Neej Tsa Tsuas Hlub Yus Thaum Yus Lub Neej Zoo Zwb. 11/12/2023
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There are so many of you who criticized the sister who submitted her story to share with us. If your family or neej tsa supported you and helped you when you had nothing, good for you. You're one of those very lucky Hmong women to have such luck. Not everyone is as lucky as you. For those who criticized her for not leaving right away, I doubt you would do as you said you would too. When you establish a life with that cheater, even a normal person would still try to save it. She gave the Hmong way a try and realized the horror of a one-sided selfish mindset that would crush her as a person. From my perspective, she did everything right considering her age and growing up in a traditional family. She is a great example of a strong HMONG WOMAN. She restrained herself from gossiping about her husband, she gave when she had a lot to give, and learned the horror truth of the backward Hmong mindset. This is the kind of story that I can respect and find it worthy of my time to listen to.
Well said
Totally agreed and we'll said.
Well said. 👏👏
Agree with you 100%! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Reality is EVERYONE only loves you when they know they can use you.
Tus sister koj hais yog tshaj mog neej tsa ces yeej coj li koj hais kawg os thov kom peb cov ntxhais txawj coj li koj hais ces peb thiaj muaj peev xwm nawj mog
Kuv xav kom thaum peb qua peb tus ntxhais. Peb yuav tsum ntuas tus vauv thiab es tsis txhob ntuas peb tus ntxhais xwb. Tsis tas li ntawv yus tus ntxhais yus tsis pab tsis cawm es leej twg thiaj pab. Thaum nws yog lawm yus yuav tau pab. Hais yog kawg thiab hais tau zoo kawg. Thank you for sharing.
Tsis hais neejtsa xwb kwvtij los yeej tinyam thaum yus txomnyem ces yeej tsis muaj leej pom yus mog.
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Sister I'm on the same boat as you. Kuv los kuv yeej tsis khiav neej tsa li lawm thiab..leej twg nyob yus kawm khau Mas thiaj paub xwb yog lawv tsis rau yus kawm khau ces lawv yuav hais tias yus phem xwb thiab nyuag nyob li xwb Cas tsis ua siab ntev no xwb, yus thiaj paub yus lub neej thiab yus tus kheej zoo tshaj xwb ces yus yuav tau hlub yus es ua qhov Kom zoo rau yus xwb tsis txhob ua Kom zoo rau lwm leej lwm tus vim lawv tsis yog yus lub neej.
Twb ntshe vim li es tswv ntuj thiab tsis muab neej tsa rau kuv ntau lau👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 kom kuv tsawg ib qho mob taub hau 🙏🏼
Tus txiv zoo li koj tus ko, nrauj tawm mus koj lub neej thiaj kajsiab..
Neej tshas ces cov twg los yeej phem ib yam os mog. Kuv lub neej los yeej zoo li zaj dab neeg no thiab os mog. Tus me viv ncaus tsis txhob tu siab tas tas thiab nawb mog. Ib leeg muaj ib ntus kev taug os mog
Kuv rau koj txhaus kho thiab tu siab tshaj plaws
Peb hmoob cov neej tsa ces ruam li ruam twb tsis npo yus tus neeg os tseem npo tus vauv uas tsim txom yus tus ntxhais. Lo lus hais tias “txiv neej muaj cai” tab tom qhia rau cov tub kom txhob pauv lawv txoj kev ua phem.
Relatives like these don’t need your respect. Keep your head high and go on with your life. These people don’t need your acknowledgement.
Neej tsuj xwb na
Yog kawg hais yog tshaj
Pojruam, koj siv nyiaj ntxias kom neej tsa qhuas koj. Thaum nyiaj tag lawm neej tsa rso koj tseg. Koj tsis hlub hlub neej tsa, koj ntxias neej tsa hlub koj xwb. Cov neeg neej tsa hwm, tsis tas yuav niaj muab nyuj muab txhuv misb nyiaj ntxias. Cov neeg phem thiaj siv nyiaj ntxias neeg hlub nws.
