Deserve (maybe deserve-maxing isn't the best strategy right now)

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    A lot of people are trying to game the dating scene with charts. What most of them forget is the parts of the market they DON'T like.
    These girls were thinking about their options in terms of how to select the ones they like the most. I gave them an extra dimension on their chart (it is now a cube) to remind them that the market isn't actually bursting at the seams with guys who are ready, willing, and able to provide the experience they want the most, and sometimes, for some women, it's better to pick a guy who's on his way rather than waiting for one who's already there.
    A lot of guys would appreciate having someone lock in before the struggle is over. I know I would have!
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  • @hoe_math
    @hoe_math  25 дней назад +120

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    • @markshiman5690
      @markshiman5690 25 дней назад +3

      I hope they're paying you good.

    • @AIC_onyt
      @AIC_onyt 25 дней назад +5

      The fact that a nuclear physicist isn't smart enough to figure her out, sais a lot about her personality xD

    • @illuminahde
      @illuminahde 25 дней назад

      @hoe_math You gotta drop a response video to Noah Sampson's video about your channel bro. His soy laced clip farming routine did you wrong man

    • @fredashay
      @fredashay 25 дней назад +1

      But how do we know that Ground News isn't biased?

    • @QuetzalcoatlOdin
      @QuetzalcoatlOdin 25 дней назад

      There's a great movie about finding a guy and making him the prize.
      It's called Hobson's Choice.

  • @Danbecker000
    @Danbecker000 25 дней назад +4815

    Dating advice for men: "You need to better yourself."
    Dating advice for women: "You deserve better."

    • @abdulazizhawsah9884
      @abdulazizhawsah9884 25 дней назад +325

      Yes increase women entitlement, that's what we need to do!

    • @filmbuff4
      @filmbuff4 25 дней назад +239

      There's going to be an army of spinster cat ladies in the future with this mentality. Dating apps ruined an entire generation of women. As a 38 year old millenial, im glad i got to experience a semblance of dating before they came out.

    • @OneWingedShark
      @OneWingedShark 25 дней назад +249

      You forgot, for men: _Every failure is your fault._ (Conveniently ignoring women's choices.)

    • @HexenStar
      @HexenStar 25 дней назад

      Dating advice for men can be concisely simplified to: "fuck this shit!"

    • @bakionigeri6414
      @bakionigeri6414 25 дней назад +13

      ​@@OneWingedSharka guy named Lucario is talking that way right now LOL

  • @konignickerchen7265
    @konignickerchen7265 25 дней назад +2559

    "These guys are low IQ" swiftly followed by "he can be a nuclear scientist" is insane to me.

    • @mistere9099
      @mistere9099 25 дней назад +371

      I'm pretty sure she got EQ and IQ mixed up, but she also seems like the type to think they have the same value in terms of intelligence.

    • @Brent-z2s
      @Brent-z2s 25 дней назад

      They if you don't or can't manipulate other people you are stupid. But if Chad bought them potholders it would be ok.

    • @teliph3U
      @teliph3U 25 дней назад +203

      @@mistere9099 EQ also sounds like a made-up term.

    • @TheSeth256
      @TheSeth256 25 дней назад

      ​@@mistere9099EQ doesn't exist, it's a made-up term that's supposed to make stupid people feel better.

    • @haydn-db8z
      @haydn-db8z 25 дней назад +59

      A woman calling a guy dumb: Let that sink in... There are some brilliant women out there, some of whom I know. But if we're taking averages, men come out way ahead in the intelligence ratings, even with Republican men dragging down our averages a bit.

  • @Hieronymus_Rex
    @Hieronymus_Rex 25 дней назад +533

    Woman tries to make a graph that "solves" female dating strategy.
    Accidentally makes a graph that depicts hypergamy.

    • @RainWithTheZaza
      @RainWithTheZaza 23 дня назад +38

      She literally made the same graph that's a perfect depiction of today's dating world 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @eyeheartsushi2212
      @eyeheartsushi2212 23 дня назад +10

      BINGO

    • @JG-jz3wh
      @JG-jz3wh 22 дня назад +2

      @@Hieronymus_Rex 🤣💀

    • @abdulazizhawsah9884
      @abdulazizhawsah9884 21 день назад

      It just shows how slow their brains are

    • @JscottSears
      @JscottSears 21 день назад +2

      💯🎯

  • @DaBigArmyDude
    @DaBigArmyDude 25 дней назад +3706

    Accidentally admitting nuclear science is easier to understand than her needs.

    • @OneWingedShark
      @OneWingedShark 25 дней назад +176

      *LOL*
      Good catch.

    • @Brent-z2s
      @Brent-z2s 25 дней назад +106

      Told on herself

    • @walternelson2687
      @walternelson2687 25 дней назад +147

      *wants
      She doesn't *need* anything other than shelter, food and water.

    • @halycon404
      @halycon404 25 дней назад +186

      I like how the box says people in that quadrant have a high eq but low iq. Then says people in that box could be nuclear physicists. Wait? What? Does she know what EQ and IQ are? All the examples she gave are the exact reverse. Low EQ and High IQ. This leads me to believe something about her smarts.

    • @cdoublejj
      @cdoublejj 25 дней назад +23

      it's basically two internal combustion engine cooling systems linked together with with a heat exchanger to cool up off pissed off atoms to drive a steam genny.

  • @mistersmith3986
    @mistersmith3986 25 дней назад +2764

    No one gives women worse advice than other women.

    • @aname4390
      @aname4390 25 дней назад +174

      It's the "you're a 10" attitude. Keep doing detrimental things to yourself so I can get the best guy.

    • @MrCoThread
      @MrCoThread 25 дней назад +157

      "Single women keep women single."

    • @JoshuaCyberNerd
      @JoshuaCyberNerd 25 дней назад +88

      Women don’t want advice from anyone who disagree with them 😉

    • @nena_gz
      @nena_gz 25 дней назад +78

      No one hates w0men more than other w0men

    • @onlychild5213
      @onlychild5213 25 дней назад +16

      @@mistersmith3986 the small hats too

  • @googlefearsaltmedia218
    @googlefearsaltmedia218 23 дня назад +373

    A female coworker of mine asked me for guy advice. She said that her boyfriend looked the way she wanted him to and made the money that she wanted him too, but she didn’t like that he “ONLY” had a BA degree and not a Masters.
    I asked her 3 questions:
    1. How long have you been together? A: 8yrs
    2. Do you think he has ever cheated on you? A: No.
    3. Has he proposed? A: Yes, and I said no because of the missing degree.
    I told her the moral thing to do is to leave him so that he can have the life he deserves. The selfish thing to do is stay with him ruining his Chance of a happy and healthy marriage.
    She doesn’t talk to me anymore.

    • @willshad
      @willshad 23 дня назад +97

      She apparently has a BS degree.

    • @Kritikanbringer
      @Kritikanbringer 22 дня назад +44

      You did the right thing!
      I am ROFLing now but it is actually true. :)

    • @Fabzil
      @Fabzil 21 день назад +59

      You burned her so much she had to fly to the Sun to cool off

    • @HondoTrailside
      @HondoTrailside 20 дней назад +45

      It is awesome how the moral argument is such a buzz kill these days.

    • @grymgryn
      @grymgryn 19 дней назад +52

      My 4th question would be: Do you want him to get the degree for him, you or your friends?

  • @Letsplay222
    @Letsplay222 25 дней назад +1568

    Date a guy who is smart and nice. Don't date a guy that is dumb and mean. Boy, what a profound insight they have.

    • @Xplora213
      @Xplora213 25 дней назад +149

      The problem is that they are completely unable to figure out who is nice and smart until well into the relationship. Sometimes years. Because they assumed the guy was a 8-9 to start. They will overlook the issues that creates dumb and mean for quite some time because you are handsome or rich. They just assumed two of the most obvious qualities for a reason 😂

    • @ViolosD2I
      @ViolosD2I 25 дней назад +9

      The issue is less the knowing but the doing.

    • @lucabrasisleepswiththefish77
      @lucabrasisleepswiththefish77 25 дней назад +47

      Rule #2 ... If the dumb and mean dude is also rich...disregard rule #1.

    • @auchlowtrus9300
      @auchlowtrus9300 25 дней назад +28

      They won't say it but they don't want too nice, that's how you get dumped. A degree of indifference and some unattached vibes mixed in satisfies hypergamy and maintains desire. Going full lover boy will breed contempt.

    • @TorquemadaTwist
      @TorquemadaTwist 25 дней назад +19

      Also, fire bad. Do not touch.

  • @bannedmann4469
    @bannedmann4469 25 дней назад +2701

    You know you’ve made it when female content creators are ripping you off.

    • @filmbuff4
      @filmbuff4 25 дней назад +151

      there is another guy in Germany who is even more blatantly ripping him off

    • @georgeelder8415
      @georgeelder8415 25 дней назад +75

      In a substandard way...

    • @3ZN357
      @3ZN357 25 дней назад +44

      Copies ain’t authentic💯

    • @georgeelder8415
      @georgeelder8415 25 дней назад +53

      @@3ZN357 Pathetic counterfeit representation...

    • @Kestix1234
      @Kestix1234 25 дней назад +25

      @@filmbuff4 I'm German, I've seen ever hoe_math video (RUclips should recommend similar videos), I don't know that guy. Who is it? He mustn't be doing it good.

  • @user-sy2jy1si8f
    @user-sy2jy1si8f 25 дней назад +577

    "I want my chad to be rich and caring.
    Here, I solved dating".

    • @lastreagandemocrat
      @lastreagandemocrat 24 дня назад +59

      I want world peace. Here, I just stopped World War 3.

    • @lostvayne4553
      @lostvayne4553 24 дня назад +45

      No no Chad is already rich half the time, but instead of him using his money on multiple girls I just want him to use it on me, because I’m special

    • @earthbind83
      @earthbind83 23 дня назад +3

      Ayyy-men!

    • @baltulielkungsgunarsmiezis9714
      @baltulielkungsgunarsmiezis9714 21 день назад +13

      A handsome rich man who is kind and caring, is already married to his beloved...

    • @IQDave
      @IQDave 16 дней назад +8

      @@baltulielkungsgunarsmiezis9714Prince Charming married a real princess.

  • @bc9554
    @bc9554 25 дней назад +3713

    "I am not allowed to date within the Trauma quadrant anymore" is gonna be broken faster than a New Years Resolution to go to the gym

    • @craigedwards2411
      @craigedwards2411 25 дней назад +192

      That is where all the fun boys are at!

