badlinu shares his story of sexual assault

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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @karlsfloof
    @karlsfloof  10 месяцев назад +98

    this is a CUT DOWN (summary kind of) version of freddie's twitch stream :)

    • @KyndalJune
      @KyndalJune 7 месяцев назад +3

      Is the stream still up?

    • @karlsfloof
      @karlsfloof  7 месяцев назад +8

      @@KyndalJune it's not, sorry :(

  • @icanseeyoulooking
    @icanseeyoulooking 10 месяцев назад +408

    the narrative that men cannot get SA'd is the worst narrative that someone has ever produced and if anyone thinks that then they are silencing victims that need support and help to recover because being SA'd is one of the most violating feelings you can ever feel. Much love to him and I hope that it gets better for him really soon.

    • @karlsfloof
      @karlsfloof  10 месяцев назад +12

      absolutely ❤️

  • @Ozzie_drawz
    @Ozzie_drawz 10 месяцев назад +190

    I’m so proud of him. Sharing this kind of stuff is really hard to talk about especially if it was your own experience. I’m glad that he finally was able to talk about this and I hope he’s doing well. He did amazing at the show as well

  • @elliottzz
    @elliottzz 5 месяцев назад +91

    ‘he looked me in the eyes and smiled’ that absolutely broke me.. :(

  • @channel_lunar
    @channel_lunar 5 месяцев назад +174

    "i never spoke about it because im a guy" absolutely breaks my heart

  • @askept5
    @askept5 7 месяцев назад +204

    I had no idea about this until now. I only ever heard about Shubble and Wilbur and Caiti and George. I'm so so upset at how this hadn't been brought forward and spoken about. I love Freddie so so much. He's so brave.

    • @Smirashinde0811
      @Smirashinde0811 7 месяцев назад +1

      Ikr same

    • @IVY_LVJY
      @IVY_LVJY 6 месяцев назад +1

      Same, but I only found it just now..

    • @socire72
      @socire72 5 месяцев назад +20

      Except Caiti lied and Shubble provided no evidence. (But it still could be true - we don’t know yet). Remember, Aimsey spoke out in support of those two yet stayed silent for Freddie. Misandrist.

    • @IVY_LVJY
      @IVY_LVJY 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@socire72 exactly.

    • @deseuryderia
      @deseuryderia 3 месяца назад +11

      @@socire72gotta love aimsey for screaming into their webcam about a faker with 0 evidence except “just trust me bro” but radio silence for the man who isn’t even pointing fingers and is just sharing his experience. i wonder how aimsey still has fans considering how much of a hypocrite they are, not even mentioning how unfunny they are.

  • @cool-kitigital-185
    @cool-kitigital-185 5 месяцев назад +106

    I was internally crying until “ he smiled “ I’m sobbing now

  • @mysterygal268
    @mysterygal268 5 месяцев назад +76

    For anyone who thinks he did the wrong thing by not pushing the guy off, the three natural instincts are fight, flight, and freez. You cant really choose which one you do. He is extremely brave for even talking about this. Men can and do get assulted, not just women.

    • @karlsfloof
      @karlsfloof  5 месяцев назад +7

      @@mysterygal268 SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK ‼️❤️

    • @Sky_Iz_Simp
      @Sky_Iz_Simp 3 месяца назад +2

      *freeze
      (Sry ik this is serious but you spelled 'freeze' wrong ;w;)

    • @mysterygal268
      @mysterygal268 3 месяца назад +1

      @Silly_Stupid_Goofball thanks I didn't even notice, I've corrected it now

  • @kaidenlequeer
    @kaidenlequeer 5 месяцев назад +57

    Seeing Freddie upset is like seeing a puppy get hit. It's heart breaking

  • @SoapQueen-yp3cq
    @SoapQueen-yp3cq 5 месяцев назад +72

    Oh my god. This is heartbreaking to see, especially that he said “I felt like I couldn’t say anything cuz I’m a guy” this is something that has to change in society. Anyone can get sexually assaulted regardless of their gender.

