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THANK YOU SO MUCH - THIS IS SO TRUE! I’ve loved Korean culture since I was 8, back when I kicked my way to a Tae Kwon Do black belt-and kicked off a habit of dating Koreans. I’ve traveled all over Asia, but oh bother, my Koren ex was 1/2 French like me and a total disaster. His parents sold their house to send him to school in Paris, in Korea that's showing off at ANOTHER LEVEL, and he treated it like a vacation! His cousins? Screaming into the void. Me? Just sipping my tea, honestly I felt bad for HIS parents. 😏
I lived 20 years in Seoul and still often come ( every year 6 to 7 weeks in the country I love+ visit my korean relatives). Each country has it 'dark sides' and I can agree with many things in this video, even if I think that as foreigners we mostly first see the 'external' differences, without knowing the real and deep reason behind. Like why everybody want's to be so rich, to show that they made it: big cars, big apartments, very expensive indeed: they want to have 'perfect' body ( world champion in plastic surgery,) and it often starts very early, in high school. ) ...beautiful singers and dancers, actors, and so on. Everything must shine...and the dark side? We just try not to talk about it, we don't show it. I am mostly worried about the next generation, so different from their parents and grand parents who worked so hard for them, and understand the value of each penny. I hope things will change, but.... Good luck for your next trip. Oh, I think that not all the informations of your guide are exact. ...just my opinion ( and sorry for my poor english writing...)
I'm writing as a 21-year-old Korean. Currently, Korea is grappling with a serious population crisis and a low happiness index. Korea's societal values and standards for life and happiness are extremely limited and rigid. As a result, many Koreans feel unable to live their own lives. Instead, they become trapped in endless comparisons with others and live what is often referred to as a 'universal life.' In this pursuit of a universal life, many Koreans sacrifice their individuality, live according to others' standards, and express hostility toward anything that deviates from what is considered universal. Korea might be the most diverse country in the world when it comes to hate speech and swear words. The troubling part is that this hate isn't directed at those who violate social norms in harmful ways. Rather, it's aimed at anyone who dares to live differently or fails to meet what society deems a 'universal' standard of success. This societal atmosphere has shifted Koreans' life goals away from intangible values like love, family, friendship, happiness, personal growth, and hope for the future. Instead, life has become a race to accumulate comparable material values like wealth, appearance, academic achievements, and prestigious careers. Korea is sick. Even more alarming is that no one in politics seems genuinely concerned about Korea's future. In fact, this culture of comparison, hate, divide sides is a favorite tool of political leaders. Political parties exploit division for their own gains, focusing on taking sides and discrediting opponents rather than engaging in productive discussions or crafting meaningful policies. I've been interested in politics since middle school, but looking at Korean politics often feels like watching a religious war-fanatical, divisive, and unproductive. (Sighs)... There’s so much more I want to say, but this comment is already too long, so I’ll try to summarize. Korea is facing many urgent problems that need to be addressed. While I have criticized the political community, I also recognize that some of these issues are part of Korea’s growing pains. The country’s rapid growth has brought remarkable advancements, but it has also led to significant side effects. You can get a sense of Korea’s growth pace by watching this (ruclips.net/video/QYkcVbaXfPw/видео.html). Perhaps, in these rapidly changing times, people feel lost and tend to stick to paths already paved by others because they are afraid to forge their own. I hope Korea becomes a more mature and admirable country. ((The sentence might be a bit awkward, but I did my best😁))
(Your sentences are great.) The recent martial law was also a wake up call. Democracy is very fragile. Even though the large majority may support it, it can be over in the blink of an eye. A huge false flag may do the trick.
hmm does any Koreans plan to move to small cities or small town? I believe the life their might be more chilled compare to big city like Seoul, i travelled to Busan - Pohang - Ulsan - Seoul , and i can feel Seoul is another level, the way people dress, the vibe in the metro is more "stiffed" compare to Busan...honestly, if Korean population is lesser i think the environment might not be so competitive and people tend to be more chilled(?)
Please don't lose hope! As someone of similar age from America it is so sad to see all the struggles and overwhelming issues that the young people of Korea are growing up with. A lot of OECD countries are facing the same issues, it just seems like Korea is experiencing it at a much greater magnitude. Your country has survived so much and your people are extremely brave and courageous as the whole world has seen through the martial law incident. The way the people rallyed together to end martial law and help the politicians get into parliament was awe-inspiring for the entire democratic world.
Once you leave Seoul you would be surprised how genuine and non superficial people are... this is just how every capital and major cities are in every country. The real issues are working hours- people who can make money independently instead of working under someone are very happy. This is the same everywhere if you research every country you will realize every country has poor people and they are usually not as happier as the ones with $$ on average.
The guide is quite misleading in various areas. It is true there are not many jobs in countryside (obviously! ) , but it is not true there is 'nothing, no infra, no hospitals'. Acturally regional governments get a lot of development funding and countryside have pretty good infrastructure now. They actually better access to doctors than many other advanced countries like UK, US. But koreans have really high expectation about everything, so if they can't get top class medicals, top class jobs etc like the ones you get in Seoul then they say they have 'nothing'. But actually, if you compare situation in Korean countryside to other advance nations, it is pretty good
Every country has growing pains and faults. But this is a good reminder to those who travel to S. Korea due to the popularity of Kpop with stars in their eyes. While it’s a beautiful and amazing place, it has its challenges. It’s like going to Hollywood and expecting everyone to live like your favorite movie star bias. Not realizing that there is poverty and homelessness and a housing crisis amongst the real people. Common sense.
@@Perfectstorm25 I get what jakeryan4545 is saying. It’s clumsy, but when you’re passionate about a topic typing gets in the way. I think they are agreeing with me. The media does a poor job of depicting the truth. Korea/Seoul and LA are nice cities. They both have challenges. Seoul is shown as being this wonderful Oz with no faults - which we know is not true. LA is depicted as being this cesspool - when in fact it’s not. I hope that’s what they were trying to say. 😊
Also, there's nothing wrong with having a safe place to get intimate with someone you care about. Our grandparents and parents used to "do it" in their cars. South Koreans go to a nice hotel.