    • @loxtuf
      @loxtuf 25 дней назад +268

      ANYMORE. So she might just be done in her 'willfuly choosing to be abused' phase and moving in to her 'finding a simp to abuse' phase. Give her some credit bro.

    • @Tgruss
      @Tgruss 25 дней назад +142

      "Not allowed" = "Something I am more inclined to want now that I am told I shouldn't have it".

    • @chefnyc
      @chefnyc 25 дней назад +113

      Not allowed anymore: I hit the wall; need a provider.

    • @wingsoffreedom3589
      @wingsoffreedom3589 25 дней назад

      Very well she's shown growth she went from dumb to dumb and evil

  • @justaguy8104
    @justaguy8104 25 дней назад +1089

    If Buddhism has taught me anything, it is that the word “deserve” is the cause of most of our suffering.

    • @bombkangaroo
      @bombkangaroo 25 дней назад +52

      Some ways back I figured out that "deserve" is really just used by people to try to elevate their feelings about someone to the level of some nebulous, external moral authority, like they've found a loop hole that allows them to get away with breaking the third commandment. "THIS ONE WEIRD TRICK ALLOWS YOU TO PRAISE OR CONDEMN OTHERS WITH THE AUTHORITY OF GOD HIMSELF WITHOUT SINNING. PRIESTS HATE IT. WATCH THIS VIDEO BEFORE IT GETS SMITTEN BY THE ALMIGHTY!"

    • @Solon64
      @Solon64 25 дней назад +65

      Christianity, practiced properly, says the same thing: "you don't deserve anything but hellfire, so literally anything else that you receive is a gift and should be appreciated as such". That's what humility is - knowing and accepting your place and role in Creation.
      Some sects of Christianity (like Catholicism) take it a bit too far and end up with a guilt complex, others (like most Protestants) take it not nearly far enough and end up with a God complex, but the middle ground there is a really comfy spot to be in: everything in life is a gift and brings joy when you rid your vocabulary of the word "deserve".

    • @gs4011
      @gs4011 25 дней назад +22

      ​@@Solon64 There's a really great quote from C.S. Lewis' "The Screwtape Letters" that summarizes this: "The man can neither make, nor retain, one moment of time; it all comes to him by pure gift; he might as well regard the sun and moon his chattels." Letter 21. Read that book, you'll thank yourself.

    • @Deww-ez
      @Deww-ez 24 дня назад +3

      @@Solon64 Middleground = Lutheranism

    • @danilejai7801
      @danilejai7801 24 дня назад +27

      @@justaguy8104 no disrespect but in Buddhism, it’s the word DESIRE not deserve bro.

  • @blahblah94897
    @blahblah94897 25 дней назад +120

    >male self-help book
    >ctrl-f; "You have to"
    >342 results
    >female self-help book
    >ctrl-f; "You deserve"
    >764 results
    Many such cases

  • @RShaun
    @RShaun 25 дней назад +1498

    So these women solved dating by once again omitting attraction. They really are eye blind to attraction and most of us aren’t people.

    • @dsabre4990
      @dsabre4990 25 дней назад +63

      Or, they don't care about attraction for men or for themselves. We call that "gold diggers."

    • @puppetmaster8514
      @puppetmaster8514 25 дней назад +115

      Guys that aren't above 6-7 don't even get women to look at them. If they do, they look away in disgustm

    • @Rikalonius
      @Rikalonius 25 дней назад

      There not allowed to admit it. Just like they are not allowed to admit they are more hedonistic than men, because they can indulge almost at will, whereas men cannot. It goes against the fantasy they have created and want every woman to collectively stick to.

    • @chefnyc
      @chefnyc 25 дней назад +84

      20s: be sleepers for Chads. Smart/nice don’t matter.
      30s: look for smart/nice. Looks don’t matter.
      That’s the 4th dimension.

    • @Cookiesrfood
      @Cookiesrfood 25 дней назад +111

      When women say this list is for all men they are inherently only referring to attractive guys 8's and above. Women don't consider guys who are 7 and below as actual datable men. In their eyes, guys who are 7 and below are only good for emotional and financial support basically what can they give or do for me.

  • @justinc71
    @justinc71 25 дней назад +1104

    "Women don't want to be in the struggle box. They want us to win first and then share." That's probably the most accurate thing I've ever heard you say.

    • @Marcara081
      @Marcara081 25 дней назад +130

      THe irony being that a man will fall in love with a woman who chooses to struggle with him.

    • @eliel14ful
      @eliel14ful 25 дней назад +41

      ​@Marcara081 is the secret to a man's heart, also cooks good food

    • @brandongray1059
      @brandongray1059 24 дня назад +12

      @@eliel14ful Ya I'd rank the food thing at #1 ;)

    • @souventudu2
      @souventudu2 24 дня назад +3

      ​@@Marcara081Yes

    • @lostvayne4553
      @lostvayne4553 24 дня назад +57

      @@Marcara081it’s funny cause there are so many movies and songs with this as a theme of the guy picking the girl who stuck with him even when he couldn’t even afford dates and yet most girls be like I don’t like broke boys

  • @liviuursegr
    @liviuursegr 25 дней назад +159

    - "I won't date in the trauma box.... ANYMORE"
    they always tell on themselves😂

    • @earthbind83
      @earthbind83 23 дня назад +9

      Indeed they do XD

    • @holyrustedmetalbatman
      @holyrustedmetalbatman 15 дней назад +4

      She got bruised tonsils type of anymore.

    • @Mrmysterious-dj1ov
      @Mrmysterious-dj1ov 10 дней назад

      Honey 🍯 you don’t get do anymore it should be your never do if done more then once twice at most your lost and no one should have deal with your addictive bad habits 😅

    • @theevermind
      @theevermind 7 дней назад +2

      Not just telling on themselves--they BRAG about their failures.

  • @KCCheez
    @KCCheez 25 дней назад +508

    “Not allowed to date within the trauma quadrant.” = Been run through bad.

    • @kylemacdougall8355
      @kylemacdougall8355 25 дней назад +76

      It's seems pretty ridiculous to label something "trauma" when it's something YOU did to YOURSELF. 😂 Ultimately, that's the case for women who've been run through.

    • @wojciechsawicki4733
      @wojciechsawicki4733 25 дней назад +20

      @@kylemacdougall8355 it still is trauma, but it doesn't change the fact it's self inflicted

    • @MatthewCleere
      @MatthewCleere 25 дней назад +4

      Chad

    • @willshad
      @willshad 25 дней назад +30

      'Trauma' is another word for 'been used for sex'. Not really the same thing.

    • @freestang6662
      @freestang6662 25 дней назад +21

      Don't let her poor decisions be your problem, men. Don't walk, run away from women like this!

  • @NeoBatou2010
    @NeoBatou2010 25 дней назад +429

    She admitted that nuclear science is far more easier than understanding her needs. Way to tell on yourself.

    • @beaumarkut8872
      @beaumarkut8872 25 дней назад

      That’s not what happened. It was not very clear, but she made two separate points. High EQ/ Low IQ and then the mirror.

    • @CHURCHISAWESUM
      @CHURCHISAWESUM 25 дней назад +11

      Oh man nice catch 😂

    • @PimpythePurple
      @PimpythePurple 25 дней назад +12

      That's why they don't like pleasers. It's easier to make a woman happy when you yourself live a happy/fulfilling life and just let them tag along and enjoy the same things. Don't bend for her, if it's mean to be, she'll fit with you.

    • @andyrwebman
      @andyrwebman 24 дня назад +7

      Nuclear physics is logical and consistent- and sets out everything you need to know in books.
      Deliberately going up to the physics section of a bookshop and asking for material will get you no strange looks or rejections.

    • @Mrmysterious-dj1ov
      @Mrmysterious-dj1ov 10 дней назад

      Her wants there I corrected it for her 😂

  • @josephercanbrack8393
    @josephercanbrack8393 25 дней назад +67

    “Women don’t like being in the Struggle box. They don’t want to win the race with us, they want to wait at the finish line and reap the rewards.”
    I’ve come to find that’s what women actually mean when they say they’re attracted to “Ambition”

    • @Mark-cq1mo
      @Mark-cq1mo 15 дней назад +9

      Men want to be successful. Women want to be with successful men.

    • @bobross1829
      @bobross1829 5 дней назад +5

      Yep, I had it happen to me when young. If they think you will one day be rich or successful, they actually think you are a "project", which was one of her boxes. Good looking women do not want a project, and hence if she marries you both of you will "struggle" until you make it. She doesnt want that and it is a turn off, and she dumps you.
      I actually had a girl I dated in law school call me that. I had ambition galore, women gave two ducks. They want the finished rich guy. It was pretty insulting and the dating was brief. She worked at a retail store. LOL

  • @ethanetn
    @ethanetn 25 дней назад +908

    She basically just wrote down "give me everything i want" and made a video telling everyone she fixed everything and that shes so smart

    • @abdulazizhawsah9884
      @abdulazizhawsah9884 25 дней назад +58

      That's what they've been doing for decades 😂

    • @ephraimwinslow
      @ephraimwinslow 25 дней назад +19

      Wild when you actually parse the meaning between their run-on sentences, ain't it?

    • @thedog5k
      @thedog5k 25 дней назад +23

      Every single women has this brilliant idea

    • @AmazingRebel23
      @AmazingRebel23 25 дней назад +25

      Gee i wonder how she ends up in the trauma quadrant

    • @ephraimwinslow
      @ephraimwinslow 25 дней назад +28

      @@AmazingRebel23 Somehow we're responsible. No exceptions. Ever.

  • @multieyedmyr
    @multieyedmyr 25 дней назад +422

    What do women like to say? Men aren’t owed anything by women. Sister it goes the other way. Men don’t owe you.

    • @Correction-zl2oe
      @Correction-zl2oe 25 дней назад +27

      Wellll God made them to be our helpmates he told them to "submit to your husband AS TO THE LORD" so they are failing their role miserably while we still faithfully hold up the world for them.

    • @wojciechsawicki4733
      @wojciechsawicki4733 25 дней назад +25

      this is what guys should act like. Unfortunately, there are so many simps that girls will think all men are like that, when actually the only men who act like this are said simps

    • @josephanderson8655
      @josephanderson8655 24 дня назад +1

      @multieyedmyr Thank you.

    • @brandongray1059
      @brandongray1059 24 дня назад +12

      And men function better alone than women do as we require far less social involvement and handle isolation significantly better.

    • @uoabigaillevey
      @uoabigaillevey 24 дня назад +6

      @@brandongray1059 Some of us prefer isolation. I literally cannot stand most people.

