1. 👄💋I WAS THE SIDE CHICK & DIDN’T KNOW IT!!! 😩💔 HE LIED TO ME TOO | Fumi Desalu-Vold

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  • Опубликовано: 10 ноя 2024

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  • @sugababe971
    @sugababe971 3 года назад +494

    I had never thought about the fact that being well put together for an event was to show appreciation and support to our loved ones... Thank you for this, Fumi!

    • @sweetspice9120
      @sweetspice9120 3 года назад +67

      Yes it is a sign of respect. We are taught in Africa to dress well when visiting ppl because it means we have regard for them

    • @FumiDesaluVold
      @FumiDesaluVold  3 года назад +68

      You're so welcome darling. You are a part of a tribe wether you know it or not, and you are depended upon when u show up in full force. You are their ARMOUR.

    • @sugababe971
      @sugababe971 3 года назад +30

      @@FumiDesaluVold That is deep! I always dress well as a sign of respect towards me and towards others. But I was never going full force fearing that it might be perceived as arrogance, showing off,... Maybe because I've never been embraced as a member of a tribe. Now I know better

    • @whatnot798
      @whatnot798 3 года назад +3

      @@sweetspice9120 very true.

    • @thequeenmidas
      @thequeenmidas 3 года назад +13

      This is correct. Respect the other person with your put togetherness🙌🏿✨

  • @BarbB56
    @BarbB56 3 года назад +139

    I am a 65 year old white woman. I have loved watching your makeup tutorials and listening to the sound advice you give. Thank you Fumi for your hard work. Xx

  • @veronicadaeh2336
    @veronicadaeh2336 Год назад +17

    Fumi you could really do well with giving Charm classes not just to girls but women who never was taught etiquette, Self-worth, Feminity, Class. You are a doll and role model. 🌹

  • @thickbrownlegs1859
    @thickbrownlegs1859 3 года назад +200

    It’s the lying tongue for me. I hate liars!! Be honest so I can make a decision, don’t take my decision away from me.

  • @dr-k1667
    @dr-k1667 3 года назад +368

    Fumi is helping women while looking like WONDER WOMAN in this episode. I am happy to see the support for women who were betrayed and for the advice. We must support our sisters and brothers who stand for what is right.

  • @Ashas.Garden
    @Ashas.Garden 3 года назад +259

    “That’s below me.” Simple, concise and reflects the full measure of her own high self-esteem. ❤️ No additional words needed.

    • @calitomms22
      @calitomms22 3 года назад +15

      I feel the same way, it is beneath me to be dating somebody else sloppy seconds.🤮🤮

    • @miscyjay4450
      @miscyjay4450 3 года назад +8

      Well said!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Waridi23
      @Waridi23 3 года назад +10

      This has always been how I feel and I always tell guys the same thing. I cannot be number two. You cannot subject me to nonsense drama just for your enjoyment. Hell no!

    • @trudy_triad
      @trudy_triad 2 года назад +5

      When I tell you I snapped my fingers and clapped for her when she said this. I am in Chech everytime I tune into this RUclips channel. 😆

  • @reitaebohon7853
    @reitaebohon7853 3 года назад +35

    Did I not know a guy who rented an apartment like he wasn't attached elsewhere.... he was only on a break from the home. I knew after 2 years when moving forward seemed impossible. Fummi, some of them have PHD in this matter.

  • @ujunwaaniere9798
    @ujunwaaniere9798 Год назад +18

    I know this video is old but I must admit that you are one of the positive impacts of social media ❤

  • @tashamonetformulations
    @tashamonetformulations 3 года назад +57

    Fumi I could listen to your stories for hours. It's not the stories themselves , it's your way of telling them

  • @Jaidzeka36
    @Jaidzeka36 3 года назад +124

    I also think it's absurd for people to date someone who is separated from their spouse. It just seems wrong because things aren't finalized

    • @Khangel
      @Khangel 2 года назад +3

      Although I would agree with you in general, in my situation, we were both separated over 1 year. We have been married 18 years.

    • @KimmiesKloset85
      @KimmiesKloset85 2 года назад +9

      I can see the point but sometimes divorces take forever (especially if someone purppselyn drags it out) and people are ready to move on with their lives. I wouldn't get with someone NEWLY separated though...it's too fresh and still within time to reconcile.

