People never realise that colleges aren't ever looking for that try hard, did everything right student. I was accepted to all colleges I applied to after graduation and many reputable. I was 100% an average student. I had friends in honors classes that while they went to a good school, finances and studies factored into where they went. These students that tried so hard and participated in a million activities have either not succeeded or are just being average college students. At the end of the day you may be the smart kid in hs but in college you're just another student. Focus on not failing and having fun you'll get in to the college. Look up what they're looking for
Discuss boundaries with your child and explain that at no time is she to take anything from your home office desk much less be sneaky about it. 8 years old is old enough to know better about being sneaky. I still have my big guys favorite toy on my desk. I had him for 11 wonderful years, lost him in April and it's still raw for me as I imagine it is for you. Take time, remember your pal and in time, your heart will be ready to welcome a new furbaby 🤗 Enjoy your penguin tattoo! 😀
Late reply but I do want to say that I don't think the daughter was trying to be sneaky, she likely thought that everyone had forgotten that toy as well.
The sister that made it into Cornell that slacked compared to the hard working sister that didn’t…she still did well with very little effort. Maybe she is the smart one that things come easily where other sis isn’t? Hence, she was more ambitious and learned to work hard. Can’t believe how the parents underestimate that daughter!
Honestly, I think it’s more tied to the fact that they applied to different programs. OP probably applied for one that is less competitive than her sister.
It's a wedding, not funeral. I went to my cousin's wedding and some relatives brought pictures frames of my dead uncle to wedding. He was there in front row. When it was time to take pictures he was on a hearted shape stick, he was there at dinner. If i hadn't seen it, i wouldn't have believed it. She needs to see a therapist. And OP needs to be honest.
Oh God I really feel bad for the daughter in the post about op manipulating her bfs kid into liking her so he wouldn't break up with her. That made me feel sick. There is no way in heck that op pulled a full 180 and suddenly loves her soon to be step daughter. She's cruel and manipulative and just put up that "update" to make herself seem likeable or even a just in case her fiance sees it
Not the ahole for wanting to go, BUT Definitely the a hole if you go, Send the family some flowers are better yet a plant that they can keep to remember her by anonymouslyThe last thing the family wants to see is the person that introduced their child to drugs. And she ended up overdosing. I understand that you have a need to make amends you know the whole 12 steps and all. Bit at her funeral would not be the right time or place. You can even go to her grave sight after like some days after & leave flowers & talk to her & say your so sorry for everything. She'll hear you and it will help you in your healing process too.
But your sister & your parents were willing to send your sister to her dream school and you to another school. Remember your sister would have went and let you to go to another school.
That whole wedding situation was familiar to me, I was a groomsman for my best friends wedding only my best friend was the bride and my first girlfriend.
Was he “wrong” to get the penguin? No. But it was irrational and clearly a warning sign. I’m so glad he told his wife and I’m glad he’s getting the help he needs. 🌻
Wow. The story of the woman faking a relationship with the teen daughter of her boyfriend to keep the relationship from ending. Am I the only one who loves it when commenters edit a posters story to cut thru the narcissistic bullcrap?
Simple answer NTA for so many obvious reasons. But there is perhaps a workaround......Well before the wedding buy one of those "name a star" kits and let her hold her special tribute to him while naming "his" star. That should leave her "clear" for the wedding. They are silly and kind of pricey but in the long term it's a very small price to trade for getting her dead ex's "ghost" out of the middle of their relationship.
