If you still love your ex that much then please let your current wife go because you are not in love with her, you marry her just to slave for you. She's your wife, love and treat her like one. I know you don't love her other children whole heartedly too, so don't expect her to love yours whole heartedly. Your ex wife cheated and left you, married her boyfriend and got divorced again, and you still long for her so why not just be single and wait for her ex wife even after death. Don't even try to put in the excuse of your children. You are just using your children as an excuse to be with your ex. Tell your current wife the truth that you still love your ex and you cannot let her go even though after all your ex did to you, you don't deserve your current wife's love. Let her go love someone else who loves her, and appreciates her love and doesn't seek for their ex's love like you.
Tos koj 2 tug poj niam tsi hlub koj lo vim koj ruam g thiab tsi tha tu siab rau koj tu niam 2 tia tsi hlub kj cov me nyuam vim lawv niam yug lawv twb tsi hlub lawv ne
If you’re still hung over your ex, do not remarry until you’ve healed… no new partner(s) deserve a “trauma dump” it all starts with you, if you know how to be considerate towards your new wife, she will reciprocate that consideration towards your kids… good luck
Nah. It doesn't matter. I saw and have relatives who remarried having this kinds of problems all the time bc of the kids. No way other people out there coming into your life and love your kids as theirs
Totally agreed...you can always go meet a woman on many different days, but your son's concert is only set once. This father is immature with his own priorities. In this scenario, your children always come first.
Brother, txhua yam zoo li phem tag rau koj vim hais tias you still can’t let go of your ex-wife. That’s the conflict between you and your wife but you don’t see that.
Yog lawm tiam rov qab muaj dua ib zaug ntxiv kuv thov kom kuv tau ib tug txiv kom zoo zoo thiab kom hlub hlub kuv thov kom lawm tiam kuv tau ib tsev neeg kom hlub thiab nyiam kuv es kom kuv muaj Kev sib siab muaj Kev kaj siab kom txhob zoo li tiam no.
Tej tug pojniam siab coj lub siab phem li no es ua cas koj tseem yuav khuvxim nws tseem yuav ua abtsi nawj. Muab nws tso povtseg kiag xwb mas pheej yuav ntsoo tias tu siab. Txaus txaus npau taws heev os.
You should just waited for your ex to return cuz you still love her. Your new wife is just someone there so you don’t feel lonely not someone you truly love like your ex.
BRO, ALL I GOT TO SAY IS THAT YOU WASN'T FAIR TO YOUR NEW WIFE AND TO DUMB STILL GETTING INVOLVED IN YOUR EX AFFAIRS. IT'S YOUR FAULT FOR NOT LETTING GO. IT'S YOUR FAULT FOR CAUSING ALL YOUR PROBLEMS. IF YOU COULDN'T LET GO OF YOUR PAST, YOU SHOULD'VE NEVER REMARRIED.
Some of you will never understand that it's not that easy for some of us divorcees, whether this story is coming from a man or a woman! He is telling his story and hardship. Not everyone wants to be divorced. Not even the 2nd time. To this brother, keep your head up and keep moving forward. You have a beautiful family built and left behind for you, even though things turn out not the way you wished for. Your ex is gone and your new wife is not willing to help you cope with things. She doesn't love you enough. It's okay. Let her go.
Ntuj e cas txoj dab neeg no tu siab kawg li os tus txiv tsev no yeej try nws qhov best tshaj plaws lawm os tsuas tim tus poj niam tshiab siab me dhau lawm xwb. Pab hlub tus txiv tsev thiab pab me nyuam kawg os ❤
You didn’t have a good second marriage, bc u rushed into it. You picked the wrong person. AND u haven’t gotten over ur ex wife. Better to have just stayed single.
Puas yog... Kwv tij es nej txiv neej nim txawj tu siab thiab naj. Kuv xav Tias ntse txiv neej yuav tsi txawj tu siab li no. Sim neej no kuv xav Tias txiv neej yog lub siab phem npaum kuv tus xwb tes ntse yuav tsi txawj tu siab no.
Peb lub neej niam tog txiv ntag yeej tu siab kawg os.. txhob xav xwb os mog.. ntawm ib 100 khub los ntshe tsuas muaj li 20 khub thiaj muaj kev kaj siab xwb os.. yog tsis xav muaj kev lwj siab lub kua muag los ntxiv lawm ces kawg sib nrauj es nyias mus nyias xwb os.. es tom ntej no ua nkauj nraug xwb txhob sib yuav os nawb..
Lub neej niam tog txiv nta , ib leej niam yeej siab loj taus txaus hlub koj thiab koj tsev neeg txog txij koj lub neej zoo li ko ces yeej yog koj lub siab twb tsis qhib thiab tsis loj rau koj tus niam cov ces lub neej yeej nyuaj tig rov los saib koj ua dab tsi es thiaj tsis haum.
41:30 Vim koj tus pojniam tshiab siab me me siab tsis loj, Siab phem phem lim lim hiav. Peb li peb nrog peb tus txiv hlub nws cov me nyuam civ xeeb ntxwv os. Muab pov tseg mus nrhiav tus tshiab tu siab zoo os tij.
Its obvious you are still in love with your ex wife that cheated on you and left you for another banana 🍌!!!! That’s why your new wife will never be enough so don’t blame her for being po. Once you let reality sink in and see that you have to heal from your first wife leaving you and accept that she no longer loves you…then you can really love your new wife and start really living in the present.