    • @karlsfloof
      @karlsfloof  5 месяцев назад

      @@SoapQueen-yp3cq preach

  • @calthesilliest
    @calthesilliest Месяц назад +16

    the way freddie didnt wanna talk about it because hes a guy breaks my heart hes such a sweet person he deserves sm :(

  • @supporting_alieninvasion
    @supporting_alieninvasion 5 месяцев назад +44

    ‘He smiled’ broke me, I love Freddie, he didn’t deserve any of that and he’s so brave to come forward with the story, he’s done so well. The stereotype that men can’t get Sa’d makes me feel sick.
    Sending love and support ❤❤❤❤

  • @Rentheworld
    @Rentheworld Месяц назад +23

    For anyone:
    He is brave.
    It’s okay to not talk about the details - there are ways to process without talking about it.
    Even if you were black out drunk, it wasn’t okay. But you’re okay. And you didn’t deserve it.
    And if you haven’t shared your story, you are still SO BRAVE. You are so fucking brave.

  • @L0N3LY_DANC3R
    @L0N3LY_DANC3R 10 месяцев назад +139

    man can and do get SA’d too!!!!!! LOVE FOR BADLINU 🩷🩷
    seeing him cry breaks my heart

  • @Lily-ko4jz
    @Lily-ko4jz 15 дней назад +15

    This actually brought me to tears. Especially when he started crying. It's so sad that people have to go through this!

  • @dronkenducks
    @dronkenducks 2 месяца назад +49

    "I've heard so many brave people speak about their stories, and all i could think about was mine and how I never spoke about it." ...
    Is so heartbreaking but so unbelievably important for people to hear and understand. THAT is why representation, and people being given a platform to speak up is SO important. It gives others comfort and confidence.
    Love Freddie. I hope he finds closure and peace🩷

  • @Bee_BAY.
    @Bee_BAY. 5 месяцев назад +53

    Seeing Freddie cry, it’s breaking my heart, And no one should ever go through that. But Freddie is so brave to talk about this

  • @sandragarvey1217
    @sandragarvey1217 25 дней назад +7

    This breaks my heart I feel so bad for him ,the “he smiled” really crushed me I hope he can get better and this never happens to him again love for badlinu

  • @swagasaurus64
    @swagasaurus64 5 месяцев назад +23

    being able to talk abt smth like this in itself is so brave. it makes me sick to my stomach that freddie went through this, and still be such an amazing human being.

  • @LaineyRitchie
    @LaineyRitchie Месяц назад +11

    we all moved on too quick from Freddie's story :(( I love Fred and nobody in this world deserves this and it's never ever your fault

  • @ImSoHappyImSoSad
    @ImSoHappyImSoSad 9 месяцев назад +99

    I’m a little late but I am so proud of Freddie, he had the confidence to come out. I fully support him. I hate the stereotype that men can’t get SA’d. It’s not true. Everyone can be, men can be sexualized just as much as women. Although at this time women are mainly sexualized, catcalled, etc. anyone can be in situations like this. Men and women could even do it. The fact that people dare to say “Only women can get sexualized!” And more it wrong, I am a woman and have been sexualized yet I’ve seen men get sexualized in some way. Normalize what men can go through, not every man is over 6 feet, has a family, is tough, emotionless, and the stereotypical man. Men can be feminine, can cry, get sexualized. Men can speak up I fully support Freddie. He does not deserve what happened to him.
    I experienced a similar situation (obviously not the same, but I feel bad for Freddie) he handled it very maturely, sending lots of love.

    • @karlsfloof
      @karlsfloof  9 месяцев назад +7

      SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 🙌
      so sorry u had to go through anything like that at all luv, proud of u

    • @ImSoHappyImSoSad
      @ImSoHappyImSoSad 9 месяцев назад +4

      @@karlsfloof TYSM🩷

  • @FishSaladdd
    @FishSaladdd 5 месяцев назад +19

    I’m just now hearing about his story, i honestly had no idea he went through what he did, he’s such an amazing person and deserves to be happy and shouldn’t be shamed and be afraid to speak out. Freddie is such an amazing creator and I hope he’s getting better about what happened.