I know this is an old video but i completely disagree with everyone on that OD story. Im a recovering addict. He may have been the first one who shot her up but i guarantee that she WANTED to try it. It is NOT his fault she died! How disgusting to say. She was an adult who made her own choices. It says a lot when the actual addict can forgive the person but nobody else can. Because WE AS ADDICTS UNDERSTAND. Its a disgusting thought process and not an okay one. The only exception to this is when the addict is abusive and forces the other person, they are attacked/assaulted by a stranger or when someone was prescribed something by a doctor and told it was safe and not addictive before all the information was out. If it didnt fall under any of these things then it's nobody's fault except theirself. It isnt the dealers, the friends, the boyfriend, the girlfriend, the husband, the wife etc. It is nobody elses fault. I understand a greiving family thinking this way but that doesn't mean it is real or correct. They need therapy to come to terms with the fact that their child/friend/whatever made their own terrible choices which ultimately led to their death. It's terrible and ugly and painful but its TRUE. It is nobody's fault but the addict. I also want to add that having this mindset can actually hurt the addict you love. They need to come to terms with the choices they made and the path they went down in order to learn accountability, learn to make better choices and get away from that life. Saying it wasn't their fault and putting the blame onto someone else hust absolves them of any of that and allows them off the hook so to speak. In an addicts mind you need only the SMALLEST reason to hook onto that makes it okay to use. Stop. Doing. It.
First story, my first thought was that it sounded like she wanted to dance with her bonus "dad". I would have just suggested to ask her to choose another song. Geez reditors are so quick to judge and expect the worst
Um, Absolutely not as far as the drug OD. I AM drug addict. If I were to die of an overdose it is not ANYONE ELSES FAULT but mine. Not my ex who shot me up the first time, not my dealer, MINE. I'm so fucking tired of hearing people who have never experienced any addiction, and blame other people for their choices. It's my choice to do drugs to begin with, and I take responsibility for it. I don't blame anybody else for my drug use. If anybody says different, fight me. If you are an addict and blame whoever got you high to begin with, you'll never get sober. Fuck everyone on that reddit thread. Really shouldn't include shit like that in videos if you're not educated on it to speak on it.
Fr like she's about to retire so he wants her to keep working for 4+ more years and deal with the issues that come along with her because her parents don't want to?
You're allowed to go to your ex-girlfriend's funeral. People make their own decisions. You didn't kill her, and don't let people who have never been in a relationship with a junkie tell you what to do. She chose to do dope, she got help, but she slipped and died. It's not your responsibility to make descisions for other people. If you wanna go, go. Keep a low profile because there are a lot of judgmental people in the world who think doing drugs means you no longer deserve to have feelings.
dead dog's penguin: i don't see what's so bad about digging up the grave and getting the penguin back. i can understand that some people avoid anything to do with death and may thus think it's creepy to get the coffin out but imo it's equivalent to retrieving a sentinental item from a storage area; some people may be freaked out by how dusty all of the shelving units are (just as people are freaking out about the toy's proximity to death here) or by the idea of disturbing the dead but seeing as nothing else will br tampered with and an item that is sentimental to someone who loves the dog and cared for it for many years with is still retrieved. i think it's more of a grave-retrieval than a graverobbery.
Have you heard the song and not just the lyrics? It's so mellow. The other dad and her dancing to Vanilla Twilight sounds like they're dancing to a funeral song more than a love song.
It's probably bad, but I laughed at the comment about how bad it will look on a police report digging up a makeshift coffin in the middle of the night. Wow, future step-mom story: that update was total bulshit.
Wedding Dance: NTA, and I’d put a hard stop to this. OP doesn’t have to invite hurt and disrespect to respect his fiancé’s lost love. It’s their freaking WEDDING. There’s a reason people get upset when someone proposes at a wedding. This is no different. I’d be 100% supportive of her grief and not threatened by it. But bringing that into our wedding would be a show-stopper for me.
the comment at 1:06 is just bananas. Like if your SO was jealous of your best friend from childhood who you’ve never had anything with, it’s an automatic disinvite bc… It’s not acceptable to put your SO through jealousy on your wedding day? c’mon. be for real.
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I don’t understand getting the Penguin from the grave, but then I haven’t been in that precise situation so I can’t really judge. But I am happy that they’re going to therapy to try to help them through the grieving process which, as someone said, is quite difficult to do for the western world because of our difficulties with facing the mortality of ourselves and the ones we love. I really hope the grieving process isn’t to hard on them, I do really feel for them loosing their pet AND dealing with depression.