    • @egwthe1
      @egwthe1 Год назад +3

      This is absurd. I went through a divorce that took almost 3 years. So should I wait 3 years for someone else?

  • @AdaAtigogo
    @AdaAtigogo 3 года назад +46

    When I look at you, I told myself, It is not late to get the kind of life I want. You are always saying it the way it is , my daughter is going to college and encourage her to watch your videos because there is a lot to learn.

  • @garnellwallace5594
    @garnellwallace5594 3 года назад +176

    Fumi you are giving us The Young and the Restless, The Bold and Beautiful, Days of our Lives, Loving, One Life to Live, Passions, and All My Children with these episodes! I'm on the edge of my seat eating peanuts and hanging on every word. Your life is a Tellenovella and we live for it!

  • @theugandanvillagewife6647
    @theugandanvillagewife6647 3 года назад +24

    RIP my dear #Husband you respected me from the start despite being in LDR to begin with you didn't expect cookies even after we physically met and waited till we both said I do. I miss you so much and always proud of you. Sleep well my babes 💓

  • @gldnglow
    @gldnglow 3 года назад +82

    I'm on the floor at 11 mins in. 😂 We're about the same age and once I moved out, it was ingrained in me to always meet a date out. Do not let him come to your house until you know him well.

  • @DanaConquersBoutique
    @DanaConquersBoutique 3 года назад +142

    Nooooo, Fumi you kill me with these cliffhangers 😭 but I love that you make us wait also. Beautiful look and I can’t wait to find out how you tried to help uplift Mrs Tony.

    • @Beyond50Beauty
      @Beyond50Beauty 3 года назад +4

      @Dana Foster, I KNOWWWWW, right? And we fall for it EVERY time ;-)

    • @summerslotus1109
      @summerslotus1109 3 года назад +2

      Don't SHE!!! Lol

  • @lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663
    @lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663 3 года назад +176

    Fumi you are on point with this one. My Daddy ,Grandfather, Uncles and Male Cousins sat all of the Young Women in my family down and told us bring all Male suitors home so that they can size him up. They also said that Men can enjoy you, take a 🚿 and then its a wrap. This was wonderful for the young women to hear💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤

    • @cynthiacarr2093
      @cynthiacarr2093 3 года назад +9

      Older Women Too! 😁❤👸🏾💯💯💯💯👍🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥

    • @rahabhenderson2480
      @rahabhenderson2480 3 года назад +21

      I think that part of the issue so many of us don't have males to bring them home to..cause men will see thru other men and they can put you up on game..god bless the men in your life

    • @creolekween
      @creolekween 3 года назад +8

      You are so blessed to have men in your family who care for you. It brought a tear to my eye.

    • @achatwithgoitse
      @achatwithgoitse Год назад +1

      The men in your family are doing amazing. Transparency is really needed with these things

  • @jennifersterling4239
    @jennifersterling4239 3 года назад +44

    When you abstain you feel Empowers. I love that feel Fumi.

  • @katybug6572
    @katybug6572 3 года назад +105

    You’re honestly giving me the motivation to start looking good again ugh I’m being very very honest, I let myself go.. I used to have it ALLLLL on point, no matter what I was doing even just chillin at home I still had my hair nice n a cute yet comfy outfit.. now I’m just eh who cares anymore I’m 35 so blahhhh lol but honestly, I just found ur channel couple days ago and recently became single again- I think it’s time I turn my own FABULOSITY back on! Lol I dunno why I just put that all out there- but you are so honest yourself n I just had to tell you, your very inspiring.. not just great advice on the exterior beauty- but also on the inside, our interior beauty. You’re truly a Goddess and I’m so glad I found your channel Auntie! You’re just so awesome! Keep up the FABULOUSNESS!! Hehe XoXo 💜😉🙏🌸✌️👍❤️‍🔥

    • @amandaspaintinglessons9908
      @amandaspaintinglessons9908 3 года назад +13

      35 is YOUNG!!! You can do it!