  • @Toleich
    @Toleich 25 дней назад +37

    Mens dating advice: be better.
    Women's dating advice: only pick the top 10%

  • @mowgli2071
    @mowgli2071 25 дней назад +369

    The "deserve" thing is narcissism.

    • @abdulazizhawsah9884
      @abdulazizhawsah9884 25 дней назад +44

      Yes it called Entitlement.

    • @mudblood9699
      @mudblood9699 25 дней назад +2

      Not necessarily, it's natural law that we deserve whatever we are able to seize for ourselves.

    • @jdsartre9520
      @jdsartre9520 25 дней назад +28

      @@mudblood9699 deserve has no part of it. you are describing earn

    • @mowgli2071
      @mowgli2071 25 дней назад +3

      @@mudblood9699
      They're talking about moral deserving

    • @zerocal76
      @zerocal76 25 дней назад +13

      @@mudblood9699 If deserving was a natural law that we deserve whatever we can seize, the human race would have gone extinct a long long time ago. We respect each other and try to earn things, that's how we prospoer (even if its slow progress).

  • @Gumblethebear
    @Gumblethebear 25 дней назад +297

    "I picked the RIGHT guy!!!! How was I supposed to know 99 other girls picked him too..... :( "

    • @beowulf_of_wall_st
      @beowulf_of_wall_st 25 дней назад +35

      "I'm not in competition with them, if a guy wants one of them then he wasn't the one for me"

    • @Gumblethebear
      @Gumblethebear 25 дней назад +18

      @@beowulf_of_wall_st "Where have all the good men gone!!"

    • @mieruKai
      @mieruKai 25 дней назад +5

      ​@@beowulf_of_wall_st which is why I choose women that are less prone to jealousy and more likely to communicate what we can do better for eachother

    • @sor3999
      @sor3999 18 дней назад +4

      Whenever women talk about men's looks, they all act like they have a particular taste in men, that they have niche preferences. The reality is they all go for the same kind of men. Hope that explains why they lack this objectivity.

    • @beowulf_of_wall_st
      @beowulf_of_wall_st 18 дней назад

      @@sor3999 women are generally really invested in the idea that everyone is totally different because then they can ignore probability and statistics and pretend they are just following their own unique path, because it eliminates the idea of competition

  • @dotanuki3371
    @dotanuki3371 25 дней назад +80

    what a great example of women approaching a problem. there's no solving at all, just a formulation of what they want. no inquiry into what, how, and why, no acknowledgement of the reality of things, no plan of action, just "me want this".

  • @hightierplayers2454
    @hightierplayers2454 25 дней назад +245

    They put men across 4 quadrants and pretend all women are in the smart + nice quadrant.

    • @malcolmapplet4313
      @malcolmapplet4313 25 дней назад +24

      Sugar and spice quadrant

    • @Marcara081
      @Marcara081 25 дней назад +13

      They fail to realize that most men nowadays see women in the red half.

    • @Correction-zl2oe
      @Correction-zl2oe 25 дней назад +13

      Weird SOLOMON had wisdom straight from the hand of God he found a few good men and ZERO GOOD WOMEN somehow i doubt this women and her silly graph know better then mighty king Solomon

    • @freestang6662
      @freestang6662 25 дней назад +11

      That's the "we're all 10s" mentality.

    • @jesustyronechrist2330
      @jesustyronechrist2330 25 дней назад +5

      Despite us moving so far as a civilization, we cannot escape the animal instincts:
      Women want to appear worthy and desirable to breed with, meaning they are the best of the best. They don't have to do anything, just convince everyone around them, especially the men. The men of course, are then there to just hornily try out of compete who gets the "best" girl to breed with. The man gets their "rocks off" and a legacy while the woman get protection and all kinds of responsibilities around survival taken off their shoulders and replaced with motherhood. Except nowadays women replace it with money...

  • @UncensoredScion
    @UncensoredScion 25 дней назад +863

    While I repeatedly think that things like TikTok have been a net negative for society, there's always part of me that is at least grateful at them existing so we can at least document the level of damage that's been done over the course of the last 100 years.

    • @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027
      @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 25 дней назад +48

      ban social media for children under 18 years

    • @Rikalonius
      @Rikalonius 25 дней назад +33

      Indeed, plot the points on the downward curve so people can't accuse you of a slippery slope fallacy, because you have the receipts.

    • @UncensoredScion
      @UncensoredScion 25 дней назад +34

      @@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 I know where you're coming from and in a spiritual sense I agree with you, but the only viable way to do it is to have laws passed where you have a digital government-based ID for access to all social media.
      I know that when this eventually comes into law (because it's going to) all discourse is going to shut down, because the moment you say something that is even slightly spicy and have it connected to something that can and will be linked to who you are irl, you're done and will face all sorts of problems.
      The solution was to push parents to force their kids to not access social media via them not having the means to until they're 18, but lazy parents allow kids to be kept distracted by pc's phones and ipads rather than them doing things with their kids.

    • @andrew6815
      @andrew6815 25 дней назад +15

      @@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 or pay people appropriately so that we can return to single earner households and people can raise their kids instead of working constantly. Don't care who does it (male or female) but, if you have kids, being present has a very well established benefit to child development

    • @hyperteleXii
      @hyperteleXii 25 дней назад +9

      This stuff appears in historical records hundreds, even thousands of years old.
      The Bible warns about all this. Did you not read it?

  • @liviuursegr
    @liviuursegr 25 дней назад +58

    In her entire rant it was all "I deserve, you deserve, we deserve" and not one bit "what must we do to deserve"

    • @djangomarine6658
      @djangomarine6658 25 дней назад +12

      Some other commenter said it perfectly. Their mindset is "I am, therefore I deserve." There's no thought beyond that when you're selfish, spoiled and entitled.

    • @joehlloyd
      @joehlloyd 24 дня назад +6

      there are numerous videos of women being completely stunned when asked what they think men want from them. it genuinely doesn't appear to have ever occurred to them

    • @FreedomTalkMedia
      @FreedomTalkMedia 23 дня назад +1

      That's because she believes her existence causes her to deserve.

    • @earthbind83
      @earthbind83 23 дня назад +2

      PLUS she was like "maybe I should stop dating evil guys", and while I appreciate the honesty it is still a red flag that she chased the bad boys.

  • @thebluelunarmonkey
    @thebluelunarmonkey 25 дней назад +1138

    A little unfair to submit a 3 dimensional model to explain a 2 dimensional being's mental processes.

    • @AndyStitzer
      @AndyStitzer 25 дней назад +73

      Underrated comment

    • @strictlyunreal
      @strictlyunreal 25 дней назад +66

      Most of these 304s are one dimensional characters!

    • @billybussey
      @billybussey 25 дней назад +24

      2? you mean 1?

    • @chrisn2125
      @chrisn2125 25 дней назад +4

      😂😂😂

    • @Redshadow808
      @Redshadow808 25 дней назад +7

      thats freaking hilarious

  • @k3w1b3an5
    @k3w1b3an5 25 дней назад +1110

    "They're from Portland. Make of that what you will" That's gold Jerry. GOLD!

    • @MrShaneSunshine
      @MrShaneSunshine 25 дней назад +31

      I chuckled too....knowingly!

    • @PeteNice29
      @PeteNice29 25 дней назад +22

      That's in fact the filter through which all of this must be viewed.

    • @NoUsernameProvided
      @NoUsernameProvided 25 дней назад

      "Yuck = Republicans" it's in her matrix

    • @notlxrd2
      @notlxrd2 25 дней назад +43

      Can someone explain what's going on in Portland to an European like myself?

    • @Butlins14
      @Butlins14 25 дней назад +2

      I was about to write that then noticed your comment

  • @willshad
    @willshad 25 дней назад +56

    We need to define some things here from her perspective:
    'Smart': Able to cater to her every need perfectly
    'Nice': Willing to be in a committed relationship with her
    'Every man in the world' : The .001% of men hot enough for her to even consider
    'Trauma': Being used for sex
    ''Narcissist': Someone who used her for sex
    Her matrix makes a lot more sense once you know these definitions.

  • @CASPB
    @CASPB 25 дней назад +927

    "I am lying and expect you to agree with me though you know I am lying. Failure to comply will result in sanctions by me and the hivemind women."

    • @Rikalonius
      @Rikalonius 25 дней назад +135

      Indeed, it's quite like Solzhenitsyn's quote about Communists "We know they are lying, they know that they are lying, they even know that we know they are lying, but they are still lying."

    • @rtardbox
      @rtardbox 25 дней назад

      Maybe "I am delusional, entitled, frustrated and expect you to tolerate me being foolish and wrong even though you know I'm foolish and wrong. Failure to comply will result in me being even more frustrated because even though I'll threated to stop banging 8s, 9s and 10s I won't and hope this video will get other women to stop banging 8s, 9s and 10s so the 8s, 9s and 10s will start acting like 2s, 3s and 4s towards me."

    • @Wingedmagician
      @Wingedmagician 25 дней назад +8

      its a social emotional game. but to he fair to them if they dont play it then theyre targeted.

    • @TheDeepSeaCreature
      @TheDeepSeaCreature 25 дней назад +1

      Good.

    • @glenn6793
      @glenn6793 25 дней назад +17

      Because women still let other women think for them

  • @fmilan1
    @fmilan1 25 дней назад +648

    I am 55, I am Brazilian, I was poor, I became an engineer, I've been making 6 figure salary for years, I moved to US with no money, I married 28 yo broke, I am still married at 55 yo to the same women. She decided to run with me, we have two daughters, I will never leave her. More than love, she showed me loyalty -- above all, I respect loyalty.

    • @whiterabit09
      @whiterabit09 25 дней назад +86

      And when you got rich, you rewarded her with loyalty, when you could easily replace her.

    • @fmilan1
      @fmilan1 25 дней назад +77

      @@whiterabit09 That is true, I was loyal to her. But unhappily a 6 figure salary today is not that great any more... A six figure salary when I was young in the 90s would go a lot farther. Let's say I have a decent life, but definitely not rich.

    • @magonus195
      @magonus195 25 дней назад +11

      Bom homem. Acabo de conhecer minha noiva no Brasil esta mês. A diferencia entra dela e mulheres prototípicas dos EUA é tão grande.

    • @NTJedi
      @NTJedi 25 дней назад

      @@fmilan1 There's been university studies ranging from 10% to as many as 25% of children within a family being from different fathers. Every man should perform a paternity test on their children.... I have seen too many stories online about fathers in their 50s, 60s and 70s discovering their children are from some other man. Ancestry or 23&me will provide you this information and other useful information as well.

    • @weareharbinger914
      @weareharbinger914 25 дней назад +34

      Most men understand this sentiment. And good for you man, good job to you both.