She speaks the truth. When you come back to your family, your family are sometimes the most judgmental about your life that they don’t even live in or experience.
when it comes to anyone outside of your parents and kids... only hlub qhov yus hlub tau xwb. never overdo it. your neej tsa loved your ex only because he's a social butterfly and a show-off. let's all face it, extended family and relatives don't give a crap about anyone but what benefits them. It's simply the truth with every one.
I understand the "Hmong Way" in a different country because we were poor peoples and need each other to survive but this is America and everyone can survive by themselves. Alway remember this quote "When in Rome act like the Roman do". This is America and we as Hmong people have to let go of old traditions. I'm not saying turn our backs on our culture but leave those stupid traditions behind...it's teaching our kids outdated ideas of love and family.
Koj ua yog lawm mas me vivncaus neej tsa lawv Paub yus thaum yus neej zoo2 xwb os txhob mloog neej tsa tas2 thiab os yus yuav tsum nre thiab os
Yes, you’re right sister. One has to love themselves first before others.
Those people that only seeing you when you have what they want and use then they will be happy your family and friends then it is better not to have them in your life at all!!!
Yog tshaj vim kuv twb yog ib tug zoo li zaj neej neeg ntawm ko thiab
Peb ua neeg nyob, muaj ib txhia yog muaj nyiaj lawm ces lub neej kawg puas. Vim peb muaj nyiaj xwb tsis muaj kev hlub ces kawg yuav phov.
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Tsis hais neej tsha Los yog kwv tij yog koj ua neej tsis muaj noj muaj haus ncuav ntws luag yeej tsis hlub tsis k koj
Peb hmoob lub siab ces lawv hlub kiag tau tus lawv yug xwb os tej nyab tej nus tej niam laus tej niam hluas yog tus txawj txawj xav ces thiaj hlub yus me me xwb tab cov coob ces yeej coj kiag li koj hais ko xwb
You did the right things sister, you know what is right for you and make your self happy not for others
Peb muaj ib txhia poj niam mas ruam ruam na nws txoj cai luaj li caj npab es neej tsa qhia nws tas lo nws tsis hais nws txoj cai ces neej tsa tsis pom qab pab xwb...neej tsa thiaj li yuam kom rov qab...qhov neej tsa cem cem ces yog koj muaj cai lo tsis txawj tuav cai xwb...
Thank god yes girl!! You got that right. The more they hate you or don’t like you the more money you save. No need to accommodate to the Neejtsa or Kwvtij.
Viv ncaus peb cov hmong ces 99 “ cov neej tsav no hlub cov ntxais ces yus lub neej muaj2 es dab tsi los nyiaj rhos pes hlos rau lawv xw yog neej txom nyem los lub neej mus tsi taus ces peb cov ntxais ces taus ib txoj kev os txhob tus siab nco hlub yus tus kheej lawv cov tub mas ob peb tom neej los lawv yeej hlub peb cov neej tsas yog cov kaus ntaus xwb kuv li mus ua neej ces tsi zeem neej zeem tsav li as yus muaj tsawg tus ib plab ces yuav li ntawm xwb
Neej tsa this, neej tsa that, even if your husband cheated on you over and over or want to kill you, they’re still gonna push you back to that fool. It’s all about saving their face! You’ve gotta put your foot down and say NO! I hate that the men have more privilege in the relationship and the women have to bow down to his feet. This is America god damn it. Its about damn time we women stand up for ourselves and leave any toxic unhealthy relationships. We don’t need neej tsa to approve or disapprove. If the women cheated she doesn’t get second or third chances. Sorry 😮but not sorry. Hmong culture sucks and needs to change.
I don't care much for my family. They can't tell me what to do. It's MY life. They have NO IDEA what I'm going through. These hmong ladies need to realize that fact. They need to STOP living for others, especially their family, and start living for themselves.
I agree..I never let my family get in my way in my relationship at all.. because it my life n if not good I need stand up for myself n get out unhappy relationship life n do what best n healthy for myself n kids..xwb..