Well, it is kind of. Because why not just "do" it at home in your room? Or in your student room when your roommate is not there or something? Thats how much young people in the west date. So, I think the point the video tries to make is that its more of a symptom of a general lack of personal space. If you need to rent a hotel room to have some private space with your loved one, thats says alot about how cramped this society must be. For Koreans it might make perfect sense, but for many people it sounds completely ridiculous you dont have your own private space to do what you want. And I think thats very important to have that safe space for yourself, not just for love, but for your general mental health.
@@ageoflove1980 dumbest response from someone whos never even been to korea or how korean culture is. east is not the west. keep your ignorant thinking to yourself
Well there used to be ^video rooms^ similar to karaoke rooms. They were a space u went and could watch a video -hollywood|korean- no pornographic videos. Usually a few months old dvd movie and take your date there since people lived multi generational. But they had no windows so people could and would have sex there to avoid the shame of going to a motel.
부모와 같이 살거나 본인 집이 없는 경우 사랑하는 여인과 머물수 있는 공간이 러브호텔이라고 보면 개인적으로 좋은 장소라고 생각합니다. 일부러 나쁘게만 볼필요 없습니다. 성형도 긍정적인 관점으로 보면 인간은 좀더 예뻐지고 싶은 욕망이 있는데 그것이 돈과 기술이 받쳐준다면 좋다고 봅니다. 지나치면 뭐든 부작용도 있겠지요. 일반 한국인들은 성형을 즐겨하지는 않습니다.
Watching the video was very interesting! I think it even didn;t touch more hidden issues that are not so hidden in the country. Every place has its good and bad, but as a young foreigner in her early twenties who had lived there for 4 years and had done master's degree, It was so difficult not gibing attention to the societal pressure, and the education system demands especially. But I can't imagine how even harder it is for Korean people, If someone like me only lived there briefly. Coming back home I had severe depression and anxiety, because It was hard dealing with being around people in public, constantly being judged on. After awhile it didn;t bother me so much, but it was bad because I was stuck there during covid. Althought It has alot of bad things, I really do miss Korea and it's beauty! It has many positive things about it too! Next time will visit for vacation!
Love videos like this that show us a different side. You guys always show an interesting side and not just the beauty. Looking forward next one. This video made me realize how little I know about South Korea.
As a Korean-American that immigrated to California in the early 1980s, I am very proud of my people back home. But at the same time, the hyper-competitive environment isn't suitable for a happy life. I would like to go back one day and try to change the paradigm of superficiality. I would like to install substance to one's life and not just money money money... Yeah it's a big dream of mine but this way of living and mindset for the whole country can't last forever.
Found out all of this 10 years ago, but compared to Seoul where young students fight to get into best universities, to be best with scores, to get into best companies after it. Most have old fashioned parents which make many even more pressure to succeed. When was traveling countryside i got so so much more contact with Koreans, specially older people. They were not ashamed or scared to start a conversation and saw so much young couples which had kids already.
OMG, it's June! I had this tour last time I was in Seoul. He's a great tour guide, and it's really insightful and mind-opening about South Korea's culture.
Wow so interesting ty for sharing 😊 i came here from Trek Trendy, this is only traveling i get to do these days getting so expensive, im 66 years seasoned 😊 so ty
Was a very thought proving video, I especially liked the bit where you said that it is good to see both sides of a country not only the beautiful side but also the rough patch.
Omg I can only the imagine the amount of pressure that is put on them to be beautiful thin and to succeed that can definitely lead to feeling inadequate and lonely since everyone craves acceptance.
Like ur airline content. But LOVE even more content like this that touches one the social/cultrual/historical perspectives of a place that you visited. After all, experinces like this r what we travel for, right? Thanks for sharing!👍🙌🎉
South Korea is an intriguing destination on my travel agenda, showcasing a blend of tradition and modernity supported by strong advanced technology. The Hallyu wave, especially through K-dramas and K-pop, highlights the country's cultural dynamics and appeal.😊 However, societal pressures, particularly regarding competition and appearance, call for cultural shifts from within. As younger generations adapt to evolving norms, we may see a balance between preserving traditional values and embracing modern changes. The government should also prioritize addressing housing affordability in metropolitan areas like Seoul to improve citizens' quality of life.
저 가이드 하는 사람 아주 잘못된 정보를 외국인들에게 주네 시골엔 인프라도 의료지원도 안한다고? 아주 아주 잘못된 정보를 저렇게 외국인들에게 주는건 무슨 의도? 다 거짓이잖아. 매우 부정적이고 그래서 다들 도시에 살고 있다니.... ㅋㅋ 그리고 무슨 한국인가 2 달러에서 30 달러를 하루에 버다고? 이게 무슨 코메디?
I have very fond memories of sharing my hotel room with an army Lieutenant and two lower ranks when curfews were still in effect in the early 90s. Always loved S Korea.
The price of living anywhere makes it almost impossible to rent a apt much less purchase a home so many are still living at home or have to move back home renting or buying is just out of control and its ridiculous.
While watching the video, I kept thinking that the content of the guided tour program felt very negative. Also, the guide isn’t Korean but a Chinese person speaking English with a distinct accent, which feels a bit odd. As a Korean, I can acknowledge that there’s some truth to what’s being said-every society has income gaps and social inequalities. However, from what I saw in the video, the content of the guided tour seemed overly negative, and it felt like they were sensationalizing those negative aspects for entertainment purposes. It makes me wonder if they might be an ethnic Korean from China or part of the Chinese diaspora. These days, issues surrounding social unrest caused by Chinese immigrants are becoming more prevalent in Korean society.