  • @LunaProtege
    @LunaProtege 25 дней назад +42

    The thing about choosing the winner reminds me of another race analogy that's at best tangentially related said by a fictional girl: "When the guy crosses the finish line, do you think he's going to run up and hug whatever woman looks best? Or the woman who's supported his training from day one, and cheered him on the whole race?"

    • @LifeLikeSage
      @LifeLikeSage 24 дня назад +3

      Option two, but he picked her to be attractive enough for his liking when he chose her to travel the journey with him.

    • @FreedomTalkMedia
      @FreedomTalkMedia 23 дня назад +2

      What if he doesn't have a woman who was there the whole time? Who is he going to hug then?

    • @bishopofeternity48
      @bishopofeternity48 23 дня назад +9

      ​@@FreedomTalkMediahis mom, probably

    • @earthbind83
      @earthbind83 23 дня назад +2

      That's a great quote, where is it from? Sounds like it might be Anime, but mostly because I can't remember the last time I heard someone from a western franchise say "cheered HIM on".

    • @logan_wolf
      @logan_wolf 22 дня назад +5

      @@FreedomTalkMedia Nobody. I will hug nobody when I get there.

  • @circularfile68
    @circularfile68 25 дней назад +474

    I’m just going to take a potentially controversial position that might anger these women, but I’m standing firm. Half a square is not a hemisphere. I said what I said.

    • @rickiecomeaux8287
      @rickiecomeaux8287 25 дней назад +48

      They might be flat earthers.

    • @SilverCyric
      @SilverCyric 25 дней назад +40

      Hemisquare? 🤪

    • @user-wt2bk7gw3k
      @user-wt2bk7gw3k 25 дней назад +12

      It's not a hemi circle either

    • @michapawlik5680
      @michapawlik5680 25 дней назад +6

      "Half a square is not a hemisphere."
      Not in taxicab geometry ;)

    • @ST-xh6wv
      @ST-xh6wv 25 дней назад +1

      You win the internet for the day. 😂🎉

  • @CB-vt3mx
    @CB-vt3mx 25 дней назад +269

    my wife and I had to grind for years to get where we are now. Relatives seeing us now tell her how "lucky" she is. She wasn't "lucky", she was smart. She knew that men don't really start making good money starting out and knew that SHE would have to grind with a man to get to that space. The verbal beatdowns she gives the younger women in the extended family are often hilarious. "Girly, if you think you are going to marry a man your age making what my husband makes, you had better get your tail to Atlanta and start dating rappers"...shuts them up pretty fast.

    • @Dominic1962
      @Dominic1962 25 дней назад +48

      Yes, that’s what so many are delulu about and what I’ve been hammering into my own daughter’s heads-you aren’t going to find some rich prince waltzing around the US incognito. Might as well buy lotto tickets and earnestly believe you are going to win. Also know that it’s not bad to not be faux-rich. If you have a roof over your head, food on the table and some other things in that same vein, you are unbelievably blessed compared to the vast majority of humanity.

    • @watamutha
      @watamutha 25 дней назад +24

      I remember this other girl making a video saying "if you want a high value man, it's not for the weak b/c he is going to hold you accountable." Yes she's right, most are not just going to give it to you.

    • @jesustyronechrist2330
      @jesustyronechrist2330 25 дней назад

      Yeah, sadly so many women are gaslight into thinking they can be absolved of all responsibility and standards if they just make themselves look pretty. And then they throw a wrench in by saying that they should also be independent and strong wahmen X_X
      It's so fascinatingly delusional. "What is a woman?" is a damn good question. Because I don't think women know how they are supposed to act anymore and just gravitate to hedonism and then ruin their lives.

    • @inexpertxennial6067
      @inexpertxennial6067 21 день назад

      Whatever men leave their first wives all of the time for younger women that give up everything to help him get there. There is zero point in helping a man build anything because he will leave her behind one day.

    • @Dominic1962
      @Dominic1962 21 день назад

      @@inexpertxennial6067 80% of divorces are initiated by women…

  • @innercircle341
    @innercircle341 25 дней назад +44

    I was explaining exactly this to 4 20-23yo girls who were in my cab the other day (I am a Grandpa). Now the best looking one was a solid 8 and she could land a winner (if she can find one in the willing zone) but the other 3 were a 5 at best (dressed up to go party) and they have no chance.
    After a long ride, from the country into a city, their conclusion is "we just wanna have fun" and that translates into "get Alpha Widowed by a bunch of 8+ dudes who couldn't GAF about us"
    This is so common and so sad. Civilisation killer level of sad

    • @samuelwilliams7331
      @samuelwilliams7331 25 дней назад +13

      You tried your best.

    • @LifeLikeSage
      @LifeLikeSage 24 дня назад +5

      You said it boss.

    • @Fabzil
      @Fabzil 21 день назад

      Hard to change her own DNA. Women are made to be looking at the best she can get. Now we live in a time where she actually know this and also knows she will never be able to do it because she is a 5.
      So she is fucked from the start. She also knows her value will be close to 0 once she is 40 years old.
      So her life is basically : her DNA is screaming at her ears everyday to marry an alpha male, but the likelihood that this happens is next to 0%, and in 15 years she is done for good anyway. This is such a grim existence. No wonder she just wants to have fun and drown her sorrow.

    • @bobross1829
      @bobross1829 5 дней назад +1

      Yep, the "I just want to have fun" is women speak for I know no guys my age are rich enough for my standards and good looking guys wont marry me and I do not want to "settle", so I am going to act like being single is my choice until I find the rich good looking guy I deserve". Then they are 40 with cats.

    • @Fabzil
      @Fabzil 3 дня назад

      My comment got deleted so I'll try a shorter one : what if the behavior of the 3 women who where 5 are not by CHOICE but by DNA?

  • @cryptojihadi265
    @cryptojihadi265 25 дней назад +146

    In short, this woman "SOLVED" dating by just telling women to pick the 0.01% guy.
    BRILLIANT!
    Honey, we already knew that's what you were gunning for YEARS ago.
    BTW, I know NUMEROUS 7's that GOT the 0.01% guy, and guess what? They STILL weren't happy and blew up the marriage.

    • @Correction-zl2oe
      @Correction-zl2oe 25 дней назад

      If she told women the truth she wouldn't have an audience flattering women is a billion dollar empire look at makeup alone women hate truth especially about themselves because its rarely flattering

    • @LennartKasper
      @LennartKasper 24 дня назад

      It's why shaming was used and religion to control them on a societal level that forced them to stay, so they could rail about oppression or their husband. Once they have a top 10% they lose all interest over time and today that occurs far more rapidly.

    • @SnabbKassa
      @SnabbKassa 23 дня назад +3

      Well some of them should. I'm right here.

    • @abdulazizhawsah9884
      @abdulazizhawsah9884 21 день назад +7

      Listening to women talk is like watching an episode of family guy

    • @JscottSears
      @JscottSears 21 день назад

      ​@abdulazizhawsah9884 😂

  • @pwabd2784
    @pwabd2784 25 дней назад +344

    You can explain the lack of top tier men to women all day. And they will completely understand how rare that guy is. The breakdown comes from the fact that every one of them think that they're the special girl one of those men will want.

    • @Solon64
      @Solon64 25 дней назад +56

      They're compulsive gamblers, not just with money. They'll happily risk their entire future on a

    • @dustysmoke4996
      @dustysmoke4996 24 дня назад +12

      Yup. They're special, unique unicorn snowflakes, each and every one!

    • @zecoolerking3
      @zecoolerking3 24 дня назад

      @@Solon64 it didn’t used to be this bad, women are actually excellent gamblers. They’re hard wired to sniff out a good bet. The problem is they’re playing with the houses money now. Modern western women exist in a gravity free environment. There’s almost nothing they can fuck up that they won’t be bailed out for. No consequences for sex with terrible men, they’ve got birth control and abortion on demand. No consequences for bad marriage partner, they have no fault divorce. No consequences for having a kid with a bad guy, myriad welfare programs to save them (if not reward them). They’ve been sold a world where they can have their cake, eat it too, and break into your fridge and have yours as well. Until incentives are fixed and reality realigned, this will continue to get worse. Now that you know that, it’s time to start asking WHO is promoting this situation and exploiting it, and made it possible in the first place.

    • @uoabigaillevey
      @uoabigaillevey 24 дня назад +23

      I would venture to say that they believe the fairy tales. Disney really messed them up. That and the romcoms. Lifetime movie network.. the Hallmark channel, etc. Those channels need to do more reality-based stories (not reality TV stuff.. but stories based in reality and not fantasy) so they get their heads out of the clouds.

    • @lostvayne4553
      @lostvayne4553 24 дня назад +13

      @@uoabigailleveyyeah they all think the rich dude from the big city is gonna fall in love with the ditzy hometown girl who’s into pottery

  • @jwg9338
    @jwg9338 25 дней назад +26

    My mother is mid-sixties and still behaves this way. She genuinely believes a guy her age with wealth and status is going to come swooping in her life. I told her that type of man is seeing forty-somes for fun, the mid-sixties woman woman already divorce-graped him. It's somewhere between sad, pathetic and repulsive.

    • @risegaming2047
      @risegaming2047 23 дня назад +5

      Man I can't imagine having a mother like this. You must have immense mental fortitude to deal with it.

    • @blackriders3509
      @blackriders3509 14 дней назад

      We sympathize w you, brother

    • @Mrmysterious-dj1ov
      @Mrmysterious-dj1ov 10 дней назад

      Sometimes you have give up on a dream because just so un believable and it would take so much get it not worth it 😮

  • @freudsigmund72
    @freudsigmund72 25 дней назад +520

    q: how you write women so well?
    a: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability

    • @rickiecomeaux8287
      @rickiecomeaux8287 25 дней назад +45

      Jack Goodall, As Good as it Gets. Great movie!

    • @HexenStar
      @HexenStar 25 дней назад +7

      That, and at least half a brain.

    • @r.b.ratieta6111
      @r.b.ratieta6111 25 дней назад +8

      To be fair, I felt really bad for the fan girl who absolutely loved his books. 😂 It was rather dickish.

    • @squidward9191
      @squidward9191 25 дней назад +7

      I write men by thinking of a woman and taking away intuition, spirituality, aesthetic awareness, empathy, verbal intelligence, social skills, and curiosity, and I add sex obsession, violence & a heafty dose of ego.

    • @theflyingkaramazovbrothers6
      @theflyingkaramazovbrothers6 25 дней назад +5

      @@rickiecomeaux8287 melvin udall lol Jack Nicholson is the actor, though.