This is y I don’t care anyone
I’m only care my self
Thaum koj muaj nyiaj koj ua kom lawv qhua koj. Koj zoo siab Thaum pluag koj ya tsis tau rau lawv qhuas lawm. Lawv tsis muaj lus qhuas koj lawm. Koj tsis tau kev qhuas lawm ces koj chim siab. Li no xwb.
Sis just focus on ur self and love ur self. Do what makes you happy .life is too short ❤. Best of luck
Hom txiv neej zoo li tus txiv no mas yog koj tseg taus ces muab nrauj zoo dua mog.
Me viv ncaus aw neej tsa ces yeej tsis sawm zoo thiab mas tsis xum hlub yus tus neeg ho mus hlub tus sab nrauv..ho kwv tij los phem ib yam nkaus txhob mus mloog lawv hais ua li qhov koj ua tau xwb zoo dua
Koj tus txiv twb npaj hov riam hov ntxuas rau koj lawm lo koj tseem uv yuav…malakapis at the END koj yog tus swb tus tsis zoo. Thank you for sharing a lesson we WOMEN must learn
Txhob tu siab cov niam thiab txiv, cov neej tsa es pheej tsi pab lawv cov ntxhais na, 1. Lawv ua cov paub cai no. 2. Lawv nyiam coj tib yam li koj tus txiv, yog lawv hais nws ces yog lawv caws ntxiab tos lawv no. 3. Lawv tseem nyiam ua liam tib yam ces yog lawv rov hais lawv xwb ne. Vim li no lawv thiaj quab yuam cov ntxhais tas mus li. Cov sisters yeej meej hais. Yog lawv tsi pab los txhob tu siab. Tebchaws no muaj zoo nom zoo tswv. Coj lawv mus nram tsev hais plaub xwb mas.
Neej tsa yog ib co neeg ruam tshaj nws hlub lwm tus nws xav tias yus sib nrauj tag es yus tus ntawv tseem xav tias ntshe yuav hlub lawv no lawv mas ruam tshaj
Tus pojniam twg nws tseem cia siab rau nws cov neej tsa txoj kev hlub ces tus ntawd yog tus ruam dig muag nkaus xwb nawb. Txhua xeem Hmoob ces yeej ua li koj cov neej tsa ua rau lawv cov ntxhais thiab nawb. Qhov lawv pheej yuav kom nej cov ntxhais uv, nyo hau rau nej cov txiv tsuj los vim lawv tsis xav thaj tshob nej rau thaum nej muaj mob muaj nkeeg, muaj ploj muaj tuag ntawd nkaus xwb. Ua neeg nyob, yus tsuas hlub tus neeg hlub yus xwb nawb. Tus neej tsa twg xav noj yus tab sis tsis xav pab yus, muab nws lawb li lawb dab kiag. Cov neej tsa zoo li ntawd, txawm muaj nws los tsis benefit yus, txawm tsis muaj nws los yus yeej tsis xiam dab tsi li ov.
Tsis yog neej tsa os. Yog neej qhau xwb os. Vim lawv yeej tsis muaj hlwb ne. Lawv tsua paub qhau xwb ne. Lawv thiam yus uv li uv xwb.
Cov ko yog cov tsa nees xwb tsis yog neej tsa os niam hluas lawv tsis pom qhov yus yuav tuag kav tsij muab dov kauj fab saib li saib tau xwb zoo dua mog
There will always be a double standard in the Hmong community..hmong people only want to know and acknowledge you when they can use you
Agreed!
Yes!
Thov Hmoob rua muag saib meskas xaiv thawjcoj nawb
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Koj hais yog lus kawg os sister❤❤
Tsimnyog cov neejtsa hloov txojcai sai ntxhais li tsiajtxhu, muag tuag tsis cawm tsis pab. Xav paub tias nej yug ntxhais ua dabtsi? Nej puas ntshaw luag tus ntxhais los puag pw? Nej yug tau ntxhais nej puas hlub, puas tau ntsejmuag thaum muaj koob npe zoo? Nej cov txivneej 1 txwm ntshaw pojniam thiaj mus zij los yuav. Cas nej thiaj tsis hlub rub tes los vim tau txijnkawm tsis zoo? Yog luag tsis hlub ua neej tsis taus, nrauj los mam qua rau tus tshiab, zoo dua nws tuag ces Nej plam 1 tug zoo ntxhais, zoo nyab, zoo niamtsev.