Dream School: Go to your separate schools, even if only for the first year. I think your sister should try to transfer to Cornell after a year at NYU, or the reverse if you're hating it or struggling there. BUT you owe it to yourselves and each other to learn a little less codependence on each other. Twins have a special bond, but you're also your own people, and the entire dynamic of your relationship will change as adults. Think of this as your trial run, and play it by ear.
IDC how long since you lose someone. That pain NEVER goes away, it simply becomes normal You live with it. You have to. Story one is nobody is an asshole
The wedding dance story OP is delusional. She will always love and miss the dead ex but you dont do that at your effing wedding!! Its just inappropriate and disrespectful
ONG, NOT THE AHOLE OP, DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT APOLOGIZED YOU WERE 110% RIGHT TO CALL OUT THST BULLY, just because he has a disability is no exception my son is mildly retarded & he was bullied and then he started to B a bully I had no idea because he didn't behave like that in front of me. Only when a mother approached me extremely irate and in rage did I learn what was happening At 1st thank the mother for telling me what was going on got her phone number set up an appointment with the superintendent and principal. And I asked why wasn't I informed that my son was bullying in the students. They said due to his life challenges he didn't understand that he was being a bully. But I knew he understood because he didn't act that way in front of me so he had to apologize to the kids, teachers and parents. And I put him on lock down no games, tv, movies, fast food. And what do u know he quit bullying. Stope giveing kids Pass because of their intellect rating, mental health problems, they need to be taught right from wrong while the consequences are small.
Man, people insecure as hell if they're breaking up with someone based on their ability to be friends with ex's. Pretty clear they don't date based on compatibility, but rather sexual attraction. My ex-girlfriend of 9 months became my best friend of a decade. People break up for a lot of reasons, and we're not all burdened with the emotional maturity of high schoolers. Just admit you're too jealous and don't blame them.
@@mikimishisa yeah, i think that was kinda my point, as far as i can remember 2 years ago. If you don't trust someone, don't date them. I don't think that's a controversial take, despite how uncommon it may or may not be. You should like your ex, assuming they weren't abusive or anything. You should know them as a person before you start dating. Someone still having a good relationship with their ex is a massive green flag. It means they know how disagree and how to solve problems in tandem with another person, even when emotions are charged. It implies they respect other people's boundaries.
The buried penguin toy No ahole and honestly, i would dig it up But then again, i also have absolutely no issue with death and deceased individuals … I am a person that picks up skeletal remains etc i find in nature and so on And even though i know my peace with a lot of end of life and after the end of it all is not how most of western society view these same things I still honestly don’t understand how this could be creepy either way ...
Dead ex..loose the wedding. She's not letting go of her dead ex. Maybe later. And I have dead ex's and yes they are in my thoughts and memories but I would never consider a stunt like that.
1:23:00 hopefully this change is real, but I think she's doing the same thing to reddit that she did to her step daughter. Like we said oh gross we don't like you and so she's like no wait, I'm not that person.
Wow. Nta, but...if you look at the fact that was her 1st fiancé and her dancing with his father to that song after he lost his son and never will see him get married, the dance might make a little bit more sense to that song and as to why. Its not just her missing him..: 2 other great people are missing him too! And for them to share in the fact that they are watching her move on to happiness with you, is a even happier share for them.
his reason is what if the house burns down?? i the house burns down that penguin would also burn? PEOPLE stop being stupid and putting your love and memories into things. IT MAKES NO SENSE! You lost your grandma's ring? dont act like you lost HER.
@@axepagode33626 but communication is key. He agreed and now realizes it is truly not something he can deal with. He needs to tell her this. He also should be asking what is this song and dance accomplishing for her. She needs to be able to explain why she needs/wants this in their wedding reception. As there's a few reasons that are not tied to the love to another man, I can guess at. But she has to be able to verbalize the reason. Same as OP needs to go an verbalize why this request is hurtful and why he does not want it to happen.
@@axepagode33626 and communication helped here like it usually does. Where she was coming from and what he was fearing was not the place he thought is was coming from.