  • @robertstone9988
    @robertstone9988 25 дней назад +72

    Wemon to lonely men: your not entitled to love
    Wemon to lonely Wemon: you deserve the world just for being a woman.

  • @coachleif
    @coachleif 25 дней назад +20

    "Run the race with us" is practically a revolutionary statement this day and age. It really is game theory at it's finest, she doesn't wanna run the race cause if she does and he wins and picks someone else bad investment for her, but he isn't gonna want to invest in someone who he knows only picked him cause he won, and the stand off begins and everyone is angry.

    • @FreedomTalkMedia
      @FreedomTalkMedia 23 дня назад +4

      If she runs the race with him, it means he already picked her.

    • @risegaming2047
      @risegaming2047 23 дня назад +3

      Even in her worst case scenario, she can divorce him and get a huge payout on her investment. A man's worst case scenario is infinitely worse. Nothing to gain, everything to lose.

    • @Kritikanbringer
      @Kritikanbringer 22 дня назад

      This insight is brutal yet beautiful.

    • @jamesomara3361
      @jamesomara3361 17 дней назад

      This is where we need to shame men who do this. Accountability goes both ways. Any man who has a girl stay with him on his come up and then leaves her for someone younger/hotter once he's made it should be [redacted] IMO. Not quite as bad as what the ladies are doing, but it's completely vile behavior.

    • @FreedomTalkMedia
      @FreedomTalkMedia 15 дней назад +1

      @@jamesomara3361 If the younger / hotter woman were willing to get with him in this early stage, then he wouldn't need to leave. But he picks up a 200 pounder when he's broke and dumps her for a slim and fit girl when he has more value.

  • @kylemacdougall8355
    @kylemacdougall8355 25 дней назад +268

    "What is your wish, Dorothy?" asked Glinda the good witch.
    "I want a top-tier man who makes at LEAST $150k and ain't no scrub!" said Dorothy.
    "Simple," said Glinda. "Just close your eyes and click your heels together and repeat after me: I deserve it. I deserve it. I deserve it. I DESERVE IT."

    • @realnamesnotgiven6193
      @realnamesnotgiven6193 24 дня назад +40

      Dorothy: why am I naked in Dubai?

    • @qdg.productions
      @qdg.productions 24 дня назад +1

      @@realnamesnotgiven6193😂😂😂😂

    • @notmyname3883
      @notmyname3883 24 дня назад +5

      Bad analogy. If you'll remember, in the story, clicking her heels together did, indeed, get her what she wanted.
      This is impossible.

    • @kylemacdougall8355
      @kylemacdougall8355 23 дня назад +24

      @@notmyname3883 That was the point of the analogy: each of these women thinks they're the main character in a fairy tale and that they can get what they want through fairy tale logic.

    • @eyeheartsushi2212
      @eyeheartsushi2212 23 дня назад +6

      @@realnamesnotgiven6193BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA

  • @thomasblackcraft
    @thomasblackcraft 25 дней назад +274

    All women’s examples always turns to them wanting things and objects ( it seems! )😂😂😂

    • @StarboyXL9
      @StarboyXL9 25 дней назад +19

      Mostly phallic objects!

    • @monsieuralex974
      @monsieuralex974 25 дней назад +14

      Hence the “I deserve” entitlement… Smh. Modern women mistake the providing role of men for them being Santa Clause bringing gifts and presents for the little child they still are…

    • @manumaster1990
      @manumaster1990 25 дней назад +5

      @@monsieuralex974 "the providing role of men" is a scam, stop falling for it!

  • @pplebite8844
    @pplebite8844 25 дней назад +16

    Why am I finding it really difficult to believe that women want a guy that's nice and smart, when their actions tell a different story, repeatedly?

    • @ephraimwinslow
      @ephraimwinslow 25 дней назад +8

      Because getting your information about women from women is like getting your information about the government from the government.
      Hint: they basically never admit fault unless forced.

    • @Correction-zl2oe
      @Correction-zl2oe 25 дней назад

      They are liars of course they will pretend they are as pure as the driven snow but we know better

    • @tay_paradox
      @tay_paradox 25 дней назад +1

      Oh they do but that's just insignificant compared to other wants like #1 attractiveness #2 financial success

    • @lamarwilson8608
      @lamarwilson8608 25 дней назад +3

      Nice & smart = boring They don't really want that. Throw out anything they say and watch thier actions for the truth.

    • @willshad
      @willshad 25 дней назад +1

      Because what she fails to mention is that the guy being hot is the first requirement..it's a given, really.

  • @chamberlain323
    @chamberlain323 25 дней назад +163

    Once again, the idea of a man’s future earning potential is not even considered in their math. Every married man I’m related to got married when they were young and broke but developed wealth with their wives over the span of time. This used to be common. Not a single one of these women would seem to consider that now, even though cost of living is higher than ever. They are all waiting at the finish line instead.
    They are just hard-wired to compete with other women for that one rich guy’s attention. Good luck with that, ladies.

    • @georgeelder8415
      @georgeelder8415 25 дней назад +6

      For the majority, based on probable outcomes, it seems prudent to invest in kitty litter stocks, the umbiquitous boxed wine box manufacturing, and "Bob", stocks. We'll all be rich!

    • @chamberlain323
      @chamberlain323 25 дней назад +13

      Also, I love that HM revealed ACTUAL average annual earnings of men in the US to help dispel the delusion out there. Bravo. He’s doing God’s work.

    • @Raeth28
      @Raeth28 25 дней назад +6

      They don't even know what their own futures are going to look like (read: the consequences of their choices), so how could they possibly see someone else's?

    • @nickthompson1812
      @nickthompson1812 25 дней назад +3

      I can’t really blame women for this. You have one life, do you really want to spend it trying to make a broke dude into a rich dude? I personally would not.

    • @georgeelder8415
      @georgeelder8415 25 дней назад +18

      @@nickthompson1812 I get it, but more women would have a better life if they would join forces with and be supportive of a man.

  • @CentralBankofTruth
    @CentralBankofTruth 25 дней назад +380

    I rolled my eyes at first when I saw 'Republicans' in the Yuck section, but then remembered I do the same with left-wing progressive women... like from Portland. So, fair enough.

    • @Kwisatz-Chaderach
      @Kwisatz-Chaderach 25 дней назад +79

      Women don't actually have political opinions.

    • @edheldude
      @edheldude 25 дней назад +166

      @@Kwisatz-Chaderach They align themselves with whoever makes them feel good and promise them free resources.

    • @teddunn7258
      @teddunn7258 25 дней назад +80

      Yeah, as soon as I saw her categorize all Republicans (I am neither Republican nor Democrat) as "Evil and Dumb", I knew it was safe to ignore her completely. Only Evil/Dumb individuals make sweeping generalizations about an entire group based on race, religion or...political affiliation.

    • @SilverCyric
      @SilverCyric 25 дней назад

      I disagree, because there are big differences between evil incarnate and just not being evil. They’ve created such an insane divide, to be considered leftist, you have to have a complete lack of morals and character.

    • @kade6776
      @kade6776 25 дней назад

      @@CentralBankofTruth you might be more left leaning than you realize if you find yourself agreeing with hoe math. -socialist

  • @Weakkneez
    @Weakkneez 23 дня назад +16

    I've also heard many women say "I don't want to have to teach him" when it comes to relationships or sex. This seems to imply that they don't want to give the man the opportunity to gain experience. He should already know what to do. Similar to "We have to have experience to get a job (relationship), but how can we get experience if we can't get a job?"

    • @dmm7736
      @dmm7736 22 дня назад +3

      What I hate about this is that many women have unrealistic expectations regarding a man’s sexual experience. We often want to be their first and only intimate encounter, yet paradoxically, most women expect men to already know what to do in the bedroom. This double standard is confusing and unfair. Moreover, there’s the expectation that they shouldn’t learn from porn, as it can create unrealistic ideas and involve seeing other women’s bodies, which many of us find uncomfortable. But the reality is, intimacy is unique to each relationship and situation. Regardless of past experiences or lack thereof, both partners have to learn and adapt together, so it’s really pointless to get hung up on it.

    • @Mrmysterious-dj1ov
      @Mrmysterious-dj1ov 10 дней назад

      It’s all just big dumb game that they won’t win because the game conflicts with it self and they want play game how supposed be played 😐

  • @StarboyXL9
    @StarboyXL9 25 дней назад +299

    "They're from Portland"
    Noted. Their opinion has been marked down in my brain as "pure comedy"

    • @tetedur377
      @tetedur377 25 дней назад +12

      Most women aren't that funny.

    • @jordanprice9285
      @jordanprice9285 25 дней назад +2

      ​@@tetedur377 and most of them also probably live in around or near Portland lol

    • @tonydiesel3444
      @tonydiesel3444 25 дней назад +1

      They po s demz

    • @Bloodcurling
      @Bloodcurling 25 дней назад +2

      From Chicago, went there last weekend. It's definitely not the place to be, and his warning is valid.

    • @beaumarkut8872
      @beaumarkut8872 25 дней назад

      Man you must truly have some hate for America if you despise Americans off-rip like that.

  • @massdragon1452
    @massdragon1452 25 дней назад +133

    Don’t forget Hoe Math, if you take away the top 100 earners in the U.S., the income drops to $36k

    • @georgeelder8415
      @georgeelder8415 25 дней назад +20

      Yes, that tail of the bell curve is a beach.

    • @ViolosD2I
      @ViolosD2I 25 дней назад +57

      But... those 100 are exactly the ones they deserve! ;)

    • @vietta6424
      @vietta6424 25 дней назад +32

      Median and average are different things.

    • @georgeelder8415
      @georgeelder8415 25 дней назад

      @@vietta6424 Facts...

    • @_big_man_69_
      @_big_man_69_ 25 дней назад

      You don't even know the difference between median and average! I know which box you belong in! Ha!

  • @northeastoperations
    @northeastoperations 25 дней назад +13

    I love how she says perfect fictional characters are the men that women deserve.
    So entitled

    • @earthbind83
      @earthbind83 23 дня назад +4

      Indeed. At least when I fantasize about my dream Anime catgirl who is always happy, sad, horny or a combination thereof I know I'll never find someone like her in real life, but these women have lost the ability to separate ideals from reality.

    • @Mrmysterious-dj1ov
      @Mrmysterious-dj1ov 10 дней назад

      You don’t deserve anything you earn it work for it 😮

  • @RogerNbr
    @RogerNbr 25 дней назад +153

    notice how only women deserve love unconditionally
    while men have to work for it and it remains very conditional on providing
    if it stops, the love is gone

    • @dustysmoke4996
      @dustysmoke4996 24 дня назад +18

      WHAT?!? You mean Disney lied to us??? I'm unconsolable...

