wear, how you feel good.
They want you to DEFEND it.
They want you to be on the DEFENSE all the time.
D'you know whyyy?
‘Cause when you're happy, you're on the offense.
When you feel good about yourself, you're on the OFFENSE.
When you express yourself unapologetically, no sorry's, no ‘scuse me's, no explanations.
When you're just happy & vibin’.
They hate that shit, man.
They'll do whatever they gotta do, to bring you down or make you question it or make you question yourself or make you question how you should feel or why you do feel that way.
They don't know shit, man.
They don't know SHIIIT.
I've been depressed for however many fucking years, I've been on meds for however many fucking years, I've been trying to die all the fucking time, I've been through it.
I've been through it and it sucks and I hate it.
Y'know why I felt that way? Because I thought I had to be a certain way and I thought that if I wasn't a certain way, I had to explain myself, and when I'm left trying to explain myself and why I get to feel the way I feel and why I get to feel happy the way I feel happy. I'm left trying to explain what happiness is. And you know what? That made me depressed as FUCK.
You know how I cured my depression?
I stopped giving a FUCK.
I took two tabs of acid one time, had a massive trip, killed my own ego, came back to life and decided I only wanna be happy from now on.
And I've been trying to live that life ever since.
And I'm here to pass that wisdom onto YOU.
‘Cause you don't have to give anyone an explanation.
You don't owe anyone a reason.
You don't owe anyone shit, for being happy.
If you're doing you and you're vibin’ on your own shit. GOOD. That's what they hate.
Go be happy. Fuck someones day up by loving yourself.”
Yes
this is honestly a kickass monologue
Yea
Control+C Control+V
This man shouldn't be quoted, in the same 3 minutes he said he took fucking acid
I know this video is a few years old at this point but I always end up coming back around to it again every so often and it always makes me feel better about myself, even if it's only for a little while. This helps me realize that it's okay to like the things I like and its okay to be the way that I am. Thanks for making this :)
Your voice is perfect for this video, I don't know why but it's so comforting. I've watched it two times already and it's so inspirational. Thank you!
Edit: I've watched this video over 8 times since I posted this comment. It really does help, its just such a good video I cannot stop watching. Seriously, thank you for making this video.
This video is one of the most important things I've watched in my life.
Kale Cassidy I hope you have a happy life.God bless.
2:17
*_” oh dang its fifty percent off thx fam”_*
I come back to this often when im in a mental blockage because sometimes it’s all that can put my mind at ease. It’s gotten me to be able to sleep. It will always be relevant because there’s always gonna be ups and downs. Thank you dude you have no idea how much your words mean to me
Thanks. Just thanks
Make me worry like thiS
Nuh uH
This changes the way I think, I'm gonnna go start vibin
@@jesududiaibeegwuahebeh9574 shhhh
This video makes me feel something. I watched this a few months ago, can't remember what it meant to me then. But now. It means a lot.
The way you talk about "them" shooting words and questions at us make me realize what "them" you're talking about.
"They" aren't people.
I believe "they" are your own mind. Even though it is your own brain that is telling you what to do, and making you who you are. There is still part of it that tries to force away feelings and emotions that are supposedly threatening to break into your life.
I am transgender, and pansexual. When I first got signs that I might not feel safe and comfortable in the body I'm in, or that I might like the same gender, I was scared. I was frightened because I didn't know why I felt the way I did. It got so bad to where there was some deep depression involved.
I did some very regrettable things, and still I was scared. I started to seek things that I could relate to and stumbled upon a group at school that accepted me with open arms. We call ourselves Skittles.
I talked to people who cared and supported me, told me that even if others left me they would be right by my side.
This made me so grateful. So incredibly happy. I was so happy to a point I accepted myself. And I had so much pride that I couldn't keep the secret from my family any longer.
I came out to them and they accepted me, it was more than I could have asked for. My parents didn't immediately transition, but I was expecting it.
A few months later the correct pronouns started being used, my chosen name as well. I was overflowing with happiness, even as judgement was being thrown at me.
But then my mind started to feel threatened again, I had made a friend earlier in the year and my feelings for them had grown way too much. It was to a point that I couldn't handle it.
One day they told me that they knew about my feelings and that they were questioned about their tight relationship with me all the time. I felt utterly ashamed that my own lack of self control and boundaries had made the person I cared about most suffer.
I felt down in the dumps, even as my life seemed to carry on like normal. The guilt built up and suddenly I couldn't really control my actions.
This is where the other part of the video comes in. When you said that other people try to make you explain your actions and they try to coordinate them with your emotions. I hate that shit.
I know they want to try and help, but all the questions can make someone feel overwhelmed, trapped as though maybe the thoughts they were having were the only way out.
Whenever I showed my mother the scars on my wrist, she didn't immediately tell me that it was insane and that I needed to stop immediatey. She told me that I couldn't control it and she understood, because she had been through it too. She walked me through some questions about everything leading up to that point, along with her hand lacing mine. She told me that therapy was a good option, and that telling my dad would be preferable.