I feel she’s getting a lot of attention and sympathy for her dead ex. If she hasn’t moved on, she shouldn’t be dating, much less getting married. Memory of him, has no place at the wedding.
you are basically saying seriously should never date, because there is no "moving on" from a loss like that. grief of a close loved one never truly goes away.
Why on earth are you going to Agatha's party and bringing your new girl. It sounds like you are rubbing it in. Agatha is ignoring you. You should either just let go of the friendship or send her one more text saying, "This is my last message. I'm sorry if I led you on. I do appreciate our friendship. However, I unfortunately can't be there for you all of the time. I do have a life outside of you."
Weird to jump to the defense of a racist over someone missing ONE event. She wasnt "led on" you weirdo. Even without the racism that was controlling as hell.
Look up the Rainbow Bridge story. Someone gave me this after we lost our last dog and it helped.We also kept a few things from both our last dogs.You never forget the dogs you loved
Lol op is full of it the dog would in fact smell off on day three. Our cows got struck by lightning when the were under a tree in the field the man who hails them off took two days to come and the had a noticeable odour I know as I got quite close to the calf I was training for the fair to saw goodbye before it was dragged off and I still remember the smell the calf had already had and I remember my uncle freaking out on the phone earlier that day about them needing to be removed asap he wasn't going to have them splitting their guys in a field and given he has much more experience than me I would assume that's something that happens in a fairly short period of time... I remember this like yesterday even though I was like 8 because I was a bit traumatized by the whole thing
That completely different situation lmao?? Weirdo for calling someone a liar because you smelled cooked cow and they said they didnt smell a dog that passed wrapped in blankets.
People never realise that colleges aren't ever looking for that try hard, did everything right student. I was accepted to all colleges I applied to after graduation and many reputable. I was 100% an average student. I had friends in honors classes that while they went to a good school, finances and studies factored into where they went. These students that tried so hard and participated in a million activities have either not succeeded or are just being average college students. At the end of the day you may be the smart kid in hs but in college you're just another student. Focus on not failing and having fun you'll get in to the college. Look up what they're looking for
This. Perfection is not sustainable. Especially in college.
Omg OP has the best sister ever!!! She is OP's biggest fan and in her corner more than her parents.
Yes, it is refreshing to see an actually decent human being as the golden child.
Omg, 1:49:52 caught me by surprise :D I never expect calm, sweet Markee making a joke about an adult toy. This was hilarious
Frequently gets in fights with hobos over pizza crusts! 😂
Discuss boundaries with your child and explain that at no time is she to take anything from your home office desk much less be sneaky about it. 8 years old is old enough to know better about being sneaky. I still have my big guys favorite toy on my desk. I had him for 11 wonderful years, lost him in April and it's still raw for me as I imagine it is for you. Take time, remember your pal and in time, your heart will be ready to welcome a new furbaby 🤗
Enjoy your penguin tattoo! 😀
Late reply but I do want to say that I don't think the daughter was trying to be sneaky, she likely thought that everyone had forgotten that toy as well.
The sister that made it into Cornell that slacked compared to the hard working sister that didn’t…she still did well with very little effort. Maybe she is the smart one that things come easily where other sis isn’t? Hence, she was more ambitious and learned to work hard. Can’t believe how the parents underestimate that daughter!
Honestly, I think it’s more tied to the fact that they applied to different programs. OP probably applied for one that is less competitive than her sister.
It's a wedding, not funeral. I went to my cousin's wedding and some relatives brought pictures frames of my dead uncle to wedding. He was there in front row. When it was time to take pictures he was on a hearted shape stick, he was there at dinner. If i hadn't seen it, i wouldn't have believed it.
She needs to see a therapist. And OP needs to be honest.