As I guess you are aware, most Chinese in South Korea are Joseonjok -- ethnically Korean Chinese. Chinese are the largest group of foreigners in ROK, numbering 8 or 900,000. Many on the right worry that many of them are agents of influence for the PRC, and I suppose the tour guide is influential. It's interesting that the tour guide described motels as dirty hotels. Whenever I've heard a tour guide make a blunder like that, at least a couple of us have called him on it, and it turns he's new, at least for that particular tour. Has this fellow really not been corrected, or is he stubborn?
Bro did you watch the video the tour is about the dark side of Korea, the tour guide is showing heavier topics about what is wrong with Korea, that’s the pint. It’s not just china’s fault wtf lol
The motel rental system seems very economical. It only costs you $25 for a 4-hour rental of a hotel room with different "themes." How embarrassing would it be if your parents pop up when you're having a good time with your lover at your parent's house. 😅
That’s the same education system in Taiwan as well. You go to after school class in jr high and high school. National test is what determine the trajectory of your future. Everyone studies very hard for the test (kinda like SAT in US). And high test scores mean name brand universities which means good jobs after. Whether or not you do well in sports in jr or high school is of no consequence unless you are so good that you can do it professionally after graduation. But these days with social media and culture of starting small businesses in Taiwan means going to name brand universities isn’t the only way to make a good living. Korean, on the other hand, is dominated by chaebol and small business culture isn’t as vibrant compare to Taiwan.
Basically, Korea is covered with mountainous areas for two-thirds of its land, meaning virtually human-suited territory is a closed, very cramped country with just over 30,000 square kilometers of land, and virtually is a country where only human resources exist (About 51million population size so far). Also, considering their long history of enduring and their long-term adversaries everywhere, it is only natural and technically to always work more than Korea's neighbors.
Happy 2025! 🎉 I have been with you from the very beginning. I was really into renovating RVs when you were just getting started. I say you should do what makes you happy. I actually like your vlog style videos. I think we get to see more of the "real" you. I look forward to seeing you every Sunday ❤
i dont think they go out of their way to show this, most of what they are trying to assert to foreign audiences, in order to increase its soft power, is a highlight airburshed version.
Fascinating video! It’s great to hear Oskar here. I’ve been to Korea in 2011. Aside the wonderful food, people, culture, technology and progress..something felt off. Like…the growth they have experienced isn’t sustainable or “real”. I got that feeling because certain parts of Seoul and Busan were completely deserted. Shops really didn’t see much sales. When you think about how the chaebols dominate society, it makes more sense. Thanks for sharing, guys!
It's an interesting choice of topic. For example, when there's someone who has achieved success, usually the first thing people wonder about is how they became successful, and only after that curiosity is somewhat satisfied do they typically become curious about that person's negative aspects. Isn't the order reversed here? Are you a negativity enthusiast? Please share the valuable lessons you've learned from using your precious time.
HONG KONG IS WORST WITH COFFIN ROOM. ⚰for $1000/month. Its luxury to live in Seoul compared to HK. Everything that is happening in South Korea already existed long ago in Japan like LOVE MOTEL and the tough Education system.
Love hotels are everywhere! including ordinary hotels are nothing strange in it. At least in SK is clear enough. I feel safer in SK than in EU. too much robberies and unbalanced politics happening. in SK is the norm having plastic surgery? ....plenty of US and EU's are coming to SK to do the same because its not only affordable, they are professionals and they look into your life, how you should look your best, depending where you are from, your diet, etc. I like the idea that koreans look really healthy, fit and fresh, despite their long hours working...! you dont see those horrible over obese people...😮 I had 1 sitting next to me during my flight to Seoul, imagine how difficult must be in a 14 hr flight😢
Great video I loved Seoul and the people in Seoul were so friendly like I couldn't believe how friendly and helpful they are but somehow the vibe in Seoul seemed off to me. I can't grasp it. But I remember the Uber driver telling me that they don't have any natural ressources and education is the key to success, wealth and competing on a global level and that really makes sense. Also I feel like the beauty standards are crazy. Whilst I wasn't affected by this directly I felt weird as a pretty average looking european woman who is far from being skinny.
Imagine spending the entirety of your formative years, youth, and possibly your 20s and 30s preparing for the 'socially-acceptable-predefined-lifestyle' that may or may not happen.. Truly sad. They are not 'living' their life. They are forever preparing for elusive dream..
Talking negatively about Korea gets more views, while praising Korea gets fewer. Just look it up right now, and you’ll understand why people make videos criticizing Korea.
The "dark side" you're trying to show at the motels is the fact that housing is unavailable, right? Because otherwise, I really can't see what could possibly be wrong with it
I am Korean and receive $3,250 per month excluding taxes. This is my salary excluding bonus. I work 8 hours a day and take all weekends and red days off.
@@skillfuldabest 세금 전부 내고 순수하게 받는 한달 월급 3250달러요 번역기를 써가지고 적다보니 ㅋㅋㅋ 잘못 번역이 된듯 ..보너스까지포함 하면 훨씬 많이 받아요 ㅋ After paying taxes, your monthly salary is $3,250. I wrote it down using a translator, and it seems to have been translated incorrectly. If you include bonuses, you can get much more.