Mloog koj tham no xwb ces koj hlub koj cov me nyuam xwb koj twb tsi tham txog koj tu poj niam tov cov me nyuam koj hlub koj cov xwb koj tsi hlub lawv cov koj lub neej thiaj tu siab mo
Mloog mas zoo li koj tso tsis taus koj tus niam loj hauv koj lub siab, koj poj niam thiaj chim2 rau koj thiaj tsis xav hlub koj cov me nyuam os tus txiv tsev. Peb ib txhia poj niam yog tus txiv lub siab nyob tsis tag rau peb ces nws tej neeg peb yeej tsis xav hlub nawb. Koj tus niam loj yog nws hlub koj ces nws yeej tsis mloog neej tsa lus es muab koj tso tseg, so koj tau paub tu siab and move on fully with your new wife.
Wise man says: never cry for a cheater but cry for a good person who has died, never take a cheater back, never show your weakness to anyone, etc…I know it’s easy say than done, but it’s true what a wise man says…don’t be sad…I think your issue has to do with you…you can’t let go of your ex-cheating wife even though she’s no longer living…😩!
Bro...u don't need any women to make u happy...u need to learned how to make yourself happy. U don't need to depend on anyone to make u happy. U gotta learn how to live happily life. U got your children n yourself....make it happy. U don't need partner or spouse to make u happy. U gotta find your own happiness. I feel sorry for u.
Leej twg raug tus poj niam ua los yog txiv ua ces leej twg thiaj paub xwb los lawv !!! Cas koj yuav txawj tu siab li kuv thiab kuv xav tias kuv yog poj niam es kuv thiaj tu siab xwb no
Brother, you need your key her go. She’s not a good wife. She wants you to love and support her children but she does not do the same for yours. There’s plenty of good women out there. Don’t waste anymore time with her. Love and put your children first.
Kj ua tsi tau txiv es kj tu qub poj niam thiaj li tso kj tseg.. kj tu poj niam tshiab no los kj tseem ua tsi taus txiv rau kj cov me nyuam vim kj khoos tsi tau nws thiab hais tsi tau nws los hlub kj cov me nyuam.. tso nws mus zoo dua.. lawv thiaj li tsi nyiaj siab.. kj thiaj li kaj siab dua.. tu poj niam kos nws tsua xav tau kj thiab kom kj hlub nws cov xwb… nrauj los tau lawm
Tus mes txiv tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no nas yog yooj yim ces peb cov no ua poj nrauj tau kaum tawm lub xyoos no ces peb twb yuav yim cuaj tug lawm los mas tus mes txiv tsev txawm yog nyuaj npaum li kos es peb poj nrauj muaj qees tus sib nrauj tag ces thiaj zeem kiag los mas thiaj tsi thab xaus ntxiv lawm los mas
Brother I am also a step mom to some grown children. You have to learn to accept that no one will ever love your children. 1. Accept that your first wife never loved you and your children in the first place. 2. If she loved you and your children so much she wouldn’t never left you alone. 3. You have to learn to leave your grown children aside and work on your marriage. Good luck.
Sounds like there is a piece of the puzzle missing. If everything you say is true then grow a pair move on. No cheater man or woman is ever worth crying over
Eb sim neej no os tus me phooj ywg txiv tsev aw!!! Xyov Li os tej poj niam no ces tau tus zoo Los kuj zoo 2 muaj qhov phem muaj qhov zoo thiab ho tau tus phem Los muaj qhov phem ho muaj qhov zoo sib txuam daws thiab yog txoj hmoo zoo sib zam sib hwm ces yus tus niam nkj txhav qab txiv nraug txhav noog niam hluas nkj txiv hluas nraug phem zoo sib zam sib uv xwb ces yog qhov zoo xwb nawb ! Ua tsaug niam ntsuab teev cov dab neej sv ds muab tuaj kj hais zaj tu 2 siab Los muaj zaj zoo 2 siab Loj kuj muaj tej zaj mas tu 2 siab kj yog tus ncev ncauj Lus kj twb tu 2 siab Los peb cov mloog xwb peb twb tu 2 siab kg Li thiab os ?
ntuj aw tij laug niam tog txiv nta es yeej zoo li ko xwb os kv cws tseem lwj siab tshaj koj kv g muab piav ua dab neeg xwb os chim siab heev tej hnub ces xav tuag kiag mus xwb os xav tias kv yog poj niam es thiaj lwj siab xwb koj kuj muaj li no thiab los nrog koj tu siab los puas rau kv nj😢😢😢😢
You don’t deserve your 2nd wife. Stay single and fix your issues before you remarried.i am sure if your 2nd wife did the same with her ex-husband, you wouldn’t be okay either.
Kuv twb yog niam txais tog txiv txais nta los tau 13 lub xyoo no. Kuv kuj los pab kuv tus txiv nta nws ib tug tub ib tug ntxhais rooj tshoob tiav log thiab. Tus me kwv Txhob tus siab os. Tej zaum Koj tus pojnaim tsi txhawj xav thiab siab nqaim dlhaus xwb os.
Mi tub txhob nyuaj siab os mog yus yog ib tug txiv neej yawg lawm yuav tau ua siab tawv qhawv koj poj niam tsi hlub tsi pab koj los txhob tos nws txoj kev pab nawb koj yuav tsum pab koj sawv khov kho rau tej me nyuam nawb ib hnub nram ntej koj laus yuav yog koj cov me nyuam ko thiaj hlub koj Koj tus poj niam twb tsim koj thaum koj tseem muaj zog no ib hnub koj tsi tau lawm nws thiab nws cov me nyuam yuav tsi saib tsi tu koj vim koj tus poj niam lub siab me siab phem dag ntxias nws cov me nyuam ntxub koj vim lawv tsi tau nrog koj nyob tsuas hnov lo lus phem xwb
Tej kev ua tau lub neej Tus poj niam zoo li koj Tus no mas txawm nyob ua ke ntev los yuav tsis ua rau Tus lub neej zoo lawm txhob muab yus lub sij hawm los nkim rau cov neeg ua li peb cov no txoj kev koj muaj no peb twb muaj dhauloslawm kav tsij ntxov tsis thiaj tsis lig rau yuslub neej
Koj tus pojniam tshiab siab me dhau ces tsis txhob yuav tus txiv muaj menyuam. Yog nws hlub tsis tau koj cov ces txhob hlub nws cov thiab. Nyias mam hlub nyias li los yog txhob sib yuav xwb zoo dua, yog siab nqaim npaum li nws.