    • @uoabigaillevey
      @uoabigaillevey 24 дня назад

      Sounds more like an older profession than love. Exchanging something of value for access to the ladyparts.

    • @MitchellJBridges
      @MitchellJBridges 22 дня назад +1

      @@RogerNbr Well I knew that. That's why I seek God. Because all my life I've been told that I will always be loved no matter what. but the next thing I know is that I got kicked out of my mother's house just because my mother picked her new boyfriend over me...

    • @zachroberts1988
      @zachroberts1988 22 дня назад +5

      Men are lucky if their mother even loves them unconditionally...

    • @baltulielkungsgunarsmiezis9714
      @baltulielkungsgunarsmiezis9714 21 день назад +1

      Men also deserve love unconditionally, and if we dont get it we will break society by spliting in to 2 groups, those who refuse to uphold society, those who actively tear it down.

  • @user-jq4fz6co8b
    @user-jq4fz6co8b 25 дней назад +54

    Thing is, almost all women date in the trauma quadrant, WILLFULLY. They don’t DESERVE the Smart/Nice quadrant when they’ve all spent their best and most physically attractive years being self-destructive and making poor decisions.

    • @funlesbian
      @funlesbian 25 дней назад

      an important caveat to their chart is the more they choose 'trauma' men the less likely their 'deserve' men will find them appealing.

    • @willshad
      @willshad 25 дней назад

      We have to keep in mind, that when she says' smart and nice', what she really means is 'able to fulfill all my needs perfectly, and 'willing to be in a committed relationship with me'. Also, her entire matrix only contains men that are hot enough for her to even consider. 'Average' guys don't fit into it at all. 'Every man in the world' to her is actually only about .001% of all men.

  • @goooc
    @goooc 25 дней назад +12

    Their "solution" - instead of 10%, just pick the 1%. Wohooooooo cracked the game!

  • @saureco
    @saureco 25 дней назад +275

    So, none of the men in the "deserve" category will get cheated on, right?
    No?
    That's what we all thought.

    • @axl1002
      @axl1002 25 дней назад +28

      Ofc not, you can't cheat on your dog by having 2 dogs.

    • @beaumarkut8872
      @beaumarkut8872 25 дней назад +2

      That’s some pretty ass-backward logic you’re implying. The responsibility is still on you to act according to the “deserve” category and then expect the same in your partner or find a better one.

    • @meloelebi1996
      @meloelebi1996 25 дней назад +4

      @@beaumarkut8872 It's far more on both of you to start finding a better one after breaking up instead of cheating regardless.

    • @saureco
      @saureco 24 дня назад +26

      @@beaumarkut8872 No. You're not comprehending. Men in the deserve category can still get cheated on. How many women cheat and say, "he was too perfect?"

    • @skinnytimmy1
      @skinnytimmy1 20 дней назад +11

      ​@@saureco or they'll say "he's amazing, but there's no spark" , "he doesn't give me the butterflies " 😂😂

  • @t.j.payeur5331
    @t.j.payeur5331 25 дней назад +235

    " The Worst Thing That Modern Feminism Could Have Done For Women Was To Allow Them To Reveal Their True Nature. "
    Barbarossa, 2010. "The Post-Feminism Man". A Mgtow must-see...

    • @Anicca108
      @Anicca108 25 дней назад +25

      It is quite a revelation. John Steinbeck knew what they were like too. He wrote about it in _Of Mice and Men_ and _East of Eden._

    • @wingsoffreedom3589
      @wingsoffreedom3589 25 дней назад +18

      Barbarrosa changed my worldview forever and exposed the problem of traditionalism to me.

    • @Trynottoblink
      @Trynottoblink 25 дней назад +8

      Hope that guy’s doing well, his videos were gold

    • @HomelessOnline
      @HomelessOnline 25 дней назад +1

      Excellent recommendation, thanks!

    • @kin-of-orakio
      @kin-of-orakio 25 дней назад

      Feminism set men free and enslaved women - go figure lol

  • @michael-qs5ml
    @michael-qs5ml 22 дня назад +3

    im so glad i fell to this side of the internet. My bf isnt experienced or able yet but he is willing. If i had listened to the popular dating advice i Wouldve never found him. He is a man with the kindest of hearts, the purest of souls. THank you

  • @mndough1
    @mndough1 25 дней назад +314

    Math, you are being poorly imitated. That is the highest form of praise.

    • @chamberlain323
      @chamberlain323 25 дней назад +16

      Exactly my first thought at seeing that first clip of their vid in here.

    • @filmbuff4
      @filmbuff4 25 дней назад +18

      there is also a guy in Germany who is straight up ripping off his drawings and i believe he is trying to sue him.

    • @archstanton9073
      @archstanton9073 25 дней назад +1

      Aren't they ripping off the Crazy/Hot Matrix guy?

    • @onpoint2292
      @onpoint2292 25 дней назад +4

      @archstanton9073
      HoeMath paid homage to the crazy-hot matrix before. He explicitly said that it's an incomplete visualization of how men should evaluate women. And if we follow the breadcrumbs far back enough, there'll probably be some earlier visuals to evaluate dating choices.

    • @willshad
      @willshad 25 дней назад

      @@filmbuff4 Wouldn't really be worth suing unless thew other guy was far more successful than he is. I've seen Hoemath's drawings on a bunch of RUclipsr's videos.

  • @z0mb1e564
    @z0mb1e564 25 дней назад +133

    The green band is much too generous because they don't stay on the market long. Once one of those guys is ready to settle for one woman, they are snapped up almost immediately. So the population never grows.

    • @raijin7707
      @raijin7707 25 дней назад +5

      If we are talking the light green yes, and I've seen it happen a lot, I think a lot of youtuber's sit in that category. Guy is single, than he blows up, next thing you know he has a gf, if the relationship last for a while, bam MARRIED! Or guy has humble beginnings, something happens, either he blows up by surprise because he got famous from some social media post or his dad died and he inherited papa's wealth. Dude finds a girl or his existing girl becomes his wife, game over 😂
      Middle class guy, goes to prestigious university, gets engaged during graduation, if there's no infidelity, the deal is sealed 😂 either he consummates her later or they get married and he consomates her. These dudes go swiftly.
      Now that you've mentioned it I think the light green is the sweet spot.
      If we are talking the dark green no! Those guys are the least trustworthy especially if they made it to that spot before they've met their lover. They are far more likely to be single by choice not to preserve themselves but because they do not want a partner, they want to lead women on and play with them until they are bored with them. They have so many women offering themselves to them they feel they have no reason to settle just like women when they have a bunch of male options only with the difference being. The men in these positions 90% aren't interested in love, only God knows when they'll grow a heart if they ever do and your along for the ride.

    • @matsv201
      @matsv201 25 дней назад +3

      Well sort of.
      The amount of guys that arw single there is like minescule.
      The amount that is married and do a bit of side hussle is consideraly larger.

    • @willshad
      @willshad 25 дней назад

      @@raijin7707 I don't know, Hoemath is a popular RUclipsr, and he appears to be struggling both financially and with relationships.

  • @stevezilla68
    @stevezilla68 25 дней назад +6

    In my 20s, the number of women willing to run the race with me was precisely zero. At 30, I met a woman who understood the race, and wanted to run with me. We've been married 20 years. And let me tell you something regarding the Cube of Deserving: women don't know which quadrant _they_ are in; most of them are NOT in the green quadrant of high value. It's a poorly kept secret that most of them need a lot of work.

    • @loveleyday
      @loveleyday 20 дней назад +1

      I'd like to see the Cube for women. I'm betting it will be brutal, as it will put many young women in a "pretty" category with the absolute certainty that they WILL move out of it.

  • @insurrectusresistus
    @insurrectusresistus 25 дней назад +115

    Best quote of 2024
    "Hey, I don't hate myself anymore, I hate everything else"

  • @phoenixfire9176
    @phoenixfire9176 25 дней назад +135

    just the use of the word "deserve" is so telling. Women deserve everything by virtue of existing, men have to actually make themselves worthy of existing. Funnily enough this directly corelates with the difference between Mary Sues and Gary Stus. Mary Sues are powerful because they are special. Gary Stus are special because they are powerful.

    • @buragi5441
      @buragi5441 25 дней назад

      Yeah. Also, flip the gender around and the very second a man says he deserves someone, these same women start screeching "incel" at him.

    • @nathediath2312
      @nathediath2312 25 дней назад +24

      @@phoenixfire9176 The irony of the chick in the video talking about men written by women is crazy. Many popular female authors write the most sociopathic manipulative abusers or blank slate all powerful lover boys.

    • @rosameltrozo5889
      @rosameltrozo5889 25 дней назад +5

      That is kinda correct though, men are disposable in a way women are not, their lives have more inherent value.

    • @Mechdemon23
      @Mechdemon23 25 дней назад +10

      @@rosameltrozo5889 I was just coming here to say that. Something about this has to change tho; either all humans have inherent value/potential regardless of gender or NONE of them do. If we continue with one half having inherent value and the other not this is not going to get a lot worse (in a modern context)

    • @rosameltrozo5889
      @rosameltrozo5889 25 дней назад +4

      @@Mechdemon23 The issue is evolutionary though, simply the mechanics of human reproduction.

  • @melange78
    @melange78 25 дней назад +5

    Even though you made it super clear and simple enough for a teenager to understand it I bet that most women who watches this refuse to accept it.

    • @ephraimwinslow
      @ephraimwinslow 25 дней назад +1

      They don't care what's true. They care what their girlfriends (read: them in different bodies) think sounds nice in a status update.

  • @RobertLutece909
    @RobertLutece909 25 дней назад +145

    I love that she took the female version of the hot/crazy matrix and dumbed it way, way down so women of her intelligence would understand it.

    • @Meh-j9s
      @Meh-j9s 25 дней назад +5

      100%

    • @Correction-zl2oe
      @Correction-zl2oe 25 дней назад +4

      remember the study on morality where the female researcher had to claim women never reach highest lv because they just perfect faster what was it called lol?!

    • @ilovejettrooper5922
      @ilovejettrooper5922 21 день назад

      @@Correction-zl2oe I'm sorry, what???

  • @comancheclub3449
    @comancheclub3449 25 дней назад +343

    "Deserve" just means "entitled to"

    • @chefnyc
      @chefnyc 25 дней назад +32

      Yeah, without saying that they should also fall in men’s nice/smart quadrant, it is pure entitlement. I am, therefore I deserve.