    • @karmaisanillusion7307
      @karmaisanillusion7307 3 года назад +4

      I’m happy to hear your mind shift😊😊

    • @estherbeamsforaballad3342
      @estherbeamsforaballad3342 2 года назад +4

      Kind of late, but if that's you in your pfp, you're really pretty. As said in the video, don't let some guy's invalidation of you make you invalidate yourself. Plus 35 is still pretty young. Even the way you write is youthful 🎉🌹💕💞👗🍨🎄🧁🍿enjoy your youth and validate yourself 🥂💝❣

    • @teniaosayande6355
      @teniaosayande6355 2 года назад +2

      yes indeed. at 41 & single I'm doing the same. time to put that fabulousness in high gear!! 😘😘

    • @wordsbymaribeja1470
      @wordsbymaribeja1470 2 года назад

      @@teniaosayande6355 Same.

  • @estherbeamsforaballad3342
    @estherbeamsforaballad3342 3 года назад +36

    "He wants to be upset🙄😏 like I care 😌" hahaaa I love it😂😂

  • @aponteaida913
    @aponteaida913 3 года назад +17

    Instead of sleeping, I am here in NYC watching Auntie Fumi, she is just Fabulous. Thank you for being there and sharing your wisdom. May God bless you.

  • @shabanakhan507
    @shabanakhan507 3 года назад +46

    Fumi, you’re the greatest example of a feminist. You’re smart, funny and you support other women. Big hugs from Toronto xx

  • @dr-k1667
    @dr-k1667 3 года назад +57

    We have a new show in the Fumiverse. This is what the people need and the women want!

  • @blossom6235
    @blossom6235 3 года назад +51

    Fums, you really need to have your own round table talk show, this discussions is so helpful for girls who's going through this thing of being a side chick unknowingly or knowingly, thanks for sharing your experience with us, I can't wait for part two!!!!!!!!!

  • @blissowen4149
    @blissowen4149 3 года назад +61

    Aunty fums, you are a fantastic story teller, thank you for making my cold London evening worthwhile 🙏🏾

  • @consolatricemwanza4161
    @consolatricemwanza4161 3 года назад +15

    I love you Fumi. Your maturity, elegance, wonderful personality...goodness, you are a rare combination of all the good things.

  • @bahlemotshegoa4528
    @bahlemotshegoa4528 3 года назад +64

    "They are puppies, they'l do anything until they get the cookies"🤣🤣....i love it

  • @udegbebrothers6006
    @udegbebrothers6006 3 года назад +11

    I love the way Fumi tells her stories, you can actually visualize it. Can't wait for part 2.

  • @janelleespinosa6247
    @janelleespinosa6247 3 года назад +40

    If I only had a good friend like you in my life when I was dating. You just make everything make sense, plus you have a good sense of your worth, so important!

  • @carolpettersen114
    @carolpettersen114 2 года назад +8

    Fumi, I think you found your niche in these Sister 2 Sister videos! They are soooo good! It's like having a big Sister looking out for you!

  • @rosieking383
    @rosieking383 3 года назад +11

    Guys do this all the time. I was a victim of this too... When I confronted him about why he lied, his response was, "I knew you wouldn't accept me, so I lied!" So damn selfish!!!! Me too, I'm now #TeamAbstinence... Thank you, Fumi. ♥ I thought I had something wrong with me because I can't handle being a side whatever! Same reason. I find it rather disgusting! Love you, Fumi!

  • @fashionandluxury101
    @fashionandluxury101 3 года назад +55

    Where were you 20 years ago when I needed a friend like you! ❤️listen up young people; these are words of wisdom!!
    This is better than a Netflix series!

    • @veniestagourdine3881
      @veniestagourdine3881 2 года назад

      Agree 110%
      It’s as if she’s narrating a book. I’m all in .

  • @kirbiejohnson4475
    @kirbiejohnson4475 3 года назад +6

    lol, i was ALL IN and you said "that's for part 2" NOOO! I luv these S2S, everything you are saying is EXACTLY, EXACTLY what my momma told me. I'm stunned even in causal relationships women give a part of them to a man, who moves on and wonder why we can't "find" the right man. As my momma used to say "it's a man's job to find you, and if he wait to long to put a ring on it move on, but don't jump in the bed with him" Thanks, Fumi

  • @papamamatthews9210
    @papamamatthews9210 3 года назад +78

    "It is below me. I feel like I'm that fabulous..." I wish all females felt that way about themselves

    • @zenobiahood6969
      @zenobiahood6969 3 года назад +1

      Some know not how to achieve it! I'd love to have that gift.