Are u sure? I lived in Seoul for seven years. I needed either the Wolsae or Chonsae. One is a massive amount of money given to the landlord and not paying and rent or the other is half deposit key month and the other half is monthly rental. My second apartment was in trendy Hong Dae area. I gave the older landlady 40,000 US dollars as key and paid 400 USA dollars a month on rent and 100 dollars for guard-cleaning fee. That was in 1999-2004. I was just in the same neighborhood this past April and I popped into a few real estate agents offices and was told every place now wanted only rent. A 30 sq meter unit was going for 1200 usd one room studio
@ thanks -even the rent on Hondae was crazy expensive but it was worth it. All the trendy cafes and bars around the uni and was a quick walk to Shinchon. Later on the subway was added to itaewon and great for options for the weekends. I would rather spend money for a safe area which I have found Korea to be maybe the safest place I ever lived
It looks like a beautiful country, but also very "toxic" for young people. It must be hard for them to survive or build a future there, which has big consequences. It doesn't look sustainable at all. I hope European countries with declining birth rates will take notes so we don't end up like this. Despite that, I'd like to visit the country soon and hope the country will improve over time. Thanks for the fascinating video, Oskar and Dan. Your guide was very good!
Until I turned 40, no one around me committed suicide. In all the schools I went to, the military, and the workplaces I worked at... It's true that our country has the highest suicide rate according to the OECD, but it's just a story you see on TV. Rather, there will be far more deaths from gun accidents or robberies in other countries than in Korea. Guys, look at what is happening in your country. On the other hand, Korea has the lowest crime rate among OECD countries.
It is due to the high suicide rate among the elderly. During Korea’s rapid economic growth, the introduction of a pension system was delayed, while the country became known for its high cost of living. As a result, Korea now has the highest elderly poverty rate. The suicide rate among the elderly is the highest as well, with the primary cause being financial difficulties faced after leaving the workforce. This high elderly suicide rate has significantly contributed to the overall national suicide rate. However, with recent improvements in the pension system, the suicide rate is expected to decrease for the next generation.
I've been saying all these thing about Korea for decades so glad you guys put it into a video. Chaebols are the number one reason why most South Koreans life is miserable.
@@aoh4905 And who do you think make them work those long hours? Extremely long work hours is only a small part of the issues Koreans face daily. It sounds like you're interested in Korean history so watch some video on Cheabols.
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THANK YOU SO MUCH - THIS IS SO TRUE! I’ve loved Korean culture since I was 8, back when I kicked my way to a Tae Kwon Do black belt-and kicked off a habit of dating Koreans. I’ve traveled all over Asia, but oh bother, my Koren ex was 1/2 French like me and a total disaster. His parents sold their house to send him to school in Paris, in Korea that's showing off at ANOTHER LEVEL, and he treated it like a vacation! His cousins? Screaming into the void. Me? Just sipping my tea, honestly I felt bad for HIS parents. 😏
I lived 20 years in Seoul and still often come ( every year 6 to 7 weeks in the country I love+ visit my korean relatives). Each country has it 'dark sides' and I can agree with many things in this video, even if I think that as foreigners we mostly first see the 'external' differences, without knowing the real and deep reason behind.
Like why everybody want's to be so rich, to show that they made it: big cars, big apartments, very expensive indeed: they want to have 'perfect' body ( world champion in plastic surgery,) and it often starts very early, in high school. ) ...beautiful singers and dancers, actors, and so on. Everything must shine...and the dark side? We just try not to talk about it, we don't show it. I am mostly worried about the next generation, so different from their parents and grand parents who worked so hard for them, and understand the value of each penny.
I hope things will change, but....
Good luck for your next trip.
Oh, I think that not all the informations of your guide are exact. ...just my opinion ( and sorry for my poor english writing...)
GOOD
I'm writing as a 21-year-old Korean. Currently, Korea is grappling with a serious population crisis and a low happiness index.
Korea's societal values and standards for life and happiness are extremely limited and rigid. As a result, many Koreans feel unable to live their own lives. Instead, they become trapped in endless comparisons with others and live what is often referred to as a 'universal life.'
In this pursuit of a universal life, many Koreans sacrifice their individuality, live according to others' standards, and express hostility toward anything that deviates from what is considered universal.
Korea might be the most diverse country in the world when it comes to hate speech and swear words. The troubling part is that this hate isn't directed at those who violate social norms in harmful ways. Rather, it's aimed at anyone who dares to live differently or fails to meet what society deems a 'universal' standard of success.
This societal atmosphere has shifted Koreans' life goals away from intangible values like love, family, friendship, happiness, personal growth, and hope for the future. Instead, life has become a race to accumulate comparable material values like wealth, appearance, academic achievements, and prestigious careers.
Korea is sick.
Even more alarming is that no one in politics seems genuinely concerned about Korea's future.
In fact, this culture of comparison, hate, divide sides is a favorite tool of political leaders. Political parties exploit division for their own gains, focusing on taking sides and discrediting opponents rather than engaging in productive discussions or crafting meaningful policies.
I've been interested in politics since middle school, but looking at Korean politics often feels like watching a religious war-fanatical, divisive, and unproductive.
(Sighs)...
There’s so much more I want to say, but this comment is already too long, so I’ll try to summarize.
Korea is facing many urgent problems that need to be addressed. While I have criticized the political community, I also recognize that some of these issues are part of Korea’s growing pains.
The country’s rapid growth has brought remarkable advancements, but it has also led to significant side effects.
You can get a sense of Korea’s growth pace by watching this (ruclips.net/video/QYkcVbaXfPw/видео.html). Perhaps, in these rapidly changing times, people feel lost and tend to stick to paths already paved by others because they are afraid to forge their own.
I hope Korea becomes a more mature and admirable country.
((The sentence might be a bit awkward, but I did my best😁))
(Your sentences are great.) The recent martial law was also a wake up call. Democracy is very fragile. Even though the large majority may support it, it can be over in the blink of an eye. A huge false flag may do the trick.
Thank you so insightful! I want to know more about it now!
hmm does any Koreans plan to move to small cities or small town? I believe the life their might be more chilled compare to big city like Seoul, i travelled to Busan - Pohang - Ulsan - Seoul , and i can feel Seoul is another level, the way people dress, the vibe in the metro is more "stiffed" compare to Busan...honestly, if Korean population is lesser i think the environment might not be so competitive and people tend to be more chilled(?)