    • @comancheclub3449
      @comancheclub3449 25 дней назад +18

      @@chefnyc
      Dude, what a fucking great line.
      "I am, therefore I deserve."
      The female condition in its absolute purest form. Bravo sir. 👏

    • @HexenStar
      @HexenStar 25 дней назад +4

      Time will dot the i's and cross the t's on this one.
      The only fated response to their despair will be "meow".

    • @haydn-db8z
      @haydn-db8z 25 дней назад +4

      It's Raining Men by the Weather Girls, 1980's:
      She fought every angel
      She rearranged the sky
      So that each and every woman
      Could find the perfect guy
      Still no word on whether (weather?) each and every woman actually *deserved* the perfect guy. They all seem to think they do, though.

    • @NTJedi
      @NTJedi 25 дней назад +7

      *Modern Women Logic:* I deserve men who are 6 feet tall, 6-pack abs with 6 figure incomes which buy me expensive gifts and vacations.
      *Modern Women Logic:* I am a booty call for several men who are 6 feet tall and 6-pack abs yet why won't a wealthy handsome man marry me!!

  • @jeffconnally8973
    @jeffconnally8973 24 дня назад +4

    More of you willing to run the race with us. That's the thing man. We want a PARTNER. Not a trophy at the end.

    • @inexpertxennial6067
      @inexpertxennial6067 21 день назад

      You want someone you can drain their resources and labor for free and then trade them in for a new model. That's why women aren't getting married anymore

  • @MindOverMayh3mm
    @MindOverMayh3mm 25 дней назад +60

    The fact she said hemisphere about a 2D square graph killed me

    • @starguy2718
      @starguy2718 11 дней назад

      "Math is haaaaard!"
      -- Barbie
      😄😄😄

  • @Trynottoblink
    @Trynottoblink 25 дней назад +74

    I know that the main difference between dating advice for men and women is that it’s always assumed that the woman in question deserves the best but it’s still jarring whenever I see it lol. They just assume that even broke, stupid, and evil women out there deserve a man with a good career and sterling character, it’s nuts

    • @danilejai7801
      @danilejai7801 25 дней назад

      @@Trynottoblink Well this is the thing, we often see men with good careers and seemingly good character choose stupid, broke and evil women as long as said woman looks the way he likes. Soooo it’s not really nuts, considering many guys are out here promoting for other men to actually choose broke, stupid and possibly evil 18 year olds. It not really nuts when study after study shows that men prefer stupid women. And it’s not really nuts when women that are so-called “b*tches” are also usually married before the nice girl is. Just an observation.

    • @Correction-zl2oe
      @Correction-zl2oe 25 дней назад

      And that's a big part of the problem they don't even deserve the average man a big problem in the west is to assume best of women and worst of man and opposite is closer to truth we have 17 female ancestors for every male women have passed genes even if they were trash most the bad genes are coming from women they have held mankind back

    • @willshad
      @willshad 25 дней назад +4

      It's exactly the same as every man saying that they deserve a super hot woman.

    • @Juno12
      @Juno12 25 дней назад +14

      @@willshad hardly any men say that...

    • @willshad
      @willshad 25 дней назад +11

      @@Juno12 that's exactly my point.

  • @DianaMendivil00
    @DianaMendivil00 24 дня назад +3

    I understood this from a young age, and I picked my husband (then boyfriend) at university because he had potential, was competent and he really wanted to give me the world, even when he didn't have money at the time and he only could invite me a coffee from time to time, I knew he had the guts to build a great future and I wanted to help him build that for us. He is everything I dream of and more, and I love him so much.
    Girls, don't go for a guy who already have a kingdom and a harem, you will be just one more girl, Better go for the competent broke fella who will build you an empire, and treat each other as king and queen. (this is work for both in the relationship)

  • @lockstar169
    @lockstar169 25 дней назад +100

    "Heyyyyy...I don't hate myself...I hate everything else now..." 😂
    Right there with ya brother

  • @austinjones1008
    @austinjones1008 25 дней назад +49

    Hi guys, I solved dating for men. Only date and marry mature attractive 20-23 year old women that are physically fit and committed to their fitness, enjoy your diet, share your interests, share your belief systems, support you when you're up or down, and only have eyes for you.

    • @refinedsugar
      @refinedsugar 25 дней назад +1

      You realize it's not as easy as you said, right? Is this your first day?

    • @zacklewis342
      @zacklewis342 25 дней назад +29

      @@refinedsugar Pretty sure he was mocking the girls in the video.

    • @refinedsugar
      @refinedsugar 25 дней назад +1

      @@zacklewis342 it doesn't sound that way, but okay.

    • @Tundra.
      @Tundra. 25 дней назад

      @@refinedsugar You are insane, it's a perfect mockery of the woman's dumb video.

    • @holypowerenjoyer6059
      @holypowerenjoyer6059 25 дней назад

      ​@@refinedsugaryou stupid?

  • @o5037
    @o5037 12 дней назад +3

    What characteristics, traits or habits should a person learn/ acquire, in your opinion, in order to be in a loving, fulfilling, happy relationship? As a women, I do agree that much dating/ relationship advice given out by both women and men, is harmful. Not sure if this is something you can easily draw, but I’m interested in learning what your outline of a healthy relationship is and the social/ emotional skills or traits that both men and women should possess to be a loving partner and have a long lasting relationship. What does love look like to you?

  • @wombatusmaximus1788
    @wombatusmaximus1788 25 дней назад +67

    By eliminating attraction as a variable and instead including it as a given, they’ve realistically reduced the pool of men that they would even consider in this little model of theirs by 80%

    • @willshad
      @willshad 25 дней назад +8

      More like 99.9%. The most revealing thing in her video was her saying that 'Every man in the world' falls into her matix, when in reality she's only talking about about .001% of the male population. All the men that aren't sex feet tall, handsome, with six pack abs don't even figure into the equation. That's her real issue...the men she should consider aren't in her matrix at all.

    • @Patrick-857
      @Patrick-857 25 дней назад +10

      "NOT PEOPLE"

  • @christopherpardell4418
    @christopherpardell4418 25 дней назад +41

    Reminded of that experiment where they put a rat in simple maze each day with a sweet drink dispenser at one end, and a sweet bit of food dispenser at the other, setup so that picking either one would de-activate the other, so the rat could only get one Or the other, but never both. They figured they would be able to tell when the rat understood the rules when the rat consistently picked just the one that he liked more. Instead, one day, the rat just sat there in the center, and from that day on never made a choice. Turns out he would rather have the option of choice, and get nothing, than pick one if it means losing the option for other. This is where we are today with dating apps.
    We like the illusion of options More than ever actually making the choice that would take those illusory options away and as a result we get nothing at all.

  • @jesustyronechrist2330
    @jesustyronechrist2330 25 дней назад +32

    You notice how women coddle each other like children all the time when it comes to dating?
    "Oh you go gurl! You deserve like so much better! He's a meanie anyways! You are so so so cute and so funny and so humble and so so so..."
    It's wild that women surround themselves with Yeswomen and then are surprised when reality isn't what their "friends" tell them it is. It's all about maximising emotional safety and protection, even if it is fake.

    • @TubeOfLaughes
      @TubeOfLaughes 23 дня назад

      The female mind cannot handle societal rejection or a sense of being inadequate. They'd rather walk on burning coals than face the idea that they might be subpar. Even if that realization would get them to improve themselves. Thus the cycle continues.

    • @earthbind83
      @earthbind83 23 дня назад

      Women coddle each other like a bundle of poisonous snakes. They give each other toxic advice to make their rivals price themselves out of the dating market while believing those very same lies themselves. Can't make this stuff up.

    • @inexpertxennial6067
      @inexpertxennial6067 21 день назад

      It's better then being unlived by a mal3 or getting abused by one

    • @earthbind83
      @earthbind83 21 день назад +1

      @@inexpertxennial6067 Yeah, you go with your strawman arguments, girl!

    • @jesustyronechrist2330
      @jesustyronechrist2330 19 дней назад

      @@inexpertxennial6067 Nice bait. Maybe go outside sometimes. Oh wait no, you probably can't because you are so paranoid and scared a "mal2" attacks you!! Oh good heavens!

  • @johannesdolch
    @johannesdolch 25 дней назад +54

    Also women hitting 'the wall' does not equal personal growth. Just like stopping with your gambling doesn't equal personal growth if the only reason is that you ran out of money.

    • @nicolasoliveira4903
      @nicolasoliveira4903 25 дней назад +3

      I think if he had said that in the video, he would have to sleep on the couch. He can't criticize women anymore.

    • @Marcara081
      @Marcara081 25 дней назад +2

      It's just where the suffering starts. Either they mature or go crazy and start talking about vibrations.

    • @eliel14ful
      @eliel14ful 25 дней назад +2

      True, lack of vice does not equal virtue, the can be evil with mediocrity too

    • @Kritikanbringer
      @Kritikanbringer 22 дня назад

      Very good point!

  • @danielmantell8751
    @danielmantell8751 25 дней назад +90

    At my most attractive (23-25, I was like a 7) I was poor as hell, which lost me a lot of chances. Now I'm 38 and doing well above average, have a house, etc. My looks are definitely worse and my experience is terrible (since I gave up on dating and focused on work). I've had to go through my darkest times completely alone, so now I don't really see a need to have someone around. Like what exactly are you going to offer me, Ive already proved I'm fine by myself.
    Would have been nice for someone to have had faith in me, as I would have had faith in them, but nobody did, so here we are. Most of us don't 'deserve' anything, the good or the bad, we just reap the rewards of ours and others choices.

    • @georgeelder8415
      @georgeelder8415 25 дней назад

      Ouch. Man, look at Latina's... Have you ever dated a Latina???

    • @dimitris1988kom
      @dimitris1988kom 25 дней назад +2

      How are your looks worse?

    • @georgeelder8415
      @georgeelder8415 25 дней назад

      @@dimitris1988kom He needs some good olive oil in his diet...

    • @anthonynguyen1289
      @anthonynguyen1289 25 дней назад +8

      @@dimitris1988kom Probably less working out to focus on working so some weight gain. Possibly hair line is worse due to aging? Could have more wrinkles and other signs of aging skin due to working and stress over years.

    • @danielmantell8751
      @danielmantell8751 25 дней назад +2

      @@anthonynguyen1289 haha, I would answer but I really wanna see how the speculation plays out. This is great.

  • @xdiaz755
    @xdiaz755 25 дней назад +6

    Me and my husband had low expectations of each other, and I think it’s what made our marriage work😂
    I wanted a Christian man that worked
    He wanted a Christian woman that was faithful
    6 years later we are still very much in love and happy and more committed to each other and to our child

    • @HeLpLOstGOdAny1
      @HeLpLOstGOdAny1 7 дней назад

      Yes, low expectations is a very special key to life. I didn't expect most of my friends to die, what life there is has to be worked out even in survival mode.