Oh God I really feel bad for the daughter in the post about op manipulating her bfs kid into liking her so he wouldn't break up with her. That made me feel sick. There is no way in heck that op pulled a full 180 and suddenly loves her soon to be step daughter. She's cruel and manipulative and just put up that "update" to make herself seem likeable or even a just in case her fiance sees it
She isn’t ready to move on ,I’m a widow and she is marrying a ghost
She will never be the same person she was
Not the ahole for wanting to go, BUT Definitely the a hole if you go, Send the family some flowers are better yet a plant that they can keep to remember her by anonymouslyThe last thing the family wants to see is the person that introduced their child to drugs. And she ended up overdosing. I understand that you have a need to make amends you know the whole 12 steps and all. Bit at her funeral would not be the right time or place.
You can even go to her grave sight after like some days after & leave flowers & talk to her & say your so sorry for everything. She'll hear you and it will help you in your healing process too.
You don't make such an important life decision like your school based on emotions. Your sister is being more mature about it than your parents.
But your sister & your parents were willing to send your sister to her dream school and you to another school. Remember your sister would have went and let you to go to another school.
That whole wedding situation was familiar to me, I was a groomsman for my best friends wedding only my best friend was the bride and my first girlfriend.
If everyone took an eye 👁 for an eye 👁, the world would be blind.
Was he “wrong” to get the penguin? No. But it was irrational and clearly a warning sign. I’m so glad he told his wife and I’m glad he’s getting the help he needs. 🌻
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Wow. The story of the woman faking a relationship with the teen daughter of her boyfriend to keep the relationship from ending. Am I the only one who loves it when commenters edit a posters story to cut thru the narcissistic bullcrap?
Simple answer NTA for so many obvious reasons. But there is perhaps a workaround......Well before the wedding buy one of those "name a star" kits and let her hold her special tribute to him while naming "his" star. That should leave her "clear" for the wedding. They are silly and kind of pricey but in the long term it's a very small price to trade for getting her dead ex's "ghost" out of the middle of their relationship.
For a moment the time box and the thumbnail collided , filling me with an unholy dread that this video was 12 hours long
Hey Markee have a great day/night and everyone else out there be safe and respectful to one another 👍👋🙌😎
Sounds like she still loves the late fiancé more.The best one to dance to would be If by Bread
I know this is an old video but i completely disagree with everyone on that OD story. Im a recovering addict. He may have been the first one who shot her up but i guarantee that she WANTED to try it. It is NOT his fault she died! How disgusting to say. She was an adult who made her own choices. It says a lot when the actual addict can forgive the person but nobody else can. Because WE AS ADDICTS UNDERSTAND. Its a disgusting thought process and not an okay one. The only exception to this is when the addict is abusive and forces the other person, they are attacked/assaulted by a stranger or when someone was prescribed something by a doctor and told it was safe and not addictive before all the information was out. If it didnt fall under any of these things then it's nobody's fault except theirself. It isnt the dealers, the friends, the boyfriend, the girlfriend, the husband, the wife etc. It is nobody elses fault. I understand a greiving family thinking this way but that doesn't mean it is real or correct. They need therapy to come to terms with the fact that their child/friend/whatever made their own terrible choices which ultimately led to their death. It's terrible and ugly and painful but its TRUE. It is nobody's fault but the addict.
I also want to add that having this mindset can actually hurt the addict you love. They need to come to terms with the choices they made and the path they went down in order to learn accountability, learn to make better choices and get away from that life. Saying it wasn't their fault and putting the blame onto someone else hust absolves them of any of that and allows them off the hook so to speak. In an addicts mind you need only the SMALLEST reason to hook onto that makes it okay to use. Stop. Doing. It.
You can FaceTime and support each other even at different schools me and my fiance did support each other through so much online
Go to Cornell she would have went to Cornell if the shoes were on the other foot.
First story, my first thought was that it sounded like she wanted to dance with her bonus "dad". I would have just suggested to ask her to choose another song. Geez reditors are so quick to judge and expect the worst
Yeah reddit alot of times goes it has to be from a bad or toxic place. No way could it be innocent or naivety in anyway.
This there are so many songs I'd throw out cuz I don't remember the lyrics like that just the vibes.