Please don't lose hope! As someone of similar age from America it is so sad to see all the struggles and overwhelming issues that the young people of Korea are growing up with. A lot of OECD countries are facing the same issues, it just seems like Korea is experiencing it at a much greater magnitude. Your country has survived so much and your people are extremely brave and courageous as the whole world has seen through the martial law incident. The way the people rallyed together to end martial law and help the politicians get into parliament was awe-inspiring for the entire democratic world.
Once you leave Seoul you would be surprised how genuine and non superficial people are... this is just how every capital and major cities are in every country. The real issues are working hours- people who can make money independently instead of working under someone are very happy. This is the same everywhere if you research every country you will realize every country has poor people and they are usually not as happier as the ones with $$ on average.
The guide is quite misleading in various areas. It is true there are not many jobs in countryside (obviously! ) , but it is not true there is 'nothing, no infra, no hospitals'. Acturally regional governments get a lot of development funding and countryside have pretty good infrastructure now. They actually better access to doctors than many other advanced countries like UK, US. But koreans have really high expectation about everything, so if they can't get top class medicals, top class jobs etc like the ones you get in Seoul then they say they have 'nothing'. But actually, if you compare situation in Korean countryside to other advance nations, it is pretty good
I agree with you, the guide was bit misleading about the countryside.
He seems misleading on everything he says or exaggerating the extremes to make it seem like the norm
I agree with you too.
Every country has growing pains and faults. But this is a good reminder to those who travel to S. Korea due to the popularity of Kpop with stars in their eyes. While it’s a beautiful and amazing place, it has its challenges. It’s like going to Hollywood and expecting everyone to live like your favorite movie star bias. Not realizing that there is poverty and homelessness and a housing crisis amongst the real people. Common sense.
Exactly
@jakeryan4545 Wow
@@Perfectstorm25 I get what jakeryan4545 is saying. It’s clumsy, but when you’re passionate about a topic typing gets in the way. I think they are agreeing with me. The media does a poor job of depicting the truth. Korea/Seoul and LA are nice cities. They both have challenges. Seoul is shown as being this wonderful Oz with no faults - which we know is not true. LA is depicted as being this cesspool - when in fact it’s not. I hope that’s what they were trying to say. 😊
@csh9424 I get it. Thank you for your reply as we all know every place has good and bad areas.
외국 유튭들은 재벌 타령을 거의 필수소재 처럼 한국의 부정적인 면에 넣어놓는데, 그냥 국내에선 대기업 그 이상 이하도 아닌데 재벌이 꼭 빅브라더 마냥 통제라도 하는 것 같이 호들갑을 떨어댐
자극적인 내용이 돈이되니까 그렇지 뭐..
심지어 더 거대한 가문이 존재하는
미국 , 영국 , 프랑스 , 이런나라에 대해서는
민주적이라 표현함 ㅋㅋ😂
June is the man I did his tour twice!! Once my first time and second with my family 2 years later!
love hotels are not dark side. its economic. would you rather pay full day price
Also, there's nothing wrong with having a safe place to get intimate with someone you care about. Our grandparents and parents used to "do it" in their cars. South Koreans go to a nice hotel.
Well, it is kind of. Because why not just "do" it at home in your room? Or in your student room when your roommate is not there or something? Thats how much young people in the west date. So, I think the point the video tries to make is that its more of a symptom of a general lack of personal space. If you need to rent a hotel room to have some private space with your loved one, thats says alot about how cramped this society must be. For Koreans it might make perfect sense, but for many people it sounds completely ridiculous you dont have your own private space to do what you want. And I think thats very important to have that safe space for yourself, not just for love, but for your general mental health.
@@ageoflove1980 dumbest response from someone whos never even been to korea or how korean culture is. east is not the west. keep your ignorant thinking to yourself
Well there used to be ^video rooms^ similar to karaoke rooms. They were a space u went and could watch a video -hollywood|korean- no pornographic videos. Usually a few months old dvd movie and take your date there since people lived multi generational. But they had no windows so people could and would have sex there to avoid the shame of going to a motel.
So if something is economic it’s all good?
부모와 같이 살거나 본인 집이 없는 경우 사랑하는 여인과 머물수 있는 공간이 러브호텔이라고 보면 개인적으로 좋은 장소라고 생각합니다. 일부러 나쁘게만 볼필요 없습니다. 성형도 긍정적인 관점으로 보면 인간은 좀더 예뻐지고 싶은 욕망이 있는데 그것이 돈과 기술이 받쳐준다면 좋다고 봅니다. 지나치면 뭐든 부작용도 있겠지요. 일반 한국인들은 성형을 즐겨하지는 않습니다.
즐겨하는데
@@jasaljoung3너 낳은사람도?
다른나라에비하면 확실히 일반인들도 성형을 즐겨한다고 정의하는게 합당하긴하지. 물론 난 안했고 안할거니까 태클걸진말고 ㅇㅇ
@ 아닝 근데 니애미는 확실히 한듯 ㅠ
Wow that was profound. well done guys 👏🏻🌷
Watching the video was very interesting! I think it even didn;t touch more hidden issues that are not so hidden in the country. Every place has its good and bad, but as a young foreigner in her early twenties who had lived there for 4 years and had done master's degree, It was so difficult not gibing attention to the societal pressure, and the education system demands especially. But I can't imagine how even harder it is for Korean people, If someone like me only lived there briefly. Coming back home I had severe depression and anxiety, because It was hard dealing with being around people in public, constantly being judged on. After awhile it didn;t bother me so much, but it was bad because I was stuck there during covid. Althought It has alot of bad things, I really do miss Korea and it's beauty! It has many positive things about it too! Next time will visit for vacation!
Love videos like this that show us a different side. You guys always show an interesting side and not just the beauty. Looking forward next one. This video made me realize how little I know about South Korea.