  • @Evie25262
    @Evie25262 4 месяца назад +11

    seeing him cry made me cry. it breaks my heart so much 😢 ur so brave freddie ❤❤

  • @Miaou_In_Your_Pants
    @Miaou_In_Your_Pants 4 месяца назад +13

    Seeing Freddie cry feels so odd and so so heartbreaking. I can feel exactly how he felt, the feeling that you're gross and disgusting after sa

  • @Suri-ph5jf
    @Suri-ph5jf 6 месяцев назад +19

    I never knew this happened to him. No one should go through this. He’s really strong for coming out and talking about his experience❤

  • @korpse.drawss
    @korpse.drawss 3 месяца назад +11

    sexual assault can happen to men too. freddie is honestly so brave for sharing his story. i feel terrible for him. i’m so glad that he’s finally able to open up about it, because it can really help. he didn’t deserve that ❤

  • @shamrous7368
    @shamrous7368 7 месяцев назад +20

    Oh my god...
    Freddie you've done a great job expressing your experience. You're so cool, man, it's very brave and it was worth to talk about it. Men have to be careful with themselves too - damn, everyone have! There's so much manipulative and disgusting people outside - be sure you'll keep yourself far from them.
    Sorry that I saw this story so late but I hope you're doing well now, Freddie

  • @nikolie_
    @nikolie_ 5 месяцев назад +7

    This is really making me sad. I didn't know thay Freddie got into this situation too and it's really breaking my heart. Yes, sadly SA was always here, but I still feel like there's only more and more and more cases. I hope everyone who were SA are safe now and are doing better. It's disgusting how some people still treat others as some they can fo whatever with. Hope anyone who reads this is safe and no one deserves to go through this experience. Stay safe, everyone✊🏻🙏🏻

  • @athomesuperhero
    @athomesuperhero 7 месяцев назад +40

    I hate how people just ignore this because he is a guy. It’s unfair.

    • @karlsfloof
      @karlsfloof  7 месяцев назад +4

      #freddiesupportsquad

  • @swagsometimes
    @swagsometimes 8 часов назад

    never felt like i could talk about the major thing that happened to me because the guy was younger then me, I felt like it was/is my fault bc I coul dhave stopped him. freddie talkign about this makes me realize that it isnt my fault just because of one factor. hes giving me the confidence I need to start talking to trusted people about this. love freddie, and love you all. thank you for posting this summary.

    • @karlsfloof
      @karlsfloof  8 часов назад +2

      @swagsometimes absolutely. i'm so glad it made you realize it wasn't your fault, because sa is never your fault! i'm so sorry you went through that, but i'm so proud of you for being so strong, and i'm so glad you can see that nothing was ever even a little bit your fault. ❤️❤️

  • @Marsxx87654
    @Marsxx87654 5 месяцев назад +7

    Im just now seeing this and seeing freddie cry makes me cry

  • @peakae44
    @peakae44 3 месяца назад +5

    You're so brave by sharing your hurt. Hope you have received much love from your friends and viewers. (I saw the stuffed bear you were cuddling with on the Brussels tour}. I think everyone needs one sometimes. Warm greetings from Paul, (in the US}.

  • @MeLoriaYT
    @MeLoriaYT 6 месяцев назад +12

    Poor Freddie... He's so brave... ;-; No one deserves t go through this, EVER

  • @SCHERMERHORN230
    @SCHERMERHORN230 2 месяца назад +12

    i HATE how people think men can’t get SA’D. It’s complete bullshit.

  • @Jayce_editzz
    @Jayce_editzz 23 дня назад +5

    Ngl, I feel so bad for Freddie :( like Ik he said it happened a while ago. But I sticks with you forever.