Um, Absolutely not as far as the drug OD. I AM drug addict. If I were to die of an overdose it is not ANYONE ELSES FAULT but mine. Not my ex who shot me up the first time, not my dealer, MINE. I'm so fucking tired of hearing people who have never experienced any addiction, and blame other people for their choices. It's my choice to do drugs to begin with, and I take responsibility for it. I don't blame anybody else for my drug use. If anybody says different, fight me. If you are an addict and blame whoever got you high to begin with, you'll never get sober. Fuck everyone on that reddit thread. Really shouldn't include shit like that in videos if you're not educated on it to speak on it.
Omg! No wonder OP thinks she is no good, and doesn't deserve her place at Cornell, her parents are devastatingly awful!!
Pregnant. Girl was probably way more experienced in sex. Boy needs to get all the help he can get.
Listening to the "ditched my friend for a date" story
Me: ah yes, Lesbian Excellence shines through again
Today's episode is a very good bunch of reads. Can't wait for the updates to some of these too.
That is bull, her parents are responsible for her, the grandmother is not responsible
Fr like she's about to retire so he wants her to keep working for 4+ more years and deal with the issues that come along with her because her parents don't want to?
You're allowed to go to your ex-girlfriend's funeral. People make their own decisions. You didn't kill her, and don't let people who have never been in a relationship with a junkie tell you what to do. She chose to do dope, she got help, but she slipped and died. It's not your responsibility to make descisions for other people. If you wanna go, go. Keep a low profile because there are a lot of judgmental people in the world who think doing drugs means you no longer deserve to have feelings.
dead dog's penguin: i don't see what's so bad about digging up the grave and getting the penguin back. i can understand that some people avoid anything to do with death and may thus think it's creepy to get the coffin out but imo it's equivalent to retrieving a sentinental item from a storage area; some people may be freaked out by how dusty all of the shelving units are (just as people are freaking out about the toy's proximity to death here) or by the idea of disturbing the dead but seeing as nothing else will br tampered with and an item that is sentimental to someone who loves the dog and cared for it for many years with is still retrieved. i think it's more of a grave-retrieval than a graverobbery.
Children out of control and extra hard to live with. Nta
Op didn’t make her child have sex and get have a baby
Have you heard the song and not just the lyrics? It's so mellow. The other dad and her dancing to Vanilla Twilight sounds like they're dancing to a funeral song more than a love song.
The autistic bully story: we're not stupid. Even in instances where we can’t tell something was wrong to do, we can be educated.
if your son is so afraid of being alone, perhaps he should move back in with you
The loss of the dog makes me so sad, they are such special babies!!
Notifications gang 💖💖💖 love you marky
Sad poster sounds like they could be slightly depressed… ahhh, yup. There it is.
It's probably bad, but I laughed at the comment about how bad it will look on a police report digging up a makeshift coffin in the middle of the night.
Wow, future step-mom story: that update was total bulshit.
Wedding Dance: NTA, and I’d put a hard stop to this. OP doesn’t have to invite hurt and disrespect to respect his fiancé’s lost love. It’s their freaking WEDDING. There’s a reason people get upset when someone proposes at a wedding. This is no different. I’d be 100% supportive of her grief and not threatened by it. But bringing that into our wedding would be a show-stopper for me.
Tribute dead fiancee. 💀 hard no. He will come back from the dead and steal her away.
That’s bull, your daughter deserves to be honored
Song suggestions old Macdonald had a farm, chicken reel, Mary had a little lamb.
I could go with a second father-daughter dance, but maybe with a different song.
the comment at 1:06 is just bananas. Like if your SO was jealous of your best friend from childhood who you’ve never had anything with, it’s an automatic disinvite bc… It’s not acceptable to put your SO through jealousy on your wedding day? c’mon. be for real.
Except that they did date tho......
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Jeeeesus 😂 the sad bitter people who CANNOT FATHOM friendships with an ex 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Yta she deserves that dinner and let her down so bad. Your step son would have wanted that dinner if he would have won. It’s to late you can’t go back
I don’t understand getting the Penguin from the grave, but then I haven’t been in that precise situation so I can’t really judge. But I am happy that they’re going to therapy to try to help them through the grieving process which, as someone said, is quite difficult to do for the western world because of our difficulties with facing the mortality of ourselves and the ones we love. I really hope the grieving process isn’t to hard on them, I do really feel for them loosing their pet AND dealing with depression.