  • @kresovk5
    @kresovk5 25 дней назад +65

    Dumb & Nice :
    "They are low in IQ and high in EQ"
    "He could be nuclear scientist and not know present to give you..."
    If a person just speaks words without even understanding what they are saying, when they are just spouting nonsense...
    What value can I expect to find in rest of their opionions?
    If you ask me, best to just move on.

    • @matsv201
      @matsv201 25 дней назад +4

      Words means what ever i want them

    • @dustysmoke4996
      @dustysmoke4996 24 дня назад +2

      @@matsv201 Whatever they feel like wanting them to mean.

  • @kittydaddy2023
    @kittydaddy2023 25 дней назад +45

    Women waiting at the finish line used to be called "2nd wives." M-tow has destroyed that

    • @heikkint
      @heikkint 25 дней назад +6

      Perhaps they should not have coined the "starter husbands" term so openly. Even "Beta bucks providers" seem to have gone underground hard so well their work was done in public.

  • @janem3575
    @janem3575 25 дней назад +2

    I met an older friend from a place I used to work, She has a friend I've never met, that we discussed when talking about being single in a large city. This friend is slightly under-height at 5"3 but slim and cute. They've been friends since elementary school and the woman's requirements for a boyfriend / husband was, 6"1' (at least), handsome, wealthy, good job, worked out and willing to spoil her. When she hit her mid 20's, she dropped the working out. mid 30's, she dropped the height requirement and looks. Just wealthy remained by her 40's. I asked my friend what the girl had to bring to the table, and she shrugged. She said her friend believed she deserved the man of her dreams, and the man would get to have her.

  • @fabsmaster5309
    @fabsmaster5309 25 дней назад +43

    Those income brackets were households, not individuals. Only 6% of individuals earn a salary over $100k.

    • @SnabbKassa
      @SnabbKassa 23 дня назад +3

      77,000 pounds. Peanuts -- anywhere south of Northampton.

    • @exchangAscribe
      @exchangAscribe 12 дней назад +1

      plus, im pretty sure it was all earners. so a good portion of those making 100k + were woman.

  • @armandoguerra7658
    @armandoguerra7658 25 дней назад +26

    “Deserve-maxing” is HILARIOUS, you hear what they say, and we just go, if you deserve that, I deserve the world

  • @NicholasBrakespear
    @NicholasBrakespear 19 дней назад +2

    I got married this year. One of the things that made me realise her value? She saw mine, when there was no payout in sight.
    High quality women invest their entire value in long-term growth.
    Low quality women try to gamble on short-term gains, squandering their value with each superficial bet.

  • @jcerasmus4707
    @jcerasmus4707 25 дней назад +32

    So they believe that all women deserve a fictional type of man who doesn't actually exist?

    • @gavinjohn3545
      @gavinjohn3545 25 дней назад +12

      She said it herself... "Men written by women" were in the deserve box.

    • @willshad
      @willshad 25 дней назад +3

      That's exactly the main problem with the dating market, especially dating apps. The already know that no man will ever be good enough for them, yet they go on the app anyway.

    • @willshad
      @willshad 23 дня назад

      Maybe we can bring Christian Grey to life and clone him a few billion times.

  • @unlimitededitionpepe5489
    @unlimitededitionpepe5489 25 дней назад +72

    I’ve heard whispers of a hidden fourth axis-'deserve'-but it’s so elusive, no one’s ever been able to see it...

    • @dotand0
      @dotand0 25 дней назад

      how would you even visualize a fourth axis exactly?

    • @cn0119
      @cn0119 25 дней назад +5

      Quaternions

    • @howzittoyah
      @howzittoyah 25 дней назад

      @@dotand0Look up "tesseract".

    • @Marcara081
      @Marcara081 25 дней назад +2

      'Deserve' used to be codified in the ancient codex known as 'marriage contract' where both parties had obligations to the other.

    • @Kritikanbringer
      @Kritikanbringer 22 дня назад

      It's the attraction dimension they cannot grasp or do not want to investigate at all.

  • @jeremiahfix5529
    @jeremiahfix5529 25 дней назад +4

    2:47 I have this hunch, and this the first time I watched the video she is about to unconsciously break her own rules.

  • @moliomotiejus6412
    @moliomotiejus6412 25 дней назад +42

    Imagine how we learned from history about medical procedures that washing your hands before doing medical operations increased the likelihood of survivability "I mean how could they NOT KNOW this was happening!"
    Yeah.....that's what we are witnessing right now before our very eyes

    • @conradmills4977
      @conradmills4977 23 дня назад +2

      The really funny thing about that one is that there was a surgeon who made that exact observation 200 ish years before washing hands became the obvious thing to do: he was locked in an insane asylum and died there for trying to get people to do what they should have been doing all along.
      There are no parallels. None.

    • @NicholasBrakespear
      @NicholasBrakespear 19 дней назад +1

      What's really depressing though... is having learned this, we had major outbreaks of "superbugs" because doctors in the 21st century weren't washing their hands...
      Knowing a thing != practicing a thing, sadly.

  • @inversepie6512
    @inversepie6512 25 дней назад +67

    Dont forget all the short men need not apply to begin with lol

    • @filmbuff4
      @filmbuff4 25 дней назад +10

      didn't used to be like that. I'm 5'6 and had no trouble dating until the past couple years.

    • @Brent-z2s
      @Brent-z2s 25 дней назад +6

      I have heard women call men 5 foot 11 short.

    • @dearthditch
      @dearthditch 25 дней назад +1

      Tinder and online dating. They scan your QR code and swipe you away. Used to actually meet people in real life and talk to them

    • @haydn-db8z
      @haydn-db8z 25 дней назад +1

      @@Brent-z2s Jesus, are these women Amazons?

    • @forasago
      @forasago 25 дней назад +3

      @@haydn-db8z Nope, just wearing heels.

  • @rumorcontrol7873
    @rumorcontrol7873 24 дня назад +4

    Ironically the best solution to all of women's problems is focusing social programs on solving men's needs so that more men end up in the "green" categories for women to choose from, but that would be giving resources to men which seems taboo.

  • @Crimsonfangg
    @Crimsonfangg 25 дней назад +48

    3:19 Wait, whats wrong with hockey players? She didnt even say athletes. This girl is wearing her trauma on her sleeve.

    • @kevinkearns7719
      @kevinkearns7719 24 дня назад +10

      @Crimsonfangg she also listed Republicans. The majority of men vote GOP. So if you have a problem with that, you are are already cutting yourself off to over half the population of men.

    • @Crimsonfangg
      @Crimsonfangg 24 дня назад +1

      @@kevinkearns7719 I don't really care about someone having a political preference. It's important to have aligning values. I do typically find that they really don't care if they're attracted to the guy, though.

    • @kevinkearns7719
      @kevinkearns7719 24 дня назад +1

      @@Crimsonfangg I agree entirely. Aligning values matter. And yes, if the guy is attractive enough, it won't matter.

  • @jacobwiren8142
    @jacobwiren8142 25 дней назад +51

    Less than 3 minutes in, seen only snippets of the original video, and this already has "Have you tried not being poor?" energy to it.

  • @FUNKOfilms
    @FUNKOfilms 25 дней назад +13

    The fact that she put Republicans in the "yuck" quadrant shows that she isn't learning anything. If she wants a traditional guy (a husband) she's not going to find one.

  • @BrettonRaymond
    @BrettonRaymond 25 дней назад +15

    Most of my male friends who are doctors and lawyers met their wives when they were broke students. Many of their now-wives paid for all of their living expenses when they were in medical/law school. Some of those women even worked two jobs to write 30k tuition checks to their law school. These women picked struggle guys and ran every mile of the race with them. Now they are married to top 1% income-earners. Just a thought

    • @archstanton9073
      @archstanton9073 25 дней назад +4

      What do you call a person who finished last in their class at medical school? Doctor. Women who date medical or law students know that their potential husbands are going to make 6 figures regardless so are willing to put in the effort.

    • @Correction-zl2oe
      @Correction-zl2oe 25 дней назад

      cool cool only if that were going to be replicated oh wait it wont but thanks for stopping by to lend men false hope so that more men will become that 80% women divorce stat lol are you proud of yourself little buddy ?!

    • @BrettonRaymond
      @BrettonRaymond 11 дней назад +1

      @@archstanton9073 Sure. My point however, was that these women who married these doctors and lawyers didn’t just “date” them. These women “supported” them. Emotionally and sometimes financially in huge ways. That’s why they have a man who can support them in a big way financially now. Dating takes minimal effort. Paying all the bills for you and your partner for multiple years while they go to school is a big sacrifice. There’s a reason those men keep them for the big payoff. Most women seem to believe they deserve the payoff but for having done nothing.

  • @Thumplepuss
    @Thumplepuss 25 дней назад +94

    this channel deserves more subs

    • @Private.eye.007
      @Private.eye.007 25 дней назад +3

      absolutely

    • @ViolosD2I
      @ViolosD2I 25 дней назад +3

      And it actually did something to justify that statement!

  • @samueljardine3402
    @samueljardine3402 25 дней назад +3

    8 seconds into their matrix and they say they deserve something that doesn't exist. Modern women, everybody.

  • @Jibbzz
    @Jibbzz 25 дней назад +34

    I loathe when ppl say 'deserve' for anything. Especially just for existing. Fucking earn it. Want a good partner? Earn them by being worthy of them.

    • @Correction-zl2oe
      @Correction-zl2oe 25 дней назад +1

      sorry buddy boy all men could be jesus christ character trump money and henry cavill looks and it would increase decent women .00001 % lol

  • @ravenmcfann8280
    @ravenmcfann8280 25 дней назад +30

    You could break it down with extensive research and studies that women are always happier with 5' dudes but they'll still believe they deserve 6+. Great work here I just wish it landed with the target audience more.

    • @GlutenSensitivityReader
      @GlutenSensitivityReader 25 дней назад +4

      "happier" means "less-stressed".....which ALSO means LESS TURNED ON.
      "We the SIMPosium on Current Year dating have thoroughly thoroughed our conclusions and have arrived at the absolute truth that hot women need simps in their lives and that's good news for us."
      Well damn, Eugene, you were really thorough. I guess that means you're right.

  • @DavidAVest
    @DavidAVest 20 дней назад +2

    "All women deserve someone great." If she can't even be objective about women, how the hell can she be about men?