    • @God.sDaughter
      @God.sDaughter 2 года назад +1

      Stop calling w0men females.

  • @marjanarif8231
    @marjanarif8231 3 года назад +11

    Glad you are encouraging women to take care of themselves for their own mental and physical health.

  • @estherbeamsforaballad3342
    @estherbeamsforaballad3342 3 года назад +23

    "It's below me" 💎 once you found out! Yes! That's how I feel about it too. Thank Jesus He has allowed me feel this way. I don't know how some women feel good dating other women's husbands. I really think they feel special like they're catering their nurturing services to these creatures. But it just feels spiritually unclean to me. To each their own, I guess.

  • @bfeltonwilson1
    @bfeltonwilson1 3 года назад +7

    I totally agree, if you don't see yourself as the jewel you are...neither will he! Make him wait--if he loves you--he will stay if he only wants to get into your pants, he will leave when he realizes you're better than he deserves. It's old fashioned but it does work.

    • @arcoiris890
      @arcoiris890 Год назад

      Yep, I believe in no sex until marriage, because of situations like this. My bf has been waiting for me for 4 yrs. He knows if he really wants me, not use me, what he needs to do.

  • @carmelozimba9554
    @carmelozimba9554 3 года назад +43

    Fumi Fumi how can you do us like that!!😂WHAT a cliffhanger! !Can't wait for the next episode!So much wisdom.Bless you

  • @CommonSenseSisters
    @CommonSenseSisters 3 года назад +27

    "You need to stick with the guidelines because in that retrospect you will get your clarity" what a commonsensical 👏🏽statement you've made Fabulous Fumi❤️ we look forward to part 2....... your makeup 💄 & hair is gorgeous 😘

  • @chiakwamary2919
    @chiakwamary2919 3 года назад +26

    The make up was fabulous but the energy more fabulous, I love you Aunty Fumi, Thanks a million times
    Am really learning from your videos both make-up tutorial and Sister to Sister. I have had such experience from men . You know what? We learn everyday

  • @therealconqueror1373
    @therealconqueror1373 3 года назад +26

    These stories are juicy yet quite motivating and empowering...lessons being learnt and making better choices so we don't need to deal with heart breaks

  • @kimivey285
    @kimivey285 3 года назад +16

    My goodness Fumi!! You know how the kids gather around for story time sitting Indian style? That’s me in my mind and saying awwwwww when you said stay tuned for part II. 😂 You are classy at al times and I love it!!

  • @moonbeam7815
    @moonbeam7815 3 года назад +10

    Thank you so much, for always giving it to us straight and for being so real, with us. It's the Oxytocin. You know, that "bonding hormone. You've heard about it, Auntie. The hormone that binds a mother to her baby, is the same hormone that binds a woman to her male partner, when they are physically intimate and body fluids are exchanged. And THAT is why and what makes it emotionally difficult for women to detach, or walk away. But Aunt Fumi, you already knew all of this. Just a gentle reminder

    • @blessingsbest6838
      @blessingsbest6838 2 года назад +1

      I have learnt about Oxytocin very well and yes so true!

  • @dr-k1667
    @dr-k1667 3 года назад +10

    Cliffhanger!!! I'll be back for part 2! Believe it!

  • @pennyarmstrong309
    @pennyarmstrong309 3 года назад +11

    I absolutely love Fumi, her show is so real, and on point. Peace my sister keep blessing and sending your beautiful light out we really need you.

  • @tammi67able
    @tammi67able 2 года назад +1

    Amén To everything you said! So beautiful and wise! You said you were thin then you thin now, you look fabulous! God bless you!

  • @Jujulocs88
    @Jujulocs88 3 года назад +13

    Fumi, your laugh is magical. You're such an amazing woman. I love your stories ♡♡♡ and what you said about Armenians makes so much sense. Kim Kardashian is of Armenian descent and she only dates African American men. I now understand why.