Yeej yog kawg maj tsis paub cas koj cov neej tsa ko yuav ua tau phem npaum ko rau koj thiab os Sister aw koj cov neej tsa ko tsis yog neej tsa os yog neej nqa xwb lawv thiaj coj li ko rau koj ne… yog neej tsa mas tsis coj li ko ov nawb.😢😢
Hmoob tus cwj pwm yeej zoo li ntawv. Yus pab yus tus kheej xwb yog qhov zoo tshaj lawm.
yog os kuv cov lo zoo li kos thiab os
Peb poj niam nyuas muaj nyiaj ib txoj Kev xav yog yus mus tàu ib tsev neeg tsi zoo mus tàu tàu ib tug txiv tsi txawj ua zoo tsi hlub tsi fwm yus yog ib qhov uas tu siab tshàj plawg li os.
Good deed or bad deed only time can tell….you will get what you sowed.
tu me niam tsev qhov koj cov neej tsa yuam koj lo yuav lawv tu vauv siab zoo ko lo twb vim lawv paub tia yog neb sib nrauj lawv ce lawv yuav tsi tau free food noj thiab lawv qhov ncauj yuav tsi lo roj lawm no la ma thiab lawv yuav tsi tej tu npua tej nyuj dawb lo noj nod ce koj tsi kam yuav lawv tu vauv siab zoo ko ce lawv ntxub2 koj lua mua 😂😂😂😂😂
Tu siab heev li os kv cov neej tsa ces zoo li ko kiag ntag
Why did you care so much of what others treated or think of you. When you know you're right and doing the right thing. Who cares if no one agrees with you. When you live your life and pay your own bills, don't give a s--t of what others think or do... just be happy!!!
So proud of you, sister.
Noj tsis tau yuav tuag.. Hais tsis tau yuav swv.. why did you avoid family gatherings by putting your anger on them?
Cov neeg uas nws twb ua phem phem liam tag los tseem muab tsa ua thawj coj uaca yuav ruam ualuaj tseem ruam tshaj tus neeg ruam ntawd thiab os lawv. Me ntxhais cov neejtsa uas zoo lis koj cov neejtsa ntawd yog koj tsi tuag xwb yog koj tuag los lawv yeej hai tsi tau yam tseemceeb dabtsi li os.
Yog koj xav hlub los hlub tsi tim nyog hlub ntsiv lawm yog koj muab hlub lawv heev daus lawm lawv yuav saib tsi tau koj nawb mog.
Koj cov neej tsa ko yog cov niag tsa nees xwb os. Thiab raws li nej cov muam no mus ua neej ma npav mus ua lub neej xeem tus ub tus no. Muaj nyiaj zog xwb ma thuam thiab ntxub lwm tus tshaj.
Tus me ntxhais aw neej tsa ces yog tsa nees xwb os mog
Tu siab kawg li od
Neej tsa ces lawv tsuas ua kom lawv cov txiv neej txoj kev liam txhob poob xwb lawv tsis tau quav ntsej txog kev ncaj ncees. Vim lawv yeej paub tias lawv los yuav coj liam li koj niag txiv dev thiab...nco ntsoov tias txiv neej hmoob ces yog txiv dev txhua2222 tus no nawb cov ntxhais hmoob. Koj tus nus koj txiv koj neej tsa...vim li no lawv thiaj tsis pab cov pojniam.
Damn, this story hits home especially when she said if she have a big heart it doesn’t matter who she marry that person will have a big heart too, all because of love. My family used to think all the good things I’ve done for them was because of my ex but little do they know my ex used to criticize me all the time for helping my family.
Qhov twg muaj tseeb, txiv neej hmoob siab phem saib tsis taus peb cov poj niam hmoob. Tsis tas yuav mloog leej twg hais
Nej cov niag thawj coj ces yog quav dev xwb os . Pense hmoob nyob lwm lub tebchaws no PEB tsis ntshaw UA thawj coj Li nej cov nyob america teb as los peb twb tsis muaj teebmeem li nej.