As a Korean-American that immigrated to California in the early 1980s, I am very proud of my people back home.
But at the same time, the hyper-competitive environment isn't suitable for a happy life.
I would like to go back one day and try to change the paradigm of superficiality. I would like to install substance to one's life and not just money money money...
Yeah it's a big dream of mine but this way of living and mindset for the whole country can't last forever.
Excellent video. I really enjoyed this one.
Thanks for the upload. Wish you great success
I'm definitely interested in this kind of insightful content, thank you. South Korea is a fascinating place but I know life isn't easy.
Wow. Very interesting!!
Great Video!❤😊
This is like the 10th “dark side of Korea” video I’ve seen recently.
easy views lol
And I don't agree with any of them as a Korea . Those videos are missing the real points.
@@aoh4905 Do you simp with the Chaebols?
Fab video. I'm so hungry for more content like this.
Very cool perspective, great video
Awesome video as always! Already looking forward to the thrird episode of this series! 🎊🌍✈️
I agree to embrace all sides... good, bad, and the ugly. All is beautiful in it's own right.
That was really interesting guys, great vlog!
Found out all of this 10 years ago, but compared to Seoul where young students fight to get into best universities, to be best with scores, to get into best companies after it. Most have old fashioned parents which make many even more pressure to succeed.
When was traveling countryside i got so so much more contact with Koreans, specially older people. They were not ashamed or scared to start a conversation and saw so much young couples which had kids already.
Korea it is amazing place… thanks for the vídeo
OMG, it's June! I had this tour last time I was in Seoul. He's a great tour guide, and it's really insightful and mind-opening about South Korea's culture.
Yes he's awesome🙌🏼
What is the tour agency’s name? Thanks
That was so interesting thankyou lads xxxx
S Korea looks so cool! My son wants to live there
Great content as always. And you guys presented the information in a balanced way. Well done
Very interesting video, guys. I guess part of this is the affordability problem that young people face across much of the globe.
Wow so interesting ty for sharing 😊 i came here from Trek Trendy, this is only traveling i get to do these days getting so expensive, im 66 years seasoned 😊 so ty
I actually lived 4 years in Seoul ! I’m your buffets fan !
This is a great video! Very informative since I’ll be traveling there in April.
Was a very thought proving video, I especially liked the bit where you said that it is good to see both sides of a country not only the beautiful side but also the rough patch.
Omg I can only the imagine the amount of pressure that is put on them to be beautiful thin and to succeed that can definitely lead to feeling inadequate and lonely since everyone craves acceptance.
Like ur airline content. But LOVE even more content like this that touches one the social/cultrual/historical perspectives of a place that you visited. After all, experinces like this r what we travel for, right? Thanks for sharing!👍🙌🎉
South Korea is an intriguing destination on my travel agenda, showcasing a blend of tradition and modernity supported by strong advanced technology. The Hallyu wave, especially through K-dramas and K-pop, highlights the country's cultural dynamics and appeal.😊
However, societal pressures, particularly regarding competition and appearance, call for cultural shifts from within. As younger generations adapt to evolving norms, we may see a balance between preserving traditional values and embracing modern changes. The government should also prioritize addressing housing affordability in metropolitan areas like Seoul to improve citizens' quality of life.
great video as aways
My goodness, what an eye opening video. I can't imagine how such a regimented lifestyle must affect ones mental health.
It's not as bad as the Chinese 996.
저 가이드 하는 사람 아주 잘못된 정보를 외국인들에게 주네 시골엔 인프라도 의료지원도 안한다고? 아주 아주 잘못된 정보를 저렇게 외국인들에게 주는건 무슨 의도? 다 거짓이잖아. 매우 부정적이고 그래서 다들 도시에 살고 있다니.... ㅋㅋ 그리고 무슨 한국인가 2 달러에서 30 달러를 하루에 버다고? 이게 무슨 코메디?
지원안하니까 간호사 의사들 전부 지방으로 안가잖아. 어휴
난 한국인이고 한국이 제일 좋다 ^^ ! 이렇게 좋은나라에 살면서 행복지수가 낮은 사람들은 ..높은 기준점을 갖고 있다 조금 낮추면 행복할텐데
Koreans in general have high high standards, and high high expectations. 😊❤
I have very fond memories of sharing my hotel room with an army Lieutenant and two lower ranks when curfews were still in effect in the early 90s. Always loved S Korea.
I like «under the surface» videos like this. Thank you for making the video.
The price of living anywhere makes it almost impossible to rent a apt much less purchase a home so many are still living at home or have to move back home renting or buying is just out of control and its ridiculous.
While watching the video, I kept thinking that the content of the guided tour program felt very negative. Also, the guide isn’t Korean but a Chinese person speaking English with a distinct accent, which feels a bit odd. As a Korean, I can acknowledge that there’s some truth to what’s being said-every society has income gaps and social inequalities. However, from what I saw in the video, the content of the guided tour seemed overly negative, and it felt like they were sensationalizing those negative aspects for entertainment purposes. It makes me wonder if they might be an ethnic Korean from China or part of the Chinese diaspora. These days, issues surrounding social unrest caused by Chinese immigrants are becoming more prevalent in Korean society.
Just blame everything on the Chinese We get used to it already.
As I guess you are aware, most Chinese in South Korea are Joseonjok -- ethnically Korean Chinese. Chinese are the largest group of foreigners in ROK, numbering 8 or 900,000. Many on the right worry that many of them are agents of influence for the PRC, and I suppose the tour guide is influential.
It's interesting that the tour guide described motels as dirty hotels. Whenever I've heard a tour guide make a blunder like that, at least a couple of us have called him on it, and it turns he's new, at least for that particular tour. Has this fellow really not been corrected, or is he stubborn?