  • @TeeBoss_Empire
    @TeeBoss_Empire 3 года назад +14

    Hi mama, my family and I are watching and we’re all sending our regards from Nigeria

  • @agelessrestyling
    @agelessrestyling 3 года назад +19

    Fumi I was sitting on the edge of my chair for this story time, can’t wait to see part two.

  • @estherbeamsforaballad3342
    @estherbeamsforaballad3342 3 года назад +7

    This might be a random comment with such a serious topic but I love🥰 the unintentional sounds you create with your makeup palettes/cases as you talk to us. They give some nice tingles☺️

  • @Ralynva
    @Ralynva 3 года назад +5

    It's amazing that you're sharing this story. I just was saying to my colleague about concerns she was having with a gentleman. I expressed my concerns about the health risk that he can cause with unprotected sex or having multiple partners.. that point was an on-time message for ME!!! Love you sister/friend!!

  • @savvyfeminist4700
    @savvyfeminist4700 3 года назад +66

    "it's below me to date another girl's sloppy seconds" now that needs to be on your merch!
    You better preach Fumi.

  • @TheParadisebird
    @TheParadisebird Месяц назад

    This make up is my most favorite of all you ever did. It's so timleess, so classy, so beautiful. It works now, would have worked 20 years ago and will works in 20 years. Love it!!!!

  • @susandoyle1177
    @susandoyle1177 3 года назад +8

    If any woman dislikes this probably the side chick and they know it.
    I love these stories ❤️❤️❤️

  • @BetsysH0pe
    @BetsysH0pe 3 года назад +13

    Sis, your show is amazing - I really needed to hear this. My fabulosity level is quite low right now, but I’m going to work on it, you have inspired me. Much love xx

  • @breatherepeat
    @breatherepeat 3 года назад +3

    So much wisdom packed into 33 minutes.... Fumi! You're a blessing.

  • @kamenterpriz3439
    @kamenterpriz3439 3 года назад +9

    Sis, Fumi. I loved it. But at my age, I can't be given cliffhangers. LOL!

  • @rukyakpowaye967
    @rukyakpowaye967 3 года назад +13

    Aunty Fumi, I came across your channel 3 weeks ago and I can say for a fact that I love you and everything you believe in. I wish I had met you earlier in life. But its never too late. Thank you for all these stories and advice on sister 2 sister they are changing lives.

  • @carlo9678
    @carlo9678 Год назад +1

    You, my darling, are the sister I never had - that I seriously do wish that I had! Love you!

  • @ingridauko3900
    @ingridauko3900 3 года назад +13

    Love from Kenya, aunty Fumi keep, keeping us on track, I love you 💕

  • @moonbeam7815
    @moonbeam7815 3 года назад +4

    I LOVE to hear you speak. Love your voice, love your accent, love the way you pronounce your words and WE LOVE your sweet pouty way you use your lips to form your words. You are so loving and so, so lovable!

  • @olufunkeo8576
    @olufunkeo8576 3 года назад +10

    You tell your stories so beautifully and I love the life you bring into every detail. I love the overall look...drips fabulosity. Thank you for sharing real life stories and makeup tutorials. I look forward to the next episode. I love you Aunt Fumi Desalu-Vold ❤️💝🌺🌹🤩🙌🏽👌

  • @patriciawhitten3298
    @patriciawhitten3298 3 года назад +4

    You are the queen of cliffhangers. Wow, can hardly wait for part II.

  • @soniairak80
    @soniairak80 3 года назад +3

    Hahaha I love this woman, her stories are EVERYTHING. I just discovered this channel like a wekk ago and I can’t get enough

  • @gretac85
    @gretac85 3 года назад +4

    Fumi !!!! You’re killing me with these cliffhangers ‼️😫😫😫 I love your channel and the makeup is as glamorous as ever. I love your laugh it’s magical, when I hear it I know you are getting ready to get real and raw. See you on the conclusion of part two!!!💕❤️♥️

  • @dubc04life
    @dubc04life 3 года назад +1

    Can you do a video on maintaining relationships with family abroad, like your adult child(ren) in the States? I'm 35 and will be dealing with this soon 😓