Cov Niag neej uas nyuam qhuav muaj me2 Xwb los kwv tij neej TSA muaj noj muaj haus es Nim UA cuag li NWS Nim yog los pav es Nim yuav tua nyuj tua qaib tua npua yuav txhuv. Nim yuav mus yuav dej yuav cawv mus ua Kom luag qhuas2 yus xwb, ua Neeg nyob es Tus ua rau Tus UV CES Tus UV kawg Tau qhov mob xwb os cov mi Niam tsev aw , txhob ruam2 li kuv os nawb mog 😂😢
Kuv pom hmoob cov txiv los pav niam los pav ua qhia qhua coob kawg li tiag. Tiam sis hauv lawv lub cuab ces kub lwj kas dhi li zaj no xwb
Yog kawg nej tàu tau ib yam li kuv thiab nej kuj muaj tug tub siab xav tau li kuv thiab tu siab kawg vim yus mus yuav tau ib tug txij nkawm tsi hlub yus mus yuav tau ib tsev neeg tsi nyiam yus tu siab kawg yus thiab tsi khiav neej tsa vim yus twb tsi muaj lub ntseg muag nrog luag hlo li ces yus thiaj txiav txim siab tsi mus xwb
Yog tshaj plaws li os sister awe !
Cov ko yog cov tsa nees xwb os.
My parents helped us from when we had $0 and his family was the one who casted us away when we were ground zero poor so I disagree that neej tsa tsuas hlub thaum muaj nyiaj. Now that we have everything his family wants in.
That’s pretty sad that his family are unsupportive in your weakest situation but when your life is full of wealth and success they want to crawl to you for support on their behalf. All they want is your money. I’d say, to hell with y’all!
You’re one of the lucky one so count your blessings.
Why you still help those good for nothing brother's?
Thaum pib koj khav khav koj tus kheej, Thaum kawg koj ho thuam koj tus kheej. Pog khav theeb, cia lwm tus tuaj khav koj zoo dua li koj khav koj hlub hlub neej tsa, koj muaj nyiaj muaj vaj tsev loj.
Sister it your fault you cover up for that man and let him lie to your side of the family. Evil people will lie and try to set the tone first. Learn your lesson Sister.
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Kuv mloog ma zoo li lam hais xwb na. Puas muaj tseeb tiag ma.
Tus muam aw tiam no tsis thas2 mus hnug neej tsa li os koj ruam us luaj ....neej tsa ces yog lawv niaj hnub tau beer haus tau nqaij noj ces lawv tias koj yog ntxhais zoo
Koj cov neej tsam ruam tiag 2 to koj tu txiv tsi fwm lawv na yog nw fwm koj cov neej tsa ce nw tsi ua hlua li mo to nw ua luaj lo vim koj cov neeg tsam ruam ne nw thiaj ua vim nw paub zoo koj neej tsam ruam li ruam cuag npua xwb twb muab lawv tu neeg tsim 2 lo lawv yeej yuav yuam kom lo nrog nw nyob xwb nw thiaj tsi ntshai koj lob tej niag neej tsa zoo li no xwb tsi xam yus lo yus tsi ta xam 2 lawm thiab lawv hlub tu sab nrauv xwb twb tsi hlub koj na
Don’t be sad! It is not Hmong culture, Hmong community, and their way of lives. It it your fault for showing off! Remember, free food, free drinks, free meat - no one is going to refuse! You give, they eat & drink! Also, it is America, your spouse cheat. You make the call and end the game! I hope you learn your lesson and enjoy the rest of the many years you have left to live a happy a life!
True! Looks like she finally learned her lesson.
She thinks she has a rich life. And she wants to show she a perfect wife and daughter to her kwv-tij & neej-tsa! What she forget is “you gives, people takes.”
Hmoob ruam nej nyob lub tebchaws twg ma lov ? cov hmoob no leej twg tau kawm tawm los txiav plaub ? cov kwvtij thiab neej tsa ces hauv tais nkaus xwb. Cas koj thiaj tsis hu rau 911 kom neej tsa khiav nkaum qab rooj. Kuv tus no yog ib tug vauv dev zoo li no ces thawj zaug xwb kuv twb muab nrauj lawm.