  • @gaya3sree
    @gaya3sree 2 часа назад

    When you said 'I froze', I felt it. A lot of people don't know what 'I froze' means ... It is like fear and dissociation together ... It is truly horrible. All I can say is that it does get better. It did for me.

  • @Sky_Iz_Simp
    @Sky_Iz_Simp 8 месяцев назад +27

    Oh theres something i wanna say to those victims i just wanna let y'all know it's not y'all's fault that the person hurt you don't blame y'all selves for someone who can't keep their hands to themselves and also i just wanna say y'all are strong and don't blame y'all selves for the person who can't keep them hands to themselves
    And Freddie if you see this (and this goes to all victims too) you are very brave and very strong and don't blame yourself for the mate who can't keep their hands to themselves and stay safe mate and don't forget it's not your fault that the mate can't keep their hands to themselves and as i said you are strong, brave and very kind and stay safe
    - Sky (aka the dumb goat)

  • @Sky_Iz_Simp
    @Sky_Iz_Simp 9 месяцев назад +33

    i feel awful for Freddie :'[

  • @D4NI-THAT-PLAYS
    @D4NI-THAT-PLAYS 23 дня назад +3

    i hope he gets the love he needs and he didnt deserve that :(

  • @nahmate_
    @nahmate_ 7 месяцев назад +13

    I feel so bad i just hope hes better ans he is so so brave

  • @wilthegoogoobie
    @wilthegoogoobie 5 месяцев назад +12

    poor guy.. :(
    its so unfair how people think men cant get SA'd/r4p3d/abused/ect. men victims shouldnt be silenced, its so unfair..

  • @joanniedoodles324
    @joanniedoodles324 6 месяцев назад +18

    WHO THE FUCKING HELL HURT THIS POOR MAN

  • @7Maxine7
    @7Maxine7 6 месяцев назад +12

    I'm so fucking sad that I only figured out that a handful of the dsmp members (+friends of them like Freddie) have been sa'd or abused (like in Shubbles case). Humanity is horrible.

  • @nxvrk
    @nxvrk 6 месяцев назад +6

    =( nobody deserves this, I’m so sorry, stay strong

  • @marriottxoxoTT-
    @marriottxoxoTT- 5 месяцев назад +7

    I could not stop crying when I saw him crying

  • @Dsmpfan-ze5gx
    @Dsmpfan-ze5gx 2 месяца назад +3

    Were here for you Freddie 😢🩷 its alright

  • @Quartz_Rain
    @Quartz_Rain 5 месяцев назад +9

    my heart hurts 😭

  • @ellaturner6995
    @ellaturner6995 6 месяцев назад +9

    You’re so brave Freddie! We’re proud of you

  • @ladiesbug
    @ladiesbug 4 месяца назад +4

    i can’t believe i’m just now finding out about this :(

  • @MillieMoore-rk8cc
    @MillieMoore-rk8cc 8 месяцев назад +12

    I feel really bad😭😭😭

  • @MillieMoore-rk8cc
    @MillieMoore-rk8cc 8 месяцев назад +11

    Freddie oh my god😭😭🥱

  • @temp4642
    @temp4642 3 часа назад

    i didnt expect to cry i feel so bad :(

  • @knives1705
    @knives1705 8 месяцев назад +13

    What’s the stuff he keeps talking about happening within the community?

    • @karlsfloof
      @karlsfloof  8 месяцев назад +11

      i would imagine he's referring to the shubble/wilbur stuff that's been going on

  • @byebyemotherflappers
    @byebyemotherflappers 10 месяцев назад +30

    :(
    Ive got no other words just :(

  • @robertmclean590
    @robertmclean590 Месяц назад +1

    He's absolutely brave.

  • @susannestiltz6340
    @susannestiltz6340 4 месяца назад +4

    Man what is wrong with people

  • @Ziv.M
    @Ziv.M 28 дней назад +1