  • @pattikaymakcian1473
    @pattikaymakcian1473 3 года назад +6

    live for these story times sister to sister All so,I married a Arminian, bad news, he was a cheater ,physical abuser, went through hard times,But 15 yrs ago.i kicked him out the door

  • @lindalilajameelal.6011
    @lindalilajameelal.6011 3 года назад +2

    It is not arrogance. It is SELF-RESPECT!!! It is DIGNITY!!!
    Can't wait for part 2 🙂
    BTW, your story time is better than telenovelas. I am typical Caribbean. I really enjoy telenovelas 🤭

  • @tamikaqueen1203
    @tamikaqueen1203 3 года назад +1

    Liking this channel. Ladies do a back round check on that guy. Met this guy & I felt he was slick talking. I ran a back round check on him & found out he was married.

  • @aquarise3791
    @aquarise3791 3 года назад +4

    Ugh Fumi KNOWS how to leave us wanting more. What a queen. Love you Fumi!

  • @donnaholmes1158
    @donnaholmes1158 3 года назад +1

    Such an elegant beautiful woman who knows her worth. Luv ya!

  • @MissSusannna12
    @MissSusannna12 2 года назад +5

    Watching from Armenia 😂 You are so right about our cultures! That guy was so pathetic. Hope his karma got him.
    I love you, Fumi. You are so inspirational!

  • @6rockinrobin
    @6rockinrobin 3 года назад +2

    STILL fabulous! Love from Palestine, Fumi!

  • @delisapeters170
    @delisapeters170 3 года назад +1

    Amen that statement said it all and should be the view of all of us as women.
    It is and should be beneath us all to date another woman husband/boyfriend etc. We should consider ourselves fabulous enough to deserve more.
    If we all had that point of view we would change the culture overnight.

  • @fashionisticdiva
    @fashionisticdiva 3 года назад +22

    Fumi is bringing the heat! 🔥🔥 I cant wait for part 2

  • @DeeDee-fo9yx
    @DeeDee-fo9yx 3 года назад +1

    Yeeessss Fumi - PREACH!!!! You are indeed to fabulous to have been a side chick. I'm 62 and I've told younger women those exact same warnings for decades. Thank you so much for this very important video.

  • @milliem1061
    @milliem1061 3 года назад +3

    Mama Fumi..

  • @LydiaJarra
    @LydiaJarra 3 года назад +3

    It’s below me to date another girl’s sloppy seconds - preach Aunty Fumi!! 🙌🏾This is the level of confidence in my life I want ❤️❤️❤️

  • @estherbeamsforaballad3342
    @estherbeamsforaballad3342 3 года назад +13

    Serena Williams is married to an Armenian. Ah- ahhh! now it's all coming together 😆💕

    • @agnesbiswalo1593
      @agnesbiswalo1593 3 года назад +1

      Ahhhh...and the Kardashians...now it makes sense.

  • @moyaj82
    @moyaj82 3 года назад +3

    This is your calling Fumes. You have me actually responding to you like "uhuh". I have never in my life done that. Great job.

  • @Gooneridgetv
    @Gooneridgetv 3 года назад +3

    I’m enjoying your makeup tutorial but at the same time I’m anxious to hear your story 🤣 you are fabulous and so funny too beautiful girl!

  • @melvaspence17862
    @melvaspence17862 3 года назад +1

    Excellent content as usual. Proper woman teachings are so important to stand out from the pack.

  • @chidinmaegbulefu6236
    @chidinmaegbulefu6236 3 года назад +7

    I just love the way you teach lessons with your stories as well as teach us how to apply make up . As one who doesn't use much make up because I don't understand what much of it is for. I normally just put on lipstick and eye pencil with a little eyeshadow and I'm done . I'm learning a lot even though am not dark skined .New subscriber here 😀

    • @queenb660
      @queenb660 3 года назад +3

      Welcome to Fumiland in whatever skin color you are we are sisters. Love you ❤️

  • @shalas.6322
    @shalas.6322 3 года назад +4

    When do we get part two?!!! FUMI you are so engaging. I love the makeup and stories. You look fabulous. Your content is Always full of gems 💎

  • @tequilawalker6207
    @tequilawalker6207 3 года назад +2

    Yes Sistah!!! This was some good meat to eat!!! I'm a mom of two young women 24/21 these are the conversations that we have. Yes, protect yourself, your heart by abstaining. Get to k ow him first, if there's any red flags, you'll see them. Good stuff Sis😘

  • @givenmahlangu1266
    @givenmahlangu1266 2 года назад +1

    I agree with you mama, there is something about abstinence that will make you see clearly through the fog .