She groomed her partners daughter. What a gross human being.
She’s lying. Afraid her fiancé will see this post
Dream School: Go to your separate schools, even if only for the first year. I think your sister should try to transfer to Cornell after a year at NYU, or the reverse if you're hating it or struggling there. BUT you owe it to yourselves and each other to learn a little less codependence on each other. Twins have a special bond, but you're also your own people, and the entire dynamic of your relationship will change as adults. Think of this as your trial run, and play it by ear.
Nice shirt Markee!
one day his daughter is going to find the penguin and will not be thrilled,
I don’t believe the fiancée didn’t realize what the song was about. Come on now.
IDC how long since you lose someone. That pain NEVER goes away, it simply becomes normal
You live with it. You have to.
Story one is nobody is an asshole
If you do in fact get the penguin you'll likely need to soak the penguin in borax and water then wash it as it's going to smell quite rank
oh. different schools, different admissions reqs.
The wedding dance story OP is delusional. She will always love and miss the dead ex but you dont do that at your effing wedding!! Its just inappropriate and disrespectful
Don't try to change others. If you don't like who your partner is leave. It's exhausting for everyone. Doesn't work out well.
Calling out a bully. I think you should say your sorry that he's a full fleged bully
ONG, NOT THE AHOLE OP, DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT APOLOGIZED YOU WERE 110% RIGHT TO CALL OUT THST BULLY, just because he has a disability is no exception my son is mildly retarded & he was bullied and then he started to B a bully I had no idea because he didn't behave like that in front of me. Only when a mother approached me extremely irate and in rage did I learn what was happening At 1st thank the mother for telling me what was going on got her phone number set up an appointment with the superintendent and principal. And I asked why wasn't I informed that my son was bullying in the students. They said due to his life challenges he didn't understand that he was being a bully. But I knew he understood because he didn't act that way in front of me so he had to apologize to the kids, teachers and parents. And I put him on lock down no games, tv, movies, fast food. And what do u know he quit bullying. Stope giveing kids Pass because of their intellect rating, mental health problems, they need to be taught right from wrong while the consequences are small.
Man, people insecure as hell if they're breaking up with someone based on their ability to be friends with ex's. Pretty clear they don't date based on compatibility, but rather sexual attraction. My ex-girlfriend of 9 months became my best friend of a decade. People break up for a lot of reasons, and we're not all burdened with the emotional maturity of high schoolers. Just admit you're too jealous and don't blame them.
Not everything lives by your standards. I don't mind my bf having exes as friends but only with specific boundaries for our benefit.
@@mikimishisa yeah, i think that was kinda my point, as far as i can remember 2 years ago. If you don't trust someone, don't date them. I don't think that's a controversial take, despite how uncommon it may or may not be.
You should like your ex, assuming they weren't abusive or anything. You should know them as a person before you start dating. Someone still having a good relationship with their ex is a massive green flag. It means they know how disagree and how to solve problems in tandem with another person, even when emotions are charged. It implies they respect other people's boundaries.
The buried penguin toy
No ahole and honestly, i would dig it up
But then again, i also have absolutely no issue with death and deceased individuals …
I am a person that picks up skeletal remains etc i find in nature and so on
And even though i know my peace with a lot of end of life and after the end of it all is not how most of western society view these same things
I still honestly don’t understand how this could be creepy either way ...
Dead ex..loose the wedding. She's not letting go of her dead ex. Maybe later.
And I have dead ex's and yes they are in my thoughts and memories but I would never consider a stunt like that.
That’s nice she was able to get in under the radar
People can change their thoughts about someone and grow in a better direction
Thank you, MarKee I will be back.
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1:23:00 hopefully this change is real, but I think she's doing the same thing to reddit that she did to her step daughter. Like we said oh gross we don't like you and so she's like no wait, I'm not that person.