Bro did you watch the video the tour is about the dark side of Korea, the tour guide is showing heavier topics about what is wrong with Korea, that’s the pint. It’s not just china’s fault wtf lol
The motel rental system seems very economical. It only costs you $25 for a 4-hour rental of a hotel room with different "themes." How embarrassing would it be if your parents pop up when you're having a good time with your lover at your parent's house. 😅
아프리카 필리핀보다 못살던 한국이 24시간 열심히 일하고 이제 대학교 졸업자가 80프로가 넘는 한국이 부자나라가 되니 여러나라들이 질투하는구나
That’s the same education system in Taiwan as well. You go to after school class in jr high and high school. National test is what determine the trajectory of your future. Everyone studies very hard for the test (kinda like SAT in US). And high test scores mean name brand universities which means good jobs after. Whether or not you do well in sports in jr or high school is of no consequence unless you are so good that you can do it professionally after graduation. But these days with social media and culture of starting small businesses in Taiwan means going to name brand universities isn’t the only way to make a good living. Korean, on the other hand, is dominated by chaebol and small business culture isn’t as vibrant compare to Taiwan.
oh okay also can you tell me about china aswell i wanna know about them i understand u about korea and taiwan rn
Go to China and see it yourself.
@ nty i can just ask
Basically, Korea is covered with mountainous areas for two-thirds of its land, meaning virtually human-suited territory is a closed, very cramped country with just over 30,000 square kilometers of land, and virtually is a country where only human resources exist (About 51million population size so far). Also, considering their long history of enduring and their long-term adversaries everywhere, it is only natural and technically to always work more than Korea's neighbors.
This is what happens when huge corporations are not restrained.
Welcome to USA 2030
Ture, but worst thing happens when the state or movement is the dominant force in society
@@jlizamavera North Korea. So something in between.
But the corporations made South Korea the success it is. There's nothing new here.
Wait till they go to China and found out about their 996 policy. South Korea seems lik heaven compared to those.
Happy 2025! 🎉 I have been with you from the very beginning. I was really into renovating RVs when you were just getting started. I say you should do what makes you happy. I actually like your vlog style videos. I think we get to see more of the "real" you. I look forward to seeing you every Sunday ❤
Thank you for being such a loyal supporter❤️
I did this tour!! But with Jessica she was a queen
I think it's good to show the dark side of a country.Unlike the country that never shows the dark side. didn't say where
i dont think they go out of their way to show this, most of what they are trying to assert to foreign audiences, in order to increase its soft power, is a highlight airburshed version.
New York, Sanfrancisco, Vancouver, and Paris also have dark sides, too. 😂
Does anyone notice the tour guide voice is broken like AI-generated?
And he doesn’t sound Korean
@@suzy7417 because he is Chinese
미국 영국 독일 프랑스 이탈리아 네덜란드 일본 등 다른 나라 여행 가봤는데, 편리함과 신속함 교통 의료보험 삶의 질에 있어서 한국보다 못했음. 단지 한국인의 행복목표가 높을 뿐이지 살기에 좋은 곳임
최고 👍
As a korean, it's not unique to this young generation. It's always been going on
Fascinating video! It’s great to hear Oskar here. I’ve been to Korea in 2011. Aside the wonderful food, people, culture, technology and progress..something felt off. Like…the growth they have experienced isn’t sustainable or “real”. I got that feeling because certain parts of Seoul and Busan were completely deserted. Shops really didn’t see much sales. When you think about how the chaebols dominate society, it makes more sense. Thanks for sharing, guys!
It's an interesting choice of topic.
For example, when there's someone who has achieved success, usually the first thing people wonder about is how they became successful, and only after that curiosity is somewhat satisfied do they typically become curious about that person's negative aspects. Isn't the order reversed here?
Are you a negativity enthusiast?
Please share the valuable lessons you've learned from using your precious time.
1st comment!! Greets from sweden
Hallå👋🏼😄
HONG KONG IS WORST WITH COFFIN ROOM. ⚰for $1000/month. Its luxury to live in Seoul compared to HK. Everything that is happening in South Korea already existed long ago in Japan like LOVE MOTEL and the tough Education system.
아니요 홍콩보단 덜하겠지만 1000usd 월세면 강남에서 6-8평 원룸 오피스텔에서 삽니다
I want to move to S.Korea. Any tips?
Heyy guys, great video, I am visiting South Korea in couple of weeks, do you have a link for me to book this tour, would love to do it! 😀
Thank you! It's in the video description🙏🏼
Brother has just moved here as a teacher, very interesting
Hi Boys, really like your blue & white polo, just wondering if you can let’s us know where you purchased it from.
Thanks Brian.
Thanks Brian, it's from Reiss!
That cup holder is absolutely fascinating! I can’t wait to another video.
Love hotels are everywhere! including ordinary hotels are nothing strange in it. At least in SK is clear enough. I feel safer in SK than in EU. too much robberies and unbalanced politics happening. in SK is the norm having plastic surgery? ....plenty of US and EU's are coming to SK to do the same because its not only affordable, they are professionals and they look into your life, how you should look your best, depending where you are from, your diet, etc. I like the idea that koreans look really healthy, fit and fresh, despite their long hours working...! you dont see those horrible over obese people...😮 I had 1 sitting next to me during my flight to Seoul, imagine how difficult must be in a 14 hr flight😢
So good to see you boys again. Have you narrowed down where you intend to put down roots?
Not quite yet, more of those videos coming after the Korea stuff🙏🏼😄
It isn't dark side tho.. it's just love hotel.. it's started in Japan by the way😂
Thank you, gentlemen! Great video!
Great video
I loved Seoul and the people in Seoul were so friendly like I couldn't believe how friendly and helpful they are but somehow the vibe in Seoul seemed off to me. I can't grasp it. But I remember the Uber driver telling me that they don't have any natural ressources and education is the key to success, wealth and competing on a global level and that really makes sense. Also I feel like the beauty standards are crazy. Whilst I wasn't affected by this directly I felt weird as a pretty average looking european woman who is far from being skinny.