U live in America, u dont have to take shit from anyone! U dont love & value urself so why would anyone else love & value u? U do what is best for u, not for anyone else.
To all women, don't be dumb, if your husband cheats on you I'm hear use me, we can get back at your husband haha
I'm glad you finally stood your ground and kicked him to the curb and divorced him. He didn't deserve you. He loved and enjoyed the money you were making and bringing in. But he didn't bring anything to the table. He loved showing off and splurging on other people like money grows on trees no matter what. Only you would've given him all those chances. Once I can see for the children sake but after the second time he would've been flying out the door right along with a broom up his arse....your damn relatives are absolutely good for nothing. Those people you need to cut off your ties, blocked them and ghost them. Stop supporting them or even waste your time and energy on. I wouldn't lift a finger much less give a penny to them.
Qhov lawv hais tias “txhob coj koj lub siab qub lawm” yeej muaj tseeb. Vim koj lub siab qub twb tsis ua tau rau koj kev txij nkawm ruaj khov ne. Koj lub siab qub ua neej qhia qhua, koj ua neej khav theeb, koj ua neej npog koj kev tsw lwj tsw qaub, koj ua neej tais caws (coward), koj ua neej yuav ntsej muag xwb.
Yog koj yuav tus tshiab es tseem coj lub siab qub ntawd ces yuav kawg thaj qub xwb tiag. Yuav tau hloov siab tshiab thiaj taug tau txoj kev tshiab hos.
Here we go again another story about unfaithful, divorced and relative unsuccessful intervened. Don’t you people have enough of these BS stories? This is what this channel is all about, except talk about something with a little educational for others, damn Hmong people. 😢😢
Start 3:35 enjoy!
Tus neeg phem yog koj lawm, tsis yog koj tus txiv. Koj hais ntis koj ntseg muag kom koj tau plhu xwb. Koj tsis muaj cai coj koj tus txiv mus rau koj cov neej tsa hais nws kom hlub koj. Koj tsuas muaj cai coj nws mus rau nws cov kwv tij hais nws kom hlub koj xwb. Nws thiaj muaj cai coj koj mus rau koj cov neej tsa hais koj kom hlub nws yog koj ua neej nrog nws tsis raws li qhua tauj ob cag ua. Nov thiaj yog Hmoob cai tswj tsav tus ntxhais ua neej.
Kj yog ib tug poj niam siab luv heev
That’s lying, koj tus txiv Tsis ruam npaum koj hais ko, vim tus txiv ntse Tsis rhuav tus pojniam rau nej tsav ib zaum li… maybe just make up story xwb os
Your issue is your own family. Move on
Koj cov neej tsa tseem yog cov neeg very low class people
UGH your families R still sooooooo FOB. Why do some hmoob ppl live in mekas for over 40 years n still so old school?? I thought we outgrew these old fashioned traditions…… it’s time to modernize. The last time I checked, hmoob women R winning the world over n making history for our hmoob ppl …..n hmoob men ….. lmao NOTHING so far 😂 SOooooooo why we still have WEAK hmoob women??. Don’t u know hmoob women have more power now! Stand up n walk out, don’t listen to old school preaching! Best of luck! U do you…. No one can do you!! U are the way u R bcuz u allow yourself to be in that position…peace out !
Please young generation please help us change this horrible way of living. Our Hmong community is a patriarchal community where laws and traditions benefit only men not women.
Kuv pom mas 3 cov hmoob xum ntau yog muaj lab ces muaj nyiaj ces yeej rhuav lub neej xum coob
cov me muam aw qhov tig nrab qaum rau cov ntxhais thiaj li yog qhov zoo, hmoob teej hmoob tug, yuam tsuag tsuag tej ntxhais mus yuav txiv xwb tuag ces faus kiag, ciaj ces mam qhuas thiaj li hmoob kab lig kev cai poj ua cia yawg ua tseg los mas