Seems like the issue here is the guy. He can't get over his first wife. Secondly..everyone is saying that the 2nd wife should love his kids but we only hear the 2nd wife being upset about not wanting to help but question is..does his kids love and accept the new mom like their mom? Just saying...again it goes back to the father.
Mloog mas yog tim koj xwb yog thaum koj twb tso tsis tau koj tus pój niam es koj ho yuav luag los tsim luag lub siab ces luag twb tsis tau koj kev hlub tiag es luag yuav ua cas los hlub koj tej me nyuam na
Hais txog qhov koj ua siab dawb siab zoo ces tsis cam lawm. Tab sis tus niam tshiab es yog twb phem npaum koj hais ces koj tau hloov dua xwb. Txawm yuav hloov tsawg tus los hloov txog thaum nrhiav tau tus hlub koj tiag xwb.. tom ntej no tseem yuav nyuab tshaj ko yog koj tseem nrog tus qub. Txhob xav ntau ua li koj ua tau hlub koj tus kheej os.
This is why I don't look for remarry after my wife pass away. She gone for 2 yrs now. All my kids grow adult when their mom die. I still don't have the heart to remarry again.
Koj tus poj niam tshiab ko siab ti zog lawm os tus txiv tsev aw. Yog nws coj nqaim npaum li ko ces koj txawm zam thiab uv npaum twg los yeej tsis zoo li os. Phem zoo los lawv niam twb tuag lawm koj tus niam tshiab yuav tsum nrog koj hlub koj cov me nyuam pob.
Tus mi npawg. Kuv los yeej tsis paub lwm tus li koj thiab. Cas zoo li luag tej yus pom thiab hnov mas ib feem yeej tias zoo zoo no thiab ho ib feem mas lawv tias ib yam es sib uv thiab xwb ..😅😅😅😅
Yog koj hlub koj cov me nyuam ne cov lawv kaj siab mas lawv tsi hlub me nyuam lawv tus niam hais li cas lawv ua li mtawd lawv tsi khe txog me nyuam li leej twg tias niam tshiab yuav nrog koj hlub nas zoo tshaj ces nyiam yug nyias thiaj hlub xwb os
Koj yog tus tsis txawj hais lus es koj tus poj niam thiaj chim. Yog tus poj niam twg los yeej yuav chim rau koj vim koj tus poj niam tsis tau ua dabtsi txhaum los koj tsuas pom ib sij hais lus cuag li nws txawm siv tsim koj pam me nyuam. Koj yog tus xub pib koj poj niam thiaj ua lub siab me lawm.
I'm so annoyed at this guy's story. He is obviously still inlove with his ex wife but she still doesn't choose him. Even after he marries, he still find times to go meet his ex and talk to her. He thinks he did right but he is in denial.
Cas koj ho yuav niag pog ko mas niam txaistog los yeej muaj tus zoo tusphem yog phem npaum ko koj yuav ua dabtsi uv mus los tsis ntxiv qhovtwg niam txaistog txiv txaisnta kuv twb tabtom ua ntag ua ntej koj yuav mus ua lub neej li no koj yeej paub tias koj muaj ibpab luag muaj ibco koj hlub luag cov luag hlub koj pab thiaj nyob tau uake ho ua neej nyasntsw cai li ko nyob tsis kajsiab os brother
I think you're a good man, but even good men can be wrong. You said you love your current wife, but I think you love your ex more. We shouldn't rush into another marriage if we aren't ready/healed from our last one. Thank you for all trying to prioritize your kids. They need you more than ever. But, take care of your feelings too.
TOS cov txiv tshiab niam tshiab tiam no me nyuam tsi kam hu ua niam ua txiv los lawv yeej siab phem 😢luag yeej tsi hlub tej me nyuam tsuas yog npog xwb os tsi npog hnub twg ces neej yeej kawg tawg xwb
Koj yuav kom niam tshiab los haum koj cov me nyuam mas koj yuav tsum coj li no! Koj yeej paub zoo lawm hais tias tus ntawv nws tsis yog lawv niam yug lawv nws hlub lawv los yeej tsis hlub cuag koj hlub, koj cov me nyuam koj yuav tsum hlub koj tus kheej tau li cas yuav li ntawv tsuav tau mov noj ris tsho hnav xws teb xws chaws xwb tau lawm! Koj tsis txhob khoo kom tus niam tshiab ntawv hlub koj cov me nyuam, koj yuav tsum paub cob qhia koj cov me nyuam ntawv kom txawj los yoog tus niam tshiab no, koj nco ntsoov tias koj tsuas yuav los ua koj tus poj niam thiab lawv niam tshiab kom tau lub npe xwb! Qhov tseeb nws yog koj tus poj niam xwb nws tsis yog lawv niam! Koj yuav tsum nkag siab li no ces koj lub neej tsis tshua muaj teeb meem, hos yog koj pheej coj li niaj hnub no koj coj no es nim tu siab li ub li no niaj hnub quaj nco lawv niam ces kawg koj lub neej ntxov siab xwb!