Wow. Nta, but...if you look at the fact that was her 1st fiancé and her dancing with his father to that song after he lost his son and never will see him get married, the dance might make a little bit more sense to that song and as to why. Its not just her missing him..: 2 other great people are missing him too! And for them to share in the fact that they are watching her move on to happiness with you, is a even happier share for them.
his reason is what if the house burns down?? i the house burns down that penguin would also burn? PEOPLE stop being stupid and putting your love and memories into things. IT MAKES NO SENSE! You lost your grandma's ring? dont act like you lost HER.
are the twins identical or fraternal? if identical, then swap IDs?
Oh my god you have a life beyond her
Marriage Story : NTA - Don't get married to a man if you are still in love with another man.
Love isn't a limited resource.
@@Alfhilde89 But compromise is
@@axepagode33626 but communication is key. He agreed and now realizes it is truly not something he can deal with. He needs to tell her this.
He also should be asking what is this song and dance accomplishing for her. She needs to be able to explain why she needs/wants this in their wedding reception.
As there's a few reasons that are not tied to the love to another man, I can guess at. But she has to be able to verbalize the reason. Same as OP needs to go an verbalize why this request is hurtful and why he does not want it to happen.
@@axepagode33626 and communication helped here like it usually does. Where she was coming from and what he was fearing was not the place he thought is was coming from.
I feel she’s getting a lot of attention and sympathy for her dead ex. If she hasn’t moved on, she shouldn’t be dating, much less getting married. Memory of him, has no place at the wedding.
you are basically saying seriously should never date, because there is no "moving on" from a loss like that. grief of a close loved one never truly goes away.
You applied for a less competitive program they aren't being rational
Nta, she can put it out there. She can take it
Nta, she has a pasted. How many other guys has she been with
If he takes care of child, they can make him pay child support
Why on earth are you going to Agatha's party and bringing your new girl. It sounds like you are rubbing it in. Agatha is ignoring you. You should either just let go of the friendship or send her one more text saying, "This is my last message. I'm sorry if I led you on. I do appreciate our friendship. However, I unfortunately can't be there for you all of the time. I do have a life outside of you."
Weird to jump to the defense of a racist over someone missing ONE event. She wasnt "led on" you weirdo. Even without the racism that was controlling as hell.
Its not over headphones bro.
Its over blatant, constant disrespect.
Why would you feel bad, you aren’t dating
Markee you said scarf but you meant scar
Cuz you can definitely change a scarf in under 10 seconds scar not so much
A bully is a bully,
I would get the penguin normally but since your wife and child know it's in there and it may be disturbing for them so leave it be.
Look up the Rainbow Bridge story. Someone gave me this after we lost our last dog and it helped.We also kept a few things from both our last dogs.You never forget the dogs you loved
How long has it been? Nta
I’m a widow and it’s important to be over that relationship.
Go to the school, take care of you
He is controlling
Nta
Nta, take care of your future
Lol op is full of it the dog would in fact smell off on day three. Our cows got struck by lightning when the were under a tree in the field the man who hails them off took two days to come and the had a noticeable odour I know as I got quite close to the calf I was training for the fair to saw goodbye before it was dragged off and I still remember the smell the calf had already had and I remember my uncle freaking out on the phone earlier that day about them needing to be removed asap he wasn't going to have them splitting their guys in a field and given he has much more experience than me I would assume that's something that happens in a fairly short period of time... I remember this like yesterday even though I was like 8 because I was a bit traumatized by the whole thing
That completely different situation lmao?? Weirdo for calling someone a liar because you smelled cooked cow and they said they didnt smell a dog that passed wrapped in blankets.
You are Too understanding.!
Past loves should be remembered but not Ever Present!
And Not a part of a subsequent Marriage.
Get rid of ALl photos etc.!
...No? You do not need to erase the dead what is wrong with you, you're crazily insecure if you are threatened by JUST a picture of a dead person.
Nobody like reused content. Try getting new stories instead of gluing together bunch of old ones.
That's what a compilation is! A collection of best stories!