  • @lovelybrown3217
    @lovelybrown3217 Год назад

    Its so wonderfull how you speak about your beautyful friend! not manny woman are able to speak about their beautyful friends like that. I wish more woman are like that.

  • @sandya1168
    @sandya1168 3 года назад +1

    Can’t wait to see your next episode Fumi. Thanks for educating all women before falling for the wrong guy.

  • @veroanijs536
    @veroanijs536 3 года назад +2

    Heading straight to part 2🏃🏿‍♀️

  • @annkdrama-queen1254
    @annkdrama-queen1254 3 года назад +2

    Fumi, I love how you’re giving solid advice to our young women bcaz I never understood why women don’t respect their body and sleep with men on the second date. I know the saying is it’s my body I do whatever I want to do and that’s true but sleeping with a man without knowing him is absolutely crazy, you’re bonding with someone you know nothing about. I truly appreciate you Fumi, these stories are reality and needs to be talked about. Luv you to pieces, god blessings to you and your family💖

  • @ElegantPaws01
    @ElegantPaws01 3 года назад

    You area fantastic story teller. This, my lady is your wheelhouse. You are the modern female Aesop and one classy lady.

  • @Gladyscakekitchen
    @Gladyscakekitchen 3 года назад +4

    Funmi got my full attention for nearly 30mins n I didn't miss a beat! Her story with " I can give the gift of good bye " still gets me laughing.. what a legend!thank you for sharing your wisdom Aunty Funmi... blessings to you n more x

  • @trendybytyana2146
    @trendybytyana2146 3 года назад +2

    Omg, can't wait for part 2! Learning from your wisdom, fabulous big sister.

  • @ninahauke5600
    @ninahauke5600 3 года назад +2

    OMG!!!! You got me again Fumi!!! Hanging on the edge of my seat for the rest of this story!!!

  • @monique1163
    @monique1163 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing your experiences. I hope more young women learn from your life lessons.

  • @yh2059376
    @yh2059376 3 года назад +1

    Beautiful and charismatic Fumi bringing the heat 🔥🔥🔥
    The videos are just getting better and better. 🥳
    Keep them coming

  • @sweetestscooby
    @sweetestscooby 3 года назад +1

    I don't care what anybody says but Aunty Fumi tells the best stories!!!!! I love you so much! I learn so much from you. When you said 'It is below me to date another woman sloppy seconds" Yes queen!!!!! I felt that

  • @delmadennis-walters7010
    @delmadennis-walters7010 Год назад +1

    Hello,
    I really enjoy your videos and they are very informative. At the beginning of the videos, I love the cartoon lady the way she struts her STUFF to the beat of the music. She holds her head high with pride and she's on top of the world. I love it! 😂
    God bless you and family!

  • @patriciagraham3671
    @patriciagraham3671 3 года назад +1

    Hello Fumi Wonderful..
    I'm a Mature Woman dating again.so I must say Thank You can't wait for PT 2. You're Fabulous I do like the high ponytail. I'm trying to decide if I should dye my hair or get the gray mixture for my ponytail. Seen you soon 🦋🦋🦋🦋

  • @sierragalful
    @sierragalful 3 года назад +2

    Fumi girl, I love the way you tell these story. Honestly feels like I am watching a movie. I love your makeup. When you said thats below me, I jumped from the edge of my seat and clapped. Yes, thats my queen right there. Thanks for giving us sister sister. Can't wait for part 2. Hugs🤗🤗🤗

  • @gizmetdoralopez6806
    @gizmetdoralopez6806 2 года назад +1

    I just found your channel yesterday, and I am binging in an effort to catchup! I love seeing your expert application of makeup and love listening to your 'pearls of wisdom'! Your laughter is so infectious that every time you laugh, I 'roar' too! Yours is a channel that for me is informative, engaging and delightful! Love it!!!