Ua cas koj yuav ua rau peb cov txiav neej poob ntaej muag ua luaj li os bro. Peb twb taug tzoj kev ntawm koj lawm peb twb tsis uali koj. Koj mas tsis tsim nyog yug los ua txiv neej li tos koj Tus niam 2 neb ho muaj teeb meem na tim koj xwb Tus poj niam thiab niam tais yawm txiav twb ua phem rau yus los thaum tuag tseem. Yuam cai ntawm koj Tus niam 2. Mus said thiab cas mag lawv tsim koj tsis txaus li
Koj tu niam loj yog tu rhuav neb lub neej, koj twb yuav dua 1 tug lawm es txhob hais hais txog tu qub poj niam lawm ma....yog nws tuag lawm koj thiaj li tsim nyog hais pob tos koj tu niam thib 2 chim chim lo koj tseem nco nco ne...tu neeg phem tsis tsim nyog koj nco, tu neeg zoo zoo koj nco lo tau kawg....koj pheej nco seev txog tu qub ces tu tshiab tsis xav hlub koj....ntawm tu niam tshiab yog koj txhob seev txog tu qub ces ntawv cov me nyuam yog koj ua tib zoo hais nws yuav nrog koj hlub...kuv xav tej zaum koj pheej nco tu qub ces nws thiaj li tsis xav hlub nej pab txiv tub xwb
Tus nus koj yuav ruam uaj li os yog nws tsis hlub kuv ces kuv yeej tsis xav hlub nws cov thiab tiag .es twb xav kom kuv hlub nws cov thiab nes yog li ntawv koj tus poj niam ua tsis ncaj lawm os mog..
Your wife should understand that you both have different life and you guy have kids from the passed, she need to respect you and love your kids too. Yes she need to open her heart bigger if u want to be their mom.
You need to have a talk and communication to your wife and make agreements to each other or just leave the marriage! Good marriage don’t need to play games! If you guys live like that is just a waste of life! Be open and honest! I think you guys should communicate and be open to be able to have trust and support each other! I think that you fault some and she faults some!
If you still love your ex that much then please let your current wife go because you are not in love with her, you marry her just to slave for you. She's your wife, love and treat her like one. I know you don't love her other children whole heartedly too, so don't expect her to love yours whole heartedly. Your ex wife cheated and left you, married her boyfriend and got divorced again, and you still long for her so why not just be single and wait for her ex wife even after death. Don't even try to put in the excuse of your children. You are just using your children as an excuse to be with your ex.
Tell your current wife the truth that you still love your ex and you cannot let her go even though after all your ex did to you, you don't deserve your current wife's love. Let her go love someone else who loves her, and appreciates her love and doesn't seek for their ex's love like you.
Tos koj 2 tug poj niam tsi hlub koj lo vim koj ruam g thiab tsi tha tu siab rau koj tu niam 2 tia tsi hlub kj cov me nyuam vim lawv niam yug lawv twb tsi hlub lawv ne
If you’re still hung over your ex, do not remarry until you’ve healed… no new partner(s) deserve a “trauma dump” it all starts with you, if you know how to be considerate towards your new wife, she will reciprocate that consideration towards your kids… good luck
Nah. It doesn't matter. I saw and have relatives who remarried having this kinds of problems all the time bc of the kids. No way other people out there coming into your life and love your kids as theirs
Agreed
Apparently this guy don’t deserve a new wife if he can’t get over his ex-wife. Don’t get married if you’re still not over your ex.
The part you canceled your child's concert to meet a woman. That speaks loudly about the kind of husband and father you are in my opinion.
Yeap, that showed that woman that them children mean less to him and that if she marry him, she knows exactly how to manipulate him
Totally agreed...you can always go meet a woman on many different days, but your son's concert is only set once. This father is immature with his own priorities. In this scenario, your children always come first.
He needs to stop choosing these women, over his kids.
Agreed 💯
I know he didn't tell the truth of his life.
If you're that unhappy and your current wife isn't doing good to your children you need to let her go. You don't need a woman like that in your life
This guy talks too much about his ex-wife that is why he doesn’t have a happy life.
Brother, txhua yam zoo li phem tag rau koj vim hais tias you still can’t let go of your ex-wife. That’s the conflict between you and your wife but you don’t see that.
Yog lawm tiam rov qab muaj dua ib zaug ntxiv kuv thov kom kuv tau ib tug txiv kom zoo zoo thiab kom hlub hlub kuv thov kom lawm tiam kuv tau ib tsev neeg kom hlub thiab nyiam kuv es kom kuv muaj Kev sib siab muaj Kev kaj siab kom txhob zoo li tiam no.
Tej tug pojniam siab coj lub siab phem li no es ua cas koj tseem yuav khuvxim nws tseem yuav ua abtsi nawj. Muab nws tso povtseg kiag xwb mas pheej yuav ntsoo tias tu siab. Txaus txaus npau taws heev os.
You should just waited for your ex to return cuz you still love her. Your new wife is just someone there so you don’t feel lonely not someone you truly love like your ex.
Agree
Puas yog mas....
Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj sib sau los ua neej ces yeej lwj siab li no ntag nawb lawv aw...
BRO, ALL I GOT TO SAY IS THAT YOU WASN'T FAIR TO YOUR NEW WIFE AND TO DUMB STILL GETTING INVOLVED IN YOUR EX AFFAIRS. IT'S YOUR FAULT FOR NOT LETTING GO. IT'S YOUR FAULT FOR CAUSING ALL YOUR PROBLEMS. IF YOU COULDN'T LET GO OF YOUR PAST, YOU SHOULD'VE NEVER REMARRIED.
Some of you will never understand that it's not that easy for some of us divorcees, whether this story is coming from a man or a woman! He is telling his story and hardship. Not everyone wants to be divorced. Not even the 2nd time.