I agreed with her all the way, and there is the other part of the video.
Be happy. Do what you can to make yourself happy so you can slap that fucking smirk off your mind's face.
I haven't gotten there yet, and honestly... I'm scared to death. But seeing this video, remembering that life can get better if you do it for yourself, has made me realize just how much I want to be happy again.
Truly happy.
UnDepressable YT youre spilling the real tea here.
I hope you know that I love you.
Scooch
No homo
"They" is actually secretly just myself
comments like these make me chuckle and thats the shit i need man
Exactly
@Iosif Stalin Thanks Stalin! You are a great man.
Ok
Man.
This video literally stopped me from trying to end myself again, I was scrolling through recommended, about ready to just end it, and this made me re think my decision entirely. It resonates with me so much. Even now, months after its been uploaded and the first time I saw it. Every time I hear it i remember to try to be myself, which is extremely hard for me.
God bless you man. You are my favorite youtuber.
am glad you're here mate . stay strong
best wishes.
Remember one thing: They don't know shit. They're just robots who hate anything better then them. :) go be you!!!
thanks guys so much! these have made my week! good luck!
If you stop climbing, halfway up the mountain, you'll never get to see the view.
Even if the light on the horizon is dim, you might just not have climbed far enough yet- keep going.
Keep loving yourself, even if the world makes you feel like you don't deserve it. Keep on going, if not for yourself, but to prove that you could to all those who would tell you otherwise.
Love yourself. Do what you love.
Love those who love.
"Fuck someone's day up by loving yourself" this quote has kept me alive for 2 years.
hey i was just having a rly bad night and this helped me. again. i don’t know how you do it but thank you.
nunyadiamonds I love you
My episodes usually occur at night too.
nunyadiamonds hi you are beautiful. Thats all i wanted to say. Trans is beautiful.
Jayde tk tysm;;;; trans *is* beautiful :)
AnEon OfLunacy sdkskd thank you!!
I was only sad for 10mins and youtube recommended me this video before I became depressed asf. Thank you youtube, very cool
You know thats not depression, right?
@@arieson7715 NoOooOoO fFssSssS StrAngerrRrRrr. It's me exaggerating the sadness not legit depression
@@Aquarityy then just say you're upset
@@arieson7715 don't write a comment correcting someone if isn't needed. the only thing you're doing here is forcing OP to explain themselves, and draining their energy. i would rewatch the video if i were you since it looks like you didn't really get the message
@@albingrahn5576 Yeah I saw it, be nice to everyone, even if they are doing stupid stuff, and maybe drugs too, yeah drugs are cool, lets also not forget that if we don't critique anyone then they won't get any better.
You have the voice of an angel. And the wisdom to back it up.
Marvin Moose the voice is so cool.
Hey I found this video ages ago when I was a depressed anxious teenager and I could see back then how this is fucking brilliant but couldn't fully apply it to my life at the time. I'm an adult now and I still struggle with depression and anxiety but I feel like I can finally relate to the mindset you had in this video and really really appreciated the moments and people that let me exist and be myself unapologetically. Thank you so much for this video, I will keep coming back to it whenever I need a reminder that shit's fucked but I can still feel content with living:)
After years of trying to do shit and please everyone. This ONE video changes my life.
Scotch you are magical.
"You do you" they said
"Be yourself" they said
"Don't change for no one" they said
Years later
"Can you call me by my male name pls??"
"Hell nah"
"......."
I really needed to hear this now
I relate to this so hard man, "do you really need those operations? People are going to judge you, why don't you just do the safer thing?" Their happiness isn't mine and I just want to finally feel comfortable, I want to be able to feel good about myself :(
Ill call you by your male name if we turn to be good friendsssssss
We’re here for you and we love you. Be unapologetically yourself. Because you don’t deserve anything less than that.❤️
You should love yourself for you who are. Stop being depressed
Well hey i wanted to let you know I’m a guy okay?.
Apparently I have to love myself the way they picture me doing it. But yo I’m happy right now and I hope you are too.
I’m trans ,,, my mom always told me to be myself. But she doesn’t support me.
When u love scotch voice
Yeah, makes the video 10x better than it already is uwu
Amy Cute first
correction
*reply
when u are a normal human*
his voice is actually hot help
Qlowquest hmm
gotcha
wink wink
I remember seeing this video years ago when I was at one of my lowest points. I'll think about this video and return to it when I'm feeling thos things again. Every time I come back I find a new understanding. I just saw your most recent and I'm glad you're still here. Thank you for just being you and existing here
I like how he calls it “they” so that anyone who watches this it can interpret “they” as anyone or anything that applies to them in their own life.
They can be people, or they can be the voices of doubt in your mind, or whatever They are to you.
I mean it’s lazy writing but fuckin what do I know man, live happy.
That's what annoys me about this video the most, and most of the comments eat it up.
But it helps them out so eh.