They like white people but dislike other Asians. Especially south east Asians. Think about it
can you visit Ethiopia next . I really wanna see how you will react. There is a lot to see
wow ... if I grew up in Seoul. I would be a huge failure by their standards. So sad 😥
Imagine spending the entirety of your formative years, youth, and possibly your 20s and 30s preparing for the 'socially-acceptable-predefined-lifestyle' that may or may not happen..
Truly sad.
They are not 'living' their life.
They are forever preparing for elusive dream..
OMG the average apartment price in cities is USD1million or AUD1.6million certainly makes Sydney sounds so much cheaper.
not leaving my drink unattended
No worries. Finish it before you go into the store.
@deekang6244 no shit
Talking negatively about Korea gets more views, while praising Korea gets fewer. Just look it up right now, and you’ll understand why people make videos criticizing Korea.
아프리카보다 못살던 나라가 부자가 되었으니 중국 일본 동남아 유럽 남미 질투합니다ㅋㅋ
This is the best video you made. More sub culture plz!
Every country have a dark side...even yours and mine too so whom we to the judge
The whole point of the video if you'd watched it all :)
There are several videos about cheap apartments in Seoul. They’re on RUclips.
The "dark side" you're trying to show at the motels is the fact that housing is unavailable, right? Because otherwise, I really can't see what could possibly be wrong with it
Housing is available, but not everyone wants their partner to spend the night.
I am Korean and receive $3,250 per month excluding taxes. This is my salary excluding bonus. I work 8 hours a day and take all weekends and red days off.
What are red days?
@@snowps1public holidays
@@snowps1공휴일
excluding taxes? So you mean before taxes?
@@skillfuldabest 세금 전부 내고 순수하게 받는 한달 월급 3250달러요 번역기를 써가지고 적다보니 ㅋㅋㅋ 잘못 번역이 된듯 ..보너스까지포함 하면 훨씬 많이 받아요 ㅋ
After paying taxes, your monthly salary is $3,250. I wrote it down using a translator, and it seems to have been translated incorrectly. If you include bonuses, you can get much more.
But their rent is way way cheaper than North America or Europe
Are u sure? I lived in Seoul for seven years. I needed either the Wolsae or Chonsae. One is a massive amount of money given to the landlord and not paying and rent or the other is half deposit key month and the other half is monthly rental. My second apartment was in trendy Hong Dae area. I gave the older landlady 40,000 US dollars as key and paid 400 USA dollars a month on rent and 100 dollars for guard-cleaning fee. That was in 1999-2004. I was just in the same neighborhood this past April and I popped into a few real estate agents offices and was told every place now wanted only rent. A 30 sq meter unit was going for 1200 usd one room studio
@casadechris923 can't deny its way cheaper. I was shocked to find out rent price in canada and Australia
@ thanks -even the rent on Hondae was crazy expensive but it was worth it. All the trendy cafes and bars around the uni and was a quick walk to Shinchon. Later on the subway was added to itaewon and great for options for the weekends. I would rather spend money for a safe area which I have found Korea to be maybe the safest place I ever lived
May I ask where did you get your travel tour with june. I am in Korea right now thank you
Link is in the description!
It looks like a beautiful country, but also very "toxic" for young people. It must be hard for them to survive or build a future there, which has big consequences. It doesn't look sustainable at all. I hope European countries with declining birth rates will take notes so we don't end up like this. Despite that, I'd like to visit the country soon and hope the country will improve over time. Thanks for the fascinating video, Oskar and Dan. Your guide was very good!
Until I turned 40, no one around me committed suicide. In all the schools I went to, the military, and the workplaces I worked at... It's true that our country has the highest suicide rate according to the OECD, but it's just a story you see on TV. Rather, there will be far more deaths from gun accidents or robberies in other countries than in Korea. Guys, look at what is happening in your country. On the other hand, Korea has the lowest crime rate among OECD countries.
It is due to the high suicide rate among the elderly. During Korea’s rapid economic growth, the introduction of a pension system was delayed, while the country became known for its high cost of living. As a result, Korea now has the highest elderly poverty rate. The suicide rate among the elderly is the highest as well, with the primary cause being financial difficulties faced after leaving the workforce. This high elderly suicide rate has significantly contributed to the overall national suicide rate. However, with recent improvements in the pension system, the suicide rate is expected to decrease for the next generation.
@가나-b4n5e 🤡🤡
I would never make it. The pressure would have me un a live myself 😢
Omg and than minutes later he mentions the rate of sui….
How to easily lace a drink.....
A lot of generalizations from that tour guide.
The Demi clip 😂😭😂😭😂😭
80% of what Demi has ever said lives in my mind head free😩😂
at 4:20 he pronounced Hyundai "hyun die". Is he a Chinese?
His accent is very strange for a Korean. Honestly I don't think he's korean
Ha! I’m going to have to check out the pan am shop
average price of an apartment in Seoul is definitely not $1m usd
Love motels were popularized by the Japanese. They call them lovu-moteru.
koreas average salary is not 2000 a month.
I'm Korean and I get paid $3,250 a month excluding taxes. It's just my salary, excluding all bonuses.
at least more than $2000 per month so far
Interesting video. I assume this was before the president's coup.attempt in December?
Yes this was in late October!
Loved this video. So informative and enlightening. Thank you for making this content for your viewers.
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Why would people leave Korea, china and Japan to me to Canada, America and UK when they are ahead with technology and the country looks more beautiful
I've been saying all these thing about Korea for decades so glad you guys put it into a video. Chaebols are the number one reason why most South Koreans life is miserable.
no it's not.. it's the work hours
@@aoh4905 And who do you think make them work those long hours? Extremely long work hours is only a small part of the issues Koreans face daily. It sounds like you're interested in Korean history so watch some video on Cheabols.