To this brother, keep your head up and keep moving forward. You have a beautiful family built and left behind for you, even though things turn out not the way you wished for. Your ex is gone and your new wife is not willing to help you cope with things. She doesn't love you enough. It's okay. Let her go.
Ntuj e cas txoj dab neeg no tu siab kawg li os tus txiv tsev no yeej try nws qhov best tshaj plaws lawm os tsuas tim tus poj niam tshiab siab me dhau lawm xwb. Pab hlub tus txiv tsev thiab pab me nyuam kawg os ❤
You didn’t have a good second marriage, bc u rushed into it. You picked the wrong person. AND u haven’t gotten over ur ex wife. Better to have just stayed single.
Cas tsis txawj tu siab li !
Puas yog... Kwv tij es nej txiv neej nim txawj tu siab thiab naj. Kuv xav Tias ntse txiv neej yuav tsi txawj tu siab li no. Sim neej no kuv xav Tias txiv neej yog lub siab phem npaum kuv tus xwb tes ntse yuav tsi txawj tu siab no.
Peb lub neej niam tog txiv ntag yeej tu siab kawg os.. txhob xav xwb os mog.. ntawm ib 100 khub los ntshe tsuas muaj li 20 khub thiaj muaj kev kaj siab xwb os.. yog tsis xav muaj kev lwj siab lub kua muag los ntxiv lawm ces kawg sib nrauj es nyias mus nyias xwb os.. es tom ntej no ua nkauj nraug xwb txhob sib yuav os nawb..
Lub neej niam tog txiv nta , ib leej niam yeej siab loj taus txaus hlub koj thiab koj tsev neeg txog txij koj lub neej zoo li ko ces yeej yog koj lub siab twb tsis qhib thiab tsis loj rau koj tus niam cov ces lub neej yeej nyuaj tig rov los saib koj ua dab tsi es thiaj tsis haum.
You speaking the truth👏👏👏👏 You speaking the truth behind divorced marriage.
Yog kawg
41:30 Vim koj tus pojniam tshiab siab me me siab tsis loj, Siab phem phem lim lim hiav. Peb li peb nrog peb tus txiv hlub nws cov me nyuam civ xeeb ntxwv os.
Muab pov tseg mus nrhiav tus tshiab tu siab zoo os tij.
lub neej niam txais tog txiv txais nta ces yog duav tiag2 li lau
Its obvious you are still in love with your ex wife that cheated on you and left you for another banana 🍌!!!! That’s why your new wife will never be enough so don’t blame her for being po. Once you let reality sink in and see that you have to heal from your first wife leaving you and accept that she no longer loves you…then you can really love your new wife and start really living in the present.
Yog kawg , qu cuag maum hauv tu hlua ntag !
I think you should doing life without not morrow, a be what ever you are now and on.
And don't worry keep happy ok.
Mloog koj tham no xwb ces koj hlub koj cov me nyuam xwb koj twb tsi tham txog koj tu poj niam tov cov me nyuam koj hlub koj cov xwb koj tsi hlub lawv cov koj lub neej thiaj tu siab mo
Mloog mas zoo li koj tso tsis taus koj tus niam loj hauv koj lub siab, koj poj niam thiaj chim2 rau koj thiaj tsis xav hlub koj cov me nyuam os tus txiv tsev. Peb ib txhia poj niam yog tus txiv lub siab nyob tsis tag rau peb ces nws tej neeg peb yeej tsis xav hlub nawb. Koj tus niam loj yog nws hlub koj ces nws yeej tsis mloog neej tsa lus es muab koj tso tseg, so koj tau paub tu siab and move on fully with your new wife.
Lub neej tsis sib to Taub ces yeej zoo li ko mas peb yog niam txais tog txiv txais nta kuj zoo kawg thiab as tsis zoo li ko thiab na
Wise man says: never cry for a cheater but cry for a good person who has died, never take a cheater back, never show your weakness to anyone, etc…I know it’s easy say than done, but it’s true what a wise man says…don’t be sad…I think your issue has to do with you…you can’t let go of your ex-cheating wife even though she’s no longer living…😩!
Bro...u don't need any women to make u happy...u need to learned how to make yourself happy. U don't need to depend on anyone to make u happy. U gotta learn how to live happily life. U got your children n yourself....make it happy. U don't need partner or spouse to make u happy. U gotta find your own happiness. I feel sorry for u.
Mai see and Mai Lor never fails.
Leej twg raug tus poj niam ua los yog txiv ua ces leej twg thiaj paub xwb los lawv !!! Cas koj yuav txawj tu siab li kuv thiab kuv xav tias kuv yog poj niam es kuv thiaj tu siab xwb no
Es koj lub neej nyuaj vim koj hlub koj tug nam tsev tsi taag hab koj zais sab.
Koj tus poj niam twb hlub koj kawg nws thiaj tseg koj nyob ciaj sia , yog koj thab ntau thiab , koj yuav tuag nyoos tsias ! poj niam muaj ntau , txhob nkim koj txoj sia rau tus ntxwj nyoog ntawd mog .
Kuv hais rau ib tsom kwv tij hmoob txiv neej yog poj niam tuag los ua laib lawm los thov tsis txhov yuav poj niam lawm naws mog xav tau kev hlub ces ua tag txog kev zoo nyob xwb mog thov tsis yuav poj niam lawm mog 😂
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Brother, you need your key her go. She’s not a good wife. She wants you to love and support her children but she does not do the same for yours. There’s plenty of good women out there. Don’t waste anymore time with her. Love and put your children first.
Kj ua tsi tau txiv es kj tu qub poj niam thiaj li tso kj tseg.. kj tu poj niam tshiab no los kj tseem ua tsi taus txiv rau kj cov me nyuam vim kj khoos tsi tau nws thiab hais tsi tau nws los hlub kj cov me nyuam.. tso nws mus zoo dua.. lawv thiaj li tsi nyiaj siab.. kj thiaj li kaj siab dua.. tu poj niam kos nws tsua xav tau kj thiab kom kj hlub nws cov xwb… nrauj los tau lawm
Your ex wife cheat on you and didn't want you. Why you can't get over her that's why your wife get jealous.
Niaj nub tos koj os, koj mus ua dab tsi lm .
Tus mes txiv tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no nas yog yooj yim ces peb cov no ua poj nrauj tau kaum tawm lub xyoos no ces peb twb yuav yim cuaj tug lawm los mas tus mes txiv tsev txawm yog nyuaj npaum li kos es peb poj nrauj muaj qees tus sib nrauj tag ces thiaj zeem kiag los mas thiaj tsi thab xaus ntxiv lawm los mas
Koj twb hais koj cov lus rau koj tus poj niam twb tsis yog li nes tij laug 😮
Brother I am also a step mom to some grown children. You have to learn to accept that no one will ever love your children. 1. Accept that your first wife never loved you and your children in the first place. 2. If she loved you and your children so much she wouldn’t never left you alone. 3. You have to learn to leave your grown children aside and work on your marriage. Good luck.
Sounds like there is a piece of the puzzle missing. If everything you say is true then grow a pair move on. No cheater man or woman is ever worth crying over
Eb sim neej no os tus me phooj ywg txiv tsev aw!!! Xyov Li os tej poj niam no ces tau tus zoo Los kuj zoo 2 muaj qhov phem muaj qhov zoo thiab ho tau tus phem Los muaj qhov phem ho muaj qhov zoo sib txuam daws thiab yog txoj hmoo zoo sib zam sib hwm ces yus tus niam nkj txhav qab txiv nraug txhav noog niam hluas nkj txiv hluas nraug phem zoo sib zam sib uv xwb ces yog qhov zoo xwb nawb !
Ua tsaug niam ntsuab teev cov dab neej sv ds muab tuaj kj hais zaj tu 2 siab Los muaj zaj zoo 2 siab Loj kuj muaj tej zaj mas tu 2 siab kj yog tus ncev ncauj Lus kj twb tu 2 siab Los peb cov mloog xwb peb twb tu 2 siab kg Li thiab os ?
ntuj aw tij laug niam tog txiv nta es yeej zoo li ko xwb os kv cws tseem lwj siab tshaj koj kv g muab piav ua dab neeg xwb os chim siab heev tej hnub ces xav tuag kiag mus xwb os xav tias kv yog poj niam es thiaj lwj siab xwb koj kuj muaj li no thiab los nrog koj tu siab los puas rau kv nj😢😢😢😢
You don’t deserve your 2nd wife. Stay single and fix your issues before you remarried.i am sure if your 2nd wife did the same with her ex-husband, you wouldn’t be okay either.
Kuv twb yog niam txais tog txiv txais nta los tau 13 lub xyoo no. Kuv kuj los pab kuv tus txiv nta nws ib tug tub ib tug ntxhais rooj tshoob tiav log thiab.
Tus me kwv Txhob tus siab os. Tej zaum Koj tus pojnaim tsi txhawj xav thiab siab nqaim dlhaus xwb os.
Mi tub txhob nyuaj siab os mog
yus yog ib tug txiv neej yawg lawm yuav tau ua siab tawv qhawv
koj poj niam tsi hlub tsi pab koj los txhob tos nws txoj kev pab nawb
koj yuav tsum pab koj sawv khov kho rau tej me nyuam nawb ib hnub nram ntej koj laus yuav yog koj cov me nyuam ko thiaj hlub koj
Koj tus poj niam twb tsim koj thaum koj tseem muaj zog no ib hnub koj tsi tau lawm nws thiab nws cov me nyuam yuav tsi saib tsi tu koj vim koj tus poj niam lub siab me siab phem dag ntxias nws cov me nyuam ntxub koj vim lawv tsi tau nrog koj nyob tsuas hnov lo lus phem xwb
Tej kev ua tau lub neej Tus poj niam zoo li koj Tus no mas txawm nyob ua ke ntev los yuav tsis ua rau Tus lub neej zoo lawm txhob muab yus lub sij hawm los nkim rau cov neeg ua li peb cov no txoj kev koj muaj no peb twb muaj dhauloslawm kav tsij ntxov tsis thiaj tsis lig rau yuslub neej
Koj tus pojniam tshiab siab me dhau ces tsis txhob yuav tus txiv muaj menyuam. Yog nws hlub tsis tau koj cov ces txhob hlub nws cov thiab. Nyias mam hlub nyias li los yog txhob sib yuav xwb zoo dua, yog siab nqaim npaum li nws.
Seems like the issue here is the guy. He can't get over his first wife. Secondly..everyone is saying that the 2nd wife should love his kids but we only hear the 2nd wife being upset about not wanting to help but question is..does his kids love and accept the new mom like their mom? Just saying...again it goes back to the father.
Nothing but a bunch of immature selfish adults. I feel sorry for the children.
Bro, we ride the same train....Our ex has the same cancer ....Unfortunately you luck out......My koa pee still living...
Mloog mas yog tim koj xwb yog thaum koj twb tso tsis tau koj tus pój niam es koj ho yuav luag los tsim luag lub siab ces luag twb tsis tau koj kev hlub tiag es luag yuav ua cas los hlub koj tej me nyuam na
I think where you went wrong and she’s upset is because you never got over your ex wife.
Agree
Agree… he should never go and care for the ex and the kids are really stupid
@@Hmoobsibhlub2022 well that’s his kids…so they are his responsibility…but the ex wife, he clearly still think and care for her.
Kwv tij koj tseem yuav raug kev lwj siab ntxiv ! Vim koj lub tsis tu luag tsis hlub yus ces yus yeej tsis hlub luag tib yam nkaus ho.
Hais txog qhov koj ua siab dawb siab zoo ces tsis cam lawm. Tab sis tus niam tshiab es yog twb phem npaum koj hais ces koj tau hloov dua xwb. Txawm yuav hloov tsawg tus los hloov txog thaum nrhiav tau tus hlub koj tiag xwb.. tom ntej no tseem yuav nyuab tshaj ko yog koj tseem nrog tus qub. Txhob xav ntau ua li koj ua tau hlub koj tus kheej os.
Niam txais tog txiv txais nta ces 50’/,xwb os
This is why I don't look for remarry after my wife pass away. She gone for 2 yrs now. All my kids grow adult when their mom die. I still don't have the heart to remarry again.
Phooj ywg tos koj lub neej tsis kaj siab vim koj yeej tseem nco koj tus niam uas muab koj tua tuag tsis tu siav ntawv na kev sib pab rau mi nyuam muaj tab sis tej zaum yeej muaj tej yam dhau qhov ntawv koj tus niam tshiab thiaj pheej chim thiaj tsis xav pab koj kuv xav tias nws tseem yuav chim tshaj qhov qub vim koj muab nws neb tham rau neeg hnov lawm thiab ne nyuab lau
Koj tus poj niam tshiab ko siab ti zog lawm os tus txiv tsev aw. Yog nws coj nqaim npaum li ko ces koj txawm zam thiab uv npaum twg los yeej tsis zoo li os. Phem zoo los lawv niam twb tuag lawm koj tus niam tshiab yuav tsum nrog koj hlub koj cov me nyuam pob.
Qhov twg meem vim yog koj pheej tseem nco koj nig qub pojniam xwb. Ib nyuag qho los koj seev koj nig qub pojniam ces kawg teeb meem xwb ma.
I don't think you know how to upset. If you do you should move on.
Tus mi npawg. Kuv los yeej tsis paub lwm tus li koj thiab. Cas zoo li luag tej yus pom thiab hnov mas ib feem yeej tias zoo zoo no thiab ho ib feem mas lawv tias ib yam es sib uv thiab xwb ..😅😅😅😅
Yog koj hlub koj cov me nyuam ne cov lawv kaj siab mas lawv tsi hlub me nyuam lawv tus niam hais li cas lawv ua li mtawd lawv tsi khe txog me nyuam li leej twg tias niam tshiab yuav nrog koj hlub nas zoo tshaj ces nyiam yug nyias thiaj hlub xwb os
Lam yog txiv neej xwb tiam sis ruam kawg yuav tsawg tus los yeej tseem yog qhov qub xwb vim txoj kev ruam
Koj yog tus tsis txawj hais lus es koj tus poj niam thiaj chim. Yog tus poj niam twg los yeej yuav chim rau koj vim koj tus poj niam tsis tau ua dabtsi txhaum los koj tsuas pom ib sij hais lus cuag li nws txawm siv tsim koj pam me nyuam. Koj yog tus xub pib koj poj niam thiaj ua lub siab me lawm.
I'm so annoyed at this guy's story. He is obviously still inlove with his ex wife but she still doesn't choose him. Even after he marries, he still find times to go meet his ex and talk to her. He thinks he did right but he is in denial.
If I were you I rather be alone it....divorce her you don't need a wife who doesn't support you....
This story is just about his ex. Why remarried if you are never over your ex?
Cas koj yuav tais caus ua luaj na cov poj niam phem es pheej uv ces thiaj nraus tsim koj twb tsis ua zoo xaiv ib tus poj niam zoo es
Wb kuj yog niam tog txiv nta ib yam koj thiab tab sis hos tsis zoo li koj lub neej thiab os brother aw
Divorce your second wife and do not remarry
Cas koj ho yuav niag pog ko mas niam txaistog los yeej muaj tus zoo tusphem yog phem npaum ko koj yuav ua dabtsi uv mus los tsis ntxiv qhovtwg niam txaistog txiv txaisnta kuv twb tabtom ua ntag ua ntej koj yuav mus ua lub neej li no koj yeej paub tias koj muaj ibpab luag muaj ibco koj hlub luag cov luag hlub koj pab thiaj nyob tau uake ho ua neej nyasntsw cai li ko nyob tsis kajsiab os brother
Koj tus pojniam twb mus nrhab ceg qi muag mloog lwm tus txiv neej aim koj tseem muaj txojkev npau suav nruab hnub tias nws rov qab los koj tseem yuav thiab ces koj tsis yog ib tug txiv neej yawg, koj yog ib niag txiv neej qaug qib ua tsis taus txiv tos koj raug tso los yeej tsim nyog lawm.
I think you're a good man, but even good men can be wrong. You said you love your current wife, but I think you love your ex more.
We shouldn't rush into another marriage if we aren't ready/healed from our last one.
Thank you for all trying to prioritize your kids. They need you more than ever. But, take care of your feelings too.
TOS cov txiv tshiab niam tshiab tiam no me nyuam tsi kam hu ua niam ua txiv los lawv yeej siab phem 😢luag yeej tsi hlub tej me nyuam tsuas yog npog xwb os tsi npog hnub twg ces neej yeej kawg tawg xwb
Tus ntsej muag no nws fuss nws kwj tse, nws phem txaus nkaus lawm tus me poj niam thiaj khiav mys lawm ntsiag to.
😭😭😭tu siab kawg os.
Koj tsis yog tus neeg uas muaj siab muaj ntsws, koj tus qub poj niam twb tsis hlub koj thiab nws twb mus muaj 1 tug lawm es koj tseem cia nws tuaj hauv koj lub tsev thiab cia nws tuaj tsim txom koj lub siab.
Yus ua 1 tug neeg yuav tau ua lub siab tawv22 tsis quav ntsej txog nws, txawm tias yus yuav nco nco nws tuag kiag los yeej tsis tau yuav quav ntsej txog nws.
Have to forget comply 1 that left in order for new one to stick to u
Koj lub tsis luaj li koj ob tug poj niam os
Koj yuav kom niam tshiab los haum koj cov me nyuam mas koj yuav tsum coj li no! Koj yeej paub zoo lawm hais tias tus ntawv nws tsis yog lawv niam yug lawv nws hlub lawv los yeej tsis hlub cuag koj hlub, koj cov me nyuam koj yuav tsum hlub koj tus kheej tau li cas yuav li ntawv tsuav tau mov noj ris tsho hnav xws teb xws chaws xwb tau lawm! Koj tsis txhob khoo kom tus niam tshiab ntawv hlub koj cov me nyuam, koj yuav tsum paub cob qhia koj cov me nyuam ntawv kom txawj los yoog tus niam tshiab no, koj nco ntsoov tias koj tsuas yuav los ua koj tus poj niam thiab lawv niam tshiab kom tau lub npe xwb! Qhov tseeb nws yog koj tus poj niam xwb nws tsis yog lawv niam! Koj yuav tsum nkag siab li no ces koj lub neej tsis tshua muaj teeb meem, hos yog koj pheej coj li niaj hnub no koj coj no es nim tu siab li ub li no niaj hnub quaj nco lawv niam ces kawg koj lub neej ntxov siab xwb!
Thaub no yog hom yuav ruam tsis ruam kom txaus hlub ho tsis ntse kom txaus hwm lub Neej thiaj zoo li no..sad
Koj tus poj niam kos lawb pov tsev zoo dua os thaub aw...tsi yuav lawm os mog.
Ua cas koj yuav ua rau peb cov txiav neej poob ntaej muag ua luaj li os bro. Peb twb taug tzoj kev ntawm koj lawm peb twb tsis uali koj. Koj mas tsis tsim nyog yug los ua txiv neej li tos koj Tus niam 2 neb ho muaj teeb meem na tim koj xwb Tus poj niam thiab niam tais yawm txiav twb ua phem rau yus los thaum tuag tseem. Yuam cai ntawm koj Tus niam 2. Mus said thiab cas mag lawv tsim koj tsis txaus li
Neej puas zaum 2 ces koj txhob yuav poj niam dua lawm. Vim koj tsis puv 100% txhob cia tus 3 los muab koj tsuj dua.
Koj tu niam loj yog tu rhuav neb lub neej, koj twb yuav dua 1 tug lawm es txhob hais hais txog tu qub poj niam lawm ma....yog nws tuag lawm koj thiaj li tsim nyog hais pob tos koj tu niam thib 2 chim chim lo koj tseem nco nco ne...tu neeg phem tsis tsim nyog koj nco, tu neeg zoo zoo koj nco lo tau kawg....koj pheej nco seev txog tu qub ces tu tshiab tsis xav hlub koj....ntawm tu niam tshiab yog koj txhob seev txog tu qub ces ntawv cov me nyuam yog koj ua tib zoo hais nws yuav nrog koj hlub...kuv xav tej zaum koj pheej nco tu qub ces nws thiaj li tsis xav hlub nej pab txiv tub xwb
Koj xai tau Tus nyiam tsev tss haum Koj lawm. Mus dhia dua Tus tshiab
Koj tus niam tshiab thiaj li tus yog tus tsimnyog koj muab nrauj povtseg.
Cas koj yuav ruam npaum nkaus li kuv thaum i thiab ntag, thaum koj ntsib tug zoo ces koj yeej tsis nco qab li lawm os. Pojniam zoo tseem tshuav coob, ua tub zoo nrhiav yeej yuav tsum ntsib xwb. Tiamsis ua tibzoo saib thiaj tsis yuamkev.
Weak, move on.
Tus nus koj yuav ruam uaj li os yog nws tsis hlub kuv ces kuv yeej tsis xav hlub nws cov thiab tiag .es twb xav kom kuv hlub nws cov thiab nes yog li ntawv koj tus poj niam ua tsis ncaj lawm os mog..
Nej cov ua yog hmoob cobfab sawvdaws paub tias ob nyiag niam txiv nruav teev yog hmoob nyajlaj nkawtxiv yawg yog cobmoos xaiv tsu yog tus es nrhiav txim rau peb cov niam txiv ua nyob ntawm ibcig mooscab , thuab nrhiav , qhia , coj thabham mus tua cobfab kom sawvdaws paub txhijj txhua os
Koj niag poj niam #2 siab me2 xwb os. Yog tau tus zoo ces koj twb tsis lwj siab thiab nws yeej hlub koj cov me nyuam.
She said for you to raise your hand haha you should’ve raise your and on her head when you married her haha
Your wife should understand that you both have different life and you guy have kids from the passed, she need to respect you and love your kids too. Yes she need to open her heart bigger if u want to be their mom.
You need to have a talk and communication to your wife and make agreements to each other or just leave the marriage! Good marriage don’t need to play games! If you guys live like that is just a waste of life! Be open and honest! I think you guys should communicate and be open to be able to have trust and support each other! I think that you fault some and she faults some!
Ua cas koj cov dab neeg es txoj twg los txoj uas quaj quaj quaj quaj xwb nas